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Stephanie Rische
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It’s not easy being a light these days. As hostility toward Christ and His message grows, so does hostility toward His people bearing that message. Of course, much of the hostility stems from widespread misunderstanding, igno rance, and intentional deception. Satan, the father of lies, is hard at work keeping blinders on potential Jesus-followers.
But just as light broke through the darkness of night when Christ was born, His light continues to break through the darkness of sin and deceit. “The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it” (John 1:5). Things might seem bleak, at times, but the Light of the World cannot be extinguished!
Our calling is to be Christ’s light to this ever-darkening world. That calling will look a bit different in each of our lives, depending on the gifts and talents God has given us. But as long as we draw breath on this side of heaven, we are to be a beacon pointing others to God. Or as Lottie Moon so aptly put it, “I have a firm conviction that I am immortal until my work is done.”
Andy Dooley’s light shines in his fitness and family ministries (page 6). Joyce Bademan’s light shines through her ministry, reaching neighborhoods around the globe (page 12). Anne Yorty encourages others to look for God in the daily stuff of life (page 5).
During this season — filled with blessings for some and riddled with sorrows for others — I pray the light of Christ in you will bring hope and joy, and will spill over to those around you.
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October brings Christmas planning, and in October, a Christmas program seems like a wonderful idea. If you happen to be a children’s director with a wild imagina tion like me, live animals seem like a great idea!
You present your exciting plan to the children, expecting them to beg to be Mary and Joseph, but silence falls over the room. The kindergarten children are still making eye contact, so I decide to use that group to execute my vision. Another teacher suggests letting an older child read the Christmas Story while the younger children act it out. We can make this happen. The excitement is back. Of course, it is still October.
November comes and rehearsals begin. Ten-year-old Cassie is the narrator and is having trouble with the word “swad dling.” There is still time for her work on that word.
Chance, a shepherd, thinks kneeling means the Spiderman pose and tries to web the baby Jesus. It’s OK, there is still time. It’s only November.
December comes quickly, and we need more angel costumes. No problem — we can borrow from another church. Two weeks before the program, we get the angel costumes. They have been packed in a plastic tub for a year in an outside storage building. Unfortunately, water got into the tub and now the costumes have yellow stains on them. We immediately begin soaking them in a cleaner and start praying.
One week before the program, Cassie is still having trouble with the word swaddling and Chance is still trying to web the baby Jesus. Now the other shepherds have joined him. Sam my’s mom is asking about the program “Mary and Jim.” Mary and Jim? We have not been able to practice with the live baby goats, which seemed like such a great idea back in October. I am now not only wondering why I thought it would be fun to
do a Christmas program but also what I was thinking when I added the stress of animals!
Dec. 22 is here.
Joseph (aka Jim) has the chickenpox and I frantically search for a new Joseph. Five hours before the per formance, we have the live animals. The children are excited to see them. It’s a beautiful moment. The owner places a baby goat in sweet little Tyler’s arms. Tyler’s eyes get big and he tears up and starts yelling, “TAKE IT AWAY!”
Chance (who is not a gentle child) declares, “I want to carry it.” To say I have concerns about letting Chance carry a baby goat is an understatement. Another teacher suggests, “It would keep him from webbing the baby Jesus.” I watch Chance with the baby goat for a few minutes. He seems to be very loving with the kid. I decide to let him carry the animal but assign a teacher to stay close and be ready to conduct a rescue if needed.
An hour before the show, parents are helping dress wise men and shepherds. One of the moms is a beautician and she is braiding the angels’ hair in a heart (as I said earlier, I have a wild imagination and thought braiding the girls’ hair in hearts was the perfect touch for angels). We quickly rub glit ter on the angels’ faces. I take a deep breath, remind myself what a good idea this was in October, say a prayer, and line the kids up.
Watching the children reminds me why I thought this would be a good idea in October, and I know, even when Joseph gets the chickenpox, the shepherds try to web the baby Jesus, and you have to get yellow stains out of angel costumes, it is still a good idea in December.
No — it’s a GREAT IDEA!
Ellen Wehn is a previously published author and retired Children's Director, serving on church staff for over 20 years.
When much of the world shut down in spring 2020, Andy Dooley and his wife, Tiffany, found them selves, like many other families, in unfamiliar ter ritory. With the landscape of work, school, church, and social gatherings turned upside down, they were suddenly spending a lot more time together. This meant that all six of them, includ ing four children under the age of eight, were under the same roof for the foreseeable future.
While this season came with obvious challenges, the Dooleys also saw the opportunity it presented. “One day I was sitting in my makeshift man cave/baby room,” Andy says. “We called it the ‘A and A room,’ for Andy and Ava Joy — my youngest daughter, who was born in 2020.” As Andy was looking out the window, he was surprised by the activity outside. His initial thought was, Why are so many of my neighbors out and about on a random Tuesday morning? “I was startled to see so many people walking around in the middle of a workday.”
Andy decided to start taking daily walks, and as he did, he met people he’d never seen before. “As I got to know my
neighbors better, I began hearing about families who were becoming frustrated and upset with one another. They didn’t realize how often they used to leave for work or school. Now that they were forced to be in close quarters, they could no longer escape their issues. There were parents whose kids were driving them insane. There were husbands and wives who were sick of their spouses.”
As Andy hit the pavement, he collected not only thou sands of steps but also countless stories. “I heard about rela tional conflict and the breakup of marriages. The pandemic brought so many issues to the surface.” Andy knew that if he wanted a different story for his family, he needed to be intentional about this unexpected time together. As a fit ness professional, he had seen firsthand how working as a team can create a sense of unity. So, he started leading his family in activities, reading Scripture passages together, and memorizing verses. “We made up games and competitions that were intended to be fun but also help us apply biblical concepts to our lives.”
Out of this experience, a book was born. Andy’s family devo tional, Building a Family of Faith: Simple and Fun Devotions to Draw You Close to Each Other and Nearer to God, consists of 52 devotions. The book is designed to help families pray together, have intentional conversations, and engage in shared experi ences. “You’ll hear my voice on these pages and find out about some of our family stories. I didn’t want people to just read this book, say a quick prayer, and then go on their way. I wanted to give people something to think about in their daily life.”
The idea of passing on a legacy of faith didn’t start with Andy; this was something his parents instilled in him from a young age. “Both my mom and dad were pastors — my siblings and I were PKs, preachers’ kids. I vividly remember sitting in the back of the sanctuary when I was in fifth grade. At the end of the service, I felt strongly that I wanted to make God num ber one in my life. I already believed in God, but now I wanted to give my life fully to Christ. So, at the end of the service, I went down the aisle and committed my life to the Lord.” Andy believes that commitment helped him stay grounded as he got older. “I started reading the Bible and having conversations with my mom and dad about spiritual things. I’m grateful for this foundation, because it kept me from getting into certain kinds of trouble when I was growing up.”
Above: Andy Dooley with his family at the Seattle Mariners Game. Left: The Dooley Family - (back) Ava Joy, Tiffany (Andy’s wife), Andy, (front left to right) Skylee, Hope, and Andy II.
Andy credits his parents with instilling discipline and con sistency in him when he was young. “My dad was in the mili tary. He wasn’t hard core with us, but he did teach us a work ethic. In a cool way, my parents created an environment where we kids didn’t have a lot of down time. We played outside, read books, got involved in sports, read our Bibles, and stayed ac tive. We still played video games, of course! That discipline helped me through some tough times in my life.” Andy re members getting made fun of as a teenager because he didn’t drink and smoke, and because he chose a different path from his peers. “After I graduated from high school, I went to college and wanted to do my own thing. But at the end of the day, I kept hearing whispers and conviction from God. Christ never allowed me to let go of Him or my faith.”
When Andy was growing up, he assumed that ministry had to look a particular way. He figured that to serve God, you had to be a preacher. But over the years, he has come to understand that ministry can happen in a variety of ways. “God has used me through fitness, sports, writing, and social media. I believe He has a unique plan for using each person’s gifts.” Andy now serves as a host for the Seattle Seahawks, speaks at NFL chapels, and has 1.7 million followers on social media. “It’s cool to see how once you get out of the driver’s seat and let God use your gifts day by day, it’s a game changer. I don’t believe pulpit preaching is the only way — God put different talents in me. But He can use me anyway, even through something like TikTok!”
Fitness and ministry: at first glance, this may seem like a strange partnership. But not to Andy Dooley. “Working with people in a fitness context is so powerful. When you’re a trainer, you bump right against people’s vulnerabilities. They tell you things they might not tell anyone else, even a best friend. In your physical fitness as well as in your spiritual life, if you want to change, you have to open up in ways you’ve never opened up before. My goal, as a fitness professional, is to help people get one per cent better each day. But as I do, I’m very aware how integrated people are — with their emotions, mind, body, and soul all working together. We’re not ro bots; we’re human beings. What better trainer than someone who sees you as a human being and can help elevate you and encourage you beyond just your body? I train people using biblical principles, even if they don’t necessarily realize it.”
