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Spotlight on
Stories of
I llumination I n th i s i ssue:
Human Traf f i ck i ng and PTSD: Finding Light in Darkness Recovery Village
Jeana's Letter: Where are All the Good Men? Matthew Friedman
Creati ng Freedom Th rough Lov e Rebirth Homes An d M or e!
"Thelight shinesin the darkness, andthe darknesscan never extinguish it."
Volu m e 4 Issu e 4 * Edit or : Cin dy Pow ell Sim ple Fait h Pr ess * PO Box 1614 * Redlan ds, CA
contents REGULAR FEATURES Editor's Corner Love Has a Face Andrea Aasen
SPOTLIGHT SECTION pg 1
Human Trafficking and PTSD Matt Gonzales
pg 11
pg 3 Jeana's Letter
Exodus to Flourish Kezia Hatfield
Matt Friedman
pg 15
pg 5 Creating Freedom Through Love
Freedom on the Frontlines Hallie Schaefer
Gretchen Bartels, PhD.
pg 19
pg 7 Bridging Cities, Building Collaboration
What's in Your Hand? Francine Ruiz The Journey to Justice Cindy Powell
Jenna Funkhouser
pg 23
pg 30 Divine Justice pg 35
Rachael Williams-Mejri
pg 27
edit or 's cor n er ?In order for the light to shine so brightly, the darkness must also be present." -Francis Bacon have a confession to make. I don't like winter. Not even a little bit. Most of the time I would like to simply pretend it does not exist.
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Don't get me wrong, I like certain things about winter. The cooler weather means I get to wear my favorite boots and comfy over-sized sweaters. I also like curling up in a cozy blanket with a steaming cup of hot tea - especially when you throw a good book and a crackling fire into the mix! I even like winter sports, like snow skiing. But the things I do like about winter are all overshadowed by one fact that I can't escape:
And we weren't created for darkness - we were created for light. I live in a warmer climate where we are often blessed with relatively sunny days in the dead of winter. However, even when the weather is mild, the days still get shorter and shorter, while the nights get longer and longer. In other words, there is still an awful lot of darkness. As winter lingers on, I long for more light. It is possible to allow the short days and external darkness to affect us on the inside. It's in those times that we need to choose to shift our focus. Personally
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speaking, if I focus only on the darkness, I get depressed and miss the light that is present. And even on the darkest days, there are always glimpses of light. In fact, it is often against the backdrop of extreme darkness that we notice the true beauty and intensity of light. Just as the dark of winter is unavoidable, the darkness of this world is also unavoidable. The darkness can be so difficult to face that many spend their lives with their heads in the sand pretending the evil of this world does not exist. But it does exist - and our contributors are doing something about it.
to read. In this case, it would be so very easy to get lost in the darkness because Jeana's life was so tragic. Yet despite the darkness of her own circumstances, she spoke out and shared her story to inspire a brighter future for others. When you look at the way Matt's life was affected by hers not to mention the many lives impacted through his work - it is easy to see how her light shines on.
I'm so grateful for the many committed freedom fighters who work tirelessly to illuminate the darkness of human trafficking. Against the stark darkness of this cruel injustice, their light shines all the brighter.
Then there is the inspiring story of Rebirth Homes beginning on page 17. This story is a personal one for me since, for a brief period of time, I was privileged to prayer walk the streets of Riverside CA, and later the site of their first home, with Rebirth's CEO Debbie Martis and a small group of volunteers. We prayed and dreamed big, believing light would breakthrough the darkness of the surrounding area. Now, just a couple of years later, it is amazing to see how God has done just that.
Our spotlight theme for this issue is "Stories of Illumination." The verb "Illuminate" simply means to light up. As with many of our spotlight themes, this theme fits almost everything we publish. Many of our partners and contributors literally spend their lives lighting up the darkness.
My contribution in this instance was miniscule, but even the smallest flicker of light helps illuminate the darkness. As Francine Ruiz points out in her story in our "What's in Your Hand" feature on page 32, our contributions often feel like a drop in the bucket - but it's our drop.
