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daughter Ida does not want to be like her mother as she does not want her voice to be suppressed by anybody. She hates any such attempt which denied her freedom. Home (2006) explores the complex terrain of the Indian family and reveals many issues that are deep rooted within the family. This is a revolt against the age-old traditions, quest for identity, the problems of marriage and lastly the women‘s struggle for her survival. In the novel Nisha fell in love with Suresh and had to face many queries. Her brother Raju thinks, Nisha is no trustworthy. So, she rebels, ―Who are you to decide whether I am trustworthy?‖ (198) She desperately wishes to live on equal footing with men and carves for an identity of her own. She refuses to admit any discrimination between men and women. Her rebellious nature arises from time to time. She says her mother, ―Who cares about castes these days? What you really want is to sell me in the market she sobbed with indignant emotion. Sell me and be done with it what are you waiting for?‖ (199) She refuses to adhere to the age-old tradition of marriage. There is a whole gamut of things that can go wrong in a marriage-starting from skirmishes over finance, inter-personal relationships, extended family relationships, excessive sex or lack of sex, kids, lack of kids, affairs, jealousy, invasion of personal space. Shobha De has discussed it in Spouse: The truth About Marriage. She renders the account of her first marriage in a candid manner:
Marriage is definitely one-time bond since time immemorial at least from the Indian traditional and conventional point of view. As Simon De Beauvoir says, ―Marriage is the destiny traditionally offered by society.‖ (445) But how far this statement is justified may be seen exemplified in Jaishree Misra‘s Ancient Promises (2000).The novel starts with Janaki, the protagonist, reflecting over her life on the occasion of the ending of her marriage. The novel begins with this stark statement in an abrupt manner: ―My marriage ended today…Ma had said, as we left the court, voice and eyes brimming with sadness, that it had been my fate. I had replied attempting to comfort her, that I thought ending were really only beginnings in disguise.‖ (3) Jaishree Misra, through Janaki and more significantly, through Arjun, also asserts the right of every person to her or his own happiness and the right to create the means to achieve it. This is the central theme of the novel. The novel Can Love Happen Twice? by Ravinder Singh takes up a major issue prevailing in our society; the question of choosing to live abroad, away from family. The Volume 8 Issue 2
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―Marriages disintegrate for various reasons. Sometimes they fall apart by default. As my first one did it may we both entered at a wrong time in our respective lives. Maybe we had not thought of the decisions through. Maybe our expectations didn‘t match. Maybe we grew in entirely different ways. Maybe I was a bit too headstrong, a bit too impatient. So many years later, there is much regret about the sadness caused.‖ (Spouse: The truth About Marriage71)