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ON THE COVER at home with Jim Edmonds, American former professional baseball center fielder and a broadcaster for Fox Sports Midwest
ARIZONA | CALIFORNIA | COLORADO | CONNECTICUT | FLORIDA | GEORGIA
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his children Sutton, Aspen, Landon and
TENNESSEE | TEXAS | VIRGINIA | WASHINGTON
twins Hart & Hayes.
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INSIDE THE ISSUE DECEMBER 2020
FEATURES 18 At Home With Jim Edmonds Former Cardinals' Great Embraces Next Chapter In Life
24 Private Chefs Full Throttle Flavor With High Octane Fun
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28 Holiday Toy Drives Help Bring Joy to All St. Louis Children
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Lifestyle Letter
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Good Times
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Around Town
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Culinary Creations
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Page Turners
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Healthy Lifestyle
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Women Of Achievement Recipients Include Local Volunteers Ladue resident Debbie Caplin provides transformative connections between humans and her Touch Therapy dogs who've impacted 20,000-plus patients and families during visits to cancer centers and children’s hospitals. Jennifer Hillman, a Clayton resident, is passionate about making a difference in lives of youth and young adults. Debbie and Jennifer were two of 10 volunteers named as 2020 Women of Achievement.
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AROUND TOWN
ANYTHING GRANTS NAME 2020 RECIPIENTS
members of the 2020-2021 Federal Reserve Bank of St. Louis student board of directors. Those stu-
More than $58,000 was granted in the 2020
dents included Josephine Gillette, Clayton High
regional round of Anything Grants funding, which
School; Prateek Gautam, Marquette High; Pooja
supports projects, infrastructure and programs of
Hukeri, Lafayette High; and Andrew Gray, Parkway
local Jewish organizations. Recipient organizations
West High.
included Temple Israel, Temple Emanuel, Hillel at
Students currently are meeting monthly through
Maryville University, B'nai Amoona Congregation
online means to gain a thorough understanding of
and BBYO St. Louis.
the Federal Reserve's role in the U.S. economy and
Most of this year's recipients indicate they will
experience the Reserve's partnership with banks,
use the funds to address impacts of the COVID-19
businesses and communities regarding money sup-
pandemic on their entities and associated constit-
ply and credit; regulating and supervising financial
uents. Each grant is equal to 50 percent of project
institutions; serving as a banking and fiscal agent for
budgets within the various recipients.
the U.S. government; and supplying payments ser-
Anything Grants are awarded by the Staenberg Family Foundation, which is a supporting foundation of the Jewish Federation of St. Louis.
vices to the public through depository institutions. "For the first time, we'll be working with the students virtually,” says Mary Suiter, assistant vice president and economic education officer at the St. Louis Fed. “In addition to learning about the Federal Reserve System and the types of careers available at the Fed, student board members will develop soft skills that will help them prepare for college and careers."
NEW MRH ACTING SUPERINTENDENT DISCUSSES HER NEW ROLE, STRONG COMMUNITY Roxanna
Mechem,
acting
superintendent
of the Maplewood Richmond Heights School District, says she is humbled to be called to lead the school district during the challenges of the COVID19 pandemic.
ST. MARY’S HOSPITAL RECEIVES 2020 BEST MATERNITY DESIGNATION
The MRH story is one of hard work, against incred-
SSM Health St. Mary’s Hospital in Richmond
ible odds, to build a world-class school district. I
Heights was one of fewer than 250 hospitals
know this community values its schools. It has
nationally to receive Newsweek’s prestigious “Best
shown its support over and over again. For that, I
Maternity Hospital” accolade this year; it was the
am truly thankful," says Roxanna.
only hospital in the St. Louis area. “This designation
During the last 10 years as the district's assistant
reflects our commitment to provide a safe, com-
superintendent, she worked on bond issues, tax
passionate and personalized birthing experience,”
levies, curriculum projects, community-building
says Travis Capers, SSM Heath St. Mary’s Hospital
events, school improvement initiatives and task
president. Facilities included in the list include those
forces. "Collaborative voices have shaped the fab-
with low rates of C-section, episiotomy and early
ric of MRH, and we're better for it,” she adds.
elective deliveries, as well as those that follow crucial, best-practice protocols to protect mother and babies.
LOCAL STUDENTS CHOSEN FOR FEDERAL BANK BOARD Twenty high school seniors from across the St. Louis metropolitan area were selected to serve as 10
"The strength of the school district is a direct result of the relationship with the MRH community.
