Simcha Scene Dylan Spiegel with parents Melinda and Michael Lejman.
Going with the Flow By Holly Marks :: Photos by Paige Miller Photography Ever since this crazy pandemic started, the words postponed and rescheduled have become part of everyone’s vocabulary – including Dylan Spiegel and his family. His bar mitzvah was originally planned for August 29, but since health and safety were still of concern, the date was changed to November 7, even though COVID was still going strong. But he and his family were determined to make this momentous occasion happen no matter what. As it turns out, the day could not have been more perfect. We all know Memphis weather can change by the minute and being outdoors in November can be iffy. But it was a mild, sunny day; exactly what was needed to enjoy the ceremony at Temple Israel. It was held in the covered, outdoor atrium by the fountain, which provided a beautiful backdrop for the service. The existing greenery added natural elements 12
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and flowers from the chapel were brought out to enhance the surroundings. They were limited to 50 people including staff, but it worked out well. Most of their family and friends are local, so no one needed to travel; plus, the service was live-streamed and recorded for those who couldn’t attend. Dylan is a member of the TI Boy Scouts and the troop was all able to be there, too. Rabbi Micah Greenstein co-led the service with Dylan, while Carly Abramson accompanied on guitar. Still following protocols, seats were set up in pods to allow for social distancing, and clear plexiglass dividers were placed between Dylan and the Rabbi on the bimah for an extra precaution. As an ode to the uniqueness of holding the ceremony during COVID, they provided personalized face masks for each guest. Designed by local vendor Brenda Curland of
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