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rowing up in the 1970's, I was taught women could do anything... in fact, I could even be the first female president, according to my enthusiastic father, who had two daughters he empowered to be as strong and capable as the son he never had.

It's hard to believe, despite the decades of efforts by women leading the fight for equality and equal rights, that even when I was born in 1970, women could be fired from their job for being pregnant (until 1978), could not run in the Boston Marathon (until 1972) and could not get a credit card (until 1974)!

Yes, we've definitely come a long way, baby! I feel very fortunate to live in a time when opportunities for women have crashed through the glass ceiling to reach heights never before attained... no more are women relegated to being just wives and mothers, or perhaps nurses, secretaries or teachers. Today, women do anything they set their mind to.

One of my favorite sayings that I have passed on to my own daughter (and son, no discrimination here!) is "Shoot for the moon... even if you miss, you'll land among the stars!"

We think you'll agree that the incredible women featured in this issue are all stars, who will surely inspire you to follow your passion and achieve your loftiest goals as you read about their impressive accomplishments, life lessons and sage advice. The month of May, during which we set aside a special day to honor our wonderful mothers, is the perfect time to spotlight the many wonder women in our community who are making a difference using their skills, talents, energy and smarts. We honor them, along with all of the women advertisers and entrepreneurs, comprising doctors, lawyers, realtors, trainers and businesswomen who make up the Conejo Valley Lifestyle family, and women everywhere who strive to be their best while still making the time to be loving mothers, sisters, daughters, grandmothers, aunts, best friends and community leaders. These strong role models serve as beacons to the world around them, brightly lighting the way to success on whatever path a women chooses to take, even the road to the White House. And not to worry, boys, the First Man will have his day too, sooner or later.

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Around Town

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Local Limelight

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Giving Back

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Locally Owned

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Healthy Lifestyle

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Local’s Choice

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Our Town

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Hometown Hero

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Inspired By

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Financial Buzz

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Now Open

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Our Contributors

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Lifestyle Calendar

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Parting Thoughts

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The BumbleBee Foundation boosts pediatric cancer patients

20 Celebrating 60 Years

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AROUND TOWN

SMALL TREASURES "Mamaw's Purses" is an outreach program formed in memory of a special woman who loved colorful handbags. Purses filled with personal care items and small gifts are provided to women in shelters, transitional living and other support programs. Sunland Vintage Winery is collecting items for Mamaw's Purses, including medium to large new or gently used purses, sample/travel size personal care

COFFEE & DESSERT AT BELMONT VILLAGE SENIOR LIVING THOUSAND OAKS

items (toothpaste, toothbrush, lip gloss, deodorant, tissues, soap,

Belmont Village is a recognized leader in senior living. Guided by

shampoo, etc.) and small gifts, such as a hair brush, sunglasses, socks

university experts, the community features a signature blend of hos-

and jewelry. Drop off donations at Sunland Vintage Winery, 1321 E.

pitality and amenities combined with premier programs for health

Thousand Oaks Blvd. #108 or call 818.434.3368 for more information.

and wellness that appeal to couples as well as single adults. Call Angel or Shari at 805.496.9301.

FAMILY PICNIC W/EQUESTRIAN EVENTS & PIE AUCTION

VISIT ARIEL "UNDER THE SEA" THIS SUMMER

Join the community on Sunday May 1st at the 6th annual There’s

Disney's "The Little Mermaid" movie based on the Hans Christian

No Place Like Hope, Family Picnic and Hoedown. Held in the beauti-

Anderson story comes to vibrant life in the new Broadway musical

ful Santa Rosa Valley at

The Little Mermaid, swimming to Cabrillo Music Theatre this sum-

the Santa Rosa Valley

mer! The lovely mermaid Ariel dreams of the world above the sea

Park south of Santa

and gives up her beautiful captivating voice to find true love. Spend

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next summer "Under the Sea" as Ariel sings about her desire to

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be "Part of Your World." Showtimes are July 15-24. Cabrillo Music

a.m. to 4 p.m., the

Theatre is the Ovation Award-winning resident musical theatre

event features a day

production company of the Thousand Oaks Civic Arts Plaza, and a

of fun and fellowship

nonprofit theatre organization. It is Cabrillo's mission to provide the

while raising funds for

highest quality musical experience, to foster educational opportuni-

destitute and home-

ties and to promote cultural and artistic enrichment to enhance the

less horses. Rosemary

quality of life in Southern California. Purchase tickets for The Little

Allison, Estates Director

Mermaid at TicketMaster.com.

for Coldwell Banker, is the presenting sponsor of this year's picnic

CELEBRATING 20 YEARS OF THE KINGSMEN SHAKESPEARE FESTIVAL!

benefiting the Saffyre Sanctuary, Inc., with special mention to Tedi

Save the date for a festival preview and benefit dinner Sunday,

Tate and her Warhorse Alliance and Steeds of Light. The Alliance

June 12, from 4-7 p.m. Guests will see a sneak peek of the rehearsal

works with returning vets with PTSD, and the Steeds of Light with

process with a preview of the upcoming productions of Henry V and

battered women. Open to the public with free admission, the event

A Midsummer Night’s Dream, as well as costume and set designs for

features activities and attractions that will delight, food trucks, live

the new season.

music, shave-and-haircuts, surprise musical performances, an old

Presentations from the KSC artistic directors, a stage combat

fashioned pie auction hosted by Rosemary Allison, magnificent horse

experience and a silent auction round out the event. Summer casual

performances, Annabelle the pink tractor-pulled hay wagon, danc-

attire is suggested, along with a light jacket or wrap for after sun-

ing, singing and shopping, all with a loving dose of compassion and

down. KSC will also award the 4th Annual Lord Strange Award,

community. To enter your pie or favorite dessert in the pie auction,

named after Shakespeare's first patron namesake, Lord Strange.

email rosemaryallison@aol.com. TheHopePicnic.com

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Flying First Class

in the Conejo Valley ARTICLE JENNIFER LEBOWITZ | PHOTOGRAPHY ROBERT YEAGER

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lying high after a successful 22nd season of Pacific Festival Ballet’s (PFB) “The Nutcracker” featuring guest artists from New York City Ballet, the company will soon be taking flight with its spring ballet, “Peter Pan!” Every spring, Pacific Festival Ballet presents a classical or unique original ballet. This year, Peter Pan, a ballet interpretation of a story that we all grew up with, appeals to the entire community, from tiny tots to great-grandparents.

This is PFB’s third reprise of Peter Pan, and each time Artistic Director Kim Maselli brings new magic to this classic story. Pixie dust, fairies, pirates, crocodiles and our favorite boy who won’t grow up warms our hearts in this timeless classic. From flying to an enchanted island to battling swashbuckling pirates led by the ferocious Captain Hook, this ballet adventure will be sure to awaken the child inside each of us!

Pacific Festival Ballet spares no expense with this first-class, flight. Peter, Wendy, John and Michael will learn the art of theatre flying from Zfx Flying Effects instructors, who provided the same excitement and safety to Kathy Rigby when she toured and performed on Broadway. Zfx trainers will come to the 10

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Thousand Oaks Civic Arts Plaza for three days to work with our talented dancers, and by day four, our performers will be on their maiden voyage flying in front of a live audience to the delight and wonder of the crowds.