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"COVID-19 has proven to be the greatest challenge schools have faced in my 30-year educational career. MRH staff remain wholly committed to children despite the difficulties. It's a time when all of us are called to serve, in whatever capacity, for the benefit of our children," she says.
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Hank’s also features sugar-free and gluten-free options, along with appetizer size portions. Hank’s is known for their most exquisite, up to six-tier wedding cakes, allowing for family and friends to partake of their incredible cheesecakes, too. They also make fabulous corporate gifts. Hank, and his team of super-talented bakers, have been focusing on creating “the best cheesecakes created this side of heaven” for a very long time now, so order one or more of their fabulous creations by phone, or visit their website at HanksCheesecakes.com, and get ready to experience a little slice of heaven of your very own! Now that you’ve ordered dessert, picked up or had your scrumptious delectables delivered to enjoy before or after the movie, get ready to experience an incredible straight from Broadway musical, directed by Ryan Murphy (American Horror Story, Ratched), and feaFinishing touches on a signature Cheesecake at Hank's Cheesecakes
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THE PROM, Rated PG-13 - 2 hours, 10 minutes - in-select theaters in December and available on Netflix Dec. 11 As Broadway stars Dee Dee Allen (Meryl Streep) and Barry Glickman (James Corden) head back to the stage, it seems their latest expensive show on Broadway is a big ol’ flop, threatening to flatline both of their careers. Meanwhile, in a small town in Indiana, high school student Emma Nolan (Jo Ellen Pellman) is about to experience her first broken heart. As head of the PTA (Kerry Washington) has decided to ban Emma from attending her prom, as she isn’t allowing her to attend with her girlfriend Alyssa (Arianna DeBose), if she can help it. But when Dee Dee and Barry get wind of the predicament Emma’s in, they decide this is the perfect cause to get behind, as it could help to resurrect both of their careers. So they hit the road with fellow stage actors, Angie (Nicole Kidman) and Trent (Andrew Rannells) in tow, as they both also need a little lift for their careers, too. But when all this flagrant, self-absorbed activism begins to backfire, they find themselves still wanting to rally behind Emma, to give her the night she truly deserves, in celebrating who she really is. THE PROM also stars Tracey Ullman, Kevin Chamberlin, Mary Kay Place, Nico Greetham Logan Riley, Nathaniel J. Potvin and Sofia Deler. CityLifestyle.com/Clayton
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For me, it’s like reconnecting with a long-lost friend. For this Christmas, I’m revisiting a trilogy of inspirational stories penned by New York Times best-selling author, Richard Paul Evans, who the Times references as “the king of Christmas fiction.” I interviewed the former advertising executive turned writer years ago for television when he made a stop in St. Louis to promote his first book, The Author, Richard Paul Evans
Christmas Box. Since that first meeting, Richard has written more than 40 novels. His latest, The Noel Letters was released in October. But it’s his self-published, debut book that changed his life forever, selling millions of copies. It’s been made into a TV movie, along with six other novels. Richard explains: “When I wrote The Christmas Box, I never intended to publish the story—it was simply an expression of love for my (then) two young daughters. Though I often told them I loved them, I didn’t believe they could really understand the depth of those feelings until they had experienced the joy of rearing their own children. I hoped that at some future time they could read this book and know of their father’s love.” The Christmas Box is a heartwarming story of parental love, healing and Christmas and told in the first person of the main character, Richard. The young father, his wife, Keri, and their 4-yearold daughter, Jenna, are hired as caretakers and are welcomed into the Victorian home of Mary Parkins, a lonely, elderly widow. As the relationship between Mary and the family develops, we learn that Mary’s past sorrows are compelling her to share an important message with Richard. But does it come too late? The inspiration for The Christmas Box continues with Timepiece, followed by The Letter.
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Victoria's Book Club
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AND DANCING IS ONE OF THEM. The pre-pandemic slogan of one Chesterfield-based dance studio was: “Expand. Explore. Believe. There Are No Limits.”
“Because we’re offering these classes for free, we do ask participants to consider donating to keep BDASL alive and active for the post-COVID era when we can all get back together in-person,” says Patty Weisensee.
