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February Local Love

February 2022 PUBLISHER

Jane Krzysiak | jane.krzysiak@citylifestyle.com EDITOR

This month here at Cross Timbers Lifestyle we are all about the Local Love. There are so many local places and people to celebrate and fall in love with this month.

In “Meet the Makers,” we are thrilled to introduce you to three local creators who are making our community more beautiful with their artistry, craftsmanship and music. You’ll want to put these folks on your radar ASAP. "Hand Made Home," serves up fun ways to get creative this month courtesy of Audrey Kuether a DIY expert and author and content creator of "Ohsolovelyblog.com." It's time to get out your glue gun and paint brushes!

“Financial Wellness 101,” has us chatting with Bentley Ford, Partner and Managing Director of Prime Capital Investments. Bentley offers financial planning tips you will want to consider as we continue to assess 2022 and beyond.

“Dear Us,” is a sweet reminder as Valentine’s Day approaches that it might be time to reflect and reconnect. Mindy Howard, lead therapist and owner of Converge Couple Therapy, offers important relationship advice that can help you strengthen bonds that may have been shaken during recent tough times.

And because travel has been a bit of a bear of late, or at the very least - unpredictable, how about shimmying over to Dallas for a romantic getaway? In “Eclectic Luxury: Dallas Boutique Hotels,” we share some of Dallas’ hidden gems for your consideration.

If staying around town or at home is more your “jam” – check out “A Romantic Dessert,” for a decadent Chocolate Raspberry Cheesecake recipe or catch our Local Experiences in the magazine and online. You’ll find plenty more local romantic or fun date night ideas.

Cheers to February & Local Love!

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Lifestyle Letter

These Local Creators Make Our Community More Beautiful With Their Artistry,

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City Scene

Craftsmanship and Music

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Business Monthly

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Local Experiences

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Local Limelight

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Financial Buzz

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Expert Help

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Must See

As Valentine's Day approaches, Mindy Howard, LeadTherapist and Owner of

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Converge Couple Therapy, Offers Some Relationship Advice

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Events

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Culinary Creations

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Bentley Ford, Partner and Managing Director of Prime Capital Investments, Offers Financial Planning Tips

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This Chocolate Raspberry Cheesecake Is a Decadent Valentine Treat

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Photography: Contributed This decadent chocolate raspberry cheesecake is sure to please your sweetheart this Valentine's Day.

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1: Congratulations to the Flower Mound Outstanding Citizenship winner Jared Bennos. 2: Congratulations to the Flower Mound Outstanding Citizenship lifetime category winner Carol Kohankie. 3: Congratulations to Flower Mound Outstanding Citizenship Group Award Recipients: The Followers of Jesus Christ. 4: Mayor Derek France proclaimed Hunter Leyendecker a Hometown Hero at the Jan. 3 Town Council meeting. 5: Flower Mound's Planning Division was awarded a 2021 Certificate of Achievement for the Planning Excellence Program. 6: Congratulations to the Flower Mound Outstanding Citizenship youth category winner Mia Camm. 7: Lori Walker, Cindi Howard and Kelly Heslep with Flower Mound Chamber welcome new Town Manager James Childers.

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1: Shelly Dodge and Nicole Smith Woodard with Cross Timbers Rotary welcome Jackie Davis with UNT PUSH program. 2: Ginger and Andy Eads along with Lori Fickling support UNT PUSH program at CTR Christmas Luncheon. 3: Kronda Thimesch, Susie Carter and Shelly Dodge share the spirit of giving at CTR Christmas luncheon. 4: Cross Timbers Rotary Club’s Christmas Luncheon supports UNT PUSH program and its foster care alumni. 5: Cross Timbers Rotary Club’s Christmas Luncheon supports UNT PUSH program and its foster care alumni. 6: Christina Tran Bohannon and Kierstin Lemasters with Courtyard by Marriott Flower Mound and Tanya Gandy of Medical City Lewisville attend CTR Christmas Luncheon. 7: Kim Holzwarth, Debra Rosser and Donna Tarwater support UNT PUSH program and celebrate Christmas at CTR Luncheon.

