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Volume 96. No 4

December 2019

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Volume 96. No 4

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Beit David 17

Wotsup Wizo 18

Young Israel Centre

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Durban Holocaust and Genocide Centre

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Masada 21

KwaZulu Natal Zionist Council

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SAJBD

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Durban United Hebrew Congreation

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Social and Personal

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Diary of Events

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EDITORIAL

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Five Fingers

HAYLEY LIEBERTHAL

So here we are in the final stretch of the secular year. For many of us, we are feeling exhausted and drained and leave could not come sooner. I think it’s fair to say that we are like that little bit of oil that miraculously lasted eight days.

Every day we stretch ourselves with all the things that we do. We play beat the clock and try and get tasks done sooner in order to Divote 25 fit another one in. I am personally guilty of this, but when I stop Talmud Torah 26 to think I cannot help but be reminded of what Einstein once UJC 27 said: “Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance you must keep moving.” For many of us this is exactly what we do and for Durban Jewish Social Services 28 some the pace is more in line with a spinning class. But are we Cooking with Judy and Linda 30 applying our energy in all the right places?

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Hashalom Editorial Board: Editor: Hayley Lieberthal Sub Editors: Colin Plen, Cookie Isaacs, Maureen Caminsky Editorial Board: Hayley Lieberthal, Michelle Campbell Lauren Shapiro, Mikki Norton Production Manager: Jacqui Herbst Notice to Organisations/Contributors: All material to be submitted by email to hashalom@djc.co.za DEADLINE FOR THE FEBRUARY EDTION: 9 January Get in touch with the editor: editor@djc.co.za

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A few days ago I was sipping coffee with a good friend. As part of our discussion about helping others, she asked: “Do you know about the 70/30 split?” I didn’t and so she explained that we need to give 70% to the people in our macro environment. Holding up her hand she pointed to her five fingers and said: “you and your direct family are these four fingers. Add one more person, be it a close friend or perhaps your mother, sister, etc. Now you make sure these five people have 70% of your time, energy and resources. Bear in mind that you cannot neglect yourself and only then - should there be energy left over - can you tap into that 30% for anyone outside of these five fingers.” As she spoke a mental image of a stop sign appeared in my mind. What? Wait? How can I give so little to people in need? My head was swirling with more questions... what if we all did this, what kind of a world would we live in? As I put my coffee mug down a proverbial light appeared. I knew the importance of selfcare and how we cannot pour from an empty vessel, or how we must put our own oxygen masks on an airplane before assisting others. If we help others, but give less than the 100% of that 30% we are only robbing them of the message, guidance or help from which they can truly benefit. That drop of oil may have been enough for one night, yet it only focused on one goal - it gave its full attention so that others could learn the importance of miracles. Chag Chanukah Sameach - Let’s be the light that inspires others.

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Glenmore’s Minyan: The Perfect Ten After 43 years The Glenmore Minyan closes its doors but never its heart to the members who became part of an extended family. BY HAYLEY LIEBERTHAL

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he Glenmore Minyan began in early 1977 when a community came together to assist a fellow member. Pam Gelbart and family were becoming Shomrei Shabbos, however the distance from her home to the Silverton Road Shul was quite substantial to walk on a Friday evening. It was decided that a Minyan would take place every Friday night at Hershelle Gelbart’s home and so it came to be that the Glenmore Minyan was formed. Unbeknown to the members of the Durban Jewish community who came forward and ensured that a minyan would take place every Friday night, the Glenmore Minyan would come to change the lives of many of its members who were touched by the ‘community within a community’. “If someone wasn’t able to attend – for whatever reason - they would send a friend on their behalf. However, the following Shabbat the original member returned and so did the friend. This happened often until one day we had about 70 members.” John Patlansky, three times Gabba said.

Soon enough the Glenmore Minyan expanded to a close-knit extended family who got together on Sundays, held poker evenings, and as a collective donated to various charities. With growing membership and a sense of belonging, the minyan was moved to the Gelbart’s newly refurbished garage. By this time older kids of the members held children’s services for the younger kids, droshas were given by esteemed members such as Issy Fisher and Friday night live which was started by the Glenmore Minyan, was in full swing across the country. All good things come to an end… Although the Minyan had created friendships and a tighter community the numbers began to decline with time. “In those days Carmel College and the varsity were in the vicinity so it was a big Jewish area. Over time Carmel became Crawford which then became Eden and some of our elderly members either passed away or relocated as well as some of the younger members who left the area. This placed us at a stage where we didn’t have the volume,” Patlansky continued. He further explained that the minyan had run its course with the final service being held on 29 November 2019. “Glenmore, which was home to the core of the Hebrew school Carmel College families, as well as other Glenmore residents in the 70’s – meant most of our members lived close by our home. It was a place where we were all proud to bring visitors and family from out of town or overseas to attend and be welcomed personally by the reigning Gabba of that particular year. It was a well-run minyan and I am proud to have had the opportunity to host the minyan for the first 15 special years in our home in Philamere Avenue, as well as teaching the members’ kids their bar mitzvahs which was always a pleasure,” said Hershelle Gelbart founding member.

“I will never forget this part of our lives forever and still contend that they were ‘the best years of our lives’.” Hershelle Gelbart

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THROUGH YOUR EYES

An Epic Journey of Sisterly Love BY HAYLEY LIEBERTHAL

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dele Samuelson, became the oldest passenger at 105 years old to have flown on El Al she embarked on a visit to Durban to see her 97 year old sister, Barbara Lipschitz.

