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Hello lovers!

I USED TO BE A BIG FAN OF THE ENGAGEMENT ANNOUNCEMENTS IN THE SUNDAY NEW YORK TIMES. Those pages were the icing on the tiered cake after reading every word of the Sunday Styles section. The fairytale stories of often unlikely and finally requited love in “Weddings/Celebrations” were often like Hallmark movie scripts.

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I mean, how often do two people who were in kindergarten together meet 30 years later,

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bungee jumping off the same river gorge bridge in Queenstown New Zealand as a part

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of post-divorce Me Trip where they fall in love, but work in medicine on opposite coasts so agree to buy a home exactly half way, setting up a non-profit in Waco, Neb. to benefit their common (surprise, surprise) interest - the disappearing Piping Plover?

All these reports of young love, happenstance and happily ever after now leave me

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longing. I mean who really cares about these real life love stories, except the bride and groom, bride and bride or groom and groom? I’ve been married 30 years. I had my fairytale story but come on, that was a long time ago.

Valentine’s Day can leave us feeling lonely or loved. Or, both.

I’m very fortunate that my husband and I can celebrate simply by having dinner together, toasting to our resilience, shared history and how we agree on important things, like going to bed early and staying in on Valentine’s Day. Take that, Hallmark!

This month on the 14th, I’ll actually be in Northern Michigan with my girlfriends on a snowshoeing and winery tour through the Leelanau Peninsula. My husband loves me so lets me go. That’s my kind of love story.

I hope the bungee jumpers make it to 30 years!

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Holiday Baskets were also provided to local senior residents in November and December. This year over 150 seniors participated in the basket program. This year almost 1,400 individuals volunteered for the holiday assistance program. The volunteers did everything from set up and clean up to helping families shop for toys and carry groceries. “I have seen how NFCC has helped the

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TRAVEL DESTINATION

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A Hepburn-inspired getaway

BOTTLES OF BUBBLY. I was cutting into the deep tangerine yolks of my made-to-order eggs during my first breakfast at The First Roma Arte in Rome when I spied the self-serve bottles of prosecco. The first thing that came to my mind is, "WWAD?" — that is, “What Would Audrey Do?” Of course, I helped myself to the bubbles.

After all, I'd come to the Italian capital to follow in the footsteps of Audrey Hepburn's character, Princess Ann, in the movie Roman Holiday. My goal was to experience all the city had to offer, princess-style.

Over four days, I followed an itinerary that included sights from the iconic Hepburn film, as well as a few experiences I thought Audrey's character might have indulged in today.

Spanish Steps in the morning with azaleas in Rome

Eat, sleep, and art.

Eat, sleep, and art.

Rome is known for being home of great works of artists like Caravaggio and Michelangelo. The hotel I’d selected, The First Roma Arte, prides itself on the 150 contemporary artworks that decorate the property.

Every suite is staged by an artist and becomes your own private gallery. After being greeted at check-in with a complimentary glass of bubbly, I was escorted to my suite, which featured lush carpets, a cloud-like bed covered in smooth white sheets, a plush blue velvet sofa, shelves lined with books, and art works of swirled pops of colors. It was Roman chic and cozy all at once. In addition to the exquisite breakfast offered each morning, the hotel is home to the Michelin-star restaurant, Acquolina. Dinner there my first evening took me on a seafood journey that started with an exquisite preparation of octopus followed by a delicate dish of fresh pasta with sea urchin. Swoon.

A few blocks away from the First Roma Arte is the spot where Joe’s apartment was located: 51 Via Margutta

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Bring the movie to life.

Bring the movie to life.

Since Roman Holiday was filmed in Rome, it’s easy to retrace the steps that Audrey and Gregory Peck’s character, Joe, took during their time together.

The hotel put me within easy walking distance of so many of the sights in the movie: Trevi Fountain, the Spanish

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Get a guide.

