Darien, CT May 2023

Greenwich Point Dermatology is a boutique dermatology practice that specializes in medical, surgical and cosmetic dermatology. Our team of Board-Certified Dermatologists have advanced training in cosmetic injectables, lasers and skin resurfacing. We also treat all skin conditions, including skin cancer, from detection to cure.

Meet Moxi™

The latest in laser technology that combines age prevention and correction.

Introducing MOXI, Greenwich Point Dermatology’s newest and most cutting-edge laser designed to prevent and correct the signs of skin aging, delivered with minimal downtime in a series of easy treatments. Moxi comfortably delivers non-ablative laser energy to correct the initial signs of sun damage and aging—no matter the season or skin type—for a glowing and clear complexion.

May - Ladies Issue

I don’t know about you but I love any opportunity to recognize the women in my life who just make life more rich and beautiful.  Our wives, mothers and daughters are some of the most influential women in our lives.

And of course with Mother’s Day this month, all eyes are on moms… But it’s not just the biological mothers but the mother figures in our lives who have made an indelible impact on us. It’s the family members, teachers, friends and neighbors doing awesome things in our communities, pouring into our lives - making themselves unforgettable and irreplaceable.

While it’s always important to shop local and support our local businesses, this month is the perfect time to patronize businesses owned by women in our communities. That’s one of my favorite parts of publishing this magazine - connecting with and championing the best of the best when it comes to Darien and New Canaan women.

They are movers and shakers, builders and makers. They are both seen and unseen. Their silent service blesses those who are under their care. Their attention to detail shows us something about beauty that can’t be seen or understood any other way.

I hope you’ll take a few minutes to send a text, make a phone call or get your kids on a video call with the women in your life who deserve recognition. It only takes a minute to brighten someone’s day and remind them how much you love them.

May 2023

PUBLISHER

Laura Sabia | laura.sabia@citylifestyle.com

EDITORIAL COORDINATOR

Kristin Burnell | kristin.burnell@citylifestyle.com

PUBLISHER ASSISTANT

Emma Parente | emma.parente@citylifestyle.com

MARKET SUPPORT MANAGER

Lydia Turner | darien@citylifestyle.com

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

Cece Reeder, Ashley Cannon

Corporate Team

CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER Steven Schowengerdt

CHIEF SALES OFFICER Matthew Perry

CHIEF FINANCIAL OFFICER DeLand Shore

DIRECTOR OF SOCIAL MEDIA Mindy Hargesheimer

ART DIRECTOR Sara Minor

OPERATIONS DIRECTOR Janeane Thompson

WEB APPLICATIONS Michael O’Connell

AD DESIGNER Mary Albers

LAYOUT DESIGNER Eva Tucker

LAURA SABIA, PUBLISHER @DARIENLIFESTYLEMAG

city scene

Where neighbors can see and be seen.

1: Kesti Aysseh, Monica McNally, Dr. Katie Takayasu, Oliver Takayasu, Jun Takayasu, Will Takayasu, Terry Wood, David Genovese, Lisa Elwell

2: Maggie Wehri, Lisa Leavy, Heather Budnick, Lisa Clarke, Aimee Mueller, Alex Hall, Heather Dickinson, Dr. Katie Takayasu, Maria Allen, Courtney Evans, Yolanda Rayside

3: Caitlin Gallagher, Heather Dickinson, Meaghan Hetherington, Dr. Katie Takayasu, Dr. Julie Sweeney, Kristin Li, Courtney Evans, Maria Allen Photography by Andrea Carson

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loan payment set up from a checking

County Bank, customers who maintain a Pinnacle checking account at Fairfield County Bank, or your first mortgage is maintained at Fairfield County Bank or you originated a first mortgage with Fairfield County Bank within the past 36 months. The draw period is 5 years and the repayment period is 20 years. All loan approvals are subject to Fairfield County Bank current lending guidelines; loan amount and property value; credit worthiness and underwriting. Property must be a primary residence and is only available for Fairfield County Connecticut properties. Property insurance is required. For first mortgage HELOC, Settlement/Title charges $2200 - $3000 apply. Processing fee is $150.00. Annual fee to maintain the HELOC is $75 per year and paid in the anniversary month of the agreement each year. Early termination fee of $1,000 applies if the HELOC is closed within the first three years. Annual Percentage Rate (APR) as of 03.15.2023 is 9.25%. Maximum lifetime APR is 18.00%. An annual “non-usage fee” of $100 will be charged if the line of credit is not utilized in each twelve (12) month period measured from the date of the Agreement. Offer is subject to change and can be withdrawn without notice.

Creating beautiful, healthy smiles with a modern approach and advanced techniques.

The Harvest Restaurant Group

A new restaurant by the Harvest Restaurant Group will be opening in Grove Street Plaza later this year! Beginning in 1996, the Harvest Restaurants have grown to 13 restaurants and a Catering Division in Northern and Central New Jersey. We are thrilled to see what they will bring to us in Darien!