Adele and Barbara last saw each other in March 2018 but as Barbara explains simply upon the reason for this trip: “It was time to see each other,” Barbara continued to say, “I can’t tell you what it means to me that she can come - the excitement is indescribable, having my sister here is beyond incredible, I was so excited that I was counting down the hours until their arrival.” Adele has all her faculties yet does need some assistance and so her daughter Ilana Gorfil, accompanied her. Adele and Ilana were treated as VIP passengers on El Al airlines. “We were upgraded to business class and as we boarded the plane the pilot came out to personally greet my mom and introduce himself. He asked if there was anything she needed and to let him know as he would look after her,” Ilana said. Although Adele and Barbara speak often on the phone it was their reunion at King Shaka International airport that pulled at the family and friends hearts. “It was a very emotional and heart-warming moment watching my mom and aunt greeting each,” Ilana Gorfil said. “Seeing my sister is amazing, it’s fantastic and it is more than anything I could wish for,” Adele added.

Adele and Barbara’s Emotional reunion at King Shaka International Airport

Adele, who is full of life and laughter recently celebrated her 105th birthday this past Rosh Hashana in Michmoret, Israel, with her large family which includes over 60 great-grandchildren and one great-great grandchild. The 10-day trip was filled with numerous plans which included family flying in from various provinces to catch up and spend some quality time together with their aunts and cousins. “We have had a wonderful and incredible time. I have loved every minute of their visit, especially my sister waking up in the mornings and singing good morning to us all,” Barbara said.

Barbara and Adele

Adele upgraded to First Class on her El Al flight back to Israel

Loving sisters Adele and Barbara

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CURRENT AFFAIRS

Still picking up the pieces with help from Durban Jewry BY JACQUELINE HERBST

A digital image of the second most deadly cyclone in recorded history shredding through parts of Southern Africa

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t has been nine months since Cyclone Idai ripped through Southern Africa in March this year and although we have moved on with our lives, Mozambique, Malawi and Zimbabwe are still picking up the pieces. Chronicled as the second most deadly tropical storm in recorded history (after Flores in 1973 that killed 1 650 people in Indonesia), Idai claimed the lives of 1 300 people and left three million people without food, water, shelter and critical infrastructure before spawning 400 confirmed cases of cholera in its wake. UNICEF reported in mid-October that in Mozambique alone 2.5 million people (of which 1.1 million are children) are still in need. People simply cannot afford to fix their own homes and so reportedly more than 500 000 people still live in destroyed or damaged houses. An additional 92 000 people are still displaced in 74 resettlement areas, with 67 500 children requiring treatment for acute malnutrition and 827 confirmed cases of pellagra in Sofala province. Pellagra is a deficiency disease caused by a lack of nicotinic acid or its precursor tryptophan in the diet. It is characterized by dermatitis, diarrhoea, and mental disturbance and is often linked to over-dependence on maize as a staple food. Conflict in Northern Mozambique – specifically Cabo Delgado province (Hashalom November 2019, ISIS claims more Mozambique attacks) – continues to delay humanitarian activities and delivery of supplies. Besides destroying 500 000 hectares of crops and crippling 60% of Mozambique’s farmers, Idai cut 20% of Mozambique’s formal business off at the knees and the country is still short of a staggering US$3.2 billion – that it is unable generate itself – to rebuild. As crops that weren’t washed away rotted from the weeks of extreme sun that followed excessive water, food security dwindled. Central Mozambique, particularly Sofala and Manica

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provinces, used to be the country’s bread basket and although quick-growing seeds were sent to farmers, a non-existent road infrastructure continues to slow aid. Fishermen were not spared as seawater mixed with masses of river water, leading to reduced salinity which is believed to have kept fish further offshore and fishermen’s nets, pockets and bellies empty. Adding to nature’s cruelty, the wheels of bureaucracy turn slowly. Building plans for housing are still in the process of being assessed to establish resiliency before construction commences. When the news broke the world responded with donations and rescue efforts and a short-lived 24/7 media frenzy ensued. People watched with baited breath as footage of people trapped in trees and on rooftops emerged from the largely inaccessible disaster zone. With Cyclone Idai being an unusually aggressive and prolonged storm (believed to be a symptom of climate change), the death toll steadily rose hand-in-hand with the flood waters that inevitably converged to form an unprecedented inland ocean where people remained marooned as rescue workers struggled for days to reach them. But as the water receded and the media lost interest, so did most of the world. Not so the Jewish community of Durban. The SAJBD KZN Council promptly initiated a flood relief campaign, which was well supported as the community opened their hands and hearts to those affected. The campaign target Mozambique, which was hit by Cyclone Kenneth six weeks after Idai. Cyclone Idai, followed by Kenneth, wiped out rural roads and bridges, irrigation systems, electricity infrastructure, thousands of homes, water and sanitation systems, schools, healthcare facilities and people’s livelihoods, exposing Africa’s vulnerability to climate change and its natural disaster risks. According to the United Nations International Strategy for Disaster Reduction, disaster-

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CURRENT AFFAIRS hit countries from 1998 to 2017 reported direct economic losses of US$2.9 trillion, of which climate-related disasters accounted for US$2.2 trillion. Even though Africa contributes the least to global warming, it is one of the most vulnerable regions to natural disasters and the impacts of climate change. Africa’s vulnerability is compounded by existing patterns of exclusion and inequality and it is therefore paramount to prioritise securing people’s economic and social rights as part of the rebuilding process. Mozambique should not just be rebuilt but be improved.