In the movie, the princess relies on Joe to show her the sights of the city. I had Joanna, a guide from City Wonders. Since tour guides are plentiful in Roma, it’s often hard to tell which companies are reputable. So, I’d recommend booking a tour with a company like City Wonders in advance. (This is a must if you want to visit the Colosseum. Otherwise, you’ll be stuck in line for hours just waiting to get in.) I opted for the Best of Rome walking tour, as it covered several of the spots I mentioned earlier that are featured in the movie.

It's best to find a guide before visiting the Colosseum

Say "ah" at the Hotel Eden spa.

Say “ah” at the Hotel Eden spa.

If you’re in need of a little R&R amid all of the sightseeing, book an appointment at the Eden Spa at Hotel Eden, which offers a selection of treatments ranging from massage to manicures. When I arrived for my custom facial, I was escorted into a spacious spa suite. The treatment itself was exactly what my Trevi Fountain and Palazzo Poli

dehydrated skin needed after the long flight (and the wine and cappuccinos I’d enjoyed over the last few days). And FYI, don’t miss the Eden’s rooftop restaurant, Il Giardino.

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IN TODAY’S DIGITAL WORLD, FIND-

dating concept for several years and con-

ING “THE ONE” CAN FEEL A BIT LIKE

tinuously received requests for more spe-

ONLINE SHOPPING WITHOUT THE

cialized service. She launched One on One

EASY RETURN POLICY. When it comes

to cater to professionals who were too busy

to matters of the heart, the tradition of

to spend night after night screening poten-

matchmaking offers a more personal

tial love interests.

approach to dating, as well as plenty of

The Eight at Eight Dinner Club is still in

additional benefits like privacy and real-

full force and has nearly 300 active mem-

ism. Anyone who has engaged in online

bers. These dinners bring together eight

dating knows that it can be time consum-

strangers who are matched based on

ing to wade through profiles, and numer-

age, background, professional level and

ous dates might be necessary before

interests. A hostess kicks off the evening

finding someone whose live persona cor-

by buying a round of drinks, introducing

responds to their avatar. Replacing this

the guests to each other and arranging

DIY approach with the skills of a personal

the seating.

matchmaker eradicates the guesswork.

One on One and Eight at Eight are sepa-

“The main difference is when people do

rate options, but some singles take advan-

online dating, they are essentially marketing

tage of both. And both have led to plenty

themselves,” says Jennifer Miotke, president,

of success stories. For example, Katie*, a

One on One Matchmaking. “Obviously, they

busy attorney in her late 20s, was friendly

market themselves well. When you go to a

and fun but too busy to date.

matchmaker, you have a filter.”

“She said she had no time for a social life

And that filter can guarantee important

and to just put her at every table because

factors like current photos or that a poten-

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tial match is actually single. In other words,

“Sure enough, on her tenth dinner date and

a matchmaker has the inside scoop on your

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important insight has helped Miotke and

them every year that include pictures of

One on One matchmakers generate hun-

their growing family.”

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The clients who walk through the doors

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of One on One are diverse in characteris-

the past two decades.

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who genuinely wants you to find love. The

attorney Emma. For Miotke, the match was

process starts with an extensive personal

intuitive – both clients were intense, open-

interview, an in-person meeting and a real-

minded people.

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sets you up, it’s probably going to be a fit.

advice. And like a best friend, a matchmaker will review the date with you afterwards.

Founder of One on One Matchmaking Sarah Kathryn Walmsley had run a dinner

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“IT’S IMPORTANT TO DEFINE THE ECONOMIC WORKINGS OF A MARRIAGE, TO PROTECT ASSETS AS WELL AS OUTLINE THE NON-FINANCIAL TERMS,” SAYS BRENNER.

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Prenups not Presumptions BRENNER STUDIES THE BUSINESS OF LOVE

EMILY BRENNER BELIEVES THE BEST TIME TO TALK ABOUT THE END OF A MARRIAGE IS AT THE BEGINNING OF A MARRIAGE. Couples in love should lay it all on the table, discuss who gets what, and the intricacies like, how they will raise the kids, manage bills and what she calls, “the analogue for living together.”