Andy sees himself as a Christian whose faith flows out of him naturally in a fitness context. He believes God can use all of us, no matter our cir cumstances. “That’s why personal time with the Lord is so important. You hear from God, and the Holy Spirit downloads the truths He wants inside you so you can share them with other people. Then when you meet with them, God’s Word flows out of you. You don’t necessarily have to preach at people; they see something different in you and they’re drawn to it.”
Having worked with young people for the past two decades, Andy has a heart for the next generation. “This is the most un churched group of people in history. Most folks don’t read the Bible — there are so many distractions in our lives right now. It takes time to learn Scripture and go deeper.” Another chal lenge this generation faces is navigating technology. “I’m a big fan of technology — it has amazing potential. But it can cause problems too. There are so many more decisions facing parents and teens than there used to be.” Despite the challenges, Andy believes social media can be used for Kingdom purposes. “If you want to gain kids’ trust, you have to meet them where they are. With so much else happening in their lives and online, they may find it tough to go to church or to a youth service. How can we find ways to reach them in places they’re already spending time?” That’s why Andy is passionate about using his platform to reflect Christ’s light to the online world.
As Andy and Tiffany think about raising their own children, they hope to instill in them great faith in a God who is bigger than we can imagine. When young people understand how big
God is, they can dream big for their own lives too. “We want to support our kids and back them up. My parents created space for me to have big dreams, and I want to do the same for my kids. They can try whatever interests them — art, soccer, mu sic, writing. I want them to know that God can use whatever gifts and passions He has given them, but I also want to instill a humble spirit in them. That’s how Jesus operated — He had a mindset of confidence, yet He operated with humility.”
Andy thinks about his 2-year-old, who is practically fearless. “She jumps off the couch because she knows I’m going to catch her. That’s how we should be with God. When we know God has our back and He loves us, we can have the confidence to do whatever He calls us to do. We don’t need to force anything. Yes, we can cultivate our talents and strive for excellence, but we don’t do it for ourselves or for money or fame. We give Him what we have and then trust Him to do the rest.”
Stephanie Rische edits and writes in the Chicago area, where she lives with her husband and two sons. When she isn’t chasing down commas or little boys, she blogs at stephanierische.com. Her memoir, I Was Blind (Dating), but Now I See, recounts how God surprised her with His grace and love.
ou just go ahead,” the man in the shopping mall said to his wife. “While you’re shopping, I’ll browse in the hardware store.”
An hour later, she returned and saw him at the checkout counter. The clerk was ringing up the last of a pile of tools and supplies that would fill two wheelbarrows.
“Are you buying all this?” his wife asked incredulously.
“Well, yes,” he said, embarrassed. Then waving his arm to ward the interior of the store, he added, “But look at all the stuff I’m leaving behind!”
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Two factory workers were talking. “I know how to get some time off from work,” said the man.
“How do you think you will do that?” said the other.
He proceeded to show her by climbing up to the rafters and hanging upside down.
The boss walked in, saw the worker hanging from the ceil ing, and asked him what on earth he was doing?
“I’m a light bulb,” answered the guy.
“I think you need some time off,” said the boss. So, the man jumped down and walked out of the factory.
The second worker began walking out too.
The boss asked her where did she think she was going?
“Home. I can’t work in the dark.”
- From Mickey’s Funnies (www.mikeysfunnies.com)
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Jerry Rose is an internationally known Christian broadcaster and is former president/ CEO of the Total Living Network. He currently serves as TLN’s chairman of the board and hosts the Emmy awardwinning program Significant Living. Jerry is an ordained minister and the author of five books, including Deep Faith for Dark Valleys and Significant Living, coauthored with his wife, Shirley. He is the past president of the National Religious Broadcasters and currently serves on its board of directors. Jerry is an avid golfer, equestrian, photographer, and grandfather of 20.
Shirley Rose has been in ministry with her husband, Jerry, for more than 30 years. Her career in Christian television focused on hosting several programs, including the Emmy Award-winning women’s program Aspiring Women. She has authored five books, including The Eve Factor, A Wise Woman Once Said…, and Significant Living, and has contributed to numerous anthologies and periodicals. She is actively pursuing her calling to help other women through writing, speaking, and hosting women’s groups in her home. Her favorite pastimes are country line dancing, travel, and spending time with her 20 grandchildren.
In 1956, the world was shocked at the death of five missionaries killed by members of a primitive, iso lated Ecuadorian tribe. Elisabeth Elliot, the wife of Jim Elliot, one of the five, wrote their story in her best-selling book Through Gates of Splendor.
The missionaries were fully aware that the notori ously dangerous tribe was known to have killed out siders. It had been a matter of discussion with their families. However, they believed God had called them to reach unreached people. They were com pelled to go, whatever the consequences. These five men and their wives had what I call “radical faith,” a total commitment to Christ — body, soul, and spirit.
Though their obedience cost them their lives, a seed was planted that reaped an eternal harvest. Elisabeth Elliot and Rachel Saint, the sister of Nate Saint, another of the murdered missionaries, be friended two Auca women. They worked with them and built a relationship. Miraculously, through those women, Elisabeth and Rachel received an invitation from the Aucas to come to their village. They cou rageously accepted and lived and ministered among the tribe for two years. During that time, most of the village accepted Christ, including at least one indi vidual who was involved in the killing of the mis sionaries. Though it’s a remarkable story of sacrifice for the cause of Christ, perhaps the greater story is the fact they were willing to go whatever the cost.
In Romans 12:1, the apostle Paul pleads with the Roman Christians to present themselves as a “living sacrifice.” The sacrifice Paul wanted from the early church was not physical death, but rather spiritual death to the old life of sin and new life in Christ, em powered by the Holy Spirit. Church history reveals, however, that many did make the ultimate sacrifice of martyrdom, as did Paul himself.
The key word to a life of radical faith, powered by the Holy Spirit, is obedience. Obedience is an act of worship showing God that we truly love Him. It is through our commitment that God reveals His plan for our lives. He may call us to a potentially danger ous, uncertain journey, or to a life of being a quiet influencer and leaving a legacy of faith to our chil dren and grandchildren. God’s greatest power is ac tivated through the obedient life.
There are those who seek God’s approval by in flicting pain on themselves. Our production team,
By Jerry and Shirley Roseon a shoot in Columbia, experienced people crawl ing up and down stone cathedral steps until their hands and knees were bloody. Others deny them selves food and endure unnecessary physical abuse to find God’s favor. This striving and working for God’s love is not necessary and is not pleasing to the Lord. Christ made the ultimate sacrifice, and by His grace, we are forgiven. His approval comes when we accept His salvation and submit ourselves to Him.
In 1 Samuel 15:22, Saul, the King of Israel, at tempts to please God with his sacrifice as a cover for his disobedience. But it is unacceptable and Samuel rebukes him with words that ring true today. “Obe dience is better than sacrifice.”
The five martyred missionaries didn’t set out to risk their lives in order to please God. They had a passion to share God’s love with the Aucas, whatever the sacrifice. There was nothing more important to them than being obedient to God’s call on their lives. That’s the relationship in which we find the power and the peace promised in scripture. It is our spiri tual safe harbor.
Obedience is not a popular word today, even among some Christians. There is a pervasive spirit of rebellion in our world. According to a Pew research study, 37% of the Christians said the Bible is not es sential to Christianity. I recently had a conversation with a “Christian” friend and was surprised at his unbiblical perspective on gender identity. The Bible is still the eternal word of God, and we must not re write it to conform to our culture.
From Sudan to Afghanistan, North Korea to Ni geria, Columbia to India, Christians are being mas sacred for their faith. Few Christians in America have paid such a price, but there will continue to be sacrifices for Christians with radical faith. Teach ers have lost their jobs for standing for their bibli cal beliefs. Nurses and doctors have been dismissed, and in some cases lost their licenses, for refusing to perform abortions. Recently, a teacher was fired for refusing to use the required gender pronouns.
Prayer, God’s word, and a close relationship to Christ are the anchors that will hold us steady and keep us faithful in the cultural storms we are facing. We live in the knowledge that God is truth and in that truth is healing, hope, freedom, and eternal life. Whatever the cost, whatever the sacrifice, that is the message we must share with the world.
“Obedience is an act of worship…”
If I didn’t believe that the Bible and the Gospel of Jesus Christ held the answer to this world’s baffling problems, I would go back to the farm and the rural life that I love and spend my days in peaceful solitude.
Most Christians salute the sovereignty of God but believe in the sovereignty of man. — R.C. Sproul
— Billy Graham
How many lessons of faith and beauty we should lose, were there no winter in our years. — Thomas Wentworth Higginson
I have a firm conviction that I am immortal until my work is done. — Lottie Moon
He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose. — Jim Elliot
If you ask Joyce, she’ll tell you she’s not a visionary. Christmas Gatherings didn’t begin as a clear calling, as a larger-thanlife vision, or as a well-laid plan for global evangelism. There were no announcements, no strategic planning meetings, no campaigns. It seems fitting Christmas Gatherings were born quietly, much like the birth of the One they celebrate.
