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MAY 2021 PUBLISHER

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INSIDE THE ISSUE MAY 2021

FEATURES 14 Treat Yourself Gift Guide Treat Yourself to Something Special

16 Fashion Refresh Megan Condrack, Owner of Megan's Lifestyle Boutique, Gives Spring and Summer Style Advice

22 Family Historian Dan Nelson, Owner of Dancestors Genealogy, Helps Clients Discover the Legacy of Their Ancestors

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28 Women of Influence These Inspiring Local Women are Making an Impact on the Community

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Lifestyle Letter

Good Times

Around Town

Local’s Choice

Trend Setter

28 Local Limelight 34 Travel Destination 40 Lifestyle Calendar 42 Culinary Creations

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Flower Mound Chamber Hosts 39th Annual Awards Ceremony On March 26, the Flower Mound Chamber of Commerce hosted its 39th annual Awards Ceremony at Denton Country Club. Board president Tracee Elrod passed on the gavel to incoming Board president Shelly Dodge and numerous awards were presented. Citzen of the Year was Ginger Eads, Volunteer of the Year was Michele Diaz with Print Signs Promo and Business of the Year was Independent Financial. PHOTOGRAPHY: WHAT’S THAT GUY’S NAME; PHOTOGRAPHY BY GUY T

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Liberty Christian School Fine Arts Department Presents Mary Poppins The Liberty Christian School Fine Arts Department conducted six performances of the all school musical, Mary Poppins, from March 4-7. Fine Arts Director Jennifer Freeman honored the following students with cast awards for exhibiting exceptional character working on the musical: Servants Heart Award-Avery Spitler, Crew Award- Matti Rojas, Ensemble Award- Lyndee Darling, and Spirit AwardWalker Debord. EVENT PHOTOGRAPHY: GARY DANIELS

Lakeside Tower Hosts Dallas Symphony Orchestra for Resident Event On March 19, residents of the Lakeside Tower enjoyed the delightful sounds of classical music courtesy of the Dallas Symphony Orchestra and The Concert Truck partnership. Avondale Dealerships showcased Aston Martin's DBX while Tower residents sipped espresso martinis and enjoyed the springlike evening listening to the talented musicians. PHOTOGRAPHY: MARSHALL MAGUIRE PHOTOGRAPHY

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Cross Timbers Rotary Serves the Community During Rotary Action Days On March 26 and 27, Cross Timbers Rotarians fanned out across the community to serve local non-profits during Rotary Action Days. Community non-profits that benefitted from the club's service were Children's Advocacy Center North Texas, Refuge for Women, Habitat for Humanity, Grace Like Rain, Winning the Fight, Communities in Schools North Texas and Denton County's Covid 19 drive-through clinic. PHOTOGRAPHY: CROSS TIMBERS ROTARY

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LOCAL PRIMROSE SCHOOLS JOIN FORCES TO MAKE BIG IMPACT Seven local Primrose Schools recently joined

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forces to donate more than 2,000 books to local non-profit Book Drive for Kids. Book Drive for Kids provides books to disadvantaged children for independent reading. The annual book donation drive is part of Og’s Bountiful Books, a Primrose Schools reading program designed to encourage parents and students to read together at home and share favorite stories with classmates and children who do not have easy access to books. The reading program is part of Primrose Schools’ curriculum, which balances academics, play and character development in the classroom.

MELISSA DEMMITT IS NEW FLOWER MOUND DIRECTOR OF COMMUNICATIONS With more than nine years of communications experience, Melissa Demmitt has been hired as the new Director of Communications for the Town of Flower Mound.

AshJenn Signature Desserts is coming to 2601

“I’m incredibly excited to move to Flower Mound,

Lakeside Parkway in The Shops at Lakeside. The

become part of this growing community and build

neighborhood dessert shop will serve cheese-

on the communications programs already in place,”

cakes, pies, cookies, cookie sandwiches, cupcakes,

Melissa says. “The town has a long track record of

cream puffs and cookie bouquets. In addition, the

being committed to transparency and proactive

bakery will offer dessert catering, custom cakes

communications with residents, and I look forward

and mini “pupcakes” and “doggone good cookies”

to continuing that commitment.”

