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NOVEMBER 2020 PUBLISHER

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you, and we are grateful that we get to create this magazine every month and connect with you and your family. Thank you for sharing your stories and for reading ours. Thank you for supporting the local businesses in our community, as without them, this magazine wouldn’t be possible. Thank you for the community service you do and for every time you recycle something or play a small part in keeping our city clean and thriving. We are so proud of where we live, and we know it wouldn’t be the same without each and every one of you. In this issue, we offer you the opportunity to reflect with us and spend some time being grateful for the people we have around us. Sure, planning a Thanksgiving dinner and traveling to see family can be stressful, and don’t worry, we’re here to help with some of the details. But don’t forget to look at each person around your table and remember how they have made a difference in your life. We wouldn’t be here without each other. From our home to yours, Happy Thanksgiving Chesterfield,

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INSIDE THE ISSUE NOVEMBER 2020

FEATURES 22 Authentic Win Chesterfield Couple Celebrates Kentucky Derby 2020 Victory Of Their Racehorse

32 The Kaiser Law Firm, P.C. Celebrates 30 years of service to their clients, and the community of Chesterfield

36 Doors Of Hope Opening Options, Aspirations For Cancer Patients And Their Families

22 36

40 Sounds Of St. Louis TPA Hearing Trust Day Goes Virtual

32 DEPARTMENTS

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Good Times

Around Town

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22 Locally Owned 26 Page Turners 28 Food & Wine 32 Giving Back 36 Inspired By 40 Healthy Lifestyle 44 DIY 46 Lifestyle Calendar 50 Parting Thoughts

GOOD TIMES

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MARQUETTE HIGH SCHOOL'S STATE TEACHER OF YEAR SEMIFINALIST Dr. Cathy Farrar, a Marquette High science teacher and the Rockwood School District Teacher of the Year, was named one of 15 semifinalists for Missouri State Teacher of the Year by the Department of Elementary and Secondary Education. Cathy is one of seven high school teach-

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ARTICLE CYNTHIA FLECK AND JULIE BROWN PATTON

WHAT STARTED AS A NOVEL WEDDING

scrambled this year’s Triple Crown schedule,

ANNIVERSARY GIFT OF A CERTAIN BAY

moving the Kentucky Derby from May 2.

Randall chuckles, “With the markets being uncertain, I thought owning a race-

COLT TO DR. CYNTHIA FLECK FROM HER

In thoroughbred racing, horses usually

HUSBAND, RANDALL BARKER, ENDED IN

mature to race after being trained at approx-

A GENUINE KENTUCKY DERBY 2020 WIN

imately age 3. Authentic, who descends

Cynthia says Authentic’s sire is the

ON SEPT. 5 IN LOUISVILLE.

from the bloodlines of the Storm Cat branch

renowned stud Into Mischief (Spendthrift

racehorse

shaped by the Hall of Fame trainer Bob Baffert,

Farms; B. Wayne Hughes), trained by one

Authentic took the lead about 1/4 mile into

was foaled May 5, 2017. Cynthia says those

of the best, Richard Mandela), and Dam

this year’s race and stayed there for a com-

four extra months after the race delay gave

Flawless (Peter Blum Thoroughbreds, LLC,

manding win over his Triple Crown-seeking

Bob and Authentic time to prepare to not just

trainer William I. Mott).

competitor. For this Chesterfield couple who

participate, but to actually be a contender.

American

Thoroughbred

owns a sizable share of this formidable race-

“Authentic was the second best gift I

horse, it couldn’t have been a more thrilling

ever received besides my husband’s love,”

highlight after the COVID-19 pandemic

Cynthia reflects.

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horse would be a decent investment. If not, it will be a heck of a lot of fun!”

“Our boy, Authentic also shows up in the great Secretariat’s fifth generation,” she proudly proclaims.