The Alliance for the Arts has made it their mission to share the beauty of dance, as well as other art forms, with Title 1 students.

Thanks to their generosity, the Kavli Theatre, which seats 1,800, will be filled to capacity for an outreach performance when Pacific Festival Ballet, the resident ballet company of the Civic Arts Plaza since 2006, performs "Peter Pan" for students who might otherwise miss this amazing opportunity.

PFB's training school, California Dance Theatre in Agoura Hills, celebrates 30 years of training dancers of all levels, from Mommy and Me classes to advanced high school students. PFB also offers a curriculum for dancers on their way to university and professional dance careers. The adult program also flourishes with daily classes in ballet, tap and jazz. The school and the company pride themselves on cultivating the next generation of artists and ballet enthusiasts.

Becoming a Pacific Festival Ballet donor allows individuals and businesses the opportunity to support ballet as a performing art and expand its many channels of community outreach. For more information about becoming a donor, please email Carrie Barnett at carrie@ pacfestballet.org or visit the PFB website, PacFestBallet.org.

Come fly with us! Performances of “Peter Pan” are May 21, 2016 at 2 and 7 p.m. To purchase tickets in person, visit the Civic Arts Plaza Box Office, 2100 Thousand Oaks Boulevard. Purchase tickets online at www.TicketMaster.com or call 800.745.3000.

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(L-R) Coughenour family and Connor (cancer-free!); cofounders Heather (with Natalia) and Jason; Maxwell/McFarland family and Brandyn (also cancer-free!)

The BumbleBee Foundation LIGHTENING THE LOAD FOR PEDIATRIC CANCER FAMILIES

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n 2016, an estimated 10,000 children under 15 years of age in the ARTICLE KEN PHILLIPS | PHOTOGRAPHY PROVIDED United States will be diagnosed with cancer and about 12% will most likely die from the disease. Sadly, about 60% of the survivors will probably suffer subsequent medical issues later in their lives, such as heart failure, infertility and secondary cancers.

Jarren Donatini was diagnosed with a rare form of liver cancer just before age 3. For 18 months, he bravely battled, but ultimately lost his fight. Heather and Jason Donatini were devastated and overwhelmed by the loss of their son.

Determined to turn their pain into something positive to honor their son and at the same time help other families deal with the heavy emotional and financial issues they had faced through Jarren’s struggle, the Donatinis founded the BumbleBee Foundation in 2011. Since then, the 501c3 nonprofit has provided love and support to more than 100 pediatric cancer families in the Conejo Valley and surrounding areas, having spent over $150,000 to offset expenses for many of these families and raising awareness through special events held throughout the year.

As executive director of the BumbleBee Foundation, Heather handles the day-to-day operations of the growing organization, which she hopes will take hold nationwide.

“As the queen bee, I envision hives of caring, loving support throughout the country. Pediatric cancer families needn’t go through this alone,” says Heather.

BumbleBee provides limited financial support for families needing to cover basic needs, such as groceries, medical bills, gas and sometimes, rent. The foundation also focuses on CONTINUED >

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helping to provide meals, transportation and comfort or counseling to caregivers of children who have cancer.

Pediatric cancer affects all ethnic, gender and socioeconomic groups, and more than 40,000 children undergo treatment annually.

“Our focus is on the families in the trenches of the battle, whatever their backgrounds," notes Heather. "Our desire is to lighten the burden for each of our BumbleBee families, even if only momentarily to allow them a chance to breathe. It is our goal to provide ongoing support when they need it most.”

The foundation offers help and support to anyone with a child under age 18 who has cancer.

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“Whether the families need financial support or simply guidance, we’re here for them," says Heather. "If we have to rally a community to raise funds, we will do that. If they want us to assist with memorial services, we can handle that for them.”

With the amount of work at hand, BumbleBee is always looking for volunteers, especially during fundraisers and in the spring and winter during their holiday “adoption” programs. This July 9 is the 5th Annual FUNraiser in Simi Valley, featuring a casino night with food, music, raffles and more. Contributions are tax-deductible.

So, how did the foundation get its name? It comes from their son’s love of one of the “Autobots” named “Bumblebee” in his favorite “Transformers” movie. The yellow robot transforms into a sleek, muscle car that Jarren adored. Shortly after his passing, Jarren’s parents discovered a drawing he had done at age 2. It was a bumblebee, which would become the organization’s logo.

To learn more about the

BumbleBee

Foundation,

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eet Affirmative Escrow Manager Brynne DesMarteauBradbrook, in this Q&A about Affirmative and its mission.

WHAT SERVICES DOES AFFIRMATIVE ESCROW PROVIDE?

Commercial and residential resale and refinance escrow services, including bank-owned properties, corporate employee relocation, short sale and 1031 tax-deferred exchange transactions.

HOW LONG HAS AFFIRMATIVE ESCROW BEEN IN BUSINESS?

For 15 years, since May 2001. We have received very favorable feedback from the real estate public. The majority of our business is from repeat customers and referrals, both of which we consider the greatest compliment! Just this past year, we changed our license and now operate as an Independent Escrow Company, licensed by the Department of Business Oversight. This has allowed us to broaden our customer base and work with any realtor, buyer or seller.

HOW DOES AFFIRMATIVE ESCROW BENEFIT CLIENTS?

We concentrate on customer service and communication, processing transactions with state-of-the-art escrow-specific software with a focus on privacy and security of personal information. We incorporate secured banking with layered approval procedures for additional protection. Parties are updated on the transaction via an automated notification system which keeps everyone in the know at all times.

Affirmative Escrow goes the extra mile. We pride ourselves on troubleshooting any situation ASAP and keeping an eye on the entire transaction while proactively communicating with realtors.

WHAT IS INVOLVED IN A TYPICAL ESCROW PROCESS?

Escrow requires a substantial amount of detailed work. Every document presented to escrow requires review and processing. The purchase contract is reviewed and our file and escrow software system is set up based on the contract's unique details. A processing game plan is prepared and the file is calendared for specific events and follow-up. Escrow requests, reviews and distributes the preliminary title report, which requires researching and obtaining documents to clear items so that a clear Policy of Title Insurance can be issued. At some point escrow will interact with each and every entity. In addition to direct contact with the buyer, seller and real estate agents, we coordinate directly with the buyer's lender, homeowner's insurance agent, home warranty company, zone disclosure company, title company, seller's existing lender, homeowner's association and local City Building Records offices. Escrow is responsible for handling all funds and documents and for the delivery of the documents for recording and ultimately the disbursement of all funds and final accounting of the entire transaction. As a result of our stringent

WHO ARE THE STAFF MEMBERS?

Our staff of nine escrow professionals has over 130 years of combined experience! Each staff member has been hand-picked through an extensive screening process. We hire by referral only and require a full background check and personal references. Each individual brings a unique skill set to the company.

Staff members are cross-trained, allowing us to maintain our consistent high level of service and expertise.

Proper staffing allows time for closer review of documentation and mitigation of potential complications in today's complex transactions.

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The Affirmative Escrow Team

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Healthy Lifestyle

Can Natural Hormones Improve Your Health?