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pizza restaurant specializes in New York-style crust

After the pandemic put a brief pause on town

and sauce with a choice of more than 20 toppings.

celebrations, Flower Mound is excited to announce

To pair with that perfect slice, restaurant goers can

the Josh Abbott Band will headline Independence

sip on a variety of craft beers or a growler to-go.

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“She’s Like Texas,” “Oh, Tonight” (featuring Kacey Musgraves), and “Amnesia,” the group is hailed as one of Texas’ top country acts, with more than 140 million total streams and 1.8 million single sales. Independence Fest 2021 will include a variety of attractions, starting with the popular children’s parade on Saturday, July 3. The fun continues Sunday with a vintage car show, hours of live entertainment and an impressive fireworks show. The event is free (including parking).

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VISIT THE SHOPS AT HIGHLAND VILLAGE AND TREAT YOURSELF TO SOMETHING SPECIAL THIS SPRING. You deserve it! Here are a few of our favorite items and destinations. But there are many from which to choose. Visit theshopsathighlandvillage.com for a complete list of shops. 01 DECADENT FROST ‘EMS from Tiff’s Treats | 02 COLORFUL HANDMADE SOAPS from Buff City Soap | 03 BRIGHTON ACCESSORIES from Brightside Boutique | 04 FACETED ELLE GOLD DROP EARRINGS from Kendra Scott | 05 BLOWOUT from Tangerine Salon | 06 CUP OF COFFEE & GOOD BOOK from Barnes & Noble – Our pick: Where the Crawdads Sing

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MEGAN CONDRACK, OWNER OF MEGAN'S LIFESTYLE BOUTIQUE, GIVES SPRING AND SUMMER STYLE ADVICE

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+ VAUGHN MAXI DRESS by Viereck, $136 + DENIM JACKET by Hidden, $98

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FOR MONTHS, YOGA PANTS AND JOGGERS

“Jumpsuits and maxi dresses are still strong selec-

WERE THE DRESS CODE AS MANY WORKED

tions for traveling,” she says. “Both are easy and quick

FROM HOME AND ATTENDED ZOOM EVENTS.

for a single outfit. Either can be dressed up for the eve-

Now that the world is slowly opening up, and people

ning special events or simply tied back with sandals or

are venturing out and about, it’s time to think about a

sneakers for those casual day outings.”

spring wardrobe refresh.

Use accessories to add a pop of color this season.

“It’s time to get out of those pjs and workout clothes that

Megan suggests brightly colored bags – yellow and

we have been wearing 24/7. It’s been a long, tough year.

cobalt blue are on-trend. She says belts also can

It’s time to get back to normal and look your best,” says

make a statement.

Megan Condrack, owner of Megan’s Lifestyle Boutique. The key this season is to keep it comfortable, she says.

“An outfit can be simply monochromatic, and add the belt for a pop of wow!” she says.

“Dresses, long or short, are a great transition option.

When it comes to shoes, Megan says, “sneakers con-

Comfortable and easy, they can be worn with any type

tinue to be very popular. The trend is retro styles and

of shoes, as well,” she says. “Since we have been accus-

colors.” Flats and sandals also are popular choices. The

tomed to the ‘comfort zone’ for so long, wide-leg pants

trend is cushiony sandals, flip flops with wide straps

or trousers allow for us to continue that same comfort-

and dress shoes with smaller heels, she says.

able feeling while maintaining a professional look.” Soft colors are on-trend for spring, Megan says.

To top it off, add a pair of statement sunglasses. “The bolder the better,” Megan says.

“Grays and yellows are top colors, but spring will also

The most important fashion rule to remember is to

include all variations of pastels. Bold colors will be the

have fun with your wardrobe, she says. “Think happy!

best choice to help everyone transition into summer.”

