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Publisher: Lamb Promotions Ltd Published: Bi-Monthly Editor: Tony Day Sales Director: Fred Scott Creative: Tony Craig Fashion: Tony Webster (Bigbad Llama) Research/Writing: Beth Evans Creative: Lauren Clarke Sales: Eamann McManais Music: Lauren Clarke Agony: Trudy Scrumptious Legal: Edwards & Co News in Briefs: Beth Evans Seriously Tho: Paul HaganRea Homes Interiors: Lee Austin Homes Property: Lough and Quay Comedy: Gemma Hutton Comedy: Jordan and Diona Dating: Greg Travel: Steven Grattan Design: www.colourandco.de Special thanks to: Andrew Muir, Johnny McDaid, Glitzy

Glamour, Jody Rogerson, John and Paul, Alan Rowan-Jenkins, Gareth Carson, Donnellys, all the gorgeous models, stylists, hair and makeup people who made the fashion shoots so amazing, and of course Aidie McClay and the team at the Kremlin.

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EDITOR’S LETTER It must be near Christmas. That big red lorry with Santa driving it has been on the tele and the Hare and the Bear has had everybody in tears. But commercials aside, Christmas is certainly just around the corner. We’ve tried not to have a festive overkill in this issue of GNI but there are a few wee baubles of delight (do you see what I did there?).

Our cover guy this month is the lovely Andy West, the new newsreader on the block at BBC NI. Inside we chat to him about his move from the big smoke in London Town to Belfast. We were also lucky to have the chance to chat to Michelle Visage while she was taking a break from the panel on RuPaul’s Drag Race. Those loveable Dublin artists Adrian+Shane talk with our Beth about what they’ve been up to of late.

Up and coming act Paul Tully answered a quick fire round of questions for us, and the amazing Belfast boy done good, Kenneth Montgomery, talks to us about conducting orchestras all around the globe.

You’ll find all your regular favorites in here too; Kitsch Bitch, Trudy Scrumptious is sharp-tongued as ever answering your problems, Jordan and Diana make us laugh, Greg talks you through another dating disaster and Gemma puts the world to rights. In Envy this month we look at three quirky Christmas gifts – everybody needs Lego Golden Girls in their life, don’t they?!

On a more serious note, Paul Hagan-Rey is back with Seriously Tho for this issue, we chat to Richard about his coming out story, and Mark and Darren tell us all about themselves in this issue’s Partners feature.

Enjoy!

Tony

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Life Maverick Equality Commission Proper ty Interiors Test Drive Travel Quirky Gifts

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About You Union Street Fashion Get the Look Ready to Par ty Dentists Tattoo You New Year New You

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Guides Civil Par tnership Supplier Eating Out Six Bars of Christmas What’s On Guide

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NEWS IN BRIEFS McBoyband Boy band groupies everywhere were pleasantly surprised last month when the mighty musical combination of McFly and Busted was revealed. Their name? McBusted. Wow, that’s genius. It sounds like what Ronald McDonald would yell if he caught you stealing his wallet. I for one shall not be attending a McBusted concer t. I simply couldn’t handle all that pent-up postadolescent boy band energy.

50 Shades of YAY! The question of which actor would play Christian Grey was troubling everyone at GNI: ‘please be someone fit…’ When Charlie Hunnam came on board we weren’t displeased. Then we heard he was out of the picture! Things

weren’t looking good. The cynics among us put money

“McBusted.

Wow, that’s genius. It sounds like what Ronald McDonald would yell if he caught you stealing his wallet.” on Daniel Radcliffe. Instead it was a case of being pushed

off cloud 9 and landing on cloud 99,999. Jamie Dornan?

YES PLEASE. We applauded this most satisfactory outcome. Since then, however, I have grown extremely impatient. Hurry up and make the film, release the film, invite me to the premiere and introduce me to Jamie so we can star t our life together…

Give me a sign A regular breakup just wouldn’t cut it for a woman in Swansea who found out her husband was having an affair.

‘PAUL… I AM DIVORCING YOU’ appeared on the sign of Noel’s Yard café and bar last week. The next day the sign read ‘BTW I AM KEEPING THE DOG’. The woman has said, ‘I did feel a bit better once the sign went up.’

SCENE OUT...

We popped along to Maverick’s Launch Par ty, Belfast’s newest gay bar!

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HAVE A MAVERICK CHRISTMAS 1 UNION STREET•BELFAST’S QUEER QUARTER /MAVERICKBARBELFAST

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Union Street celebrated their bir thday last month and we were invited along to join in the fun.

Kremlin hosted their ‘Scally Night’ last month and we had to go along. Get your gold chains and trainers ready!

My boyfriend wants me to be monogamous but I can’t think of anything worse! I love him but nobody tames this stallion!

J, Belfast Oh really a stallion you say? Monogamy is for borebegs and people who are capable of emotions! Dump that bitch and come to mama!!

When I come over to The Shaft, will you watch my kids for a fiver?

Michelle Visage, RuPaul’s Drag Race Yes as long as you get me into RuPaul’s drag race season 6 as Ireland’s first contestant!

Then of course I can win the $100,000 prize money!! That’s my going rate ya see! PS. hi gurrrrll!

Hello my queer connoisseurs! My name is Trudy Scrumptious and I have been described as a good bottle of wine; timeless, long neck, big bottom, and you need to swirl me around your mouth before you get the taste!!!

Now, let’s hear about you .....

A friend of mine is in a relationship with this girl and she wants to end it. Is it too harsh to break up with her just before Christmas?

Hannah, Belfast Yeah Hannah sure “A FRIEND!” I hear ya! So to disguise it’s really you from here on in I’ll write your name backwards .... So Hannah should totally break up before Christmas because then Hannah’s girlfriend won’t have to buy Hannah presents and can spend the money getting wasted to escape the agony of hear tache! Tis the season to be jolly!!

I think my boyfriend is gay, he’s no longer interested in sex and prefers to hang out with the guys at the gym. What should I do?

Eimear, Derry Well Eimear it’s nice to hear from a girl who clearly knows the signs!!

Every girl needs a GBF, somebody you have something in common with, like you both like c*ck! So go get yourselves some new boyfriends and double date and be merry!

I’ve been going to singing lessons for a few months now to impress my boyfriend but I still sound like my dog when he’s hungry.

Tony, East Belfast Oh Tony babes, leave the terrible singing to the xfactor contestants!!!

My boyfriend likes the ‘bear’ look but I just can’t do it! I like waxing – especially sack, back and crack as I’m a pristine man. Help!

Mark, Belfast If Katy Perry can pull off a smooth lady leg in her video for Roar, so can you! If he likes the bear feel, have sex on a furry rug!

I have a red leather jacket that I love. Festive or freaky?

Fred, Belfast In some cases it’s a welcome distraction from the face! #sorryboutit

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GNITALKS TO...

Describe yourself in 5 words.

Extraordinary. Beautiful. Hilarious. Intelligent. Deluded.

Tell us why you recently moved to Belfast.

The BBC asked me to work as a TV and radio reporter in Northern Ireland, having previously read the news and reported on BBC Radio 2 and Radio 1 as well as a load of other stations I’m now too important to remember. I was living and working in London and it was time for a big change and a new challenge. I’ll be honest, I wasn’t expecting Belfast to be so brilliant. I genuinely love it.

Did you have any jobs before radio?

I did my work experience on the jacket potato counter at a BHS restaurant.

I got sacked after an elderly lady complained about me biting my nails whilst fluffing her spud.

How did you get your first job reading the news?

I was sacked from a job scheduling adverts on a radio station in Preston because I kept sneaking down to the newsroom. I was 21. That night I went to a drag bar in Blackpool called The Flying Handbag and the compere asked me what my job was. I lied and said I was a newsreader, and who should be leaning against the bar? The news editor from the local radio station! I was offered freelance shifts on the spot and soon I was standing in front of a mic’ (a radio term for a microphone) doing my best newsreader impression live on air. I was an instant star across North West Lancashire.

Biggest story you’ve ever broken?

I’m the only broadcast journalist to have interviewed serving MI6 secret agents from within the bowels of SIS Vauxhall headquarters. My phone was bugged.

That’s all I’m allowed to say. I was told if I ever saw either agent again I had to blank them. I broke that rule a week later when I saw the female one in Starbucks and shouted ‘Hi!’ She ignored me which was rude but understandable.

Best thing about your job?

Meeting ‘real’ people. Telling their story. They’re way more interesting than celebrities. Who cares about them anyway? (I’ve met Lady Gaga).

How do you keep a straight face?

My face is gay. (Hilarious). I just clench my jaw and carry on.

How’d you get to be so talented?

It’s a curse. I’m a talented artist. I play the trumpet. Cats like me. Just so I don’t

I did my work experience on the jacket potato counter.

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sound too arrogant, I’m hopeless at sport, maths, directions, waiting, cooking, singing and apologising.

How does the gay scene in Belfast compare to the gay scene in London?

The gay scene in London is bigger but I’m not a scene size queen. There’s almost too much choice in London. Nobody ever seems to settle and feel fulfilled. Hopefully relationships are easier in Belfast…

Who would play you in the film of your life?

Dame Helen Mirren.

Kindly fill in the missing blanks: Legs are so sexy.

Calories are strictly forbidden in my home.

I’m terrified of failure.

My favourite thing in the world is funny people.

Soulmates exist. ______ is my idol. I don’t have one. Cher’s good though, isn’t she! Did you know, she’s 93?!

There are 3 types of people in this world: Clever people , stupid people and clever people.

The joke I made up about the pillows is cripplingly funny. (Two pillows in a bed.

One says “Did you know, quilts keep you warm?” The other says “Duvet?”

ROFL.) The two men I’ve loved will always have a place in my heart.

Celine Dion is my guilty pleasure.

Surprisingly, not all newsreaders are dull or serious. Some can be quite naughty.

True or False?

Bad news travels fast: TRUE No news is good news: FALSE (How dare you?)

All publicity is good publicity: FALSE. Mind you, a famous TV journalist once told me: “If at least half of the people in your office don’t hate you, you’re doing something wrong.” I’m doing very well because I’m loathed by everyone. Success.

Andy West is the best: TRUE Thank you.

Thank you! Remember, even the longest journey begins with a single step, a stranger is just a friend you haven’t met yet and there is more fat than you might expect in an avocado.

GNITALKS TO...

Michelle Visage! How are you?

Fantastic darling, thanks for asking!

What does supporting LGBTQs bring to your life?

