Liquor and life lessons, served neat THE TENDER BAR
Michael O’Sullivan I The Washington Post Trailer youtu.be/5-DS9vtLeEs The title of George Clooney’s warm and fuzzy film adaptation of J.R. Moehringer’s best-selling 2005 memoir involves a bit of clever wordplay. First, The Tender Bar is an affectionate allusion to the place where much of the film’s action takes place, if action is the right word for a story that’s mostly about words and feelings: a tavern in working class Manhasset, Long Island, named the Dickens, after the English writer. But it’s also an inversion of “bartender,” which is only one thing you might call the character of Moehringer’s Uncle Charlie, played by Ben Affleck, a bookish autodidact and dispenser of both shots (to the bar’s friendly regulars) and avuncular wisdom — which he calls the “male sciences” — to his nephew, played by Daniel Ranieri at age 11 and Tye Sheridan as a young adult. Tender also is an apt description for the gently heartwarming tone of this appealingly low-key, faded Kodachrome coming-of-age story, capably directed by Clooney from a screenplay by William Monahan (The Departed). The film opens in 1973 with the relocation of Ranieri’s J.R and his mother (Lily Rabe) to the crowded and noisy house in which she grew up after being abandoned by the boy’s father (Max Martini) — a deadbeat drunk and radio D.J. known as the Voice — who gave his real name to J.R. but little else. When Mom apologizes to J.R. for their boisterous new living conditions — a houseful of aunts, uncles, and cousins all living under the grudging wing of J.R.’s crotchety, flatulent grandfather (Christopher Lloyd) — the kid reports that he doesn’t mind. “I like it,” he says. “It’s people. I like to have people.” It’s J.R.’s story, but the figure who looms largest is Charlie, a surrogate father and all-around mensch for a boy who has no other male role model. So what happens in a tale that spans a decade or so, from J.R.’s earliest discovery of literature (courtesy of Charlie and a closet whose sagging shelves are filled with books) to J.R’s college years at Yale and a first job in journalism? Oh, there’s a first love (played by Briana Middleton); a broken heart; a health scare when Mom develops a tumor; and some drinking that briefly threatens to become a problem for its young protagonist. (This is, perhaps, to be expected in a movie that is largely set in a bar.) But for the most part, life’s darker shadows are kept comfortably at bay, including J.R.’s daddy issues with his actual albeit absentee father. There is one scene, late in the film, in which J.R. delivers some comeuppance, telling his old man — aptly, given his father’s radio nickname — “Shut the [expletive] up!” Clooney and Monahan employ a form of understated storytelling: The film sneaks up on you, like a sweet cocktail in which you can’t taste the alcohol, delivering a powerful yet unexpected punch. A big ingredient is Affleck, whose performance strikes just the right notes of practical advice and deep affection. At times, Charlie’s role in the story feels a bit literary, for lack of a better word: contrived and on-the-nose. And yet the film acknowledges this: “Maybe this is the point where you tell me something really important,” J.R. says to Charlie — at a moment in the narrative when one would expect such a message. (“Lighten up on your drinking,” Charlie says, a bit anticlimactically.) If The Tender Bar is about anything, it’s familial love, not life lessons. If it feels smart, and it does, it’s a kind of emotional intelligence. Love — of people, of storytelling, of being alive — is its slyly intoxicating theme. ◀
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