Leaning further into that inspiration, owner and instructor Kim
Convergence DBC at 8044 Manchester Road in
Revie Buchheit decided how to creatively work within new
Brentwood offers dance classes for adults of all levels. Prior to
limitations prompted by COVID-19 at her Miss Kim’s Dance
this year’s pandemic, they hosted classes in social ballroom,
Class studio at 14344 South Outer 40 Road.
salsa/Latin dancing, Argentine Tango, swing, competition
When public safety parameters were re-established, Miss
preparation and therapy dancing for movement disorders.
Kim’s classes resumed but were limited to 25%, then more
Convergence owner Carter Maier says while some of
recently 50%, occupancy so they could divide groups in
their group lessons have been temporarily suspended, his
half and flip-flop between in-studio and via Zoom. “We also
wife, Roxanne, has creatively updated certain types of dances
took extra COVID-19 precautions, like temperature checks
so participants do not change dance partners. This step
and mandating masks while going in and out of the studio,”
enables them to provide in-person, weekly group lessons for
says the instructor of 26 years who received her bachelor’s
tango and salsa classes for a maximum of 10, masked students.
degree in dance from Webster University. Kim says another adjustment was hosting an outdoors dance recital in a parking lot during June. Dial 314.542.0608 for class inquiries; they also host adult classes for ballet, tap and hip hop.
They also offer online private lessons and scheduled in-person classes. “We had one couple who learned a whole new dance, the West Coast Swing, completely online,” adds Carter. Email dance@convergencedbc.com or call 314.324.0887 for schedule options.
Formed in 2008, Ballroom Dance Academy of St. Louis
At St. Louis-based Consuming Kinetics Dance Company,
is a 501(c)3 non-profit whose supporters focus on sharing the
located at 465 North Taylor Ave., the motto is: “It’s never too
joy of ballroom dancing. Under typical times, they promote
late or too early to learn how to dance.”
partner or ballroom style dancing through lessons, per-
CKDC representatives claim to be the only school in the
formances and socials. During this pandemic year, they’ve
greater St. Louis area that offers a full schedule of adult dance
altered their teaching medium by providing virtual lessons
classes, including hip hop, modern, contemporary, jazz, tap
on Thursday evenings via Zoom. For an updated schedule for
and bodywork.
December, visit online BallroomDanceSTL.org or email ballroomdancestl@gmail.com.
Classes for adults run continuously, and there are no registration fees to join. In-person class participants must adhere
The links for joining BDASL classes are the same every
to the company’s mandatory, precautionary steps prompted
week: Meeting ID: 155 305 283; password: BDASL; Link for
by COVID-19 concerns, and classes have limited capacities.
6-6:45 p.m. classes: Zoom.us/j/155305283; Link for 7-7:45
Private lessons, done via in-person or virtual, and parties also
p.m. classes: Zoom.us/j/266683225.
can be booked by emailing info@ckdc.org. Online CKDC classes, such as Music Video Moves, are available through Patreon, ranging from $25 to $100 monthly membership fees: CKDC.org.
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Photo courtesy of Miss Kim's Dance Class studio.
Photo courtesy of Consuming Kinetics Dance Company.
Photo courtesy of Miss Kim's Dance Class studio.
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AT HOME WITH JIM EDMONDS FORMER CARDINALS’ GREAT EMBRACES NEXT CHAPTER IN LIFE
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FORMER CARDINALS CENTER FIELDER, JIM EDMONDS,
“Right now, I’m just living for my family. I have seven great kids,
HAS WORN SEVERAL HATS THROUGHOUT HIS 17-YEAR
the two oldest are in their late twenties and living in California. Then
CAREER IN THE BIG LEAGUES. The 50-year-old former pro
I have five younger kids, all here in St. Louis,” he says.
baseball player, known by some as one of best center fielders
St. Louis and the Redbirds always held a special place in his heart,
of his generation, celebrated many great moments in his Major
so when St. Louis property that he’d been keeping an eye on came
League Baseball career. Besides being a Silver Slugger Award
up for sale, he snatched it up and began building his dream home.
winner and a Gold Glove Award winner, in 2006, Jim helped the
“I got lucky enough to buy 3 acres, so I moved in and I'm still
St. Louis Cardinals win their first World Series title since 1982.
trying to finish the house,“ he says. “I've been here now off and on for
But, as the saying goes, all good things must come to an end.
almost 21 years and always kept a home here. My kids are here going
“I think sometimes when you get a little older, you just have to let it go. I had a long career and you know you can't play forever. I’m pretty satisfied with the way my career ended,” says Jim.