“One person may be in a marriage that looks like his parents and one might be in a marriage from a magazine,” says Ms. Brenner, the unflinching founder of Brenner Law Group, with offices in Roswell. “It’s best to talk about expectations and consequences when you’re happy, not during such an intense time of your life.”

Brenner has been practicing law for 35 years, helping couples before they separate, and helping navigate the many tribulations and tributaries of divorce if the time comes. She has a unique perspective, not only as a successful divorcee, but also Emily Brenner 20

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a licensed counseling psychologist and ordained rabbi. And,

while she brings a thoroughly thoughtful perspective to the table, she is also a fierce negotiator and bulldog of a litigator.

All of these skills are tapped when helping a couple write a prenuptial contract. “There was once a time when our families were tribes and marriage was a business deal, with a contract,” says Brenner. Now, couples are expected to leap from love to the business of marriage with little or no discussion of (or guidance in) the nuts and bolts of running a household, family or relationship.

“It’s important to define the economic workings of a marriage, to protect assets as well as outline the non-financial terms,” says Brenner. “Talk about kids, those already in the family from different marriages, and those yet to be born.

Protect them.” She notes that custody and child support can only be decided by the court at the time of divorce. “But, think about these relationships.” In our society, she says, we focus on the rights of empowered adults and don’t always look at children as members of our “dysfunctional tribe.” It’s this tribe that Brenner loves to dissect and protect. The typical family unit is changing, and a prenup will buoy a couple and all their dysfunction in divorce.

To write a prenup, the couple shares a list of their assets.

“There is no boilerplate. The contract is flexible, negotiable and we write it together.” She has included pet custody in prenups and sees a trend toward including a health declaration (STD free or not?) as a part of the contract.

“It’s a PrenupUP - there are many new ideas for couples to consider,” says Brenner whose firm bills hourly and suggests everyone review any contract (including the prenup that she helps write) with his/her own attorney before signing.

“We have a hard time thinking about the business aspect of marriage. We are supposed to believe love conquers all and that money doesn’t enter the equation. But so many of divorces are rooted in money politics,” says Brenner.

Already on board with a reassuring prenup on file?

Note that with changes in 2019 tax laws, alimony is no longer deductible, so you may want to adjust any figures in your contract.

Happily married with wills, pensions, insurance policies in place? Brenner says you might want to look at drawing up a postnup to create your own analog for the rest of your days together. “I’ve had clients who want to define their financial relationship decades into marriage. Retirement brings new decisions and realities,” she says.

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A CORNER OF HEAVEN, THE HENDERSON PARK INN PROVIDES THE RARE CHANCE TO TRULY RELAX. This intimate bed & breakfast, with just 36 rooms, is perched on the pristine white beaches and crystal-clear water of the Gulf of Mexico, offering authentic Southern hospitality, understated elegance, privacy, and local flavor at the award-winning on-site restaurant, Beach Walk Café.

Blending modern luxury with coastal rustic charm, the Inn exudes tranquility hard to match and is miles away from the bustle of the Emerald Coast while still being centrally located.

Each thoughtfully decorated suite is distinctive and features breathtaking views of the Gulf’s emerald green water. The attentive staff caters to your every need from the moment you enter.

Take a bike ride on one of the complimentary bikes. Grab your picnic lunch provided by the Inn and claim a spot for two on the beach nestled along the Henderson Beach State Preserve.

Dinner on the outdoor terrace at onsite Beach Walk Café is a must, as much for the atmosphere as for the farm-to-table menu, which changes seasonally. For pure privacy, have your concierge arrange a private dinner on the beach, pairing fresh caught seafood with glasses of bubbly.

Looking for more activities than relaxing at the beach? The Inn’s guests have access to all the amenities next door at the Inn’s sister property, The Henderson, a Salamander Beach & Spa Resort. Amenities include a full-service spa, a fitness center, and two beautiful pools.

Iconic Gulf sunsets are best viewed from the hotel’s Tiki Bar — with your favorite glass of wine in hand and mingling with the other guests. Want to take your relationship to the next level? Henderson Park Inn has many different venues which makes it an ideal spot for a honeymoon destination or a quaint vow renewal.