Dress for you. Comfort is a part of our lives now, but you

For day-to-day, Megan suggests investing in some

can still have style and be comfortable.”

simple matching sets. “This can include tops and shorts or joggers and tees,” she says.

Megan’s Lifestyle Boutique is located in the Shops at

For those attending in-person events, Megan says,

Highland Village. The boutique specializes in women’s

“An all-time favorite is a flowy, tiered dress, which always

apparel, shoes, jewelry, accessories and gifts. The shop

works – especially in the warm Texas summer weather.”

also includes an infants’ and children’s section. The

When traveling, Megan says, “It’s all about the fabric.”

shop’s goal is to create a fun and relaxed atmosphere

Tencel and Cupro are durable, while polyester/spandex

with a focus on individualized attention. For more infor-

mixes are easy-to-pack and remain wrinkle-free.

mation, visit meganslifestyleboutique.com.

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+ SCONCE DRESS by Viereck, $124

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+ JOGGER PANT in soft mint tie dye by Bella Dahl, $136 + OMBRE COWL NECK CAMI by Dex, $54 + DENIM JACKET by Hidden, $98

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DAN NELSON, OWNER OF DANCESTORS GENEALOGY, HELPS CLIENTS DISCOVER THE LEGACY OF THEIR ANCESTORS

MAYA ANGELOU WROTE, “I HAVE GREAT RESPECT FOR THE PAST. If you don’t know where you’ve come from, you don’t know where you’re going.”

Dan’s affinity for history and genealogy began at an early age. “Since I was a young boy, I always found it fascinating

Though the past may not define us, it certainly

to hear stories about my ancestors. I would listen to my

has shaped who we are today. Dan Nelson, owner of

grandparents and great uncles and aunts tell stories of

Dancestors Genealogy is helping families discover

the past,” he says. “I inherited a love for genealogy from

their family history and honor the generations that

my mother, who began researching our family’s history

have come before them.

after retiring in the late 1980s.

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“In the early 1990s, I took up where my mom left off in her research,” Dan says, adding that because he travelled for his career, he was able to fill in the family tree through visits to libraries,

beginning the narrative/story document, as well as finding DNA

historical societies and family members.

cousins. Phase three includes non-digital research.

“Today, these research techniques are still relevant, but digital

When the process is complete, clients receive an Online Ancestry

resources have greatly enhanced the genealogist’s tools. I am fortu-

Tree; a GEDCOM File, a standard genealogical file containing tree

nate to have pursued genealogy at an early age when the story-hold-

data important to other programs; a printed pedigree chart; DNA

ers could still explain their history. Since then, many have passed

ethnicity and cousin contacts; online documentation accessible for

away, and their stories are lost or diminished in fact,” he says.

future generations; and a beautiful Narrative Family Legacy Book,

Dancestors offers a simplified process of discovering one’s

which includes documents and pictures of the family.

family history. Dan meets with clients to share expectations and

Though the process does not typically include the traveling and

begin the family tree, and then begins a three-phased approach.

in-person meetings of the past, the Narrative Family Legacy Book

Phase one is the initial background exploration and DNA submittal.

assures that clients’ stories are not lost, and they have a tangible tool

Phase 2 is “the hunt”- fleshing out the data for the family tree and

to tell the story of their history to future generations.

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“There is nothing more personal than capturing the story of where you came from and who you are.” “The book includes a narrative and supporting visuals showing their entire family history,” Dan says. “The visuals include photos, historical documents and maps. The narrative contains stories, legends and other information about your ancestors.” The response from clients has been overwhelming, he says, adding that there typically are “tears of joy and extreme happiness.” “There is nothing more personal than capturing the story of where you came from and who you are,” Dan says.

or get in touch with living relatives. No matter the reason, Dan says it always is important to find out more about one’s past. “The bottom line is, no one later in life says, ‘I wish I had not spent so much time listening to grandpa’s family stories.’” Occasionally, Dan says, clients will discover interesting characters from the past. Though rare, this could include royalty, witches and even founding fathers. “Yes, royal connections are not common, but they did occur.