Groups of people were stuck in trees and on rooftops with the water level being window-height

The image on the left shows the extent of electric lighting across Beira, Mozambique on March 9, 2019, a typical night before the storm hit; the image on the right shows light on March 24, 2019 – three days after Idai had passed. Nearly all electricity and internet went out, except near the airport where relief organizations had set up a server

An Oryx helicopter from the South African National Defence Force flies a relief airdrop mission over the flooded area around Beira, Mozambique on March 20. International aid agencies raced to rescue survivors and meet spiralling humanitarian needs in three countries battered by Cyclone Idai. (Maryke Vermaak/AFP/Getty Images)

Addressing what they believe is a climate change-driven crisis, the African Development Bank Group (ADBG) believes that increasing the average household income, improving agricultural productivity and resilience, while establishing sustainable socio-economic infrastructure will better equip Mozambique (and other vulnerable African countries) to deal with future extreme weather phenomena. Central to the ADBG’s recovery and resilience programme for Mozambique, Malawi and Zimbabwe is climate-smart agriculture and climate-proof infrastructure. While central Mozambique now has more large-scale farms than ever before, smallholder farming remains the dominant agricultural system. Mobile smallscale irrigation will enable smallholder farmers to move upland when floods hit, while climate resilient inputs (substances used for pest control or soil fertility management like lime, mineral calcium and compost) will be more able to withstand extreme weather. Restoring rural roads and bridges while at the same time upgrading drainage systems will improve market access, as well as restore and generate increased agricultural productivity. It will also minimise flooding of homes and businesses, which will go a long way to eliminating water-borne diseases.

Nine months on, people still depend on humanitarian aid (International Organisation for Migration)

A bakkie-load of supplies collected by the SAJBD KZN Council for flood relief in Mozambique

Dredging and erosion control such as planting vegetation to stabilise embankments reduces mudslides in times of flooding and saves not only crops but also homes and human lives. Finally, efficient water, sanitation and electricity infrastructure is necessary to enable appropriate engineering standards and building norms to not only rebuild but improve Mozambique. Months after the disaster, the Durban Jewish community’s generosity continued when the Victor Daitz Foundation donated R100 000 to Gift of the Givers for flood relief in November.

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ABOVE BOARD

Above Board

Mary Kluk, National Chairman

A column of the SA Jewish Board of Deputies

Enthusiastic response to SAJBD National Conference

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The national conference of the SAJBD, the fiftieth to be convened since the Transvaal and Cape Boards of Deputies amalgamated to form a national body in 1912, took place on 10 November as was a resounding success. The main part of the conference took the form of a panel debate focusing on such critical issues as the economy, education, social upliftment and human rights. I spoke on current trends in antisemitism in both a local and international context, with reference to my involvement as chair of the security portfolio on the executive of the World Jewish Congress. My distinguished fellow panellists were business leader and academic Dr Reuel Khoza, entrepreneur Robbie Brozin, Wits Vice-Chancellor Adam Habib and Judge David Unterhalter. The lively and engaging debated was expertly moderated by acclaimed journalist and author Mandy Wiener.

This year there were three recipients of the Eric Samson Mendel Kaplan Communal Service Award, Marlene Bethlehem and Cape Town’s Merle Reuben, who between them have rendered over a century of outstanding service in a lay capacity to the community and Shirley Resnick, a long-serving member of the professional staff of the Johannesburg Chevra Kadisha who truly epitomizes the ethos of selfless caring and compassion that have always distinguished that wonderful institution. In addition, a special tribute was paid to the many outstanding lawyers who have served the SAJBD throughout its history, with specific reference made to four towering figures who passed away in the course of the present century, Ivan Levy and Harry Schwarz from Johannesburg and Mervyn Smith and Solly Kessler from Cape Town.

National conference is also an occasion when we publicly honour members of our community who have made a particularly noteworthy contribution, whether to South Africa as a whole or to the Jewish community specifically. This year, the Rabbi Cyril and Ann Harris Human Rights Award, which recognises those who have advanced the cause of democracy and social justice, was presented in memory of Johnny Clegg, an iconic figure whose path-blazing music did so much to bring South Africans together during the tumultuous final years of apartheid and who sadly passed away earlier this year shortly after the decision made by the Board to honour him.

At the conclusion of the conference, I was honoured to be elected to serve a second term as SAJBD President. At the meeting of the National Executive Committee held immediately afterwards, the current executive, comprising Chairman Shaun Zagnoev, Vice-Chairs Jeremy Droyman (Durban), Prof Karen Milner (Johannesburg), Marc Pozniak and Rael Kaimowitz, VicePresident Zev Krengel and Treasurer David Kuming were likewise re-appointed to serve another two-year term. Congratulations to them, as well as to our superb professional staff team who once again pulled out all the stops to make this a truly memorable occasion.

