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Of charity, following your passion, and fashion “If you want happiness for a lifetime, then help someone.” While this oft-repeated quote never loses its significance, its worth doubles during the Holy Month of Ramadan. As we are in the last few days of the blessed month, we focus on giving back, one of the noblest attributes of this month. The charitable organisations and volunteers in Oman, who work throughout the year to help people, take extra initiatives and seek different opportunities to give back during this month. Our Cover Story this week explores some of the noble works of these organisations. Last week, we celebrated the success stories of the students who made it to the top. We discussed the importance of hard work and perseverance when it comes to doing well in studies. But on delving deeper, we realised that there existed another side to this success as well — the world of unrealistic expectations, unnecessary pressures, and heart breaks in a student’s life. We understood that the widely accepted notion that our life and success hinge on our test results has made examinations seem more important than education. If one does not attain the desired marks in their test papers a pall of gloom descends on all — the students, the parents, and the school as well. While good grades are a stepping stone, it is also important not to give undue importance to them. Parents and teachers should support students to nurture dreams and encourage them to follow their passions and things they are good at, rather than pressurise them to fulfil their own dreams. Children too must learn to embrace the different choices and chances that are around them and are there for the taking. All one needs to do is to open their eyes to it. Our Special Feature this week discusses how important it is for parents to understand their child’s potential and why parental expectations should be realistic. While talking about parenting, there is no dearth of concerns. Our parenting columnist talks about phubbing, a term used to describe the habit of snubbing someone in favour of a mobile phone. So what happens when parents phubb their children? It’s definitely something to think about. And with Eid just a few weeks away, we welcome the festivities with Eid Al Fitr collections by a well-known fashion label. And in our beauty section we pull together some amazing beauty hacks with ice that might surprise you. — Swati Dasgupta
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WHAT’S ON 09 THIS WEEK SATURDAY
04.00pm Go to Canada or Australia Confused about which programme to apply for? Global Vision Management will help make that decision for you in a free orientation that will give you a peek into immigration programmes, among other things. The event focuses on Canada and Australia. Coral Hotel, Qurum Al Khuwair, Bousher +968 9410 9399
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04.00pm Learn to Paint Master the art of watercolour painting at the Art & Design Studio in a 3-day workshop where artists and art followers will get together to learn new techniques, and have a fun-filled session. Registration required.
03.00pm Celebrate Global Wellness Day Join Six Senses Spa at Al Bustan Palace for a complimentary wellness workshop with tips and exercise for healthy joints. The event takes place on the occasion of Global Wellness Day. Six Senses Spa, Al Bustan Palace, Muscat +968 2476 4333
Al Mouj Muscat (Private Villa) Al Hail, Seeb +968 9887 9887
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FRIDAY 01.00pm Become a Singer How about learning from the best on how to sing? Join The Voice Workshop and explore singing exercises, breathing techniques, and meditation required for training your vocals. Registration required.
Vantage International Muscat Al Khuwair, Bousher +968 9343 5226
06.00am Paddle Away Head out to the waters of Oman and paddle away with your friends in an adventurous session full of good times only. This time around, the session will take place in Wadi Al Arbeieen. Call or email for booking and information on meeting point. +968 9269 4962 info@watersport-oman.com
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04.00pm Experience Sound Therapy Don’t miss out on a chance to experience the traditional singing bowls or Tibetan bowls, which are ancient form of musical instruments that aid in relaxation, meditation and lots of different forms of holistic arts and religious ceremonies.
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InnerChi Centre, Qurum Oasis Building, Sayh Al Malih, Qurum +968 7190 6060
10.00am Teach Your Kid Technology It’s great to teach your children about technology at an early age. Check out Robotics Summer Workshop, where your kids will enhance their problem solving skills, strategic and creative thinking, as well as concentration and attention. The six-week workshop costs OMR60 for two classes per week, or OMR80 for three classes per week. Al Atheer Private School, South Al Ghubra, Bousher +968 9534 9429
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Ee. Ma. Yau (Malayalam) Cast: Chemban Vinod, Dileesh Pothan, Vinayakan, Krishna Padmakumar Set in Chellanam, Kochi, the story of Ee. Ma. Yau revolves around the death of Vavachan Mesthiri in a coastal village. It showcases the events that unfold between two evenings and looks at death from different perspectives.
