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DEAR PAW’S CORNER: I read your article regarding the cat not swallowing his medications. My father taught us years ago to teach our puppies to eat wet food off a spoon. Now that the dogs are older and our vet has them on glucosamine and vitamins C and E, we put the pills with the spoonful of wet dog food and voila, they eat it! In fact they look forward to their pill time. I don’t know if the same method would work with a cat, but I would think so. -- Sharon A., via e-mail
DEAR PAW’S CORNER: After reading your column on getting cats to swallow pills, I wanted to share information about a product I found to be helpful in this regard. It is called Pill Pockets, and it is available at many veterinary hospitals and most major pet stores. The product is essentially a treat with an open side to allow the pill to be put inside and then closed up by pressing in the sides. It comes in pouches of approximately 45 treats and in different flavors like salmon and chicken.
My cat loves the treat, and it allows me to give her a pill without any hassle or stress for either of us. It is also available for dogs. Please check it out. Your readers may find this product helpful. -- Elaine B., Belmont, Calif.
DEAR DR. ROACH: When I have appointments with my physicians at our local, highly rated academic health system, they no longer do a physical exam. But in the after-visit note, there is a documented and complete physical exam that doesn’t reflect reality. This happened on all types of visits, including annual visits and pre- and post-surgery visits.
If I am examined by a resident, the attending physician will attest in the after-visit note to having examined me alongside the resident when,in actuality,the physician was not in the room. I find this appalling, but it seems to be common practice.These doctors are billing for services that they do not deliver. Do you see any effort in the medical world to respond to this? -- J.H.
ANSWER: The new electronic medical record systems make it easy to document a complete physicalexam,sometimeswithasingleclick.If this happens once, it’s a mistake. If it happens consistently, this is at least a system error, if not deliberate deception. The term used in the industry is “upcoding” because documentation of a complete examination allows for higher billing to the insurance company.
Physicians need to be very careful not to document a physical exam that they didn’t do. A less-kind word for consistently doing this practice is “fraud.” Penalties can be up to tens of thousands of dollars per false claim.
The rules for resident supervision are complicated. In general, billing can only be done for services that are provided by or are under the direct supervision of the attending physician. There are exceptions to this, such as resident physicians who provide primary care. However, once again, saying that you were there supervising the resident when you weren’t is against the law.
Now if the attending physician comes in the room and asks questions to confirm the key findings of your medical history, they do not have to do a complete examination to fulfill the obligations for the primary care exemption.
Outside of primary care, the attending physician must be physically present for the key portions of the services that are being billed.
DEARDR.ROACH: I saw your recent column about the wife with intractable depression. I can relate, but you barely glanced over what has been life-changing for me as a treatment: TMS (transcranial magnetic stimulation).
It is quick, easy and painless, and most insurance companies (even Medicare) fully cover it. To be frank, Doc, not nearly enough suffering people have ever even heard of TMS as an option. Would you illustrate to your readers just a tad more about how powerful it can be as a treatment option? -- R.F.W.
ANSWER: Most people with depression respond well to treatment with a combination of psychotherapy and one of the standard medications, but some people need to try several medications before they find one that works for them.Unfortunately,there are people who do not get good resultswithmedication.TMSisanoptioninthesesituations (but you don’t have to fail with multiple medications to try TMS).
Even in people who have failed with multiple medications, about 30% will have a “marked” improvement or a resolution of their symptoms. TMS doesn’t cure everybody, but I agree that it’s a therapy that needs to be more widely used. The biggest problem is that it isn’t available everywhere.
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Down payment: Conventional wisdom long suggested home buyers should submit a down payment of at least 20 percent of the overall purchase price upon buying a home. Buyers who want to follow that advice would need a down payment of $80,000 when buying a $400,000 home. But many home buyers now submit down payments considerably less than 20 percent, particularly in the modern real estate market, which is characterized by high prices and low inventory. The lower the down payment, the higher your monthly mortgage payment will be, so it’s best to save as much as possible toward a down payment.
