July 8, 2023 Tie The Knot Signature Issue

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A CELEBRATION OF Love IN OUR TOWN

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Reid Bridal Group: Charles M. Howell, Jr., Eliza Ruth Hasson of Pittsburgh, Bates Huffacker, Margaret Giddings of Denver, William T. Kemper, Jr., Josephine Reid, Stephen Stubbs, Mrs. Stanley Christopher, Jr., Harry Gambrel, Maud Corrigan, Frank Houston, Mrs. Thomas P. Henry, Jr., of Detroit, John D. Velie, and Diana Gambrel, flower girl

Reprinted from the September 22, 1923 issue of The Independent.

Photo Credit: Strauss-Peyton

Stephen Stubbs-Josephine

Reprinted from the April 29, 1933 issue of The Independent.

Mrs. Ellis Cleveland Vencill

Reprinted from the August 28, 1923 issue of The Independent.

Engagement

Susan Grier Campbell of Mission Hills, Kansas, and Mr. Douglas Edward Campbell of Kansas City, Missouri, are pleased to announce the engagement of their daughter, Jillian Grier Campbell, to James Henry Helzberg, the son of Dr. and Mrs. John Henry Helzberg of Mission Hills. The bride-to-be is the granddaughter of Mr. and Mrs. James Edward Grier of Paradise Valley, Arizona, the late Maxine Lingwall, and the late Mr. Raymond Campbell. Jill is a graduate of St. Teresa’s Academy. She earned a bachelor of science degree in nursing from Villanova University. A member of Delta Delta Delta sorority, Jill is employed with Duke University Medical Center in Durham, North Carolina.

Her groom-elect is the grandson of Mrs. Norman Ross Morrow of Salina, Kansas, and the late Dr. Morrow, and the late Dr. and Mrs. James Morton Helzberg. James is a graduate of The Pembroke Hill School. He was a Gentleman of The Jewel Ball in 2012 and was also an escort. James earned a bachelor of science degree in biology from Davidson College. He received his medical degree from Duke University School of Medicine. James completed his internal medicine residency and is in fellowship training for gastroenterology at Duke University Medical Center. Theirs will be a September 30th wedding at The Kansas City Country Club.

Toast To Olde Tymes

The third floor of Emery, Bird, Thayer was the site for a May 1937 fashion show featuring everything from beach togs to gardening overalls to bridal dresses, as they were termed. In charge was Murrel “Muriel” Finley Groves (Mrs. R. Dinwiddie Groves), herself a recent bride –and quite possibly the only former Ziegfeld Follies performer in the room. (If you can prove us wrong, we’ll be delighted.) As our scribe noted, “A raised platform, decorated with great bouquets of lilacs, supplied stepping space for the models, who included such pretty society girls as Katherine Dickey, Josephine Jobes, Suzanne Callaway, Nancy Jane Redheffer, Virginia Punton, Mary Joe Marshall, and Mrs. Clifford Johnston. As a finale to the bridal tableau, Mrs. Johnston sang ‘All For You’ very beautifully accompanied by

the orchestra.” Orchestra? Well, yes. The event was designed to appeal to as many senses as possible.

The golden age of bridal fashion shows seems to have been from roughly the mid-1930s until the 1970s. In New York in April 1936, a show for stylists featured a parade of “brides of two centuries” – and the tip that the hot new color would be “azalea pink.” (Did that catch on at the time? Alas, most of the wedding photos we’ve seen from that era are in black and white.)

Although wedding season is often thought of as spring to early fall, the shows were held at all times of the year. John Taylor’s held one in November 1947 that was directed by Kathleen Blackburn, a bridal consultant at Macy’s in New York. It was intended to address the topic of fall and winter weddings. Among the styles was a gown that reflected Victorian influences. It featured padded hips, a bouffant bustle, and a long train. Why? All the better to show off the bride’s tiny waist. More modern was a silver white satin gown, with accents of blue on the veil and in the bridal bouquet. This was paired with blue satin shoes. Brides wishing to change into going-away attire could choose from an array of suits, among them one of champagne satin with black braid trim and a brown orchid corsage. The bridesmaids’ attire included crinolines and hoop skirts, and, for holiday-themed weddings, green velvet and mistletoe. Among the models were a pair of three-year-old twins, who were flower girls in peach taffeta.

At Emery, Bird, Thayer’s February 1950 show, the new trend that was heralded was the floor-length wedding dress, but much attention was given

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to items meant to delight the groom. As the Kansas City Star stated, “Negligee ensembles were lavish with lace, nylon in permanent pleats, embroidery work and other lovely accents. One embroidered nylon gown and negligee set had a delicate touch of baby blue ribbon in beading at the waist. A mauve negligee in pure silk chiffon is the type long treasured by brides in their trousseaux.” (We pause now to try and remember when we last heard anyone mention a trousseau. It may have been before some of our younger colleagues were born.)

Not all bridal fashion shows were advertisements for stores. We wish we had had a ringside seat for one held at a tea given by members of the Sketch Box committee in May 1954. Members modeled their own wedding gowns. Adding to the fun, they showed their silver. (Francis I? Eloquence? Damask Rose? Spring Glory? We wish we knew.)

As time went on, there was a greater emphasis on in-store gift registries, which might feature silver, china, crystal, linens, and housewares – and even bridal consultants, who kept track of all the lists.

In October 1959, Dorothy Cassidy, the managing editor of Bride and Home magazine, came to Our Town to interview Edythe Moore, the bridal consultant at Halls. As our scribe noted, “Halls bridal registry was selected by the magazine to exemplify this advisory service to the bride, helping with the coordination of her table setting, decorative accessories and the many facets of her wedding and launching of her new home.”

For some stores, an occasional event wasn’t enough. In 1965, Macy’s devoted a week to brides-to-be. As Thomas W. Johnston, the president, recounted in an ad, “The week was climaxed with a beautiful Bridal Fashion Show that included a showing of unusual bridal bouquets created especially for the show.”

The events at department stores remained popular into the 1970s. January and February 1972 saw shows at Harzfeld’s, Swanson’s, Woolf Brothers, and The Jones Store. Notably, though, there was already a shift to more individualistic thinking. (This will come as no surprise to anyone who remembers the “Me Decade.”). The event at Harzfeld’s was narrated by Lynn Scott Miller of Mademoiselle magazine. Barbara Jaekel caught the mood of it in her summary for the Kansas City Star: “Tuck your hair into a beaded skull cap or wear it long beneath a wide-brimmed picture hat… Gown your bridesmaids in seersucker…or gingham or tattersall checks.”

As long as there are brides and grooms, there will be fashion shows featuring wedding finery and gift registries. Most of the department stores that were here 50 years ago are now merely memories. As the grandchildren and great-grandchildren of the brides-to-be who were in the audience of that May 1937 show at Emery, Bird, Thayer prepare for their own weddings, they may visit bridal boutiques, or wedding expos at convention centers and hotels, or simply click through as many options online as they care to view. What they’ll have in common with earlier generations, we hope, is joy and excitement as they await The Big Day – and all the days to come. More at kcindependent.com.

William H. Haney

A glimpse of the Wedding Tableaux presented by Emery, Bird, Thayer’s at their Summer Fashion Showing this week Reprinted from the May 8, 1937 issue of The Independent.

Engagement

Mr. and Mrs. Scott Alan Welge of Chapel Hill, North Carolina, are pleased to announce the engagement of their daughter, Cassidy Taylor Welge, to Chandler Sherman McCray, Jr., the son of Sandra Morello McCray of Prairie Village, Kansas, and Mr. Chandler Sherman McCray of Mission Hills, Kansas. The bride-to-be is the granddaughter of the late Dorothy Ruth Humphrey, the late Mr. William Robert Humphrey, and Mrs. Thomas Edward Welge of Highland, Illinois, and the late Mr. Welge. Cassidy is a graduate of Northwood High School in Chapel Hill. She earned a bachelor of science degree in public health from the University of North Carolina. Cassidy is a member of Pi Beta Phi sorority. She is currently a medical student at Kansas City University College of Medicine.