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1: Smiles and treats were in abundance at Women of Flower Mound's Holiday Hoopla on Dec. 10. 2: Friends catch up at Women of Flower Mound's Holiday Hoopla at Bridlewood Golf Club. 3: Mayor Derek Francis and Santa support the Women of Flower Mound's Holiday Hoopla on Dec. 10.

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business monthly A round-up of exciting news from local businesses.

Flower Mound Recognized for Governmental Accounting and Financial Reporting The Town of Flower Mound recently was awarded its 34th consecutive Certificate of Achievement for Excellence in Financial Reporting by the Government Finance Officers Association of the United States and Canada (GFOA) for its Comprehensive Annual Financial Report (CAFR) for the 2019-2020 fiscal year.

It is the highest form of recognition in the area of governmental accounting and financial reporting, and it represents a significant accomplishment by the Town of Flower Mound and its staff.

Photography Town of Flower Mound

Medical City Lewisville Enhances ER Care Medical City Lewisville is enhancing emergency and stroke care for southern Denton County patients with the completion of the hospital’s X-ray computed tomography (CT) suite construction project.

The $1.9 million project creates space for a dedicated imaging suite within the emergency department. A dedicated CT suite with this advanced technology provides faster imaging, enabling even more rapid care for patients experiencing stroke or other potentially life-threatening medical conditions.

Photography Medical City Lewisville

Flurry’s Market + Provisions Opens in Flower Mound Flurry’s Market + Provisions has opened in Flower Mound at 2608 Long Prairie Rd. in the Chaparral Plaza. The market offers butchered beef, pork, poultry, seafood and specialty meats, along with homemade provisions, including salads, sides and kabobs. Plus, find fun gifts, like candles, mugs, keychains and more.

Flurry’s bistro section offers classic Louisiana-inspired dishes with a Texas twist. To learn more, please visit flurrysmarket.com.

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Honeybird Sandwiches & Donuts Opens in Flower Mound Honeybird Sandwiches & Donuts has opened at 801 International Pkwy., Suite 520, in Flower Mound. The fast-casual restaurant specializes in gourmet donuts, breakfast sandwiches and craft coffee. For more information, visit honeybirddfw.com.

Photography Town of Flower Mound

Soupcon Wine Lounge Opens in Flower Mound Soupcon Wine Lounge, 3405 Long Prairie Road, is a wine retail and tasting lounge that offers a variety of wines to please everyone. For more information, visit soupconwines.com.

Photography Town of Flower Mound

Hummus Republic Opening in Flower Mound Hummus Republic soon will open its first location in Texas. The modern Mediterranean kitchen will be located at 2201 Justin Road, Suite 311, and will offer a wide array of build-your-own wrap, pita and bowl options. For more information, visit thehummusrepublic.com.

Photography Hummus Republic

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local experiences Locals recommending the best places and things to do in the city.

Celebrate the ones you love this Valentine’s Day by treating them to a night out at one of your favorite restaurants or experience something new and find a hidden gem around town. Whatever you are looking for, we have you covered.

Romantic Date Ideas THE MOVIEHOUSE & EATER Y: Enjoy dinner and a movie at Moviehouse & Eatery by Cinépolis. 951 Long Prairie Rd Flower Mound, Texas 75022 FLUR R Y'S MAR KET + PR OVISIONS: Stop by Flurry’s Market + Provisions and pick up some specialty meats, seafood and wine and cook a romantic dinner for two! 2608 Long Prairie Road, Flower Mound , Texas 75022 SUR LA TABLE: Take the “Date Night: Winter in Paris” cooking class at Sur la table Feb. 9. 1151 E. Southlake Boulevard Suite 340, Southlake, Texas 76092 BEASLEY'S FINE JEWELR Y: Take a slow stroll down Main Street in Old Town Lewisville, and stop by Beasley’s Fine Jewelry to find something special for your sweetheart. 177 Main Street, Lewisville, Texas 75057 BENDT DISTILLING CO. : Take a distillery tour and taste BENDT’s premium craft whiskey. 225 S. Charles Street, Lewisville , Texas 75057

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artist THE edition

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These Local Creators Make Our Community More Beautiful With Their Artistry, Craftsmanship and Music

avli dalal ARTIST & TEACHER

Avli Dalal is known for her colorful oil and mixed media pieces that pay homage to her culture. “I am from India, and India is full of vibrancy and colors, so a lot of my artwork is influenced by my heritage and culture,” she says.