They began as a whisper between friends: “Remember when Campus Crusade for Christ (now known as CRU) had neigh borhood coffees? We should do that again.”
Joyce took a moment to process the suggestion. Her first thought was, “Oh gosh, bless her heart. She wants me to do some thing, but I don’t have a clue.” Then she asked, “How would we do something like that?” A week later, she was speaking at her friend’s Bible study, assisted by Nancy, another friend and Joyce’s disciple.
As Nancy watched and listened to the Bible study group, God softly spoke to Nancy’s spirit. She slipped a note in Joyce’s pocket. In 10 days, she was going to invite her neighbors to a similar gath ering. Joyce would come and present a simple gospel message.
Twenty-six ladies came to that first Christmas Gathering in 1983. They chatted amongst themselves, enjoyed Christmas treats, and talked about their Christmas traditions. Before they left, Joyce explained the true meaning of Christmas and how each of them could know Christ personally. Nancy invited them all to join a Bi ble study in her home. Sixteen ladies attended the follow-up study.
At first, they grew slowly, mostly in the Minneapolis area where Joyce and her husband, Rich, were on staff with Campus Crusade for Christ. It grew by word of mouth, among people at Joyce’s church, then other area churches. Joyce was speaking at every gathering, while raising two young children and working with students on campus.
Then the whispers got a little louder. In the 1990s, the leader ship of Women of Faith (a ministry that encourages and equips women to experience a deeper relationship with Jesus) invited Joyce to introduce Christmas Gatherings to the ladies involved in their ministry. They began popping up all over Minnesota and the Midwest. Joyce was now training other people to speak and providing instruction manuals for Christmas Gathering hosts and speakers.
The first real shout was heard when Dennis Rainey invited Joyce and Vonette Bright (wife of CRU’s founder, Bill Bright) to speak on his radio broadcast “Family Life Today.” Vonette talked about the importance of hospitality and Joyce told the audience about Christmas Gatherings. At the end of the program, Rainey challenged 1,000 people to host Christmas Gatherings in their homes. In the end, he mailed out over 1,000 manuals. It was now a national ministry, reaching untold people across the country.
But God didn’t stop there. Joyce’s sister was a missionary. She loved the idea so much, she adapted it and took it back to Ger many with her. Since Germans tend to sit and talk around the ta ble, rather than in the living room, she limited the group to eight people and called it an Advent Coffee. She adapted the manual and began training others.
Fifteen years after the birth of this ministry, Joyce was in vited to introduce the idea at an international women’s con ference. During the conference, she hosted a Christmas Gath ering for all 120 women in attendance. She handed out the training manual, explaining through an interpreter that they’d need to find someone to help them translate it. Before long, she was getting invitations to help train hostesses and speakers in places like Guatemala, Hong Kong, Czechoslovakia, and Puer to Rico. It became a truly global ministry.
Joyce explained, “In a sense, it was like the fire of God spreading and I just was sitting back in tears thinking, ‘Oh God, what did you do?’”
It would be impossible to say how many lives have been touched by Christmas Gatherings worldwide. Joyce has only kept records for her own church, Grace Church in Minneapolis. Church fami
lies have hosted more than 1,200 Christmas Gatherings over a 30-year period. She also tells of a congregation in Detroit that, in a single year, hosted 50 gatherings after their pastor put on a small drama demonstrating a Christmas Gathering and encour aging his people to go public with their faith. Another pastor in India was responsible for initiating over 50,000 (yes, you read that right!) Christmas Gatherings in his country.
The real question is not, “How many Christmas Gatherings have been hosted?” The real question is, “How do people respond to Christmas Gatherings? Are they an effective way to tell others about the Good News of Christ?”
In a word, yes. Based on the responses left on comment cards, handed out at the end of the evening, 1 in 12 people pray for sal vation, 3 in 12 are eager to learn more through a follow-up Bible study, and the remainder are largely positive comments about how much they appreciated refocusing on the true meaning of Christ mas or enjoyed spending time with their friends and neighbors.
There are very few negative responses, even from those not open to the Good News of Christ’s birth. One self-proclaimed agnos tic said she attended a second gathering just to see whether both speakers were equally sincere about their faith. When she discov ered they were, her conclusion was, “I’m really going to have to think about what I’ve heard tonight.”
When asked why she thinks people, even people antagonistic toward Christianity, are willing to attend Christmas Gatherings, Joyce made three astute observations.
First, it follows the example set by Christ. Many of the lifealtering moments He had with people took place in someone’s home, often over a meal. Jesus was eating at a Pharisee’s home when the repentant woman bathed Jesus’ feet in perfume with her hair (Luke 7:36-50). He was also teaching some religious leaders in someone’s home when the lame man was lowered through the roof and Jesus healed him (Luke 5:17-39). And when Zacchaeus strived to get a glimpse of the Teacher, Jesus promised to come to his house (Luke 19:1-10). In all three instances (and there are more), God used these opportunities not only to heal someone, either physically or spiritually, but to teach those observing about the true heart of God.
Second, it invites your neighbors, some of whom would never darken the doorway of a church, into your home and your life.
“In a sense, it was like the fire of God spreading and I just was sitting back in tears thinking, ‘Oh God, what did you do?’”
Anyone can host a Christmas Gathering. You just have to be willing to open up your home to friends or neighbors — or both. It doesn’t have to be anything fancy. Just invite folks over for coffee and treats. If it seems like an overwhelm ing task, invite someone to help you host and share the work. You’ll also have a prayer partner and encourager by your side.
And don’t worry if you wouldn’t know how to explain the gospel to someone. At Christmas Gatherings, you initiate conversations about Christmas traditions through guided questions, but you invite a speaker to come in and talk about what it means to receive Christ and follow Him.
Joyce has created instruction manuals for those hosting and those speaking. They are available through her website christmasgatherings.com. This ministry also provides preprinted invitations for you to send (a package of 40 costs $12.00). There’s other helpful information there, too — everything you need to know about hosting a party. Just hit the “Get Started” button or go to www.Christmasgatherings.org.
They enjoy your hospitality, maybe a meal or some treats, and your Christmas decorations. They also get to know you and the others at the party a little better. It can help dispel myths and misunderstandings about who and what Christians are. Since ev eryone knows in advance that someone will be giving an inspira tional message about Christmas (it’s in the invitation), no one is ambushed with the gospel.
And third, people are just more spiritually receptive at Christ mastime. Traditional carols about the birth of Christ are pouring out of the loudspeakers in stores. Nativity scenes pop up in front of churches and homes. Christmas cards with images of Bethlehem and the Three Wise Men are circulating. Many people who dis miss the spiritual aspects of Christmas still celebrate it. And even those who don’t celebrate Christmas might be curious about it.
Joyce heard about a Christmas Gathering held in a predomi nantly Jewish neighborhood. The Christians who attended were concerned the Jewish women might have been offended. The Jew ish women thoroughly enjoyed learning more about the meaning behind and traditions surrounding Christmas. It’s a beautiful way to bring people together and potentially build unexpected rela tionships with an eternal purpose.
What was born quietly in a Midwest suburb has now ma tured into a thriving ministry. Not because Joyce is a super-spir itual Christian, but because she obediently followed where God was leading her. And she didn’t do it alone. It was also Nancy’s obedience to where God was leading her, and the obedience of countless others who opened their homes to friends and neigh bors for a conversation about the Savior of the world.
It was through the obedience of pastors who challenged their congregations to reach their neighborhoods. It was through the obedience of a Stonecroft Ministries leader who used Christ mas Gatherings to find people interested in doing community Bible studies. It was through the obedience of a pastor in In dia who incorporated Christmas Gatherings into his churchplanting ministry.
It’s amazing what God can do through His people, when they are willing to do what He asks them to do. Joyce is quick to say she’s taken a very hands-off approach to this ministry. She hasn’t kept records or tracked responses. She doesn’t take credit for the fruit it’s produced over nearly 40 years. She simply knows seeds were planted and lives changed, by the power and will of God.
“I think someday in heaven I’m going to be shocked” by the number of people touched by this ministry. “I’ve been blown away. I’ve been on my face before Him, in tears with joy, you know, by what He’s allowed me personally to see.”
Joyce Bademan began to understand God’s great love for her at the age of twelve. She has been married to Rich for 53 years, has two children and eight grandchildren. She has had the joy of serving her Savior with CRU (Campus Crusade for Christ) for fifty years, and directed the Christmas Gatherings ministry for almost forty years. She is known for her passion to help others share God’s great news! You can contact her at jbademan@gmail.com .
My windshield is frosted white with feathery finesse. The grass and trees have been powder-sugared, and the damp air has an unmistakable edge. Jack Frost passed through last night, leaving his frosty fingerprints on everything he touched.
Jack Frost is Old Man Winter’s herald. Since he’s been hanging back for some time now, it means Old Man Winter is in no great hurry to get here, which is a good thing. The shorter winter is a blessing. It did, however, confuse some of the flowers. The violets bloomed again, thinking spring had come back around. And our bearded iris set the loveliest pale yellow blossoms last week.