to school, and I'm now anchored down completely.” The home, located in Frontenac, is approximately 20,000 square feet with plenty of room for all the kids. There are seven bedrooms,
In 2013, he began a new career when Fox Sports Midwest
and an apartment above the garage for when his parents come into
hired him as an analyst on their St. Louis Cardinals broadcast-
town. And, to say “it is kid friendly” would be an understatement.
ing crew. He is now in his fifth year of doing both the pregame
There’s a batting cage, bowling alley, pool, work out gym, and a
and the postgame, and broadcasting the games.
basketball court in the garage so the kids can continue playing in
“It was a little hard to get used to, but I'm really starting to enjoy it a lot more each time I do it. I also just really enjoy being
the winter. Besides putting down permanent roots and finishing his dream home, Jim also has a new love in his life.
in the organization. I was assistant to the president the last two
“I'm in a really good place right now. Kortnie is an amazing woman.
years and liked that because it gave me access to the players to
We’re really good together and the kids love her. She is so great with
help with coaching,” Jim explains.
them, and is doing an amazing job. I give her a lot of credit for how
Now the man affectionately known by Cardinals fans as,
she's handling it," says Jim.
"Jimmy Baseball" and "Jimmy Ballgame," is entering a new
Kortnie O'Connor is a 35-year-old model and real estate agent from
chapter in his life and he’s especially looking forward to the new
Los Angeles. She and Jim met in the past but had not kept in touch.
hat he’ll be wearing, as a great St. Louis father, and new St.
After his separation, they ran into each other. He asked her to be his
Louis homeowner.
date for Albert Pujol’s birthday party and she accepted.
CONTINUED >
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AT HOME WITH JIM EDMONDS (CONTINUED)
“Right now, I’m just living for my family. I have seven great kids, the two oldest are in their late twenties and living in California. Then I have five younger kids, all here in St. Louis.” “She’s definitely changed me for the better, as far as my eating habits and the way I address certain things. It's obviously early in the dating phase at 9 or 10 months, but she’s probably the best thing that’s ever happened to me. She lets me be myself and that’s really important to me,” he adds. In March of this year, Jim unfortunately found out he’d contracted COVID-19. ”It wasn't bad at first, then all of a sudden I started feeling terrible. I finally went to the ER and they told me I was positive and had pneumonia. I went home and just rode it out until it slowly went away. A few of us got it, but thank God not the little ones. No one else had the pneumonia, but everyone had the sweats and the loss of taste and some of the other symptoms,” Jim explains. The Edmonds' home is a joyous place filled with love and laughter. Jim's oldest daughter is pregnant, and he soon will become a grandfather for the first time. “We had an amusing mishap when my daughter and Kortnie planned to shoot the announcement of the baby’s gender out of a cannon. My second daughter had the cannon backwards so it shot out that she was having a boy when it’s really a girl. It was pretty funny,” Jim chuckles. The home is decorated exquisitely for the holidays, as every one of his homes have always been. “I’ve always wanted to really decorate because I grew up with not a whole lot. My house was never decorated, never very festive as a kid, so I wanted to make sure that I went a little bit overboard with it from time to time,” he says. Elegant Events by MJ has turned the Edmonds' home into a magical holiday vision as they have done with his other homes every year. “They’re incredible. They’ve always done an amazing job. I just love it, and my kids love it. It really brings the holidays back home, and that's how I wanted it to be for my kids because I didn't have it for myself," Jim confides. Jim teases about having enough kids to almost create his own baseball team. He’s not there yet, but all in all, this Major Leaguer seems to have everything else for which he’s looking.“I've been very blessed. I have amazing friends and children and an amazing lifestyle that I’ve worked hard for, and I'm just going to enjoy it and be thankful for what I have.” For more decorating info, visit ElegantEventsByMJ.com 20
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FULL THROTTLE FLAVOR WITH HIGH OCTANE FUN
PRIVATE CHEFS REID WEBSTER AND RYAN
dishes cooked with fire and high heat. Our style
HANSEN ANCHOR MEALS, COCKTAIL PARTIES
is casual and rustic. It’s a vibe, and we keep it cool
AND OTHER EVENTS THAT REVOLVE AROUND
and calm,” says Reid.