ARTICLE DR. SHARON NORLING

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f you are premenopausal or menopausal, you know these transitions can be challenging—but they don’t have to be.

During the menopausal years, the production of estrogen, progesterone, testosterone and thyroid needed to maintain a youthful vitality rapidly begins to decline. Symptoms include depression, irritability, short-term memory loss, hot flashes, night sweats, insomnia, low libido, fatigue and weight gain. How happy, energetic and sexy can you feel with these symptoms? Not very!

Bioidentical hormone replacement therapy is all about returning what time and nature take away. Hormones can not only make you feel better, give you more energy and help you sleep, but they have been shown to support heart and bone health and decrease cancer risk.

Testosterone, for example, is produced by a woman's ovaries, adrenal glands and fat cells and plays an important role in women’s health. Low testosterone in women can have a negative impact on libido, moods, sense of well-being, bone and muscle mass and cardiovascular health.

HORMONES ARE GOOD FOR ME? Myths and misinformation about synthetic nonbioidentical hormones and natural bioidentical hormones cause confusion about the importance of hormone therapy. The truth is, bioidentical hormones have the same exact structure as the hormones produced naturally by the body. Literature demonstrating harmful effects of hormones concern nonbioidentical hormones. It is important to know that using bioidentical progesterone actually decreases the risk of breast cancer.

The Women's Health Initiative of 2002 is an oft-cited study, which I was involved in while teaching at the University of Minnesota Medical School. For many reasons (excluding women with hot flashes, including women to age 80, including smokers), the study design has been shown to be flawed. Additionally, the study only included synthetic, unnatural hormones Premarin and Provera, which increased breast cancer risk. Seven cases of nonfatal breast cancer out of 10,000 women in the study were reported.

A study published in the Journal of Breast Cancer Research and Treatment showed that 80,000 women using various forms of Hormonal Replacement Therapy (HRT) consisting of bioidentical progesterone and estrogen experienced significantly reduced rates of breast cancer.

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Bioidentical natural hormones contain both estriol and estradiol.

According to the International Journal of Cancer, estriol did not increase breast cancer compared to women who never used HRT. Using creams applied to the skin also confers fewer health risks than oral preparations.

Bioidentical hormones have also been shown to support heart health. A Journal of the American Medical Association article showed the bioidentical hormone progesterone increases good cholesterol (HDL). Estriol can decrease high blood pressure, total cholesterol and triglycerides, but increase HDL. Estriol enhances sexual and urinary health and promotes youthful skin.

A British Medical Journal study showed after 10 years, women receiving HRT early after menopause had significantly reduced risk of mortality, heart failure and heart attacks, without any apparent risk of cancer, venous thromboembolism (clots) or strokes.

Recent Mayo Clinic research of over 52,000 women found that neither estrogen alone, nor estrogen combined with progesterone affected a woman’s risk of dying from any cause, or specifically from a heart attack, stroke or cancer.

IS HRT RIGHT FOR ME? Tests are available to determine your estrogen-related cancer risk.

Testing for thyroid function, cortisol, neurotransmitters and vitamin D provides important information that can be used to balance hormones. Consult your physician for details about personal risks or benefits of hormonal replacement therapy.

Meanwhile, decrease your inflammation, relieve stress, remove toxins and stop eating sugar. Continue to eat cruciferous vegetables and fresh fish, drink green tea and dance the night away to promote bone and cardiovascular health.

Dr. Sharon Norling practices Advanced Functional Medicine in Westlake Village. Call 818.707.9355 or visit DrSharonNorling.com.

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Conejo Valley Days CELEBRATING 60 YEARS! ARTICLE PROVIDED PHOTOGRAPHY CONEJO VALLEY DAYS

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tribute to our valley’s western roots and community spirit, the 60th Annual Conejo Valley Days takes center stage May 11-15 at Conejo Creek Park South (23 Freeway/Janss Rd. exit) in Thousand Oaks.

The five-day event features entertainment for all ages. This year will again showcase top-rated RCS carnival rides, midway games and world-class headliners performing live music. Also scheduled are motocross freestyle exhibitions, free arts and crafts, the Fourth Annual Outhouse Races, a Home Décor and Gardening Show and dozens of craft vendors and displays by the Chumash Indian Museum and other historical venues.

On Wednesday and Thursday evenings, emerging young musicians will show off their talent. Friday night is western music night (complete with line-dancing lessons). Chevy Metal returns on Saturday (with Foo Fighters’ drummer Taylor Hawkins and friends).

The Oaks Mile-5K Run will be held Saturday morning. Sunday will feature Latin dance music all day.

Coming back after a hiatus is the CVD Children’s Parade on Saturday, May 7 (Conejo Creek Park North) for kids in pre-K through third grade. This event, sponsored by the Thousand Oaks Kiwanis Club, also features bounce house fun and entertainment. All who attend get $1 off CVD admission. Parade entry forms are on the CVD website.

Another highlight for the 60th anniversary is the first CVD Instahunt, open to all residents. Participants search for selected points of interest around the Conejo Valley that reflect the valley’s heritage and history. Top winners receive a free one-day CVD entry and an unlimited carnival ride wristband.

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Pet Central Education & Welfare Foundation is CVD’s major sponsor. It will again host pet adoptions with Shelter Hope Pet Shop Saturday and Sunday.

Also on Saturday and Sunday will be a STEM Science Pavilion featuring student projects and interactive projects designed to educate and entertain.

“While great carnival rides, live entertainment and plenty of fun things to do are what attract thousands to CVD each year, just as importantly, CVD is a major fundraiser for more than 25 local nonprofits,” says Mary-Catherine McBride, CVD executive director. “Some groups help collect tickets, keep CVD clean, serve food and help in a host of other vital ways while earning money to help their group.”

Nonprofits that have participated at CVD throughout the years include Rotary Club of Newbury Park, Soroptimists, Thousand Oaks Elks Lodge, Ventura County Firefighters Foundation and Zonta Club. New this year is Big Brothers Big Sisters of Ventura County, offering a VIP Wine Tasting Garden fundraiser.

“It’s these kinds of relationships that make CVD so special,” says McBride. “While the community has grown since CVD first began 60 years ago, the connection between the festival and area nonprofits still gives the event that small-town feel.”

Live entertainment, carnival rides and free hands-on activities are included with general admission. The cost is $10 for adults, $5 for kids 6 through 12 and free for kids 5 and under. Special discounts and packages are also available. Carnival rides are extra. For more information, tickets, forms and nonprofit fundraising opportunities, go to ConejoValleyDays.us

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Celebrating its 30th year in 2016, the Women's History Project celebrates the accomplishments of women through live presentations about their lives. Sandy started by writing scripts for her daughter’s school and adults presented them. One of the first scripts was a first-person narrative of Elizabeth Blackwell, a doctor.

Since then, the Thousand Oaks chapter of AAUW has written more than 100 scripts, compiling many in a book series. Script selection is done by the AAUW Women’s History Committee in June.

"We sometimes rotate scripts if they haven’t been presented in a while, or often update them. We also select a new inspiring woman (whether living or deceased) to write a script about, especially if her story goes well with a current event," said a committee member. This year featured a new script about the women of the National Park Service, since the NPS is commemorating its 100th year!