There are many reasons clients visit Dancestors. More broadly,

Typically, they came from the third son of royalty, who with primo-

many seek to validate family stories and find out about their ances-

geniture (the oldest son getting the land), the second joining the

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to convert the Native Americans. Once we confirm someone is of royal heritage, a plethora of information becomes available,” Dan says. “A recent client has all kinds of Kings as her ancestors, but it is 25 to 30 generations back from today.” Other clients’ ancestors have infamously been dubbed Salem witches, Dan says. “I seem to have a lot of clients whose ancestry runs back through Salem. Some were hung as witches, like my wife’s great ……. grandmother Mary Towne Easty,” Dan says. “The same client had ancestors that were the accusers, the accused witches, the judges, the defenders and the condemners. At least four different clients had ancestors who were hung as witches, another pressed to death with stones, and many others were accused but were able to avoid execution.” Dan says one client was surprised to find out her ancestor played a pivotal role in the establishment of America. “She was excited when I found her ancestor was Robert Morris, signer of the Declaration of Independence and financier of the American Revolution,” he says. Regardless of who or what clients discover on their journey of ancestral discovery, they are rewarded with the knowledge of their past. And Dan says, this year, more than most, his clients have craved such knowledge. “I believe it is because we have all had a heightened sense of our mortality,” he says. For those seeking to find out more about their family history, visit dancestorsgenealogy.com. Custom gift certificates are available and make perfect Mother’s Day or Father’s Day gifts.

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LOCAL LIMELIGHT ARTICLE STEPHANIE HASBROUCK PHOTOGRAPHY MARSHALL MAGUIRE PHOTOGRAPHY CROSS TIMBERS LIFESTYLE SALUTES FIVE WOMEN MAKING A DIFFERENCE IN THE COMMUNITY. Their work proves true the immortal words of Harriet Beecher Stowe: “Women are the real architects of society.” This month they share a

THESE INSPIRING LOCAL WOMEN ARE MAKING AN IMPACT ON THE COMMUNITY

bit about themselves, their work and advice they would give their younger selves if given the chance.

C H A N T E L L U P S H AW PRINCIPAL, MARCUS HIGH SCHOOL NINTH GRADE CAMPUS Chantell Upshaw has been an educator and administrator in Lewisville ISD for the past 23 years. She previously worked as a teacher, high school assistant principal and middle school principal. Chantell has been recognized for her work as a secondary principal and assistant principal and holds a PTSA Lifetime Membership and Extended Service Award. She and her husband have lived in the Flower Mound/Lewisville area for more than 20 years and have three children. WHEN YOU WERE A CHILD, WHAT DID YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU GREW UP? I knew that my career path would be in education or design. Growing up, there were many teachers and principals in my neighborhood and church. I was fortunate to have parents who pushed the value of education. WHAT HAS BEEN THE MOST REWARDING ASPECT OF THE WORK YOU DO? Being able to expand the minds of my students is one of the most rewarding aspects of my job. While at M9, my staff and I have hosted many opportunities for students. Knowing that my students are receiving a well-rounded school experience, that includes service and a global perspective, has been the most rewarding aspect of my work. IF YOU COULD GO BACK IN TIME AND TELL YOUR YOUNGER SELF ANYTHING, WHAT WOULD IT BE? I would tell myself to take advantage of all opportunities that come your way! I feel like I may have missed some big opportunities, like the chance to travel out of the country, because I didn’t have all the details or have the full financial backing. Now I know, where there’s a will there’s a way! 28