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The Tax Warrant for the collection of School Taxes on properties in the Hammondsport Central School District has been received, and starting on Tuesday, September 2, 2025 all taxes need to be mailed to: Five Star Bank, P.O. Box 14, Warsaw, NY 14569 and be postmarked by Wednesday, October 1, 2025. Taxes postmarked between October 2, 2025 and October 31, 2025 will have 2% interest added. Taxes postmarked November 1, 2025 or later cannot be accepted and will be returned and the County Treasurer will be notified to re-levy the taxes with the January Town and County taxes. Holly Badeau, District Clerk
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EMPIRE LIVESTOCK, LLC LIVESTOCK, LLC BATH MARKET
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Accepting cattle Friday, September 12th, from 8AM- 6PM. Cattle needing preg checked and all PA cattle MUST be at the barn by 4 PM.
Cattle will be fed and watered. Ask us about our vaccination protocols!
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October 4th at 9:00 AM*
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Include important keywords. The frustration many modern professionals feel when looking for new opportunities may stem from how easy it can be to apply for a job but never hear back. Indeed notes that many hiring managers utilize applicant tracking system (ATS) software when considering applications. Such programs scan resumes for predetermined keywords, discarding applications that do not include them. Reading each listing carefully can shed light on which keywords to include, as the right terms tend to be right there in the job description. Indeed also advises mentioning the company’s name and exact position title in the summary statement or career objective section.
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Under §182 of the New York State Lien Law will sell at Public Auction for cash only all the personal property stored by:
RED DOOR – Sat., September 20th, 2025 at 2:50 PM 7205 Longwell Lane, Bath, NY 14810 – 8 Units for Auction
M.Monroy Unit 9 – Totes, yard game, books
R.Chittenden Unit 39 – flat top grill, TV, dolley, metal fencing, boxes, desk, cooler
A.Hayes Unit 120 – ladder, boxes, metal file cabinets, office chair, tarp
M.Monroy Unit 137 – pictures, metal chest, boxes, manikin
C.Manley Unit 139 – boxes, mirror, house décor, wood shelf
E.Hojnoska Unit 165 – generator, toolbox, bike, dresser, light, guitar, table, end table
C.Stowell Unit 122 AB – house supplies, dresser, totes, mattress, head and foot board, bags, highchair
C.Gerych Unit 27 AB – bike, AC unit, mattress, boxes, folding table, microwave, totes, books
MY STUFF SELF STORAGE - Sat., September 20th, 2025 at 3:45 PM
64539 Route 415, Wayland, NY 14572 – 4 Units for Auction
S.Harvey Unit 17 – glass cabinet, 49ers helmet, kids’ dirt bike, TV, rakes, bags, nightstand
B.Peaty Unit 47 – desk, table, nightstand, armoire, bins, bags, fan
N.Oneal Unit 71 – stool, air compressor, car jack, battery charger, bike, fishing poles, dressers, house supplies, armoire
GENESEO MINI STORAGE - Sat., September 20th, 2025 at 5:05 PM 4550 Genesee St., Geneseo, NY 14454 – 5 Units for Auction
R.Hoffman Unit 14 – grill, window AC unit, floor ac unit dressers, kids toys, cooler, boxes
D.Rose Unit 72 – keyboard, hoverboard, boxes, fishing toolbox, bowling ball D.Rose Unit 95 – total gym bench, boxes, pull up bar, table, kid toys D.Rose Unit 96 – dresser, nightstand, bed frame, luggage, totes, little fire pit, jump mat
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26 McDoggal Ave., Hornell, NY Dressers, stands, Hoosier cupboard, kit. table & chairs, Vict. side chairs, tool chest, blanket chests, beds, cedar chest, rev. painted lamp, floor lamp, TV, washer & dryer, indoor AC, benches, few tools Also: dispersing numerous collectibles to round out the sale. Note: Narrow one way streetlikely need to park on Main or Elm St. For more info. call Fred • 607-382-8480
What is perimenopause? Some people incorrectly describe the years leading up to the last menstrual period as menopause. However, menopause only occurs after the last period has occurred. It is a finite date.The menopausal transition before that takes place is actually called perimenopuase.It is a period of time that most often begins between ages 45 and 55. The National Institute on Aging says perimenopause traditionally lasts seven years, but it can go on for as long as 14 years. The duration may depend on lifestyle factors, race and ethnicity.