Consider how the work of Recovery Village (page 11) brings awareness to the link between human trafficking and PTSD. As Matt Gonzales points out, shining a light on this infrequently discussed issue can inspire hope in survivors.
Beloved, no one else can provide "your drop." No one else can bring the specific light, or illumination, that only you carry. The darkness is deep, but together we can - and will - light up the night. Keep shining bright!
On page 15, Matt Friedman shares a heart Click here for ideas wrenching letter from "Jeana." It is difficult Voices of Justice, Vol 4, Issue 4
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Cindy Powell Editor, Voices of Justice
"Love has a Face? is a column dedicated to ending human trafficking through the realization of LOVE as the preventative solution. But love has a face! It takes a multitude of people, skill sets, ideas, ministries, and nations coming together to bring order in chaos and light into places of darkness. ?Love has a Face? will empower you to see your part in the solution to stop human trafficking and other forms of injustice before they start.
C h an ge Yo u r Fo cu s
wise mentor once told me, ?What you focus on you?ll empower.? I often reflect back on that phrase, carefully considering what I direct my mind, heart, and talents towards. If focus generates action, then I want all I am receiving and giving to come from a place of righteousness.
moved my heart, I didn?t know what to expect, nor did I feel I had anything to give. That day, I was praying at the border between Cambodia and Thailand. I was hopeful of what God was doing in Southeast Asia and prayed for Him to move powerfully within that region. Suddenly, a grandmother approached the team I was praying with and offered to sell her 4-year-old grandchild to the man in our group. I couldn?t believe what I was seeing!
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My life has been modeled from that perspective, focusing on God?s promises and goodness, in the midst of a world filled with sin and darkness. For the last seven years, I?ve worked in areas of anti-human trafficking, where I?ve seen the best and the worst. I?ve been a part of the most miraculous rescues and rehabilitations, and in great despair, have also had to witness horrific acts of abuse and slavery. I?ll never forget my first encounter with a trafficking victim. I was new to Asia and missions, and though compassion had -3-
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and aftercare projects. That precious 4-year-old birthed a movement and generations that would later know freedom because of her story. Focus will inevitably bring forth fruit. However, the reverse is also true. When most hear about 30 million slaves worldwide, they see only the bigness of the problem. Instead of focusing on the one that could be helped, they hide in disbelief, as media and worldly commentary lead them to believe there is no hope. The problem therefore continues, because the issue seems too big for any one person to make a difference.
I?ll never forget that little girl?s face. Fear and terror gripped her, as her grandmother forced her forward. I knew that it was acceptable for kids that age to be sold for labor and even sex, but never had I seen a face to the issue. Never had I looked in the eyes of a child to hear one say, ?Help me!?
I think it?s time for all of us to look deeper at which voices are directing our attention. Is your focus light or darkness? The light is always stronger than the darkness, but are you looking for it? If you don?t look for it, you?ll never see it. Your ability to hope, dream, and impact the world is held in this simple truth, ?What you focus on you?ll empower.? Look for light, and you will become light. You were called to illuminate the darkness around you. Change your focus . . . you are the light of the world!
We of course refused the transaction that day, but I stood at the border and wept, as the burden went from my head to my heart. The children we fought for were no longer just statistics, they had a name and they had a face. I would never be the same after that encounter. I was branded with purpose. It was just after that experience that God called me to move overseas and begin our prevention, rescue,
Love has a face.
Andrea Aasen is the Director of XP Missions / Extreme Love Ministries. She isa visionary leader with a heart to see justice released to the nations. Andrea has a desire to see women and children empowered and walking in their God created destinies. She believes in the power of LOVE to transform nations and individuals, and as a result, has developed various community, business, and advocacy modelsto support and protect victimsof human trafficking, abuse, and other formsof exploitation. Voices of Justice, Vol 4, Issue 4
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"Exodus to Flourish" is a regular column that invites readers to delve deeper into the process of restoration for survivors of sexual exploitation and trafficking and includes topics related to healing complex trauma, the church?srole, and the many questionsthat arise when journeying from Egypt into promise.
