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WELCOME! Here at Leader we are proud to announce the arrival of our new baby – Nurture. Forget celebrity mums with teams of nannies and stylists, Nurture will focus on real-life mums and dads in Melbourne’s suburbs. We have designed Nurture to be compact, easy to read and visually appealing – and it’s free. The editorial team behind Nurture are all parents with young children and we understand the issues that matter when it comes to navigating the weird and wonderful world that is parenting. Our expert journalists will explore the tough issues, but we’ll focus on the fun stuff too. This month we examine the best childcare options for families including the growing trend to set up nanny jobshare arrangements, talk to a psychologist about dealing with problem behaviour in children and look at the cars mums love to drive. There are also recipes for babies and melbourneplaygrounds.com.au help us reveal some of the best playgrounds in your patch. Each month we’ll also feature a section focusing on dads and how they cope with family life and talk with mums who’ve started their own successful businesses using ideas borne out of having children. Experts from the Maternal and Child Health Line will answer curly parenting questions and you can use our family-friendly events guide to plan fun things to do each month. Our aim is to make Nurture the essential guide for Melbourne parents and we’d love to get your feedback on our new baby. Visit nurture.com.au to see where you can pick up your copy and tell us what you think. And while you’re there, don’t forget to enter our fabulous competition to win a $9500 Fiji holiday for a family of four.

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Each centre will also have to employ a qualified kindergarten teacher by 2014. “Quite clearly centres will have to increase their workforces which will increase the cost of delivering care,” Mr Cusmano says. “Our concern has always been that if you increase the cost of the service you are harming the very families you are trying to help.” Mr Cusmano says government estimates indicate it will cost up to $13 extra per child a day to implement the full raft of changes, but the association believes the figure is more likely to be as high as $39, which will make childcare too expensive for some working families. The association wants the meanstested Child Care Benefit doubled from the current $3.60 an hour fee discount and the Child Care Rebate, which covers up to 50 per cent of out-of-pocket childcare expenses up to $7500, paid weekly instead of every three months. “The concern in the sector is whether these changes needed to be made and, if so, they should have been appropriately funded (by government) and they’re not,” Mr Cusmano says. Ms Elliott also questions the push for reforms, saying a survey by careforkids. com.au of 2000 Australian parents revealed that 75 per cent were happy with the quality of childcare. While long day care is still the most popular option for most working parents, Ms Elliott says some families are now more inclined to create their own childcare solutions. “People are getting in to a nanny share situation where they are sharing a nanny with a friend. Children from both families usually gather at the one house and the nanny looks after them all to make it cost-effective.” By choosing a nanny who is government accredited, parents are eligible for childcare rebates. “It really depends on your budget and the child themselves – some children develop and grow really well in a long

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CLOCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT: Children build strong bonds in family daycare; Nanny share is becoming a new choice for families; James, 4, serves up a cuppa to Benjamin, 2, at Future Kids Child Care Point Cook. Picture: Glenn Daniels.

CHILDCARE CHECKLIST ● Choose a centre where the atmosphere is relaxed and happy. Make sure you feel welcome and staff seem interested in your child. It’s good to hear laughter and the sounds of children playing. Check if the reception area is tidy and rooms well organised.

there are regular newsletters to keep you informed about what’s going on in the centre.

● A centre should feel safe and secure. Did a centre employee greet you and sign you in?

● Ask about the type of food served at the centre and if water is readily available. Is there a weekly menu on display and does it look interesting and varied?

● Check if there are procedures in place to document accidents. Ask if there is a sun protection policy and inspect the rooms where children sleep and nappy changing stations for cleanliness. ● Centres should have operating policies and procedures that are communicated to you. Ask how you will receive feedback about your child’s day and check if

● Ask about child to carer ratios at the centre and staff turnover. It’s also good to check how staff deal with behavioural issues and whether children are supervised when they go to the toilet.

● Make sure there is plenty of space for children to play and an outdoor area with shade. Ask about the frequency of structured activities such as painting, water play, collage making and playing in a sand pit. Are children allowed to watch TV and, if so, how often and what sorts of programs?

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Here Ms Elliott outlines the most popular childcare options for families: LONG DAYCARE Centre-based long daycare is the most popular type of formal childcare. Childcare centres provide regular full-time or part-time care and may be run by private operators, local councils or non-profit organisations. Centres usually open from 7am to 6pm weekdays and cater for children from birth to five years. Costs vary depending on where you live, how much care you need and whether the centre provides essentials such as nappies and food. Some centres charge less for shorter days but others may charge a flat daily rate regardless of how many hours your child attends. The Federal Government’s Child Care Benefits are available for eligible families using approved centres, which are regulated and must meet certain standards. There can be long waiting lists for popular centres, or centres in highdemand areas such as inner city suburbs. Put your name down on waiting lists before you need care and try to have a few options. FAMILY DAYCARE Family daycare is probably the most affordable option with childcare provided in private homes, usually by women with their own children. A key difference between family day care and childcare centres is the very low child to carer ratios (usually a maximum of four or five children with age limits), which allow carers and children to develop strong bonds. Most services are run by local councils which support carers with training and regular visits to ensure government standards are met. Fees range from $4.50 to $7.50 an hour and parents are eligible for the Child