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NICOLE SMITH WOODARD REAL ESTATE BROKER AND HOST OF AROUND FLOWER MOUND PODCAST Nicole Smith Woodard has been helping families buy and sell homes since 1995. She has been recognized annually as a D Magazine Top Producer, Texas Monthly Five-Star professional and a North DFW Real Producer. Nicole hosts the popular Around Flower Mound podcast and is co-administrator of the Around Flower Mound Facebook group. She is a member of the Flower Mound Chamber of Commerce and a board member of Cross Timbers Rotary Club. Nicole and her husband Dave live in Flower Mound and have four children. WHEN YOU WERE A CHILD, WHAT DID YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU GREW UP? The best I can come up with is ‘executive secretary.’ I am the second girl in my family. My older sister was the typical perfect first born. Whatever we played, she was the leader. I knew I wanted more than the small-town life where I was raised, and I was willing to work hard to have it. WHAT HAS BEEN THE MOST REWARDING ASPECT OF THE WORK YOU DO? I believe our homes create the chapters in the story of our lives. The most rewarding aspect of my business is helping people transition between chapters. It is my honor and pleasure to help people meet their real estate goals – regardless of their circumstances. IF YOU COULD GO BACK IN TIME AND TELL YOUR YOUNGER SELF ANYTHING, WHAT WOULD IT BE? Fully transparent: I spent an inordinate amount of time wanting people to like me, pleasing people and worrying about what they thought or said about me. I would tell myself – just be yourself – the best version of yourself you can be. Love people unconditionally. Relax. Have fun.

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M I N D Y H O WA R D MARRIAGE AND FAMILY THERAPIST, OWNER OF CONVERGE COUPLE THERAPY Mindy Howard is a systemically trained marriage and family therapist who counsels couples and individuals. She owns Converge Couple Therapy, which offers comprehensive couple therapy services. Mindy serves on the clinical team for the North Texas Emotionally Focused Therapy Community. She and her husband have lived in North Texas for 14 years. They have two daughters, a son and “a menagerie of furry family members.” WHEN YOU WERE A CHILD, WHAT DID YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU GREW UP? Is it funny that I always wanted to be a counselor? I wanted to help people. I loved listening. I did other things along the way. In the end, I came full circle and became a therapist later in life. WHAT HAS BEEN THE MOST REWARDING ASPECT OF THE WORK YOU DO? The most rewarding moments are when I see couples breaking down walls, reaching for their partner, reassuring one another and restoring their connection. People become so wonderfully creative, empathetic and adaptable in the end. They become more attuned and accessible to one another, more responsive and engaged. IF YOU COULD GO BACK IN TIME AND TELL YOUR YOUNGER SELF ANYTHING, WHAT WOULD IT BE? Slow down, breathe and don’t be afraid. Give thanks for what each day teaches you, even the valleys of pain and sorrow; they are temporary tutors. Worry less about becoming an expert, and use your time to be present with everyone you meet. Love them. Seek justice, love mercy, walk humbly with God, and you’ll be ok. 30

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CAROL KYER PRESIDENT OF THE BOARD, COMMUNITIES IN SCHOOLS NORTH TEXAS Carol Kyer has worked with and raised funds for numerous non-profit organizations throughout North Texas. She currently serves as the President of the Board of Community in Schools of North Texas. Her outstanding contributions to the community garnered her the 2020 Flower Mound Citizen of the Year designation. Carol and her husband Mark live in Flower Mound and have three children. WHEN YOU WERE A CHILD, WHAT DID YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU GREW UP? My mother would tell you that I always wanted to be an English teacher. As the youngest daughter of five children, we were always playing school down in the basement during the cold winter months in Massachusetts. WHAT HAS BEEN THE MOST REWARDING ASPECT OF THE WORK YOU DO? The most rewarding aspect of the work I do is seeing families and children succeed and be happy. I saw 15 years of students graduating from high school to go on to rewarding careers; families work hard to acquire their own homes; children who didn’t believe in themselves become successful; the joy in the eyes of foster children experiencing their first Christmas gift; parents stepping up and learning how to help their children in school; and teachers getting the accolades they very well deserve. IF YOU COULD GO BACK IN TIME AND TELL YOUR YOUNGER SELF ANYTHING, WHAT WOULD IT BE? I would tell my younger self to keep an eye on the future, but enjoy the present. One thing that I regret not doing is keeping a daily journal. It’s easy to forget where you have been and accomplished when the daily hectic events take over your life.