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CITY SCENE ARTICLE RICK LIMPERT | PHOTOGRAPHY ANDREA FERENCHIK AT PHOTOPLEX STUDIOS

Alpharetta Laughs with—and at—Amy Lyle NORTH FULTON AUTHOR, COMEDIENNE/ACTOR AND SCREENWRITER SAYS MUCH OF HER FODDER COMES FROM PEOPLE AND THINGS IN AND AROUND ALPHARETTA AMY LYLE IS A MESS! But it's ok.

With a new book on shelves and making the bestseller list on Amazon, the comedienne/actor/ screenwriter uses people, places and things from her familiar turf in Alpharetta as the background for her stories and writings.

Born and raised in Marietta, the Marietta in Ohio, she likes to add, Lyle is making a living, making fun of the things we all take for granted. Case in point, her new book, We’re All A Mess. It’s OK, where she collects short stories and funny one-liners from more than 100 contributors who recount and relive their most hilarious failures, indignities and embarrassing moments.

"We’re All A Mess. It’s OK captures life’s more absurd moments honestly and without filter,” explains Lyle. “It's very personal essays highlight the grainier sides of being human and imperfect."

From internet dating disasters to those strange co-workers and vacations that went wrong, Lyle talks a language we all can understand.

Her inspirations?

They include much of what is happening in Alpharetta, North Fulton, and anything Lyle and her husband, Peter, their four teenagers and large dogs come into contact with in their daily lives.

"I worked as a sales manager and corporate trainer for Randstad (Alpharetta office) for over a decade, located on North Point Parkway," offered the bubbly Lyle. "For lunch, I'd rotate between The Corner Deli, Volcano Asian Bistro and Wildflour as they all were less than five minutes from my office."

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comedy shooting in fall of 2019, which will feature several areas around Atlanta, including Alpharetta.

"Within 10 miles of my house, I have a few favorite go to's including Casa Nuova for veal scaloppine, Sushi Nami's for the Shannon Maui roll and butternut squash soup, and Salt for raw oysters."

When not writing, Lyle said she and her husband love all the festivals and shopping available in Downtown Alpharetta.

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"We just tried Holmes, and enjoyed custom cocktails and pork belly tacos and after (dinner) had Kilwins. We just love strolling in and out of all the new shops."

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Lyle said that the vibrant community of content creators and makers close by is invigorating to her brain and soul when she needs a little encouragement.

"I belong to a local writer's club; we pitch stories and give feedback on everything from novels to plots to essay titles. I send stand up comedy pieces to Atlanta writer James Crump and Atlanta actor, Keller Kuhn to critique and also bounce comedy ideas off of Atlantabased comedian, Hank Dent."

Lyle also adds that for newbies, an unlikely source of support can be social media platforms like Twitter, where she is linked to over 2,000 other content creators and those in the entertainment industry.

Lyle is a firm believer that everyone has a story, and her contributors’ stories give our embarrassed and struggling souls some comic relief and even some inspiration.

"It might even make some of us a mess," says Lyle.

But it's ok.

See more about Amy at AmyLyle.me

Rick Limpert is an Atlanta-based sports tech

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LOCALS ONLY ARTICLE BOB MEYERS | PHOTOGRAPHY PROVIDED

WINDWARD ASSOCIATION OF RETIRED MEN PRESENTS 2018 F O U N D E R S AWA R D TO J I M R AU S C H

Bob Meyers presents the 2018 Founders Award to Jim Rausch for his many years of service to the community. Left to right: former award recipient Paul Barrow, Jim Rausch and Bob Meyers.

THE WINDWARD ASSOCIATION OF RETIRED MEN (WARM)

WARM program of collecting bread from local grocery stores for the

PRESENTED ITS ANNUAL FOUNDERS AWARD TO JIM RAUSCH

delivery to North Fulton Community Charities.