if using approved carers. There are more than 12,000 carers and 100,000 children in family day care in Australia. Check with your local council for details of services in your area. OCCASIONAL CARE Occasional care is short periods of care for children under school age. Families can access occasional care on a regular or casual basis. It can be a good option for shift or part-time workers and is also handy for respite care, or to do shopping or attend appointments. Check with your local council for details of local services. PRE-SCHOOL OR KINDERGARTEN Pre-school (also called kindergarten) is a planned educational program for children aged three to ﬁve in the lead up to school. Four-year-old kindergarten programs in Victoria are government subsidised and run by councils, usually for around 10 hours minimum a week, either through two long or three short sessions. The Federal Government has now ruled that by 2013 all four-year-olds should get 15 hours of kinder a week the year before they are due to start school. Early childhood experts recommend four-year-old kinder for all children to help prepare them for the challenges of formal schooling. NANNIES A nanny is employed on a live-in or live-out basis and duties are generally restricted to childcare and related domestic tasks. Nanny share involves the nanny working for two families either at different times or caring for both sets of children at the same time. Nannies provide consistent care with individual attention for your child. Hours are ﬂexible, depending on your agreement and children can stay in their own familiar environment. You will need back-up care if the nanny is ill or takes leave. There are nanny agencies or you can advertise yourself. Costs vary but generally range from $10-$25 an hour live-in to $14-$35 an hour live-out (plus agency fees where applicable). Government rebates apply if the nanny is accredited.

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McGrath Rd, Wyndham Vale (Melway 205 C4) Fantastic adventure playground including wave slides, climbing walls, chain bridges, stepping stones, tunnels, ladders, large beetle springer, music-making activities, balance beams, ride-on tyre bull, wooden train, large cubby house and swings. Barbecues, sheltered tables, toilets and a water tap.

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Belleview Drive, Sunbury (Melway 382 C8) Huge playground with vast array of colourful equipment.

Kaitlyn, 4, on the swings at Presidents Lake Park.

There’s a toddler’s area plus medium and higher ramp structures. Heaps of ramps, slides, tunnels, panels, climbing mats, ﬁreman’s poles, walkways and barbecues.

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Centenary Ave, Melton (Melway 336 H5) The biggest structure has the bow of a ship with panels and a ramp, tunnel slide, scrambling wall, high balance beam, bridge, monkey rungs, ﬂying fox and climbing wall. Another structure has a tunnel and wave slide, steps, walkway, bridges, spiral ladder, climbing mat and ﬁreman’s pole. There is a toddler area with a shop front plus a large sandpit with

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The Boulevard, Moonee Ponds (Melway28 D8) This adventure playground overlooks the Maribyrnong River. The main structure has shade sails and features dual wave slides, climbing wall and net, cubby, monkey bars, ﬂying fox, steering wheels and equipment to make sounds. There’s also a rocking boat, seesaw, horizontal bars, stand-on spinner and swings. A highlight is an interactive sculpture area. Water tap, seats and a café nearby.

Taylors Rd, Keilor Downs (Melway 14 A8) Nicely landscaped playground with a funky modern climbing frame with slide and another structure with curved slide, shop front, ladder with square rungs, steps, abacus, climbing mat, clock, tictac-toe, block steps and chain traverse. Family seesaw, wooden statues, springer, wooden bridge and swings. Shaded and unshaded seats. Barbecues, table and tap.

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Tenterfield Drive, Burnside Heights (Melway 13 B9) A super playground set next to a lake with a “town” theme. Features a big ramp with fun panels, tunnel and curved slides, cubby, spiral ladder, climbing wall, abacus, tic-tac-toe, music instruments, stairs and a wave slide. Also bird houses, seesaw, stand-on spinner, swings, wooden carvings of vehicles and cups to sit in and spin. Shelter with table, unshaded seats, barbecues and water tap.

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High St, Melton (Melway 337 D9) Spiral, straight and wave slides, walkways, steps, ladder, rope climbing wall, spinners, swing, abacus, telescope, panels with “Old Mill” theme, shop front and ﬁreman’s pole. There is also another play area nearby. Large shelter with barbecue, tables and toilets.

Alexis, 3, playing with her dad Sam in Navan Park Melton.

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cnr Oriel and Southern roads, Heidelberg West (Melway 19 F12) Malahang Reserve has a great range of equipment across a large area including a new skate park and BMX track. Includes huge double pyramid rope climbing frame, swinging basket, family seesaw, small slides, springers, huge structure with a paddle steamer theme, spinning cup, stand-on spinners and swings. There is a separate structure for toddlers. Shelter with barbecues, tables and toilets.

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Langs Rd, Ascot Vale (Melway 28 F11) Huge wooden adventure playground with an array of slides and walkways, multiple towers, sandpit, bronco tyre and suspended platform rides, monkey bars, ﬂying foxes and swings. Mostly fenced. Barbecues, unshaded tables and water tap. Toilets and kiosk available next door at the ﬁtness centre.