COMING SOON JURASSIC WORLD: FALLEN KINGDOM Cast: J.A Bayona, Bryce Dallas Howard, Jeff Goldblum, Chris Pratt Four years after the destruction of the Jurassic World theme park, Owen Grady and Claire Dearing return to the island of Isla Nublar to save the remaining dinosaurs from a volcano that’s about to erupt. They soon encounter terrifying new breeds of gigantic dinos while uncovering a conspiracy that threatens the entire planet. Running at: Vox Cinemas, City Cinemas
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Kaala is an upcoming Indian Tamil political gangster drama movie. The film stars Rajinikanth in the lead role, while Nana Patekar, Samuthirakani, Easwari Rao portray the supporting roles.
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THERE IS NOTHING MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN SOMEONE GOING OUT OF THEIR WAY TO MAKE LIFE BEAUTIFUL FOR OTHERS. THIS RAMADAN THE CHARITY ORGANISATIONS IN OMAN ARE REACHING OUT TO PEOPLE WITH LOVE, COMPASSION, AND GENEROSITY.
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here’s nothing in this world more beautiful than giving back,” said Alyaa Al Makhzoumi, founder and head of Basmat Amal, a charity organisation dedicated to taking care of orphans and families. And it’s a statement that we endorse as well, especially at this time of the year when it is important to give back. The desire to give back during Ramadan doubles and results in a lovely and harmonious atmosphere where volunteers are engaged in many philanthropic activities. Here in Oman, in the past few years, the number of organisations and volunteering groups has drastically increased, with people being more sensitive to the needs
of people not just within their communities but also overseas, to countries that are in need of help. Why do people love to give back especially during Ramadan? The answer is simple. Because the virtues collected are multiplied, and for believers, it gives them tremendous rewards. A golden ticket that helps them get closer to God. Before we dive into the charities, let’s explore the benefits of giving back. First, it elevates your self-esteem and self worth, as it is a selfless act that makes you feel good about yourself, serving a great deal of personal satisfaction and development. Secondly, it brings about a sense of contentment and joy, as the individual becomes optimistic with a positive mood and exciting outlook on life.
The benefits of charity have a great effect on the community as well; the more these charities help foster happiness to the less fortunate, the better these communities grow. In addition to that, spiritual folks believe that giving back always comes full circle. If you offer a helping hand, a threefold reward will be offered back to you by Allah, which is something that keeps volunteers and organisations motivated to do good. In Muscat, there are many charitable organisations that have a special place in the hearts of people, charities that opened their doors to serving the needy in various ways. Some charities donate clothes to those in need of clothing, some offer housing to those in need of shelter, and most importantly, some even cook
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food for those who are fasting. Alyaa said that her group has set up an Iftar tent on the industrial side of Al Ma’abela, where a number of blue collar and expat workers turn up to break their fast. The work of Alyaa and her team doesn’t end there, they also distribute water to hospitals in Seeb, feed Muslims for Suhoor (a late night meal during Ramadan), hand out Iftar packages at Burj Al Sahwa highway in Seeb and to security guards across town, as well as ensure Eid giveaways for poor families. Alyaa has also held workshops to help families learn how to earn money by teaching them various crafts. “Our aim was and still is to help ease the struggles of people and contribute to our society,” she said. In the interiors, the race to give back is just as strong, with young men and women forming groups and organisations committed to the cause. In Quriyat, Salim Mubarak Al Rotani, who is the founder of Quriyat Charity Group, continues to help his community during Ramadan by offering food to more than 500 fasting families, as well as handing Iftar boxes to folks driving along the lengthy stretch that leads to Muscat from Sur, distributing water to mosques across town, buying new clothes for orphans and poor families, and passing around Ramadan dining necessities such as meat and packs of chicken. “Charity is important to build communities, as it is a human practice that helps you see the best in people,” said Salim. Suad Abdullah Al Alawiya of Sarb Al Atta volunteering group in Al Dhahira managed a fun-filled activity where they put out a tent for needy families to sell food. The families sold Omani delicacies and Ramadan staples, among other things. These local charities are a living, breathing proof that giving back during this blessed month plants seeds of empathy, compassion, and love towards the less fortunate. Sometimes we, as human beings, need to be reminded that there are people who need our help, especially during the month-long fasting period of Ramadan. — salim@timesofoman.com
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DO YOUR EXAM RESULTS REALLY MATTER? The recent results of CBSE, a national level board of education in India, has set the expectations too high in our result driven society. While getting good grades is a commendable achievement one must not forget that grades do not determine how well we do in life. After all success comes from passion, ambition, and commitment.