AUTHENTIC WIN CHESTERFIELD COUPLE CELEBRATES KENTUCKY DERBY 2020 VICTORY OF THEIR RACEHORSE

DREAMS What are the odds of a couple who grew up thousands of miles from one another actually meeting each other, falling in love, getting married and continuing their family tradition of horse racing? Do dreams really come true? In this case, the answer is a resounding “YES!” Timing is everything, and for this husband and wife team, their ambitious vision was destined to become blissful reality.

Authentic launched his first start on Nov. 9,

But before that, Cynthia says the connec-

In the past 145 Kentucky Derbys, she says

2019, as a 2-year-old in a maiden special weight

tions of all 18 Kentucky Derby starters get

owners, trainers, exercise riders, barn work-

race at Del Mar Racetrack in California. His races

their moment to revel in racing glory as they

ers and friends basked in the cheers of nearly

prior to his Kentucky Derby victory include:

complete the Kentucky Derby walkover.

160,000 screaming and clapping fans. “Hope

+ Haskell Stakes at Monmouth Park on

“There’s a quiet before the storm as each

is alive for everyone for their Derby dreams

Kentucky Derby runner makes his way from

coming true. The walkover ends, and soon

+ Runhappy Derby Day at Santa Anita

the barn to the gap where he’ll circle until all

one will wear The Roses. This year’s Derby,

Park on June 6, where he was 2nd place (he

starters have gathered to make the walk to

there were no spectators, only a handful of

had a bad start).

the paddock. In past years, it becomes more

owners and trainers. But the horses didn’t

chaotic as more horses and their connec-

know any differently,” she adds.

July 18, where he won.

+ San Filipe Stakes in California on March 7; where he placed first.

tions arrive at the gap,” she says. “The call is

Authentic’s next races were the Preakness

Months of preparation culminate in 2 min-

made for horses to move and the fun begins

Stakes Pimlico in Baltimore, Maryland, on

utes of racing and the connections of only

as everyone makes the quarter mile to the

Oct. 3, where he placed second, followed by

one horse will get Kentucky Derby glory.

paddock tunnel.”

the Breeder’s Cup in Lexington, Kentucky, on Nov. 6-7. Neither race included live fans. CONTINUED >

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LOCALLY OWNED (CONTINUED)

AUTHENTIC’S NEXT RACES WERE THE PREAKNESS STAKES PIMLICO IN BALTIMORE, MARYLAND, ON OCT. 3, WHERE HE PLACED SECOND, FOLLOWED BY THE BREEDER’S CUP IN LEXINGTON, KENTUCKY, ON NOV. 6-7. NEITHER RACE INCLUDED LIVE FANS.

CYNTHIA AND RANDALL’S BACK STORY

be closer to horses and racetracks, but due to blooming

Horse racing is not new to either one of these professionals.

careers, graduate and professional school, and a sparsity

Growing up in Calgary Alberta, Canada, as a young boy,

of cash for hobbies, it never materialized.

Randall worked with his grandfather Harold who was a thoroughbred trainer. “Little Randy” was his grandfather’s

SHE HAD A FEELING ABOUT A HAPPY

groom and his shadow. Randy grew to love and respect

DERBY ENDING

horses and really understand how they tick.

to the race. This tradition determines the horses’ start-

He also enjoyed riding bareback rodeo when he was a

ing gate. Authentic’s position was a difficult draw at this

younger man.

Kentucky Derby, as No.18 is the farthest position from the

Randall’s career relocated him to the United States

inside rail. Getting that post meant Authentic would either

to become a global lead for customer experience at

have to run hard to get an early position, or run farther

Monsanto. He then met Cynthia, a medical professional,

than most other horses because he was on the outside.

at a popular restaurant in St. Louis. The couple has been

When jockey John Velasquez mounted Authentic

inseparable since that first date. Today they have many

during the call for “Riders Up,” Cynthia says she whis-

of Grandpa Harold’s and Randall’s father’s old photos, as

pered to Randall: “Darling, our boy Authentic is going

well as horse racing art, in their Chesterfield home.

to win!”