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Child psychology is becoming increasingly popular as parents struggle to deal with out-of-control kids hen psychologist Dr Grace Couchman ﬁrst met mother-of-two “Penny” (not her real name) she was struggling to cope with behaviour problems in her four-year-old and feeling increasingly hopeless as a mother. Dr Couchman, co-ordinator of Monash University’s Clinical Psychology Centre, says Penny sought help at the Notting Hill centre for escalating daily battles with her pre-schooler who refused to co-operate with even basic tasks such as eating and going to bed. Penny was feeling increasingly angry and

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frustrated and worried about how much she was yelling and being punitive – and none of it was working. Her husband was often away for extended periods for work and she was left with the task of parenting alone for much of the time. As a child Penny had experienced a difficult relationship with her mother and she now lacked confidence in her own ability to love and nurture her children. The more inadequate she felt, the more inconsistent she became when dealing with her difficult – but normal – four-year-old. Penny would say “no” then feel guilty and backtrack. Her child was

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but you can really benefit from sitting back and taking support from people who are constructive,” she says. “Sometimes parents can trust themselves a lot more than they think and it’s important to tap into your own instincts and feelings. “Ask yourself: ‘How do I want to be with my child?’ And don’t let fear and anxiety get in the way.” Dr Couchman says both parents should be on the same wavelength when it comes to dealing with problem behaviour. She says it can be difficult for fathers who are not primary carers because a child will exhibit problems to the person they feel closest to and it’s usually mum. “Men often say it’s not really a problem because they don’t see it,” she says. “But, unless it’s dealt with, a child with difficult behavioural issues can cause problems in the parents’ relationship.” For details about Monash University’s Clinical Psychology Centre see cpc.monash.org or phone 9501 2428.

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are not little adults and have a very different way of thinking.” Dr Couchman says the key is to be assertive but not aggressive. “A parent’s response can sometimes make little problems worse and you can get into a habit where you perpetuate the problem,” she says. “Sometimes children are just different from their parents – you might have a very extroverted child and a shy, quiet mother and that creates a bit of a mismatch so they’re both looking at each other and saying: ‘What’s wrong with you?’ Counselling can teach parents how to adjust and accept their child’s style.” Penny was able to turn the tables with her son through short-term counselling including some one-onone to deal with her grief over her own upbringing, learning some basic strategies for being assertive, talking to her husband about getting more support and taking a much needed holiday with her family. Dr Couchman says it’s also important to trust your own instincts when problems arise and seek help if you’re struggling. “Parents having problems get a lot of advice and it’s not always helpful,

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Creative move Kristine Lempriere turned a love of sewing into a successful online business

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hildren’s clothing designer and mum-of-four Kristine Lempriere admits running her own business is “very much a second priority” to caring for her young family. But that hasn’t stopped this enterprising Malvern mum from turning her love of sewing into a successful online business with a six-ﬁgure annual turnover. Kristine gave up a high-powered marketing career to pursue her passion and create townmouse.com.au, an upmarket online children’s clothing store. With a name inspired by Beatrix Potter’s genteel Johnny Townmouse, Kristine’s home-based business started after she enrolled in an RMIT fashion course in 2000, the year her ﬁrst son Max was born. Finding the right work-and-family balance started early when Max, now nine, used to snooze through Mum’s classes in a baby sling.

Three more children later and both family and business are thriving. “I describe it as a hobby that makes money,” Kristine says. “My motivation is to put my energy into something that’s stimulating and enjoyable. “I’m a bit of a night owl and I often do my best designs at one in the morning.” But, apart from the design work, the job has other demands, including managing seamstresses, dealing with an offshore manufacturer, sourcing fabrics, handling payments and posting orders. Kristine’s all-natural range includes her signature baby bodysuit, personalised crèche bags and cashmere winter coats with prices from $25 to $180. So how do you juggle a large young family and a demanding business with a loyal following of 3000 customers?

Clothing designer Kristine Lempriere with her youngest child Adelaide, 1.

“I have very deﬁned work and family time and when the children are around I don’t work,” Kristine says. “It would be near impossible if I didn’t love it but my free time goes into the business because I enjoy it.” Over the years Kristine has used childcare a couple of days a week and relied on help from her mother Carolyn, who has enjoyed time caring for Max, Tom, 8, Henry, 5, and baby Adelaide, 1. Kristine, whose husband William

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is involved in wool exporting and processing, now employs a nanny nine hours a week for Adelaide. She’s also “pulled back” on the business since Adelaide’s birth and believes she’s striking a better work-life balance. “Comparing it with my old job I use the analogy that it was like swimming upstream and as soon as I changed it was like turning around and swimming with the current,” Kristine says.

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Coping with a newborn is hard enough for most new parents, but how do you handle four kids under four? Laeta Antonysen reports our children under four. It’s enough to strike fear into many parents’ hearts. Mine included. Twelve weeks into my third pregnancy, my family’s lives changed forever. Our scan showed two babies. Twins. Intense shock set in. Fear even. It wasn’t part of the plan, as selfish as that sounds. How could we afford four children? Where would they sleep? And just as crucial, would my husband and I ever sleep again? I’d love to say that joy soon replaced the shock, but it was a long time before we came to terms with our new circumstances. Everybody else, however, was extremely excited for us. And why wouldn’t they be – they could love them and leave them. After finding out we were having boys (I needed to prepare myself), our first mission was convincing our three-yearold daughter Eboni and 18-month-old son Riley that sisters were over-rated. Next on the check-list was the need to upgrade our car. No sexy, sporty number for us – no, a people mover became our new black. We also had to fast-track Riley out of his cot and into a bed in Eboni’s room, double up on baby essentials and prepare ourselves mentally for the challenge ahead. But when our sons Kalan and Jordan were born in February all of our fears, doubts and concerns dissipated immediately. They were perfect. “Two for the price of one,” we joked. How lucky were we? Coming home was a shock to the system as the days and nights blurred into a tiring cycle of feed, play and sleep.