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D E B R A WA L L A C E INTERIM TOWN MANAGER

Debra Wallace is a Certified Public Manager and has worked in municipal government in North Texas for 25 years. Her position as Interim Flower Mound Town Manager recently was extended indefinitely. Debra received the Linda Keithley Award for Women in Public Management in 2015. She and her husband Jerry have lived in Argyle for 22 years and have two daughters, five grandsons and two dachshunds. WHEN YOU WERE A CHILD, WHAT DID YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU GREW UP? When I was a child, I wanted to be a writer. I’ve always been an avid reader and had dreams of writing someday. WHAT HAS BEEN THE MOST REWARDING ASPECT OF THE WORK YOU DO? The most rewarding part of my work is serving the community, problem solving and feeling like I’m making a difference in a person’s life. IF YOU COULD GO BACK IN TIME AND TELL YOUR YOUNGER SELF ANYTHING, WHAT WOULD IT BE? I would tell myself to always lead by example. Your actions are so much more important than words.

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A BOUTIQUE ESCAPE IN PARADISE (VALLEY) ARTICLE KRISTIN HEGGLI PHOTOGRAPHY MOUNTAIN SHADOWS RESORT SCOTTSDALE + DAVE SANSOM PHOTOGRAPHY

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BENCHMARK FOR DESERT LUXURY AND DISTINCTIVE DESIGN WHEN IT FIRST OPENED IN 1959. Reopened in 2017, this boutique retreat has been completely re-envisioned from the ground up. Set in the shadow of Camelback Mountain in the town of Paradise Valley, the resort sits just ten minutes from Old Town Scottsdale’s renowned dining, shopping, nightlife, and art galleries. Contemporary design is infused with a dash of 1950s modernism and abundant natural light. Choose from chic resort guestrooms and two-story Photography Mountain Shadows Resort Scottsdale 34

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lofts in the luxurious wing of residences.

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For foodies, there is plenty to enjoy on property. Hearth ’61 is the culinary focal point, serving ingredient-driven cuisine made with time-honored flavor pairings and cooking styles rich in tradition. Enjoy dishes from renowned Chef Charles Wiley, craft cocktails, local brews and an extensive wine selection. The restaurant’s bright dining room spills out onto the scenic patio and a unique, oval-shaped bar. Flavorful events include the monthly Sunday Supper Club, which pairs four courses with wines and features an incredible winery, distillery or local purveyor; as well as monthly Spirited Sipping Seminars that combine learning and libations for the perfect afternoon. Summer is serene, sophisticated and cool at The Citizens Club. Enjoy private poolside cabanas, a special menu of rosés from around the globe (by the glass and bottle), and a carefully crafted playlist of chill summer music. If Champagne is more your speed, don’t miss Veuve Happy Hour. Every Friday, Saturday and Sunday from 3 p.m. to 5 p.m., clink glasses with bubbles on special for $15 per glass or $75 per bottle. CONTINUED >

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TRAVEL DESTINATION (CONTINUED) Round out the resort experience with a tee time. Mountain Shadows boasts one of the only 18-hole, par-3 courses in Arizona. The Short Course has an emphasis on fun for the casual golfer as well as the serious player, featuring dramatic views of iconic Camelback Mountain. The course is playable in under three hours, leaving time for beers and bites at Rusty’s (or poolside lounging). If your preferred activity doesn’t include clubs, take advantage of complimentary fitness classes including Pilates, deep stretch yoga, barre, cardio strength, and TRX. In Photography Mountain Shadows Resort Scottsdale

the cooler months, the resort hosts oneof-a-kind events like Zodiac Yoga & Sound Healing and Pilates & Prosecco. Incredible hiking opportunities abound nearby. Camelback Mountain is just down the street from the resort, offering two advanced trails and unparalleled views. Choose Cholla Trail for a gradual ascent or the challenging Echo Canyon Trail with large boulders and rails for gripping. The Phoenix Mountains Preserve is only ten minutes away, featuring a challenging hike up Piestewa Peak along with more leisurely trails completely surrounded by the Sonoran desert landscape.