Avli is a member of the Cross Timbers Artist Guild and participates in the guild’s annual tour. She also has been sharing her creative talents with young artists for more than a decade with her Art with Avli courses.

“It started with a few kids that I taught from my kitchen table in Flower Mound, and over the years, it grew to three different locations before the pandemic.”

For Avli, her artwork is a vital part of who she is. “I have always been a creative person, and art allows me to express my creativity.” For more information about Avli’s art and her Art with Avli courses, visit artwithavli.com.

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Shane Wright turned his hobby into a full-time job in 2017, when he and his

Mattie Kelton graduated from Argyle High School this past spring and quickly

wife, Mary, began Argyle Woodworks.

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Though Shane mostly makes Adirondack furniture and handcrafted charcuterie boards, he also has created many custom furniture pieces.

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her “old-school country” debut single titled “Square One” and has dreams of performing and producing music as a career.

“Our Adirondack chairs and accessories are handmade from Western red

“Although my main genre is country, I would love to produce all kinds of

cedar, with stainless-steel hardware,” Mary says. “Shane custom builds each

other genres,” Mattie says. “While studying at Belmont, I have written and

order, thus he can make a chair that accommodates a customer’s specific

co-written so many new songs. I plan to release an album within the next year,

needs, albeit shorter, taller or wider if necessary.” Each chair can be custom

so keep your eyes peeled for lots of updates on my social media!”

engraved, as well. “This makes them extra unique and meaningful."

Follow Argyle Woodworks at facebook.com/argylewoodwork.

Visit mattierosemusic.com for more information. And follow Mattie on Instagram (@mattierose_) and Facebook (Mattie Rose Kelton).

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F IN A N CIA L BU Z Z | FIN ANCE + LE GAL S E RVI CE S

FINANCIAL WELLNESS 101 BENTLEY FORD, PARTNER AND MANAGING DIRECTOR OF PRIME CAPITAL INVESTMENTS, OFFERS FINANCIAL PLANNING TIPS ARTICLE BY STEPHANIE HASBROUCK | PHOTOGRAPHY BY DAWN MICHELLE PHOTOGRAPHY

As we embark on the first few months of a new year, many individuals and families are evaluating their personal health and fitness. Bentley Ford, Partner and Managing Director of Prime Capital Investment Advisors, says now also is the ideal time to assess one’s financial wellbeing.

This month, Bentley offers some important tips to help achieve or maintain financial success in 2022.

MAKE A PL AN. When it comes to financial success, hope is not a strategy.

Whether you are just getting started, you’re in the consolidation phase of life or you are thinking about your legacy, planning through each phase of life provides better control and more financial security.

PREPARE FOR THE UNEXPECTED WITH RISK MANAGEMENT AND ESTATE PL ANNING. Risk management in a financial plan typically refers to life insurance, which often is neglected. However, the pandemic has opened more investors’ eyes to their own mortality. Risk management and estate planning also address the risks of changes in estate exemption regulations or increases in taxes, both of which are widely believed to be eventual realities.

CREATE A BUDGET. Many view a budget as a restriction - or a roadblock from immediate gratification. However, a budget is simply a plan to accomplish long-term financial goals. When it comes to budgeting, knowledge is key. While many families are aware of their income, many don't keep track of expenses. Know your expenses. You can't control what you don't know.

HAVE FINANCIAL GOALS. The very basis of any financial plan are goals. Think of a goal as a destination. When taking a road trip, travelers map out a route or risk getting lost. Likewise, mapping financial goals can help individuals remain on the right path so they can achieve their objectives.

CONSOLIDATE A SSETS. As time goes on, your number of accounts can grow, and monitoring assets becomes more difficult. If you have multiple retirement accounts from former employers, or your financial accounts are spread across multiple financial institutions, consider consolidating. Consolidating accounts allows you to better monitor your financial plan’s success.

A SSESS REPEATEDLY. Consistent review of your plan is important. Not only does your life change, but your goals will evolve as well. Assess whether the plan is effective and helps you create new goals as you advance through life’s stages.