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housecleaner for the ﬁrst time in my life and took up any other offers of help extended to me. Planning ahead was the key to my survival with something as simple as a trip to the shops requiring military precision. Not only did it have to ﬁt in between feed times, I also had to factor in an extra 20 minutes for the mostly wellmeaning comments from passersby. “No, they’re not identical’’ and “Yes, it is busy with four kids’’ became my standard responses. Multi-tasking also proved a must, as did establishing a routine early for the twins. And I quickly learnt to survive on little sleep, snatching catnaps when and where ever possible. Fortunately Eboni and Riley adjusted to and accepted their new brothers quickly, proving invaluable in entertaining the babies and, in the process, entertaining themselves.

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Consider these daily stats: up to 24 nappies (including six for our toddler); at least one load of washing; 16 breastfeeds and 16 supplementary formula bottles washed, sterilised and made up; and, of course, endless cuddles. With each feed taking 1 ½ hours initially, I had just 1 ½ hours between feeds to eat, sleep, shower … and survive. But as tiring and all-time consuming as it was, not only did I survive, I felt incredibly empowered. As a self-confessed control freak I was in my element, operating on auto pilot, managing to not only get out of my pyjamas by lunchtime, but also maintain a reasonably clean and orderly house. I couldn’t have done it without the help and support of my family and friends who ensured I had a freezer full of preprepared meals, endless play dates for Eboni and Riley and help with the babies. I also employed a fortnightly

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Cost: From $30,990 Best features: Compact and car-like Drawbacks: Showroom waiting list Editor’s comment: Developed from the compact Subaru Impreza, the Forester is best in class and the most car-like SUV to drive. It’s also about to get a frugal diesel engine.

Mum’s verdict: Cheltenham mum-of-two Tanya De Haan (pictured with Jasper, 4, and Tyrus, 6,) loves her 2004 model Forester. “When I took it for a test drive it felt really safe to drive and this was backed up by my husband’s research. It handles well and I’m up a bit higher, which I like. It’s still easy to park and there’s plenty of room for the pram.”

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ums have been going up in the world for more than 15 years as SUVs have become Australia’s favourite motoring choice. Riding high for good visibility in trafﬁc and having plenty of space in back for the family has turned SUVs from off-road battle wagons into 21st century family cars. Old-school stations wagons are out, people mover vans have never really clicked – despite the qualities of vehicles like the Honda Odyssey and Toyota Tarago – and school runs

and suburban shopping trips are now SUV territory. Picking the best people mover usually comes down to price and size, but there is something for everyone on the sliding scale from the Toyota RAV4 at $28,990 to the Porsche Cayenne for as much as $281,400. Mums with an unlimited budget go ﬁrst to BMW and Audi showrooms to investigate the X5 and Q7 SUVs, which set the standard, but here are ﬁve real-world choices which get the job done.

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Cost: From $39,890 Best features: Size, locally made Drawbacks: Fuel economy Editor’s comment: The new-age Falcon wagon is ideal for big Aussie families, although it has a Falconstyle thirst. Also good for towing and available with seven seats. Mum’s verdict: Busy mum-of-two Anita Inglis, of Lysterﬁeld, loves running around in her Territory with her children Claire, 3, and Ethan, 4. “We bought it because of the room in the back and we can have seven seats and take the kids’ friends with us. I also like being higher up. And the best feature for a mum with screaming kids is the reversing sensor and camera.”

Cost: from $26,990 Best features: Nice design, great value Drawbacks: Too new to rate on reliability Editor’s comment: More proof that Hyundai has its ﬁnger on the family-car pulse, with a combination of size, style and nice price that works for Australia. Mum’s verdict: Point Cook mum Cynthia Anderson and her children, Chloe, 11, and Nathan, 14, love their Hyundai. Cynthia says it was bought as a “second car” but now the BMW X3 is more likely to sit in the garage.“It drives really well and being diesel it’s light on fuel. It’s great to zip around in and there’s heaps of room in the back for the kids. It’s got all the fan-dangled things including a big sunroof and heated seats. I think my husband drives it more than I do!”

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Cost: From $33,990 Best features: Great looks, great drive Drawbacks: Fuel economy Editor’s comment: There is lots to like in the CX-7, which drives like a sports wagon. The CX-9 is for big families and the only drawback is fuel economy and a diesel that’s only a manual. Mum’s verdict: Jenny Gaudry, of Port Melbourne, traded an Audi for her top of the range Mazda and she reckons it has all the prestige of a luxury car “for half the price”.“It’s easy to drive and gives a smooth ride. It’s a smart-looking car and has every bell and whistle including GPS, Bluetooth and a sunroof.” Jenny says the CX-7 is perfect for school trips for Isabella, 6, and Bradman, 9.