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ide smiles, celebrations galore, and schools flaunting their favourite “toppers” are what we have been reading, watching and hearing since the CBSE results of Grade 12 and 10 were announced. Students have scored marks as high as 499 out of 500 in their board examinations and teachers and parents alike can’t stop telling the world about it. While a lot of students have passed with flying colours and have managed to make their families and institutions proud, we conveniently and sometimes deliberately fail to see the dark side of the whole system, in which the miseries of the greater majority, who dread being a part of this set-up, get obscured. With more than 83% of students passing, out of the over 1 million students who appeared for the Grade 12 board examinations, undeniably a lot of students have scored good marks. But since when have passing or scoring just good marks been okay in the supremely competitive system that these young minds are enrolled in? Scores that are as high as 90% aren’t good enough anymore for parents who tend to compare them with the marks of their neighbour’s daughter, for relatives who are looking for opportunities to taunt, for schools who won’t so much as acknowl-
edge the efforts of these “average” students, and colleges and universities whose cut-offs are as high as 98%. While life must be miserable for the 17% who unfortunately did not manage to pass, it isn’t any better for those who have scored anywhere below 85%. In a system where the stakes are incredulously high, expectations are unrealistic and goals set are ridiculous, children turn into pressure cookers that are just waiting to explode. Therefore, the two suicide cases reported in India after the results were declared, although very disheartening, come as no surprise. Every year, there are children across the world falling prey to the stress and pressure, who get into depression and end up taking extreme measures. The few who manage to surpass that phase, realise in a few years, that all that was for nothing and these examinations and scores don’t matter at all in the long run; but for a few, it unfortunately, is a little too late. In the previous issue of T Magazine, we lauded the performance of the high flyers of the CBSE board examinations and in this issue we aim to tell all the students who did appear for the examinations this year or will do so in the next few years, that it’s going to be okay. On speaking to some of the teachers in schools across Oman, one thing that most teachers were proud
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of more than their school toppers were the “below average” students who managed to surpass everyone’s expectations. Although this was refreshing to hear, it was the word average that caught on to us. Students’ calibres in life are measured on the basis of how much they score in the set of subjects that is limited in its reach and approach, at least until they graduate from school. A student is considered (and called) smart or dumb purely on the basis of his/her marks in class. In the current system, instead of being encouraged to learn, children are being forced to study. The Finnish model of education is considered the best education system for a number of reasons. Their
way of evaluation and testing isn’t rigid, with only one standardised testing taken at the age of 16, there aren’t too many stressful exams or homework, and finally the education system enjoys complete autonomy, where the schools and classes decide what needs to be taught without being influenced by the government or any ministerial body. “The main reason why the Finnish system works is because it is autonomous. There can’t be the involvement of politics in education,” said an Indian School teacher. She added, “With students scoring marks as high as 499 out of 500 in the board examinations, it sometimes feels as if the scoring process is fake. Honestly, without any
offence meant to the students who have scored exceptionally well, we as teachers understand the academic abilities of students and often it doesn’t correspond to the marks they get.” Since we are talking about the CBSE board results, the education system prevalent under it isn’t just influenced by the aforementioned bodies, but before they even have a role to play, a child’s education needs to go through other tremendous hurdles. A child’s marks are no more than him/ her testing his/her knowledge or skills in a particular subject. It is a matter of pride and honour for the parent who uses it as a laurel that he/she can show off. Especially with the advent of social media apps such
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as WhatsApp, where communication has become so convenient, most parents in Oman are part of school groups and parent groups and are more involved in their children’s education and school activities, than in the children themselves. WhatsApp makes it convenient for parents to compare marks and results, which is possibly the worst thing for a child’s self esteem. There are a number of mothers and fathers putting up posts about their child’s marks on social media; however, it is refreshing to see a few posts by parents who have been encouraging students who haven’t done too well, attempting to explain to them that examinations are not the end of the world. “While all are celebrating the Grade 10 and 12 results, our heart goes out to all the children who scored less than they expected and are feeling sad about it. Sharing similar thoughts interior designer Anu Shaikh said, “I scored 60% and I have never looked back since. I started my business with a small capital and now we have grown into one of the largest interior design and contracting companies in Oman. Success in life is based on your dedication towards what you want in life and how much effort you put into achieving it, not on the result of one exam. If you enjoy work and achieve your goals, however small they are in life, one must celebrate.” We can’t deny the fact that knowledge is power, but it is important to gain the right kind of knowledge in the right possible way to yield the right kind of power. And marks and grades are a minuscule aspect of the different tests that life is going to present to you and the subjects learned in school comprise just a tiny portion of the lessons that you will learn in life with experience and exposure. You should rejoice if you’ve scored good marks and throw a party for your friends, and it is completely okay to mourn if you haven’t scored according to your expectations. However, it is important to realise that these joys and sorrows are momentary and everyone (including you) is going to forget about it in a few months. So, go to school to enjoy the whole experience and consider education as an important tool for knowledge and not as meaningless competition. If you go to a corporate office today and ask the people around, you will be surprised to find out how many people who are in the top-level management now have failed in numerous subjects in school and were definitely not class toppers, but have managed to “top” in the real exams of life.