Her groom-elect is the grandson of Mrs. Frank Anthony Morello of Canton, Ohio, and the late Mr. Morello, and Mrs. Harry Claxton McCray, Jr. of Prairie Village, and the late Mr. McCray. Chandler is a graduate of The Pembroke Hill School. He was a Gentleman of The Jewel Ball and an escort in 2014. Chandler earned a bachelor of science degree in business administration from Elon University. A member of Sigma Phi Epsilon fraternity, he is employed with McCray Lumber and Millwork in Leawood, Kansas. Theirs will be a June 1, 2024 wedding in Lake Toxaway, North Carolina.

Krystal Kast

Nuptial

Amy Lee Middleton and James Paul Uhlmann were married on January 21st at The Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art. The bride is the daughter of the late Sharon and Michael Middleton. Amy is the granddaughter of the late Edith Lyle, the late Jack Lyle, and the late Lillian and Richard Middleton. Her groom-elect is the son of Elizabeth and Paul Uhlmann III of Mission Hills, Kansas. James is the grandson of the late Marion and Henry Bloch and the late Barbara and Paul Uhlmann, Jr. On the evening of January 20th, the Uhlmanns toasted their son and future daughter-in-law at the rehearsal dinner at The Kansas City Country Club. The beautiful wedding reception at The Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art was given by the bride’s late father. Amy and James are planning a honeymoon trip to Europe. They are now at home in Kansas City, Missouri. Amy is the founder and chief executive officer of Rose Lily, and James is the founder and chief executive officer of Paradigm Food Group.

REMEMBER WHEN

Mr. and Mrs. Charles Ray Hotchkiss make a radiant pair at their reception held at Leawood Country Club following the exchange of vows, February 4th, at St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church. The former Gloria Landon is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. John M. Landon. The son of Mr. and Mrs. Orrin Hotchkiss of Topeka and his bride traveled to Hot Springs, Arkansas, for their honeymoon. Presently, they are at home at the Cloverleaf Apartments in Lawrence, Kansas. Reprinted from the March 11, 1961 issue of The Independent.

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I Wonder –if the well-laid plans for the anniversary picnic went wrong when both people picked up champagne and nobody picked up the main course?

Felicia Ramirez

Nuptial

Kathryn Olivia Hjalmarson and Jason Stephen Blake were united in matrimony at The Inn at Rancho Santa Fe in San Diego, California, on April 15th. The bride is the daughter of Elizabeth and John Hjalmarson of Leawood, Kansas. Her groom is the son of Sharon and Stephen Blake of San Diego. The Blakes were the hosts for the rehearsal dinner, which was held at The Crosby Club on the evening of the 14th. The Hjalmarsons toasted their daughter and new son-in-law at a reception immediately following the ceremony. The newlyweds honeymooned in Tanzania. They are now at home in New York City. Kathryn is employed with Embrace, headquartered in Los Angeles, California, and Jason is employed with Guggenheim Partners in New York City.

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I Wonder –if the bride discovered too late that the battered fishing hat and the well-sprung lounge chair were considered members of the family?

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Nuptial

Katasha Catrena Kumar and Caden Alan Jünk were united in matrimony on May 26th at the Grand Sirenis Riviera Maya Resort and Spa in Riviera Maya, Mexico. The bride is the daughter of Linda and Surinder Kumar of Mundelein, Illinois. Her groom is the son of Eva Marie and Mark Jünk of Hays, Kansas. On the evening prior to the nuptials, the groom’s parents hosted a lovely rehearsal dinner at La Gira Rodizio. Matthew Applequist served as the officiant. Sabrina Brown was the matron of honor, and Seth Jünk, brother of the groom, was the best man. The bridesmaids were Erin Smith, Lainey Summers, Sarah Ares, and Maddie Renne. Hayden David, Matt Roberti, and James Mindrup served as the groomsmen. Following the ceremony, the bride’s parents toasted the newlyweds at a beautiful reception at The Palapa on the beach. Katasha and Caden, along with their dog and cat, are at home in Our Town. Katasha is director of global revenue operations for C2FO, and Caden is an occupational therapist for the Visiting Nurse Association.

REMEMBER WHEN

“The day is about you and your partner, so you should have the wedding you both want! This also applies to vendors and budgets - if someone or something doesn’t give you that warm and fuzzy feeling, keep looking for the right fit. Finally, trust your gut with the budget. Spend on what's important to you, nothing less, nothing more.” – Maurine Lenahan, Hilton President Kansas City

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I Wonder –will she or won’t she marry him after a six-year courtship?

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YOU TO THE MOON AND BACK

Flower Girl Simone Blake with Kathryn Blake at Kathryn’s wedding to

Ring Bearers Milo Blake, Ellis Blake, and Charlie Balawajder were eager to see Kathryn Hjalmarson and Jason Blake wed.

Millie Jackson, Laura Jackson, and Eve Jackson were the flower girls for the wedding of Amal Gochenour and Dr. James Fields.

Daniella and Jack Longan with a trio of wellwishers: Annie Hays, Sage Hays, and Koda Hays

Douglas Faris and Hunter Biddle, providers of “ring security” at the marriage of Chloe Fischgrund and Doug Williams

Flower Girl Madison Biddle smiled down the aisle at the wedding of Chloe Fischgrund and Doug Williams.

David Gochenour was a ring bearer at the ceremony uniting Amal Gochenour and Dr. James Fields in marriage.

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Flower Girl Sadie Baker with Brogan Caffarelli on the day Brogan married Johnathan Cullen.

Flower Girls Samantha Kahan and Sloane Fantus were ready to watch Hannah Arnspiger marry Robert Freeman.

John Nestor was ready to serve as ring bearer for Maggie Nothnagel and Kip Hart.

Gigi Nestor, flower girl; and John Nestor, ring bearer; paused on their way down the aisle at the wedding of Maggie Nothnagel and Kip Hart.

Ophelia Bukaty, junior bridesmaid; Jordan and Patrick Howell, and Ben Bukaty, junior groomsman

William Smith, ring bearer; and Lincoln Smith, flower girl; with Newlyweds Jordan and Abbey Schmidt More at kcindependent.com

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Rachel’s Reads

The most dramatic season of the year is upon us: wedding season! I’m not sure there hasn’t been one wedding without at least a smidgeon of drama. Whether it comes from family, friends, loved ones, or the vendors, weddings are a flash point for high expectations, past disappointments, and maybe even old resentments to rear their heads. All of this of course makes for an excellent setting for a novel, specifically murder mysteries and thrillers. Crimes set against the lush and beautiful backdrops of weddings, and especially love, make for fantastic reads. I hope you enjoy these books which show that sometimes dark desires lie behind the happiest moments.

One of the Girls by Lucy Clarke

Set on a stunning, sun-soaked Greek Island, this bachelorette party ends in murder. Six different women, each with their own secret, travel to celebrate Lexi’s wedding, although it begins to seem too good to be true. This thriller explores female friendships and the deadly consequences when something goes wrong.

Dial A for Aunties by Jesse Q. Sutanto

When wedding photographer Meddelin Chan accidentally kills her blind date, she calls her mother and her aunties to help get rid of the body. Unfortunately it is harder to dispose of a body than they think, as it inadvertently gets shipped to the over-the-top wedding where they will all be working. When her ex enters the picture at the wedding, Meddy and her aunts must pull off a stunning wedding while avoiding murder charges. This humorous novel has a fun follow-up in Four Aunties and a Wedding.

The Guest List by Lucy Foley

This is the book that was the inspiration for this article. It is set on a deserted island off the coast of Ireland, where someone is gravely injured at the reception. The novel then returns to the beginning of the wedding weekend and illustrates who would want a member of the wedding party dead.

Her Dark Lies by J.T. Ellison

Set on a stunning island off the coast of Italy, and owned by the wealthy Compton family, painter Claire will marry Jack Compton. However, when she arrives, she discovers that skeletal remains have just been found. There are menacing texts, a ruined wedding dress, and a mystery involving Jack’s first wife.

When the Reckoning Comes by LaTanya McQueen

Mira hasn’t returned to her hometown since she left more than a decade ago. Running from old friends, the boy she loved, haunting memories, and the sinister plantation nearby, she is finally returning for her childhood friend’s wedding. Mira wants to make amends if she can, but the plantation setting for the wedding unnerves her with the ominous echoes of the past and the horrifying reenactments. As the wedding weekends unfolds, Mira and her friends must deal with the past before they can move forward.