A Tr au m a In f or m ed Cu lt u r e culture is created by the attitudes and behaviors characteristic to a particular group. When people have experienced complex traumas and grown up seeing the world through abuse, this is the culture they come from ? with its rules, norms, expectations, values, and beliefs. Becoming trauma-informed is a cultural learning process. It is a means by which we assess our own health and healing, better recognize others who are hurting, and grow in our ability to connect and build safe relationships.
hearts, and trauma of every kind. How do we bridge this gap and create ways for deep roots and relationship within the church? How do we translate the Gospel in a language that understands trauma and healing?
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First, before addressing traumatized populations ?out there,? we need to understand suffering is already within our church walls. There are people in every church and family who have experienced many types of abuse and loss. Though sometimes disguised by high performance, their suffering underneath remains just as real. Hurting people are close to us? or they are us.
Often, the culture found in many churches can clash with the need for connection and healing. The language used from the pulpit or in small groups can further wound and create a sense of not belonging. When two parties do not speak the same language, it maintains division between them. Yet the church is called to be expression of God?s family in a world full of suffering, broken
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support but fear further isolation and judgment if they open up too much. I often wonder how much of what is called ?hypocrisy? in the church could be a form of dissociation or regression due to unresolved traumas. When speaking to any audience, I am aware that I am talking to a number of people who could be teaching me from their experience. There is no such thing as a ?neutral? or non-affected group. We need to acknowledge ourselves and those closest around us first.
trauma-informed and equipped to connect. The goal is to relate this way to ourselves and to everyone we interact with each day. This is how God prepares us to add to our numbers, to add to our families who gather more around tables than stages. Our homes become ready and safe when we have norms of healing written into our lives. Trauma-informed cultures allow for the safety, belonging, connection, complexity, challenges, growth, and wholeness of people and families ? core Kingdom values. Sometimes healing is considered to be an individual process. While it is personal, it is also very much collective. It is for all of us and requires all of us in different ways. Becoming rooted in God?s house and creating family is a journey of transformation for everyone.
This is why a trauma-informed lens is important for everyone. We grow in sensitivity to God, to ourselves, and to others. We learn to slow down and ask more questions. Our approach becomes curious instead of presumptive. We start to incorporate a different attitude and wording in sermons and bulletins. We seek more connection with people instead of more church projects. We are intentional to create room for healing and normalize the need for it. Regardless of our setting or position, a trauma-informed worldview brings a greater understanding of the diversity and worth of people.
The world will know we are the real thing by the way in which we love our own. When people are first coming out of abuse and into a church, they often observe before they engage. As the church with a heart for justice, we must start at home and model holistic care. May we continue to grow in knowing ourselves and one another through His eyes of clarity and compassion.
I long to see this knowledge shape the hearts of God?s people so the perspective, speech, tone, and heart is
After several years of experience with trauma and recovery, Kezia believes healthy families are the linchpin to all human growth and restored design. She received her M.A. in Clinical Psychology from Azusa Pacific University and is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. She has worked exclusively with survivorsof sex trafficking and their support systems, while also developing and overseeing a residential aftercare program. Through the adoption of her daughter, Kezia has seen Jesus?glory in family and the restoration He brings through the process. Her desire is to nurture the healing integration of individuals, families, and communities ? that what were once cycles of abuse are turned into blessings for futuregenerations. Voices of Justice, Vol 4, Issue 4
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Freedom on the Frontlines is a monthly column that highlights individuals and organizations who are making a difference on the frontlines of the war against human trafficking.
Th e Dr eam Hou se hen I met Stefanie Jeffers for this interview, I was instantly struck with how warm and confident she was. I felt as if I had known her forever; she was so easy to talk to. I knew a little of her background from following her on social media, but had never heard her whole story. Asking someone about hard parts of their lives can be a tricky thing since, understandably, not everyone wants to relive that time. But Stefanie didn?t seem to mind, in fact, she told me that it is a joy to talk about what God has done in her life and through her Grit Into Grace ministry.
most logical thing to do, they went their separate ways.