GREAT CONVERSATION AND GREAT FOOD. And,
“We’re health focused and flavor driven,” adds Ryan.
by ‘anchor,’ it means they shop, chop, pack, clean and
Reid says he’s been comfortable with food for
host these gatherings -- absorbing all the fuss so
as long as he can remember. He first got inter-
their clients can lean into the having fun part.
ested in food preparation from being with his
They provide event catering, private at-home
father, a classically trained chef. When he was
meals, meal preparation, restaurant/menu con-
18 years old, he completed an apprenticeship
sulting, as well as fitness and nutrition counseling.
with his uncle, a pastry chef from Central Italy.
They also offer take-home meal sets for those who’d
His other culinary experiences were gathered
prefer to do the final cooking themselves.
by working at Seattle and Chicago high-end and
These two young chefs met in culinary school, and now operate together a blossoming service they call Full Tank, Empty Stomach.
tasting-only menu restaurants. “My passion is high heat, wood fired oven cooking, because that technique requires finesse and
“We love food, motorcycles and good com-
basically forming a working relationship with the
pany. Riding from gig to gig, we create memorable
oven to cover the natural ebbs and flows of the
flavors, focusing on primitive, vegetable-centric
process,” reveals Reid.
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IT’S TIME TO Design Your Life with Thompson Price.
For those seeking a full fare experience in an intimate setting, these two chefs will prepare a three- to five-course meal at their downtown AirBnB with guests staying there afterward. The space -- originally a Ford Model-T dealership built in 1905 -- can accommodate up to six guests. It has three bedrooms and two bathrooms. Ryan, who previously owned and operated the lifestyle fitness center Prymal, now brings his business and a degree in entrepreneurship from Fordham University in the Bronx to Full Tank, Empty Stomach endeavors. He says he enjoys coaching and guiding clients to better lifestyles using food as the foundation for their goals. Regarding safety precautions in the age of the COVID-19 pandemic, Ryan says they get the rental loft professionally cleaned after each guest stay. He says they also wipe down surfaces with bleach, and they take all their own coolers and equipment to any on-site, private meal preparation appointments. Both Ryan and Reid get tested for the coronavirus, and they wear gloves and masks during their caterings, to pro-
Happy Holidays from All of Us at Thom omppson P rice
vide extra peace of mind to clients. “Our goal is to limit contact and stay as self-contained as possible,” explains Reid. They first work with clients to identify their food preferences, particularly their likes and dislikes or allergies. They offer three sample menus based on different price ranges. “But, we love it when clients give us full creative range to decide the menus within whatever budget they give us. I like to balance what people like with seasonal food ingredients, as well as what looks best at the grocery stores when we go shopping for each meal,” says Reid, who is known for his scrumptious squash dishes. With so many exciting menu options to explore, this duo says they hope to find their true groove and signature food style during 2021. They also plan to provide cooking videos and online cooking demonstrations, in addition to collaborating with nutritionists and sommeliers to keep identifying fresh combinations. FullTankEmptyStomach.com Airbnb Listing: 3212 Locust St., St. Louis MO 63103,
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GIVING BACK
H O L I D AY TOY DRIVES
HELP BRING JOY TO ALL ST. LOUIS CHILDREN
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ARTICLE JULIE BROWN PATTON
CLEARLY, THE 2020 HOLIDAY SEASON USHERS IN FINANCIAL CHALLENGES FOR MANY FAMILIES WHO DESPERATELY WANT TO PROVIDE PRESENTS TO THEIR CHILDREN. Following are entities and ways to put smiles on more children’s faces by donating toys or funding to make positive differences. [Due to fluctuating pandemic conditions, double-check with the organizing groups for updates regarding collection points.] Mission St. Louis conducts an annual program entitled Affordable Christmas. The initiative allows under-resourced families to shop for children’s gifts at drastically reduced prices. This year’s shopping will be held via their virtual store during Dec. 10-12. They are hoping to serve 1,000 children from 300 local families. Organizers encourage employer and church groups to host toy drives. For questions, contact rachel@missionstl.org. Mission STL Toy Drop Off Locations: + Destiny Church of St. Louis, 1809 Des Peres Road, St. Louis, 63131 + Moneta Group Investment Advisors, 100 S. Brentwood Blvd., St. Louis, 63105 + Gardaworld, 1699 S. Hanley Road, Ste. 350, St. Louis, 63144 + Stanford Dental, 663 Big Bend Blvd., Manchester, 63021 + Villa Duchesne and Oak Hill School, 801 S. Spoede Road, Frontenac, 63131 + 1904Labs, 20 S. Sarah St., St. Louis, 63108 + Purina, 1205 S. 6th St., St. Louis, 63104 + Cortex Innovation Community, 20 S. Sarah St., St. Louis, 63108 + Mitch STL Salon, 4301 Arco Ave., St. Louis, 63110 + Big River Running Company, (three locations) 5352 Devonshire Ave., St. Louis, 63109; 606 North and South Road, University City, 63130; 13969 Manchester Road, Manchester, 63011 + The Journey Tower Grove, 2833 S Kingshighway Blvd., St. Louis, 63139 The annual Marine Toys For Tots program has delivered hope to children since 1947. For St. Louis County, Marines of 3d Battalion 23d Marines Regiment will host this year’s toy drive. Toys for Tots Coordinator Sgt. Andrew Burdsal expresses gratitude for all of the people in the community that make this program so successful. “You are all truly the beacon of hope for families in need, and with your help, the children of this region are able to experience the joy of Christmas,” he says. During 2019, this Toys For Tots program distributed 81,105 toys to support 41,726 children. They break age groups for donations accordingly: 1-2; 3-5; 6-7; 8-10; 11-12. Final pickups are slated for Dec. 12.