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STORY SALIM AL AFIFI • PHOTOS SUPPLIED ave you ever wondered what a collection dedicated to the elegant lady would look like? The answer lies in the Spring/Summer 2018 collection of the Oman-based, Italian-inspired fashion brand, Meli’s By Reflection, which released its collection for the occasion of Eid Al Fitr for elegant women. Given that Eid is around the corner, women in Oman are on the lookout for something edgy yet classy to sport on the first few days of the traditional festivity, and these effortless looking dresses do just the trick. Designed by Sahar Al Aufi, the brand combines beautiful silhouettes that carry Italian flavours to bring out the classiness in you. Usually, the brand dives into a variety of patterned pieces and elaborate designs, but for 2018, Al Aufi opted for a classic, elegant look that can be worn by women from the Gulf, Arabic women, and Europeans, too. Her latest collection is inspired by love and nature, two of the designer’s favourite elements that have an effect on her life. It is a personal collection that brings out the essence of the true lady. In this collection, Al Aufi used floral and seaweed-shaped designs to showcase her love of nature, and she made sure that love is well represented inside each dress and colour, which comes in beautiful off-white, gold, purple, red, and black. What makes this collection special is the refined simplicity that elevates the overall elegance that a woman would carry the minute she puts it on. “I love to keep my designs simple and focus on the power of the dress and the quality of the work, starting from the embroidery of the fabric and the design to the stitching,” she said. “The most intriguing part, as always, is putting together the concept. Sometimes I study, I look, and I concentrate. I sleep on the idea, and while sleeping I start to draw the dress in my dreams, my imagination. When I wake up, I trust my dream. I follow it and I make it. Eventually, it’s all about the power of believing in yourself and the power of your dreams,” she added. The whole collection showcases 25 beautifully crafted designs for women. Whether you have a ball this weekend, or are looking for a dress for Eid, stop by Meli’s By Reflection in Qurum and prepare to be amazed. —salim@timesofoman.com
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THE COOLEST SKIN CARE REMEDY With the mercury at an everyday rise, there is only so much we even want to put on our skin. Endless battles with heat boils, hopeful experiments with new ‘summer’ products and fancy facials that promise to tackle that sunburn — we’ve all been there. But we never turn to the most basic, widely available and pretty much free (we didn’t even say ‘cheap’, we said ‘free’) alternative. We present (drum roll) — ice cubes! You just emptied a tray in that lemonade you made this afternoon, didn’t you? Here are 10 ways you can use ice in your beauty routine.
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Before tweezing Apply some ice to the eyebrows or upper lip if you intend on using the tweezers. The ice will numb the area and you don’t have to wince every time you tug.
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Pre-makeup Like hot water opens up pores, cold water helps to close them. It’s a pretty simple principle. Wrap some ice cubes in a soft cloth and gently press against your skin to tighten the pores. It works like a natural primer and gives your makeup a smooth surface to set on. The result? Flawless makeup that even lasts longer.
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Helps you go natural You can choose to skip the makeup completely if all your skin needs is a little cleansing. Take some ice cubes and massage it in a circular motion on your face. You can also dunk your face completely in a basin of ice cold water (You’ve probably done the ice-bucket challenge anyway, so this should be easy). It helps to increase circulation and instantly gives your skin a natural radiance-boost. It also combats dullness and gives a fresh glow to your face.