DON'T DIY YOUR FINANCIAL PL AN. A well-formed and effective financial plan isn’t something you can do yourself. With the increase in robo and app-based financial solutions, I see more people trying to handle various aspects of a financial plan on their own. Unlike a bad DIY home project that can quickly be resolved, the damage of a failed DIY financial plan may be irreversible. You may not have enough working years left to close the gap. The power of compound interest, one of the most powerful elements of wealth accumulation, can no longer be realized.

Prime Capital Investment Advisors can help. PCIA offers wealth management and financial wellness services, as well as retirement plan consulting. Visit pciawealth.com for more information.

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AS VALENTINE'S DAY APPROACHES, MINDY HOWARD, LEAD THERAPIST AND OWNER OF CONVERGE COUPLE THERAPY, OFFERS SOME RELATIONSHIP ADVICE ARTICLE BY STEPHANIE HASBROUCK PHOTOGRAPHY CONTRIBUTED

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As Valentine’s Day approaches, couples prepare to celebrate their relationships. For many, it also is a time of reflection and reconnection. Mindy Howard, owner and lead therapist at Converge Couple Therapy, offers some advice this month on how to strengthen the bonds that may have been shaken during recent tough times.

THE PAST COUPLE OF YEARS HAVE BEEN HARD AND SEEM TO HAVE WEIGHED HEAVILY ON COUPLES. DO YOU FIND THIS TO BE TRUE? Yes, I’ve seen a variety of responses to the changes we’ve experienced. Heightened health anxiety, limited social contact, polarizing social and political issues, job transitions, grief, ambiguous loss and burnout are impacting couples and families more than ever. During periods of confinement, I saw couples recognizing their need for relationship repair when they were at home together and became responsible for meeting one another’s need for connection like never before. Every couple therapist I know became busier; however, with more couples seeking help, we saw more couples getting to a healthy place in their relationship.

WHAT ARE SOME WAYS IN WHICH COUPLES CAN BEGIN TO RECONNECT? It really depends on what it’s like in the marriage. If they have lost a sense of secure connection, then we go back to the place where they got hurt and began to pull away so we can begin the process of reconciliation, healing and restoring their bond. If a couple finds they are drifting apart or living parallel lives, we look at the patterns of distancing and create new ways of reaching for one another where they can feel confident that their partner will be accessible and responsive. It’s painful to reach out and find no one reaches back. There are loads of books and articles about changing behavior in relationships, but simply performing tasks I know my partner likes won’t work if there is deep pain in the relationship.

WHAT ARE SOME PRACTICES COUPLES CAN PUT INTO PLACE TO MAKE SURE THEY KEEP THEIR RELATIONSHIP A PRIORITY? In late stages of therapy, we talk about how to maintain our bond.

I like to think of the daily, weekly, monthly and yearly rhythms of our lives. Something like coffee together in the mornings or unwinding at the end of each day, or moments of connection that say, “I’m thinking of you,” or “How are you doing?” can be ways we regularly make time for each other. We’re starving for fun! Make ways to play, laugh, and do more than just survive the work week.

IS IT A MISCONCEPTION THAT COUPLE THERAPY IS ONLY FOR THOSE WHOSE RELATIONSHIPS ARE NOT STRONG? Yes. You don’t need to wait until your marriage is in trouble to come to therapy. The latest research shows that the average couple presenting for therapy has been in distress for six years!

That’s a long time to suffer. It’s an indicator of how much these bonds matter, that they are willing to endure discord for so long

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“It is a profound honor to step into the vulnerable conversations I have with couples.”

in order to hold onto one another, even when the marriage feels like such a source of pain. I see couples across the whole lifespan of the relationship, from dating and premarital couples to couples in need of repair after 20, 30 or 50 years. Some couples come to strengthen their bond.

WHO CAN BENEFIT FROM COUPLE THERAPY? Anyone who is longing for a deeper connection with their partner. Couple therapy is for those who want to protect and strengthen their bond, or who need to heal old wounds that threaten their sense of trust; those with painful ruptures like infidelity, or partners with a competing attachment to something outside the relationship. Also, it’s for couples who are struggling with big changes like moving, job loss, chronic or terminal illness, becoming parents, empty nesters or retirement. Transitions can introduce uncertainty and vulnerability, and we help couples turn toward each other for support and reassurance as they weather the changes life brings.