served by 13 AIDS Service Organizations in both St. Louis and Southern Illinois. For a list of their donation needs, visit ProjectArk.wustl.edu/Support-Us/Annual-Toy-Drive. Santa’s Helpers, Inc., 1401 Pierce Ave., is a 100% vol-
To receive toys, individual families are required to go through nonprofit
unteer-based nonprofit organization serving St. Louis’s
organizations, such as social service agencies, department of family ser-
under-resourced and seriously ill children and their families
vices, churches, The Salvation Army, local food pantries, community ser-
since 1968. Santa’s Helpers touches the lives of 2,200-plus
vice centers, United Way and other local philanthropic organizations.
children and their families every holiday season by pur-
For questions, email bridgeton.mo@toysfortots.org, or call 650.201.0261 or 650.537.2313.
chasing, wrapping and delivering gifts for Christmas and Hanukkah to deserving children whose names are pro-
Help make the holidays special for a child in need through Washington
vided by local schools and social service agencies. Phone
University’s Project ARK’s Toy Drive — serving 800 to 1,000 children each
314.647.1800 or go online at SantasHelpersSTL.com
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DECEMBER
LIFESTYLE CALENDAR
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However, for pandemic safety reasons,
GINGERBREAD HOUSE CREATION
PUBLIC TOUR: HUMAN FORMS
from home. To purchase subscrip-
this event also will be live streamed so
those
interested
can
watch
ChamberChorus.org/
Zoom: Online Via Kemper Art Museum
tions, visit
in
Join a live, interactive tour on Zoom
Subscriptions or call 636.458.4343.
celebration of Gingerbread House
with student educators featuring a
Day! Participants will construct and
Kemper Art Museum collection or
take home their own Gingerbread
special exhibition, showing images of
House. Preregistration and parent
the artworks through screen sharing
participation
Brentwood Community Center
Create
Gingerbread
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required;
price
and answering participant questions.
$24/nonresident
$27)
Nina Huang considers several works
is for families of five or less. This
from a collection in which the human
Grab a friend and make your very
program is for kids of all ages.
form plays a prominent role. This
own designed cookies. Each partici-
Email zfiebig@brentwoodmo.org or
hour-long tour is free, but registration
pant will create, bake and take home
call 314.963.8689.
is required at KemperArtMuseum.
a batch of cookies just in time for the
wustl.edu/events/tours/14158.
holiday season. Space is limited. Call
(resident
is
houses
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IPHF VIRTUAL WORKSHOP: PHOTOSHOP II
International Photography Hall of
Brentwood Community Center
314.963.8689 to register in advance.
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This program is for youths aged 6-12
STUFF N'FLUFF
30
Brentwood Community Center
years old.
Fame and Museum
Kids ages 3-8 years old can make
In this Advanced Photoshop class
and stuff their own toy animal. Space
with Michael Swoboda, he'll demon-
is limited. Register in advance by call-
strate various creative and profes-
ing 314.963.8689. This program ends
Have young ones who struggle to
sional methodologies for editing
at 7 p.m. Cost for resident is $24 each
stay up until midnight on New Year’s
images in Photoshop. Step-by-step
and $27 for nonresidents.