Another recent script profiles former migrant worker Irene Gomez, who is a local resident. Her story of courage, from working in the fields at age 14 to finding a way out and becoming a manager of MICOP (Mixteco Indigena Community Organizing Project), resounded with the committee.

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A skilled personal trainer with 30 years of experience as a licensed physical therapist, JoNell has a deep understanding of the human body and works with clients of all fitness levels—including beginners and those with physical challenges as well as the most conditioned athletes.

Certified in CrossFit and trained in Olympic weightlifting, JoNell possesses a broad range of knowledge to empower her clients to succeed. One gentleman training with JoNell recently lost 100 pounds and has changed his lifestyle to maintain his healthy weight and fitness level. And women from the “Just Drop It” weight loss/personal training group JoNell co-leads with Donna Connor are seeing results just several weeks in!

SETTING UP FOR SUCCESS

Working with a personal trainer may seem intimidating or unnecessary at first. JoNell urges you to keep an open mind.

“What you may have learned about exercise years ago may not be considered correct now. I don’t teach sit-ups like I used to. There are new ways to work your core that are better for your back and better in general for functional activity,” she explains. Even a few sessions with a trainer can prevent injuries, especially for beginners.

“A trainer can show you the proper way to start,” she says.

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suggest women have their hormone levels checked with their medical doctors to address imbalances,” she says. JoNell also tests body composition—muscle mass, body fat, water and bone—using a device to measure each and suggests a target percentage. The focus is on building muscle mass.

“Five pounds of fat is larger than five pounds of muscle. When a woman builds muscle, she naturally gets more lean and more definition becomes apparent, even if the number on the scale doesn’t change,” she explains. Muscle burns more calories than fat, thus building muscle mass stokes the metabolism and makes weight loss easier to achieve.

JoNell makes it clear that mobility matters too. “You should be able to squat to the floor and keep your heels on the ground,” she says. Another mobility marker is the ability to get up and down from the floor easily. She has observed that if women aren’t exercising regularly as they grow older, they can lose that ability.

“I see two different groups of women, ladies in their 50s that look 35 and women in their 50s that look 65. The main difference is exercise and diet,” she says.

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Her clients include men, athletes and teens, but at 52, JoNell has an affinity for working with women ages 40-60. She understands the unique needs of a woman’s middle-aged body and how to construct programs to ensure success and avoid injury.

“One thing most women over 40 do not realize is just how much they need to lift weights. Once you are past 30-35 years old, you start to lose muscle mass every single year. It starts out at 1-3% and then increases to 5%—and then it gets even higher as you grow older. It really escalates after age 60,” she warns. Bone loss is another problem, and she works with many osteopenic clients who have lower bone density. “They need to work with weights and do weight-bearing activities,” she says.

It’s no secret that women tend to carry more weight in their midsection as they age, often due to hormonal changes. “I frequently

It generally takes beginners at least four to six weeks to “ramp up” a fitness program and during that time, it can be tough, JoNell explains.

Clients who show up even when they are tired and sore usually find relief after a simple 10-15 minute stretching session. The great news is that their sustained commitment pays off.

“My clients have more energy. They are brighter and live with more vitality. The increase in physical activity boosts the body’s manufacturing of 'feel good' endorphins and lifts their mood. And they have more energy for their work, kids, grandkids and spouses,” she says.

That’s a pretty good payoff, if you ask me!

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Role Models in Education

“ E D U C AT I O N I S T H E M O S T P OW E R F U L W E A P O N , W H I C H Y O U

Janet Conner

2001; to be asked to speak at numerous grad-

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value your amazing ability to learn and love.

uations; to LOVE my job after all these years.

ADVICE FOR WOMEN: Value education;

NEWBURY PARK HIGH SCHOOL TEACHER

FUTURE GOALS: To teach at the college

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Janet Conner, English 12 IB, 12 CP, IB

level once I retire from high school teach-

MOST REWARDING ACCOMPLISHMENT:

Raising my four children, with the love, help and support of my husband, Duncan. They are the fire in my soul, and like every mom, I’m tremendously proud of each of them and who they have grown to be.

ADVICE: Don’t create your own glass ceiling.

Theory of Knowledge Teacher, IB Extended

ing. To laugh, to hike, to sing and to read.

Essay Coordinator

Negotiate for yourself — men do it all the time.

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have been committed to doing everything in

ADVOCATE OF THE YEAR

my power to improve education. My goal for

Janet Conner is a high school teacher, with a Masters in English from UC Irvine.

The California Association of International Baccalaureate World Schools honored her with the IB Educator Award.

WORDS TO LIVE BY: Ah, but a man's (wom-

an's) reach must exceed his (her) grasp or what's a heaven for?

MENTOR: As an English teacher in my first

Dianne Badoud McKay

FUTURE GOALS: For more than 20 years I

Dianne Badoud McKay, Ventura County

the future is to improve access to and read-

Community College District Board Member &

iness for higher education and ensure the

Chief Operating Officer, Mustang Marketing

system works well for our students once they

As COO of Mustang Marketing, the largest full-service marketing agency in Ventura County, Dianne is "happy to go to work each day."

school, 39 years ago, Bob Weenk helped me

WORDS TO LIVE BY: “Never doubt that a

understand the challenges and the rewards,

small group of thoughtful, committed citizens

the sacrifice and the thrill of working with young

can change the world; indeed, it’s the only

people who are on the edge of their adult lives.

thing that ever has.” – Margaret Mead

get there. They win, our community wins.

Lori Peters

EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR AND EDUCATOR AT ONE SPARK ACADEMY

One Spark Academy is a nonprofit learning center for homeschool and independent

MOST IMPORTANT LESSON: The human

MENTOR: My dad. Working alongside him

spirit is amazing and resilient; my students

gave me the opportunities to not only learn

WORDS TO LIVE BY: “Promise less and

are MY teachers while I am theirs.

study students in middle school and above.

from his tremendous business expertise but

deliver more.” “Walk the walk.” “People over pol-

MOST REWARDING ACCOMPLISHMENT:

also to have the confidence to negotiate for

icy.” “Luck is when opportunity meets prepara-

To still be teaching with enthusiasm after 39

myself, and our company, with confidence. He

tion” is something I often tell my students.

years; to be awarded Teacher of the Year by

taught me how to build the lasting partnerships

my students at Buena High School, spring

and friendships that are critical to success.

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MENTOR: My parents! My father, as an

educator, in particular had an exemplary moral

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compass when it came to dealing with other

enriching and nurturing for both stu-

MOST IMPORTANT LESSON: It's hard to put

people and navigating the nonsense of many

dents and teachers. I love the life balance I

yourself out there, but if you never try, you

large systems. He reminded me to put relation-

have now with myself, my husband and my

will most definitely never succeed.

ships first, that career meant nothing if it was

family, which is so much more rewarding and

MOST REWARDING ACCOMPLISHMENT:

achieved on the backs of others. They encour-

enjoyable than any other “job” I’ve ever had.

Winning the NatureBridge award! Many

aged me to stand up for others and what I

Selma Ruiz

believe is right, even if it wasn’t the easy road.