You’re Invited by Amanda Jayatissa

Amaya hasn’t heard from her childhood friend, Kaavi, for quite some time, until she is unexpectedly invited to Kaavi’s wedding. The wedding will be over-the-top and the groom just so happens to be Amaya’s ex-boyfriend and Amaya wants to make sure the wedding doesn’t happen. However, once she arrives, she notices that rumors about her are abundant and when Kaavi goes missing, all evidence points to Amaya, so she must be the one to figure out what’s really going on.

Every Vow You Break by Peter Swanson

Abigail’s dream honeymoon becomes a nightmare when a man she had a regrettable one-night stand with at her bachelorette party shows up out of the blue. He believes that their night was the beginning of something special, and he has tracked her down to prove it.

Torn between ruining her perfect honeymoon (and possibly her marriage) and dealing with it herself, the twists and turns make this a psychological page turner.

Happy Reading!

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TO CELEBRATE

Thumbing through our archives from the past 124 years, we can’t help but smile at the happy faces of wonderful people who have graced our pages. With wedding season upon us, we’re spotlighting special couples who are celebrating big anniversaries this year. Read on to see their engagement and wedding announcements from yesteryear, accompanied by a photo of the couples today. Cheers to love in Our Town!

65 YEARS

Mr. and Mrs. Whitney Edward Kerr (Mariella Gibson) toast their future with an old French loving cup at the home of her mother, Mrs. Campbell Ellis, scene of reception after chancel rite January 2nd at St. Andrew’s. The Whitney Kerrs’ son, now in KCU law school, and his bride reside at 1306 West 44th Terrace.

Reprinted from the January 18, 1958 issue of The Independent.

50 YEARS

Mr. and Mrs. Bartley John Readey III (she was Ann Parker North) leave St. Paul’s Episcopal Church on April 28th, bound for the small, at-home reception given by her mother, Mrs. George Longan Gordon, and Mr. Gordon. He is the son of Mrs. Bartley John Readey, Jr., and the late Mr. Readey. The couple had a short trip to Carmel and will be at home in mid-June in Westwood.

Reprinted from the May 12, 1973 issue of The Independent.

“Take time to think about the experience of your guests. How do you want them to feel when they enter the reception? Warm, welcome, and excited are a few great adjectives. Decide how to make those things happen with your team. Maybe it is the music, the smell of the food, or fun signature drinks (or, maybe, all three!) that guests can begin to enjoy the moment they enter the reception. Thoughtful, intentional planning leads to a successful wedding!” – Kindra Browne, Simple Elegance

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LoveA CAKE WALK

July 23, 2022

Cosentino’s Bakery made a lovely three-tier cake for Maggie and Kevin Hart. Two tiers were red velvet flavored, and one tier was wedding cake. The couple chose red velvet because the groom and his late father, Kevin Mark Hart, shared that as their favorite flavor. The cake was covered in vanilla icing and adorned with flowers for extra detail.

Hannah and Robert Freeman

December 3, 2022

Hannah and Bobby’s wedding cake was a vanilla torte yellow wedding cake with vanilla buttercream frosting and white chocolate shavings from André’s Confiserie Suisse. It was adorned with some of their wedding flowers from Good Earth Floral.

Daniella and Jack Longan

September 24, 2022

Daniella and Jack had a beautiful lemon cake with buttercream frosting and florals from HyVee Bakery.

Brogan and Johnathan Cullen

October 15, 2022

André’s Confiserie Suisse designed a beautiful two-tier wedding cake for Brogan and John. The bottom layer was raspberry and rum with a yellow cake, and the top layer was mocha flavored. The couple had a second cake that was chocolate and pistachio and covered in white chocolate shavings.

Abbey and Jordan Schmidt

September 17, 2022

Dolce Bakery created Abbey and Jordan’s cake, which featured almond cake on the bottom tier, and pumpkin spice cake with vanilla cream cheese icing, caramel, and sea salt flakes on the top tier.

Maggie and Kevin Hart

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Chloe and Douglas Williams

October 8, 2022

Chloe and Doug’s wedding cake was created by The Baby Bird Bakery. It was an almond cake with an almond buttercream filling and vanilla buttercream on the outside. The cake featured the couple’s dog, Olive, taking a bite out of the side of the it!

Katherine and Scott Barnow

December 31, 2022

Dolce Bakery created a traditional wedding cake for Katie and Scott. The beautiful cake was vanilla with vanilla buttercream. The florals were from Good Earth Floral.

Bonnie and Jack Kudrna

December 31, 2022

Clever Cakes created Bonnie and Jack’s cake, which featured an almond vanilla cake with buttercream frosting.

Kathleen and Nicholas Kolarik

May 29, 2022

Sarah Pryor with Summit Grill made a wonderful cake for the couple, which consisted of three tiers. One tier was whipped chocolate ganache, one was classic vanilla, and one was lemon blueberry with buttercream icing.

Amal Gochenour and Dr. James Fields

August 20, 2022

While Amal and James did have a cake, it was not the main attraction. The couple chose to serve mini ice cream cones, courtesy of their favorite Baltimore ice cream establishment, Taharaka Brothers.

Caitlin and Broderick Johnson

June 25, 2022

Created by Dolce Bakery, Caitlin and Brody chose an almond flavored cake with raspberry cream filling and traditional vanilla icing.

Kathryn and Jason Blake

April 15, 2023

Kathryn and Jason had a delicious lemon cake with lemon mousse and raspberry jam with a whipped cream frosting made by Flour Power Cakery.

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BRIDAL GOWN AND MAKEUP TRENDS FOR THE 2023 WEDDING SEASON

By Monica V. Reynolds

Wedding season is upon us, with brides-to-be eagerly seeking inspiration and the latest styles to create their perfect wedding day look. When it comes to the hottest styles in the world of bridal gowns and makeup, one need not look further than Kansas City’s wedding industry professionals. Nataliya Meyer, the designer behind Lucia’s Sarto Custom Sewing, and Tiffany Simons, the master aesthetician at Faces by Tiffany, provided helpful insights into 2023 bridal trends.

Bridal Gown Trends:

Less is More, Boho Vibes, and Individuality

While brides of yesteryear opted for ruching, ruffles, and full skirts, according to Nataliya, today’s prevailing theme is often “less.” Many brides are gravitating toward fitted, minimalist designs that showcase high-end satins and crepe fabrics that exude a luxurious feel and provide subtle texture. Backless and strapless gowns are particularly popular, reflecting a desire for simplicity and elegance.

“I see trends like pearls, and clean dresses, versus something completely wild,” Nataliya said. “The more

The “Reagan” is a one-of-a-kind, floral and lace gown designed by Nataliya Meyer of Lucia’s Sarto Custom Sewing and modeled by Amie Dakorson.

minimal it is the better.” In addition, transformative gowns with removable elements, such as accessories and sleeves, are becoming more sought after, as it offers brides a chance to adapt their look throughout the wedding day.

In line with the minimalistic trend, Nataliya said brides are requesting gowns with tiny straps, corseted fronts, and nude linings with lace overlay. The focus is on natural beauty, with less padding in the chest, allowing brides to embrace their unique figure and feel comfortable on their special day. Some brides even choose to incorporate unconventional elements, like wearing sneakers or hiking shoes for elopements, emphasizing their desire for freedom and comfort. “After COVID, people are eloping so some dresses are more boho,” Nataliya said. “People just want to enjoy life.”

Along those lines, Nataliya is particularly drawn to Western-style wedding dresses with embroidery, symmetrical lace patterns, illusion lace, and well-placed fringe. “Boho is lacey and delicate,” she said. “It’s not stark white anymore. It’s off-white. And even though I love fringe, it’s not common to wear. It just has to be applied in the right way.”

While many brides opt for vintage-inspired off-white colors, others bring authentic vintage gowns to Nataliya, seeking customizations. “People will bring in a 30-year-old dress from Mom and Grandma,” she said. “It’s enjoyable to see how confident people are when they’re wearing a vintage dress.”

Whatever the style, before saying yes to the dress, Nataliya advises brides-to-be to remember that what looks stunning on Instagram may appear different on an individual.