Cynthia, although a world traveler, has lived most of her life in West County St. Louis, specifically Chesterfield and Creve Coeur. Growing up, Cynthia’s mother, Judith, had a love of racehorses as well. She knew every jockey and thor-

She says she just felt it in her heart. The ritual singing of “Our Old Kentucky Home” took place, as well as the bugler playing “First Call” and the singing of the National Anthem before the bell went off, the gates opened and the horses were off.

oughbred racing parameters at all the Grade 1 races,

While Authentic didn’t break on the lead, he took that

watched every race on network TV and knew the stats

leading spot with his white blaze within the first 20 sec-

like the back of her hand.

onds. He then masterfully led the entire race to the most

Judith had a secret wish of being a jockey since she was

joyous, happy tears and stories to be told for generations

a little girl, a dream that continued her entire life. She knew

about the young colt, Authentic, who won the Derby in

since she was petite at 5 feet, 3 inches and 99 pounds,

2020 during a pandemic.

she would make a good rider. Unfortunately, she grew up

Randall and Cynthia agree they look forward to seeing

during the Depression, so despite her love and devotion to

Authentic become one of the top stallions to carry on his

the sport, she never saw her wish come true.

prominent pedigree.

“Little Cyndi” learned to love horses and racing through her mother’s eyes and senses. She, too, wished she could

The “Draw,” as it’s called in horse racing, occurs prior

“I knew pretty quickly that they love to run,” Randall says.

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“Dreams not only come true, they can continue to bless us throughout our lives,” says Cynthia.

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Victoria's Book Club ARTICLE VICTORIA BABU

ALL YOU NEED IS OVE IT IS RARE WHEN A BOOK CAN MOVE ME TO TEARS AND ALSO MAKE ME LAUGH OUT LOUD. But the charming and heartwarming A Man Called Ove did both, and I can’t wait to read this memorable book again! Swedish author Fredrik Backman reminds us first impressions can be deceiving. Anyone meeting Ove for the first time would find a grumpy man with a short fuse, stubborn in his ways and staunch in his beliefs. But underneath the widower’s crankiness is sadness and a story. One November morning his orderly world is shaken when his new neighbors accidentally flatten his mailbox with their U-Haul. The chatty, clueless couple and their two outgoing daughters seem to interrupt Ove at the most inopportune times. They find Ove’s grumpiness endearing and an unlikely friendship is formed along with hilarious interactions. The story becomes one of sympathy, love and a celebration of life as Ove realizes his impact on others and the importance of letting love in. All the characters feel so authentic that you may find similar personalities in your own family and neighborhood. Made into a Swedish film in 2015, look for a remake of A Man Called Ove starring Tom Hanks. The New York Times bestselling author also penned My Grandmother Asked Me To Tell You She’s Sorry, Britt-Marie Was Here, Beartown, Us Against You, and Things My Son Needs to Know about the World. Fredrik’s two novellas are And Every Morning the Way Home Gets Longer and Longer and The Deal of a Lifetime. His books are published in more than 40 countries.

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“I’VE ALWAYS LIVED MY LIFE WITH A ‘FAMILY FIRST’ ATTITUDE.”

SINCE JUNE OF 1990, THE KAISER LAW FIRM PROFESSIONALS HAVE ASSISTED CLIENTS IN ESTATE AND BUSINESS PLANNING. Celebrating their 30th anniversary this year, the team’s goal is, and always has been, to make sure all of their clients feel that they are guided with the team’s expertise, every step of the way, regardless of what type of estate or business planning is needed. When Kaiser Law founder Phil Kaiser started practicing law 46 years ago, he stated his ultimate goal was to ensure each of his clients felt secure in the knowledge that his practice, and the services they provide, are second to none. Once he brought in his son, Andy, to the firm, first as a clerk during law school, and then as a partner 16 years ago, they’ve both been focused on helping families create the security they need, thus making sure that no matter what lies ahead, their clients are prepared for the future. The Kaiser Law Firm also assists clients with business endeavors, aiding in the growth and prosperity of the Chesterfield community for the last 30 years.

