Age Ain’t Nothing But a Number

By Kieaundria Bellamy Editor

When you’re new to a school, there are tons of emotions and questions. Will I be late to class? Will I like my teachers? Will I make friends? Trust me, the anxiety of starting a new journey with school is through the roof. But, always remember you’re not the only one feeling this way. College shows you that everyone is truly on their own journey. My message today for you is to take your time, do not rush, you are on YOUR specific journey.

During my experience in college, I unfortunately got caught up in age. You know, in our generation, you’re supposed to have “everything set” by the age of 25. The degree, the career, the house, the list goes on. As a 24-yearold woman still on her college journey, there are times I will catch myself discouraged because I did not reach the “perfect” lifestyle my peers, and more importantly, social media told me to have. Believe me when I say, here at Housatonic Community College, that mindset will clear its way as soon as you enter the hallways. Here, you are surrounded by people of all ages, all different walks of life, and all different goals. Hey, there may be a point in time where your biology partner is a 30+ year old woman just getting started in her schooling.

Housatonic truly embodies a judgment-free zone. There are teachers, students, and staff members who will encourage you to not rush the process. There are peers who will explain to you that they’re parents striving to get their degrees to better their lives, as well as their children’s. There are teachers who will push you for greater things, and inform you that everything will be okay. So, take a moment and reflect while you’re scrolling through social media. The media will tell us that we’re behind when in all actuality, we’re just getting started. Do not rush. Your journey is specifically for you, and everything works in its divine timing. Best of luck, and, trust me, there’s time!