By midmorning, liquid frost drips from the barn’s metal roof like a steady rain. We spend a few hours doing our final yard cleanup. The Old Man may not be in a hurry, but he’ll be here soon enough! We want to be ready.
Long before Jesus came to earth, forerunners were sent to herald His arrival. God warned the serpent in the Garden of Eden that the Son of Man would bruise his head (Genesis 3:15). He promised Abraham that, through him, all the nations on earth would be blessed (Genesis 12:3). Jacob’s blessing (Genesis 49) revealed the Messiah would come from the tribe of Judah.
From that time on, Old Testament writers, through God’s in spiration, spoke of the Messiah who would one day come. David detailed Christ’s crucifixion (Psalm 22). The Psalms also proph esied Christ’s ascension and resurrection. Jeremiah proclaimed the Messiah would be David’s descendent (Jeremiah 23:5-6) and born to a virgin (Jeremiah 7:14). Isaiah told us about His charac ter, physical appearance, suffering, death, and burial (Isaiah 53) Daniel gave the time frame for Jesus’ birth (Daniel 9:25). Hosea foretold Joseph and Mary’s escape to Egypt (Hosea 11:1). Micah said He’d be born in Bethlehem (Micah 5:2). Amos foretold the encompassing darkness at Christ’s crucifixion (Amos 8:9). And Zechariah described the Triumphal Entry (Zechariah 9:9)
The final Old Testament prophet, Malachi, introduced the Mes siah’s forerunner (Malachi 3:1). John the Baptist spent his brief life spreading the message, “Prepare the way of the Lord” (Mark 1:3). Jesus would soon appear on the public scene. John the Baptist wanted people to be ready, just as he was. When Jesus came to John in the wilderness, he proclaimed, “Behold, the Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world!” (John 1:29)
Two more heralds will one day be sent. The two witnesses (Rev elation 11) will stand at the temple dressed in sackcloth and ashes and prophesy. It’s unclear what they’ll be saying, but I imagine they’ll be proclaiming the final return and reign of the King of Kings and Lord of Lords — urging people to “prepare the way of the Lord.”
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Christmas brings a mixed bag of emotions with it. Those of us who follow Christ, rejoice as we celebrate His birth, knowing His willingness to lay aside His heavenly privileges and take on flesh and bone was the key to our eternal hope.
But even with that core conviction, it’s easy enough to get overwrought by the cultural aspects of Christmas; over-committing, over-spending and overindulging. It takes intentional effort to keep the babe who became our Savior at the forefront.
It’s a time when people get discouraged, perhaps because they can’t afford to give the gifts they’d hoped to give. It’s a time when people who are alone in the world feel the extra sting of missing loved ones. It’s a time when people who are vulnerable need an extra measure of help and encouragement.
“Through Him then, let’s continually offer up a sacrifice of praise to God, that is, the fruit of lips praising His name. And do not neglect doing good and sharing, for with such sacrifices God is pleased.” — Hebrews 13:15-16
Here are some resources that might be an encouragement to the special peo ple in your life. Now’s the time to start checking some items off your Christmas shopping list.
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With the birth of the Christchild, each character in the Christmas story experienced life-altering transformation— from Zechariah and Elizabeth to Mary and the Magi. Christmas can change you, too, as you learn to say yes to God with confident hope and true joy. Learn more at https://go.odb.org/christmas
Start each day with a short snippet of Scripture and a helpful devotional thought. Capture the Moment is a 365-day devotional that will help you do just that. Pastor and author Gregg Matte offers wisdom from Scripture to help you capture each moment, rather than letting it pass you by. You’ll find it at capturethemomentdevo.com
Heaven and Nature Sing invites you into a fresh reading of the Christmas story—one where things like snowflakes, trees, and bodies, reveal the glory of the Son. Journeying throughout Scripture, you’ll experience the goodness of our Creator and learn how the whole earth sings his praise. Learn more at heavenandnaturesingdevotional.com
What does the Bible say about food? The answer might surprise you. It will certainly delight you! Rather than the yo-yo of loving food versus hating it, author and Bible teacher, Erin Davis invites you to discover a more satisfying relationship with God and His good gift of food.
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The digital age has changed the way we parent. Know Thy Gamer offers an opportunity for parents to understand their children and the kinds of games they’re playing. Drew guides parents to understanding and loving their gamers through a Christian lens.
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In this beautifully illustrated board book, Lauren Chandler’s lyrical lines encourage us that no matter what the circumstances, we can praise God continually. Be reminded that God is always there with us, even when days are hard, and that we need only simple words to praise Him. Learn more at www.praisehimbook.com
The Boy from the House of Bread shares the story of Jesus’s ministry in a compelling way. Walk with Alex as he watches Jesus multiply loaves and call Himself the life-giving Bread. This recurring symbol fascinates Alex and leaves children thinking differently about the Man who makes miracles happen.
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What does joy sound like? Does it sound like falling snow, or a kiss on your cheek? Award-winning recording artist Ellie Holcomb explores this question through a delightful collection of Christmastime scenes, leading up to the discovery that joy sounds like the angels singing that Jesus had been born. Look for it at soundingjoybook.com
The God Who Is with Us takes readers through a twenty-five day Advent journey. Daily reflections on gospel truths drawn from Scripture-including illustrations and space for journaling-will stir the imagination of the season while also reminding readers that God never abandons his people but is always present. Learn more at thegodwhoiswithusbook.com
The Titus Ten is a manual for becoming the kind of man God intends you to be, while leading other men to do the same. Taking 10 qualities from Paul’s short letter, The Titus Ten will help you grow in your understanding of the gospel, identity, character, doctrine, and more. You can find it at bhpublishinggroup.com/products/the-titus-ten/
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The CSB Explorer Bible for Kids is made to help kids place God’s Word in the middle of God’s world. Within its pages, kids will explore and interact with the people, places and things of the Bible and God’s creation. Includes QR codes linked to engaging videos and printable activities.
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Every Christian woman is called to live confidently in her identity –known, free and loved in Christ. Designed to assist women of any age as they study God’s Word, the CSB Lifeway Women’s Bible will inspire you to laugh, grow and worship alongside your community. Learn more at csblifewaywomensbible.com
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The CSB Experiencing God Bible invites you to know and experience God personally. In this revised edition, based on the best-selling Experiencing God book and Bible study, you will be encouraged to focus on the major purpose of Bible reading – listening to God speak.
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Just because moms are busy doesn’t mean they don’t long to grow in faith, peace, and hope. This devotional is packed with quick, bitesized readings to encourage moms during those days when they just can’t seem to find the time.
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These true, feel-good holiday stories are the perfect companion for those long winter evenings in front of the fireplace with your favorite feline. This book also makes a heartfelt gift for cat-loving friends.
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This devotional from biblical scholar and experienced Holy Land guide helps you connect what you’ve read in the Bible to the present-day Holy Land through life-changing insight to the text and place. Perfect for those preparing for a trip, and those who dream of the day they can take one. Learn more at johnabeckauthor.com
With more than 400 laugh out loud jokes written by a kid, for kids, this collection of original puns, riddles, and knock-knock jokes will have you laughing and sharing the fun with others.
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This is the story of one woman who, in 1987, saw a need, raised a prayer, and was given but one opportunity to invest in six HUD homes for a paltry $1.00 per unit. Her purpose was to offer sustainability to families in need. ISBN: 978-1732445741 paperback.
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This is an account of my near death experience with COVID-19 and how God miraculously delivered me through it. Left alone in the hospital room, I only had one option and that was God. He manifested himself to me on my death bed.
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A Gospel Primer offers short passages of biblical truth that will help you savor the glories of God’s love and experience the life-transforming power of the gospel in all areas of life. Available in paperback and a new leather Keepsake Edition. Perfect for gift giving!
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Experience the Nativity story as never before! This charming and colorful lyrical adaptation of the events surrounding the birth of Jesus Christ will captivate readers of all ages, making it ideal for family reading during Advent. Start a meaningful new tradition with your loved ones this Christmas. Learn more at www.amazon.com/Good-News-ChristmasCelebrating-Christs/dp/073698609X
In Burma, the Karen have faced conflict, oppression, and strife. Their unique history is told from a Christian Karen perspective. Learn more at www.judsonpress.com/Products/ J306/the-history-of-the-karen-people-of-burma.aspx
Learn to choose between right and wrong every day. Each of the 365 devotions features fun-filled and inspiring stories, Bible readings, and discussion questions, to help think through difficult issues. For youth and families. Get FREE devotions today! josh.org/devotion
Preaching The Sunday After national tragedies requires special consideration. Learn about what congregants need and expect in this book. Learn more at www.judsonpress. com/Products/J307/the-sunday-after.aspx
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Unwrapping the Names of Jesus for Kids is the captivating story of how the mother encountered Jesus—and His beautiful names— as a little girl. As you travel with this girl, you and your children will experience Jesus as a real person who meets our real needs. Learn more at www.moodypublishers.com/ unwrapping-the-names-of-jesus-for-kids/
In Holy Hygge author Jamie Erickson unites the popular Danish practice with the deep, theological truths of the gospel. She unpacks the seven tenets of hygge: hospitality, relationships, wellbeing, atmosphere, comfort, contentment, and rest. She encourages readers to create a life-giving home focused on the hope of the gospel.