FOR HIS RECORD OF EXCEPTIONAL SERVICE TO OUR ORGA-

Rausch has a BA in economics from St. John’s University

NIZATION AND TO THE LOCAL COMMUNITY. The ceremony

in Minnesota and an MBA from the University of Minnesota.

took place during the organization’s Holiday Dinner Celebration at

He occupied positions of increasing responsibility during his

the St. Ives Country Club.

32-year career with Kimberly-Clark including Vice President and

The award was presented to Rausch by 2017 award winner Bob Meyers.

General Manager of several divisions. Prior to that he served in the Army Corps of Engineers.

At the presentation Meyers highlighted Rausch’s important role

Previous Founders Award recipients were Don Blaine, Marty

in a number of WARM and community activities since joining the

Blickstein, Tom Evans, Bob Francis, Ron Keipper, Bill McKnight,

organization in 1999. “Jim is always ready to pitch in and volunteer

Honorable Jim Matoney, Bob Meyers, Travis Mills, Bob O’Hagan,

for nearly every event and activity WARM takes on. He is committed

Geoff Rausch, Tom Rice, Rich Sickeler, Tom Trace, Gary Wingo,

to serving others,” Meyers says.

and Chuck Zetterstrom.

In accepting the award, Rausch says, “WARM is a gift to me as it

WARM is a voluntary association of current or past residents of

offers occasions to meet and get to know others, share ideas and

Windward who are retired, or nearing retirement. The group orga-

experiences, and work together on activities and projects which

nizes a wide range of activities for interested members throughout

develop into wonderful friendships while benefitting others”

the year. There are no dues and no officers, but the organization

Rausch serves on the Board of Directors of the Friends of the

accomplishes a great deal for its members and the community.

Ocee Public Library. He has volunteered weekly with Habitat for

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DRIVER’S NOTEBOOK

PROUD TO BE AMERICAN EDITION ARTICLE DENNIS MALCOLM BYRON PHOTOGRAPHY PROVIDED

THE AUTO INDUSTRY CONTINUES TO EVOLVE, AND REGARDING

AMERICAN-BORN

VEHICLES,

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IS WHAT 2019 WILL BRING FOR TWO OF THE PAST YEAR’S STANDOUTS, AND TWO FAVORITES.

2019 CHEVY TRAVERSE AWD PREMIER Popular due to its practicality, roominess, 4G LTE WiFi, OnStar system, and comfortably fitting up to seven adults, Chevrolet’s design team added an impressive facelift to the new Traverse’s list of accolades; the custom Silver Ice Metallic body coat, 20-inch “Gloss Black” wheels with red accents, daytime running lamps, and roof rails gave the 2019 Premier edition a welcomed sporty-meets-aggressive appearance. It’s 3.6liter, V-6 heart, nine-speed automatic transmission, plethora of safety options including an “SOS” button for emergencies, “Teen Driver” technology, eight-inch color touchscreen, dual skyscape sunroof, and numerous apps for extensive mobile device capability are just few of the numerous attractions to add to its resume. Simply put, this room crossover SUV is perfect for whatever the family demands.

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FORD MUSTANG GT COUPE PREMIUM The 2018 review model of this iconic 5.0-liter V8, four-passenger muscle car was dipped in the signature head-turning Orange Fury, and accentuated with the GT Performance package including ebony black painted aluminum wheels. Add the deafening gallop of 460 horses under the hood, a user-friendly interface with voice-activated touchscreen, 12-speaker Shaker Pro audio system, a performance wing, and every sports car enthusiast’s dream—six-speed manual—and there’s virtually nothing left to be desired. The wallet-friendly starting price of $39K makes this iconic brand even more attractive. This year, look out for the return of the legendary Bullitt edition and gorgeous California Special packages becoming available once again.

Price: $39,095 (MSRP); $52,360 with all options For more information, visit Ford.com.