WHAT ARE SOME PRACTICES COUPLES CAN TAKE DAILY TO MAKE SURE THEIR BOND REMAINS STRONG? I’m a big believer in building habits of connection. How are you reaching for each other every morning or evening? Asking your spouse, “What do you need to get through today?” “How can I pray for you?” or “What’s hard right now?” has a way of opening up more meaningful conversation that goes deeper than the surface-level “What was your day like?”

TELL ME ABOUT CONVERGE COUPLE THERAPY. WHAT SERVICES DO YOU PROVIDE? Converge was founded to establish, strengthen, preserve and renew connection. We provide Premarital Counseling, Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy for couples in need of strengthening or repairing their relationship, and I’m a certified Discernment Counselor for couples on the brink of divorce who need help slowing down to consider the direction of their relationship. Discernment is perfect for couples where one partner feels a longing to repair, and one is leaning out of the relationship or thinking of leaving. It’s a necessary precursor to couple therapy for those who are ambivalent about the repair work. We also offer Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy, which can help individuals suffering from anxiety, depression or need help healing relational wounds.

HOW MEANINGFUL IS IT TO HELP COUPLES MEND RELATIONSHIPS? It is a profound honor to step into the vulnerable conversations I have with couples. I say all the time, “There are no bad guys in my office.” Couples come in hurting and wounded by their partners, and we get to help unpack how that harmful event happened and help redeem the friend that turned into an adversary. When a couple says, “You saved our marriage,” I am quick to point out that they are the ones who had the courage to come and step into the difficult work of restructuring their bond. It is beautiful to see a couple reach their goals in our office and send them back into the world stronger and sure of one another.

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DALLAS IS WHERE TASTES, TRENDS, STYLES AND ATTITUDES COLLIDE IN SPECTACULAR FASHION IN A POSH COLLECTION OF DAZZLING BOUTIQUE HOTELS

ARTICLE BY DAVE MUSCARI | PHOTOGRAPHY BY CONRIBUTED

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Some very good things have been known to arrive in smaller packages. And when it comes to Dallas’s top boutique hotels – and there are many – they rival any major metropolitan area and are considered the envy of large markets throughout the United States. With uber popular spas and treatments, elegant, award-winning restaurants, and awesome recreational amenities, Dallas is chock full of marvelous options. Whether it’s near the active nightlife of Uptown, entertainment near Downtown, Victory Park, and the Harwood District, the contemporary landscape is dotted with an exciting variety of memorable spaces where guests can work, play and unwind in style.

Here are six examples of why Dallas is considered an American mecca when it comes to cool boutique hotels.

Lumen Hotel: Located directly across from stately Southern Methodist University, what was once a charismatic little retro campus motel has morphed into a tony, tree-lined retreat in a classic Park Cities neighborhood. With a dashing pool scene (cocktails anyone?), lovely rooftop vistas, and the stylish four-star Front Room restaurant, the air is forever fresh and inviting at the delightful hotel on the Hilltop.

The Highland: As a part of Hilton’s exclusive Curio Collection, the contemporary hotel on historic Mockingbird Lane in east Dallas is a singular experience. Standing majestically in its central location on the edge of the popular recreational pathway known as the Katy Trail and directly across the Central Expressway from SMU, the trendy facility is surrounded by shopping and excellent restaurants and has catered to discriminating tastes for years.

Hotel ZaZa: Comfortably cushioned in the energized Uptown community just off McKinney Avenue, the distinctive Dallas boutique hotel is considered a fashionable cut above. With a variety of stylish guest rooms and inventive concept suites, plus one of the region’s most popular spas, perfect for pampering, and the decorated Dragonfly restaurant, ZaZa is upscale, alert, and always just a step away from Uptown’s sizzling nightlife.