Pilobolus Receives CT Cultural Fund Operating Support Grant

Pilobolus was recently awarded a $54,600 CT Cultural Fund Operating Support Grant from CT Humanities (CTH). CT Cultural Fund Operating Support Grants assist organizations as they recover from the pandemic and maintain and grow their ability to serve their community and the public.

Forme Barre Under New Ownership

Mabel and Tyler are proud to join the Greenwich Business community and to bring to it, the most effective and innovative barre classes available.  So if it's the lithe aesthetic you seek, and the perfect balance of flexibility and strength, come join them at Forme Barre.

local experiences

The best places and things to do in our area.

Grab your gal pals and plan a relaxing or upscale day, weekend, or GNO (Girls Night Out!) with any one of these local experiences fit for the females.

Our Picks for The Gal Pals

PURE BARRE: Enjoy a full-body workout at Pure Barre in Darien that will physically and mentally transform you and your friends!  1958 Post Road Darien, CT

ELM: Have a nice meal and enjoy a glass of wine with a friend at Elm, a traditionally-inspired restaurant in downtown New Canaan! 73 Elm Street, New Canaan, CT

SONO BAKING COMPANY: Stop at the SoNo Baking Company with a friend and grab a cup of coffee, pastry, breakfast, or lunch! 49 Tokeneke Road, Darien, CT

PINOT'S PALETTE: Enjoy a no-experience-required art class with your gal pals and experience a revolutionary way to enjoy art and wine at Pinot's Palette in Stamford! 25 Harbor Point Road Stamford, CT

THE FIG COOKING SCHOOL: Have an evening of storytelling, laughter, and camaraderie at The Fig Cooking School! Take a hands-on cooking class and make memories in the Fig kitchen! 42 Naugatuck Avenue, Milford, CT

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A REMARKABLE OPPORTUNITY TO OWN A PIECE OF AMERICANA HISTORY.

CIRCA 1710, DECONSTRUCTED IN MASSACHUSETTS AND RECONSTRUCTED BOARD-BY-BOARD ON 4 ACRES IN IDYLLIC NEW CANAAN, CT. THIS MODERN ANTIQUE HAS BEEN STUNNINGLY RENOVATED AND IMPROVED WITHOUT LOSING ITS SOUL AND HISTORICAL PAST. CONTACT ME FOR MORE INFORMATION OR A PRIVATE SHOWING.

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Love for the Local Ladies

ARTICLE BY KRISTIN BURNELL

Shelley Sheridan shelleysheridan.houlihanlawrence.com

WHAT ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT HABITS TO BEING A SUCCESSFUL BUSINESS OWNER/ENTREPRENEUR?

Real Estate is a tough business. To be successful over time, you need to build a reputation of being honest, hard-working and knowledgeable. For me, that means not only surrounding myself with people + resources that I continue to learn from, but also carving out time so that I’m 100% up to date on new listings, off-market properties as well as other aspects of the market, including what’s happening in our local community to where interest rates are headed.

WHAT IS THE SECRET TO YOUR SUCCESS?

Saying YES! For me, saying yes means being available + flexible with both my clients as well as other agents in my office. It could be showing a house last minute or filling in for a teammate. I also really try to make the process of buying or selling a home as enjoyable + fun as possible. For many, it can be one of their biggest personal,

emotional and financial decisions, so I try to minimize stress, whether that means helping clients stage their home, organizing lunch during a full day of showings, or helping them acclimate to their new town and community.

WHAT IS UNIQUE ABOUT YOUR BUSINESS?

No two deals are alike, so you’re always learning. Every property is unique in terms of the age of the home, its zoning, location, lot size, etc. In addition, you’re dealing with the personalities of everyone involved including clients, other agents, and attorneys. Being an agent is a 24-7 job, which requires being structured, yet flexible. You may have downtime on Wednesday, but that also means being available on a Saturday even if you’re skiing - which happens.

FAST FIVE

1. What is your job title? Real Estate Agent

2. What was your first job? Software Sales

3. Who do you text most? Husband and Kids

4. Where did you grow up? Northern California

5 . What time do you wake up? 6:30 AM

Calderwood Photography

Kesti Aysseh

WHAT'S THE SECRET TO YOUR SUCCESS?

Self-acceptance and gratitude allow me to have control over how I react to and find my place in the world. I don’t think we can find success with much of anything unless we are open to and embrace the good and positive traits about ourselves; but also embrace the less desirable and not so pretty parts of ourselves. I try and sift through the BS, not let the “little things” and other people’s reactions to my decisions affect me much, because we must prioritize our instincts and emotions. I strive to be mindful of the outer boundaries of “normal” by accepting the extra ordinary qualities people and situations may bring upon me, this mindset is a way of life for my family. Diving into the world of unconventional and digging just a little bit deeper to better understand and be fully aware helps me to identify a hurdle, find a solution and optimize success. Knowledge is power!

WHAT WOULD YOU TELL YOUNG WOMEN WHO ARE JUST STARTING TO WORK? WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE THEM TO KNOW?