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An Author and Anglican priest, Aaron Damiani translates this sometimes strangeto-us way of liturgy, as a Christ-centered faith. He orients readers around a weekly celebration of the Lord’s supper, water baptism, liturgical prayer, the church calendar, the daily office— rhythms that quietly nourish us with the life of Jesus.
Learn more at www.moodypublishers.com/ earth-filled-with-heaven/
Do you often feel stuck, wondering if you’ll ever overcome your struggles? Author Judy Dunagan has been there. In The Loudest Roar you’ll marvel at the power, majesty, and authority of our Lord Jesus and learn how to stand in the unshakable victory He’s already won for you.
Learn more at www.moodypublishers.com/the-loudest-roar/
When Jeremy and Emily Free man’s teenage son Caleb was in a car accident, doctors gave him a 10% chance of survival. In #butGod Jeremy shares the story of Caleb’s recovery, the darkness that nearly overtook their fam ily, and the #butGod movement that cap tured the prayers of Christians around the world.
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Experience the timeless truth of God’s Word alongside wisdom from Matthew Henry, one of the church’s most trusted teach ers. This daily devotional Bible features 366 daily readings adapted from Matthew Henry’s Commen tary on the Whole Bible, offering you deeper insights into God’s Word alongside the com plete text of Scripture.
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Angela Perritt & Melissa Fuller, Gen eral Editors [Thomas Nelson] Distractions, busyness, not knowing where to start—women of all ages face these chal lenges reading and studying the Bible. Using the trusted SOAP method, fo cused reading plans, and more, these Bibles offer a path to consistent time in the Word and a greater experience of God’s love. Learn more at tnbible.com/holidays
Explore the Enneagram be yond the surface in a journey to discover your previously unex plored Ennea gram Internal Profile. You’ll be able to under stand and apply the truth of how God intends to redeem and use all of you, not just parts of you. Learn more at www.yourenneagramcoach.com/mtyn
Do you find yourself rushing through the chaotic weeks leading to Christmas instead of slowing down to treasure the gift of Jesus? Rediscover the Christmas story
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Spurgeon and the Psalms guides you into reading and meditating on God’s Word with insights from C.H. Spur geon. Featuring a devotional drawn from his beloved The Treasury of David, this special edition of the Psalms invites you to feast upon the royal banquet of the Bible’s prayer book.
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Come out on the other side. Learn what the Bible says about hope and witness God’s redemp tive power in the lives of people in the real world. Part guidebook and part storytell ing, The Other Side of Hope is a flip-book with two entry points to the message of finding hope. Go to www.daniellestrickland.com/othersideofhope
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Study the stories and teachings of the Bible with verse-byverse commentary. Gain wisdom from people in the Bible by exploring their accomplishments and learning from their mistakes. Survey the each book through overviews, vital sta tistics, outlines, and timelines, and grasp difficult concepts using in-text maps, charts, and diagrams.
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Sixty-Six Books. One Story. All About One Name. En counter the living Jesus in all of Scripture. From the Passion movement, The Jesus Bible, NIV Gray Leathersoft Edition, lifts Jesus up as the lead story of the Bible.
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With hundreds of journaling prompts and plenty of space for notes, art, and doodles, the NIV Journal the Word™ Bible for Teen Girls provides a place for a teen girl to capture her thoughts while reading Scripture.
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Sixty-Six Books. One Story. All About One Name. En counter the living Jesus in all of Scripture. From the Passion movement, The Jesus Bible, ESV Peach Leathersoft Edition, lifts Jesus up as the lead story of the Bible.
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The Grace and Truth Study Bible is designed to help you understand and be formed by Scripture. Rich passage-bypassage study notes are theologically sound, guiding you to a deep understanding of each text, while always keeping in view the transformative affirmation and goodness of God’s nature and redemptive plan.
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The NIV Foundation Study Bible in the world’s most popular modern-English Bible translation—the New Inter national Version—features an approachable and easy-to-use layout, with straightforward and broad study notes that help you discover the beauty and truth of God’s Word.
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Every page of the NIV Cultural Background Study Bible is packed with expert insight into the customs, culture, and lit erature of biblical times. These fascinating explanations will serve to clarify your study of the Scriptures, reinforcing your confidence and bringing difficult passages of Scripture into sharp focus.
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The NIV Biblical Theology Study Bible you to follow the progressive un folding of God’s story. This study Bible will guide you to a clearer understanding of every portion of Scripture with 25 articles unpack ing key themes of Scripture, helpful book introduc tions, and over 20,000 verse-by-verse study notes.
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Be drawn into God’s Word through a fresh, creative ex pression of Scripture. Refreshed with 100 additional illus trated verses, newly added peel and stick Bible book tabs, and a highly readable typeface, the NIV Beautiful Word™ Bible, offers a one-of-a-kind visual treatment of Scripture for a more beautiful quiet time.
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The bestselling NIV Adventure Bible® will get kids excited about reading the Scriptures! Your kids will be captivated with the full-color features that make it fun and engaging to read the Bible and memorize their favorite verses. Most im portantly, they will grow closer in their relationship with God.
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The Grace and Truth Study Bible is designed to help you understand and be formed by Scripture. Rich passage-bypassage study notes are theologically sound, guiding you to a deep understand ing of each text, while always keeping in view the transforma tive affirmation and goodness of God’s nature and redemp tive plan.
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Join FatCat and the wise men as they follow the light of the Christmas star, journeying over sea and field, through market and temple, to find the King of Christmas. In each place they look, a new friend joins their search.
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Through In the Boat with Jesus you can travel the land of Israel at the time of Christ. Sail with Him on the Sea of Galilee. Walk with Him on the road to Emmaus. Sit at the Savior’s feet beside Mary. Then apply His messages to your life today.
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The Bible tells of a spiritual, invisible realm where heaven, angels, and God reside. Science has opened the door to the possibility of higher spatial dimensions. Us ing God’s Word and scientific discoveries and theories, this book will present evidence for the reality of the spiritual realm.
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Christian Heroes: Then & Now, by Janet & Geoff Benge, our best-selling missionary biography series. Written for ages 10 and up and enjoyed by the whole family. Give your family positive role models that encourage your faith and displays how God works through the lives of those who follow Him.
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In this thriller series from military veterans Andrews & Wil son, Navy SEAL Jedidiah Johnson finds himself drawn into a group called the Shepherds, who fight against the darkness of the world. The first three books in the series are now available. For fans of Frank Peretti and Left Behind
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By Ryan Steck [Tyndale House Publishers]Trouble fol lows Marine Raider Matty Redd home to Montana in this debut. Deter mined to dig up the truth about his adoptive father’s death, Redd uncovers a dark global conspiracy with his hometown at the center.
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By Cindy Woodsmall and Erin Woodsmall [Tyndale House Publishers]After years of trying for a fam ily with her hus band, Jesse, Eliza wishes she could ease the pain of loss. Remember ing a family heir loom quilt with a special gift, Eliza is determined to change the course of her life and Jesse’s. Perfect for fans of It’s a Wonderful Life
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Linda L. Kruschke writes candid memoirs and fearless poetry. She blogs at AnotherFearlessYear.net and AnchoredVoices.com and has been published in The Christian Journal, Fathom Magazine, Bible Advocate, iBelieve.com, Calla Press, Divine Purpose blog, Agape Review, and several anthologies.
She is editor of Swallow’s Nest poetry journal of Oregon Christian Writers.
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Twenty years ago, at a women’s retreat in Can non Beach, Oregon, I recounted my story of tragedy and redemption to an audience for the first time. My friend Lee, who was on the re treat’s planning committee, knew more of my tes timony than anyone. She spurred me on to share at the gathering. I reluctantly agreed.
The day of the meeting was the only time in my life I intentionally fasted. It seemed like a good idea. I hoped to tap into the courage only God could give me. I was determined to eat nothing un til I met with the rest of the group for dinner in Cannon Beach.
I tucked my teddy bear, Calvin, into my pillow case. I gathered my Bible and speaking notes into my favorite book bag. Then I packed my bags and loaded them into the back of my Ford Escape.
On the drive from Lake Oswego to Cannon Beach, I marveled at the beauty of God’s creation. Evergreens and tiny wild daisies lined the road. A few trees were starting to turn their autumn reds. Even the usual Oregon drizzle couldn’t dampen my spirits.
On the way, I listened to Jeremy Camp sing “Walk by Faith.” I pondered the broken road I’d traveled, thus far, that had prepared me for where God was leading. The song lyrics gave me hope that my journey of heartache and faith — if I chose to tell it — would help others find Him in the midst of their greatest trials. Though I had dreaded driv ing to the coast alone, God made certain I didn’t feel alone.
When I arrived in Cannon Beach, I drove straight to the arranged rendezvous spot — a hom ey seafood restaurant. It was windy and sprinkling, yet I felt warm still basking in God’s presence.