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Rosewood Mansion on Turtle Creek

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Rosewood Mansion on Turtle Creek:

Virgin Hotels Dallas

At one time it was the celebrated estate of a prestigious cotton baron, and the pride of a famous Texas family. Today the extravagant oasis is surrounded by elegant live oaks in one of Dallas’s most storied neighborhoods. It boasts a top-notch industry reputation for luxury as well as an uncompromising commitment to quality.

The Mansion Restaurant is consistently rated among the nation’s elite.

Virgin Hotels Dallas: Much of what internationally recognized pop culture icon Sir Richard Branson touches turns to gold. His latest U.S. property was brilliantly conceived, planned, and constructed to be an integral part of the thriving Dallas Design District. With its unforgettably breathtaking views of the Southwest’s most sparkling skyline, the creative contemporary polish in the hotel stands out making a distinctively bold statement.

The Beeman Hotel: Conveniently located on the edge of the Park Cities near the George H.W. Bush Presidential Library and Museum, and SMU, the urban chic hotel is impressive yet compact, built for no-nonsense relaxation in stylish surroundings.

Swank and sophisticated in tone The Beeman is youthful and daring, cutting edge details drenched in artistic features always keeping things upbeat and interesting.

This article originally was published in Park Cities Lifestyle.

The Beeman Hotel

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New Beginnings Exhibition

LEWIS VILLE G R AN D THEATER | 1 0 A .M. The Visual Art League of Lewisville’s “New Beginnings” exhibition will be open from 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Tuesday through Saturday in the Lewisville Art Gallery through Feb. 5.

First Fridays in Old Town Lewisville

O L D TOW N LEW IS VILLE | 6 P.M. First Fridays is a collaboration of local businesses, pop-up artisans and vendors who have joined together to offer a night of food, fun, shopping and entertainment for all ages from 6-9 p.m. each first Friday of the month.

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First Saturday Nature Walks

LLELA | 10:00 AM Join the monthly naturalist-led walks at LLELA. The hike will last about two hours. All ages welcome.

Register at llela.org .

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Black Box Songwriter Series: Patricia Vonne

LEWIS VILLE G R AN D THEATER | 8 :0 0 P M Patricia Vonne will perform an intimate concert as part of Lewisville Grand Theater’s Black Box Songwriter Series at 8 p.m. Saturday, Feb. 5. For tickets, visit lewisvillegrand.com .

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The Flower Mound Farmer’s Market

PA RKER S QUAR E | 10:00 AM The Flower Mound Farmers Market takes place 10 a.m.-2 p.m. every Sunday in Parker Square. For a list of vendors, visit fourseasonsmarkets.com/events .

2022 Spring Gardening Virtual Series

VIRTUAL EVEN T | 7 P.M. Denton County Master Gardener Association, in partnership with Flower Mound Public Library, presents its 2022 Spring Gardening Virtual Series at 7 p.m. each Monday in February. Visit dcmga.com/upcomingevents/ to register.

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Texas Tunes: Hot Club of Cowtown

LEW IS VILLE G R AN D THEATE R | 8 :0 0 P M Hot Club of Cowtown will perform at 8 p.m. at Lewisville Grand Theater. For tickets, visit lewisvillegrand.com .

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A Chance to Hike

LLELA | 10:00 AM This free guided nature walk for members of the spcial needs community will take place along the wide and level crushed-granite surface of the Cottonwood trail at LLELA. To register, visit llela.org .

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Philharmonic Orchestra Concert

TR IETS CH MEMORIAL UN IT E D ME T H O DI ST C H UR C H | 7 :0 0 P M The Flower Mound Community Orchestra’s Philharmonic Orchestra will perform at 7 p.m. Tuesday, Feb. 22, at Trietsch Memorial United Methodist Church.

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Eco Talk: Have Fun Growing Vegetables!

THE REC OF G RAPEVIN E | 7 :0 0 P M Do you want to plant a vegetable garden but don’t know where to start? This free ECO Talk will prepare participants to plant this spring.

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Hike + Write

LLELA | 10:00 AM Join this beginner class and learn the elements of a journal and how to practice mindfulness in nature. To register, visit llela.org .

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Happy to Help Saturdays

G RAPEVIN E PAR KS | 9:00 A M On the fourth Saturday of most months, volunteers of all ages and abilities are invited to participate in various projects that benefit the environment and improve the appearance of the community.

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