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Cost: From $40,990 Best features: Size and quality Drawbacks: Boring design Editor’s comment: The Kluger is effectively the replacement for the Camry wagon, and even comes with a money-saving front-drive system. Seats for seven works but not as trendy as others. Mum’s verdict: Berwick mum-oftwo Zara Vukelic bought her Kluger this year and she loves it. She likes having seven seats and being high up. Zara, who has two boys, Luke, 4, and Christian, 3, says the car has plenty of leg room and is responsive. “The rear parking camera is also great because it gives conﬁdence to reverse and manoeuvre the car. We also liked Toyota’s reputation for quality, which optimises re-sale value.”

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HUBBLE Join the crew of the Space Shuttle Atlantis and experience virtual star travel at Hubble 3D, showing at IMAX Melbourne Museum, Rathdowne St, Carlton, from August 12. Tickets $17.50 for adults, $12.50 for children or $50 for a family (two adults and two children). Details: imaxmelbourne.com.au MODEL TRAINS Young Thomas the Tank Engine fans might like to visit the Australian Model Railway Association’s exhibition at Caulfield Racecourse, Station St, Caulfield, on Saturday, August 21, from 9am-6pm and Sunday, August 22, from 9am-5pm. Tickets $10 for adults and $5 for children aged 5-15. Details: amra-vic.org.au AMAZING BODIES The Amazing Bodies exhibition is on until August 31 at the Waterfront Pavilion, Docklands Drive, Docklands. Not for the fainthearted (and possibly not young children), it showcases a variety of bodies that have been ”plastinated’’, which allows the internal organs, muscles and body parts to be shown. Includes a human body and animals including a whale and giraffe. Open Saturdays to Thursdays from 10am-5pm and Fridays from 10am-8pm. Entry: $25 for adults, $17 for children (aged 7-14) and $75 for families (two adults and two children). Details: amazingbodies.com.au

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BEN 10 Ben Tennyson and his alien heroes will come to life on stage in Melbourne in BEN 10 LIVE: Power of the Omnitrix, a show filled with stunts, action and special effects. With a cast of 26 actors and professional stunt performers, the 95-minute show is on at Hisense Arena, Batman Ave, Melbourne, on September 21 at 11am and September 22 at 11am and 2pm. Ticket prices start at $23.90. Bookings 13 2849 or ticketek.com.au We are giving four lucky Nurture readers a chance to win family tickets to the show. See nurture.com.au to enter. CERAMICS The Victorian Hobby Ceramics Association’s annual show has a butterfly theme this year. It is on at the Polish Club, 1325 Stud Rd, Rowville on Saturday, August 28, and Sunday, August 29. Details: vhca.org.au

the theme “Play is Everywhere’’, players will be able to get their hands on locally developed independent games, chat one-onone with their creators, play board games and see game-inspired artwork. Details: freeplay.net.au

FESTIVAL Join in the fun and celebrate Ukrainian culture with Cossack dancing, folk art, embroidery demonstrations, exhibitions and traditional cuisine at Federation Square, cnr Flinders and Swanston streets, on Sunday, August 22, from 11am-4pm. Details: fedsquare.com

OPEN GARDEN Stop to smell the flowers at Cruden Farm, Dame Elisabeth Murdoch’s beautiful garden at Cranhaven Rd, Langwarrin (Melway 103 G5). The garden will be open on Sunday, August 29, from 10am-4.30pm. Entry: $12 adults, children free.

GAMES FESTIVAL Explore the creative side of games and digital culture at the Freeplay Independent Games Festival at the State Library of Victoria, 304-328 Swanston St, Melbourne, on August 14 and 15, from 9am-6pm. With

THEME PARK Galactic Circus is Australia’s largest indoor interactive theme park. Based at Crown Entertainment Complex, Southbank, the park features hundreds of the latest arcade games, ticket and prize games, indoor laser

MARKET DAYS Looking for something a little bit different? Mathilda’s Market features handcrafted and limited production baby and children’s goods including original clothing, accessories, homewares and toys. It’s on Sunday, August 22, at the Hawthorn Town Hall, cnr Glenferrie and Burwood roads, Hawthorn, from 9am-1pm. Bookworms of all ages will love the city’s largest weekly book market in The Atrium at Federation Square every Saturday from 11am-5pm. Immerse yourself in more than 5000 new and pre-loved titles, including literature, history, gardening, travel, art and children’s books. Free entry. NGV KIDS The National Gallery Victoria’s NGV Kids Corner’s Light Play exhibition is on now until November 2. Sparkling crystals, fish that respond to shadow and views through a kaleidoscope are all part of this interactive exhibition for young children. Visit on a Sunday during August between 10.30amnoon for storytime. Kids Corner is open daily (except Mondays) from 10am-5pm at the cnr of Flinders and Russell streets. Details: ngv.vic.gov.au. DORA THE EXPLORER See Dora the Explorer live in performances of Search for the City of Lost Toys at the Clocktower Centre, Moonee Ponds, on Wednesday, August 11 (bookings 9243 9191), the Plenty Ranges Arts Centre, South Morang, on Friday, August 20 (bookings 9217 2317), and Darebin Performing Arts Centre, Preston, on Saturday, August 21 (bookings 8470 8280). Details: nickjr.com.au

CHILDREN’S FARM Collingwood Children’s Farm is open daily from 9am-5pm at the end of St Heliers St, Abbotsford. See the cows being milked at 10am and 4pm. Entry: $16 family, $8 adults and $4 children. Car parking is $4 all day. Details: 9417 5806.