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It wasn?t long before Stefanie found herself in another relationship and was soon expecting another child. This relationship wasn?t a happy one as he was emotionally and physically abusive. The night that man left her, she found herself at the hospital and lost her baby in a late term miscarriage. Suddenly, nothing made sense and any hope she had had for her little family?s future, was gone. On the day her baby should have been born, she found herself sobbing, unhappy with life and her job. She decided right then to quit her profession as a paralegal. Without a job, she still had to find a way to support her young daughter. Not knowing what else to do, she headed for the strip club, never before having set foot in one.
She grew up in the church and married her childhood sweetheart. Soon, they were expecting their first child. Everything should have been perfect. But, like many young couples, Stefanie and her husband came face to face with the reality that the honeymoon version of marriage doesn?t last forever. Doing what seemed like the
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was gone. Common in the entertainment industry, stage names are often given to the dancers. She was given the name ?Carmen.? While something like a name change is relatively simple, the implications are far from it. From that moment on, she was no longer Stefanie.
After hitting rock bottom, she decided she couldn?t take it any longer and wanted out. She left that strip club, vowing never to return. She spent the next few years recovering and rebuilding her life. She was also able to have her daughter come back to stay with her. This daughter is now an adult and the two share an amazing mother daughter bond. Stefanie is also now happily married and has another beautiful daughter.
?My mom looked at me when I was little and she named me Stefanie. It?s Stefanie with an ?f,?and it?s different. It means ?child of God.?It means ?chosen one.?I don?t know what ?Carmen?means, but to me it meant everything opposite of who I was raised to be.?
While her story is amazing, it?s less uncommon than we?d like to believe. Unfortunately, not every story similar to hers ends quite as happily, as Stefanie is well aware. In the years since leaving the strip clubs, she began working with the women who are still there, building relationships with them and showing them Christ. In the clubs she promised she?d never work in again, she was now ministering to those in the same position she was in all those years ago.
For three years, stripping was her life, eventually even turning into prostitution in hopes of making quick cash and being able to get out of the strip club. She realized, however, that this was not a stable way to raise her daughter and she signed over custody to her first husband, who was now remarried.
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She wanted to do more, though. She knew that many of the women in these situations feel like there?s no other options for them and she wanted to change that. Th e Dr eam Hou se Stefanie had a dream to open a house for at risk women in the Indianapolis area. She had a location in mind, but after a ride along with local law enforcement, she realized she needed to be right where these women were, which meant right in the heart of a very rough neighborhood. After much prayer and talking with friends and colleagues, a house was donated for this very use right in the neighborhood she had chosen!
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sexual exploitation. Grit Into Grace will walk with women along their entire journey.
Stefanie hopes that women in the area can find a safe place to come and rest during the day, especially during rough weather. She hopes to start relationships with the women coming in from working on the street, providing a place for community, advocacy, and case management. Grit Into Grace is a survivor-led, trauma-informed, and survivor-centered organization for adult women experiencing commercial
If you would like to learn more about The Dream House and more of Stefanie Jeffers and her work, you can find out more here: http://gritintograce.orgor or you can follow them on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GritIntoGrace/
Hallie Schaefer is a freelance writer and web content creator from Indianapolis, Indiana. Earning her degree in Psychology from Grace College and Theological Seminary, she has combined her experience in counseling and love of writing to equip and inspire others. When she isnot writing, she enjoys spending time with her husband and three small children, exploring all Indianapolishastooffer. -9-
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HUMAN TRAFFICKING AND PTSD: FINDING LIGHT IN DARKNESS
by M at t Gon zales
have written about addiction and mental illness for more than two years. During this time, I have interviewed people struggling with drug addiction, depression and other neurological disorders in an effort to inspire individuals with mental health problems to get the help they need.