MOST IMPORTANT LESSON: I held my head

NATUREBRIDGE STUDENT OF THE YEAR

tears were shed when I won because I never thought myself capable of writing a winning paper. I gained so much confi-

high, even when others doubted me and

Selma Ruiz, Student

dence and I am still so proud of myself for

opted to put more energy into a positive path

NatureBridge helped propel my interest

getting out there and trying something I've

than the negative force of trying to defend

in the natural world and changed the way I

myself or my actions. The truth finds a way.

see the world. Now I make an effort to fully

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never done before.

ADVICE: No matter what the trends are or what attitude becomes popular, never dumb

WORDS TO LIVE BY: "When the power of

yourself down for temporary popularity. It's

ADVICE FOR WOMEN: Be the kind of per-

love overcomes the love of power the world

more rewarding to be proud of yourself than

son who builds others up, especially other

will truly know peace." -Jimi Hendrix The very

what social status you're in.

women; it is still more difficult for girls and

first time I read this quote I instantly memo-

FUTURE GOALS: I've been inspired to do

women than it is for men to strike out on their

rized it and the truth of it hit me. I remember

something involving science and nature; I've

own! The pool of opportunity is big and we

thinking about it the entire rest of that day.

discovered being a Park Ranger would be

should seek to support one another in our

MENTOR: My mother has taught me

amazing. Traveling has become very import-

endeavors rather than compete. Surround

endless knowledge about life and school.

ant to me and NatureBridge gave me the

yourself with people who lift you up and

Since 4th grade, she has homeschooled

opportunity to see a little bit of the world.

contribute to a positive environment. Life is

me. I am inspired by her determination

I even plan on moving to Europe to attend

too short to tolerate bullies or systems that

and independence. She is a single mother

college. I hope to get a degree in literature

make it hard for people who choose to live

and she has taught me to always be inde-

so I can write about the natural world around

their best lives.

pendent with my own thoughts and ideas.

me to bring awareness to its current state. I

Without her I would never be the thought-

just hope whatever I end up doing involves

ful thinker I am today.

my passion and determination.

FUTURE GOALS: To continue to find ways

to make One Spark Academy sustainable,

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nity is teeming with talented and accomplished women making their mark in every area, from politics and business to education and the arts. These extraordinary role models share some of their wisdom, lessons and secrets of their success, sure to inspire women everywhere.

The Ventura Chapter of the National Association of Women Business Owners recently honored many of these women at the 17th Annual 2016 BRAVO Awards celebrating outstanding women in business and leadership. The annual signature awards event recognizes women for their vision and perseverance, which creates a brighter future for women business owners and entrepreneurs.

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WORDS TO LIVE BY: It's not the size of the dog in the

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WORDS TO LIVE BY: The sign "It CAN Be Done" on his

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tennis. A trailblazer in her craft, she never gave up and always

MENTOR: There is something to be learned from every-

pursued excellence. She held out a helping hand and gave

one and every experience. I constantly ask myself, “What

sage advice to those who sought her help and guidance.

is the lesson I am supposed to learn here?”

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MOST REWARDING ACCOMPLISHMENT: My daughter, Jennie.

ADVICE FOR WOMEN: Don't apologize and don't ask per-

mission to be who you are.

FUTURE GOALS: Equal opportunity for all Californians to

achieve the American Dream.

MOST IMPORTANT LESSON: In order to achieve your

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MOST REWARDING ACCOMPLISHMENT: Being success-

ful in my encore career.

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today are single. Don’t leave your financial future to someone else—take charge!

FUTURE GOALS: To have a national voice in the aging

of America.

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NAWBO WOMAN BUSINESS OWNER OF THE YEAR

NAWBO Woman Business Owner of the Year Nellie R. Akalp, Founder & CEO of CorpNet.com

NELLIE R. AKALP Founder & CEO of CorpNet.com Nellie is an entrepreneur, author, speaker, wife and mother of four.

WORDS TO LIVE BY: Be passionate, genuine and authentic!

FAVORITE QUOTE OR MOTTO: "Do what you love and love what you do each and every day... otherwise, why

do it at all?"

MENTOR: My husband and business partner of 23 years, Phil Akalp. He always pushes me to continuously

improve myself in all aspects of my life, whether business or personal. If it weren't for him, I wouldn't be the wife, mother and business expert I am today.

MOST IMPORTANT LESSON: I’ve learned that success is something you achieve based on how much you put

into whatever it is that you would like to see success from. Certainly others can help you, just as others can provide obstacles, but ultimately you make your own success and your own failure. If you want to have success and be successful, you can’t make success your goal. The key is not to worry about being successful, but to instead work toward being significant, and the success will naturally follow.

MOST REWARDING ACCOMPLISHMENT: Starting a company in 1997 and selling it eight years later at the age of

30 for a very large sum of cash to a publicly traded company, then taking three years off to start all over again with the launch of our current business, CorpNet.com, which was recognized on the Inc. 5000 list of fastest-growing privately held companies in America in 2015. In my personal life, my biggest accomplishment has been giving birth to my four beautiful children who teach me something new each day and continue to teach me that life is so beautiful when seen through the innocence of children. Of course, being happily married to my husband and business partner of over 18 years is the cherry on top.

ADVICE FOR WOMEN: If you want to get someone’s attention - be different, disruptive, distinct and make an impression!

FUTURE GOALS: I want to continue to develop myself as a more prominent and inspirational voice to entrepre-

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Owner/Designer/Manager Shop Allie Anderson and Presh Events WORDS TO LIVE BY: Never Give Up! At an early age, I learned the true definition of “never give up” when my family was trying

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In business, there have been many obstacles along the way: expenses that have led to tough decisions, staying motivated through long hours of working and not letting my age get in the way of my dreams are just a few examples.

Great things can come out of tough times and I never give up trying. From that, I have built two amazing businesses and am currently in the process of expanding.

MENTOR: My mother has always been my support and inspiration. She has pushed me to give everything I have into whatever

I am passionate about.

MOST IMPORTANT LESSON: When I first opened my online store, Shop Allie Anderson, I had no idea what I was getting into. I began

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I will never forget the day my business partner and I showed up prepared to run a wedding rehearsal and the officiant arrived ready to run the show. He talked over us, telling the wedding party what to do, how to hold the flowers and where to stand. He was doing our job. Once I noticed the bride, my client, looking at me with frustration from his attitude, I had enough. Where he was wrong in his direction, I announced it loud and clear. He was very surprised and stopped talking; I took that opportunity to do my job.

From that experience, I realized how important it is for women to take action when they feel their job is being overrun, by a man or woman.

FUTURE GOALS: I hope to inspire more young women like me who have a drive to follow their passion and dreams.

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WORDS TO LIVE BY: "There is a light that overcomes the dark-

and advice from fellow esthetician/spa owners, teachers,

ness, there is no darkness that can overcome the light." (John 1:5)

everyone at Women's Economic Ventures and the ladies in

MENTOR: My mother. By example, she was an amazing role

my weekly Mastermind group. Without everyone's collec-

model as a wife, mother and successful working woman. She also had tremendous vision, faith, passion, compassion, intelligence, foresight and boundless love, energy and creativity.