SCIENCEWORKS Scienceworks is celebrating National Science Week from August 14-22 with exhibitions, science programs and daily Lightning Room and Planetarium shows throughout August. Scienceworks is at 2 Booker St, Spotswood, and is open daily from 10am-4.30pm. Entry is $8 adults and children are free. For full details of special events phone 9392 4800 or visit museumvictoria.com.au/scienceworks MELBOURNE WRITERS FESTIVAL Bookworms will love the Melbourne Writers Festival, from August 27 to September 5. Events for children aged 6-13 will run at ArtPlay, at Federation Square, on the festival weekends (August 28 and 29 and September 4 and 5). Each day pass to ArtPlay includes workshop sessions with top illustrators, storytelling events and the chance to meet some of Melbourne’s favourite children’s authors. There will also be advice for parents and teachers on how to select the best reading material for kids. Details: mwf.com.au FILM FESTIVAL The Melbourne International Film Festival is on now until August 8 and features a series of films for young people in the Next Gen screenings at the Australian Centre for the Moving Image (ACMI) at Federation Square, Melbourne. Details: melbournefilmfestival. com.au/nextgen OPEN DAY Visit historic Labassa Mansion, one of Australia’s most outstanding 19th century homes, on Sunday, August 15, from 10.30am4.30pm. Internal tours of the opulent interiors will be held at 11am and 2.45pm while an external tour of the architectural features will be held at 1pm. Self-guided tours are also available. Labassa is at 2 Manor Grove, North Caulfield (Melway 58 H11). Entry: adults $8, children $5.50 or $20 for a family. Details: 9527 6295 or 9509 6596.

MOVIES Mums and bubs are welcome at baby movie sessions on Wednesday mornings at Village Cinemas at Airport West and Sunshine. Check your local cinema for movies and session times (no sessions during school holidays). Tickets: $10 for adults, children under three are free.

MELBOURNE AQUARIUM Wonder at sea creatures from all over the world at Melbourne Aquarium. Open daily from 9.30am-6pm at the cnr Flinders and King streets, Melbourne, on the Yarra, opposite Crown. Tickets: adults $31.50, children (3-15 years): $18. Details: 9923 5999. TALENT Check out the talent at Highpoint Shopping Centre, 120-200 Rosamond Rd, Maribyrnong, on Saturday, August 14, at noon, 1pm or 2pm to see performers in the semi finals of Star Search, a talent search that has been running for 22 years. Details: highpoint.com.au MELBOURNE DAY Celebrate Melbourne Day on Monday, August 30. The date marks the day the first European settlers landed on the north banks of the Yarra. This year’s celebration includes a three-day events program to mark the 175th anniversary of the landing, with weekend activities for families, culminating in celebrations on the day, including an official flag raising ceremony and entertainment. Details: melbourneday.com.au CHILDREN’S GARDEN Melbourne’s Royal Botanic Gardens’ Children’s Garden is a unique and interactive place for children to explore and enjoy. Open Wednesday to Sunday in

school terms and all week during school holidays at the Royal Botanic Gardens, Alexandra Ave, Melbourne. Free entry. SHICHIDA Shichida Australia, an early childhood program for sixmonth-olds to six-year-olds, is having open days at its centre at 91 Canterbury Rd, Canterbury on Saturday, August 14, from 1-2.30pm and Saturday, August 28, from 1-2.30pm. Shichida is designed to encourage children to use the right brain to help nurture innate abilities such as photographic memory and perfect musical pitch. Details and bookings: 9888 6886 or shichida.com.au TITANIC See an array of relics from the world’s most famous ill-fated passenger ship at Titanic: The Artefact Exhibition. This blockbuster exhibition is on now at Melbourne Museum and runs until October 17. To pre-book go to titanicmelbourne.com or phone 13 1102.

KIDS’ GALLERY The Children’s Gallery at Melbourne Museum is aimed at three to eight-year-olds, and consists of three spaces: The Big Box exhibition gallery, The Learning Environment and the Tattersall’s Children’s Garden. Open daily from 10am-5pm at the museum, 11 Nicholson St, Carlton. Tickets: $8 adults, kids free. EUREKA SKYDECK See amazing views from Eureka Skydeck, Level 88, Riverside Quay, Southbank, open from 10am-10pm. Tickets: $16.50 adults, $9 children (4-16). Details: 9693 8888. ZOO ENCOUNTER Pre-schoolers can become mini zoo keepers for the day in this fun 90-minute tour including face-to-face encounters with meerkats, frogs, snakes and possums. Special highlights include a behind-the-scenes giraffe encounter. Tours run every Tuesday at Werribee Open Range Zoo. Tickets: $40 a person. Bookings essential on 1300 ZOOSVIC (1300 966 784).