Makeup Trends: Radiant Skin and Effortless Elegance

While brides-to-be scroll Instagram for wedding-day inspiration, they don’t necessarily follow makeup trends that grace the feed day and night. Aesthetician and Makeup Artist Tiffany Simons said, “Clients now understand that the makeup they see on Instagram doesn’t translate in the real world. They want their skin to be the focal point.”

In the quest for picture-perfect skin on their wedding day, brides have been flocking to Tiffany for last-minute skincare treatments like micro-needling, dermaplaning, and facials. However, she cautions brides who are inspired by fleeting TikTok trends not to rush into treatments too close to the big day. Unfortunately, glowing skin cannot be achieved overnight. Instead, Tiffany advises brides to prioritize

their skin early on by scheduling appointments with their aesthetician or dermatologist as soon as they get engaged. It takes time for the skin to respond and show visible improvements – sometimes up to a year.

For those brides who find themselves just a few steps away from their wedding day, Tiffany offers sage advice: “Keep your skincare routine simple beforehand. Anything you do to your skin can cause a reaction.” By keeping it simple and consistent, brides can ensure their skin stays clear, calm, and ready to glow on their special day. Skincare basics include a focus on daily moisturizing, wearing sunscreen, and nourishing skin from within.

Tiffany advised incorporating green leafy vegetables, probiotics, and prebiotics into a daily diet, which can work wonders for a complexion. She said certain strains of probiotics help maintain radiant and healthy skin, while prebiotics provide a fiber boost and aid in warding off harmful bacteria.

When it comes to makeup, Tiffany noted the days of vibrant eyeshadow colors and glittered eyelids are over. The current trend revolves around creating a soft, effortless appearance. Brides are increasingly requesting subtle enhancements, such as fluffy eyebrows and full, fluffy eyelashes –often opting for mink lashes. When it comes to eye makeup, brides favor flesh-toned eyeshadows in shades like brown, gold, and champagne. Even manicured nails have taken a turn toward neutral tones or classic French tips, allowing the bridal gown and glowing skin to be the focal points.

To ensure your best makeup look, Tiffany emphasized the importance of preparation. “Book a consultation and have your makeup done for your save-the-date photo shoot,” she said. “That way you can see how it looks in different lighting conditions and how the temperature affects it.” This approach ensures that brides are fully satisfied with their chosen makeup artist, leaving room for a backup plan if needed. As a last word of advice, Tiffany recommends brides aim to look like a glamorous version of themselves, reflecting their unique style while enhancing their natural features. “You’re marrying your best friend,” she said. “He wants to see his best friend walk down the aisle. Keep the essence of who you are.”

By embracing natural makeup looks that highlight radiant skin, Tiffany believes brides can create timeless photo memories that will be treasured by their children and grandchildren. Whether choosing a wedding gown or makeup, by opting for a minimalist and effortless look, today’s brides can exude their natural beauty and truly shine on their special day. More at kcindependent.com.

Amie Dakorson modeled a one-of-a-kind, custom “Tiffany Gown” featuring a vintage, textured, solid material, created by Designer Nataliya Meyer, Lucia’s Sarto Custom Sewing.

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40 YEARS

Mr. and Mrs. Christopher Steven Shank (Elizabeth Curtis Bliss), whose wedding took place at Visitation Church, share a champagne toast at the reception hosted by her parents, Mr. and Mrs. Curtis Tiernan Bliss. The Kansas City Country Club event had guests dancing to the big band sound of Skip Hawkins until midnight. The son of the Kenneth Gerald Shanks of Springfield and his bride are at home in Kansas City after a honeymoon trip to Caneel Bay, St. John, in the Virgin Islands.

Reprinted from the July 2, 1983 issue of The Independent.

35 YEARS

Mr. and Mrs. Charles M. Benson, the former Jennifer Kircher, prepare to cut the wedding cake at their reception at The Kansas City Country Club following their candlelight wedding at St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church. The newlyweds are now at home and back at work at United Missouri Bank after a honeymoon on Antigua, West Indies.

Reprinted from the August 6, 1988 issue of The Independent.

I Wonder –

if you know the couple, happily married some 30 years, who took that “test your love quotient” quiz and received a pair of “failing” scores?

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TO SEE THE SIGHTS Love

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“When looking to hire vendors for your wedding, you will find that everyone has five-star reviews and great words written about them. Go deeper. Look at their work on Instagram, does it look like what you are envisioning?

Ask for references, and call those references. Ask the vendor how many years they have been in business, and can they handle what you want?

Ask for past examples. Not all vendors are created equal. Don’t hire based solely on reviews and price. Hire because they are a good fit and because they understand what you want to create!” – Sarah

Quinlivan, Quintessential Events

Kathleen and Nicholas Kolarik enjoyed a honeymoon in California.

Dr. James Fields and Amal Gochenour traveled around the Patagonia region in Argentina and Chile, culminating in a rugged trek through Torres Del Paine National Park, on the Chilean side of Patagonia.

Hannah and Robert Freeman honeymooned in St. Lucia.

A beautiful view from Kathleen and Nicholas Kolarik’s honeymoon

Love

KNOWS NO BOUNDS

By Monica V. Reynolds

Love is in the air, and wedding season is upon us! The anticipation of tying the knot and celebrating a lifetime of happiness can be exhilarating. However, for many LGBTQ+ couples, the journey to finding inclusive wedding vendors can turn what should be a joyous occasion into a daunting task.

In a world where inclusivity is increasingly valued, Kansas City has made strides in embracing same-sex couples. However, not all wedding industry professionals have caught up with the times. The fear of facing discrimination or judgment still lingers for those who are hesitant to come out to every wedding professional they approach. Thankfully, the Kansas City Weddings and Events Coalition (WECo) is here to save the day.

WECo, a community and online directory of wedding and event professionals, is dedicated to providing an inclusive atmosphere for all couples. As part of the Mid-America LGBT Chamber of Commerce, WECo was born out of a realization by Photographer Morgan Miller, who noticed a growing number of same-sex couples seeking her services. When same-sex marriage was legalized in 2015, she decided to gear more of her marketing toward the community. “I think love is love, and we should champion it,” Morgan said. “If you’re going to be in the business of love, you need to be accepting of all its forms. I would cringe every time I would hear some story about how a cake maker wouldn’t make a cake.”

Recognizing the lack of resources available to support and guide these couples through their wedding planning journey, Morgan proposed the idea of a directory of inclusive wedding industry professionals to the board of the Mid-America LGBT Chamber of Commerce. WECo was established in 2021, and it has since flourished with 40 wedding and events vendors on board. As part of their membership, each WECo vendor must complete a course in Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI). In addition, each year they undergo inclusivity training to ensure they are equipped with the knowledge and sensitivity needed to create a safe and welcoming space for all couples.

Jeff Dutzel is a board member of WECo and the owner of Dutzel’s Catering and Events – a same-sex-owned business. He said he believes that inclusivity begins with language and representation. For example, vendors who aspire to be more inclusive use terms like “couple” instead of “bride and groom” on their contracts and websites. In addition, they showcase images depicting same-sex couples on their marketing

materials, sending a clear signal to LGBTQ+ couples that they are valued and embraced. Jeff said, “WECo aims to foster continuous growth and learning for its members. In fact, WECo vendors come together throughout the year for networking events where they share best practices and experiences.”

For Jeff, inclusivity is not just good business; it’s a transformative experience for couples. Having walked down the aisle with his husband in 2016, he understands the immense pressure and challenges faced by the LGBTQ+ community when planning a wedding. “Coming out to family is traumatic,” Jeff acknowledged. “Now imagine coming out to 12 vendors to plan your wedding—it dampens the excitement. Some will not do business with same-sex couples and WECo provides a safe space for them.” While some vendors clearly still have work to do, Jeff asserted that most professionals genuinely desire inclusivity. Looking ahead, Jeff envisions that same-sex wedding events will become increasingly more common. In the past, same-sex couples often opted for courthouse ceremonies to avoid potential backlash. However, as society becomes more accepting, the LGBTQ+ community is more empowered to celebrate their special day in grandeur. “Same-sex weddings are going to be a bigger piece of the pie,” Jeff said. “As the years go on, more same-sex couples will want elaborate weddings. Businesses that are not inclusive will be ousted because the word will get out.”