The ability to sleep at night. It’s 2013 and I have SUCH a hard time with the fact that we, as people, are excluding human beings from equality because of who they love. It’s another form of slavery, oppression or genocide that shouldn’t be tolerated. I cannot understand how people think their lives will be affected negatively if a gay couple is able to marry legally, or able to give their par tner health benefits, etc. It’s high time people stopped buying into homophobic rantings that benefit no one.

How did you meet RuPaul?

I met Ru in 1847 at a speakeasy in NYC. He’s the most amazing, loving, hilarious human being I know and when we spend quality time together, it’s ALWAYS magical. I’m a very lucky ladygirl.

Has the show changed people’s perceptions of drag?

In my opinion the show has brought drag into the mainstream spotlight. Drag isn’t just for the punch line – it’s a true ar t form that takes focus, time and dedication. Yes, the weekend warriors are out there, but the kids that do our show work full time at this amazing craft and are packing houses everywhere they go!

Thanks to the show, a number of contestants have felt ready to reveal their transgender status to the world. How important is it that people begin to accept and understand transgender people?

People can be real ugly about transgendered folks. Their comments can be really nasty but that’s mostly because they don’t try to understand. If it were their child crying to them every day because they felt that they were born in the wrong body, maybe they’d take the time to understand it a little more. It’s a serious issue and even more serious is the way it’s laughed or scoffed at. My hear t is with anyone with a gender identity issue. Know this; Mama Michelle loves you to bits, so screw everyone else and be true to who your hear t says you are. Acceptance is key. Humans are humans.

GET OVER IT.

“Acceptance is key.

Humans are humans. GET OVER IT.”

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Does fashion go hand in hand with self-confidence?

Of course! That’s the basic idea of drag; putting on clothing and becoming someone else. I’m from New Jersey and I wear it on my sleeve. I star ted dressing outlandishly at the beginning of Secondary School and mom and dad suppor ted me 100%. My 13-year-old daughter is just the same and I couldn’t encourage it more. Self-expression is fun and necessary, especially for kids.

What life lessons do you hope to teach your children?

The old adage “never judge a book by its cover” comes to mind first.

My husband of 16 years, David, and I preach tolerance, acceptance and equality in our home and we’re very proud of our daughters (ages 11 and 13). Teaching self-love and respect is hard with girls their age because girls are nasty. My youngest worries about her clothes since her “friends” commented on them. I try to teach her every day that it doesn’t matter what people think, it’s what SHE thinks about herself. Not an easy lesson to learn.

How can we all achieve charisma, uniqueness, nerve and talent?!

We all have it, just LET IT OUT! Best drag name you’ve ever heard?

Michelle Visage

Obviously, here at GNI we do not condone drag racing in any form (apart from RuPaul’s Drag Race, of course).

We would like to make sure that you too are clued up about the rules of the road (we’re sure you are). Please answer the following question to receive your GNI Driver’s Licence.

You pull up to a red light and your friend in the car next to you wants to race, do you: A) Rev up the engine. It’s ON. B) Run the red light to get a head start.

C) Yell NO. It’s not safe. Go home and delete your exfriend from Facebook.

D) Ignore your friend. Instead, pull over in a safe place and reapply your make up.

Duh. D of course!

Thank you so much for talking to us Michelle!

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This issue’s fashion shoot took place in the fantastic Union Street Bar in Belfast.

The models wear exquisite Christmas par ty garb. Look out for Beth, our writer!

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THAT Aofie wears Faux Leather Sleeve Jacket Primark

THIS Piaras wears Long Petrol Blue Suit Navy Waistcoat Red Pin Dot Tie

THAT Stewar t wears Grey Herringbone Blazer Navy Polka Dot Bravo Shir t Navy/Red Dot Pocket Handkerchief

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Aoife wears Precious Metal Playsuit available on OMGRAGS.com £42

THIS Aoife wears Cathedral Shir t available on OMGRAGS.com £36 Oblivion skir t £68 Piaras wears Monkee Genes Blue Chinos Stewar t wears Peacock Green Chinos

Make up and hair by Rebecca Bryson MUA Photography by Big Bad Llama

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Rebecca Bryson MUA, who did the make up for this issue’s fashion shoot, talks us through how to look great during the winter holiday season.

With Christmas just around the corner, it’s time for us guys and dolls to get our glad rags and pretty faces on!

With the cold weather (and Christmas par ty hangovers!), comes dry dull skin and lips.

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to set your make up before you head out for the night. A setting spray, like the Urban Decay All Nighter or Deslick sprays, will keep your make up looking flawless even when you’re a little worse for wear!

Chapped lips don’t look good on anyone! To keep those lips soft and kissable for the mistletoe, pop some chapstick in your bag and you’ll be ready to pucker up at a moment’s notice!

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DENTISTS: they’re not all psychopaths!

You won’t see any horror film-style pneumatic drills in this dental practice…

You won’t feel scared in the slightest: you won’t feel anything but relaxed and comfor table.

Gentle Dental Care on Belfast’s Lisburn Road is an open-plan, bright and happy sanctuary of calm. Modern ar twork adorns the high walls in the reception which emulates the cheerful lounge feel of a fancy pad. A specially designed ar t installation on the ceiling of the surgery gives patients something interesting to look at whilst lying back in the chair.

“People want a dentist they can trust and a practice where they feel at home so we have designed the premises to hopefully welcome and inspire.” explains Adam Jaffa, Managing Par tner.

Adam and his sister Lucy front a team of 10 experienced professionals providing a wide range of state of the ar t treatment. Lucy is the lead dentist (of 4) which means she makes sure the technical standards are top notch.

Adam works front of house

making sure the patients are happy as treatment progresses and appointments run on time.

“Our patients expect to have a healthy, confident smile so over the years we have added new services including general dentistry to the kind of cosmetic and implant work we all see on TV. More recently cosmetic braces and even botox have become popular.”

Appointments are available star ting at 8am on weekdays and some evening and weekend spots come up.

Trusting relationships are at the core of this private family practice. Founded in the 60s by Adam and Lucy’s Father, Gentle Dental Care is committed to delivering complete, professional suppor t to every patient.

What is more, Lucy and Adam promise to be upfront about costs and are on hand to discuss budgets. They offer payment plans and aim to provide a ‘quality-up, costdown’ service.

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‘Two ar tists working as one since 1998’ GNI Catch up with Adrian+Shane!

on a crowded train… Does public transport help you come up with new ideas?

Adrian: Haha, that’s bizarre.

New ideas usually come when you least expect them to.

Being in our studio getting high on paint fumes probably helps.

Shane: We love trains. We always find travel to be really

We got very drunk and started painting. It wasn’t planned.

It just happened. inspiring.

You’ve tackled thorny subjects like religion and gay marriage. Has the feedback you’ve received been predominantly positive?

Adrian: They are subjects that we feel very strongly about. I would say that 99% of the feedback we get is positive.

Shane: Our work is matterof-fact and truthful. It’s totally ok if someone doesn’t like it.

You can’t be liked by everyone

GNITALKS TO...

Greetings Adrian+Shane.

How are you?

Adrian+Shane: Hello. We’re great thanks. Super busy.

How did you start doing what you do?

Adrian: It star tevd with a lot of vodka, a sketchpad and some photo booth pictures on Valentine’s night in Glasgow 15 years ago. Shane was studying at the Glasgow School of Ar t. I went to visit with a massive bottle of vodka. We got very drunk, played loud music and star ted painting and sketching. It wasn’t planned.

It just happened. We’ve been creating together ever since.

Does it get stressful?

Adrian: Yes, when we have a deadline to work to. Before a big exhibition we do nothing but work. We forget to eat.

We just work and sleep and work and sleep. It can get unpleasant.

How did you meet each other?

Shane: We’re both from the same town and we went to the same schools. But we never actually met until a mutual friend introduced us during Christmas 1997.

George Michael came up with that almighty saxophone riff in ‘Careless Whisper’ on the number 32 bus and J.K Rowling thought of Harry Potter whilst sitting

... and it would be odd if we were.

Sweet or Savoury?

Adrian: Sweet.

Shane: Savoury.

Madonna or Lady Gaga?

Adrian: MADONNA! There’s no competition.

Shane: Madonna. She tweeted at us last week. For real. She thinks Putin might be gay.

Whitney or Britney?

Adrian: Britney.

Shane: Both troubled souls.

Britney ... I have such a soft spot for her.

George Clooney or Brad Pitt?

Adrian: Brad Pitt.

Shane: George Clooney ... with the beard.

Batman or Robin?

Adrian: There’s something about Robin.

Shane: Robin.

Pop art or pop tart?

Adrian: Pop ar t.

Shane: Both.

Adrian or Shane?

Adrian: Haha. Shane.

Shane: Adrian, obviously.

Thank you so much!

Adrian+Shane: You’re very welcome XO www.instagram.com/ AdrianAndShane www.adrianandshane.com

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KENNETH Montgomery Music man.

GNITALKS TO...

How did you become a conductor?

I knew I wanted to become a conductor at the age of 12. I was taken by Daphne Bell, who founded the Ulster College of Music, to the Edinburgh Festival and saw a performance of Salome and was sold. At INST I was allowed to skip spor ts and attend the rehearsals of the Ulster Orchestra.

At 17 I went to London to study at the Royal College of Music. In my last year I got hired by the Glyndebourne Festival as an assistant conductor. I worked throughout the UK and in Holland. There was a directness to the Dutch that reminded me of people in Nor thern Ireland. After meeting my par tner Jan in a bar called The Well’s Fargo (‘We deliver the male‘ was their motto!), I decided I wanted to live in Amsterdam permanently. We found a house and 32 years later we’re still there. The Netherlands were the first to allow people of the same sex to marry and we got married 11 years ago on our 21st anniversary of meeting.

Were your family supportive?

When they realised I really wanted to be a musician they suppor ted entirely.

My Father was an electrician at ‘Shor ts’ and died when I was 22, but for tunately he did see me conduct. My mother reached the great age of 99. She visited us in Amsterdam and travelled with my par tner’s mother to Santa Fe, Rome and Paris to see me conduct.

Greatest memories of NI? Ulster Hall, Ulster Orchestra, Opera Nor thern Ireland, Scrabo Tower, The Mournes.

Most memorable performance?

The Belfast performance of Mozar t’s Abduction. A bomb went off as the tenor sang “Only cowards are afraid”. I thought scenery had fallen over backstage! I think the audience applauded both the tenor and the bomb itself as if saying: “You won’t win! We’re not moving!”

Favourite opera?

Mozar t’s The Marriage of Figaro because of its humanity.

One more thing…

The Orchestra of the 18th Century (based in Amsterdam) will come here for the first time, with me conducting: 29th November, Dublin & 30th, Belfast. Come and hear it! www.kennethmontgomery.net

“A bomb went off as the tenor sang ‘Only cowards are afraid’.”