MOST IMPORTANT LESSON: Our reality begins with our thought.

tive help, I'd be lost.

MOST IMPORTANT LESSON: Focus your energy on what

you're good at. If you don't do something well, hire someone who can and let them handle it.

MOST REWARDING ACCOMPLISHMENT: Professionally, two

MOST REWARDING ACCOMPLISHMENT: Hiring my first

work goals stand out of equal importance: The feeling of joy

employee (to keep up with client demand) after less than

when I viewed the rough cut of a movie I co-produced/wrote,

a year of moving into my new, larger location. I'm proud to

"The Lost Valentine," starring Betty White and Jennifer Love. The

know that I am helping to create steady, well-paying jobs

film became an award-winning Hallmark Hall of Fame classic

here in our community.

and part of CBS's "Crown Collection." In March 2016, I secured a publishing contract for my first novel, Lady in the Window.

ADVICE FOR WOMEN: You can have a productive, balanced

and happy work and personal life as long as you have organization and a good support network.

ADVICE FOR WOMEN: Don't be afraid to make changes.

Think about what you want to accomplish, then figure out the steps required to get there. Once you have a solid plan, go for it!

FUTURE GOALS: Open another location and expand my

FUTURE GOALS: Personally, continuing to enjoy a full life with my

treatment menu to include body treatments (scrubs, wraps,

husband and family, and professionally, reporting for "Sustainable

etc.) and employ more estheticians and body technicians/

Ventura News" (VCStar.com), hosting "SimplyDeliciousLiving.

massage therapists.

com" (PBS-TV) and furthering my writing passion by penning more screenplays, novels and cookbooks.

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Peggy Waters Resident since 2011

As a dancer, Peggy has spent a lifetime taking graceful steps. So her move to University Village comes as no surprise. From the beautiful cliff views and the friendly residents to the independent lifestyle and proximity to Cal Lutheran University, Peggy has found everything she was looking for, and more. For the same cost of homeownership, she feels like she’s given up nothing and gained so much. And that puts a spring in her step.

Hear more from Peggy at UVTO.com/testimonial.

Or call 1-866-996-1462.

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President & Chief Empowerment Officer FOOD Share — Ventura County’s regional food bank

WORDS TO LIVE BY: "There is more to life than increasing its

speed." -Mahatma Ghandi

WORDS TO LIVE BY: Decide what matters most to you

and proceed accordingly with focus and purpose.

MENTOR: My late mother. After I got engaged, she handed

MENTOR: Mel Livingston, past chair at FOOD Share. She was

me a check and said, "You can use it however you want: for

my mirror and light. Melissa led with clarity and empowered

a wedding, as a down payment or for a fabulous trip." After a

us all by ensuring we had access to the resources and sup-

slight pause, she added, "If it was me, I'd choose the trip." She

port which enabled us to meet our mission in the most efficient,

modeled the joy of traveling for me.

effective manner possible.

MOST IMPORTANT LESSON: It's okay to ask for help.

MOST REWARDING ACCOMPLISHMENT: "Completing the list"

by hiking to the top of all 276 peaks over 5,000 feet on the Sierra Club Hundred Peaks Section list.

ADVICE FOR WOMEN: Always maintain your female friend-

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Bonnie Atmore, President & Chief Empowerment Officer, FOOD Share –Ventura County’s regional food bank

MOST IMPORTANT LESSON: You can have everything you

want in life, you just can’t have it all at once.

MOST REWARDING ACCOMPLISHMENT: Falling asleep in my

husband’s arms knowing what I did, said or supported ensured that someone’s tomorrow was just a little more bright, light and possible.

ships, no matter how busy your life becomes. They will keep

ADVICE FOR WOMEN: "Take your sister along!” Know

you laughing and sustain you when life gets rough. This was

the power of picking up the mirror and shining a light, and saying

something else I learned from my mother. She kept in contact

to her, “Do you know how capable you are? Whatever your heart

with favorite friends from kindergarten, nursing school and vol-

holds near and dear is possible." Share your intentions, you’ll be

unteer organizations. When my father died, they were all there

amazed and grateful to see how many people want to help you

to support her, either in person, or by phone or email. It was

get to your "there." It becomes contagious and before you know

beautiful to see.

it, we all get to our "there" following this enriching path.

FUTURE GOALS: Professionally: I have a plan to create six

FUTURE GOALS: Continue to decide what matters most

online mini-courses on the topics I see my clients struggling

and proceed accordingly with focus and purpose. “Where

with in their businesses. Personally: I'd like to have hiked in

your pleasure is, there is your treasure; where your treasure

every National Park. And my life list won't be complete until I

is, there is your heart; where your heart is, there is your hap-

have seen the Northern Lights!

piness.” -St. Augustine

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GREATER CONEJO VALLEY CHAMBER OF COMMERCE WOMAN OF THE YEAR

Greater Conejo Valley Chamber of Commerce Woman of the Year Marilyn J. Hogan, Vice Chairperson, Hogan Family Foundation, Inc. and Secretary, Vice Chairperson of the Board of Directors, Pleasant Travel Service

MARILYN J. HOGAN Vice Chairperson, Hogan Family Foundation, Inc. and Secretary, Vice Chairperson of the Board of Directors, Pleasant Travel Service Lynn Hogan co-founded Pleasant Hawaiian Holidays with her husband Ed Hogan, which they built into a $500 million-a-year travel company and sold in 1998. They also created the Hogan Family Foundation, one of the area’s largest nonprofit organizations that manages numerous philanthropic educational and humanitarian programs throughout the community.

WORDS TO LIVE BY: “Contribution compensation” and “knowledge is power.”

MENTOR: The late William H. Hannon, philanthropist and Southern California real estate developer, who since

1962, provided the Hogans with counsel on their business dealings, guided them in the purchase of their first hotels and became a close friend.

MOST IMPORTANT LESSON: Even in the worst of times, as Winston Churchill said, "Never give in! Never give in!

Never, never, never, never—in nothing great or small, large or petty. Never give in except to convictions of honor and good sense." Early in their careers, someone embezzled from them and nearly cost the Hogans everything. They stayed the course and found ways to move forward.

MOST REWARDING ACCOMPLISHMENT: There are many: Growing their small retail travel business in 1959 into

the largest wholesale travel company in the world serving Hawaii; operating their own airline and, now, chartering several of their luxury aircraft; raising four children, who all still work in their businesses and in the Foundation; having a successful marriage approaching 65 years.

ADVICE FOR WOMEN: Be persistent. Take calculated risks. Think out your strategies in business and life. Always

have a “safety net” or fallback position.

FUTURE GOALS: Take good care of our health and mentor our third generation grandchildren to go into business;

perhaps one of the family businesses.

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Inspired By

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t Keller Williams Westlake Village, a team of women stands out from the crowd for many reasons. The Morton Team International has linked talented individuals who cooperatively work as a team in their business model. Teamwork is defined as the combined action of a group of people, especially when effective and efficient. If a problem arises, “two heads are better than one.”

Working together as a team allows each individual to bring their own talents to the table for the betterment of the group.

Not only does The Morton Team practice teamwork in business, there is also a sense of community by being supportive of shared causes. This team of women also comes together to help achieve the common goal of supporting needs in their community.