In the meantime, as society evolves to greater inclusivity, WECo stands as a beacon of hope and support for both engaged LGBTQ+ couples and wedding industry professionals. For couples, finding the perfect vendors is just a few clicks away. WECo’s directory offers a sanctuary of inclusive wedding professionals who understand the LGBTQIA community’s unique

needs and embrace their love stories. From photographers to caterers, florists to planners, WECo’s directory is an invaluable resource to help couples plan the wedding of their dreams.

Meanwhile, wedding professionals can enhance their businesses while fostering a more welcoming industry through membership, which is available on the WECo website. By becoming a WECo member, not only will businesses enjoy the benefits of the Mid-America LGBT Chamber of Commerce, but they will also gain access to industry-leading educational opportunities and inspirational networking events.

Love is love, and WECo ensures that it knows no bounds. So, as wedding season approaches, let’s celebrate love in all its forms and support organizations like WECo that champion diversity, equality, and inclusion.

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Hosted By: WECo KC • @WECo.KC and Mid-America LGBT Chamber of Commerce • @MidAmericaLGBT

Venue: 21c Museum Hotel Kansas City • @21cKC @TheSavoyKC

Photography: Black Coffee Photo Co. • @BlkCoffeePhoto and Hey Tay Photography • @HeyTayPhoto

Coordination: Brick + Ivory Events • @BrickAndIvoryKC

Rentals/Design: Marquee Event Rentals • @Marquee_Rents

Specialty Linens: Citrus Table • @Citrus.Table

Floral Design: Good Earth Floral Design Studio • @GoodEarthFloral

Beauty: Bronzed + Blushed • @BronzedAndBlushed

Cake Design: Taylor Elizabeth Cakes • @TaylorElizabeth.Cakes

Catering: Dutzel’s Catering & Events • @DutzelsCatering

Coffee Cart: The Wild Way Coffee • @TheWildWayCoffee

Stationery: A Day To Adore • @ADayToAdore

Dress Shop: True Society by Belle Vogue Bridal • @TrueSociety_BelleVogue

Dress Designer: All Who Wander • @AllWhoWander

Tuxes: Lanea Grace Bridal Boutique • @LaneaGraceBridalBoutique

Jewelry: Justice Jewelers • @JusticeJewelers

DJ and Dance Floor: Levity Weddings & Events • @LevityEvents

Officiant: Wedley Weddings • @Wedley_Weddings

Balloons: Pop Culture Sculptures • @PopCultureSculptures

Event Organization: Suzanne Wheeler • @WECo.KC and Morgan Miller • @MorganMillerPhotography

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Photo Credit: Black Coffee Photo Co. and Hey Tay

No wedding is complete without an adorable canine companion dressed to the nines to brighten the day! Such was the case with the nuptials of Abbey Jones and Jordan Schmidt. Judging from her smile, Ellie is having as much fun as the bride and groom are on their special day!

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When Julie and Mark Nothnagel first saw Thelma, they thought she was the cutest item at a charity auction. They submitted the winning bid, and Thelma went home with them. When their daughter Maggie was getting married, Thelma was in attendance while the bride and bridesmaids were having their hair and makeup done. She even donned a festive outfit for the occasion. Thelma is seven and one-half years old. She loves visits from her granny, Marilyn Nothnagel. Her favorite treats are pizza and cheese, and her favorite toys are a plastic orange bone and a tennis ball. Thelma enjoys going on walks, napping, and people-watching through the window. She isn’t a fan of car rides or baths.

“You hear that your wedding day is going to be over in the blink of an eye. It will feel like it flies by even quicker than that! Ask your wedding venue contact to reserve a secret space for you and your partner to sneak away for a private moment together. Have them stock it with your favorite beverages and a small snack. This is the perfect opportunity to replenish your energy and catch your breath together. After all, the day is about the two of you.”

Reprinted from the May 9, 1987 issue of The Independent.

Bride Maggie Hart with Thelma

Kathleen Straub Photography

Ellie Schmidt was in her wedding finest at the ceremony for Abbey Jones and Jordan Schmidt.

Bailey Pianalto Photography

– Cassie Christopher, Marriott

Mr. and Mrs. Jeffrey Scott Singer (Julie Elizabeth Hand) toast at the Blue Hills Country Club reception which followed their wedding at Rolling Hills Presbyterian Church. The son of Mr. and Mrs. Jerry Singer and the James Peter Hands’ daughter honeymooned in Hawaii and are at home in Lenexa.

Freeland Photography

When Chloe and Doug Williams were married, their cake featured a figurine of their dog, Olive. To make it even more realistic, a small portion of the cake beside the figurine appeared to have been nibbled – something Olive would have done, if she had been given the opportunity. Olive, now 12, has been part of the family for six years. She enjoys going to the park in her stroller and riding in the car. Olive and Chloe are colleagues. Chloe works remotely, and Olive naps in a chair at her side. Olive was intrigued by the preparations for the wedding, especially Chloe’s hair and makeup sessions. Chloe and Doug recognized that Olive, who isn’t quick to trust new people, wouldn’t enjoy the wedding ceremony. Instead, her likeness was on cups, and her name was in the program. Best of all, her reactions to the lead-up to the festivities were captured by the photographer. (You can see Olive taking a bite out of the wedding cake on page 19.)

Recent months have seen the wedding of Katie and Scott Barnow, the first birthday of their black Labrador Retriever, Olive, and the 12th birthday of Bubba, their Maltese. When Katie and Scott had their engagement photos taken, they knew that Olive and Bubba should be included. Olive has grown substantially since this photo was taken, but Bubba, who weighs three pounds, is sure he is the bigger dog. Olive adores playing fetch, swimming, and Bubba. Bubba enjoys car rides, hamburgers, gazing out of the window to people-watch from his perch atop the sofa, and watching televised sports with Scott. Olive isn’t yet on Bubba’s list of favorites, but maybe she’ll win him over eventually!

“Thousands of people from all over Kansas City have trusted Meierotto Jewelers for their engagement rings and jewelry purchases. It could be due to the experienced and knowledgeable team that makes the process simple, the unrivaled selection of diamonds and ring styles, or the fact that Meierotto Jewelers is locally owned. With thousands of options and unbeatable prices, you never have to settle for a ring that isn’t perfect. Meierotto Jewelers has been serving Kansas City for 45 years. We hope to have the opportunity to serve you, your family, and your friends when searching for the perfect ring.” – Meierotto Family, Meierotto Jewelers

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Scott and Katie Barnow with Olive and Bubba

Melissa and Beth Photography

Olive helped Bride Chloe Williams open her presents.

Olive posed with Doug and Chloe Williams, newlyweds.

Love

TO CELEBRATE

25 YEARS

30 YEARS

Mr. and Mrs. John Scott Robertson, the former Blythe Leonard, were married on February 13th at St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church. The bride’s parents, Mr. and Mrs. George Edward Leonard, hosted a gala reception at The Kansas City Country Club honoring the newlyweds. The evening of the 12th was chosen by the groom’s parents, Mr. and Mrs. John Edward Robertson, to fete the young couple with a rehearsal dinner at Sebree Galleries.

Reprinted from the May 15, 1993 issue of The Independent.

Kathleen Sullivan Reilly and Mark Win Moreland were married on May 16th at Redemptorist Church. The rehearsal dinner, hosted by Mr. and Mrs. Jack Win Moreland, parents of the groom, was held at Mission Hills Country Club. Following the ceremony, Mr. and Mrs. Jerry Reilly of Leavenworth, Kansas, parents of the bride, celebrated the couple with a gala reception at The Westin Crown Center. Katie and Mark took a honeymoon trip to Cabo San Lucas, Mexico, and are at home in Town.

Reprinted from the August 15, 1998 issue of The Independent.

REMEMBER WHEN

10 YEARS

Laura Elizabeth Beachy and Jesse Langdon were married on October 5th at Village Presbyterian Church. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Robert M. Beachy of Prairie Village. Her groom is the son of Dorothy Langdon of Parkville, Missouri, and the late Mr. Emmett Langdon. The evening prior, Dottie Langdon hosted a rehearsal dinner at Piropos. Following the ceremony, the bride’s parents hosted a lovely reception at The Kansas City Country Club. The happy couple enjoyed a honeymoon to Park City, Utah, and are at home in Parkville, Missouri. Laura is careering with the Shawnee Mission School District, and Jesse is employed with Cerner Corporation.