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In October 2018, while searching for relevant topics related to mental illness, I came across the story of Karla Jacinto. Karla is a Mexican woman who experienced severe mistreatment at a young age. She came from a dysfunctional family in Mexico and did not receive much attention from her mother. When she was 5 years old, she was sexually abused by a relative. The abuse continued for several years. When she was 12, Karla was waiting for friends near a subway station in Mexico City.
Moments later, a 22-year-old man approached her. He spoke politely to her. They exchanged phone numbers and, when her mother failed to let Karla into their home one night, Karla soon began staying at his home. She lived happily with him for three months. However, that man was a human trafficker. He eventually forced Karla to work as a prostitute for four years. During this time, she was punched, kicked and spat on by her trafficker. She told CNN that she was required to see 30 customers a day, every day. In
2008,
Karla
was
rescued
by
an
anti-trafficking operation in Mexico City. As is the case with many survivors of human trafficking, the brutality of those years still haunts her. But she has found ways to help others with similar pasts.
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PTSD Is Com m on Am on g Su r vivor s of Hu m an Tr af f ick in g
Neuroscience at King's College London
Unfortunately, Karla?s story isn?t unusual.
trafficking and mental illness. Among the
Human trafficking is ubiquitous all over the
51 percent of individuals in the study who
world, especially in Mexico and parts of the
had been trafficked for sexual purposes,
United States. Even when rescued, many
37 percent of adults and 27 percent of
survivors do not heal for years.
children experienced PTSD. Many people
People who experience human trafficking may develop mental health problems. Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) is one of the more common outcomes associated with human trafficking. PTSD is characterized by the presence of intense feelings of distress, like painful flashbacks and anxiety, in the weeks, months or years after experiencing a traumatic event.
examined the association between human
with PTSD caused by human trafficking use drugs or alcohol to numb their physical or psychological distress, an activity that can lead to drug addiction. A severe substance use disorder can affect the way a person feels, thinks and behaves. Addiction also increases the risk of long-term health problems and premature death. Hope Is Possible
Just how common is PTSD among survivors of human trafficking? A 2015 study by the Institute of Psychiatry, Psychology and
While PTSD is a debilitating disease, it is still
possible
for
someone
with
the
disorder to live a happy and fulfilling life. Some survivors of human trafficking find catharsis in jotting down their feelings. A journal can help some people cope with negative feelings and other personal struggles. Writing is a way for someone to document their personal progress in dealing with PTSD, depression or other mental health disorders. Many survivors have spoken about their experiences as victims of human trafficking to spread awareness. By Voices of Justice, Vol 4, Issue 4
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sharing their stories, these individuals bring to light a topic that may not receive much media attention. Illuminating this topic can help people better understand the realities of human trafficking and inspire hope in survivors.
People with the disorder cannot just will themselves to overcome it. In many instances, treatment is needed to deal with mental illness and addiction. Through treatment, individuals suffering from PTSD can learn ways to combat their symptoms.
Karla Jacinto knows the importance of spreading awareness. She has spoken to several media outlets about her experiences with human trafficking. She even shared her story with Pope Francis at the Vatican. Karla implores people worldwide to learn more about human trafficking.
Many rehab centers, like The Recovery Village, provide an environment where people battling co-occurring disorders can improve their physical and psychological health. While treatment and therapy are stigmatized in the United States, these methods of healing have helped many individuals recover from various mental health disorders.
"Don?t just listen to me,? Karla told CNN. ?You need to learn about what happened to me and take the blindfold off your eyes.?
To learn more about the work of The Recovery Village, visit their website at: www.therecoveryvillage.com.
Matt Gonzales is an award-winning content writer. A former journalist, he is dedicated to spreading awareness about substance misuse and sharing inspiring storiesof people in recovery. He lives in Orlando, Florida, with hiswifeand son.
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After encountering trafficked victims on the streets of Nepal as a public health officer, Matt Friedman dedicated the next 25 years to anti-trafficking activism and fundraising. He asks how we can change attitudes to human trafficking, get more people involved, and bring an end to slavery in the modern era. Click on the link below to hear Matt's inspiring talk from Tedx WaiChaing:
"Where Were You?"