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Counter sunburns Had a tanning session that didn’t go as planned? Prolonged exposure to the sun (especially in this summer) can cause some serious damage to the skin. The most common is sunburn. Though you can’t undo a burn, treating it with ice immediately can help soothe the irritation, prevent further damage and reduce the inflammation.
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Fight breakouts It’s tempting to pop a pimple but pressing it back with ice is probably a better call. It reduces redness, inflammation, and can maybe also subdue your urge to tackle it inappropriately. Applying some ice cubes over the affected area also keep the pores closed, thus preventing more bacteria from seeping in and causing further damage.
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Prevent oily skin If you have oily skin, applying ice cubes can really help tackle excess oil secretion by acting on the sebaceous glands. You will probably end up having lesser breakouts too.
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Dry polish Wet nails holding you back? Ice cubes to the rescue. Dip your fingers in a bowl full of ice cubes or keep them below a tap of running ice cold water and you’ll see your nail-polish dry before you can say Jack Robinson.
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Fight wrinkles Because of the ability of ice to constrict pores, it’s also said to be able to prevent the appearance of fine lines to an extent. Alright, so maybe ice won’t be as effective as that anti-aging cream you got but considering its natural, harmless and free, there really is no harm in dabbing your face with an ice pack when you’re sitting around reflecting on how you’ve aged.
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Antara Bose is a model turned fashion and beauty consultant. A popular blogger, anchor, and voice over artist, she maintains a deep connection with the local fashion industry and is passionate about discovering and celebrating aspiring talent as well as promoting animal rights. For fashion updates with a side of humour and sarcasm follow Antara on instagram @antarabose and on Facebook: Antara Bose.
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Phone +Snubbing = Phubbing. It’s a global phenomenon that is threatening the social fabric of our lives. We have all been either perpetrators or victims of phubbing. And let’s be honest; it’s only going to get worse. STORY FARZEEN ASHIK
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knew I needed a reality check when both my teenager and my three-year-old told me to get off the phone and pay attention to them in two separate instances last week. And mind you, I wasn’t checking my Facebook or Instagram but I was answering emails and Whatsapp messages from work. When my teen walked off with a disgusted look on her face I knew I had to shake myself out of the addiction and be more mindful of my children. Get the phone out of the way: You’re home after work or coffee with your friends and it’s time to spend a few quality moments with your kids. The first thing to do would be to keep your phone away, preferably in a different room so they can have your undivided attention. We know very well that once we hear that tell-tale ping we can’t help ourselves, we just have to pick up the damn thing and check it out. A set of studies showed that just having a phone out and present during a conversation (say, on the table between you) interferes with your sense of connection to the other person, the feelings of closeness experienced, and the quality of the conversation. I don’t think I need to say more. Excuse yourself: If you get a phone call or have to respond urgently to a message while you are engaged with your children then at least have the decency to excuse yourself. Apologise and let them know you need a few moments to handle the problem and that you will be back with them shortly. They aren’t going to be too pleased but at least they won’t feel ignored or snubbed. Brain imaging has shown that being ignored registers as a physical pain. People snubbed in favour of technology in turn become more likely to attach themselves to their phones in unhealthy ways, thereby increasing their own feelings of stress and depression. Break the vicious cycle: Studies have shown that the use of mobile phones is like an addiction for our brain. We get addicted and then we are caught up in this vicious cycle which we cannot seem to break. “It is ironic that cellphones, originally designed as a communication tool, may actually hinder rather than foster interpersonal connectedness,” write David and Roberts in their study Phubbed and Alone.
A ‘phubbed’ individual turns to social media and their compulsive behaviour presumably leads them to phub others — perpetuating and normalising the practice and problem of “phubbing.” You see what I’m talking about? Kids model our behaviour: Let’s not forget that our kids see us as role models. The more we sit hunched over our phone oblivious to the real people around us, the less connected we are going to be with them. Also, is this the kind of communication we want to show our kids? Healthy communication needs to be face-to-face, with proper eye contact; we need to study the person’s facial expressions and body language too. You don’t get all that from texting. And if this continues you are going to be raising socially awkward kids. Be present: Tapping on your phone while your daughter is trying to tell you how many units of Biology she has revised does not send out the right message. After a while she’s just going to stop telling you what’s happening in her life. It’s hard to be present mentally if your phone is constantly distracting you. Also, it creates distance in your relationships. Be engaged when your little one is belting out the latest rendition of her made-up songs (with madeup words, mind you!). Enjoy the attention your kids shower on you. You don’t need fake online connections to long-lost friends or new ones when you have the people who really matter in your life giving you all the love you need. Don’t lose control: Don’t let technology rule your life. They are meant to facilitate a better life not make your existing one dysfunctional. Constant use of smartphones sends out a message of avoidance to your kids. You are ignoring what is right in front of you for something else that is remote and perhaps not even as relevant. It diminishes the value of the quality time you spend with your family. Pay attention to what they have to share. Research by Barbara Fredrickson, beautifully described in her book Love 2.0, suggests that intimacy happens in micro-moments. Another study by Killingsworth and Gilbert showed that a wandering mind is an unhappy one. Being present and mindful will not only make us happier but our kids too.