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QUICK FIRE W I T H PA U L T U L LY Describe yourself in 3 words Passionate, Preoccupied, Perfectionist Best gig so far?

Suppor ting Declan Sinnott last year How important is it to be liked?

Personally not impor tant at all, but as far as performing goes it cer tainly helps!

What does music mean to you?

Music lets me switch off and be totally free. For me it’s a great form of meditation.

How do you think of your lyrics?

When I feel like writing I brainstorm lyrics onto a page. I pick out a few key lines and take it from there!

People liken you to Damien Rice. What do you say to this?

I say that’s fantastic! ‘O’ is one of my favourite albums!

Perfection or little imperfections?

Little imperfections Where do you live?

Strabane, Co.Tyrone Where do you want to live?

I stayed in Melbourne briefly in 2011, I’d love to live there again.

Homebird or constant wanderer?

Constant wanderer If today was your last day on Earth, how would you spend it?

I’d probably sleep through the whole thing.

What’s next?

More songs, more gigs and keep enjoying the journey! www.paultullymusic.com

…“a person who thinks and acts in an independent way, often behaving different from the expected or usual way.”

After undergoing an extensive renovation, Maverick, the new bar on Union Street in Belfast’s Queer Quarter, opened its doors at the beginning of November. Team GNI were invited to their grand opening…

Hot bouncers stood at the door, stunning cocktail waiters and waitresses greeted us, and people with earpieces and iPads ticked our names off the guest list… As we entered Maverick for the first time we were dazzled: it was nothing like we’d expected.

We were overcome with the newness – there was just so much to take in: the wall of hands reaching out, the mustachioed ar twork, the sumptuous booths, brilliant dance floor, quiet corners, massive wrap around bar, and of course the pink piano!

All of this glistened and sparkled under the twinkles of the mirror ball, set to spin to great funky disco vibes.

At the end of the night we were unanimous: Maverick had set out what it intended to do. It gives people a choice, offering something different; a welcome addition to the gay

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scene in Belfast.

We have since visited the Maverick on different occasions. Even after only a few weeks it seems to have

“It gives people a choice, a welcome addition to the gay scene in Belfast.” settled comfor tably into its position. New acts enter tain alongside familiar faces like Lady Por tia and HOtel MOtel. With expansion plans for the new year, the Maverick looks set to get bigger and even better.

THE PLAYLIST Whatever your mood this Christmas, put on those oversized headphones, turn up the volume, and enjoy these winter warmers. An accompanying glass of mulled wine and an open fire are optional but recommended.

Fleet Foxes – White Winter Hymnal

The Decemberists – Sleepless

Paul Tully – Reign Down Your Love On Me

Bon Iver – Your Love (The Outfield Cover)

KATY PERRY TRIBUTE NI Classically trained Music Teacher Paula K is an incredible local talent. Paula K looks and sounds so like Katy Perry, you’ll believe she IS Katy Perry! Her show is full of personality, fun, brilliant songs and everything else you would expect from a true professional. Costumes, flamboyancy, amazing vocals – you name it, this girl’s got it!

Keep an eye on her Facebook page for upcoming shows. ROAR for Paula K! FB: Paula K as Katy Perry www.katyperrytributeni.com

Damien Rice – Coconut Skins

Wham! - Last Christmas

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MR GAY UK FINALIST Jason moved to Belfast from the country 10 years ago. After breaking off his marriage and coming to terms with the fact that he was gay, he felt it was time for a fresh star t.

Jason works as a financial claims advisor. He became a finalist for Mr Gay UK 2013 on 30th November. “I’m so excited about this. I’ve been training with my PT Ryan Scott from the City Gym at Frames. He talked me into taking par t in NIFMA (Nor thern Ireland Fitness Model Association). I got a first in Mr Formal Wear

and a second in Mr Athletic.

Following that, Omar, my fiancé, who is from Belgium, entered me into Mr Gay UK.

“My success in NIFMA helped me believe I could do it!”

My success in NIFMA helped me believe I could do it!”

Jason was chosen as one of the final Top 10 out of over 250 lads! He hopes that being

a finalist will help him raise funds for HIV/Aids awareness.

He has been in contact with Terence Higgins Trust and has already received a lot of suppor t from local businesses.

“Winning the competition would be an honour.”

Jason met his fiancé in Gran Canaria in 2012. “Omar asked me to get engaged at Par ty in the Square at Gay Pride this year. Two months later he moved here and now we’re planning our future together.”

GNIMR GAY

MR GAY IRELAND Robbie Lawlor won Mr. Gay Ireland 2014 on 27th October.

Robbie currently works in Eason; UCD, where he helps people with disabilities; AND he volunteers to help people living with HIV… He’s a very busy man!

Robbie was crowned Mr Gay Ireland ahead of 15 other competitors. The competition is split into heats and contestants are required to complete varying tasks.

The live shows see the Mr. Gay wannabes being judged on casual wear, swimwear, formal wear and the discussion of a serious topic of their choice.

Robbie is thrilled to have won the title: “it was an awesome experience. You get to fundraise for an

“It was an awesome experience to represent your LGBT community.” amazing cause, interact with brilliant people and compete to represent your LGBT

community.”

Robbie will represent Ireland in Mr. Gay Europe in Austria next June and Mr. Gay World in Rome next August, as well as doing “photo shoots, radio interviews - the whole lot! I want to help Patrick (Mr. Gay NI) achieve a more successful and positive role for the Mr. Gay Nor thern Ireland competition next year. I’m going up Nor th soon to see if your local LGBTs and gay bars would suppor t the idea of Mr. Gay Nor thern Ireland being held up there. It’s busy, busy, busy, but what’s a year! I’m going to love every minute!”

MR GAY NI Patrick Murdock is a selfemployed hairdresser and a bar tender at The Maverick in Belfast… And now he’s Mr. Gay Nor thern Ireland 2014, too!

The Mr. Gay Nor thern Ireland and Mr. Gay Ireland live finals were held together in Dublin. Patrick states, “While it’s impor tant to integrate the two contests, greater awareness of needs to be created in Nor thern Ireland.

Not only will this lead to a better competition, it will create greater awareness of LGBT issues amongst the community in Nor thern Ireland.”

During the competitions, contestants and their suppor ters gain an indepth knowledge about

“It’s important to integrate the two contests.” impor tant LGBT issues including HIV, mental health, rural community issues and marriage equality.

Patrick wants to try to bridge the gap between LGBT communities in the Nor th and

South by marketing events all over Ireland. He also aims to promote awareness of Mr Gay Nor thern Ireland, as he feels the competition could and should be a much more widely acknowledged.

Thinking of entering? Go to mrgayireland.com to check when your county’s heat takes place. If your county does not have a heat, email Mr. Gay Ireland and tell them why you’d like to par ticipate. The competition is not a beauty pageant and welcomes men of all shapes and sizes who are strong-willed and passionate about working for the LGBT community.

TATTOO YOU

********************* Nowadays tattoos are popular mainstream accessories yet they always seem to remain interesting, expressive and personal.

You’ll get rid of your favourite bag, old pair of converse or comfy sweater eventually, but a tattoo is for keeps.

There’s a lot to think about when choosing a new tattoo: style, size, colour, and, probably most importantly, the artist.

You’re trusting this person with your skin!

Who to choose? Meet the exper ts:

Kiss Rober ts, House of Kiss, 487 Lisburn Road, Belfast “If we have to make Nor thern Ireland more tolerant one small business at a time, count ours in, but allow us to do it with class and style, from the comfor t of a chaise longue! Here no one is made to feel like they don’t have the right to wear a tattoo. From 72 year olds getting their first tattoo to the suited up biker, everyone is welcome in our house.”

Rob Stewar t, Pushing Ink, 5 Nor th Street, Carrickfergus “Pushing Ink strives to be original on every level: ar twork, atmosphere, and attitudes. We maintain a clean, comfor table studio in which our exper ts draw a huge variety of styles. Every customer’s experience is unique and personal. We offer services free from judgment and preconceived notions.”

Stefan Getty, Cloak and Dagger, 24 Fountain Street,

Belfast “Cloak and Dagger is young and open-minded. Our motto is ‘Visualise and attack!’ A high percentage of our clientele

“You’ll get rid of your favourite bag, old pair of converse or comfy sweater eventually, but a tattoo is for keeps.” is gay and we employ LGBT staff. We strive to be a wellrounded tattoo shop, where anyone can get tattooed and talk openly about their life with no judgement.”

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NEW YEAR NEW YOU Feeling good in your own skin is paramount to success. Follow these steps to reach the top in 2014...

Sculpt your body.

Personal trainers Colin and Alison at Train one 2 one in Holywood will give you the encouragement and suppor t you need to achieve the body you crave. Get incredible results with individual or group workout sessions.

Facebook: Train One 2 One, Holywood Cleanse your body, mind and soul.

Seán McGeough is a medium offering full spiritual therapy.

As a Reiki master/teacher and a Metatronia therapy practitioner, Seán has the power to heal physical, emotional, mental and celestial bodies. www.seanmcgeough.co.uk Get your confidence back.

Respected as the leading Hair Loss Clinic in the UK, the Hair Loss Control Clinic, located on the Malone road in Belfast, provides hair transplant, hair replacement and hair retention technologies for all

types of hair loss. www.htieurope.com Love the new you.

After all that work, you’ll want to flaunt the new and improved you! Fergal Kearney, an experienced and highly skilled photographer can help you capture these moments

“Feeling good in your own skin is paramount to success.”

so you can look back on them with pride. Fergal provides professional photography, in locations of your choice, for every occasion and offers a friendly and discreet personalised service. Fergal takes beautiful photographs that you will always cherish.

Go on, get your life in focus with Fergal Kearney! www.fergalphoto.com

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PARTNERS In every issue we introduce you to a loved up couple who tell us what makes their relationship great.

Meet Mark and Darren!

Mark and Darren, both from Belfast, live together in Newtownabbey and have been a couple for just over 9 months, although it feels like a lot longer. They met on a social networking site… (shockingly it wasn’t Grindr!), Mark asked Darren on a date to Birdcage on Stranmillis Road. They’ve been together since. The pair have no plans to get civil par tnered at the moment. Mark doesn’t see the point as, ‘a piece of paper is not going to keep us together!’ and they’re both very happy with how things are going.

