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wedding. I couldn’t help myself and I went and spoke to her. I actually asked her out. She declined to go out with me and I don’t care about that - because hey, at least I tried, right. So anyway, the next thing I know, everyone is teasing me about asking Shanya out and what’s more, they all know what I said to her. What really bothers me is that Shanya actually told everyone everything I said. I find that irritating, and sometimes when I see Shanya, I just want to go up to her and give her a piece of my mind. It really irks me that she told everyone. I don’t care about the fact that she doesn’t want to go out with me, particularly as I now have a girlfriend who is just as beautiful as Shanyabut I find her behaviour disturbing. Do you think I should tell her what I think of her?

Auntyji says

Well, I can’t see any signs of your ego being hurt by this episode, especially