Be passionate about your job. Sounds cliché but do what you love and love what you do. I love working in the nonprofit sector. If you care about the mission, the work comes easy, you enjoy going to work every day and the difference you are making comes from your heart. This can apply to any career. Always stay involved whether you volunteer or take on smaller jobs when having children, just never stop using your brain in that capacity. Having something that is your own and fulfills you intellectually and

emotionally, outside the home, is essential to staying connected. After volunteering for 15+ years in Darien, I returned to the workforce in my late forties. It has been exceedingly rewarding and given me confidence and purpose that I would not have found elsewhere. While I was nervous about finding my course initially when returning, I am grateful I never stepped off that path entirely.

WHAT ARE WAYS YOU STAY GROUNDED AND TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF?

Turning 50 in September has worked in my favor in terms of staying grounded and prioritizing my physical and mental health. Besides my daily sauna at the Darien YMCA, long walks with my two dogs, and a morning plate full of veggies, pasture raised eggs and a tablespoon of wild caught salmon roe, I surround myself with real and authentic relationships. You arrive at a point where you gravitate towards those that are like minded and make you happy. I am truly blessed to have my husband, children (22, 20 & 15), friends and work relationships in my life who inspire me, give me strength, teach me new things and most importantly, are fun. Laughing, learning, and feeling accepted for who you are is the best prescription for emotional well-being and longevity.

FAST FIVE

1. What is your job title? Executive Director, Darien Chamber of Commerce

2. What was your first job? Admin. Assistant, Cambridge Chamber of Commerce, Cambridge, MA

3. Who do you text most? My husband

4. Where did you grow up? Jersey! Princeton.

5. What time do you wake up? Too early, 6:30am.

“Be passionate about your job. Sounds cliché but do what you love and love what you do.”

Katherine Type

WHAT'S THE SECRET TO YOUR SUCCESS?

Number one: Mindset. Every successful person I know was the agent of their own success. One of my favorite quotes by Henry Ford is, “Whether you think you can or think you can't, you're right.” My parents were both entrepreneurs, and they instilled in me a "can-do" attitude with passion, grit, and determination. My success is solely dependent on me, and I hold myself accountable for the outcomes in my life. Once I start something and put my name on it, I am committed and disciplined. I see the bigger picture, cast a vision of what can be, and stay consistent no matter how long it takes. I am achievement-oriented and know that to achieve greatness; I need to work hard, focus, set goals, and have confidence. Those who know me often refer to me as the “energizer bunny” because I truly am, fueled by my love for what I do and the purpose, joy, and fulfillment my work brings me. I was taught to never settle, and I am forever looking for ways to up my game and challenge myself. I stay the course. My company BabyBox. com just celebrated its 27th birthday, and I just celebrated 10 years with Beautycounter as one of the original Founding Members. I dream of endless possibilities, and take pride in my work - those two combined keep me going.

Number two: One of the keys to success is loving what you do. This does not mean that you have to love every aspect of your job all the time, of course. But finding work that energizes you and brings you fulfillment will help you keep going. When you love what you do, your business growth becomes a catalyst for personal growth. It is not always about money but finding meaning and purpose in life.

Number three: The more you give, the more you receive. I celebrate other entrepreneurs, especially fellow female entrepreneurs, and I am always eager to share ideas and help others start their own businesses. Whether it is offering advice, mentoring, or providing ideas for startups, I am quick to use my voice and offer support. Being generous with my time and knowledge has allowed me to connect with like-minded individuals and ultimately create a positive impact. I strongly believe in promoting more female voices in business to create greater equality and inspire future generations of women entrepreneurs.

Number four:  Avoid automatically saying “yes” to everything. Do not be the person who always agrees without considering your own

thoughts and opinions. If you have a different perspective or viewpoint, speak up and share it. Do not be afraid to challenge the status quo and offer alternative viewpoints. This is where some of the best ideas, innovation, and growth come from. When I started BabyBox.com in 1996, there were no e-commerce baby sites. Despite being told that an online store would not work, I disagreed and started my site before others did. As a result, my business was featured in the New York Times Style section as a new way to sell baby gifts online. One of my strengths is my willingness to challenge the status quo and always strive for improvement. If I feel something could be done better or approached from a new perspective, I am open, honest, and willing to share my thoughts.

HOW DO YOU PERSEVERE THROUGH THE TOUGH TIMES?

I make a conscious effort to surround myself with positive people. I am not afraid of failure and start each day thinking about how much I can gain rather than how much I could lose. Optimism keeps me grounded and strengthens my ability to keep going and pursue my goals in the face of setbacks. When things don't go as planned, I don't just accept it as "the way it is". Instead, I constantly look for ways to improve the situation and take action to lead others with positivity. The more people tell me that something can't be done, the more determined I become to find a solution. Nothing great would ever be achieved if we only focused on what could go wrong instead of what is possible. I believe that to thrive in business, you must always look for the good in situations and maintain a strong, optimistic attitude to shield yourself from negativity in all aspects of life.When you feel discouraged and feel you are failing, train your mind to believe all things happen for a reason. You can only fail when you are actually doing something. The most successful people often experience failure first. I celebrate failure and live by the mantra "Test, Learn, Fail, Grow, Repeat." Nothing we do can ever be perfect, and we can learn a lot from our mistakes and failures. Growing up, my parents always congratulated me for trying things regardless of the outcome.