Recently, The Morton Team toured Gabriel’s House in Oxnard and provided needed supplies to benefit the women and children it serves. Gabriel’s House is a place of hope that cares for the orphans and widows of Ventura County in their distress.

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future. A warm bed and a safe haven providing emergency shelter, food and clothing give the families a place to call home and help restore their self-esteem, while resources (jobs, education, training, planning and the development of financial and homemaking skills) are available to help them find permanent solutions to end the risk of homelessness.

The Morton Team is proud to support Gabriel's House, as it strengthens the community and empowers the women and children to be healed and live independently. Throughout the year, The Morton Team will provide ongoing support for this important cause by planting a vegetable and flower garden and supporting additional projects as needed. To volunteer, please contact The Morton Team at TheMortonTeam.net.

The Morton Team is thankful for the opportunity to serve our community in the Real Estate industry and by giving back to support those in need.

For more information, contact Janet Morton at 818.307.0026 or visit TheMortonTeam.net.

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Financial Buzz Jeff Paul, EVP Director of Retail and Commercial Banking

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ontecito Bank & Trust (MB&T) opened its doors March 17, 1975, with the mission of making the communities it serves better places to live and work. For over four decades, the talented men and women of the institution have dedicated themselves to both helping their customers with their financial needs and investing in their communities in a variety of ways.

Today, MB&T has grown to include 10 branches throughout Ventura and Santa Barbara counties with over 200 banking associates, making it the largest locally-owned, community bank in the area. Its growth has been spurred through innovation, technology and personalized customer service.

MB&T has continuously invested in ways to make its banking and financial management experience better for its customers. An impressive array of its programs includes business, personal, and nonprofit financing, online and mobile banking, wealth management, investment opportunities and trust and estate planning, but one element was missing from its portfolio of services . . . residential mortgage banking.

As of March 1, 2016, just days before its 41st birthday, MB&T celebrated with the introduction of a new mortgage banking department. The mortgage offering is designed to complement and integrate with the bank’s many other products and services to provide a comprehensive portfolio of financial services under one roof.

“We have assembled a team of seasoned professionals to handle our mortgage business, including loan officers, underwriters and processors," says Jeff Paul, MB&T’s executive vice president and director of retail and commercial banking. "Many of these talented people have 15 and 30 years of experience, so we are able Carol Taylor, VP Residential Mortgage Manager 46

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to launch this business at a dead run. We do it all in-house and our customers are applauding the welcomed addition of these services.”

The locally-based mortgage team can provide loans up to five million dollars on both fixed and adjustable rate mortgages. They can also handle owner-occupied and investment property transactions, home purchase, refinancing and cash outs.

“We see mortgage banking as an integral part of our overall client services designed to meet our customers’ financial needs, whatever they may be and whenever they require them," explains Carol Taylor, MB&T’s vice president residential mortgage manager. "We view this new service as a means of building stronger client relationships that will last far beyond the buying or selling of property.

“We believe we are in a great position in terms of our size, expertise and resources to do it all for our clients. We serve all elements of our communities with a personal touch, whether our client is a first time, entry-level homebuyer or someone ready to move up to an estate-type property,” says Taylor.

“On a regular basis, all business platforms within our company get together to go over our strategic plans and results to ensure we’re on track and meeting our clients’ needs," adds Paul. "Moreover, we look to share expertise and find new ways to integrate our programs to benefit our clients. This has always been our philosophy and we have continued to grow because we understand that we will do well if our customers do well.”

Providing customers with a full range of financial services is only part of what MB&T does and helps define its role as a corporate citizen. The bank is also actively involved in the communities and giving back to make them better places to live and work.

“We are pleased to contribute to strengthening our communities," says Paul. "This is a fundamental part of our mission. Our entire culture is family-like and that sense of caring and values trickles down to our customer base and how we relate to them.”

Montecito Bank & Trust has a long history of philanthropy and community involvement. Its well-known Community Dividends® program has already awarded $13 million to local nonprofits. And MB&T's equally recognized Anniversary Grants® program enables the bank’s associates to nominate and vote for local charities to be granted thousands of dollars every year.

From opening the first checking account to securing an IRA to buying up to a larger home, MB&T is more than capable. The addition of the new mortgage program completes and makes full the circle of services to benefit MB&T's clients at all stages of their lives.

For more information on Montecito Bank & Trust’s new residential mortgage program and any of its many other services, call 805.963.7511 or visit MontecitoBank.com.

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I've lived in the Conejo Valley my entire life and my husband and I have two amazing young boys. I'm happier than ever to be a WundaBar Pilates instructor as part of the Westlake Village team from Day 1!

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past two years I fell so in love with the WundaBar Pilates workout and

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attend Cal Lutheran University. Always active and full of energy, these

undaBar Pilates Studio is now open in Westlake Village, ready to share with clients how great their bodies can feel at their "core." Classes are small with one-on-one guidance and modifications by trained instructors.

"Westlake Village was my number 1 choice location," says Owner/Educator Maryellen Aviano, a 34-year film studio veteran who became so hooked on WundaBar classes in the Valley that she decided to become an instructor and open her own studio.

"I've learned life's puzzle has many pieces and am thrilled how things are fitting together, with many discoveries along the way," says Aviano. "WundaBar training with MarieJose Blom, a world-renowned movement educator, and WundaBar Pilates Founder Amy Jordan is second to none, intense, educational and rewarding, working "from the inside out," she adds. WundaBar's local instructors are dedicated to Westlake Village clientele, many already familiar with one another from school, civic and fitness activities.

Community-minded as well as health-conscious, the WundaBar team is active in local charity events and donates 100% of the proceeds from its $10 introductory classes to the Foundation for Las Virgenes Schools. Men and women age 13 and up are invited to discover what a WundaBar workout is all about and take an introductory class for $10.

"With the Conejo Valley lifestyle being health conscious, active and outgoing, I'm happy to be a part of it and to share an awesome team of WundaBar Pilates educators," says Aviano.

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everyone involved that I decided to train and become a part of it! I am now an instructor at both the Westlake Village and Calabasas locations.

MELODY PIANGA

I have been a traditional Pilates instructor for eight years and became a proud WundaBar educator in 2015. Residing in Lake Sherwood with my husband and 3-year-old son, I feel blessed to live and teach in a community where people value family, friends and a healthy active lifestyle!

BETH GUNDERIA

I have lived internationally and experienced classes as varied as British Military fitness, mat Pilates and Bikram Yoga. Once settled in L.A., I discovered WundaBar Pilates and fell in love with the full body and mind workout as well as an active lifestyle with my husband and two teenagers. I am currently an instructor and studio manager in two locations, including Westlake Village.

ANDREA OATEY

Searching for a great workout that wouldn't damage my body after years of high-impact fitness, I began WundaBar Pilates classes and soon trained to become an instructor for the newly opened Westlake Village studio. I've lived in the area for 18 years and my husband and I have two teens at Agoura Hills High School. I feel very lucky not only to have raised our kids in the Conejo Valley but to be happily sharing this incredible WundaBar Pilates Studio experience with family and friends.