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Phil says having his son by his side has made his life’s work totally worthwhile. “I’ve always lived my life with a ‘family first’ attitude, and although I had the opportunity to work at a few large law firms before I struck out on my own, establishing the only independent firm for estate planning in the Chesterfield area was always the goal. And having the opportunity to grow the firm, initially with the assistance of two other lawyers and then eventually with the assistance of my son, has definitely been a dream come true.” Andy reiterates his father’s sentiments, and also shares that “I had a step up when I graduated from Washington University’s School of Law with a master’s of law degree in taxation when Dad took me on, to mentor me. Right out of the gate he allowed me to meet with clients, helping me to understand his personal philosophy, that it’s key our clients feel we are always in their corner — and we are — regardless of what services we are providing, helping to secure our clients family’s future, every step of the way.” Both Phil and Andy say they plan for The Kaiser Law Firm, P.C. to be a part of the Chesterfield community for another 30 years. 16090 Swingley Ridge Road, Ste. 360, Chesterfield 314.966.7766 34

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NOV. 19 IS AN IMPORTANT DAY FOR THOSE STRUGGLING WITH HEARING LOSS. On that day, representatives of Travelers Protection Association Hearing Trust again will serve as a national hub showcasing support for people who seek assistance in obtaining mechanical devices, medical treatment, specialized education, speech classes, note takers and interpreters directly related to deafness or hearing loss. Additionally, St. Charles Mayor Dan Borgmeyer will proclaim Nov. 19 as TPA Hearing Trust Day. Roughly 20% of Americans, or 48 million, experience some degree of hearing challenges, according to Hearing Loss Association of America sources. Since 1975, TPA members have served as a voluntary association whose supporters focus on travel safety issues, child safety programs and community service projects. It’s the only fraternal benefit society domiciled in Missouri. During the group’s 45 years, they’ve assisted 5,900-plus individuals by awarding more than $2.2 million in financial aid. 40

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THIS TIME OF YEAR, I FIND MYSELF EXCITED FOR PREPARING

where we did more backyard pool hangouts and bike rides instead of

OUR HOME FOR THE CHILLY MONTHS AHEAD. Even before the air

indoor dinner birthday parties and game nights; this fall, I expect the

gets crisp I get busy washing throw blankets, replacing worn out couch

changes to continue and that we will be doing more front porch chats

pillows and digging out those yummy smelling candles. It makes me

rather than indoor cocktail hours. Whatever may come with the chilly

want to stock up on coffee and hot cocoa to share with friends when

air I do know one thing…we still need people, and it can still be just

they gather in our home.

as wonderful to gather together! The question that I’ve been asking

Although I am still inclined to do those things, this year is a bit differ-

myself is “how can our family pivot with the times and continue to

ent as the world of social distancing has changed our abilities to gather

gather, visit with friends, meet for coffee, share dinners and celebrate

with friends and family like we used to. Much like this past summer

in life milestones?”

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P U T T I N G T O G E T H E R YO U R G AT H E R I N G S PAC E …

Priceless are the stories that our grandparents tell of the days when they would sit on their front porch waving to neighbors and visiting with friends. In those days front porch sitting had more to do with the absence of

Somewhere to sit… Even if you don’t have a front porch, you might have a garage, a yard, a little corner under a tree. Pick a spot and plant some chairs there

air-conditioning then social distancing and

(6 feet apart these days). Our Adirondack Chairs are an old version from World

mask wearing but, whatever the reason, I

Market, but any outdoor chair will do. If you have a covered space then don’t be

believe that we have a wonderful opportunity

afraid to pull out those indoor chairs too. It’s charming to see repurposed wooden

to bring back the front porch tradition into our

dining room chairs sitting on a covered porch. Be creative!