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THE 2019 LINCOLN CONTINENTAL Last year’s prestigious Black Label review model presented one of the most spacious back seats in its class, a load of amenities to pamper passengers including massagers in all four seats, a library-quiet cabin, 3.0-liter GTDI V-6 engine, and AWD for optimal maneuverability; its highly lauded “Reserve “ trim promises to have the Technology Package coming as a standard feature in 2019. The 80th Continental edition has mouths watering with the revival of yesteryear’s center-opening coach doors as well.

THE 2019 BUICK ENCORE ESSENCE Subcompact crossovers were immensely popular in 2018, and Buick Encore was one of the standouts for this segment. In 2019, the Essence trim comes with a more powerful 1.4-liter turbo engine, a plethora of safety and technology features along with the standard WiFi, heated front seats, remote start, and a Bose premium sound system to name a few enhancements.

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3 SUPERBOWL EXPERIENCE Mercedes Benz Stadium

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United Way of Greater Atlanta, Atlanta-based Futurus and GSU's Creative Media Industries Institute

(CMII) are transporting visitors of the NFL’s Super Bowl Experience

Driven by Hyundai through Feb. 3. Virtual reality (VR) Character Playbook, a character development

program created by United Way, the NFL and EverFi, will immerse players

in

scenarios

to make

choices to handle challenging situations like bullying.

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9 GOCA GALA The

Georgia

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Ovarian

celebrates

Cancer

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GALA PROM BRIDAL PAGEANT COUTURE EVENING WEAR MOTHER OF BRIDE

ninth

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The Southeast’s premier

ovarian cancer awareness event will mark its debut at the Georgia Aquarium.

Expect

specialty

cocktails, dinner created by Les Dames

d'Escoffier

International

- Atlanta Chapter Chefs, dancing, casino games, tributes, auctions.

Christine

Pullara,

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10 CAMP BLUE RIDGE Main Event

CAMP BLUE RIDGE is providing $10.00 FUNcard, bowling, gravity ropes, 2 slices of pizza & drinks. Sign up a friend for 2019-receive $300.00 discount! Registered campers-raffle for a new CBR hat. All campers must be chaperoned by adults for security purposes. 954. 665.8686 campblueridge@gmail.com

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12 GIRLS BASKETBALL Denmark High School

Tryouts for non-high school players (3rd through 8th grade girls) will be held on January 12, 20, and 26. High School players will have their tryouts on February 17 and 24. (Tryouts are free - but your daughter must have an AAU Membership ID, which cost $16.

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PARKINSON'S SUPPORT GROUP 3700 Brookside Parkway

Monthly Parkinson's Support Group provides

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Middle schoolers from across the city gather for an unforgettable weekend!

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PARTING THOUGHTS

Alpharetta Artist Joins

American Craft Council Show

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MARCH 2019 MARKS THE 30TH CONSECUTIVE YEAR THAT THE AMERICAN CRAFT COUNCIL (ACC) HAS PRESENTED ITS BELOVED CRAFT SHOW IN ATLANTA, WHICH AGAIN WILL FEATURE MORE THAN 230 FINE CRAFT ARTISANS FROM ACROSS THE U.S., including 30 from Georgia. As the largest juried fine craft show in the Southeast, the American Craft Show has long demonstrated how artisan craft fits into everyday life, from fashion to furnishings. The 2019 show, at the Cobb Galleria Centre March 15-17, will emphasize the art of slow, careful craft making in a variety of genres with its popular, interactive Let’s Make inspiration stations.

One of this year’s chosen new Atlanta artists, is Firoozeh Bowden from Alpharetta.

Firoozeh specializes in creating wearable art and accessories and has been working with metal for virtually all of her adult life. She studied medical technology because, she says, “My Persian parents wanted me to be practical and to study something with a good income and have art as a hobby. When they saw that creating was my true passion, they gave their approval when I switched to industrial design.”

Firoozeh also notes, “Industrial design was good background for the metal creations that I make, and working in clothing boutiques gave me insight into fashion and what women want, especially what they couldn’t find. The boutiques and department stores didn’t carry exciting jewelry and accessories, and everything looked the same. Even though a lot more is available now, my customers expect my work to be one-of-a-kind.”

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