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Celebrating 75 Years!

Counselling and Support Services of S.D. & G., formerly known as Family Counselling Centre of Cornwall and United Counties, is celebrating 75 years of service to the community this year. Since 1938, the agency has been dedicated to meeting the social and personal needs of the community by providing services that assist people to develop to the full extent of their potential. “Our mission is to empower individuals towards a better well-being… we’ve been doing just that for over 75 years. This milestone marks a great achievement for us! This year, we are celebrating the past and shaping the future” says Raymond Houde, the Executive Director of Counselling and Support Services of SD&G, who has been with the Agency for more than 36 years. Counselling and Support Services of S.D. & G. is a multi-service, non-profit, accredited organization that provides services to children, youth, adults and families in the city of Cornwall and the counties of Stormont, Dundas and Glengarry. Services include individual, couple and family counselling, Employee Assistant Programs, early intervention and educational programs related to domestic violence, and specialized community-based support services for individuals with intellectual disabilities. To commemorate this special milestone, the agency is inviting the public to attend their open house on Friday, November 8th, 2013 from 1-4pm at their office (26 Montreal Road in Cornwall). They will also be hosting a celebration dinner at the Cornwall Golf and Country Club. Tickets are available for purchase ($40 each) by October 30th 2013. Please call Jessica at 613-932-4610 ext. 126 for more information.

Break the Silence, Use Your Voice! Let’s Unite Against Child Abuse!

As we are getting ready for Cornwall and SDG’s Community Dress Purple Day on Friday, October 18th, we must not lose sight of the purpose for which we are uniting in large purple numbers. October is Child Abuse Prevention month where we call on our community to protect our kids and youth from abuse and neglect. Education is a huge component of being able to do just this and early intervention is key. It is for this reason that the Children's Aid Society of SDG has partnered up with the Cornwall Community Police Service and the schools boards affecting the schools in the SDG area to roll out a child friendly presentation on child abuse and how to keep safe. It helps define the different types of abuse, and touches on issues like secret keeping, who to tell, what to do if someone won’t listen and other child sensitive issues around abuse/neglect. The Cornwall Community police will deliver this presentation to all Cornwall schools focusing on grades from 3 – 6.

In addition to this, Kimly Thivierge, Public Relations manager at the Children's Aid Society of SDG, has been very busy throughout the month (and year) delivering presentations on Duty to Report to the community’s professionals to ensure young and old are being educated on Child Abuse Prevention. “This is a community service that the agency offers to professional groups in SDG in order to keep awareness levels current” says Ms. Thivierge. “There has been a great response from the community. Now groups are calling us and requesting the presentation for their staff” says Ms. Thivierge. According to Thivierge, this is a big change from a few years ago when this type of service was rarely requested.

Education is ongoing. Knowledge is the first weapon against child abuse. If you know what you are looking for, you will feel more confident in reporting. But remember, if you are ever in doubt, call the Children's Aid Society of SDG and let the professionals decide what needs to be done. As such, we would like to leave the public with some information on Child Abuse and how they can help keep a child safe:

What is abuse and neglect? Abuse is against the law and occurs when a child is hurt intentionally, or when a parent or caregiver fails to protect a child in their care. Physical abuse and sexual abuse are clear examples of maltreatment, but so too is neglect – the failure to meet a child’s basic needs for food, clothing, shelter, sleep, medical attention, education and protection from harm. Children can also be emotionally abused when their parent or caregiver attacks their emotional development and self-worth by constantly criticizing, teasing, bullying, rejecting or ignoring. Learn more, at

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What is domestic violence? Domestic violence is violent, abusive

behaviour, which occurs within a child’s home environment and includes, but is not limited to partner violence. Domestic violence can have a profound effect on children and may result in or raise the risk of child abuse or neglect.

What are the signs of abuse and neglect? Unexplained injuries, fear of a

specific adult, difficulty trusting others or making friends, sudden changes in eating or sleeping patterns, poor hygiene, secrecy and inappropriate sexual behaviour may be signs of family problems and could indicate a child is being abused or neglected. Remember you don’t need to be sure that a child is being abused or neglected – let your local Children’s Aid Society know what your concerns are and we will determine if a child is in danger. Learn the signs of abuse by visiting

How to report abuse. If you suspect a

child is being abused or neglected, it’s your legal duty to report the situation to a Children’s Aid Society, even if you’ve already reported it on a previous occasion. For the child’s sake, don’t delay, call the Children’s Aid Society immediately. The phone lines are open 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. To learn more about your responsibility to report, visit

What we think parents or caregivers need to know How to create a safe community. It is important to teach children their rights. When children are taught they are special and that they have the right to be safe, they are less likely to think abuse is their fault and more likely to report an offender. How to discipline without hurting. Discipline is meant to teach

children how to behave, be safe and get along with others. Physical punishment is detrimental in that it teaches children that hitting is okay and it causes them to be afraid. Physical punishment often occurs because a parent is angry and frustrated. This is particularly dangerous, however, as it is easy to lose control and cause serious injury. To explore positive parenting resources, go to childwelfare/positive.htm.

Help is available. If you need help, ask for it. Nobody is perfect. Call your local Children’s Aid Society for more information about parenting and services. Visit www. for more tips and information.



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