modern reality. So, this fall, instead of turning my attention into our living room, I am looking to my front porch (and backyard) in prepara-

Something to feel… Instantly give your outdoor space the feeling of indoors with an outdoor rug. It seriously changes everything by making the space like a living

tion for gathering with people there. Here are a

room! I get my budget friendly outdoor rugs from Boutique Rugs, but you can find

few of my ideas for creating an outdoor space

them at any price point. Include a pillow or blanket for warmth, and when the days

to be used well into the cold winter months.

get really cold a patio heater is a major bonus.

You can also continue to join me in the journey by following me at @silvertoothfarmhome.

Something to see… Bring on the layering of flowers, pumpkins or candles to bring the space to life! I like to work with different heights and textures (here I placed my chrysanthemums in bushel baskets from Hobby Lobby and placed them on stools to elevate them to eye level). The possibilities are endless so be creative and have fun!

Something to eat… Fill a basket with caramel apples on sticks, kettle corn in brown paper bags, coffee or tea in paper travel cups. I love using baskets and trays to easily transport items from my kitchen to the outdoor space. Keep it practical. If your porch is covered then everything can live outside all season long. If your gathering place is open to the elements then designate a spot indoors, such as a corner in your coat closet, to store your outdoor pillows and blanket on those dewy nights and rainy days. Then, you’ll always know where they are when it’s time to pull them out as friends come by. Here’s to building your own new memories with old front porch traditions!

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4 VIRTUAL EDUCATION CONCERTS AT THE SHELDON Virtual

The Sheldon’s music education concerts' staffers, which introduce 25,000plus students annually to jazz, folk, classical, world music and American musicals, are offering live-streaming performances of their popular concerts, free of charge to traditional and home schools, thanks to Emerson; World Wide Technology, Inc.; Steward Family Foundation; and other donors. This will be a 45-minute performance: Lewis and Clark. Email kgalenski@thesheldon.org.

6 VINTAGE MARKET DAYS OF ST. LOUIS Chesterfield Mall Inside Sears

Vintage Market Days of St. Louis is a vintage-inspired market featuring original art, antiques, clothing, jewelry, handmade treasures, home décor, outdoor furnishings, consumable yummies and seasonal plantings. It'll be held Nov. 6-8. Hours: Friday noon-7 p.m.; Saturday 10 a.m.-6 p.m.; Sunday 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Email: stlouis@vintagemarketdays.com. At gate, tickets are $15 for Friday, $10 for Saturday, and $5 on Sunday.

7 CHESTERFIELD RECYCLES DAY Central Park

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7 GIVING VOICES TO CHILDREN CHARITY EVENT Hilton St. Louis at the Ballpark

The Center For Hearing And Speaking’s 100th birthday party at the Giving Voices to Children

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Charity Event celebrates the longstanding advocacy of Orvin Kimbrough, chairman and CEO of Midwest BankCentre. This signature black-tie gala will include cocktails, entertainment, dinner and an auction. Call 314.968.4710 to confirm this event will still be held.

Both are meaningful. YouthBridge Community Foundation supports donors, advisors and local nonprofit organizations to create positive change in the St. Louis community.

9 WOMEN'S LEADERSHIP HAPPY HOUR Pinot's Palette, Chesterfield

This event is part of a series of Women's Group Coaching sessions for personal growth and networking, as provided by Darmill Group Coaching and Consulting. Visit Darmill.com or call 636.530.3665 for details about the program.

14 COOKIE CRUMB TRAIL Ste. Genevieve

Get into the holiday spirit while sampling cookies at participating locations in Ste Genevieve’s historic downtown, south of St. Louis. Participants also will receive a Cookie Crumb Trail Recipes book. Ticket sales are limited: $15 in advance/$20 on the day of the event, if available. Event proceeds benefit local families in need. Email stegenevieve@gmail. com or call 573.883.7990 for event updates.