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Mouths of babes: the sequel Lauren Shapiro On the strength of the positive feedback for my recent piece about children’s pearls of wisdom, and to end off the year smiling, I revisited my scrapbox (as opposed to scrapbook – see last month’s column) and dug out a few festive gems: PURIM Herewith some extracts from Megillat Esther, NIV translation (that’s the New Infantile Version!): Aviva (aged 4): Esther was a good queen. Then she got angry and grew a tail. So Achashverosh killed her. Shai (aged 5): “Queen Vashti had chickenpox and had to go to the party naked. Then she was taken away to jail by the polices. And she died.” PESACH More NIV translation, this time recounting the incident when Moses cast his staff before Pharaoh: Aviva (aged 2): “That Moses. He hit Pharaoh with the broom.” Ari (aged around three) and his Aunty P were perusing an illustrative graphic of the customary four cups of wine. It seems Mr Smarty Pants had a sense of humour. Ari: What’s in this one? Aunty P: Wine. Ari: And what’s in this one? Aunty P: Wine. Ari: And in this one? Aunty P: Wine. Ari: And this one? Aunty P: Wine. Ari: No it’s nothing. It’s paper, silly! Branding When he was four, Ari decided that he was going to “ask Hashem to cancel Pesach” because the kosher le’Pesach ketchup was a different brand to the one he liked. History How differently history might have turned out if my kid had been Pharaoh. The whole balagan would have been much quicker and tidier without all the plagues and stuff. For testimony I offer the following conversation, scribbled down after I intervened in his reenactment of the Pesach story: Ari: I will not let your people go! Me: And what if I tickle you? Ari: I WILL let your people go! Geography We were recounting the Pesach story. Wa: And then Hashem set the Children of Israel free from Egypt. Ari: And now we’re the Children of Durban! Politics Never try to make a political point to a five-year-old. The true message of Pesach doesn’t necessarily penetrate their little brains. At least not before breakfast. Ari: Daddy, please make me breakfast. Wa: Nah. Ari: Why not? Wa: Because I’m free. Ari: No you’re not! You’re 39! Scapegoat One April-time the school playground was left in a bit of a mess, so the principal called all the children together for a talking-to. After explaining the virtues of responsibility, respect for property, and honesty, I don’t think she

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expected this reaction from (of course, it had to be) my kid: Principal: Now I’d like to know who did this to the playground. Shai: It was Pharaoh! Prophet or thief? Shai stole some cheese off Ari’s plate. Wa: Who stole Ari’s cheese? Shai: Eliyahu haNa-cheese! SHAVUOT Hallel Sitting quietly during the praise service, four-year-old Ari looks like he is simply playing with his toy car. But it’s all going in… Ari: What did they just say? Wa: Hallelujah. Ari: Is that like Hello Kitty? Manners My mom is very big on two things: manners and idioms. These she clearly imparts to her grandchildren. One Shavuot when Ari was about six, he sat next to his dad in “big shul” during the Torah service, waiting for the Ten Commandments to be read. He was generally very good and quiet, but when the Gabbai called the Third Aliyah (“Hashlisheeeee”), Ari piped up to the whole congregation: “Who’s ‘she’? The cat’s grandmother?” CHANUKAH The guilt sets in early This one is worth its weight in gelt: Shai: You know Daddy, we get guilt as a special treat because we’re Jewish! Wa: Huh? Shai: Guilt. Wa: What?? Shai: You know, Channukah guilt! IT’S A SIMCHA! This one is a bit sly and a bit literarily crude, but I had to give the kid ten points for creativity and perseverance! Ari: When is [our friend]’s bar mitzvah? Dad: Her bat mitzvah is next weekend. Ari: So that’s when she’s having her bar mitzvah? Dad: Bat mitzvah Ari: Bar mitzvah? Dad: No, BAT mitzvah Ari: Oh, bar mitzvah? Dad: BAT! Ari: Haha! You said “butt”! GUT SHABBOS We were driving along in the car, with East Coast Radio playing in background... Ari: This song is about Hashem. Me: Really? Suddenly curious, I tuned my ears in, and managed to catch snippets about stripping, skinny dipping, and a ménage à trois. Me: Ari, what did you say this song is about?? Ari: Hashem. Me: Um... why do you say that, Darling? Ari: It’s Friday Night! True enough, it was Katy Perry’s ode to her drunken sexual escapades, “Friday night”. I suppose sooner or later Ari’s going to learn that some people do things a little differently! I hope you all have a fabulous Friday Night – however you’re going to be spending it! Shabbat shalom, chag sameach, and be safe, until next time.

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Art smart When art runs in the family BY LAUREN SHAPIRO

“James Oliver Hall was an extraordinary and versatile artist who has left an incredible legacy for everyone to appreciate.”

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ave you ever wondered who created the beautiful glazed ceramic mural of a section of Psalm 23 and the memorial to the six million victims of the Holocaust at the Ohel (prayer hall) at Redhill Cemetery? The answer is Durban’s own James Oliver Hall. James (Jim to his family and friends) was born in New Zealand, where his grandparents were early Jewish settlers from Hungary and Poland. After serving in the army during World War II, James was awarded an ex-service bursary at the Slade School of Fine Arts at London University, taking sculpture and architecture, and he simultaneously studied ceramics at Camberwell School of Art, also in London. At Slade, James met his future wife Pearl (nee Bloomstein), whose sister was also a student there. James taught at Camberwell, and later at the Harrow Technical College and School of Art, where he became head of department. He was later on offered a post in Durban to head and lecture in the Department of Ceramics and Sculpture at Durban Technical College’s Art School (now DUT). Here he and Pearl raised their family while James produced prolific work both for private commissions and public works that form part of the urban landscape of Durban.