JEANA'S LETTER: WHERE ARE ALL THE GOOD MEN? "My spirit is already dead inside. My body will soon catch up. How can this happen to a child? Where are all the good men?"
by M at t Fr iedm an
his is a translation of a letter I received in 1994 when I was still in Nepal. The day before I visited a young girl named Jeana at a human trafficking shelter. With letters like this, it is easy to see how people like me feel compelled to step up and get involved.
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?Matthew, Thank you for your kindness in coming to see me yesterday at the shelter. Your words brought great joy to my broken heart. I turn 15 on Monday. After being used by so many men, I can see that my days will soon come to an end. My illness gets worse with each passing day. I can hardly eat. The food has no flavor. It is sour like so much of my life. I will not see my 16th birthday. I look back on that day when I left my family?s home. I was only twelve then. I was so happy. So full of life. I had such hopes and dreams. Now look at me. I will never marry. I will never have children. I will never have grandchildren. I will not grow old. The day that first man took my virtue was the day my God died. He and all those other men stole
my life away. I was just a child. Why did nobody come to help me? I have stopped asking why this happened to me. I have even stopped feeling angry. I need you to promise me. I need you to do what you can to prevent any other girls from falling into this hole. Promise me you will end this evil. Promise me you will never stop trying. I don?t care about myself. I?m done. Don?t let any more of our sisters go through what I went through. My spirit is already dead inside. My body will soon catch up. How can this happen to a child? Where are all the good men? Where are our protectors? Where is our humanity? Promise me. Jeana?
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Many of us who work in this field are driven by these passionate pleas. This is one of so many. This young girl was 15 years old. She was commercially raped over 7,000 times. There are literally millions of women and girls in similar situations.
come forward within a mass movement, this can turn the tide and help reduce the number of victims. This approach worked before ? it can work again today. But we need a mindset shift and must all take heroic steps to do our part. Every contribution will add up.
Jeana asked two good questions ? ?Where are all of the good men? Where are the protectors?? They are out there. But we need to find them, wake them up and take care of this problem.
What can we all do? We can learn about the problem and educate others. We can step up and volunteer for one of the many anti-trafficking groups. We can raise money for the cause or donate our own funding to help. We can support government efforts to help fight the problem. The idea is to use our own talents to fight human trafficking. If you are an artist, do an art project and display it in a public place. If you are a film maker, be a voice for the voiceless and produce films on the state of modern-day slavery. If you are a corporate executive, organize a talk on the issue and mobilise your company. Whatever you do, do it in the direction of freedom. The same can be said if you are a teacher, social worker, doctor, lawyer, or anyone else. If 10 million people did one act each that is 10 million acts. This mass movement could finally abolish slavery.
Reading this letter so many years ago was an epiphany that helped me to understand that we, the citizens of the world? collectively and individually? have a responsibility to help end the suffering of those like Jeana. Human trafficking represents one of the most egregious human rights violations of our time. As rights bearers ourselves, we must all accept some responsibility. To solve this problem, we need to establish a ?second generation abolitionist movement? in which we all step up and do our part to help address the problem. Abolitionist William Wilberforce and others led a movement 200 years ago. So can we. If an army of ordinary people were to
Matt Friedman is an international human trafficking expert with more than 25 years of experience as an activist, program designer, evaluator, and manager. Based in Hong Kong, heistheFounder and CEO of theMekong Club, a coalition of private businesses which aims to guide and support the privatesector in their effortstoachieveslavery-freesupply chains.
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CREATING FREEDOM THROUGH LOVE REBIRTH HOMES by Gr et ch en Bar t els, Ph D.
