Making assumptions of low self-value when you talk. Not returning IODs with IODs. Chasing, following, inviting yourself along. Complaining about perceived rivals. Blatantly trying to denigrate rivals, revealing your poverty mentality and desperation.
Overly interested body language. Facing, leaning in, etc. Almost as if you’re making a point of your interest, which destroys plausible deniability.
Obviously trying to finish your thread after it got cut off. Implies that it’s overly important to you that you get the value from your punchline.
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Overly trying to get or keep attention. Speaking fast, lots of movement. When it’s obvious that the chick is more important to you than your friends. What does this say about how you feel about the chick? What does it say about how you feel about your friends? What does it say about your value as a result?
Asking too many questions. Too much interest, not enough value. Eagerness to answer questions when people ask you. Eagerness to make yourself available to her just in case you might get more interaction with her. Asking her to repeat her question if you didn’t hear it, telegraphing that this conversation is overly important to you.
Putting too much thought and effort into your reply, as if you don’t want to fuck it up. Being overly wordy in your response, as if you are reporting to your boss, when you would try to make your response as useful to him as possible and give him the most information so he will be pleased with your reply. You do this because he has high survival value. Similarly you do this to chicks because you perceive they have high value to you as well. They can tell when you are doing this.
Trying to accommodate or please people instead of expecting them to accommodate or please you. T H E V E N U S I A N A RTS W W W. E X P LO R E H U M A N I T Y. C O M