In the company of wonderful friends, and with the aroma of fresh-from-the-ocean seafood waft ing from the kitchen, I realized I hadn’t thought about food all day. I ordered succulent razor clams, a steaming baked potato, and a cold, crisp green salad with blue cheese. I savored every bite as a gift from God. Laughter and good cheer punctuated our meal.
After dinner, we made our way to the conference center and checked in. I was scheduled to speak later that evening. With my tummy full, my heart glad, and my soul at peace, I sat on my bed, bowed my head, and asked God for just the right words.
Helen Roseveare By Linda L. KruschkeThen I reviewed my notes, took a deep breath, and gathered my Bible and notebook.
Striding toward the upper meeting room, old fa miliar doubts taunted me. No one wants to listen to you. They’ll judge you once they know your sin. No one cares about your pain. They won’t understand. I thwarted each lie with an arrow prayer. My heart raced, but I refused to abandon my mission.
As the women settled into the cozy rows of fold ing chairs, Lee introduced me. I ambled to the po dium, trying to appear more confident than I felt. Standing before at least 50 women from my church — many much older and quite conservative — my mouth was as dry as a desert sand dune. I cleared my throat and asked Lee for a glass of water. My hand trembled as I lifted the drink to my lips. My gaze darted to the exit, imagining my escape, then roamed over the sea of expectant faces. Closing my eyes for one last plea to the Almighty, I inhaled deeply, exhaled, and began to speak.
My voice rang out strong as I told my story. “When I was 14, I met a boy who said he loved me. I believed him. I loved him, too. But when he vio lently raped me, I knew his love was a lie.” After those hardest words were out, I shared about the depression that hounded me for years and my ul timate spiral into suicidal thinking. Then I told of God’s healing through a miraculous dream of for giveness.
That night, I didn’t tell all of my story. I left out some parts I was still too ashamed to admit. The dark, raw, and disturbing parts. The stuff that God redeems.
Since then, I’ve yielded more of the truth, both one-on-one and in front of groups. Many people — women especially — have admitted privately to having had similar experiences. They’ve inspired me to keep sharing because, in sharing, the trau ma loses its power to shame me. But more impor tantly, it helps those who hear of God’s redemptive power to begin the long, broken road to their own healing.
“My heart raced, but I refused to abandon my mission.”
The Bible is a BIG book about the BIGGEST story. Each page tells about the God who cre ated the world, acted in history, and continues to act in the present. In The Biggest Story Bible Storybook , pastor Kevin DeYoung shares this grand story with children ages 6–12 through 104 short stories from the Bible.
Beginning in Genesis and ending with Revelation, DeY oung provides engaging retellings of various Bible stories, explaining how they fit into the overarching storyline. Each reading is coupled with beautiful illustrations by award-winning artist Don Clark and concludes with a reflective prayer. Perfect for bedtime stories or to read together as a family, both children and parents alike will experience afresh the captivating story of the Bible in an easy-to-understand, compelling way.
This high-quality book, with a sewn binding and a rib bon marker, will stand the tests of time and use.
If we live according to the gospel, we’re going to make waves. Why? Because the way of Christ is coun tercultural. It doesn’t go with the flow, compromise on truth, or stay silent in the face of injustice — so neither can we. No matter how young or old we are, or how much or little influence we think we have, God calls us to boldly engage our upside-down culture through the lens of His truth.
With powerful examples from Scripture and stories from teens today and through the centuries, Sara Barratt equips teens to live with a biblical worldview, approach today’s hot-button issues with godly wisdom, and influence their generation for the glory of God. Tackling tough topics like sexuality, addiction, identity, media, and much more, Sara offers practical ways to stay rooted in God’s truth while engaging culture with the redemptive story of the gospel — no matter the cost.
We have all heard of post-traumat ic stress, but few of us think about the possibility of post-traumatic growth — the positive ways in which we can be transformed by our trauma. Yet this is precisely what can happen when we face our hurts, struggle through the rubble of our broken relationships, and unearth the ways God wants to use our trials to refine and mature us.
With compassion born from personal experience and insights gathered from years of counseling, licensed marriage and family therapist Debra Laaser helps you stop asking, “Why me?” and start asking, “Lord, what would you have me learn from this?” She offers tangible steps to help you move beyond survival toward a flourishing future.
God does not waste our pain. With Laaser’s expert guid ance, you can experience positive life change not in spite of the hurt, loss, or betrayal you have undergone but because of it.
Most books on evangelism deal primarily with different approaches to sharing the good news. But Never Ashamed isn’t a book about how. Rather, it’s a book about why. Author Avi Snyder explains:
• Why we mustn’t be ashamed, or fearful, of openly sharing the good news
• Why nonbelievers often choose to walk away from the Mes siah’s claims, even if they suspect they are true
• Why the early church felt compelled to proclaim His mes sage, regardless of the costs
More than this, however, Never Ashamed is a book of stories:
• The Marxist trying to figure him out, who concluded he was a provocateur
• The woman who prayed for God-like compassion and wept when she received it
• The Soviet guard who helped Avi’s team pass out literature
These and many other encounters will make you laugh, cry, and be filled with joy at the winsome ways in which Avi brings people to Jesus.
Greg Lanier Presents a Simple Method for Studying Old Testament Citations in the New Testament
Many Bible readers have difficulty understanding the Old Testament’s connection to the New Testament, and some even believe it’s obsolete, in light of God’s new covenant. In reality, New Testament writers alluded to earlier books of the Bible roughly 300–400 times. The Old Testament isn’t outdated; it’s critical to understanding the rest of Scripture.
In Old Made New, Greg Lanier explains how New Testament authors used the Old Testament to communicate the gospel and present the person and work of Jesus. He also explains what the Old Testament teaches Christians today about the church’s identity and ethics. Writing for a broad range of readers, Lanier distills thorough research into simple, descriptive examples, and tips. His three-step method explains how to identify and explore an Old Testament passage and see how it’s “remixed” in the New Testament to thoughtfully engage with Scripture.
The Bible tells of a spiritual realm where heaven, angels, and God reside. Where is this mysteri ous, invisible realm? Science has opened the door to the possibil ity of higher spatial dimensions. Could this be where heaven is? Us ing God’s Word, this book presents evidence of the spiritual realm’s existence, and lays out the scientific evidence that points to the possibility of a higher dimension.
Through this book, everyday Christians will learn how to view the spiritual dimension, or realm, in a deeper way and see there is much more to our universe than meets the eye. The seeking skeptic will be presented with evidence that God is real and the Bible is His message to man. The foundation is laid from the Bible, from science, and from understanding that we are three-dimensional beings cre ated by a Grand Programmer.
Picture Book for Kids Ages 3–5 Celebrates God’s Ultimate Victory Over Sin and Death
When the knight slays the dragon in any story, readers and listeners all cheer in cel ebration. We rejoice because it echoes the Bible — the victory of good over evil is a prominent theme because the Lord came to have final victory over the devil.
In this imaginative story, James Shrimpton teaches children the story of redemption in the Bible through the lens of dragon slaying. With a memorable rhyming style, engaging artwork, and theologically grounded storytelling, this book is perfect for teach ing children the story of Christ’s defeat of sin, death, and evil.
• Ideal for children ages 3–5: Teaches children about the arc of victory and defeat in a memorable rhyming style
• Short enough for bedtime: Approachable length makes it ideal for younger children
• Colorful and whimsical: Artwork by Helena Pérez Garcia will help capture the imagination of its readers
Inside War: From the Jungle to the Jordan By Tony Maisey [Bridge Logos]
Tony had mastered the art of hiding the frightened child, behind the mask of a fearless criminal. Years later, exhausted from holding up his weary disguise, he headed for Peru in pursuit of freedom and truth, in sheer desperation. Stum bling from bar to bar in hope of something, anything, Tony found a connection to take him to a shaman the following day. With a bottle of water in hand to nurse a hangover, Tony boarded the cramped fishing boat.
Hard living had not prepared him for what he was spiri tually subjected to deep in the Amazon jungle. He opened himself up to demonic realms through torturous Ayahuas ca ceremonies.
He returned to London, drenched in fear and darkness. Suicide seemed like the only escape from his vivid, evil manifestations.
One night, alone and frightened, he had a vision that promised him a way out. But there was something he needed to do first. This is his true story.
Walt Larimore, MD, has been called one of America’s best-known family physicians and has been named in “The Best Doctors in America” and “Who’s Who in Medicine and Healthcare.” He’s also an award-winning medical journalist and the bestselling author of 30 books. You can find Dr. Walt’s health blog and free daily devotional at www.DrWalt.com.
You can also watch him on Liftable TV at Liftable TV.com/ DoctorWalt. Have questions for Dr. Walt? Email them to editor@ todayschristianliving.org.
Dear Dr. Walt,
I read that alkaline water is the healthiest to drink. My doctor says that’s not true. What do you know about this?