"Rebirth Homesis transforming thelivesof survivorsof sex trafficking in Riverside, California with a holisticapproach tohealing. "
hen a butterfly emerges from
Rebirth Homes opened its first home in
its cocoon, it breaks through
September of 2017, but it started years
the
chrysalis
earlier as a glimmer of an idea. When
that has been protecting it during its
Rebirth CEO Debbie Martis was wandering
transformation from caterpillar to butterfly
through Riverside years ago, she saw an
and enters the world head-first, ready to
abandoned house that had fallen into
stretch its wings and take to the sky. The
disrepair. The image of this broken and
emblem
beautifully
battered house with so much lost potential
represents the healing survivors of sex
later resonated with her as she began
trafficking find with the help of Rebirth
learning
Homes,
nonprofit
worldwide. Why couldn?t someone rebuild
California.
this house? Why couldn?t a house like this
Rebirth Homes provides safe housing and
one give trafficking victims a place to
healing resources to women who have
rebuild their lives? The seed idea for
been affected by sex trafficking.
Rebirth Homes was planted, and over the
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next few years, Debbie prayed over the
program that fosters spiritual, physical,
vision, learned more about trafficking in
emotional, and mental healing. Women in
Riverside, gathered together a team, and
Rebirth Homes? two-year program receive
raised funds to open the first home for
a safe place to live, counseling, job
adult women who are survivors of sex
training, and community with each other,
trafficking in Riverside County. From the
staff, and mentors. This loving support is a
beginning, Rebirth Homes has been an
key component to helping victims regain
organization founded firmly in prayer,
control of their lives and become survivors
dependent on God?s leading and provision,
with bright futures.
and born out of deep love for those who
With the guidance of counselors from the
are trafficked.
Grove Counseling Center in Riverside, the
To address the multifaceted effects of
women study healthy boundaries and
trafficking, a holistic approach to healing is
work through their trauma in weekly
essential, and Rebirth Homes offers a
individual and group counseling sessions.
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We also offer equine therapy and art therapy. The women
have
developed
strong connections with the horses and have created some beautiful art pieces expressing both the darkness of the life they lived being trafficked and the hope they now have for their futures. In the first year of the restoration home, we have seen transformations in the women?s lives as they achieve the goals they set in their care plans. When a new woman arrives at the home, she is often withdrawn from others, she speaks little, and she shows signs of the trauma she has
Rebirth HomesCEO, DebbieMartis
suffered, but within weeks, she will laugh and smile, play board games, study the Bible, and talk about her plans for the future. This year, one woman completed her high school degree and two women have pursued their goals by taking college classes. Access to mental health services
have renewed their Christian faith or have made a first-time commitment to Christ. Four women have been baptized over the last year, and the women in the program have been sharing Christ with new women who join the Rebirth family.
and medical treatment has also been
And in the midst of tough challenges, small
instrumental in the lives of the women of
moments of blessing shine through all the
Rebirth Homes.
brighter. One week not long ago, I was
The path, however, has not been an easy one.
Walking
with
those
who
have
experienced deep trauma is challenging. Some days triggers are active, tension is high, or energy is low, but through it all God sustains our staff, volunteers, donors, and the ladies in our program. God is at work in the lives of survivors of human trafficking. Many women in our program
heading to the home to spend time with the ladies, and I knew that some of them were processing through stress that was causing anxiety and insomnia. As an avid crocheter, I brought along crochet hooks and skeins of yarn in cheery yellow, blue, and purple, hoping that this skill that often calms my own racing mind would help them too. I sat down, working on my own project, and started talking to one of the
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women. I offered to teach her how to
From Fall 2017 to Fall 2018, we have
crochet, and within moments, a group of
graduated two women from our program,
three women were sitting around the table learning how
to
crochet. A peaceful
stillness fell over the room. I had hoped that sometime far down the road that this
and we are so excited to celebrate the growth and healing that we?ve seen in their lives as they have soared off into the
skill might bless the women with an outlet
future on new wings born of God?s love.
to relax, but that very day one of the
For more information on Rebirth Homes,
women proudly declared that she had found a new coping mechanism. Even in these small moments, I can see God working His healing in these women?s lives.
and them,
how
you
please
visit
can
partner
their
website
with at
www.rebirthhomes.com.