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than words. I began cleaning so consistently that, during my most sleepdeprived moments, I was almost certain my left arm extended into a vacuum hose and my right hand was a large yellow sponge. Life for this SAHD is very good and the rewards are many – Archie’s recent leap forward in reading skills, Lewis’s mastery of the football and his fat-bodied drawings with stick-ﬁgure arms, and Tyson’s ﬁrst word and infectious giggle are only a few recent stand-outs. I could write a book detailing nothing more than the frequent highs and daily joys this role has offered. Tania is constantly enthused and excited by her profession and we’ve organised things to allow her heaps of time with the kids. Some days are tough, of course, and we still get stressed out and pushed to our limits but, to tell you the truth, I think we’ve nailed it. This life works for us. One thing I know for sure is that men and women are not cardboard cut-outs. We’re all capable of being both carers and nurturers regardless of whether we’re at home or working. Accepting this can provide more options for families and a greater chance at happiness for everyone. Check out Clint’s blog at reservoirdad.com

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happening at most others. We’re looking after each other and making sure we’ve got money coming in while we maintain a (reasonably) clean and functioning household. We’re working to provide our kids with the best environment in which to grow and at the same time we’re giving Mum and Dad the chance to pursue goals as a couple and as individuals. And what a ripper ride it’s been. I remember holding three-month-old Lewis with two-year-old Archie standing beside me as we waved Tania goodbye and I started my ﬁrst ofﬁcial day as a stay-at-home dad. We went back inside, the door clicked shut and we waited for a moment. Nothing happened. Looking back, I get the feeling that I was standing in a bomb shelter without realising I was holding the bomb. Lewis started pooing and crying and eating and throwing up. Archie started raiding cupboards and throwing tantrums. I started patting bums and talking in a language that relied more on facial expressions

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Generally, the message is delivered in a subtle, almost subliminal way, housed in throw-away lines like my ex-colleague’s, or reinforced by media and advertising. I only have to walk down the baby products aisle of the supermarket to see that 99 per cent of the items I’m buying are marketed to women. I turn on the TV to see advertisements and programs portraying the dumb, incapable dad who needs mum to rush in with a frown and a shake of her head to save the family from his child-like bumbling. On an online forum for new parents I was chastised for insulting God, being unmanly and not providing for my family. I was forcing my wife to work while I was living the high life. Men provide, I was told, and women nurture. Simple as that. I ﬁnd these assumptions frustrating and belittling. We’re all conditioned by society and even those prepared to think outside the square are susceptible to its constant pressure. What is happening at our house is what I’d hope is

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three boys under five, I have a good understanding of the joys and hardships on both sides of the domestic fence. I can see that his comment, and my acceptance of it, was typically naïve, highlighting how undervalued the stayat-home parent is and underestimating the relentless pressure and workload of raising young children. My wife Tania is a physiotherapist in her own practice and works as an academic lecturer and researcher. We have been together for 15 years and in that time her fierce desire to pursue a rewarding career with a substantial financial return has been matched only by my equally fierce desire to pursue a more artistic vocation that, unfortunately, promises far less financially. My previous 10 years of paid work were exactly and only that – paid work – that I had little else invested in. So once we’d settled on the fact that we didn’t want our kids in childcare several days a week, deciding who was to be the stay-at-home parent was simple. That’s why I find it strange to encounter those who think we should forgo the plan most likely to bring our family happiness in order to goose-step along the path of traditional gender roles. As time went by I was also able to pick up a constant societal whispering that suggested that what we were doing was not just unusual but wrong.

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ommercial baby food may be convenient, but fresh is best when it comes to weaning and feeding in the early years, according to health experts. National Health and Medical Research Council consultant Professor Katrine Baghurst says processed baby food must meet strict dietary guidelines in Australia and is ﬁne for quick meals on the go, but making your own food is preferable. “Fresh is always best,” Professor Baghurst says. “In the canning process some nutrients are susceptible to heat and if you can prepare your own fresh food you’ve probably got a better chance of encapsulating nutrients.”

Professor Baghurst says babies’ tastebuds are still developing so it’s important to avoid using salt and sugar in food so they don’t develop a craving for the taste later on. Homemade food also offers some variety in taste and consistency, which is good for babies as they learn to chew. Introduce baby to rice cereal (mixed with breastmilk or formula) at about six months and then begin to introduce steamed, ﬁnely pureed vegetables such as pumpkin, sweet potato or carrot or pureed fruits such as pear or apple. Gradually make food “lumpier” and add minced meats or ﬁsh to get baby used to different textures. Purees can be frozen in ice-cube containers.

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1 tbsp olive oil ½ small onion, finely chopped 1 small garlic clove, peeled and crushed 225g minced chicken 4 fresh sage leaves, chopped ¼ apple, peeled and grated 20g fresh breadcrumbs (1 slice) 20g parmesan cheese, freshly grated vegetable oil for frying Heat the oil in a small pan and sauté the onion and garlic gently, stirring, for two minutes. Allow to cool. In a bowl mix the chicken with the sage, apple and breadcrumbs. Stir in the onion, garlic and cheese. Using your hands, shape the mixture into 12 small patties. Heat a little oil in a frying pan and brown the burgers for one to two minutes each side. Turn down the heat to low and cook gently for about ﬁve minutes until cooked through. To test, push the point of a knife down through the centre of one burger. Hold for ﬁve seconds and remove. The blade should feel burning hot. If not, cook a little longer. Drain on paper towel.