—Staying Hydrated in Hawaii
In 2019, consumers spent about $1 billion on al kaline water. Its marketing is awash with celebrity backing and myriad anecdotes. However, objective evidence of its purported benefits is scarce to nonexistent. Therefore, Mayo Clinic advises: “For most people, alkaline water is not better than plain wa ter.” Bottled water, sold as alkaline water, is regulated by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA), and usually has nutrients or minerals added to it to achieve an alkaline (higher, non-acidic) pH. Internet sites, particularly those selling the product, want you to believe that it can neutralize acid in your blood stream, help prevent diseases such as cancer and heart disease, and reduce upset stomach, indiges tion, and gastroesophageal reflux disease (GERD). However, more research is needed to verify any of these claims. Others claim it helps slow bone loss. There are some studies suggesting that alkaline wa ter might help slow bone loss; however, there is no research showing it increases overall bone mineral density, decreases the risk of fractures, or is beneficial over the long term. Therefore, some experts call al kaline water “pHony water” (tinyurl.com/mpdxuj6s); others refer to it as “a hoax and scam” (tinyurl.com/ yxchmw8s) at worst and a “waste of money” (tinyurl. com/mt9fmm3h) at best. The so-called “benefits” of the beverage seem too good to be true and most of the claims are just too hard to swallow. I don’t recom mend alkaline water and hope this is one product that won’t sink your budget!
Dear Dr. Walt, Are smoothies as nutritious as some people claim?
—Iced Drink Lover in Iowa
Smoothies are thick, creamy beverages usually blended from puréed fruits, vegetables, juices, yogurt, nuts, seeds, and/or dairy or nondairy milk. They usu ally come in three different forms. “Fruit smoothies” feature one or more types of fruit blended with fruit juice, water, milk, or ice cream. “Green smoothies” are
packed with leafy green vegetables and fruit blended with water, juice, or milk. “Protein smoothies” start with a fruit or vegetable and a liquid, as well as a ma jor protein source like Greek yogurt, cottage cheese, silken tofu, or protein powder. They are increasingly popular as a wellness trend and are even marketed as a health food. They are versatile beverages that are por table, family-friendly, and modifiable for any taste or dietary preference. They are easy to prepare at home, or you can also purchase fresh or bottled ones from specialty cafés and most major grocery stores. But the “health halo” above that smoothie may be mislead ing. Even if you’re making your smoothie at home, using only fruits and vegetables with no added sugar or processed ingredients, you can still drink it in just a few minutes, compared with the 15 or 20 minutes it would take to eat the same fruits or vegetables whole. The fiber in whole fruits and vegetables slows down the process by which the body turns sugar from food into blood sugar. The fiber in a smoothie has been pulverized during the blending process. As a result, you’re likely to feel a sugar rush or be hungrier again sooner after drinking the smoothie than you would if you had eaten the same fruits and vegetables whole. And buyer beware! Commercially prepared and store-bought smoothies usually contain added sugar, honey, or other sweeteners; protein powder that’s of ten sweetened; or milk, yogurt, nut butters, and other ingredients that make them more filling — and more palatable — but also add calories. As a result, there’s a fine line between a smoothie and a milkshake. In ad dition, some commercially prepared smoothies aren’t even prepared from whole fruit but rather reconsti tuted purées, juice concentrates, natural flavoring, and coloring. The most nutritious smoothies utilize whole foods, contain no added sugar, and balance carbs, soluble fiber, protein, and healthy fats.
This column provides healthcare tips and advice that you can trust about a wide variety of general health information but is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment from your family physician. You can subscribe to Dr. Walt’s complementary daily blog at www.DrWalt.com
Jeff M. Sellers is founder and editor of Morning Star News morningstarnews.org, the only independent news service exclusively covering persecution of Christians. Previously he was an associate editor at Christianity Today magazine, where he wrote a regular column on persecuted Christians for five years. He worked seven years as an editor at Open Doors International and three years as a writer at World Vision. With a journalism degree from Arizona State University and a Master’s in Marketplace Theology from Regent College in Vancouver, British Columbia, he has also reported on persecution, economy, politics, and cultural issues for USA Today, The Globe and Mail, and other media as a journalist in Mexico City, Mexico, and Madrid, Spain.
By Jerry Dykstra and Open Doors contributorsThe annual International Day of Prayer for the Persecuted Church (IDOP) in November reminds us to pray for Christians suffering for their faith. But how to pray?
One can become despondent or desensitized by the horror of some persecution news stories, along with the sense of helplessness they leave in their wake. It can be wearying.
The incessant flow of bad news has led me to the only thing that can parry the effect of the continual buf feting of the soul — giving it over to God. Without a Kingdom perspec tive, it’s difficult to imagine how to pray for people who have suffered beyond imagina tion. Theology is not just for beard-scratchers; one cannot read about, write about, or pray for perse cuted Christians for long without having one’s theological ducks in a row.
Putting the Kingdom of God front and center is crucial. When Christians suffer for their faith, Paul notes in 2 Corinthians 4:17, it prepares them for an eternal weight of glory; thus, such suffering displays the faith that adds weight to the Kingdom of God, both now and later. Jesus told Peter that upon such faith He would build His church (Matt 6:18) in this world.
Thus, contrary to persecutors’ designs, persecu tion of the faithful expands and enhances the sub stance of the Kingdom. If Christ’s birth ushered in the Kingdom of God (an era, as much as a place), and His cruel death followed by resurrection con
• That the Lord would restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish those suffering for His name.
• That the Lord would draw near to and console those who have lost loved ones because of their faith.
• That the Lord would accomplish His Kingdom purposes amid persecution of His children.
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quered sin and death, so likewise those who suffer for following Him ultimately add the brilliance of their faith, hope, and love to the Kingdom.
This theology may be merely cerebral, but where the Kingdom expands, the evil that leaves us de spondent or desensitized is diminished. And upon this foundation we can place the biblical authors’ more soulful assertions that God is the Father of mercies and God of all comfort (2 Corinthians 1:3, for example); thus, we can pray that the Lord con sole with His mere presence those who mourn.
Paul also said in 2 Corinthians (4:14) that He who raised Jesus “will raise us also with Jesus and bring us with you into His presence.” On the prem ise that survivors ultimately will be brought into the presence of the Lord alongside their loved ones who have died, we can pray that those who mourn will feel the certainty of being restored to those they have lost.
I pray God will draw close to those newly or phaned in Somalia, Nigeria, Egypt, Pakistan, Ke nya, India, Iraq, Colombia, and other countries with the comfort of His presence, and I pray that those children will know the hope of embracing their parents anew on the other side. So, also, do I pray for the parents and other relatives who have suffered the brutal loss of their children, grand
children, brothers and sisters, nieces and nephews. Lord, draw near to them in a tangible way, that Your presence would remove the sting of hopeless ness from their grief and that their hearts would be perme ated with the faith that they will be reconciled to those for whom they so ache.
To pray for the persecuted is to enter into their stories as Je sus entered into ours — incar nationally. So, no need to shy away from praying with tears.
Botrous Badawai at hospital after attack in Sudan, July 2021. Photo courtesy of Facebook.
I’m not sure the heavenly rewards for martyrdom are much consolation to survivors left behind, but as described in the book of Revelation, they do speak to the victory at the end of the Christian meta-narrative. To each of the sev en churches the Lord addresses in the first three chapters of Revelation, He includes rewards for those who “conquer” in faithful obedience, including steadfastness in persecu tion. Those rewards may give some indication of what God is preparing for brothers and sisters today, who persevere:
To the faithful in the church in Ephesus, “to eat of the tree of life, which is in the paradise of God.” To the faithful in the church in Smyrna, “the one who conquers will not be hurt by the second death.” To the faithful in the church in Pergamum, “I will give some of the hidden manna, and I will give him a white stone, with a new name written on the stone that no one knows except the one who receives it.”
To the faithful in the church in Thyatira, “authority over all the nations, and ... I will give him the morning star.” To the faithful in the church in Sardis, “I will confess his name before my Father and before his angels.” To the faithful in the church in Philadelphia, “I will write on him the name of my God, and the name of the city of my God, the new Je rusalem, which comes down from God out of heaven, and my own new name.” To the faithful in the church in Laodi cea, “I will grant him to sit with me on my throne, as I also conquered and sat down with my Father on his throne.”
Perhaps more striking than these rewards is the descrip tion of the One giving them: “one like a son of man” with eyes “like a flame of fire” and his voice “like the roar of many waters” (Rev. 1:14-15).
It is for that “one like a son of man” that the young and the old in Christ are suffering today. If that figure were not also God, who gave them the deposit of the Holy Spirit as a guarantee, they would have little impetus to remain faith ful. It is to that God we endeavor to intercede. Were He not the one who also suffered cruelty for their sake and ours, some of us might have little impetus to pray to Him.
At one time, some Jewish friends, astonished, asked me how Christians could be so indifferent toward religiously motivated violence done to Christians.
I replied that it seemed Christians were largely unaware of persecution of Christians; I have often been surprised to learn how few Christians know their brethren in any given country were being attacked.