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When it comes to planning your Paradise Valley escape,

Treat yourself to a true boutique experience at Mountain

keep an eye out for the resort’s annual summer sale, taking

Shadows that’s relaxing yet invigorating. The resort’s

place May 14 to 20 and offering the best rates of summer.

iconic views and Paradise Valley location create a true

Celebrating something special? Make it memorable by

sense of retreat, while the best of the Valley is still easily

reserving the Sip, Saber & Savor Experience, an immersive

accessible, from horseback riding to local dining. This

culinary experience for two with private events including

sleek getaway is an ideal resting stop for the design-for-

a Champagne sabering, Spirited Sipping Seminar, and

ward, modern traveler.

Food for Thought class.

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MAY

LIFESTYLE CALENDAR

8 a.m.-3 p.m. Monday, May 10, at

HIGHLAND VILLAGE ART FESTIVAL

WINNING THE FIGHT CELEBRATION BREAKFAST

vides temporary housing to families

The Shops at Highland Village

The Highland Village Art Festival will

Lantana Golf Club. All proceeds fund Bedtime Rescue, which proin the community who are in crisis

Hilton Garden Inn Lewisville

and need safe shelter. Sponsorships

be from 10 a.m.-6 p.m. Saturday, May

Celebrate 10 years of Winning the

and teams available. For more info,

1, at The Shops at Highland Village.

Fight at its Celebration Breakfast

visit Cloud9Charities.org.

The event will include displays from

of encouragement and hope from

more than 30 artists, artist demon-

8:30-10 a.m. May 6 at Hilton Garden

strations, live music, entertainment

Inn in Lewisville.

BIKE WITH THE BLUE 5K AND BIKE RACE

ART IN THE PARK FESTIVAL

The Flower Mound Police Department

Heritage Park

KID FISH

will hold the inaugural Bike with

Flower Mound's first Art in the Park

the Blue 5K Run and Bike Race in

Leonard and Helen Johns Park Pond

Festival will be from 10 a.m.-4 p.m.

Lakeside DFW on Saturday, May 15.

Leonard and Helen Johns Park Pond,

Saturday, May 8, at Heritage Park.

The event will include a 5K run, youth

1850 Timber Creek Road, will be

The festival will feature live perfor-

ride, civilian bike race and police bike

stocked with more than 500 pounds

mances, local artwork, a special

race. For more information, visit flow-

of catfish for the Kid Fish event from

art treasure hunt, a recycled fash-

er-mound.com/BikewiththeBlue.

9 a.m.-noon Saturday, May 1. The

ion show, hands-on activities, a

event is free for youth ages 16 and

community mural and much more.

younger. Prizes and awards will be

Many of the activities and booths

given in several categories. Rod, reel

will focus on ways to utilize recycled

and bait are provided, or participants

and repurposed materials to create

can bring their own.

unique works of art.

and interactive children’s art activities. Admission and parking are free.

Lakeside DFW

15 A CHANCE TO HIKE LLELA

This free guided nature walk for mem-

1, 8, 15, 22, 29

bers of the special needs community

HIGHLAND VILLAGE FARMERS MARKET

BIRD WALK

Cottonwood Trail. Participants may

level crushed-granite surface of the

LLELA

see signs of deer, coyote or bobcats

Birders of all skill levels ages 10

and maybe see an armadillo during the

Farmers

and older are welcome to join an

mile-long hike. Registration is required.