WHAT WOULD YOU TELL YOUNG WOMEN WHO ARE JUST STARTING TO WORK? WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE THEM TO KNOW?

As a mother to an 18-year-old daughter, this question hits home. First, it is important to note that comparison is often the thief of joy, leading to negative and unproductive thinking. Instead, keep your focus on your own work, work hard, have confidence in your worth, and be proud of any accomplishments you achieve. Confidence is a better predictor of career success than competence.   Second, don't let fear of failure stop you from starting. Failure is often necessary for growth, so don't be afraid to take risks. Failing or making a mistake is an opportunity to learn and improve. Instead of worrying about what others might think, as NIKE says, “just do it”. Focus on the best possible outcome while learning something from everything you do. Then, you can feel confident next time you will do it that much better.Third, keep going. Growing up, my father shared a story with me about composing beautiful music for a show that ultimately closed after only a month. Despite his disappointment, he learned that he could always write another song. He would take out a new piece of paper and say, "Next." Every day is a new opportunity to start fresh.Lastly, when I started both of my businesses, I had no idea what I was doing, but I embraced my ignorance and tried things in my own way. There will always be competition, but your edge is not necessarily following them but leveraging your strengths and doing things in your own unique way. Realize what you are good at and use those skills as your power.

MY ROLE MODEL IS

Sara Blakely

FAST FIVE

1.  What is your job title? Founder, CEO, BabyBox.com Managing Director, Founding Member Beautycounter

2. What was your first job? Hotel ConciergeRoyalton Hotel New York

3. Who do you text most? My daughter, Amanda

4. Where did you grow up? New York City

5. What time do you wake up? Between 7am and 8am

THE STYLE LIST BY STYLEE LYST

CELEBRATING WOMEN IN THE JEWELRY, FASHION & BEAUTY SPACES

Darien Lifestyle Magazine’s May Issue honors women and female-founded/ owned businesses. I am thrilled to share some amazing brands that are backed by phenomenal women and have quality products to boot.

RUNO | #HANDMADE

Featuring the Vince Sweater by Maridruna in Orange, $310. The padded shoulders, well-tailored waist and popof-color hue make this sweater a win for me. It will be the perfect colorful accent or highlight piece this season. Additionally, I love that this sweater is hand-knit and made with love. The quality and craftsmanship shine through. I promise, you will get compliments on this one everywhere you go.

RUNO /ru:nou/ A place where you can find unique pieces that are intended to be passed on, slowly made for a purpose and have a soul.

runostore.com | @runo.store

Local to Fairfield County, CT

FASHION

ARTICLE BY ASHLEY CANNON PHOTOGRAPHY BY ASHLEY CANNON/@STYLEELYST AND BRAND IMAGERY

ZANY&SHY | SUSTAINABLE LUXURY JEWELRY

Featuring the Michelle Ring in 18K White Gold, $5,320. The graduated-wave design is a new, fun take on the classic diamond band. Whether looking to make a statement or stack, this ring will elevate your look, style and personality – yes, it’s that good. I wear mine on repeat. Shopping, diaper changes, cocktail parties, dinners, brunch, and just laying around the house, it’s always with me, adding sparkle and shine to my life.

All Zany&Shy’s pieces are available in 18K Recycled Yellow, White and Rose Gold. They use lab grown diamonds in the D-F color range only – all are also VS+ clarity only. If the jewelry you purchase contains a diamond 5mm+, you will receive IGI Certification. All pieces are handmade, made-to-order. They can customize pieces; whether you want a bigger or smaller diamond, different ring size, different chain length for your bracelet or necklace, Zany&Shy will make your order the way you envision it. They also offer FREE online consultations and direct communication with the owner/founder for top-of-theline customer service and satisfaction.

Ordering Tip: Size down half a size due to the Michelle Ring’s unique shape. Other styles on the site run true to size.

Zany&Shy | Lab grown Diamonds and 18K solid gold. Being green never looked so good.

zanyandshy.com | @zanyandshy | Code Ashley10 for 10% OFF

KINN® | SOLID 14K GOLD TO EMBODY YOUR MANY MOMENTS LIVED – THEN, NOW, ALWAYS

Featuring Dare to Love Dome Ring I (NON-HOLLOW) in 14k Yellow Gold, $560. I wear this gorgeous, solid ring on my left pinky next to wedding stack – I love the pop-of-gold it adds. Regardless of the finger you have this sized for, it is a well-made, timeless design that is a great base for any ring collection. Can be worn layered or solo. Highly recommend this ring, and this brand.

kinnstudio.com | @kinnstudio | Code Ashley10 for 10% OFF

CROWN AFFAIR | MINDFUL CARE FOR HEALTHIER HAIR

Featuring The Dry Shampoo with Kabuki Brush, $36 . This award-winning dry shampoo is volumizing and nutrient-rich, giving you the ultimate illusion of just-washed locks. I adore everything about this product; before finding this brand, I was not on the dry shampoo bandwagon, as a matter of fact, I hated them. This dry shampoo is powder-based, easy to apply, has a delicious scent and leaves your hair smelling and looking fresh, sans residue. To boot, the packaging is sleek and elevated.