Public works

“As we round a street corner or visit a friend’s house, we are reminded of the enormous talent that our Dad was gifted with,” says James’ daughter Deborah Hall-Chadrou. Readers may recognise many of James’ public works like the decorative walls at the Blue Waters Hotel, the school crests of DHS, Chelsea, and Northlands, and many other concrete friezes, ceramic murals, decorative tiles and works in stained glass

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and vitreous enamel. He also sculpted portrait heads of many prominent people, including a bronze head of Nelson Mandela for the UKZN Medical School. “Being made of noble materials, they are bound to endure and resist natural elements,” Deborah notes. James also exhibited, supplied galleries and sold to private collectors around the world.

A family affair

Art runs in the family: Pearl was a fashion designer and milliner, their elder daughter Sara is a graphic designer and former head of medical illustration at the Nelson Mandela School of Medicine UKZN, Deborah headed the interior design department at DUT before opening her own practice, and grandson Joshua is currently studying graphic design at Vega University. “Growing up we were surrounded by artwork,” reminisces Deborah. “Our parents’ circle of friends consisted predominantly of artists and architects, so we were immersed in that creative world. We attended art classes from an early age and our parents never discouraged any form of creative expression.”

Proud Jew

As a long-standing member of the Durban Progressive Jewish Congregation, James was honoured to be asked to produce the murals for the Ohel at Redhill cemetery, featuring Psalm 23 and a memorial to Holocaust victims. “We are particularly proud of his installations at Redhill, as they stand in a most solemn and revered space, and will be gazed upon by generations of families,” concludes Deborah.

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Union of Jewish Women

SING-ALONG WITH PAULA & TAMMY Everyone at Jewel House was in good voice and enjoyed the fun sing-along using the “song books”, drums and “rattles” supplied for audience participation. Guests included Union members and Paula’s family from the UK all of whom appreciated the treats supplied for tea.

BY POPULAR DEMAND ROD SMITH WILL BE BACK. WATCH THIS SPACE! DECEMBER 2019

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ver the year our residents have really enjoyed the Jewish festivals at Beth Shalom. During Sukkot we fortunately had some good weather so a number of our residents could enjoy having their meals in the sukkah. Here are Michelle Hummel, visitor Crissy, Joan Truscott, Gerselle Epstein, Frank Schneider, Dr Elaine Goldberg and Charlie Hotz.

Shlomo treated some of our residents to a wonderful Braai in Umhlanga. Sidney Lazarus and Mike Caminsky also attended and they too had a wonderful time. As a bonus, we received a new recipe for a Parev ice cream which everyone gave the thumbs up so we are going to make it at the Home and we hope it is as nice as what the residents thoroughly enjoyed. We would like to welcome new residents - Michelle Hummel, Sam Hirschowitz, Cyril Kibur and Pam Goldkorn to the Beth Shalom Family. I would like to thank all the staff of Beth Shalom for their dedication and loyal service which is appreciated by The Committee, Residents and the community. A special expression of gratitude to our donors who continue to support our beautiful home known as Abode of Peace. On behalf of our President, Sidney Lazarus and Committee members, Beth Shalom would like to wish the community Happy Chanukah.

Shlomo with Rod and Shirley Palte celebrating Luluv and etrog in Chabbad sukkah

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BY NORMA BLOCH

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Shalom, Our final celebration before the start of exams was the festival of Sukkot. The weather certainly played its part, with the rain staying away long enough for us to enjoy our Sukkot party. We all entered the Sukkah and got on with the business of hanging, colouring, cutting and designing decorations to ensure that our Eden Sukkah was the envy of all. d

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Shlomo and the Bochrim made sure that every person present had the opportunity to participate in the Mitzvah of Lulav and Etrog. Russell’s macaroni cheese followed by delicious ice-cream, was the menu of the day. We certainly took advantage of the fact that Sukkot fell during the term this year so we could at least enjoy some lessons in the Sukkah. As we draw to the conclusion of this year I look back on it with a sense of gratitude and accomplishment. 2019 has certainly been a very busy, active and successful year. I wish all our learners good luck for their upcoming exams. Lehitraot

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The DPJC recently celebrated Simchat Torah in the tradition it has done for many years. There was singing and carrying of the Torah scrolls in seven circuits of the synagogue. This year we honoured Philip Abrahams and Sue Jacobson as Chatan Torah and Kallat Bereishit. In a most special ceremony during the service the children of the congregation stood with Rabbi Avidan and together they recited the opening verses of Genesis for which they were rewarded with sweet things to eat just as the words of Torah they had recited are sweet.

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The Young Israel Centre had a fantastic and fun filled chaggim period. We had the pleasure of hosting a number of visitors, including Rabbi Lebowitz, Cantor Yaron Kalmonowitz and a group of students from Hirsch Lyons in Johannesburg.

During Sukkot the DPJC Cheder hosted a yummy Sukkot dinner in the Young Israel Centre sukkah. It was lovely to have so many guests in the Sukkah, we only just all fitted in!