MARISSA PRICE

I believe that strength starts from within: "If your spirit is strong, your body will follow." With many years of various fitness routines and a martial arts background, including a black belt in Hapkido blend, I was ready for a new challenge. As a WundaBar Pilates instructor, I find the mind-body connection that's at the core of every workout to be the most gratifying experience!

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As a member of the WundaBar Pilates educator team since 2012 in Calabasas and now a part of the Westlake Village team, I continue to make sure my clients achieve outstanding results in a fun and educational way.

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MAY 1 THERE’S NO PLACE LIKE HOPE, FAMILY PICNIC AND HOEDOWN SANTA ROSA VALLEY PARK A day of community fellowship, featuring activities and attractions to delight all ages, food trucks, live music, historic reenactments, shaveand-haircuts, surprise musical performances, an old-fashioned PIE AUCTION hosted by Rosemary Allison, magnificent horse performances with meet-and-greets, Annabelle the pink tractor pulled hay wagon, dancing, singing, shopping. Proceeds benefit The Saffyre Sanctuary, Inc., to help destitute and homeless horses. TheHopePicnic.com

MAY 4 19TH ANNUAL TRI-CITIES SENIOR EXPO IN AGOURA HILLS AGOURA HILLS/CALABASAS COMMUNITY CENTER Hosted by the cities of Agoura Hills, Calabasas and Westlake Village, the event offers general education and awareness of products and services that are available to older adults/seniors. Booths and displays will feature different organizations, vendors, senior services, health screenings and demonstrations. FREE Shuttle Service. Call 818.597.7361 or stop by the Agoura Hills Recreation & Event Center at 29900 Ladyface Court. AgouraHillsRec.org

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MAY 5 & 6 MOVING IMAGES: A DANCE CONCERT CAL LUTHERAN UNIVERSITY, PREUS-BRANDT FORUM The dances presented in this concert are the culmination of the students' work in the spring choreography class. Admission is free.

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CAL LUTHERAN UNIVERSITY, UYENO AMPHITHEATER Under the direction of Uziel Colon, student performers in the jazz collective play standards and modern classics. Admission is free.

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MAY 7 FREE COMIC BOOK DAY ARSENAL COMICS AND GAMES: Participating comic book stores around the world give away designated comic books to anyone visiting their stores. FreeComicBookDay.com

MAY 7 MOTHER'S DAY BRUNCH AT REAGAN LIBRARY RONALD REAGAN PRESIDENTIAL LIBRARY Celebrate the mother in your life at the 10th annual Mother’s Day Brunch at the Ronald Reagan Presidential Library! Spoil her with a champagne brunch in this grand setting. Brunch favorites include an extravagant buffet of shrimp cocktail, smoked salmon, assorted cheeses, muffins and fresh fruit. Museum admission included with brunch. ReaganFoundation.com

MAY 10 OPERA SANTA BARBARA AT THOUSAND OAKS LIBRARY THOUSAND OAKS LIBRARY Spend your lunch hour listening to the beautiful sounds of opera and musical theater from students at the Mosher Studio Artist Program from Opera Santa Barbara. Free and open to the public.

MAY 11-15 60TH ANNUAL CONEJO VALLEY DAYS CONEJO CREEK PARK SOUTH Celebrate Conejo Valley's western roots and community spirit. The five-day event features entertainment for kids, teens and the whole family, including carnival rides, games, live music, motocross freestyle exhibitions, outhouse races, home décor pavilion and displays by the Chumash Indian Museum and other historical venues. $10 for adults, $5 for kids 6-12, 5 and under free. ConejoValleyDays.us CONTINUED >

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MAY 28 27TH ANNUAL SIMI VALLEY CAJUN AND BLUES MUSIC FESTIVAL RANCHO SUSANA COMMUNITY PARK Presented by the Rotary Club of Simi Sunrise, the event features Cajun, Creole and Zydeco music by bands from around the county. Authentic cajun and creole food and a large kids area. The stage and dance floor is the largest outside dance floor west of the Mississippi. Also May 29. Proceeds benefit local charities and international projects SimiCajun.org

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Join Rosemary Allison, a founding sponsor of There’s No Place Like Hope Picnic, and her close friend, and Santa Rosa Valley Pie Connoisseur, Mark Burley, as they auction off delicious pies for charity. In addition to the auction there will be pies/desserts available at the accompanying BakeFest.

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Parting Thoughts

Discovering the Woman You Call Mom DEDICATED TO MY MOM WORDS KIM PAGA

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omen have raised the bar in our world. My family’s origin of women were generally very strong and amazing and I am blessed to be a part of their lineage. To know that I am carrying on their tradition of vitality cues the song "I Am Woman, Hear Me Roar!”

As far back as I can think, my grandmother and mom were the powerhouses and mentors in my life. With great sadness, I unexpectedly lost my mom the day before Valentine's Day. My world has definitely been crushed, but I am going to continue celebrating her life.

Monica Helpman: My mom, the woman I looked up to. I truly hope you have and always will have someone you look up to as much as I did. Who are your role models? I say "models" because you can have many—your mom, grandmother, aunts, teachers or any woman who has helped shape you and your life. When you think about who you really are, which amazing woman has helped you realize you are amazing? If you’re not sure, you might want to reflect for a moment about your past and your self-identity. Have you ever done this?

Are you who you think you were meant to be? Is your life where you think it should be? If it's not, I invite you to "take the bull by the horns" and make it your best possible life. Why would you short yourself or give yourself anything else?

There might be a few reasons you are not giving yourself the love that you deserve. One being that you don't love yourself or think you should love yourself. Maybe you don't feel you deserve it or are worthy of it. Well I'm here to remind you that not only do you deserve it, but we all do.

We must honor our own journeys, as well as the women around us.

We need to be each other's cheerleaders to encourage and lift each other up, creating a universal support group. I started a women's support group a few years ago to enhance each of us and the beautiful gifts that we all possess as women and to let women know we are not alone.

My mother was also my inspiration for the support group. When she was raising us, her children, she was very busy, helping out on every committee, like many of us. My mom had a very full life with lots of friends. She volunteered at our school, dinner parties and worked while 58

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still taking great care of her family. On top of all of this, our home was decorated nicely, always clean and in order. It was a happy home.

A place that I enjoyed coming home to and where my friends always wanted to be. My mom welcomed everyone. If it was going to rain, there was always a pot of soup to warm us up. My mom always dressed beautifully. My mom worked in several careers, one being a stylist for the studios like myself, but she always made time for her kids and friends.

After her kids got older, she began to find herself alone more. It got harder to meet friends. My mom told me to start making friends before my kids got too old as it would just get harder and harder to make new connections. She taught me to stand up for myself and to be my own cheerleader.

She was never prejudiced toward anything or anyone, other than thinking her kids were the best. She taught us that if you work hard, you will get rewarded. She taught us to have traditions and regularities. She taught us to spend money on ourselves, because “when you look good, you feel good.”

She taught us to be a team player, and that we are never too old to learn. She taught me to keep filling my mind with great, positive information. My mom taught me about unconditional love as a mother. Of course, we have faced difficult times as a family, but she was a mom that never gave up and was always able to give us another chance.

I hope that you all have someone who you look up to like I did and forever will. For everyone that still has their moms, cherish every moment as you never know when that day will come.

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