Each of them was first attracted to the other’s body and looks, but soon they soon found their personalities were compatible and irresistible too! Darren loves Mark’s fun loving nature and Mark loves Darren’s thoughtfulness. Both

their families are suppor tive, but when Darren first star ted dating Mark he wasn’t ‘out’ as a gay man: “Mark gave me the courage to come to terms with who I am and to

“They met on a social networking site... (it wasn’t Grindr!)” let my family know who I am.

They were happy I’d found someone that cares for me the way Mark does.”

The pair love travelling and they’ve already managed a trip to Paris and a par ty holiday to Majorca!

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DJ KENNY K DJ Kenny K has worked as resident DJ in almost every major club in Belfast and has received 3 nominations for ‘Best DJ’ in Northern Ireland’s prestigious Fate Awards. He has developed a finely tuned musical ear and the incredible ability to successfully read any crowd; skills which have been perfected over his 20+ years of experience.

Kenny is passionate about music and relishes making people dance and smile during their special do. He offers full mobile setup using state-of-the-art equipment at any event: civil ceremonies, weddings, charity events, Christmas and birthday parties, and everything else!

Kenny provides a unique, bespoke service. He will meet with you prior to your event to discuss what to include, and what to avoid! He caters for all tastes and is committed to creating the perfect, tailored soundtrack for every client. Music gets guests interacting… Great music means a great time!

Find Kenny on Facebook at DJkennyk.events djkennyk@hotmail.com 077 0406 2696

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LOUISE ELLIOTT EVENTS

Bespoke Events and Par ty Planning Service Based in Nor thern Ireland, Louise Elliott Events fully plan of any size of event. Need someone to source your stationary, cake or room décor?

Need help thinking of a theme, drawing up a guest list or finding enter tainment? Let us help you hold the event people will be talking about for months!

To arrange your free consultation, email Louiseelliottevents@aol.com or phone 07841 871 171

CLOUD 9 CAR HIRE

Cloud 9 Car Hire are classic VW wedding and occasional hire specialists in Northern Ireland.

We offer a professional service for all occasions, providing chauffeur driven Volkswagens in immaculate condition. Cloud 9 Car Hire have two of the most outstanding examples of classic Volkswagens in Northern Ireland, our show winning Karmann Convertible Beetle and mint condition Baywindow microbus.

We travel nationwide if required.

Call or book online to make your special day one to remember. www.cloud9carhire.com 07818447482

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BRONZE TANNING & BEAUTY Bronze Tanning is owned by partners Joe McGlinchey and Gerry McBride. Joe and Gerry have been business partners for 5 years and civil partners for 2! Their 5th Bronze Tanning & Beauty Salon, which has just opened in Belfast, is kitted out with the most advanced equipment on the market. Pop in and try their brand new lie-down and stand-up sunbeds which feature high pressure facial and shoulder tanners for maximum results. Bronze Tanning specialises in spray tanning and provides flawless tans for many of Belfast’s models and entertainers.

Also available: facials using PAYOT skincare, advanced waxing, HD brows, fat loss body wraps, massage and an extensive range of nail treatments including gels and acrylics.

Proud sponsors of the NIFMA Fitness Modelling Competition.

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DB MUSIC With almost 20 years experience in music for wedding services, dbmusic provides in Darren Baird, one of the province’s most versatile musicians as an experienced and accomplished pianist, organist, singer and music advisor for your wedding or civil par tnership. dbmusic can meet the most discerning requests for any service or ceremony to a professional standard. Whether traditional or contemporary, sacred or non-religious, dbmusic can cater for your individual musical requirements.

07712 209 163 www.dbmusic.info

PHOTO BOOTH ANGELS

Photo Booth Angels: Nor thern Ireland’s original photobooth. We have over 300 weddings and events under our belt. We know what it takes to make your wedding go with a bang. With three packages to choose from we are sure to have something to suit every budget. Check out our albums on Facebook!

FB: Photobooth Angels photoboothangels.co.uk kelleytompsett@yahoo.co.uk 07970 210152

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PRONUPTIA BRIDAL Pronuptia Bridal aims to provide an easy, professional service working in close proximity with customers to ensure fulfilment of their individual requirements and desires. We empathize with the stress and worries a wedding can bring and endeavour to ease the process in finding you your perfect dress. With 40 years of experience within the bridal market, Pronuptia will help to make your wedding experience both smooth and enjoyable.

We offer a wide range of stunning select gowns of the finest fabrics for both brides and bridesmaids, and a selection of accessories for those all-important finishing touches.

We attest the highest level of customer care and individual attention in our intimate, luxurious boutique located in the heart of Belfast City Centre. 16 Wellington Place, Belfast, BT1 6GE 028 9032 4747 jackie@pronuptiabelfast.com

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HEAD START

Get a Head Star t at this pioneering unisex hair salon. Owner Michael Maguire, who has managed the salon for almost 20 years, strives to offer his clients the best possible care and all the latest trends. The salon is renowned for its colour correction service and uses only top range haircare products such as JOICO and Hydrolyzed Keratin Protein hair treatments.

For fur ther information or a free consultation, ring 02890 024 638

SERENE

PHOTOGRAPHY At Serene Photography we believe that every photo evokes a unique emotion. Whether that emotion is joy, hope, admiration or pride, it is our job to capture it for you. Our aim is to give you photographs you love; ones that you can boast about and share with family and friends.

We provide all day wedding photography, plus a highlight slide show of the best pictures taken on the day. In addition, we offer digital story books, traditional wedding albums, save the date cards, thank you cards and pre-wedding shoots.

07903 006 005 serenephotography@hotmail.co.uk serenephotography.co.uk

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LIKE NO OTHER BY KATIE SMITH Handmade Personalised Guest Books Unique Personalised Button Hearts in Box Frames At ‘Like No Other by Katie Smith’, all items are carefully created to the highest standards using the finest quality materials. Katie prides herself on her work and every item is made to perfection. Guest books are A5 in size (approx. 8x6 inches). There are 30 card pages which give you 60 sides: plenty of room for guests to write their good wishes. Photos can be attached using photo corners or suitable adhesive. Katie’s unique button hearts are made using buttons, beads, charms and crystals.

Katie is more than happy to create bespoke items to suit your taste.

Mobile: 07850 456 023 www.likenootherbykatiesmith.co.uk likenootherbyks@btinternet.com www.facebook.com/likenootherbykatiesmith

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DOORSTEPS AT THE CONWAY MILL If you would like your wedding reception to take place in an incredibly beautiful historical building with a wonderful friendly atmosphere, then look no further than The Conway Mill; a spectacular venue for any event. With its stunning, open-plan reception area, suspended walkways, indoor street look and glass roof, it will make your wedding reception even more special. Doorsteps at The Mill provides full internal and external catering services, freshly prepared hot and cold food and operates a fully licenced bar. The large, attractive restaurant is run by a team of dedicated and friendly staff who will take care to ensure that every single one of your guest’s needs are met.

5 – 9 Conway Street, Belfast 028 9023 7171 accounts@doorsteps.co.uk

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ROCKIN ROLLS

Be the envy of all your friends with one quick call to Rockin-Rolls. We have beautiful classic Rolls Royces for hire. White Silver Shadows, Blue Silver Spirit and Blue Silver Spur. A vintage Daimler which carries up to six people is a perfect companion to one of our white Silver shadows. Recreate the elegance of days gone by and arrive at your wedding in comfort and style. If you are having a Civil Ceremony you will be offered a short journey together to relax and enjoy your champagne before continuing with your special day.

028 9051 7060 info@rockin-rolls.co.uk rockin-rolls.co.uk

BELFAST PARTY PARLOUR

At our dance par ties a choreographer will teach you and your friends an amazing routine that’ll have you tearing up the dance floor in no time.

Turn your special occasion into the ultimate dance par ty experience! Just choose a theme from the following: Pole, Burlesque, Zumba, Grease, Rocky Horror Picture Show, Pussy Cat Dolls, Thriller, Cheer Leading, Dir ty Dancing. We also give tips for perfect par ty makeup that will stay on as long as you stay up! www.belfastpar typarlour.com

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LOVE BOX WEDDING STATIONERY Never underestimate the importance of wedding stationery. The invitation creates the first impression of your big day – remember you only have one chance to make a first impression!

Love Box Wedding Stationery are graphic designers who hand finish beautiful contemporary stationery using designer papers, elegant embellishments and creative minds! They have a vast range of invites and styles and offer a bespoke design service. They also offer handmade personalised guest photo books, save the dates, booklets, menus, place cards, thank you cards etc. If you have an idea, tell them about it and they will bring it to life!

Make the right impression, contact Love Box Wedding Stationery. We guarantee your guests will be blown away.

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VANILLA CAKE CO

As NI’s most innovative cake designers all of out creations are truly sweet, chic & unique We bake and custom design all of out cakes, cupcakes and create wonderfully quirky personalized cake toppers too! Other tasty treats include, personalized cookies & stylish French macaroons.

We offer free consultations & design service and are giving free tastings to anyone who quotes this code gnivanilla 39 Summerhill Brae, Banbridge 07758512555 vanillacakeco@hotmail.com (by appointment only)

EMBER Located in the centre of Belfast, Ember Jewellery is coveted for its superb craftsmanship and outstanding designs which are created using traditional techniques. At Ember’s own Wedding Ring Studio, couples can create custom-made wedding rings, unique and personal to them. You will be guaranteed the best guidance and leave with beautifully crafted rings.

Over 20 years’ experience Ring sizer posted to you if required Free delivery on all items First floor, 37 Queen Street, Belfast, BT1 6EA Feel free to call in and see how Ember’s handmade jewellery is carefully crafted. www.emberjewellery.moonfruit.com info@emberjewellery.com

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DIGITAL PRIDE Elegant, Stylish, Creative Digital Pride is the sister company of the award winning Digital Bride wedding photography & videography.

The only dedicated LGBT Civil Partnership photographers and videographers in Northern Ireland, Digital Pride offer a sensitive and professional high quality service that is specifically tailored to the needs of loving couples wishing to document their civil partnership, commitment ceremony, union or wedding.

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NUFF INC Nuff Inc. offers caricature, illustration and design services to a wide variety of clients throughout the UK, Ireland and beyond. The Nor thern Ireland based business has many years’ experience in the Enter tainment and Ar ts sector. As Nor thern Ireland’s premier caricaturist, Nuff Inc. has been delighting guests for many years at weddings, dinners, festivals, par ties, corporate events and many other occasions with enchanting, slick and fun caricatures.

Personalised Wedding Stationery and display caricatures can be commissioned.

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FLORAL EARTH Floralear th is based on Blythe Street, Belfast and delivers throughout Greater Belfast and Nor thern Ireland. Owner and Manager Tim Kirkpatrick opened floralear th in 2001. Since then the floralear th team has gained a reputation throughout Ireland for floral creativity and professional attention to detail. Using only the freshest flowers and foliage sourced from local and international suppliers, every order is tailored to meet your specific requirements.