Duringperimenopause,productionofestrogenandprogesterone made in the ovaries varies greatly. That can mean menstruation can be heavy at times or light. It may occur once a month or even multiple times per month. The menopausal transition affects each woman differently. It is a good idea for women to use a menstruation tracker and remain aware of symptoms to discuss with the gynecologist.
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GUN AUCTION
SUN., SEPT. 21, 2025 • 10AM
8349 Rt. 414 Liberty, PA 16930 (Tioga County)
At least 225 Firearms, Lots of Ammo + Access. Includes 2 New “RAMBO” E-bikes To Be Sold at 1:00 Lots of pics + catalogues available on website: www.roan.biz
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11TH ANNUAL GRAND CANYON FFA CONSIGNMENT AUCTION
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TIOGA COUNTY FAIRGROUNDS 2258 CHARLESTON ROAD
HELD IN CONJUNCTION WITH THE TIOGA COUNTY EARLY DAYS
Accepting Consignments of: Tractors, Farm Equipment, Construction Equipment, Vehicles & Trailers w/ titles, ATVs, Lawn Equipment, Tools, Produce, Building Materials, & Small Livestock.
No tires, windows, junk, or household items. Auctioneers have right to turn away any items. Not responsible for “no shows.”
ACCEPTING CONSIGNMENTS WEEK OF AUCTION, OCTOBER 6TH-10TH, 9AM - 5PM OR BY APPOINTMENT. No Saturday morning consignments except small livestock.
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As women enter perimenopause and begin the transition that will ultimately lead to menopause, many doctors prescribe hormone pills to help regulate menstruation cycles and ease certain symptoms. Compared to regular birth control pills that contain 30 to 50 micrograms of estrogen,a doctor may suggest a low-dose pill that contains between 10 and 35 micrograms of estrogen. These levels can be increased as needed.WebMD says that,in addition to preventing pregnancy,which can still occur in perimenopause,low dose pills often regulate heavy or irregular menstrual periods and mayofferprotectionfromovariananduterinecancers.Thepillsalso may prevent bone loss, which leads to osteoporosis. It’s important to note that contraceptives come with an elevated risk for breast cancer and blood clots, particularly for those with a history of heart disease and breast cancer. So doctors should be consulted about the pros and cons and women should initiate an open and honest dialogue with their physicians to avoid any complications.
THE SWEET TRUTH ABOUT FRUIT AND SUGAR
Fresh fruit is a delicious treat that can be enjoyed any time of year, but consumption seems to heat up as the mercury rises. Many fruits come into season in spring and summer. Cherries, melons, plums,nectarines,and blueberries are just some of the tasty fruits that are typically enjoyed during warm months. But for those who are trying to eat healthy, they may wonder if fruit - which tends to be high in sugar - aligns with their diet and exercise plans.
People long have been advised to monitor their sugar consumption. Harvard Health reports that the effects of too much sugar intake can result in elevated blood pressure, inflammation, weight gain, diabetes, and fatty liver disease. Yet fruits are listed on the USDA’s Dietary Guidelines forAmericans,with experts saying adults should aim for 1.5 to two cups of fruit per day,or about two servings.That’s because not all sugar is created equal. Fruit contains naturally occurring sugar (fructose) rather than the added sugar that is in many foods, baked goods and candy. According to the Cleveland Clinic, the body processes natural sugars differently than it would sugar in cookies and cakes. Healthline indicates that fructose is only harmful in large amounts, and it is difficult to get excessive amounts of fructose from fruit. That means for most people, the amount of sugar in fruit is safe to eat.