The Young Israel Centre would like to take the opportunity to wish everyone and Channukah Sameach. May you all have a good, safe December holiday and we look forward to seeing a lot more of everyone in 2020. DPJC CHEDER SUKKAH DINNER

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• Work with dignity •

“Masada Gives Back” project 2019 ended in great style, thanks to the generosity of our Masadaniks seen here with Mr. Zane Mchunu from Child Welfare.

Brian Moshal sharing his birthday tea with his beloved Masadaniks

Masadaniks who gave clothing and baby food and toiletries

Brian with Manager Sandy Getz and Social Worker Sandy Wolfe

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During Sukkot, South African Friends of Israel and the KwaZulu Natal Zionist Council hosted supporters of Israel in the sukkah at the Umhlanga Jewish Centre. The event was attended by 45 Christian leaders from a wide range of denominations. KNZC Chairman, Grant Maserow, welcomed the guests, highlighting the work of SAFI and the importance of supporters of Israel being informed and active. He was followed by Rev Peter Houston, of St Agnes Anglican Church in Kloof, who tackled the recent decision by an Anglican Synod to endorse the Boycott, Divest and Sanction movement against Israel. He emphasised the fact that the endorsement is not binding on other dioceses, nor on individual church members. Rev Houston reassured the audience that a great many Anglicans are unhappy with this decision, and that steps are being taken to address the matter. Bishop Bernard Coopasamy, of the National Interfaith Council of South Africa, then spoke on the shared biblical heritage of Christian and Jews,

and the faith-based reasons behind Christian support of Israel. Rev Gilad Friedman concluded the formalities of the evening with a discussion of the holiday of Sukkot and the significance of the mitzvot and traditions related to holiday. The event was much enjoyed by the guests, including the delicious food so ably catered by Circle Café and the Durban Jewish Centre.

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Bishop Bernard Coopasamy

Listening intently to Gilad’s explanation of the Sukkot holiday

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“Truly, the experience was a blessed one for us, and we are looking forward to learning more about the roots of our faith. My wife and I wish to say thank you so much for having us at your Feast of Sukkot.” said Bishop Kenneth Mkhize of the Zion Christian Church, one of the largest Christian denominations in South Africa, with approximately 3.87 million members countrywide. Grateful thanks go to Umhlanga Jewish Centre for the use of their lovely sukkah.

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Crossing divides for the greater good of humanity BY JACQUELINE HERBST

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utreach, especially to the less fortunate, is part of the Jewish religion, whether by helping people living with HIV/AIDS, impoverished schools, the elderly or victims of natural disasters. Fulfilling this mandate, the Victor Daitz Foundation (VDF) through the SAJBD KZN Council, recently donated R100 000 to Gift of the Givers to help finance flood relief in. A cheque was presented to Gift of the Givers founder Dr. Imtiaz Sooliman on 7 November by SAJBD KZN Council President Jeremy Droyman during a handover at the Durban Jewish Club. “We are committed to outreach; it is part of our Jewish values and by supporting Gift of the Givers we are able to reach thousands more people in need. We compliment and commend Gift of the Givers for the work they have done over the years and thank you for your efforts,” Droyman said. Accepting the donation, Dr. Sooliman highlighted the importance of looking at people as people and not as a colour, race or religion. “The Apartheid mentality made us tunnel visioned but when you unite and look at humans as human, you can achieve a lot – it is all about building relationships,” he said. Gift of the Givers was extensively involved with flood relief in Mozambique when Cyclone Idai ripped through Northern Mozambique, Malawi, Zimbabwe and Madagascar in March this year, killing 1 300, injuring 2 450 and affecting just over 3 million people. A total of 5 756 homes were levelled and in Mozambique alone 168 000 hectares of crops were destroyed and with 4 000 confirmed cases of cholera following Idai’s wrath, Dr. Sooliman’s team had their work cut out for them. “Mozambique was one of our best operations. It was the first time

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ever that the Mozambican government, that usually just looks the other way, thanked and commended us for the work we did in their country.” VDF board member, Anant Singh could unfortunately not attend the handover in person as he was in the United States at the time. In a letter he said he was thrilled to be part of the group that initiated the donation and thanked his fellow board members and the SAJBD KZN Council for their support. “We have long been admirers of the commitment of Dr. Imtiaz Sooliman and the Gift of the Givers team in disaster relief, as well as the humanitarian work they do around the world and specifically the Mozambique relief and KZN disasters. It makes us proud that a Durban-based organisation continues to make a global impact on a human level by touching millions of lives in an effort to provide comfort and relief under very trying circumstances,” Singh said.

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The Chaggim of Tishrei: The Time of Our Happiness BY MICHAEL GREENBAUM