Reprinted from the May 31, 2014 issue of The Independent.

Mr. and Mrs. Frederick Merry Goodwin, both native Kansas Citians, enjoy their present Arizona life, but are drawn home for special occasions. One very special occasion – their Golden Wedding Anniversary - brought them back this month to celebrate with family and longtime friends. In the Goodwin, Jrs.’ garden, Mrs. Goodwin is seated with her daughter-in-law and the handsome men behind them are their son, Mr. Goodwin, Sr., and the grandsons, John and Fred III.

Reprinted from the May 9, 1987 issue of The Independent.

“Prioritize the guest experience! Starting with your invitations and/or wedding website, let your guests know what to expect. Select food with your guests in mind, and give them choices. Ensure your venue/caterer provides professional event staff who will make customer service their priority. Custom signage is easy to provide (and fun to personalize) and may help direct your guests and answer questions they might have during the event. Sure this event is about you and the love of your life, but the events that are most successful are those where the overall guest experience is a top priority, too!” – Abbie Chingren, Loose Mansion

VanDeusen Photography

David Riffel

William H. Haney

“’TILL HAS ALL HIS RITES” Love

hen Chelsea Rolfes accidentally came across a big blue envelope from Brilliant Earth in JT Nagle’s backpack, she panicked. She didn’t open it, thank heavens, because she knew that it almost certainly contained a receipt for the engagement ring that she had always dreamed of wearing. It also meant that JT, her partner of seven years at that time, was about to ask for her hand in marriage. But oh, the suspense: She knew it was going to happen, she just didn’t know where or when.

“It was the most shocking day of my life, and I had to keep it all to myself,” said the actor recently with a laugh, as she and JT lounged in the lobby outside of Spencer Theatre, in the UMKC Performing Arts Center where they both finished their master of fine arts degrees in theater (he in 2021, she in 2022).

What came next was even worse. “I kept getting online ads for Brilliant Earth,” Chelsea said. “I knew exactly what they were, but I kept thinking, Why are these popping up on my Instagram?”

To be sure, Chelsea and JT, who today divide their careers between Chicago and Kansas City, had in fact already discussed marriage. But by no means had Chelsea expected a proposal this soon. And now that the secret was out, she couldn’t help wondering how JT would “stage direct” his down-on-bended-knee moment. It finally happened in July 2018, on a pre-arranged “fake” guided tour of Chicago’s Field Museum of Natural History. They stopped in front of the moose display (Chelsea’s favorite animal), with taxidermized mammals as a backdrop. “He got down on one knee,” Chelsea said, “and as it turns out, the tour guide’s wife was standing around the corner filming it.”

marriage

By Paul Horsley

They had come a long way since their first encounter in 2011, at a season-long children’s theater gig in picturesque Auburn, New York, just west of Syracuse. Each year, the Merry-Go-Round Playhouse (now The Rev Theatre Company) would contract 14 actors from August through May, who lived together as a happy family in the same apartment complex.

Chelsea, a Cincinnati native, was fresh from Syracuse University’s rigorous theater program, which is known to produce actors who often go straight to Broadway after graduation.

“When I got the job at Merry-Go-Round, I thought, well, I can either go to New York City and try to figure out what I want my life to be, or I can go do something that I know I love.”

Soon after arriving in Auburn, she met JT, a fellow Merry-Go-Round cast member who grew up in Kansas and Oklahoma and had just finished his bachelor of fine arts degree from The University of Kansas. Her first impression? That he was kind of a jerk.

“The director was saying, The men will have to be clean-shaven, and JT had a beard,” Chelsea recalled. “JT says, Eh, we’ll see about that. And I thought, who is this guy?” She would soon learn this was just JT’s brand of wit. “Now that I understand his sense of humor, I know that he was just kidding.”

JT found Chelsea intriguing. “It wasn’t immediately like, Oh she’s the one,” he said. Actors on a nine-month contract aren’t normally looking for love with someone they might never see again. “We became best friends, and then it all happened pretty quickly.” Within a month, he was infatuated. “It was the biggest crush I’ve ever had in my life.”

Chelsea came around, slowly. “The second that I was drawn to him, it was because he was so funny,” she said. “When I began to understand his humor, which is biting, as is mine, then it was okay.” Their first real conversation happened during a late-night Taco Bell run. “We ended up just spilling our lives,” Chelsea said, “telling each other things about our families. … We connected over Taco Bell.” But “it was not a romantic thing yet,” JT said. “We were both just letting down walls.”

Their first kiss was at a lavish Halloween party. JT was dressed as the Hamburglar, Chelsea as Helga G. Pataki from Hey Arnold! “We were like, oh! So we like each other!” Chelsea said. “Maybe we should go on a date and make this formal.” The date was a whirlwind evening in downtown Syracuse: dinner at the iconic Pastabilities, and a turn on the ice at Clinton Square. “From there it was: So, we’re going to do this thing, okay?” Chelsea said.

For this theater couple,

just felt like the right thing to do

The next year they returned to Auburn for another Merry-Go-Round season, after which they decided to “tackle Chicago” together. Both began to get professional work. JT was Tom in The Glass Menagerie, Chelsea was Beatrice in Much Ado About Nothing at Muse of Fire Theatre Company. They had day jobs: Chelsea as a legal assistant, JT in finance. (He had minored in business at KU.)

Soon they were both getting roles at Muse of Fire, eventually as Shakespeare’s Hermia and Lysander. Thus, not only were they in love onstage, they were “getting married” every night in A Midsummer Night’s Dream. When would life begin imitating art for Chelsea and JT? They were having fun, they were working, they were in love. Would they take the next step?

“I always knew I wanted to get married,” Chelsea said. “My mother told me I was not allowed to until I was 30: I knew she was kidding, but it kind of stuck.” JT felt the time was right. “There’s something about taking it to another level,” he said. “We had grown so much as people and it was nice to start another chapter: in marriage.” He also felt a desire to “commit formally, in front of our friends, and have a big party to celebrate it.”

Chelsea concurred. “It just kind of felt right: We felt it in our bones: Okay, now it feels right to get married. Whereas before, it felt like we were just trying the learn how to be adults, live in a big city, get a dog.”

By 2018 they had been working in Chicago for five years, but they yearned to reach higher. Shortly after his marriage proposal, JT took off

for the UMKC Conservatory. A year later, Chelsea joined him, and pandemic notwithstanding, they both reveled in the school’s world-class training, through a combination of live, virtual, and hybrid classes.

Master’s degrees in hand, they began finding more satisfying work. Today they appear regularly on Kansas City’s major stages, and on Chicago’s as well. JT played, memorably, the racist stranger in Antoinette Nwandu’s Pass Over (Black Repertory Theatre of Kansas City). Chelsea was a delightful Ariel in The Tempest (UMKC Theatre/Heart of America Shakespeare Festival), a role she reprised this summer at Southmoreland Park.

The wedding finally took place on May 21, 2021, almost exactly 10 years from their first meeting in Auburn. Officiating was Jemma Alix Levy, Muse of Fire’s former director, at The Farm, a verdant venue outside of Asheville, North Carolina.

“We are really happy,” Chelsea said of married life, to which JT added: “I feel like we found a life, found a balance.” In addition to acting, Chelsea does voiceovers for several major clients. JT does commercials, voiceovers, and standup. In 2019, the couple’s Visceral Theatre made its debut here with the interactive horror thriller, ICARUS.

To this day, in addition to marking May 21st as their “official” anniversary, they celebrate October 31st. For that was the day in 2011 when they stood in the attic dressed as Helga G. Pitaki and the Hamburglar… and kissed. Fade to black. More at kcindependent.com.

Photo Credit: Rita Clark

Calendar OF Events

JULY 10-21 Big Brothers Big Sisters Kansas City; Summer Bowl for Kids’ Sake; Nearly 500 teams and 3,000 participants divide into teams of six who work together through the summer to fundraise online. To celebrate, teams enjoy a giant party with free bowling, beer, pizza, and prizes; Park Lanes. Contact Kristi Hutchison: 1709 Walnut Street, Kansas City, Missouri 64108 or 816-820-2275 or bbbskc.org or kristi@bbbskc.org.