Fruits tend to be loaded with fiber and water, which can help a person feel fuller, longer. And the high fiber content means fruits will take a while to digest and the fructose will be processed by the liver slowly, which should not cause a sugar spike like added sugar would.
That isn’t to say that all forms of fruit are the same. Eating whole fruit is the best type because of the fiber and the protective nutrients,includingantioxidants.Fruitjuiceisamoreconcentrated source of fructose that doesn’t have the fiber to moderate sugar absorption. Excessive fruit juice intake can cause fat deposition in the liver, obesity, and insulin resistance since juice is stripped of the fiber and often nutrients during processing. Those who want to avoid the fruits with the highest sugar concentration should skip mangoes and apples, which have 46 and 25.1 grams of sugar in one piece of fruit, respectively. However, unless a person has diabetes or another health condition where blood sugar levels need to be monitored, individuals shouldn’t fret about the fruit in sugar, as most don’t eat enough for the sugar to be a concern.
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Chianti is a prized Italian wine made from Sangiovese grapes. High acidity and noticeable tannins will help chianti pair well with high acid foods like those featuring tomato sauces, such as a rich pasta dish.
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TIPS TO DINING OUT AS A FAMILY
Check for food allergies/ restrictions: Nowadays it is essential to be mindful of people’s diets, including foods that they may have to avoid. Individuals will want to alert the restaurant staff of any special needs well in advance to ensure their needs are accommodated.
Overlooking the shimmering waters of Seneca Lake, The Diamond on Seneca is a place where celebrations feel effortless, sunsets accent the show, and every guest is treated like a close friend.
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Don’t hype things up: Labeling a night as the “best night ever” or a “party to remember” can quickly tamp down the fun in a flash. It’s best to let the fun develop organically rather than putting a bunch of labels or expectations on the event.
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Car Show Registration at the Firehall 8am-Noon Awards 3pm • PARADE LINE-UP 10:30am, start 11am At The Community Building
Friday and Saturday night might be the day people most identify as the best night to dine out at a restaurant, but a recent survey found that Sunday reigns supreme among diners. According to a 2022 survey from Real Research, just under 30 percent of diners said they eat out on Sunday, which makes the first day of the week more preferable than Friday (18.9 percent) and Saturday (15.4 percent). Perhaps more surprisingly, a greater number of respondents indicated they prefer to dine out on Monday (23 percent) than Friday or Saturday. Despite these preferences, experienced diners know that it’s still wise to book a reservation when dining out on Friday, Saturday and Sunday. Diners might be more likely to find a table without a reservation on Monday.
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“Sign out of all accounts when you are using someone else’s computer. I can’t tell you how often I have used the computers at the library and went to sign into my webmail only to find that the previous user’s email comes up. Navigating away from a page usually doesn’t work, closing the browser sometimes doesn’t work, but logging off ALWAYS works. The same for shopping sites, like Amazon. If you don’t log off, because these sites use “cookies” to remember you, someone could potentially use your account.” -- M.L. in Florida
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A TIP WHEN SHOPPING FOR INSURANCE
Shop around for discounts,too. Savvy consumers know to shop around for discounts that can lower the cost of a given policy. For example, many providers discount their homeowners’ policies if policy holders install security features in their homes.Home alarm systems,security cameras and even added exterior lighting might help lower the cost of homeowners’ insurance policies. Such discounts can typically be found regardless of which type of policy you’re looking for,so shop around or speak directly with customer service representatives to identify ways to lower the cost of coverage.
PULTENEY: John A. Tears, 73, a lifelong resident of Pulteney, New York, passed away on August 31, 2025, after a courageous battle with cancer. He was surrounded by his loving family. A devoted husband, dad, grandpa, friend, and neighbor, John will be remembered for his unwavering dedication to his family, his service to his country, and his boundless commitment to his community.