Farzeen Ashik is the author of the prizewinning novel ‘Rainbow Dorm Diaries–The Yellow Dorm’.
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Times of Oman’s radio station T FM 95.4 gave away its second Mitsubishi Pajero as part of its Ramadan campaign: Spread More Smiles. — Photos by Shabin E.
Muscat Gujarati Samaj, the Gujarati Wing of Indian Social Club, recently organised a Hasya Darbar event (laughter ensemble) for all its members.
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HAVE YOU EVER thought of diving seven continents of the Earth is truly a sight headfirst into the vast depths of the ocean to behold, and in a clever, subtle manner. of this brilliant green-blue planet we live Life is central to the world of Abzû, whether in, and taking in the wondrous sights and it is the mighty Great Barrier Reef of Aussounds of the amazing underwater world tralia, the migratory paths followed by hunthat few on this Earth have had the pleasdreds of thousands of turtles, or the brilliant ure of experiencing? underwater plants that most of us have only Wherever you live in this world, the vast seen in picture books and YouTube videos. wonders of the oceans, which teem with Players who immerse themselves into life, are a testament to the the game take on the role wondrous work of nature, of a female diver, who THE SHORT AND SKINNY which go beyond the comfinds herself in the ocean prehension of many of us. If under unknown circumName: Abzû you do live in Oman, though, stances. Rising quickly to Genre: Adventure/Fantasy it is — at the time of writing the surface, she realises she Produced by: Giant Squid Studios — a bit too hot to go snorkelhas the power to heal the What it’s about: Dive into the ling in the Dimaniyat and oceans around her, which breathtaking underwater world of Masirah islands, or make have slowly been drained Earth’s oceans, and explore what the journey to Musandam, of energy by a mysterious makes it the cradle of life on this which is known for having force. With the help of a planet, making a difference to life as some of the best dive spots spirit guide, which operates we know it along the way. in the Middle East. under the guise of a great Where to buy: Origin, Microsoft Until the weather cools, white shark, the diver realStore, Xbox Marketplace, though, you might want ises that similar forces have PlayStation Store, Steam, Humble to check out the stunning, been draining seas around Bundle, Amazon, Abzû website gloriously beautiful underthe world for decades, and Platforms: PlayStation 4, Microsoft water world of Abzû. destroying them is key to Windows, Xbox One The action adventure restoring the life force of the IGN Rating: 8.4/10 game, developed by Giant ocean. Squid Studios (how apt), alIn many ways, Abzû – a lows you to explore the vast game that is heavy on wonders of the oceans of our planet, and symbolism — shows humanity what must is available to play on PlayStation 4, Xbox be done to bring balance back to our dying One and PC. oceans. While it may seem a tad simplistic Drawing inspiration from the ancient to some, the aim of the game is to inculcate Sumerian word Abzû, the name given to a sense of responsibility and awareness what the Sumerians believed the ocean about just what our oceans represent — truly was – a body capable of providing not they are the cradle of life on this planet, just life, but wisdom, to the world, a belief and need to be treated as such. that was the core of their ‘cosmic ocean’ Abzû has received great praise for its philosophy, that the ocean is the primary impeccable artwork, which also retains a source of all life on this planet. Middle Eastern influence — another hat A truer sentiment has rarely been found tip to the Sumerian and Akkadian philososince then. phies that have made this game a reality — If you’re looking for dialogue and plenty and is you dive into this whirlwind journey of noise, you’re likely to be disappointed, of mythology, hope and wonder, do stop to because that’s not the point of the game: admire and appreciate the efforts put into Abzû’s stunningly rendered art of the glorithis game. It’s what Abzû is all about. ous underwater world that surround the Just don’t forget to breathe.
