A Dash of Spice
Believe in your Dreams Part 2 To recap last week it is important to believe in your dreams and to feel as if it has already happened. The natural question is “How can I do that when it obviously hasn’t?” what you need to do is look at it like this. We have all, at some time or another, ordered something through internet shopping, by phone from a catalogue, television commercial or the shopping channel. Once you have placed your order you are now satisfied that you are the proud owner of the thinga-ma-jig that you purchased it is just a matter of time and it will arrive. Sometimes we worry about how long it may take or in what manner it will be shipped but for the most part we are fairly certain that it will not be long and we will finally have it. Believing in your Dreams is just like that, we may not know how long it will take or what the manner of its arrival but soon it will be in our life just as we planned. Feel that you already own it! The how and when of it is the mystery ride we take to our destiny. Your Brain is a super conductive computer that can manifest all manner of miracles in your life just to bring you your wants and desires. Once you have put the order, as it were, of what you want your future to look like your Brain will systematically start searching for the things you will need to make that happen. This is the reason that it is critical for you to not spend time thinking negative thoughts about your dreams as this will become the visual focus for your Brain to look for. Instead think confident thoughts about how amazing your life is now that you are on the way to making your life dream come true. If you think that this sounds like some new age mumbo jumbo then I challenge you to do this simple exercise:
Think about a yellow car (or any favorite colour) but not just any car but a specific make of yellow car. See that car clearly in your mind and tell yourself that you would like to see that car. Imagine yourself standing beside that car and walking around it, if you need to get a clearer image of the car look at photos or search the internet for images of that car. Now go about your day. Before you know it you will start to see yellow cars everywhere. Sooner or later depending on your ability to stay focused you will see your car. Most people who do this exercise take from a day to a week to see their car. Once I decided that I would like to own a Mitsubishi Spyder. I started to see them everywhere, on television, in magazines, there is even one driving around Cornwall which I only noticed after deciding it was my dream car, who would have thought there would be a Spyder in Cornwall. Another time I was curious about 3 wheel motorcycles and decided I wanted to see one close up, the next day I parked beside one at Walmart and the couple who owned it were just walking back to their bike when I arrived. This gave me a chance to look it over and ask questions, just in case I decide that I may want one of these too. The lesson in this exercise is that in order to manifest your dreams you need to know what they will look like. This is necessary in order for you to see the things that will come your way; the things which we call opportunities.
Sandra Taylor Hedges, Fine Artist, Teacher and President of L’association Focus Art Association
THE LOCAL SEEKER (March 16 - pg. 16)
For those who read “Spice It Up” last week, I promised my readers some tips this week to spice up your love life. So, as Marvin Gaye sings… let’s get in on… or Toby Keith’s song A Little Less Talk and a Lot More Action! My first suggestion is…think outside of the bedroom. I know your bed is comfortable, roomy and where you always make love with your partner….but it might be getting a bit boring…consider changing it up. How about you and your partner write down another room on a piece of paper, fold it up and then pick one. The mystery room is now your passion spot, gather some items for a few hours of teasing, tickling and tantalizing. Not only have you changed up your usual place, you will feel a little naughty at the same time, which will add to the experience. Have you thought about sending your partner some sassy text messages throughout the day, skip the usual texts asking what time you will arrive for dinner and deciding what to eat. Instead send some messages that will stir up some sexual desires, you will both be racing home, but not for dinner. Speaking of racing home, why not meet up at home for a nibble, and I am not referring to food. A little lunch fun can really make for a more pleasant afternoon at work. Plan a night out with your partner in a hotel room; remember this is a night of passion and pleasure so pack the necessary items: Massage oils, candles, feathers, background music and items that tease, please and stimulate each other. This is your get away, make the most of it, not only will you be igniting an old flame with each other; you will be creating an experience that you can take home and continue.
When is the last time you showered together? Time to lather each other up, there is no reason for separate showers, whether you set your alarm earlier than your kid’s internal alarm clock, or you take a late night shower lathering each other up. Something tells me you won’t want to fall asleep when your head hits the pillow! Hot tubs and saunas are the perfect atmosphere to steam things up. Soon it will be pool season, try a late night dip in your birthday suit…oh the fun you will have splashing around. Why not take along some water proof toys for your play time? Just remember to gather up your toys when you are done playing… From the “Toy Lady” to you, I hope these suggestions have got your juices flowing and you come up with your own creative ideas to add to these suggestions in order to spice up your love life. Until next time, it doesn’t matter if you’re naughty or nice as long as you are having fun and excitement in or out of the bedroom with your partner. Follow my blogs; http://thesizzlecoach.wordpress.com I am The Sizzle Coach; I am here to assist you with Your Journey of Self-Discovery.
We will continue to discuss opportunities next time…
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