Born on August 18, 1952, in Bath, NY, John was the son of Roy “Peck” Tears and Stella Tears. Growing up in Pulteney, he forged deep roots in the community he loved and would serve for decades.
John’s life exemplified commitment to others both at home and abroad. At just 20 years old, he became one of the last young men in New York State to be drafted into the U.S. Army, serving from 1972 to 1974. Stationed in Gieson, Germany, he had the unique experience of living in a castle alongside his Army buddy and lifelong friend, Larry Crabtree. Following active duty, John continued his service in the Army Reserves until 1996, embodying a steadfast sense of duty.
Upon returning home, John built a career at Mercury Aircraft, retiring after nearly four decades of dedicated work. But perhaps his greatest contributions were to the town he called home. A lifelong resident of Pulteney, John poured his time and energy into volunteering for his community. He was a proud and active member of the Pulteney Fire Department, Pulteney Fire Commissioners, Pulteney Fire Police Captain, and a dedicated driver for the Pulteney Ambulance Corps. He was also a past member of the Pulteney Ambulance Corps. He lent his help to countless calls.
John extended his service through active membership in the Bath Veterans of Foreign Wars and the Hammondsport American Legion Post 407. As a proud member of the American Legion Color Guard, he was a familiar presence at parades and ceremonial events, honoring fellow veterans and the country he served.
John took the greatest pride in his family. He was a loving husband to Conny, devoted dad to Jason (Becky) Tears, and the very best grandpa to Stefania and Madison Tears—never missing a concert, a sporting event, or any special moment. Grandpa was always ready with a joke, an encouraging word, or a cheer from the sidelines, and loved the adventures and crazy fun he shared with his granddaughters. Johnhadasoftspotforanimals,especiallycompassion for the neighborhood stray cats. One special orange cat, Ollie, found a forever home with him and became a spoiled member of the house. He enjoyed gatherings with family, spending time with friends at the VFW and Legion, helping out with anything needed at the firehouse, and especially going on many cruises with family and friends.
He is survived by his loving wife of over 50 years, Conny; beloved son, Jason (Becky); his cherished granddaughters, Stefania and Madison; brother, Donald (Rhonda); sister, Patty Williams; sistersin-law, Peggy, Janet and Vivian; and brother-inlaw, Allen; and many nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his father, Roy “Peck” Tears; mother, Stella Tears and his brothers, William, Ronald, and James Tears.
John will be remembered always as a loving husband, great dad, and the best grandpa—generous with his time, loyal to his friends, and dedicated to helping those in need. His sense of humor, kindness, and selflessness touched everyone fortunate enough to know him.
A Celebration of Life will be held at the Pulteney Fire House on Sunday, September 21, 2025, from 1 to 4 pm. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in John’s honor to the Pulteney Fire Department or Hammondsport American Legion Post 407. He will be dearly missed, but his legacy of service and love will carry on in the hearts of all who knew him.
Bishop & DeSanto Funeral Home, Hammondsport, is honored to assist John’s family with the arrangements. Online condolences or remembrances are welcome at bishopdesanto.com.
MARGARET “PEG” WILSON
HAMMONDSPORT:
Margaret “Peg” Wilson, 74, passed away peacefully on September 2, 2025, in Hammondsport, New York. Born on May 14, 1951, in Elmira, New York, Peg lived a life marked by compassion, dedication, and a deep love for the people and world around her.
Peg earned her Bachelor of Science in Physical Therapy from Ithaca College in 1975. Her professional path reflected her caring nature and commitment to helping others—a theme that carried through every aspect of her life.
For 50 years, Peg shared a devoted marriage with her husband, Craig. Together, they built a loving family that includes their daughter, Christine and son-inlaw, Jim Ruger. Peg found immense joy in being a grandmother to Emma and Ellie Ruger, cherishing every moment spent with them.