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he Silverton Road Synagogue’s Sukkah was beautifully adorned with artwork by the students of Akivah College and was filled to capacity during the Festivals of Sukkot, Shemini Atzeret and Simchat Torah when the DUHC traditionally honours individuals and associated Jewish organizations for their contributions to the community. On first day Sukkot in the Sukkah, the DUHC honoured the SAJBD/ KwaZulu Natal Council. The SAJBD is the central representative of the SA Jewish community promoting civil rights for the safety and welfare of SA Jewry, including combating anti-Semitism. The SAJBD/KZN brings all Jews, practicing or non-practicing, religious and secular, at all levels, together into a united proactive community with common values and goals. The organization also forms interdenominational relationships and understanding between Jews and non-Jewish religious leaders within the broader South African population. Rabbi Zekry introduced Jeremy Droyman, President of the SAJBD/KwaZulu Natal and Mary Kluk, National President of the SAJBD. Mr. Droyman said Jewish life in the Diaspora is like a Sukkah, a temporary structure, which doesn’t last forever. He said that the history of the Jews shows that our lives are temporary and fragile when we live in the Diaspora where Jewish life can be transient and nomadic as we move from country to country, and place to place, in search of acceptance and freedom from anti-Semitism. He said anti-Semitism is a current scourge increasing at an alarming rate especially in Europe as evident by the record increase of aliyot by French Jews who fear the rising tide of anti-Semitism in France as well as other terrorist incidents in Europe and the US targeting Jews in synagogues. Mr. Droyman said the organization emphasises inter-denominational friendships and understanding between Jews and other religious leaders in the broader South African population. He said these inter-denominational contacts, mutual understanding and knowledge of each other will decrease anti-Semitism. Mr. Droyman then thanked Rabbi Zekry and the DUHC for honouring the work of the SAJBD/KwaZulu Natal Council. Rabbi Zekry then announced the annual Sukkot awards given each year to deserving recipients for exceptional contributions to the DUHC and the community. The recipients this year were Sam Ziegler and Guy Airey. Rabbi Zekry complimented Sam Ziegler for his many years of involvement and service to the congregation and the community. He said both Sam and Guy must be especially commended for their commitment to attending Shul at every weekday service on a daily basis. Rabbi Zekry said that Guy’s attitude and strong desire to fulfil his obligations as a Jew has earned him the highest honour being a “gair tsedek” (a righteous convert). Sam then spoke of his journey from being non-practicing Jew to receiving this award for his impeccable Shul attendance.

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We wish Sam and Guy Mazaltov for these awards with many more years of success and happiness. On Shemini Atzeret day, DUHC honoured the Chevra Kadisha for their holy work. The Chairman, Mark Werner, thanked the Chevra Kadisha for their holy and work while maintaining the highest of standards. He then asked Stan Hart to read a message from the Chairman of the Chevra Kadisha, Marcel Nathan, who thanked the members of the Chevra Kadisha for their dedicated commitment, performing their duties with compassion and dignity. Mr. Nathan thanked Rabbi Zekry and Rev. Gilad Friedman for officiating at funerals and for their support and Halachic guidance. Mr. Nathan especially thanked Frances Herr and the women of the Chevra Kadisha who perform their work with quiet dignity and low-profile discretion. He also thanked Gary Plen for his important role in administering and arranging the activities of the Chevra and for the excellent maintenance of the cemeteries. On Simchat Torah, the Shul was full of the ruach and atmosphere in celebrating the festival with lively singing and dancing among the congregation and the visiting Hirsch Lyons students. The visit by the Hirsch Lyons over Simchat Torah was a highlight of the Chaggim and the DUHC thanks those who sponsored their visit to Durban. On Simchat Torah morning, the Hirsch Lyons students led the Sukkot youth quiz and the young ones (and some older ones!) were rewarded with chocolates for their excellent knowledge of the festivals and Judaism. The customary Simchat Torah lunch was then held in the Sacher Family Hall to honour this year’s Chatan Torah Frank Schneider and Chatan Bereshit Philip Blumberg. Our Hon. Treasurer, Mr. Maurice Sacher, said the honours of Chatan Torah and Chatan Bereishit are some of the highest honours given in Shuls and he said in many places around the world, these honours are auctioned off to the highest bidder! Mr. Sacher spoke about Frank Schneider saying he attends all Shul every day without fail. His community service goes back to the Durban North Shul where Mr. Schneider was Gabay and later President. He then rendered his services to the Beach Shul. He has raised his family with the same dedicated love of Yiddishkeit. Mr. Sacher said Chatan Bereishit Phillip Blumberg came as an insurance broker to Durban from Johannesburg. He joined Masada where he was a regular public speaker. Mr. Blumberg said he was originally a non-practicing Jew but over the years he embraced his Judaism enthusiastically attending shiurim and now attending Shul every day at every service. The DUHC extends thanks to Selma Lurie, Evon and all the staff for their outstanding catering and to all who participated in organizing festival functions.

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uring my last trip to Israel hundreds of bags of new Yomtov clothing were delivered to children around the whole of Israel (I wrote about this is in the last Hashalom). I also delivered backpacks filled with beautiful gifts and letters to numerous children who in recent months, had lost a family member in a terror attack. This gesture of gifts and letters from the South African community is made the first time that I meet a family soon after the terror attack. These visits are very hard as you see spouses, parents and siblings grieving and in terrible emotional pain. The pain is still very raw and there are many tears. I hear many stories about their loved ones who have passed and about how it happened, and I look at photographs. It breaks my heart and I can honestly say that the fact that I come all the way from South Africa to visit and bring them gifts from school children in JHB and Cape Town, is a surprise for them and gives them a lot of comfort. The letters of love and support are a distraction and an “injection” of happiness.

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Knowing that Am Yisrael supports them from all over the World, helps to give them chizuk to carry on. I have included a few photographs of the children who received backpacks, but the majority did not want to be photographed and did not want their photo put on social media which I respected. You can also see that I do not add the names of the children so as to “protect them” and respect their wishes. While going around Israel delivering backpacks and visiting the families, I twice heard on the news that there had been terrorist attacks. It’s so sad because my immediate thought is to get all of the particular family’s information so that gifts and letters filled with love can be prepared in SA to be given on my next trip. I want to thank all of the people who support DIVOTE and our efforts for children in Israel who have suffered, and who continue to suffer because of acts of terrorism and war. Please know that you all make a difference in their lives.