Allure Best of Beauty 2021 | Health Beauty Award Winners 2021 | ELLE 2021 Green Beauty Stars

Other CA Favorites: The Cleansing Scrub, $54 | The Renewal Mask , $58 | The Scrunchie No. 001 in Sage, $15 | The Clips, $54 | The Signature Scent, $85 | The Brush No. 001, $74 | The Ritual Shampoo, $36 | The Ritual Conditioner, $36

Timeless tools and clean, effective formulas. Available at @seophora @goop @geebeauty @modaoperandi

crownaffair.com | @crownaffair

CECELIA NEW YORK | SHOES SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS

Featuring the Terrance Heel in Black, $158. This leather, heeled sandal with slender, rolled leather straps twist and knot around each other framed by a trend-right square toe and flared kitten heel. You can’t beat the price or the style. I will personally be wearing these all spring and summer long!

cecelianewyork.com | @cecelianewyork | Local to Fairfield County, CT

JADE SWIM | LUXE MINIMAL & SCULPTING SWIMWEAR & BODYSUITS

Featuring Micro Trophy One Piece in Black, $226 . I love minimalistic, quality staples. This not only will fit your body, hugging your curves and accentuating your beauty, it also fits the bill for a great staple.

JADE Swim is sustainable, 1% for the planet, climate neutral certified and made in California.

jadeswim.com | @jadeswim

SARAH FLINT | ELEGANT DESIGN | EXCEPTIONAL COMFORT | UNPARALLELED ITALIAN CRAFTSMANSHIP

Featuring the Grear in Gold Calf, $395. The perfect alternative to the basic spring/summer sandal. This flat, lace-up design flaunts gold and silver calf leather, handcrafted in Italy’s Amalfi Coast.

Founded and designed by @xosarahflint sarahflint.com | @sarahflint_nyc

WAT. THE BRAND | BY WEARETWINSET

Featuring the Henley Knitted Stripe Jumper in Cream/Blue, $70.83 . Pair this with jeans, trousers, a dress, shorts…the possibilities are endless. Throw on for practicality or drape over your shoulders for a chic layering basic. This knit is extra-fine and, in a trendy, yet classic colorway. It will be an anchor in your closet for years to come.

watthebrand.com | @watthebrand

LA LIGNE | WE WANNA BE ON YOU

Featuring the Jordan Dress, $450. This dress has a chokehold on me. The silhouette is flattering, the intricate material and fringe detailing is intriguing and different to look at. This is on my list of must-haves for the season – and if you are looking for an effortlessly cool dress, it should be on yours too.

lalignenyc.com | @lalignenyc | Local Store on Greenwich Ave

AND FINDS

To see my fashion, beauty and lifestyle selects on the daily, be sure to head to styleelyst.com and follow me on social @styleelyst | Psst. keep your eyes peeled for The Style List in the 2023 issues of both Greenwich and Darien Lifestyle Magazines.

PREPARE YOUR SKIN FOR THE SUMMER

As the weather warms, it’s time to get rid of the dry, dead skin cells that have been building up during the winter.

Only $99 a full-body exfoliation with a warming blend of salt, and a rich infusion of shea butter and coconut oil that will leave your skin feeling soft and radiant. This treatment is followed by 30 minutes of a back and neck massage complete with hot stones. Valid until 5/30/23 darizenspa.com • (203) 984-9834 • info@darizenspa.com

Follow our journey @darizenspa 688 Post Rd, Darien, Connecticut 06820

Effective Educational & Therapeutic Services employs a unique co-treatment model where academic intervention and emotional support are tackled simultaneously. We service clients from elementary age into young adulthood.

We specifically treat individuals who struggle with Executive Functioning | Social Interactions | Anxiety Depression | Learning Differences such as

ASD, ADHD, & LD

In order to fully support our clients, we believe in a holistic model where therapy, EF/academic support, and mindfulness are integrated to treat the whole child.

203-539-1541 | www.effective-services.com

info@effective-services.com

1011 Hope St, 2nd fl, Stamford, CT 06907

MOVE OVER RED BULL!

MICHELLE CORDEIRO GRANT, Founder of GORGIE Energy Drink

Michelle Cordeiro Grant, is the mastermind, founder and CEO of GORGIE, an energy drink with benefits. She has helped create the first clean energy drink built by women, for women.

As the weather gets warmer, GORGIE is the perfect refreshing drink that you can enjoy as you desire. Their drinks are loaded with delicious natural flavors, green tea caffeine and packed full of personal benefits for brain health, heart health, hair, skin, and nails. Darien Lifestyle caught up with the lovely Michelle, to learn more about her female empowered brand, just in time for our May issue.