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VOLUME 11 ISSUE 25 J U N E 7, 2 0 1 8
BANK MUSCAT ANNOUNCES 2018 GREEN SPORTS BENEFICIARIES
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ank Muscat, the flagship financial services provider in the Sultanate, in step with its vision, ‘To serve you better, everyday’ and commitment to partnership in supporting youth and promoting Oman as a sporting nation, made major headway of its Green Sports initiative with the announcement of 15 new beneficiary sports teams for the programme in 2018. Sheikh Salim Al Wahaibi, President of Oman Football Association, presided at a ceremony hosted by the bank at the head office to felicitate the new Green Sports beneficiaries, in the presence of Abdul Razak Ali Issa, Chief Executive, Management Team members and key representatives of the winning sports teams. Whipping up excitement in a novel gesture, the Green Sports committee made the preliminary announcement of the 15 winners in an interactive radio broadcast on Al Wisal channel. Making significant contributions to sustainable development, the unique Green Sports CSR initiative aimed at promoting Oman as a sporting nation by greening and developing football fields has benefited a total of 93 sports teams across the country to date in the past seven years. The 2018 Green Sports beneficiaries are Emti Team (Izki), Wadi Saifam Team (Bahla), Al Ghanimia Team (Jaalan Bani Bu Hasan), Al Hilal Team (Rustaq), Tawi Mansoor Team (Fanja), Al Nassr Team (Samayil), Al Najd Team (Samayil), Al Saham Team (Izki), Al Zamalik Team (Bidiyah), Al Qadisiyah Team (Shinas), Abu Abali Team (Musannah), Al Ahli team (Rustaq), Al Madriyat Team (Wadi Al Maawil), Al Qarha Team (Barka),
Shabab Al Wafi (Al Kamil W’al Wafi). Sheikh Salim Al Wahaibi congratulated Bank Muscat for the success achieved by the Green Sports initiative. Sheikh Salim Al Wahaibi said: “The initiative benefiting communities, especially youth, contributes to sustainable development, thereby ensuring all-round progress in Oman. The availability of modern sporting infrastructure across the Sultanate is a boon for the game of football. The gesture by Bank Muscat is a motivation for corporates to join hands with the government to promote Oman as a sporting nation.” The 2018 Green Sports programme evoked big response as 81 sports teams applied seeking support for greening and infrastructure development of football fields. The selection of beneficiaries followed extensive field visits by the committee which reviewed and short-listed eligible sports teams meeting the criteria for greening and infrastructure development of football fields across the Sultanate. Abdul Razak, said: “Bank Muscat is
proud to see the Green Sports initiative making a significant impact on sustainable development across the Sultanate. During the past seven years, the programme has swept across the entire nation, reinforcing the bank’s leadership role in social responsibility and facilitating partnership between the government and the private sector for sustainable development and progress of Oman. We wish all the beneficiary teams success in contributing to sporting excellence in Oman.” The scope of Green Sports support for sports teams include greening of football fields with natural or synthetic turf, floodlights or water desalination equipment in areas facing problems of water salinity. Ensuring wider representation, the Green Sports support is extended to develop sustainable sports infrastructure in all parts of the Sultanate. Abdullah Tamman Al Mashani, DGM – Institutional Sales and Product Development, in the welcome address noted that the consistent progress of the Green
Sports initiative reaffirmed the bank’s commitment to the programme aimed at providing support for young Omanis to develop their sporting talents in an ideal environment. Bank Muscat is committed to supporting all deserving sports teams to green their fields and the programme is expected to go a long way in developing the sporting skills and talents of Omani youth, thereby promoting the game of football in Oman, he added. The criteria for availing the Green Sports support include that sports teams should have been in existence for three years with a minimum of 300 members from the local community. The bank recognises that local teams wield immense influence on neighbourhood communities, especially youth, hence teams with modern infrastructure facilities can help raise sporting heroes for the country. The Green Sports initiative has created an ideal platform for social engagement among youth. The football fields developed as part of the Green Sports initiative serve as a meeting place for children and youth to engage in social activities leading to development of strong community bonding. The fields are used for hosting various activities such as Ramadan nights, group weddings, and other community celebrations. Bank Muscat is proud to have led the way in contributing to sustainable development in Oman with various initiatives. As the nation’s leading financial institution, Bank Muscat aims to provide the momentum for youth to excel in all arenas and thereby contribute to the development and progress of Oman.