She was predeceased by her parents, Bob and Midge Bailey, as well as her sisters, Carol Bailey and Roberta Wambold, along with her nephew, Todd Wambold. Their memories remained close to Peg’s heart throughout her life.
Peg’s passions were rooted in connection with people, nature, and all living things. She loved spending time with family and friends, treasuring those relationships above all else. Her home was always brightened by the vibrant red geraniums she so lovingly tended. She also loved spending time with friends and family during the winter months in Florida. Whether hiking wooded trails, biking scenic routes, or fishing and boating on the water she adored, Peg found peace and joy in the outdoors. Keuka Lake held a special place in her heart; it was where she felt most at home.
A gentle spirit with a generous heart, Peg gave back to her community through volunteer work with local organizations. Her kindness extended beyond people—she had a deep affection for animals and all forms of life. Many of her friendships spanned more than five decades, a testament to the warmth and loyalty she brought into every relationship.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Peg’s name to the Lupus Foundation of America, The American Lung Association, or The American Heart Association—causesthatreflectthevaluesshehelddear.
Peg’s legacy lives on through the love she shared and the lives she touched. May her memory bring comfort to those who knew her.
Calling hours were held on September 6, 2025, from 11:00 AM to 1:00 PM at Bishop & DeSanto Funeral Home, 35 Main Street, Hammondsport, NY. There will also be a celebration of life get-together in summer 2026, date to be determined.
Bishop & DeSanto Funeral Home, Hammondsport, ishonoredtoassistPeg’sfamilywiththearrangements. Online condolences or remembrances can be made on the Facebook page of Bishop-Johnson & DeSanto Funeral Home, or at bishopdesanto.com. MAY 14, 1951-SEPTEMBER 2, 2025
HOW TO HONOR LOVED ONES AT A WEDDING
Toast with a drink. The atmosphere at a reception is more lively than during a ceremony. Offer a toast to the person who is missed or serve their favorite food at the buffet.
Writing a Sympathy Card
An authentic handwritten message can mean a lot to someone dealing with grief. It shows that you’ve sat down and thought about it as opposed to buying a pre-written card. Sharing fond memories and sincere feelings is a respectful way to remember the passing of a loved one and to offer condolences to their friends and family.
If you’re able to offer support, then definitely mention this in your sympathy card. ose grieving will o en have lots to do and will appreciate any help you may be able to offer even if they don’t take you up on it.
ank you all for the wonderful care and love you gave Donald “Tuffy” Chalmers. Our deepest gratitude goes especially to DaVita Dialysis, the doctors, nurses at the orthopedic offices, Robert Packer Hospital and staff, Bath Ambulance, Bath American Legion, Corning Center, Sif Conrad, hospice nurses and staff. ~ God Bless you all
Getting engaged is a momentous occasion worthy of celebration. However, soon after the question is popped, people in the couple’s lives tend to start asking when the big day might be. Newly engaged couples may feel pressured to rush into setting a wedding date, but enjoying one’s engagement for however long it may last is an option for brides and grooms. Some couples want to run to the altar in a month, while others are happy to stay engaged indefinitely. The Knot, a trusted wedding resource, surveyed nearly 170,000 American couples in 2024 to gauge how long most were waiting to wed. The Knot 2025 Real Weddings Study found that the average engagement length is 15 months. This number has held steady since 2022. Event Source in Canada says the average engagement length for couples in Canada also is 15 months. In general, couples across North America are waiting just over a year to tie the knot after getting engaged. HOW TO HONOR LOVED ONES AT A WEDDING Light a candle during the ceremony. The officiant can say a few words and invite someone to light a candle in honor of a late relative or friend. 35 Liberty St. • Bath, NY • 607-776-6060 Serving the Area for 3 Generations • Cemetery Memorials • Please call for an appointment 315-536-8181 E. Lake Rd., Penn Yan nielsengranite.com “If I Can’t Have a Nielsen Granite Memorial, I’m Not Going!” Thank