WHAT'S THE SECRET TO YOUR SUCCESS?

I am so passionate about helping women succeed in the business world. The mission behind my first company, LIVELY, was to help women live confidently, purposefully and passionately and I live that credo every day. Success is a combination of hard work (duh) and surrounding yourself with the right people. From investors, advisors, other incredible founders, and always, my team. I also try not to sweat the small stuff. It’s easier said than done, but I try to be cognizant of what really matters.

HOW DO YOU PERSEVERE THROUGH THE TOUGH TIMES?

I have a few things I do to rally when things are tough; spend time with my husband and my family, exercise (love running, walking, moving, anything!) and staying positive! I believe there is always a solution, so I pause and then focus on what I or my team can do to get to the next step. It’s all about nurturing your mind like a muscle to be ready and strong for when the tide hits.

WHAT DO YOU WANT TO ACHIEVE NEXT?

I want to break the stereotype that women can only create brands FOR women. GORGIE is a brand made by women, for ALL! Women can create and own businesses that are not just for women but for the world. We can own

multiple businesses as well! It’s no longer enough to just have C-suite seats. We should build, create, own… and change the world, together.

HAVE YOU DRAWN PROFESSIONAL INSPIRATION FROM OTHER WOMEN? TELL US ABOUT SOMEONE WHO HAS INSPIRED YOU.

Diane von Furstenberg! She’s timeless, timely and fashionable! She’s been relevant for decades and continues to adapt with the times while staying true to her core values.

WHAT WOULD YOU TELL YOUNG WOMEN WHO ARE JUST STARTING TO WORK? WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE THEM TO KNOW?

To all of the young women who are just starting their careers, you’ve got this! You are more powerful, creative, and resourceful than you know. Just start, and figure it out along way!

HOW DO YOU ENCOURAGE WOMEN NOT TO GIVE UP?

Being a woman is something so special – remember that! We have made amazing strides in such a short time in the workplace, politics, socially – and there is still so much more to come. We need you! We make humans! What else can we do!

WHAT ARE WAYS YOU STAY GROUNDED AND TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF?

I always have a GORGIE to start my day which keeps me energized and balanced throughout the day while I work and take care of my amazing family. I also make sure to sleep well, and move my body every day!

WHAT DOES LEADERSHIP MEAN TO YOU?

To me, leadership means setting an example that young people can look up to. It also means being someone that a team can always rely on. It’s showing you can be present for your family, your loved ones and your business.

Fast Five

1 | What is your job title?

Chief Optimism Officer… anything is possible!

2 | What was your first job?

Rita’s Italian ice, $4.75/hr and all the ice you can eat

3 | Who do you text most?

My husband :)

4 | Where did you grow up?

New Smithville, PA, as rural as it gets!

5 | What time do you wake up?

2am and 7am

To learn more about Michelle and her products you can visit getgorgie.com or check out their Instagram page @getgorgie.

Rhode Trip

ARTICLE BY LAURA SABIA

OCEAN HOUSE

Located in Watch Hill, Rhode Island, this Victorianstyle luxury hotel offers a unique blend of modern conveniences and classic elegance. With its beautiful private beach, gourmet restaurants, and world-class spa, Ocean House is the perfect place to unwind and relax.

One of the best things about Ocean House is its attention to detail. The hotel has been lovingly restored to its original 1869 glory, while also incorporating modern amenities that today's travelers have come to expect. The result is a harmonious blend of classic New England style and contemporary conveniences that is sure to impress even the most discerning traveler. With over 5,000 artifacts from the original building, including the beautiful stone fireplace and original front desk, Ocean House is a true testament to the rich history and heritage of the region.

For art enthusiasts and fans of the beloved Madeline books, Ocean House has a special treat in store. The hotel's proprietors own a curated gallery collection of original works, campaigns,

architectural commissions, and illustrations from the famous Madeline series by artist and author Ludwig Bemelmans. Featuring select pieces never seen by the public, this is the largest permanent collection in North America. For the full experience, reserve the just-introduced Bemelmans suite. The space features the style and atmosphere of the legacy of the famous visionary.

When it comes to accommodations, Ocean House has something for everyone. Whether you're a couple looking for a romantic getaway or a family looking for a fun-filled vacation, there are plenty of options to choose from. Many of the rooms offer breathtaking views of the sea, while others are larger and more spacious, perfect for larger groups or families. And if you're looking for something truly special, the hotel's expanded Cottage Collection is just what you need. These private residences have been fully restored with rigorous attention to detail, and are an ideal place for a family getaway, multi-generational vacation, or inspired business retreat.

Corner Guest Room

One of the real stars of the show at Ocean House is the spa. The only Forbes Five-Star spa in Rhode Island, the Ocean & Harvest Spa offers a wide variety of massages, treatments, and therapies in an immaculate setting overlooking the beach and the ocean. Whether you want to take a swim year-round in the indoor pool or use the state-of-the-art fitness center, there's something for everyone here. And with specialized options designed for expectant mothers or muscle and flexibility treatments inspired by professional athletes, you can be sure you'll leave feeling refreshed and rejuvenated.