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THREE’S A CROWD Three’s A Crowd are the Complete Wedding Day Entertainment Solution. As another hugely successful year comes to a close Three’s A Crowd look forward to more great days and nights out with all of our couples who are tying the knot.

Join the long list of people who have let the Brady brothers manage their wedding day and proven it’s possible to get experience, professional entertainment and superb customer service all at a reasonable cost. Have cool swing music in the afternoon, a band in the evening and a disco that night. They can also provide live or recorded ceremony music so from the first moment of your day until your last dance you don’t have to worry about a thing.

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GNIDATING

I absolutely detest when my friends try and ‘hook me up’. It’s usually a breeder in a great relationship who thinks it’s suddenly time to become a life coach. It’s like you’re Quasimodo and they’re the Channel 4 presenter on a show called ‘I Found Love for a Hopeless Face’. I actually enjoy watching her gaining weight and becoming less like Meg Ryan and more like a used teabag. Then it’s just a case of waiting until she needs her GBF again because ‘the one’ has traded in the cookie monster for a newer model.

Never theless, I did need help from my carb-happy friend. I spend more time mentally dating celebrities than I do actual people, playing out my favourite scene: me and Ben Affleck sit down with Oprah and come out to the world, Oprah reaches over to clutch our hands as we sob uncontrollably. Of course we have a less serious interview with our lesbian best friend Ellen Degeneres. So yeah, I needed help.

Help came in the shape of her other gay friend; the one she swore wasn’t her favourite. We met for coffee in the popular place that writes your name on the side of a cup (I’ve never got that). Although it would be useful if I ever bump into Ben Affleck and we both have Grande sized cups, we drop them, I pick his up, he picks mine up, I say ‘Ben’, he says ‘Greg’, we laugh, drink our coffees and realise we both ordered caramel lattes #madeforeachother.

I was apprehensive about meeting him.

We had the obligatory ‘we’ve been set up’ banter, followed by the ‘I can’t believe we’ve never met before’ banter (we secretly hated each other, that’s why.) The conversation then went on to break every rule in the made up gay rule book that we’ve never made up; he slated the Fag Hag. He said something like ‘she’s star ted to look like a Wagon Wheel that’s been left on top of the radiator.’ I had the oppor tunity to boldly declare my allegiance to the Fag Hag or join in, so naturally I joined in. We bonded like two gays at Fag Hags Anonymous. I simply had to go back to his for ‘coffee’ but when he whispered in my ear ‘Can we use banana as the safety word’ I slipped out (of his apar tment) and back to my fake life with Ben Affleck.

“She’s started to look like a Wagon Wheel that’s been left on top of the radiator.”

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The Equality Commission recently published a new policy paper ‘Promoting Sexual Orientation Equality’ outlining the priorities for change. The paper outlines three key areas requiring strategic action: Tackling prejudicial attitudes; Promoting positive attitudes and Raising awareness of rights.

It recommends that legislation should be introduced to permit same sex marriage and adoption and that a ban on blood donations from any group, including men who have sex with men, must be based on clear medical

evidence.

Chief Commissioner of the Equality Commission for Nor thern Ireland, Dr Michael Wardlow set out LGB equality priorities in a recent interview with Journalist and Broadcaster, Julia Paul: Q: There has been extensive discussion recently about what lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered people can or cannot do in society in Northern Ireland – for example, marriage between same sex couples, adoption by same sex couples, blood donations from gay or bisexual men.

What is the view of the

Equality Commission?

A: It is our view and responsibility to ensure that people don’t experience discrimination. That involves keeping the law up to date, raising awareness of rights and going into the public sphere to show leadership. We believe these are fundamental equality matters. We are asking the depar tment to look at the equality implications for the MSM blood ban. We are clear that same sex adoption is an equality matter and have been advocating for change. Same sex marriage is an equality matter and we

are asking Government to take leadership and have a consultation on the subject.

Q: But surely the commission needs to accept that society in Northern Ireland is different.

People here, including some of our politicians, hold very strong religious beliefs. Should that not take priority when it comes to policy?

A: Equality is equality and cour t rulings have recently reinforced that. We want to make sure all of the evidence is taken into consideration. We have to ensure people have equality of oppor tunity and in these areas we don’t believe LGB people have this.

Q: So, what more should government be doing more to protect the rights of the LGBT community? What changes does the Equality Commission want to see?

A: This isn’t about saying it’s all their fault it is about par tnership. There is a commitment in the Programme for Government to produce a Sexual Orientation Action Plan. We are asking Government to show leadership and bring this out sooner rather than later. We also want an open, public debate. People are being treated differently because of their sexual orientation and that cannot be acceptable practice in the 21st Century. This falls directly into what the Commission was set up to promote and protect.

Q: So, how will the adoption of these policy positions by the Commission help LGB and T people?

A: These policy positions are not just for us, they are for individuals and organisations in the LGBT sector to use in their own work as well. We are clearly saying that these are difficult issues and in seeking to resolve them our policy makers must be aware of the equality issues and address these. Not to do so could potentially compromise equality rights for individuals.

Our work involves more than simply providing opinion; we actively suppor t individuals who feel they have been discriminated against. Our So-Me website offers the oppor tunity for people to tell us about their experiences, and to get our help. Since we launched the site we see three times as many people using the site as phone our helpline. We hope that individuals will contact us on these issues too.

We welcome that the debate has star ted but look forward to its conclusion.

Q: Are things not getting better for LGB people here?

A: We still have a long way to go. Our most recent Equality Awareness survey showed that over 40% of people here would mind having an LGB person in their family; over 20% would mind having an LGB person as their neighbour. We are asking LGB people to contact us via www.some-ni.co.uk or by calling 02890 500 600 if they feel they are being treated unfairly. Only 1 in 5 people come forward to repor t discrimination. We need to change that and make it something that people are unafraid to speak up about. We are here to help.

Download the Policy Paper via www.some-ni.co.uk Contact us: some@equalityni.org Tel: 02890 500 600 Twitter: @So_MeNI Facebook: SoMeEquality

SERIOUSLY THO Born in 1986, Paul HaganRea has a B.A in History and Heritage Management and a PGDP in Business.

He is a strong supporter of equality for minority groups and has published a range of articles on the issue...

On February 7th 2014 the eyes of the world will be focussed on the Russian city of Sochi, host of the Winter Olympics. This Winter Olympics will probably be given more international media coverage than any before it, not due to the athletic skills of the competitors, but because of how Russian officials will treat LGBT competitors and foreign visitors. This comes after the Russian President, Vladimir Putin, signed a law allowing Russian police to arrest tourists they suspect of being Lesbian and Gay, and even heterosexual pro-gay suppor ters.

Since December 2011 the Kremlin has been facing growing civil unrest over government corruption and alleged electoral rigging of the Presidential elections in 2012 which brought Putin back into the Presidential office for a third time. In order to strengthen his position, the

government introduced laws that limited Russians’ rights to protest freely. Amnesty International believes that over 5,000 people have been arrested in Russia in over 200 protests against the new anti-

“Over 5,000 people have been arrested in Russia in over 200 protests against the new anti-gay laws.” gay laws.

Putin’s homophobic policies have given the green light for homophobic gangs to attack the LGBT community with

GNIPAULHAGAN-REA little, or in most cases, no legal consequences. This has resulted in many LGBT people being injured and even killed.

Many are now asking whether or not the UK should boycott the Sochi Games, due to Russia’s contempt for civil rights and the safety of competitors and visitors.

Some celebrities, such as Stephen Fry, have openly campaigned for the UK to boycott the games, citing how the events that are taking place in Russia are not in keeping with the spirit of the Winter Olympics.

David Cameron, in his response to Fry stated that, “we can better challenge prejudice as we attend, rather than boycotting”. A boycott may cause more problems for the Russian LGBT community.

The Eurasia Group (political risk consultancy organisation) puts forward the case that a boycott may have the adverse effect of rallying more Russians to Putin’s camp

as it may appear that he is standing up against western interference in Russian affairs.

This is a characteristic that many Russians admire in their leaders since the collapse of the Soviet Union.

Boycotting the games would prevent Putin from lifting anti- LGBT legislation without being seen as weak by his suppor ters and opponents.

They would interpret the withdrawal of anti-gay laws as bowing to international western governments.

A boycott would undoubtedly send a message to Putin.

But we could send a much stronger message by attending the games and showing our solidarity with the Russian LGBT community, at the same time exposing Putin’s corrupt homophobic regime in front of his own citizens and the international community. Many people feel outraged and indeed helpless at the daily horrors that the Russian LGBT community

have to endure under Putin, but we should take comfor t from the fact that: “All through history, there have been tyrants and murderers, and for a time, they seem invincible. But in the end, they always fall.

Always.”

Mahatma Gandhi

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MOVING ON Richard Beat tie talks us through his bitter sweet coming out stor y.

GNICOMINGOUT I remember the exact moment when I decided it was time for me to come out. I was 16 or 17 years old and working in Spar. My Dad had just had his four th hear t attack so it was a really emotional time. For some reason I can remember holding a tin of Spar peas (39p if I recall correctly) and thinking ‘I want to get it all out in the open’: I’d had enough of lying to everyone about liking girls. I went home that night and told my Mum I was gay. Instead of getting angry or upset she chose not to acknowledge it and pretended it hadn’t happened.

That was awful – I was so young at the time and coming clean was such a huge thing for me to do.

When Dad got out of hospital he approached me and asked ‘is somebody making you do this?’ I couldn’t believe my parents’ reactions

– instead of dealing with it they just chose to ignore the fact that I was gay. I rapidly drifted apar t from them.

When I was 18 they moved out of the house and I stayed there on my own. This was

“We would talk for hours, about everything.

We became so, so close. an impor tant transitional period in my life – leaving school, getting a job, living alone – and everything seemed so difficult to handle.

Just after my 18th bir thday I was at my lowest point and I tried to commit suicide. After that my parents saw more

of me and showed more of an interest in my life but they only ever spoke to me about work – never my personal life.

I had a long term boyfriend at the time and they had no intention of meeting him. While I remained in the house my parents helped out a bit with the rent. But when my Dad died I had no other option but to leave the house and move in with my boyfriend at the time. I don’t blame my Mum for doing that. I eventually moved back in with Mum. It was awful this time and I knew I couldn’t stay there for a long time. I moved out in January 2011 and I’ve lived on my own ever since.