14 Band of Angels; Art That Blows; Partygoers will enjoy bidding on one-of-a-kind art, a high-energy atmosphere, and raising money for music camp scholarships; The Abbott; 5:30 p.m. Contact Mike Meyer: 11890 West 135th Street, Overland Park, Kansas 66221 or 913-491-6636 or artthatblows.com or info@bandofangels.org.

21 Infant Loss Resources; Tee It UP for Infant Loss Golf Tournament; Join us for a fun and fabulous day at the 16th annual tournament, featuring breakfast, golf, on-course promotions and tastings, prizes, silent auction, and great food and drinks; Swope Memorial Golf Course;  8 a.m.; $125. Contact Cindy Sims: 1111 West 39th Street, Suite 100, Kansas City, Missouri 64111 or 913-269-5717 or infantlossresources.org or cindy@infantlossresources.org.

22 Awesome Ambitions; Purse-onality; The event is about food, fun, and fashion! Guests will enjoy a delicious brunch, an open bar, jazzy music, purse auction, and two wow-factor fashion shows, featuring the Awesome Ambitions’ girls, who will model and share their stories;  The Gallery Event Space; 10 a.m.; $150. Contact Cynthia Newsome: 12116 McGee Street, Kansas City, Missouri 64145 or 816-835-1091 or awesomeambitions.com or cynthia.newsome@kshb.com.

22 Starlight; Starry Night at Starlight; Highlighting an annual class of All-Stars, featuring Kansas City’s most dynamic charitable movers and shakers, the night features local food, an open bar, photo opportunities, and tickets to a Broadway show at Starlight; Starlight Theatre; 6 p.m. Contact Andrew Lang: 4600 Starlight Road, Kansas City, Missouri 64132 or 816-997-1129 or kcstarlight.com/starrynight or andrew.lang@kcstarlight.com.

28 Arthritis Foundation; Art for Arthritis; Pairing children with juvenile arthritis with local artists to create masterpieces that are sold at the live auction. The event also features a silent auction, dinner, and drinks; Loews Kansas City Hotel. Contact Brooke Hilst: 816-601-1382 or arthritis.org/kcart or bhilst@arthritis.org.

AUGUST

5 Hope House; believe - illuminating hope gala - 40 Year Anniversary Celebration; Guests will enjoy live and silent auctions, cocktails, a delicious dinner, entertainment, engaging guest speakers, dancing, and more; black tie; Loews Kansas City Hotel; 5:30 p.m. Contact Anne  Aubuchon: P.O. Box 577, Lee’s Summit, Missouri 64063 or 816-257-9328 or hopehouse.net/events or aaubuchon@hopehouse.net.

18 The Sewing Labs; The Sewing Labs Gala;  This annual event recognizes students from The Sewing Labs’ programs who have moved from poverty into financial dignity one stitch at a time. Enjoy cocktails, dinner, and live and silent auctions; 28 Event Space;  6 p.m. Contact Eileen Bobowski: 526 Campbell Street, Kansas City,  Missouri 64106 or 816-379-0682 or thesewinglabs.community or director@thesewinglabs.community.

20 Northeast Community Center;  Night in Napa; Join us for an evening of delicious wine and food pairings and music from Harmony Project KC students. Guests will be transported to a relaxing evening in “Napa”; Amigoni Urban Winery; 6 p.m.; $150. Contact Casi Riegle: 544 Wabash Avenue, Kansas City, Missouri 64124 or 816-231-7738 or necc-kc.org or casi@necc-kc.org.

21 AdventHealth Kansas City Foundation; Charity Golf Tournament; An exciting golf tournament to support the Greatest Needs Fund; Shadow Glen. Contact Alisha Blackwelder: 7315 East Frontage Road, Suite 221, Merriam, Kansas 66204 or 913-676-2058 or adventhealthkcfoundation.com or alisha.blackwelder@adventhealth.com.

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HopeKids Kansas City; Charity Golf Classic; Join us for the sixth annual half-day, scramble tournament while raising money to provide an ongoing calendar of events for families who have a child with a life-threatening medical condition; Oakwood Country Club; 8 a.m.; $325. Contact Kristin Castle: P.O. Box 11947, Kansas City, Missouri 64138 or 816-372-0311 or kristin@hopekids.org or hopekids.org/kcgolf.

21 KVC Health Systems; 2023 KVC Kids Classic Golf Tournament; Golfers will receive VIP treatment as they enjoy 18 holes of golf with a golf cart, gifts and prizes, and meals before and after flights; Canyon Farms Golf Club; 7 a.m. Contact Celia Fritz-Watson: 21350 West 153rd Street, Olathe, Kansas 66061 or 913-322-4942 or kvc.org/golf or cfritz@kvc.org.

24 American Jazz Museum; The Birdies Awards; Kicking off the annual weekend festival celebrating the legacy of Kansas City legend Charlie “Yardbird” Parker. The event includes dinner and awards presentation for three honorees dedicated to preserving our city’s monumental and enduring jazz legacy; 6 p.m. Contact Rashida Phillips: 1616 East 18th Street, Kansas City, Missouri 64108 or 816-474-8463 or americanjazzmuseum.org or rphillips@kcjazz.org.

24 aSTEAM Village;  Annual Avant-Garde Gala;  An inspiring and informative night with delicious food, silent auction, Entertainer Lonnie McFadden, and Keynote Speaker Dr. Mae Jamison, the first African American woman to travel into space; business attire; Sheraton Kansas City Hotel at Crown Center; 6 p.m.; $200. Contact Joyce Wells: 1600 Paseo Boulevard, Kansas City, Missouri 64108 or 913-209-2379 or  asteamvillage.org or joyce@asteamvillage.org.

26 Kansas City Zoo; Wine Walk; Wine lovers and animal lovers unite for a stroll through the Zoo while sipping on more than 20 different types of wine and learning about the Zoo’s conservation efforts; Kansas City Zoo. Contact Susan McFee: 6800 Zoo Drive, Kansas City, Missouri 64132 or 816-595-1234 or kansascityzoo.org or askthezoo@fotzkc.org.

26 KC CARE Health Center; We Care KC Brunch; Mimosas and mission-driven stories are on the menu for the first-ever, in-person Brunch and After Party Cabaret; Hotel Kansas City; 10:30 a.m.; $125. Contact Mollie Stephens: 3515 Broadway Boulevard, Kansas City, Missouri 64111 or 816-777-2791 or kccare.org/brunch or mollies@kccare.org.

26 Metropolitan Organization to Counter Sexual Assault (MOCSA); Kansas City Chiefs Charity Game to Benefit MOCSA; Recognized as the top philanthropic game of its type in the NFL, the Chiefs Charity Game continues a long-standing commitment of supporting the local community, started by Team Founder Lamar Hunt more than three decades ago; Arrowhead Stadium; noon. Contact Kate Schwaller: 3100 Broadway, Suite 400, Kansas City, Missouri 64111 or  816-668-0378 or mocsa.org/chiefs or kschwaller@mocsa.org.

26 The Regnier Family Wonderscope Children’s Museum of Kansas City; Eat Drink Play!; Wonderscope will open for a night of fun for grownups! Enjoy food, drinks, and dancing under the stars, and participate in the silent auction, wine pull, and heads or tails game; The Regnier Family Wonderscope Children’s Museum of Kansas City; 7 p.m.; $85/members, $100/non-members. Contact Roxane Hill: 433 Red Bridge Road, Kansas City, Missouri 64131 or 816-643-6700 or wonderscope.org or rhill@wonderscope.org.

27 Head for the Cure; 21st Annual Head for the Cure 5K - Metro KC; Gathering more than 4,000 individuals for a 5K run/walk in honor of brain cancer survivors, caregivers, and their loved ones. This event will feature bounce houses, petting zoo, food trucks, celebrity dunk tank, and more; Corporate Woods; 8 a.m. Contact Maggie Haynes: 1607 Oak Street, Kansas City, Missouri 64108 or 573-569-5320 or headforthecure.org/metro-kc or maggie@headforthecure.org.