When it's time to eat, there's no shortage of options at Ocean House. COAST is a five-star, five-diamond waterview dining experience with a delicious multicourse tasting menu and exquisite wine pairings. COAST regularly features lauded guest chefs and special wine dinners, with Michelin-starred Chef Shaun Hergatt in residence this month. For additional information and reservations please visit Ocean House Events

While at Ocean House, guests can also dine on the Verandah or in the Bistro and enjoy seasonally inspired dishes. The dark wood bar evokes Ocean House's 19th-century roots with a wide selection of wine and spirits.

If you're interested in cooking or wine tasting, Ocean House also offers a Center for Wine and Culinary Arts. Built using components from an early 1800s Connecticut barn, the beautiful 3,000-square-foot space hosts cooking and wine tasting classes, culinary events, and private gatherings. In step with the rest of the resort, the venue combines old world elegance with state-of-the-art technology.

The service at Ocean House is exceptional, with a level of hospitality rarely seen today. The courteous and thoughtful staff goes above and beyond to make guests feel welcome, and they manage to make the sublime experience feel effortless. Fun extras like a screening room for family movies and bikes for coastal tours will keep you entertained. The private beach cabanas and croquet on the lawn are like images from the 1920s brought to life in vivid color.

Whether you choose to stay for a few nights or a few weeks, Ocean House will enchant you with its charm and beauty. The touchstones of a bygone era add a note of serene sentimentality. At once a romantic step back in time and a brilliant gem of modern luxury, the resort is simply sublime.

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WEEKAPAUG INN

The Weekapaug Inn is a stunning haven situated on the beautiful Rhode Island coast, offering a peaceful escape from the hustle and bustle of daily life. Its serene atmosphere is designed to help guests forget about stress, and every aspect of their stay is carefully orchestrated to ensure they make the most of their brief respite.

Upon arriving at the Forbes Five-Star Weekapaug Inn, guests are greeted by a beautiful lounge with breathtaking water views. The staff is renowned for their exceptional service and attention to detail, ensuring guests feel welcome and comfortable from the moment they arrive.  It’s no wonder why this destination was named the #1 hotel in the Northeast in Conde Nast Travelers’ most recent Readers’ Choice survey.

The Weekapaug Inn is an idyllic location for hosting magical weddings, with a variety of inspired venues available to choose from. The sprawling grounds offer an elegant tent, while the Inn itself provides a range of sophisticated spaces. The MeetingHouse, in particular, is a masterpiece of an event space with a beautiful stone fireplace, a cathedral ceiling and dramatic floorto-ceiling retractable windows that face the pond and the ocean beyond.  Property buyouts can be accommodated for destination wedding events, ensuring

that couples can enjoy the entire property with their loved ones.

The culinary experience at the Weekapaug Inn is one to savor. The chefs, including Executive Chef Andrew Brooks, have fully mastered the perfect flavors of Rhode Island and the Atlantic Coast, incorporating locally sourced ingredients from farmers and fishermen. Guests can indulge in delicious meals while admiring the stunning views of the surrounding landscape.

The Weekapaug Inn offers a wide range of activities for guests to enjoy, making it the perfect choice for those seeking adventure or relaxation. The Inn's activities team leads guests on explorations of the natural surroundings, while the peaceful waters of Quonochontaug Pond provide an idyllic backdrop for unforgettable stays. For those seeking to simply unwind, the beautiful views of the sea and surrounding landscape provide the perfect opportunity to relax and rejuvenate.

Overall, the Weekapaug Inn is the ideal destination for those seeking a tranquil escape. With its exceptional service, stunning location, and range of activities and amenities, guests are sure to leave with fond memories, wanting to return.

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Make an Impact for Mom

Memorable ways to celebrate the mother figure in your life

The moms and the mother figures in our lives mean everything to us. They deserve the best every day, of course. But at least one day out of the year, we get to shower them with the same love and thoughtfulness they give to us so selflessly.

This year, we hope you’ll consider some memorable ways to make lasting memories with the mom or mother figure in your life. If you haven’t already planned something special, take a look at our list of ideas and circle your favorites. If you have kids, let them join in the fun too!

Whether you decide to spend a day at home or enjoy a day on the town, these innovative celebration ideas will include fun for the whole family and make Mom feel loved. Whatever activity or surprise you land on to show your mom, wife, sister or maternal figure your appreciation for all they do, the most important thing is that you all get to spend some quality time together.

Take a Flower Arranging Class

Mother’s Day arrives just as spring is in full bloom. Take advantage of the season by going to a flower arranging class with mom.

Play a Family Board Game

If Mom likes strategizing, challenge her to a friendly board game competition. (And, no, you don’t have to let her win just because it’s Mother’s Day.)

Pick Your Own Fruit

This activity is especially fun if you have a lot of kids who want to get in on the action. Then, when you all get home, you can whip up a treat for Mom with your selections. (Maybe give her a strawberry in a Champagne glass while she waits.)