Eve? Come to a special daytime cel-
occur at the end of the talk where participants can share their images to gain insights and potential solutions for expressive image improvements. Fee is $25 to $35.
Brentwood Community Center
ebration to play games, make crafts
lessons will be presented and a question and answer session will
TODDLER NEW YEAR'S EVE
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and have a countdown until the clock
CARNIVAL EXTRAVAGANZA
required for children only. Space
strikes 12. Bring the whole family for this fun-filled event. Registration
Brentwood Community Center
is limited. Call 314.963.8689 to
Have the whole family join the sec-
register in advance; resident: $7
ond annual Carnival Extravaganza.
Nonresident: $10.
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Play traditional carnival games, com-
SKATE WITH SANTA
is resident $8 each and nonresident
plete crafts and have the opportunity to win prizes. Space is limited. Cost
Brentwood Community Center
is $10 each. Register in advance by
Enjoy a special opportunity to
calling 314.963.8689.
take to the ice with Santa Claus. Bring a camera to capture these memories. This event concludes at 6:15 p.m. Contact 314.963.8689 for more details.
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PARTING THOUGHTS
ARTICLE KARA SAVIO
Think Heart H e a lt h F o r H o l i d ays MODERATION AND PREVENTION IS IMPORTANT Dr. Paul Larsen
Dr. Andrew Kirchura
WITH HOLIDAYS RIGHT AROUND THE CORNER, MANY ALREADY
Dr. Andrew Kichura is a cardiovascular disease specialist with more
ARE STRESSING ABOUT GAINING EXTRA HOLIDAY POUNDS.
than 8 years of experience in cardiovascular disease, as a hospitalist,
Extra weight can make clothes fit tighter, and it is detrimental to health.
and in internal medicine. He and his wife are both from St. Louis, and
Two SSM Health St. Mary’s Hospital cardiologists discuss the causes
just welcomed their first child.
and preventative measures associated with heart health. IS HEART DISEASE PREVENTABLE? Dr. Paul Larsen is an interventional cardiologist with a certification in
Not all cases of heart disease can be prevented, but a significant
nuclear cardiology. He and his wife are raising their family in St. Louis.
amount of it can be prevented, delayed or managed effectively to prevent it from getting worse.
IS HEART DISEASE THE LEADING CAUSE OF DEATH IN THE U.S.?
Heart disease is the leading cause of death for most racial and
ISN’T IT ESPECIALLY DANGEROUS FOR
ethnic groups, and is tied to many health risks, including high
SOMEONE WITH HEART ISSUES TO GET COVID-19?
blood pressure, diabetes, high cholesterol, smoking and a number
Patients with heart disease are at increased risk of having com-
of other factors.
plications from COVID-19, however, they are not at increased risk of becoming infected.
WHAT CARDIOVASCULAR DISEASES DO YOU TREAT? We treat a variety of cardiovascular diseases at SSM Health St.
ANY SUGGESTIONS TO STAY HEART HEALTHY
Mary’s Hospital, ranging from peripheral artery disease, heart artery
DURING THE HOLIDAYS?
disease, heart failure, heart rhythm problems and heart valve issues.
Moderation is key. Do your best to maintain a healthy diet by minimizing extra salt, over-eating or over-drinking. It’s also important to
WHAT MEDICAL TESTS ARE PERFORMED FOR A CARDIOVAS-
try and find a way to remain physically active.
CULAR CONDITION? There are a number of different tests ranging from a simple electrocar-
WHY CHOOSE A CAREER IN CARDIOLOGY?
diogram, to a heart ultrasound, all the way to a heart catheterization or
One of the main drivers for me to pursue a career in cardiology was
cardiac magnetic resonance imaging (MRI) test, all offered at St. Mary’s.
the prevalence of heart disease -- I wanted to contribute to understanding why. I find this work to be very rewarding.
WHAT ABOUT YOUR JOB DO YOU FIND MOST REWARDING? When I’m able to open a blocked artery in the heart or leg, or plug
To learn more, or to make an appointment with Dr. Larsen or Dr. Kich-
a hole in the heart, it can have a big difference in a patient’s symp-
ura, call 314.645.6450 or visit SSMHealth.com/StMarysHeart. SSM
toms. Hearing how much better they feel is a really rewarding part
Health Heart & Vascular Care-St. Mary’s Hospital is located at 1027
of this profession.
Bellevue Ave., Suite 200, in St. Louis.
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