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1 tbsp sunflower oil 1 small red onion, finely chopped 1 small carrot, peeled and grated ½ celery stick, string removed and finely chopped ½ small apple, peeled and grated 4 tbsp water 200ml passata (sieved tomatoes) 150g lean minced beef 1 small garlic clove, peeled and crushed 5 tbsp unsalted fresh beef or vegetable stock (or water) 1 tsp chopped fresh thyme or ¼ tsp dried thyme 55g baby pasta shells to serve Heat oil in a saucepan and gently sauté the onion, carrot, celery and apple for two minutes. Add the water, stir, cover and cook gently for eight minutes until soft. Transfer the vegetables to a food processor, add the passata and whiz until blended. Meanwhile, dry-fry the minced beef in a non-stick frying pan. Add the garlic and sauté for 30 seconds. Pour the tomato and vegetable sauce over the meat, add stock or water and the thyme, bring to the boil, reduce heat, cover and simmer gently for about 15 minutes until rich and tender. Cook the pasta shells in boiling water according to packet directions. Drain and return to the pan. Stir in the sauce, cool and serve.

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Tantrums, common between the ages of 18 months and three years, can occur when a child feels frustrated and may be triggered when your child is not allowed to have something he wants. He may also be tired, hungry, unwell or upset by a change in life such as starting childcare. He needs to know that feelings can be controlled and that you love him. During a tantrum parents should stay calm but respond ﬁrmly. Stay with him during the tantrum and hold him, tell him it is OK to cry but that you won’t let him throw things around. Comfort and hug your child once the worst of the storm is over. It is important not to give in over what it was that triggered the tantrum. Try not to fall into the trap of telling your child what to do all the time and make sure you regularly spend relaxed time with your child.

When I drop my son off at childcare he clings to me and begs me not to go. It breaks my heart but I don’t know how to make him feel better.

A child is usually three or four before they feel safe being away from their parents – even for short a time. You may need to stay with your child until they get to know the carer. If you show that you trust and like the carer it will help your child feel safe. Always say goodbye and tell him when you will be back. Let him take his special comforter such as a teddy bear. Their distress is usually short-lived and they can then often be happy to be with their carer.

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Keep your child’s skin moisturised and when it is itchy place a soft, wet towel on the itchy site for ﬁve minutes then apply moisturiser. To keep your child cooler, dress them in cotton fabrics. Use cotton blankets and sheets and lower the heating in your home, particularly at night. The cause of eczema is unknown but often runs in families. There is no cure but it can be

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ROSIE FLO’S STICKY COLOURING BOOK rrp $15 This quirky colouring book with stickers will delight creative little girls. Add heads, legs and arms to beautiful line-drawn characters. Gorgeously designed on quality paper, these are an enchanting series of books suitable for 4 to 12-year-olds.

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THE OTHER BEARS by Michael Thompson rrp $24.95 The koalas are wary of other bears … they don’t trust the pandas, the black bears are noisy and those brown bears have big teeth. A fun tale about tolerance and acceptance.

Who doesn’t love Elmo? That furry, red three-year-old has had my own threeyear-old enthralled for a while now, and, truth be told, I think he’s quite spunky myself. The latest learning tool from the Sesame Street stable features an overallwearing Elmo, with buttons, buckles, press studs, zips and shoe laces, all designed to help little ﬁngers learn how to dress themselves. While buttons and zippers don’t pose a problem for my little one, shoe laces are a long way off – or so I thought. Now we have the perfect, fun way to practise tying bows.

The lovable Sesame Street character is the perfect vehicle to introduce learning in play. He’s also the perfect friend. After playing with buttons, bows and buckles for an afternoon Eva was more than happy to snuggle up to him at bedtime.

DVDS MICKEY’S CHOO CHOO EXPRESS (G) rrp $24.95 The Mickey Mouse Clubhouse’s latest full-length movie leads Mickey and Minnie and friends on a snowy expedition on a magical railway with a special train that can go anywhere. Mickey guides his team through tricky obstacles and encourages everyone to help out, including special friends Santa and Mrs Claus.

LITTLE EINSTEIN’S MUSIC ROBOT FROM OUTER SPACE (G) rrp $19.95 Blast-off on an inter-galactic journey ﬁlled with music and adventure. The Little Einstein team explores the wonders of the galaxies, visits the moon and rings around the planets. Features a bonus Handy Manny episode.

PREGNANCY AND BIRTH: THE ESSENTIAL AUSTRALIAN CHECKLISTS by Karen Sullivan rrp $19.95 Great for ﬁrst-time mums still learning the ropes, this compact and practical guide features more than 80 checklists to sort through the essentials needed to prepare and care for bub. SIMPLE SOFTIES FOR THE WHOLE FAMILY penguin.com.au/softies rrp $24.95 Includes 15 patterns and step-by-step instructions for basic stitching techniques to create cute stitched toys such as the owl and the pussycat. Children aged 6-12 will also ﬁnd projects they can work on.

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