But the problem went deeper than that. Years ago, a nation wide poll showed 74 percent of churchgoers wanted to hear more about the persecuted church, but that clergy and media believed otherwise — most pastors especially in the United States backed away from the “downer” of persecution, and most media assumed their audiences wanted to hear about anything besides religious rights violations. When not highlighting the trivialities that feed their monstrous appetite for webpage views, mainstream media will occasionally let religiously motivated ag gression come to light, though invariably miscast as “sectarian strife.”
Systemic biases are at work now, just as they were before, dur ing, and after the Holocaust. In his heart-wrenching account of surviving the Holocaust, Night, the late Elie Wiesel showed how even his tightly knit, childhood community of Orthodox Jews in 1942 ignored a co-religionist who was witness to Nazi atrocities. Two years later, 15-year-old Wiesel and his family were rounded up like cattle and taken to Auschwitz.
Very quickly — not long after seeing Jewish children thrown into a fire pit — young Wiesel felt he had entered into a night that, in his soul, would never end. Such darkness is not some thing that Christians today wish to willingly enter, but Wiesel devoted his life to showing that to ignore it is to become an ac complice.
I was among a group of foreign correspondents who met with Wiesel in Madrid, Spain, in the mid-1990s. Our respective news papers’ response to the 1986 Nobel Peace Prize laureate and his message — “Never forget” — was somewhat disparate. A few of the reporters clearly revered him. My editor back in the states, however, seemed to view him as a kind of publicity hound and said not to worry about writing anything up.
Was systemic bias at work against bringing religious freedom violations to light? Probably, and it is worth noting that it took decades for Wiesel’s witness to be widely heeded.
Raising awareness about religious persecution is not an easy sell; it’s about shedding light, not satisfying marketing-driven demands.
As Wiesel — who struggled toward his dawn and rebuilt his view of God — said in his Nobel Peace Prize acceptance speech, “What all these victims need above all is to know that they are not alone; that we are not forgetting them, that when their voic es are stifled we shall lend them ours, that while their freedom depends on ours, the quality of our freedom depends on theirs.”
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First, you need to find a way to cover the dif ference between the amount of the lien and what you can get for the car. Let’s say the car is worth $12,000, and you owe $15,000. That would leave you $3,000 short.
The bank holds the title, so unless you give them the payoff amount of $15,000, you’re not getting the title. The easiest and simplest way would be if someone buys the car for $12,000, and you had $3,000 on hand to make up the difference. If you don’t have the money to make up the difference, you could go to a local bank or credit union and borrow the remaining $3,000.
I really hate debt, but being $3,000 in the hole is a lot better than being $15,000 in the hole. Then, you could turn around and quickly pay back the $3,000 you borrowed.
You’d give the total amount owed to the bank, they would give you the title, and you would sign it over to the new owner. Hope this helps!
—DaveFirst, Lay a Solid Foundation Dear Dave,
When is it okay to have a little fun, and buy things you want, on the Baby Steps plan?
Children think about their immediate wants and do what feels good. Adults, on the other hand, de vise smart, logical plans, and stick to them. I want you to have a great life, but you have to put in some hard work and say “no” to yourself sometimes in order to attain that great life!
—DaveA debt collection agency started calling my office a few weeks ago. I gave them an ini tial payment and made an agreement to pay off the debt in monthly installments. This morning, they started calling me at my office again. Can I legally demand they not call me at my place of employment?
—James
Absolutely! You have a legal and moral obligation to pay your debts, and I’m glad this is something you recognize. But collectors have rules they must follow. They’re governed by law just like everyone else.
Dear Kaitlin,
The time for a little fun is after you’ve completed the first three Baby Steps. Baby Step 1 is saving $1,000 for a beginner emergency fund. Baby Step 2 is paying off all debt, except for your home. And Baby Step 3 means you go back and add to your emergency fund until you have three to six months of expenses set aside.
Once you’re debt-free except for your home — and you have your emergency fund completed — you’ve laid a solid, financial foundation for your life. That’s when you can have a little fun and spend some money on a vacation, new furniture, or something like that.
Be certain to keep your end of the agreement. Make your payments on time, or early, whenever possible. Then, if they call you at work again, remind them of your initial payment and the terms of the agreement already in place. Be polite, but firm, and demand that they never call you at your office again.
In addition, send them a certified letter, return re ceipt requested, so you’ll have proof you sent the letter and they received it. In the letter, let them know that — according to guidelines set forth in the Federal Fair Debt Collection Practices Act — you are demanding they not call you at your office again.
If they call you there after receiving this formal de mand to stop, they’ll be in violation of federal law. If that happens, let them know you’ll talk to a lawyer and sue them.
—Dave
Getting Rid of the Car Dear Dave, How do you sell a vehicle with a lien amount that’s higher than the value of the car?
—Michael
Aboy read a restaurant sign that advertised fat-free French fries. “Sounds great,” said the health-conscious boy. He ordered some.
He watched as the cook pulled a basket of fries from the fryer. The potatoes were dripping with oil when the cook put them into the con tainer.
“Wait a minute,” the boy said. “Those don’t look fat-free.”
“Sure they are,” the cook said. “We charge only for the potatoes. The fat is free.”
—From Mikey’s Funnies (www.mikeysfunnies.com)
Realizing that their home just wasn’t big enough with the new baby in the house, Little Johnny’s parents discussed moving to a bigger one.
Little Johnny sat patiently listening to his parents, then piped in, “It’s no use. He’ll just follow us anyway.”
—From Mikey’s Funnies (www.mikeysfunnies.com)
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Annie Yorty writes and speaks to encourage others to perceive God in the unexpected twists and turns of life. Married to her high school sweetheart, she mothers a teen, two adult children (one with Down syndrome), and a furry beast labradoodle. Her book, From Ignorance to Bliss: God’s Heart Revealed Through Down Syndrome, will be available in spring 2023. Please connect with her at AnnieYorty.com, Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram.
’m not finished yet.”
Kim’s words, uttered to her daughter just a few days before her death, mirrored the senti ment of many people down through the ages as they faced their mortality. There always seems to be more to do — unfinished business.
By all human accounts, Kim could see her work on earth was incomplete. While she had launched seven children, there were still more to raise. Eight, to be exact. Some of whom were quite young. All of whom had already experienced trau ma and deep loss before being adopted into Kim’s family. Kim operated on a simple, though not always easy, principle: if they got a call about a child in need, it was God’s will for them to enfold the child into their loving family. Naturally, she assumed God planned to keep her around to raise these children to adulthood.
That is not to say that we, His disciples, are inconsequential. No, God deems us important enough that He begins His work in us and uses us strategically in His plan. Though the respon sibility for the win does not all depend on us, God puts us into the game.
Kim played hard. Out on the field of life, she gave her all. She spoke of her faith in God while her actions backed up her words. Together with her husband, Bob, she opened her heart and home to many children. She advocated for those with no voice. She helped and en couraged her co-laborers in the homeschool community.
A loyal friend, she always made time. She instilled God’s values into her children in a natural and loving way that stuck.
Yet, at age 54, God seemed to be calling Kim home. Away from her earthly family. To Himself. To heav enly fellowship with her young son, mother, and oth ers who had gone home before her. It just didn’t make sense. Why would God bring these hurting children to her family to be mothered, only to take her away before she had a chance to finish the job?
There are no easy answers to that question.
Like Kim, I am stunned by the swift and precipi tous close to her temporal life. I don’t know why I’m surprised. Only God knows the beginning and end of our lives. In the Bible, James asserts, “Yet you do not know what your life will be like tomor row. For you are just a vapor that appears for a little while, and then vanishes away” (James 4:14 NASB). This should be expected.
A closer in baseball is a relief pitcher who enters the game in the final inning to secure the win. In the ball game of life, we are not the closers. But the Bible tells us the name of the one who is. “And I am certain that God, who began the good work within you, will contin ue his work until it is finally finished on the day when Christ Jesus returns” (Philippians 1:6 NLT).
God, through Jesus, is the One who finishes every thing He has begun in every person since the time of Adam and Eve. He is Alpha and Omega, the begin ning and the end. He is the author, the implementer, the fulfiller, and the completer of His master plan.
When God said, “It’s time,” Kim focused briefly on the unfinished work. But for years, she had been passing the bat to the next players. She played her position well, expending all her energy on the field. She did her part for the team.
God is continuing His work until the ninth in ning, when He’s sending Jesus back to earth to close the game here. While there may be some de bate on the exact meaning and timing of Philip pians 1:6, there is no doubt Paul is telling us God will finish everything He starts in His perfect time.
Kim’s family may rely on this promise. God is deeply aware of their past, present, and future needs. God will provide for each and every fam ily member according to His intimate knowledge of them. His provision may be human or divine, or some combination thereof.
A funeral often prompts reevaluation. It’s a good thing to ponder our purpose and life tra jectory. Am I using the gifts and opportunities given by God to invest in others? Or do I spend too much time on what will be meaningless in eternity? Will I truly trust the One who finishes, or do I live as if the outcome all depends on me?
Though Kim voiced the question, she ulti mately trusted God to be the closer of all the plays He began through her short life.
As for this rookie player, I will follow in her footsteps.