Things turned around when I got my own car. I star ted visiting my older sister who had a family of her own. She had always suppor ted me but I hadn’t been able to see much of her before this point.

I would drive to her house and we would talk for hours, about everything.

We became so, so close and we still are today. Without her help I don’t think I would be as happy as I am today.

Six years on, I am in a happy, loving relationship with my long term boyfriend, Karl. My finances are stable, although I do borrow £30 - £40 here and there from the Bank of Karl, and I recently got a new job – I’m just about to star t training in Dublin. Everything’s looking up!

PROPERTY RIGHTS With more than 125,000 (NI) and almost half a million (ROI) people now living in private rented accommodation, it’s more important than ever to be up on your rights and responsibilities...

Private renting is a two way contract between a landlord or letting agent and the tenant. Lack of knowledge by tenants on their rights, can lead to difficulties during a lease period. GNI spoke to Ashleigh Sloan, Senior Lettings Consultant, from Lough & Quay Estate Agency to gain some expert advice for tenants.

Ashleigh recommends choosing your landlord or agent carefully, “Make sure you pick your rental property based on more than just rent, or how it looks. You should have an Assured Shorthold Tenancy agreement to sign – don’t just sign it, read it!

If your letting through an agent – make sure they are registered with the Association of Residential Letting Agents (ARLA) or Property Ombudsman”.

Make it your business to know your rights. “Your landlord or rental agent can’t visit the property whenever they

like. They must have a valid reason, such as doing some maintenance or an inspection.

If your landlord or agent need to visit it is a requirement to give 24 hours notice, unless in the case of an emergency” says Ashleigh.

“Don’t just sign it - read it!”

According to Ashleigh, “Your landlord is allowed to review the rent; however, only at certain times and dependent on the type of tenancy agreement (on renewal of a fixed term Assured Shorthold Tenancy for instance)”.

The property must be well maintained. “Landlords must ensure that their rented property is a healthy and safe environment for people to live in. This includes: sufficient heating, ventilation and lighting; in good repair; well

GNIPROPERTY secured; working and safe, heating, water and electricity (including annual gas boiler checks); any furniture or electrical appliances provided must be checked and certified safe”, continues Ashleigh.

“Since April 2013, your landlord is required to place your deposit in an approved tenancy deposit protection scheme. This protects you if there is some dispute and your landlord doesn’t want to give back all of your deposit”.

Ashleigh advices, “If your landlord needs to evict you, for example, for non payment of rent or anti social behaviour, they must follow the terms of the tenancy agreement. In some circumstances, such as where there is a dispute, the landlord may need to get a court order. Your landlord cannot force you to leave (such as entering the property while you are out and packing up your things) as this could constitute an illegal eviction. By the same token the landlord is

not allowed to harass you to leave – again, this would break the law”. Renting a property comes with responsibility for the tenant and you should fully understand all responsibilities before entering into a tenancy agreement for a private rental property.

Most maintenance and repair falls to the landlord, however some responsibilities are the tenants. Ashleigh explains, “You need to look after the property and not damage it.

You need to make sure rubbish is properly disposed of and do some maintenance for example changing light bulbs, batteries in smoke detectors, etc”.

“Damages you cause may have to be paid for - whether by you during the tenancy, or at the end, as a deduction from your deposit. However, you are not responsible for fair wear and tear such as wear on a heavy traffic area of a carpet”.

Ashleigh advises, “Keep to

the terms of your tenancy agreement: Pay rent on time, don’t keep pets in the property if they’re not allowed, don’t sub-let a room to someone else without getting permission from your landlord.”

If your landlord is refusing to talk to you, or is denying a problem is their responsibility you can contact your local council for help. Most have a Tenancy Relations Officer who is a specialist council worker who can mediate in disputes between landlords and tenants.

Lough & Quay Estate Agency is Belfast City’s only residential sales and lettings specialist.

Renowned for exceptional customer service and advice, the expert team operate an out of hours viewing services to suit all tenants’ needs. For further information on the latest rental properties on the market visit www.loughandquay.com

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Since receiving a degree in Interior Architecture, Lee Austin has worked as an interior designer for almost 10 years. Below Lee shares his tips on how to successfully create the industrial look in your home...

The Industrial look is back.

Everywhere you look people are salvaging old bits of metal, pallets, distressed timbers and vintage objet d’ar t.

It’s easier than ever to recreate the industrial spaces of New York’s Soho and Greenwich Village…. Imagine hanging out in your loft style apar tment sipping an espresso mar tini….ahhh, bliss!

The industrial style is an unfinished look that’s created using raw and rough surfaces, and it’s totally achievable on a tight budget! It benefits from a minimal interior so don’t pack your rooms full.

A careful selection of items made from steel, aged iron and weathered woods will give your room style and personality.

Choose neutral shades of warm grays and contrast with bright whites and metallic pewters. Keeps floors rough and use a combination of painted and stained timbers

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INDUSTRIAL REVOLUTION

(the more dents and chips the better). Layer fabrics and furniture to create comfor t.

Linen or leather sofas, large scatter cushions, natural materials to dress windows and soft mood lighting will bring the look together. Add

“The more dents and chips the better.” furniture pieces made from old pallets and scaffold pipes and reclaimed weather oak or zinc to get the Loft Style Living that everyone wants.

Look for little treasures in salvage yards and on Gumtree and if you haven’t yet discovered Pinterest, check it out! It’s a world of inspiring ideas that will help you pull together the perfect urban pad.

WINTER WHEELS With winter on the way we were on the prowl for a car that could weather the snow when it hits.

Something funky, practical, 4x4 and also cost effective not only to buy, but to run too. As ever the kind folk at Donnelly’s stepped up and offered us a Fiat Panda 4x4….

Michael at Donnelly’s up at Mallusk greeted us at the door with a sparkly red Panda 4x4, he dropped the keys into my hand and I sat inside. I remembered back to the 80s (yes I’m that old), and I recalled the old Pandas, they were square, rattly and as rough and ready as you could get. As I soon discovered; this new generation of Fiat Panda flies in the face of it’s 80s predecessor. It was stylish (Italian design and all that), comfor table – a nice upright driving position gives a great view of the road, and it had all the mod-cons you’d expect from a modern car – half leather seats, electric windows, sound system with blue-tooth capabilities and central locking.

Finishing off the rugged

look of the Panda 4x4 the exterior has practical chunky bumpers, winter tyres come as standard and of course there’s a handy roof rail. This

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GNITRAVEL A lot of people doubt me when I tell them about the gay scene here. In a Latin, Spanish-speaking and macho country, it is a rarity that such an open and vibrant scene for the gay community exists. Moving forward, wild and enormous...this is Bogotá, Colombia.

Nestled 2640 meters above sea level (in Belfast we’re at sea level) Bogotá is a huge urban catastrophe. Once the most dangerous city in the world, in a country famous for drug trafficking and armed combat, it is now progressing towards to a more positive period. Sounds familiar, right?

“So, the first thing I need to tell you about is this place called Teatron”, eagerly proclaimed one of my flamboyant Colombian friends upon arrival to Bogotá. This place is insane. It has the capacity for 7,000 people, has about 15 different rooms

and it’s the biggest nightclub in Latin America...AND GAY! You pay 30,000 pesos (about 10 quid) entrance fee and it’s a free bar all night. Inside you can find an underwear shop, a sweet shop, a restaurant, and there’s even a café,

“This enormous metropolis has so much on offer.” not to mention the wide genre of music and sights on offer. It used to be an old theatre, the auditorium is now the main dance room, which is enormous, with incredible shows and performances every weekend.

Just imagine the Kremlin, but inside the Waterfront Hall.

Outside Theatron, in the neighbourhood of Chapinero – the name of the gay district – you will find endless ‘Love Hotels’, which I don’t think need an explanation, along with an array of seedy little backstreet bars and clubs to keep you enter tained to all hours, and cater for all tastes.

Although progressing, Bogotá is still a very dangerous city which should be explored with caution. Armed robbery, kidnapping and drugging is all too common, and on a very different level than anything that exists in Europe. On the other hand, this enormous metropolis has so much on offer in terms of culture, nightlife and sightseeing, hence why is has often been dubbed the ‘Rome of Latin America’.

I mean, come on... It’s the home country of Shakira, how could it not be so gay and fabulous after all that hip

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shaking and yodelling she’s transpor ted worldwide?

So grab an arepa, have a shot of Aguardiente and let Colombia’s exotic and exciting personality whisk you away someday!

Steven is a Journalism and Spanish graduate of the University of Chester who is currently working at a university and as a Freelance Journalist in Bogotá, Colombia.

Blog: gypsotravels.blogspot.co.uk Contact: steekyuk@hotmail.com

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RAYANNE HOUSE Rayanne House, the only Exclusively Private Dining restaurant in the Belfast area, was chosen as one of the Top 10 Best Restaurants in Ulster by ‘The Food and Wine Magazine’ in 2011, 2012 and 2013. Chef and proprietor, Conor McClelland, is well known for his creative menus and is listed as one of The Top 5 Chefs in Ulster. Enjoy exquisite dishes made with the best locally sourced produce served by attentive staff in an intimate and relaxing setting.

60 Demesne Rd, Belfast, Down BT18 9EX 028 9042 5859

UNION ST

Union Street serves an excellent selection of traditional and wholesome dishes. Mainly British, Irish and American influenced, dishes range from fresh healthy salads and a selection of tasty paninis through to hear ty home-made roast beef or traditional hamburgers.

In addition to our main menu, we also offer daily specials as well as our popular £5 lunch deal or £10.95 dinner menu.

Monday 12noon - 5.00pm Tuesday 12noon - 5.00pm Wednesday 12noon - 5.00pm Thursday 12noon - 9.00pm Friday 12noon - 9.00pm Saturday 12noon - 9.00pm Sunday No Service

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THE BOAT HOUSE The Boat House holds the title of Best Restaurant and Best Chef in County Down 2011, 2012 and 2013, and Best Chef in Ulster 2012. We believe passionately that superior cuisine and fine wine should be enjoyed by everyone, making your visit the perfect dining experience. The 32 seater restaurant specializes in five and seven course tasting menus and also provides a ÂŁ30 three course set menu. Make sure you get to see our Gin list which boasts 15 gins from all over the world. Situated on the Seaside of the Seacliff Road right beside Bangor Marina, The Boat House is a unique and enchanting historical building dating back to the 1840s. We take care to cater each event to your specific requirements and we promise to make it an occasion to remember.