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The Jewish Community Center;  KC SuperStar;  In its 14th year, the event will be an American Idol-style competition for high school students. The top 10 work all summer with professionals as they develop their talent. The audience helps to crown the most talented high school singer, who wins a $10,000 scholarship; Yardley Hall at Johnson County Community College; 7 p.m.; $250. Contact Robin Levine: 5801 West 115th Street, Overland Park, Kansas 66211 or 913-981-8895 or  robinl@thejkc.org or kcsuperstar.org.

7 Ability KC;  Ability KC’s 2023 Ability Luncheon; We will share amazing stories of perseverance and brighter futures being built through the Ability KC innovative model of care and services. Luncheon co-chairs are Amy and Travis Mattox;  Sheraton Kansas City Hotel at Crown Center; 11:30 a.m.; $125. Contact Gemma Zook: 3101 Main Street, Kansas City, Missouri  64111 or 816-751-7932 or abilitykc.org or gemma.zook@abilitykc.org.

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The Children’s Place; Gratitude Bruncheon; Enjoy a delicious brunch while celebrating a few of the many people who have made a difference for The Children’s Place in the last year. Contact Sara Boatwright-Bland: 6401 Rockhill Road, Kansas City,  Missouri 64131 or 816-363-1898 or childrensplacekc.org/events or boatwrights@childrensplacekc.org.

SEPTEMBER

4 Mental Health America of the Heartland; Bike for the Brain; The 18th annual event is a community bicycle ride for mental health; Johnson County Mental Health; 7 a.m. Contact Gina McCord: 739 Minnesota Avenue, Kansas City, Kansas 66101 or 913-222-5935 or bikeforthebrain.org or gmccord@mhah.org.

8 Goodwill of Western Missouri & Eastern Kansas; Power of Work Awards; The 10th annual event will be a celebration of the success stories of our inspirational participants and bold business partners; Madrid Theatre; 7:30 a.m. Contact Lane Bartram: 800 East 18th Street, Kansas City, Missouri 64108 or 816-933-3086 or mokangoodwill.org or lbartram@mokangoodwill.org.

9 Kansas City Symphony League; Symphony Ball; Guests will enjoy hors d’oeuvres and cocktails, bid on unique items at a silent auction, enjoy a live performance by the Kansas City Symphony led by Music Director Michael Stern, dine on gourmet entrees, and dance the night away. Julie McCann and Gina Penner are serving as the event co-chairs; Grand Ballroom at the Kansas City Convention Center;  5:45 p.m.; $300. Contact Alex Shapiro: 1644 Wyandotte Street, Kansas City, Missouri 64108 or 816-218-2620 or kcsymphony.org or giving@kcsymphony.org.

OurTown by Charlie Podrebarac

Publisher • Rachel Lewis Falcon

Associate Publisher • Jenny Owens Hughes Art Director • Lisa M. Shea Editor • Nancy Sachse Web Editor • Annie England Historian and Principal Writer Heather N. Paxton

Arts Editor • Paul Horsley Senior Account Executive • Lauren Cashman Director of Program Guide Operations • Christin Painter Feature Writers • Jessica James, Monica V. Reynolds, and Anne Potter Russ Office Manager • Laura Gabriel Cartoonist • Charlie Podrebarac

10 Saint Luke’s Foundation; Plaza 10K; Saint Luke’s Home Care and Hospice is honored to partner with KC Running Company for the event. Run along the banks of Brush Creek and through the heart of the Country Club Plaza; Country Club Plaza; 7:30 a.m. Contact Jennifer  McBratney: 901 East 104th Street, Mailstop 100 South, Kansas City, Missouri 64131 or 816-932-5612 or saintlukeskc.org/saint-lukesfoundation/plaza-10k-run-walk or jmcbratney@saint-lukes.org.

11 HappyBottoms; Diaper Bowl III; Join us for our third annual, tailgate-style event featuring food, drink, live music, games, reverse raffle, live and silent auctions, and much more! Get your game face on, we can’t wait to see you there!; HappyBottoms parking lot; 5:30 p.m. Contact Susan Belger Angulo: 303 West 79th Street, Kansas City, Missouri 64114 or 913-940-4450 or happybottoms.org or susan@happybottoms.org.

15 EarlystART;  Little Learners Luncheon;  Be our guest for a magical morning of funding futures for Little Learners at the legendary GEHA Field at Arrowhead Stadium. Stroll the Little Learners Art Gallery, enjoy lunch, and experience the incredible wonder and life-changing impact of an EarlystART education!; Arrowhead Stadium;  11 a.m.; $100. Contact Mariah Roady: 2008 East 12th Street, Kansas City, Missouri 64114 or 816-994-5400 or  events@earlystartkc.org or  earlystartkc.org/littlelearnersluncheon.

16 Literacy KC; Classic; A mini-golf fundraiser featuring teams of five who test their skills on a mini-golf course throughout KC Live! in Kansas City’s Power & Light District. Guests enjoy food and drinks during their round, live music, a silent auction, signature cocktails, and awards and prizes. Contact Jennifer Rangel: 3036 Troost Avenue, Kansas City,  Missouri 64109 or 816-831-1677 or literacykc.org or jrangel@literacykc.org.

16 The University of Kansas Health System; Treads & Threads; An unforgettable black-tie gala featuring a gourmet feast from area restaurants, a concert by a headline entertainer, spectacular fireworks, and a dance floor that’s packed ’til midnight; Kansas Speedway; 6 p.m. Contact Abby Parker: 2330 Shawnee Mission Parkway, Suite 305, Mailstop 5004, Westwood, Kansas 66205 or 913-449-8406 or treadsandthreads.org or aparker8@kumc.edu.

19 The Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art; Committee of 100 Luncheon; Guests will enjoy coffee and morning cocktails, a presentation by Designer Ashley Whittaker, and a luncheon in the remarkable Kirkwood Hall; The Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art; 10 a.m. Contact Emily Sanger: 4525 Oak Street, Kansas City, Missouri 64111 or 816-751-1360 or  nelson-atkins.org or esanger@nelson-atkins.org.

21 Boys & Girls Clubs of Greater Kansas City; 6th Annual Tour de Fork; This event is an experience like no other. Join us for an evening of exciting culinary demonstrations from local chefs, cocktails, food, live and silent auctions, and a host of fun surprises, all to benefit the Olathe Unit; 5 p.m.; $175. Contact Julie Kaul: 4001 Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Boulevard, Suite 102, Kansas City, Missouri 64130 or  816-462-0131 or helpkckids.org or jkaul@helpkckids.org.

21 The Children’s Place;  Brews & Bites; Kick off your weekend at this outdoor party and enjoy delicious samples of local food and beverages, all while spending time with friends; The Children’s Place; 5 p.m. Contact Sara Boatwright-Bland: 6401 Rockhill Road, Kansas City, Missouri 64131 or 816-363-1898 or childrensplacekc.org/events or boatwrights@childrensplacekc.org.

22 Olathe Health Charitable Foundation; 23rd Annual OHCF Golf Classic; Enjoy a four-person scramble format with morning and afternoon sessions available. Golfers will enjoy 18-holes of golf, player gifts, food, drink, and on-course entertainment; Sycamore Ridge Golf Club; 7 a.m. Contact Rob Wyrick: 20375 West 151st Street, Suite 325, Olathe, Kansas 66061 or 913-355-4216 or bidpal.net/ohcfgolf or ohcf@olathehealth.org.

22 The Whole Person; Night of Independence Awards Gala; Honoring individuals and organizations that are working to further our mission; silent and live auctions, awards program, buffet, and more; creative black-tie; Harrah’s North Kansas City; 6 p.m. Contact Kelly Grooms: 3710 Main Street, Kansas City, Missouri 64111 or 816-627-2232 or thewholeperson.org/gala2023 or kgrooms@thewholeperson.org.

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At some point, a few weeks or months ago, there was a fair amount of talk about a wedding, but you were a little hazy on the details. Even as you were getting ready, dressing up, getting your hair brushed, you weren’t quite sure what it was all about. Now, the ceremony is over – and it was grand. Next time, you’ll have a better understanding of why this is so important to the adults. Now, you and your best friend can go have fun. Maybe you’ll talk about what you’ve just seen. Or, maybe you’ll play together with a truck and forget all about everything else that happened today. There’s no better way to relax than to spend time with your best friend.

Ring Bearer James Gochenour and Flower Girl Laura Jackson were photographed at the wedding of Amal Gochenour and Dr. James Fields.