Book Her a Weekend Away

There’s no day like Mother’s Day to be impulsive! Book a weekend trip for the two of you at a cute B&B in a city Mom has always wanted to visit.

Complete a Jigsaw Puzzle

Find a puzzle with an image you know your mom will love (or make a custom one using a photo of the two of you) and put it together over wine and snacks. You’ll be amazed at how much chatting you can get done while puzzling.

Get Theater Tickets

Go to a play or a musical — lots of towns even host outdoor theater events.

Invite Her To High Tea

Whether you make the brews and treats yourself or head out to an official tea house, Mom will love sipping her beverage out of fancy china and snacking on tea sandwiches.

events

A curated selection of the most intriguing upcoming events in our area.

DCC Professional Development Speaker Series: Marketing

THE ARCHIE GROUP, 19 OLD KINGS HWY SOUTH DARIEN, CT | 7:00 PM

A professional development panel discussion for Darien Chamber members. Guest speakers include The Archie Group, Noble House Media and Greylock Digital Media.

Sunset Wine Party to benefit Filling In The Blanks

95 COUNTRY CLUB ROAD, NEW CANAAN, CT | 6:00 PM

Experience Fairfield County's first and only wine shopping event in New Canaan at the Country Club of New Canaan, a fundraiser for Filling in the Blanks. 100% of net proceeds will go to FITB! Taste over 30 wines at the Grand Wine Tasting Room, sample decadent bites from our grazing tables, and listen to great DJ sessions! Taste, love, buy!

New Canaan Food Revolution

77 MAIN STREET, NEW CANAAN, CT | 9:30 AM

The New Canaan Food Revolution, founded by Jamie Oliver returns for an 8th year! Enjoy a morning stroll downtown with your family, sampling food at stores and restaurants. Earn a stamp for everything you taste, if you complete your passport then you will be entered into a prize draw. Enjoy live music and soak up the festival vibes!

Junior League of Greenwich “Touch a Truck!”

101 FIELD POINT ROAD, GREENWICH, CT | 9:30 AM

At Touch a Truck, children can fulfill their dreams of sitting behind the wheel of a fire truck or honking a dump truck’s horn. The event features emergency and rescue vehicles as well as traditional construction trucks.

Adventure Day! at Dunlap & Selleck's Woods

3 PARKLANDS DRIVE, DARIEN, CT | 11:00 AM

Participants can walk along the guided trails where there will be multiple activity stations and points of interest that celebrate the beauty of this special 50-acre nature preserve. Children can test their forest skills in the Adventureland area which includes a stump walk, rope bridge, and zipline. A miniature gnome & fairy village made with natural materials will delight children big and small.

Darien Chamber Business After Hours Networking event (members only)

5:30 PM

Come grab a cocktail and light fare, make new contacts and reconnect with old. Free to Darien Chamber members!

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Food for Thought in May

Plus your monthly produce list!

May, “National Barbecue Month,” is the official start to grilling season. No need to feel nervous about these barbecues interfering with any nutrition related goals; instead, there are many ways to incorporate healthy choices!

TIPS

TO ENJOY YOUR NEXT BARBECUE:

1.  Think about what you can add to your meal, rather than replace, to make it more nutritious.

• If you’re looking forward to the cheeseburger and potato chips at your next BBQ, there is no need to feel like you have to choose between one or the other to maintain your health goals. Instead, consider adding more fruit and/or vegetables to your meal. By doing so, you are adding more nutrients per amount of food, and more fiber to help keep you full.

• If you are concerned that there may not be any fruits or vegetables that you enjoy, consider bringing a fruit or

veggie tray with produce that are in season this month!

2. Adopt mindful eating patterns.

• Practicing mindful eating tactics; such as eating slowly, sitting down away from technology to eat, and listening to hunger cues; can help limit any potential over eating and can help improve digestion.

• Listening to hunger cues consists of determining signs of the beginning of hunger and fullness. Based on a scale of 1-10; 1 being ravenous, and 10 being painfully full; it would be ideal to start eating at a 4, slightly hungry, and to stop at around a 6, satisfied and pleasantly full. When waiting to eat below a 4 on the hunger scale, binging and mindless eating can occur, resulting in overeating.

• Adopting mindful eating patterns can take time, and practice; however, starting with small changes can help this become possible.

3.  Maintain normal eating patterns before the event.

• Skipping a meal to “save” up calories for a special event, such as a BBQ,

4. Leave the guilt at home!

• Disassociating guilt with certain foods can help improve our relationships with food and help us to enjoy the company we are with, rather than focusing on what we are consuming. Remember, maintaining a healthy relationship with food is an important aspect to maintaining a healthy lifestyle.

Many of the produce that are in season this month are great for grilling and are listed with an asterisk (*) next to it.

MAY PRODUCE:

Apples, apricots, artichokes*, asparagus*, avocado, bananas, blueberries, cabbage*, carrots*, celery*, cherries, garlic*, green peas, kale, lettuce, onions*, pineapple*, potatoes*, radishes, rhubarb, spinach, sweet potatoes*, swiss chard*, strawberries

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