Lawrence Journal-World 07-23-11 by Lawrence Journal-World

Mother of 2 free to kick out deadbeat boyfriend

Dear Minnie: Please throw this guy out and get your life back. As long as you allow Brad to be a freeloader and treat you like his mother, he will continue to do so. He is 24 and needs to grow up. You have young children, and you are modeling behavior they will absorb and apply to their own lives in the future. Irresponsible boy-men should not be moving in. Tell Brad it’s time for him to find his own place, and if he’s smart, he’ll

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60s because I enjoy the company of my co-workers. While I believe women cope better with the death of a spouse than do men, the role of family and friends is critical in both cases. It is family and friends and lots of activities that help us get through the trying times. — Doing OK

ABC invites every Harry Potter fan who isn’t out at the multiplex watching the new Harry Potter movie to return to the beginning with the 2001 fantasy “Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone” (7 p.m., ABC). Elsewhere in the ABC/Disney firmament, you can catch another franchised favorite, “Pirates of the Caribbean: The Curse of the Black Pearl” (7 p.m., ABC Family).

Tonight’s other highlights ● Josie returns on “Outcasts” (8 p.m., BBC America). ● A creepy security guard stalks a woman in an empty parking lot — on Christmas Eve, no less — in the 2007 shocker “P2” (8 p.m., Syfy). ● Jack Whitehall, Adele, Camilla and Nico, and Miranda Hart appear on “The Graham Norton Show” (9 p.m., BBC America). ● Amy Poehler hosts “Saturday Night Live” (10:30 p.m., NBC), featuring musical guest Katy Perry. Cult choice ● Celebrate Christmas in July! Will Ferrell’s wide-eyed innocent act lends itself nicely to “Elf” (8 p.m., Bravo), the 2003 comedy directed by Jon Favreau. Series notes An agent vanishes on “NCIS: Los Angeles” (7 p.m., CBS) ... Gwyneth Paltrow’s roots are showing on “Who Do You Think You Are?” (7 p.m., NBC) ... On back-toback episodes of “Cops” (Fox): restraining orders (7 p.m.) and Sacramento (7:30 p.m.). An agent’s private life comes to light on “NCIS” (8 p.m., CBS) ... A good deed punished on “Law & Order: Criminal Intent” (8 p.m., NBC) ... Lois enters the ring on “Family Guy” (8 p.m., Fox) ... NBA madness on “The Cleveland Show” (8:30 p.m., Fox) ... A victim’s wholesome image may be false on “Law & Order: SVU” (9 p.m., NBC).

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open up. Tonight: Happiest in a quiet atmosphere. Cancer (June 21-July 22) ★★★★★ Be sure you understand how many people could be hanging out around you. A discussion with your sweetie or friend could be close to impossible to complete. Tonight: Happy wherever you are. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) ★★★ Once more, others follow your lead. You might be worn out by what is going on around you. Tonight: A force to be dealt with. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) ★★★★ Keep reaching out to make plans with a friend or loved one at a distance. At present, you are fortunate when dealing with travel and those at a distance. Tonight: Beam in what you want. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 22) ★★★★ Defer to someone you care about. Just enjoy this person for what he or she offers. One-onone relating could absorb your entire day. Tonight: Enjoy being a duo. Scorpio (Oct. 23-Nov. 21) ★★★★★ Reach out for someone you care about. Revise your thinking after an intense conversation. You'll gain a novel perspective. Tonight: The only answer is "yes."

Sagittarius (Nov. 22Dec. 21) ★★★★ An easy, relaxed approach will go far. With friends or family, you might enjoy a good card game or baseball game more than any fancy, planned get-together. Tonight: Just make it uncomplicated. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) ★★★★★ Your creativity flows to unprecedented levels. Even if you are attached, with an innate flirtatiousness that emerges, your sweetie could think you were dating again. Tonight: Add whatever romantic seasonings you desire. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 18) ★★★★ Nip a problem in the bud. You don't need to make a situation more of a problem than it is. Realize what is happening between you and another person. Tonight: Close to home. Pisces (Feb. 19-March 20) ★★★★★ Your words help someone relax. You might not have any idea the impact you have. Tonight: Only where everyone can have a good time. — The astrological forecast should be read for entertainment only.

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Dear Annie: I’ve noticed many letters in your column dealing with the death of a spouse. Most are from widows, but I am a husband who unexpectedly lost his wife. While the whole ordeal defies description, I must say that my children and friends have really stepped up to the plate. I rarely eat alone, as my kids usually insist that I join them, and I try to cook for them once a week. Eating alone, for me, is deadly. My friends, most of whom were much closer to my wife, continue to include me in their activities. At times, I find myself going to events that I’m not all that interested in, but I want to be asked the next time, so I make the effort. I’ve also continued to work into my late

For Saturday, July 23: This year, you express a great deal of concern for others. Many of you will become involved in a key heartfelt cause. Others will be leaders in their field. No matter what comes down, you seem to know what to do. If you are single, you could meet someone of significance through your work. If you are attached, share more of your awayfrom-home life. The Stars Show the Kind of Day You'll Have: 5Dynamic; 4-Positive; 3Average; 2-So-so; 1-Difficult Aries (March 21-April 19) ★★★ Be careful about how you spend your money. People seem to want a lot from you, which you might or might not be in the mood to give. Tonight: Your treat. Taurus (April 20-May 20) ★★★★★ You feel your energy, but are you aware of how fortunate you are? You gather information quickly and efficiently. New opportunities come forward, perhaps because you are receptive. Tonight: As you like it. Gemini (May 21-June 20) ★★★ Know what is going on behind the scenes. Understand that a partner needs to share and

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Dear Annie: I am 30 years old and divorced with two young sons. Two years ago, I began dating “Brad,” who is six years younger. He doesn’t work or go to school and now lives with me and my kids. I work full time and pay someone to clean and watch my kids until I get home. Recently, I’ve been getting annoyed. I love to eat out and go out for a Saturday or Sunday so my kids and I don’t get bored, but I’m tired of paying his way for everything we want to do. I do care about Brad, and he’s been employed here and there, but those jobs last about two weeks, and then they fire him or he simply doesn’t return. I have tried to talk to him about it, but he ends up getting mad and yelling or walking away. What do you think I should do? — Minnie in Texas

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