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DAN’S STONEWALL CAFE Situated in the heart of Carlingford, Dan’s Stonewall Café is a favourite hangout among locals and tourists. Serving hearty, home cooked food (and offering free drinks refills!) in a relaxed and friendly atmosphere, the café welcomes everyone with open arms. Dan is well known in Carlingford; he’s a brilliant host and who is always making sure all his customers’ needs are met. Dan’s offers an impressive array of sandwiches, hot foods and sweet treats which are also available to take away. A homely, family friendly café, Dan’s is loved by all who visit.

The Square, Carlingford +353 42 938 3797

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CAFE HAVANA Cafe Havana is Belfast’s first Cuban themed restaurant. Evoking the exotic flavours, excitement and beauty of Cuba’s famous capital city. Located in the hear t of Belfast, Cafe Havana is a favourite among locals and visitors alike, with its delicious dishes, striking decor and electric atmosphere. Cafe Havana provides Belfast with a little something different, offering customers impor ted Cuban coffee, traditional Cuban cocktails and speciality Cuban beers. Quote ‘GNI Mag’ to receive a FREE additional tapas when you order from our new tapas happy hour menu.

Cafe Havana, 56-58 Berry St, Belfast. 02890 310809.

BAY TREE

The Bay Tree in Holywood is known for its superb quality, home cooked food and simple, fresh flavours. During the day tuck into their delicious, hugely popular cinnamon scones, or grab a sandwich and something sweet from their takeaway shop, Go! Bay Tree (look out for their £5 deal). For interesting, sophisticated yet informal dinner, they are also open on Friday nights. You can even book a private champagne/wine tasting par ty for a special celebration!

Open 7 days a week 02890 421 419 info@baytreeholywood.co.uk www.baytreeholywood.co.uk

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VISIT

CARLINGFORD Visit Carlingford is a one stop shop for everything you could possibly need during your visit to the picturesque, coastal town of Carlingford. We cater for any size and type of group: hen and stag par ties, corporate getaways, team bonding weekends or just a nice relaxing family break. We have everything covered, from accommodation and activities to restaurant deals. We will also customize a package to suit the needs of everyone in your group.

CAFE KING Conveniently located in King Street, just off Main Street in Bangor. Café King offers it’s diners great food, great craic and great prices. Enjoy favourites such as full breakfasts, delicious brunch, burgers, hot dogs, sandwiches, Irish and Italian dishes as well as a great choice for the vegetarians amongst us.

Offering table service as well as take away, you can pre-book or just walk in.

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SWEET TREE CAFE Sweet Tree Café is the perfect spot for enjoying a relaxing cuppa with one of their many tempting treats, or star ting the day off with a cooked Breakfast. For lunch they offer a tasty range of Sandwiches, Panini’s, Wraps and Salads, all made fresh to order. Hot food favourites include Homemade Lasagne, Steak Sandwiches & Melts all served up with real chips. The Kids also get their own quirky menu which is guaranteed to put a smile on your little one’s face. www.facebook.com/SweetTreeCafe 37A Comber Road, BT16 2AA Dundonald, Castlereagh, United Kingdom 028 9048 6809

TEATRO BELFAST

Teatro is an intimate cabaret restaurant located on Botanic Avenue. The restaurant is renowned for its eclectic style, exquisite food and electric atmosphere.

“Our dishes have been refined over many years of travelling throughout the Mediterranean, absorbing the authentic flavours and tastes of Madrid, Paris, Venice, Athens and Marrakesh.”

GNI paid Teatro and its owner, Kyron, a visit. We were dazzled by the place! Not only was the food fantastic, the live music and stylish interior combined to create an exciting atmosphere, making it a highly memorable dining experience.

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THE 6 BARS OF

CHRISTMAS ‘Tis the season to go down the pub. No Christmas would be complete without a good old knees-up in one or all of the following excellent establishments...

KREMLIN A Belfast institution, Kremlin Nightclub has been proudly enter taining people all over Ireland for over 10 years. As Nor thern Ireland’s first ever gay-owned and managed venue, Kremlin has established itself as the much-loved core of Belfast’s gay scene. Kremlin hosts brilliant regular nights such as Klub 180, Revolution and Deuce, as well as funfilled one-off theme nights (past events include Scally Night and Festival Night).

Kremlin has 4 bars over 2 floors and it’s the chosen venue of dozens of great music ar tists every year. Its early morning closing time of 3am makes it the perfect place to par ty! www.kremlin-belfast.com

UNION ST Recently refurbished, the Union Street Public House in Belfast is a super stylish

bar and restaurant. Once a Victorian shoe factory, Union Street retains a touch of antiquity; its wrought iron pillars and date plaques are still intact. Shoe Factory is Union Street’s self-contained club which hosts hugely

“Regular events listings can be found on page 112“ popular nights including Slosh, Bubu and Cherry (details in our ‘what’s on guide’ on page 112). Union Street welcomes weary Christmas shoppers to enjoy a delicious drink and a roaring open fire. If you wish to be enter tained, head here for some of Belfast’s best drag and cabaret acts.

www.unionstreetpub.com

MAVERICK There’s a new radical in town! The latest addition to Belfast’s ‘Queer Quar ter’, Maverick is well wor th a visit.

Its young, creative, fresh and fun décor matches its cool and friendly atmosphere.

Maverick already fits right in among the bars in Belfast’s Gay Village, offering amazing drinks deals from the get-go.

Their Friday Wine Club is perfect for after work drinks, with ½ price bottles of wine and Prosecco from 4pm – 7pm! www.maverickbelfast.com

SUNFLOWER Sunflower is a brilliant corner pub with a warm, welcoming atmosphere. The Sunflower, which showcases local and international music acts, has

been par t of the pub scene in Belfast for almost a year…

Happy 1st bir thday Sunflower!

Regular events listings can be found at the back of the mag in our ‘What’s On Guide’ (page 112). www.sunflowerbelfast.com

QUEENS BAR Queens Café Bar in Queens Arcade in Belfast hosts Men of the Nor th and The Twi Lite Club. Men of the Nor th meets on the last Friday of every month and the Twi Lite Club is a new women’s night which takes place on the last Saturday of each month.

The annual Belfast Best Bum Competition, sponsored by the GNI Mag (oooooooh, that’s us!), will be held in Queens Café Bar on 27th December 2013. Watch out for the Twi Lite New Year’s Eve par ty (black and white theme).

Come and enjoy these

excellent events at this stylish City Centre bar. www.queenscafebar.co.uk

CENTRAL BAR The Central Bar is Strabane’s first ever gay bar AND the only gay bar outside of a main city in the whole of Ireland! The Central Bar opened in April 2008 and has been inviting people in for drinks and good craic ever since! With brilliant club nights and fantastic drinks promos 7 nights a week, it’s all happening at the Central. www.thecentralbarstrabane. com Don’t make a fool of yourself… drink responsibly!

Maverick, Belfast

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A To Z

of Gay Slang

Slang is a wonderful thing.

It’s a newer, fresher, more informal and expressive vernacular – one that suits the laidback, ultra-cool attitude of today’s young trendsetters. And us gays have our very own slanguage!

A

Auntie – older gay male, usually feminine.

B Bear – a big, burly, hairy, masculine gay man.

C D

Cub – a young bear (see letter B).

Doris Day – Cockney rhyming slang for – yep, you’ve guessed it – gay!

E F G

En Femme – dressed in women’s clothing.

En drab – dressed in men’s clothing.

Fag Hag – a straight woman who loves the company of gay men.

Gaydar – a por tmanteau of gay and radar. Gaydar describes the built in ability to identify a gay person.

H

O

Hag Fag – a gay male who is close friends with several straight women.

I

Out – usually followed by the words ‘and proud’.

Iron-closet – a gay person who is stuck in the closet and will probably never come out.

J K L

Lavender Law – legal matters per taining to LGBT people.

M

MOMD – Man of My Dreams. Swit Swoo!

N

Newbie – new to the scene.

Vampires – those on the prowl for late night hook ups.

relationship.

Jewels – manhood.

Kiki – as in ‘let’s have a’.

U V W

Ursula – a lesbian bear.

P Q

Peek-Freak – one with a penchant for voyeurism.

X Y

Wasbian – a lesbian who is currently in a heterosexual

Xobile – the act of transmitting or receiving adult content via wireless.

Yestergay – Someone who identifies as straight after a long period of professed homosexuality.

Queen – a gay man with diva qualities.

Effeminate, flamboyant, and ALWAYS FABULOUS!

R

Ramona Rottencrotch – a man of questionable personal hygiene.

S T

Sappho Daddy-O – a straight man who spends most of his time with lesbians.

Twink – a fit, attractive, boyish gay man.

Z

Zanie – 19th century term for a gay man.

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Death Wish Coffee, 1 pound £12 from deathwishcoffee.com Can you handle the strongest coffee in the world?! This extremely robust coffee is around 200% stronger than regular brands. It will knock the head of you! Perfect for study leave or those impor tant work deadlines.

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GNI’s FAVOURITE The Golden Girls Lego Set - £61 www.esty.com A gift for the person who has everything except for Dorothy Zbornak, Rose Nylund, Blanche Devereaux and Sophia Petrillo in lego form. These lego ladies have been carefully handmade in amazing detail. Timeless, unique, charming and delightfully kitsch.

VW Campervan Toaster £39.95 from prezzybox.com Most people are fans of the classic retro light blue VW Campervan. Now you can have it in your kitchen! Mornings will never be the same again. This toaster is awesome. FACT.

Breaking Bad Heisenberg Air Freshener - £2.14 from hottopic.com Relive those happy Breaking Bad memories with this funky Heisenberg car air freshener. Ride up front with The Boss. Badass.

Yoda ‘Welcome You Are’ Doormat – £31 from esty.com Release your inner geek and welcome people into your home, Yoda style. Handmade item.

Sledgehammer - £19.98 from B&Q, www.diy.com For the ultimate Miley Cyrus fan. Be a star and recreate the controversial ‘Wrecking Ball’ video with this 7lb hickory handled sledgehammer from B&Q. GNI will not be held responsible for any damage caused.

Zombie Gnome - £14.99 from gettingpersonal.com Scare away unwanted pests with this horrific garden ornament.

Bookrest Lamp £35.99 from www. gettingpersonal.co.uk An oh so simple design with oh so many practical functions!

The bookrest lamp is a bookrest, a bedside reading lamp, and a handy bookmark. It looks like a nice little house, too.

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Jordan & Diona’s

Guide to Office Parties With the Christmas par ty season descending upon us, we wanted to take this oppor tunity to help our loyal readers avoid any social mishaps at their work do. We have identified the ‘potential characters to look out for at any work par ty.’ Which one are you?