Market takes place from 10 a.m.-2

expert birder at 7:30 a.m. every

Visit llela.org for more information.

p.m. every Saturday at 1100 Village

second Saturday (except July and

Pkwy. For a list of vendors, visit

August) to explore prime birding

fourseasonsmarkets.com/events.

locations along LLELA’s nature

1100 Village Pkwy

The

Highland

Village

trails. Registration is required. Visit

2, 9, 16, 23, 30 FLOWER MOUND FARMERS MARKET Parker Square

The Flower Mound Farmers Market takes place from 10 a.m.-2 p.m. every Sunday in Parker Square. For a vendor list, visit fourseasonsmarkets.com/events. 40

will take place along the wide and

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llela.org for more information.

10 CLOUD 9 CHARITIES ANNUAL GIVING & GOLF TOURNAMENT

15 TEXAS TUNES SERIES: LOS TEXMANIACS WITH SPECIAL GUEST AUGIE MEYERS

Medical City Lewisville Grand Theater

Grammy

award-winning

Los

Texmaniacs will perform with special guest Augie Meyers at 8 p.m.

Lantana Golf Club

Saturday, May 15, at Medical City

Cloud 9 Charities Annual Giving

Lewisville Grand Theater. For ticket

& Golf Tournament will be from

information, visit mclgrand.com.

Saturday, May 17, in Wayne Ferguson

FLOWER MOUND SMOKE FEST

friendly spirit of Lewisville, will feature

Plaza. The event, designed to showcase the rich cultural, artistic and ecoeducational

and

artistic

31 MEMORIAL DAY CEREMONY

Courtyard by Marriott Flower Mound

creative,

On Saturday, May 15, the Flower

experiences. For more information,

Flower Mound invites the commu-

Mound Summit Club will welcome

visit LewisvilleColorPalooza.com.

nity to remember our fallen soldiers

20 competitive BBQ teams and the public to its first Flower Mound Smoke Fest atop the Flower Mound Marriott Courtyard parking garage. Doors will open to the public at 12:30 p.m. Sunday May 16, with winners announced at 5 p.m. Tickets will be available at the door and online at fmsmokefest.com.

2701 W. Windsor Drive

of war at 9 a.m. Monday, May 31.

The ceremony will feature keynote

MY FIRST FISH: CANE POLE FISHING 101

music and more. To add a veteran

speakers from the military and local leaders, Color Guard, patriotic to the Wall of Honor, the Town asks

LLELA

residents to submit a picture and

Certified TPWD Angler Education

bio of a fallen hero.

instructors will teach how to prop-

erly prepare your cane fishing

COLORPALOOZA: A CELEBRATION OF SPRING

ting their skills to test in the river.

Would you like to get in touch with

Registration is $10 per person and

us? We would love to hear from you!

Wayne Ferguson Plaza

includes an outfitted 10-foot cane

ColorPalooza: A Celebration of Spring

pole to take home. Visit llela.org

CrossTimbers using the Get In Touch

will take place from 10 a.m.-5 p.m.

for registration information.

link and let us know what you think.

pole.

Participants

will

practice

pan fishing on land before put-

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MAKE MOTHER'S DAY BRUNCH PEACHY WITH THESE FUN SORBET BELLINIS

CULINARY CREATIONS

CHEERS TO MOMS! MAKE MOTHER’S DAY BRUNCH A BIT MORE SPECIAL THIS YEAR WITH THIS FUN AND EASY BELLINI RECIPE. Instead of spending time creating the perfect peach pureé, simply scoop store-bought peach sorbet into champagne flutes and top with prosecco. The sorbet melts into the bubbly creating a fruity, refreshing cocktail. For a non-alcoholic version, simply top with ginger ale or lemon-lime soda instead of prosecco.

PEACH SORBET BELLINI INGREDIENTS + 1 bottle of prosecco, chilled + 1 pint of peach sorbet

ARTICLE STEPHANIE HASBROUCK | PHOTOGRAPHY CONTRIBUTED

+ Fresh peach slices for garnish

DIRECTIONS Scoop two tablespoons of sorbet into champagne flute. Top with chilled prosecco. Garnish with fresh peach slices. For the kiddos: Pour ginger ale or lemon-lime soda over a big scoop of sorbet.

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