14 20TH ANNUAL STEPPING OUT FOR THE ANGELS

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Stepping Out for the Angels event celebrates two decades of supporting foster children in St. Louis. This virtual evening will include a

Donor-Advised Funds • Private Foundations • Endowments Charitable Trusts • Planned Giving

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LIFESTYLE CALENDAR robust auction selection, appealing raffle, special guests, live entertainment and some surprises. Phone 314.842.8400 and email maria@angelsarms.org to participate.

19 BUSINESS ROUNDTABLE

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26 ST. LOUIS TURKEY TROT Forest Park - Cricket Field

The St. Louis Turkey Trot is a great way to come together during the Thanksgiving season and be a part of a multi-city running festival called the American Turkey Tradition. Be sure to check closer to the event for updates related to COVID-19 by emailing info@allcommunityevents. com or phoning 224.757.5425.

29 FULL MOON FLOAT To Be Determined

Spend a magical evening paddling one of the area's great rivers before dining in a unique, "unparalleled natural setting." Board a 29-foot voyageur canoe with a Big Muddy Adventures guide to arrive at an uninhabited river island. After dining around the campfire, paddle to the take out area under the light of the full moon. Email trips@2muddy.com or call 314.896.4262.

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PARTING THOUGHTS

OPERATION FOOD SEARCH TACKLING THE PANDEMIC OF HUNGER ARTICLE STACY LUPO

OF THE MANY EFFECTS OF THE CORONAVIRUS CRISIS, FOOD

these other leaders to serve our area’s most marginalized and

SECURITY HAS BEEN ONE OF ITS MAJOR VICTIMS. “In the

vulnerable populations,” says Jocelyn.

last few years, we had seen child hunger drop to one in six children

The need for a more equitable food system that doesn’t leave fam-

in America. With the pandemic, that number has gone back up to

ilies vulnerable has become even more evident and urgent, she says.

one in four,” says Jocelyn Fundoukos, communications manager at

“Food inequity is a complex problem, so OFS tries to tackle it from

Operation Food Search (OFS). “It’s devastating. But if there’s one

many angles, including educating families on how to shop for and

positive that’s come from this, it’s a greater awareness of how close

prepare healthy meals on a budget, rescuing unused food and crops,

to hunger so much of our population is.”

and helping lawmakers understand the systemic factors.”

For nearly 40 years, Operation Food Search has fought the good

Jocelyn adds that hunger isn’t an urban-only issue, and in this

fight against hunger in the region as the largest distributor of free

pandemic, is touching people who never before were food insecure.

food, feeding an estimated 200,000 people in need every month. The

“At the same time, people are really responding to the need – even

food is distributed through a network of 330 partners and member

those that don’t have a lot to give – and that gives me hope.”

agencies, including many food pantries, churches and community centers, stretching across 30 counties in Missouri and Illinois. Children, making up a large percentage of recipients, are also served through after-school and summer meal programs, along with Operation Backpack, an in-school program providing children who rely on school breakfasts and lunches with backpacks of nutritious, easy-to-prepare foods before weekends or breaks. Operation Backpack was recently awarded a YouthBridge YEP (Youth Engaged in Philanthropy) grant. With many students learning virtually for the start of the new school year, the program has been slower to ramp up this year, says Fundoukos. When the pandemic upended students’ lives with schools closing in March, OFS hustled to reach them with emergency food, she says, such as setting up grab and go meal sites at local libraries and certain schools. “Essentially, we started our summer meals program early and, to date, have delivered over 400,000 meals.” OFS has been part of a regional response team appointed to create a centralized system of response to meet the social needs of residents during COVID-19. “We say the only effective response is a coordinated one, and we’ve been honored to work alongside 50

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