The L.A.D He’s all banter in the office and this is his big moment to shine. He’ll be pulling moves on any civilians nearby to prove that his ‘I hooked up

the twins from Fun House’ story was true. You’ll be able to hear his trademark call ‘Jagerbombs guys, comeonJagerbombs!’ from a mile off. Stay clear after he’s had a few ‘bombs’ as he’ll either star t spouting shite or

try it on with you. Unless you like that sor t of thing.

Office Slut Can be found attached to a bottle of wine or any male who’ll give her some attention. Scantily clad and the first to use her desk as a podium. She might look like an easy target after a few pints but BEWARE she may use the oppor tunity to talk about how she could have been a model and then cry.

And vomit.

GNICOMEDY With every sip they come closer to revealing that you’re barely toilet trained and someone keeps dumping Durex Embrace in the Accounts bins. Keep them onside and get some good gossip incase you need it the next day.

The Boss He or she might pretend to be ‘The Craic’ and lull you into a false sense of security

but rest assured anything you say or do will be held against you. Avoid when hammered, also avoid positive honesty ‘I always thought you were a twat, but you’re alright you, you’re alright!’ If it all goes tits up, take some photos of them dancing to Gangnam style and use it for leverage.

Newbie They seem like fresh meat, they haven’t gone that weird grey colour everyone in HR turns after a few months.

They’ll be found giggling nervously in response to everything the boss says while sipping Buck’s fizz so as not to get too drunk. Hang around and you might hear why they got fired from their last job…

The Hottie Male or female, gay or straight. Don’t bother.

Honestly, if it was going to happen it would have by now. Twerking against them to Lady Gaga is only going to upset them. They won’t leave their undoubtedly beautiful par tner for you, they know where you work and it’s shit.

Though no harm in getting them haribo’d and seeing what happens eh?

Caretaker This guy or gal is a timebomb.

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SENSE OF TOUCH Unbelievable but true.

In Tomorrow’s World we look at recent breakthroughs in science and technology that will blow your mind! Recent research has shown that touch-sensitive prosthetic limbs could be a thing of the future…

The simplest of tasks can be a huge struggle for people with prosthetic limbs. Imagine not knowing how much pressure to apply to the phone or computer keyboard, or how wide to spread your fingers when picking up everyday objects. We rely heavily on our sense of touch.

A recent research breakthrough could enable wearers of prosthetic limbs to feel the sensation of touch.

Researchers in Chicago have now revealed that they have found that prosthetic limbs could, someday soon, convey live sensory information to the brain with the help of super intelligent interfaces.

The researchers conducted a study using Rhesus Macaque monkeys which showed that the sense of touch could be ar tificially recreated. By connecting electrodes to the par ts of the monkeys’ brains that correspond to each finger tip, and reading brain

activity, they found that the animals responded in exactly the same way to ar tificial stimulation and pressure as they did to real stimulation and pressure. This means that by surgically connecting an ar tificial finger tip complete

“The sense of touch could be artificially recreated.” with sensors to the brain, it could be possible for humans to use touch-sensitive prosthetics. Scientists will now be able to incorporate the information they have garnered from these studies into robotic prosthetic limbs to generate the sensation of touch in the brain. This vital research has paved the way for a human trial.

Resident funny girl, Gemma Hutton, mentally prepares us for Christmas...

It’s beginning to look a lot like Xmas...... is what I said in August. Tesco’s is taking the piss having advent calendars out before Halloween?!

I’ve already bought most of my pressies and picked out the cards I want to shop li... buy from BHS. I also got sent some fab ‘He-Shi’ foaming tan and par ty glitter spray which I’m loving. It’s the first time I haven’t looked like I have a skin disorder...long live the ‘He-Shi’ mits!

We’re having a cocktailhot tub kiki on Xmas day.

Yes, you read me correctly.

I’ll quaff a cosmo whilst unwrapping my presents. I’ll drink a daiquiri whilst peeling my sprouts. I’ll even enjoy a mojito whilst carving the roast beast. Then I shall get a bottle of vodka with a straw and sing carols in a hot tub with my closest friends.

I’m not making any resolutions this year.... there’s no point in lying to

GNICOMEDY

GEMMA HUTTON

anyone...I cancelled my gym membership and used the money to get a new sofa.

At least when they cut me out of it in the new year it’ll look nice.... I do intend to get myself down south more – ladies, no pun intended – and

“I shall get a bottle of vodka with a straw and sing carols.” across the water. I hope to travel my show ‘Lesbyterian Missconceptions’ and share my bitter lesbian wisdom with the L.G.B.T nation. Whatever you’re doing for Xmas, stay safe, stay fabulous and I’ll see you soon...once they cut me out of my sofa and finish the channel 4 documentary... ‘The 50 stone Lesbian.’

WHAT’S ON? Welcome to our essential guide to what’s happening on the scene in Belfast and Dublin. Here you’ll find daily listings of events taking place in the best bars and clubs and a handy map to help you locate them.

We’ve also included details about some of the hottest monthly and special nights. Keep an eye on our online What’s On Guide on www.gnimag.com for up-to-date information.

Remember to look out for our photographers who will be lurking around at various scene events ready to take your picture. Have fun and do try to be good.

Monday Union Street: The Trudy Show hosted by Miss Trudy Scrumptious El Divino: Swagger (Forbidden Fruit) John Hewitt: Open Mic Night Rain: Gossip, floorfillers and student anthems Central Bar Strabane: BOGOF Tuesday Kremlin: Klub 180 All drink £1.80 all night!

Union Street: Grannie’s Fun Factory, par ty games & massive drinks promos from 9pm Sunflower: Open Mic Night 7pm John Hewitt: Brouge, Traditional Irish Music Rain: Dirty Beatz, drinks from £2 all night

Envy: ‘Skint’ Student Night Central Bar Strabane: Final Countdown Wednesday Union Street: Tina’s Stop the Clock John Hewitt: Charity Night The Shoe Factory: SLOSH! 10pm – 2am Rain: Anatomy £3 entry Envy: Karaoke Central Bar Strabane: Big Gay Wednesday Thursday Kremlin: Deuce £2 Entry All drinks £2 Union Street: Okie Dokie Karaoke hosted by Trudy Scrumptious and Robert Brown Maverick: PORTIA PRESENTS... Variety,

cabaret and high jinks with Lady Por tia Di’ Monte from 9.30pm Sunflower: Folk Club 7pm John Hewitt: Sweet Trev & The BlueNotes Rain: Link, 2 Floors 2 DJs Fox’s Den: Quiz Night Envy: Members Club Central Bar Strabane: Thirsty Thursday Friday Kremlin: Weekly Theme Nights Union Street: An evening with ‘Glitzy Glamour’ Maverick: WINE CLUB - Half price bottles of selected wine from 4pm - 7pm! VAGABOND with DJ Marion Hawkes from 9pm Sunflower: Wookaklily Bluegrass 9pm John Hewitt: Panama Jazz Band Rain: Famous Fridays Fox’s Den: Twanda’s Den of Iniquity Envy: Kay’s House Party Central Bar Strabane: Friday Mash Up with DJ Ola Saturday Kremlin: Revolution from 9pm Union Street: Tina’s Trannyoke from 5pm-8pm, Grannie’s Time Tunnel from 9 til late Maverick: Party vibes from 9pm cour tesy of DJ Sean McCann Sunflower: Appalachian Session 8pm John Hewitt: the BIG John Hewitt early session, 5.30pm The Shoe Factory: Candy Crush (women only) Rain: Monastery hosted by Roxy Tumbledryer Fox’s Den: Golden Oldie Show Envy: Club Night Central Bar Strabane: Saturday Beats with DJ Ricardo Yard 401 Club: Candy Crush Saturgays

Sunday Kremlin: Industry from 10pm, admission free Union Street: The Sunday Bingo Show from 8.45pm Maverick: Live acoustic session from 6pm8pm, Sunday grooves by Groovebound from 8pm.

Sunflower: Traditional Session 7pm John Hewitt: Best Local Talent Fox’s Den: Sunday Night Disco Central Bar Strabane: Spiritual Sunday Specials 6th December @ Kremlin: THE BIG SWITCH ON! Kremlin Illuminations 2013 13th December @ Sunflower: Sunflower’s 1st Bir thday 14th December @ Rain: Snow Ball Party 31st December @ The Twi Lite Club: NYE Black and White Party Regular Monthlys Bubu @ The Shoe Factory – 1st Friday of the month (men only) Cherry @ The Show Factory – last Friday of the month (women only) The White Mansions @ The Sunflower – 1st Friday of the month Pub Quiz @ The Sunflower – 1st Tuesday of the month Hooker @ John Hewitt – 1st Friday of the month Passion @ Bellini’s (Newry) – 1st Saturday of the month Men of the North @ Queens Café Bar – last Friday of the month (men only) The Twi Lite Club @ Queens Café Bar – last Saturday of the month (women only)

Dublin Monday The Dragon: Dolly does Dragon Pantibar: Pints and Chats Tuesday The George: Bassline The Front Lounge: Karaoke with April Showers Pantibar: Oscar’s Film Night Sin Nightclub: Glitz Wednesday The George: Space N Veda Pantibar: Pints and Chats Thursday The Dragon: PrHomo The George: Thursty Thursdays The Front Lounge: 2 for 1 Cocktails Pantibar: Joystick DJ Dr Beat plays quality 80s music

Friday The Dragon: Plastic The George: Glitter Bomb Pantibar: DJ Steobear Andrews Lane Theatre: F.A.G. Saturday The Dragon: Dragged Up & Queen The George: SaturGays & Beauty Spot Karaoke Pantibar: The Panti Show 10pm Copper Alley: Mother Sunday The George: Bingo with Shirley Templebar Pantibar: Popcorn – Panti’s Tea Dance from 3pm Specials Regular Monthlys Rule @ Turk’s Head – last Sunday of the month

ON THE BELFAST MAP

ON THE DUBLIN MAP

(1) Kremlin – 96 Donegall Street (2) Union Street – 8-14 Union Street (3) Shoe Factory – Union Street (4) Foxes Den – (first floor) 106-110 Donegall Street (5) Mynt – 2-16 Dunbar Street (6) John Hewitt – 51 Donegall Street (7) Sunflower - 65 Union Street

(1) The Dragon - 64 Sth Great Georges Street (3) The George - 89 South Great Georges Street (4) Front Lounge - 33 Parliament Street (5) Pantibar - 8 Capel Street, Dublin (6) Rule @ The Turk’s Head - 27 Parliament Street (7) Dandelion Nightclub – 130-133 Saint Stephen’s Green West (8) Andrews Lane Theatre – 9 St. Andrews Lane (9) Copper Alley – Exchange Street, Temple Bar