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s we come to the end of the year we can reflect and see what a wonderful and successful year we have had. All of the students have learnt about various aspects of Judaism, from learning Chumash, Jewish history, minhagim and Chagim. The children receive excellent notes and information including games and activities prepared by Rabbi Vegoda which help to make learning more fun. Those attending the Talmud Torah Hebrew classes enjoy these lessons and their Hebrew continues to improve. A huge thank you to all of our dedicated Talmud Torah teachers who love teaching

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and who love all of the children that they teach. PJ Library has been a huge success in DBN and the children love the stories and love their parents reading the books to them. We asked some of the recipients what they liked about the books and which were their best books. Here you can see a few of their comments, and also photos of a few of the children going through the books at school with their teacher before taking them home to read with their parents.

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his edition of Hashalom comes at the tail of the chaggim.

Shabbat Chol Hamoed – Hosha Raba – literally the great Hosha, we parade with the Arba Minim 7 times around the bima and we beat the Aravot. Bnei Akiva JHB joined the UJC for an incredible youth program.

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Mazal tov to the recipients of the Rabbis Sukka award for service – Carol and Mike Berhman and Lynette and Mike Douglas. Mazal tov to the Chattanim on Simchat Torah – Elion Levitan and Eric Rosen. SAFI hosted an evening in the Sukka. What a wonderful evening discussing and sharing in our celebration with South African Friends of Israel.

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Cooking with Judy and Linda

CHANUKAH LEKKER POTATO LATKES 3 cups grated potatoes 1 onion, grated 2 eggs 1 tablespoon flour 1 teaspoon baking powder salt and pepper oil

Squeeze all liquid out of potatoes using a kitchen towel. Mix the grated potato and onion. Add the eggs, flour, baking powder, salt and pepper. Drop a heaped tablespoon of batter into hot oil and fry until golden on both sides. Place latkes on greaseproof paper or kitchen towel to soak up excess oil. Sprinkle with a little salt and serve with some apple sauce.

CHOCOLATE CHIP MANDELBROT 3¼ cups flour 1 teaspoon baking powder ½ teaspoon salt 1½ teaspoons ground cinnamon 3 eggs 1 cup canola oil 1 teaspoon vanilla 1¼ cups sugar 1 cup chocolate chips 100g roughly chopped walnuts

Heat oven to 190°C line baking sheets with parchment paper.

Divide the dough into 6 equal portions and shape each into a wide loaf.

In a bowl, mix together the flour, baking powder, salt, and ½ teaspoon cinnamon – set aside.

Roll in the cinnamon-sugar mixture and transfer to prepared baking sheets.

In another bowl beat the eggs then add the oil, vanilla, and ¾ cup sugar. Slowly add the flour mixture mixing until fully incorporated. Fold in the chocolate chips and walnuts. In a shallow dish, combine the remaining ½ cup sugar and 1 teaspoon cinnamon.

Bake 15-20 minutes until the loaves are golden brown. Cool on baking sheets for 10 minutes then transfer to a wire rack and let cool for 20 minutes more. Reduce oven temperature to 180°C. Slice the loaves on a slight diagonal into 3/4-inch-thick pieces - Place cut-side up on the baking sheets and bake until light golden brown, 12 -15 minutes

SUGAR COOKIES 375g butter at room temperature 1½ cups sugar 3 cups flour Drop of vanilla essence Egg wash –1 egg mixed with a teaspoon water

Preheat oven to 220°C - Grease 2 large baking trays. Cream the butter and sugar very well – work in the flour and vanilla to make a pliable dough. Working with one half of the dough at a time, roll out on a lightly floured surface and using a cookie cutter cut into shapes of your choice. Place biscuits in the prepared tins, paint with a little egg wash and sprinkle with sugar. Bake for 8 minutes, until light golden.

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BIRTHS

DECEMBER 2019 / JANUARY 2020

Mazeltov to: Mazaltov to Arnold and Trudy Leibowitz on the birth of a grandson, a son for Suzanne and Gary Boruchowitz

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BAT/BAR MITZVAH Mazeltov to: Michael and Melissa Ditz and Carol Ditz on the recent Barmitzvah of their son/grandson Oliver in Israel Jace Greenstone and his parents Janine and Glenn on his Barmitzvah

Zelda Levin would like to thank family and friends, local, Johannesburg and Israel who

ENGAGEMENTS Mazeltov to: Harold and Irma Raikin on the engagement of their granddaughter Talia daughter of Steven and Belinda Raikin to Jared Feingold in Philadelphia USA Norman and Hilary Ganz, Leon and Edith Tuback on the engagement of their daughter/grandaughter Melissa to Saul Ginsburg.

helped make her birthday so special. The wonderful gifts are much appreciated.

MARRIAGES Mazeltov to: Dr Lionel Wolff on the marriage of his son Nolan to Ashley Mercur in Australia

LEADERSHIP Mazeltov to: Matt Strous and Noah Ditz on their appointment as prefects at Clifton for 2020

DEATHS Condolences to: Grayson Beare on the passing of his mother Sue-Ellen

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