Gretchen Bartels is a mentor at Rebirth Homes, writer, and an associate professor of English at California Baptist university, where she teaches predominantly upper division literature, creative writing, and the senior capstone. She earned her BA in English and Chemistry from Wheaton College, IL and her MA and PhD in English from the University of California Riverside. She is passionate about supporting survivorsof sex trafficking and sexual violence in their healing journeys. Voices of Justice, Vol 4, Issue 4
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CHRISTIAN ABOLITIONIST SUMMIT ?An important and awe-inspiring event that brought together torch bearers of the modern-day abolition movement? LEADING THE WAY IN THE FIGHT AGAINST HUM AN TRAFFICKING! On Oct ober 10, 2018, people of faith from all sectors of society and from across the United States Gathered at the Museum of the Bible in Washington, D.C. to participate in the Christian Abolitionist Symposium. Compelling speakers called the faithful in all sectors of society to engage in bringing an end to domestic human trafficking and meeting the needs of those who have been affected by this heinous trade. This impressive line-up included speakers from Government, Law, Academia, and Human Services. The Museum of the Bible has fully participated in this event, curating special exhibits and presenting on Abolition in the Bible.
For a list of speak er s an d videos of t h eir pr esen t at ion s, f ollow t h is lin k : https://instituteforsheltercare.org/christian-abolitionists/ information obtained from https;//instituteforsheltercare.org
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NAOMI'S STORY
BRIDGING CITIES, BUILDING COLLABORATION "Connecting churches, community partners, and law enforcement in cities on thewest coast. Gain theknowledge, tools, and resourcestoengage, further develop, or improvecollaboration on behalf of thesurvivorsin your community. Together wecan changeour culture!"
H
ave you ever wondered, ?Why
trauma
are
anti-trafficking
committed to making a difference in the
organizations working in isolation,
lives of those who have experienced abuse
so
many
all struggling for the same resources??
hospitality,
law
healthcare
don?t
identifying
victims
enforcement,
collaborate and
and
more
in
brainstorming
leadership
team,
mentors how to embrace complex trauma survivors
where
alongside them
they
are
through
and
their
walk
healing
journey, experiencing the unconditional love of Jesus,? says a statement on their
solutions. If these kind of questions have ever crossed your mind, you?re not alone. This is exactly
informed
and complex trauma. ?Our focus is to train
Or maybe you?ve wondered why people in
by Jen n a Fu n k h ou ser
why
the
Mentor
Support
Collaborative was born.
benefit
churches
and
organizations
community, trained
and
in
every
equipped
to
respond with compassion to the abused and exploited.?
The Mentor Support Collaborative is an LLC Oregon
website. ?We envision Trauma Informed
company with
a
Their goal is to create a collaboration of wrap-around care for the many needs in -23
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anti-trafficking work, ultimately creating a
first-hand
community-wide
survivors.
response
to
ending
experience
working
with
exploitation. This past year, they hosted
"We
thirteen training sessions that have been
community where we encourage and
recorded and will soon be available on
empower one another while doing this
their website to train anyone interested in
work together,? says Darlene Domenigoni,
best practices, trauma informed care, and
one of the founding members of the
how to develop both a survivor and
Mentor Support Collaborative.
mentor
But they?re dreaming bigger than simply
support
team
to
ensure
want
to
develop
a
culture
of
sustainability and long term success. All
networking inside one city.
training
by
This month, they have announced the next
with
big step in creating a network of resources
sessions
trauma-informed
are
taught
professionals
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and connection along the entire west
The three-day conference will highlight
coast.
topics
?Bridging
Cities,
Building
pertinent
to
those
in
law
Collaboration? is ?More than a training
enforcement, healthcare, hospitality, and
event? Attendees
the faith community -- as well as specific
gain
the
knowledge,
tools, and resources to engage, further develop, or
improve collaboration
on
behalf of the survivors in your community. We will have incredible speakers, resource kits, and other materials to better equip you to start a trauma informed survivor
sessions geared towards survivors and young adults. Speakers include Christine LeVay (VP of Sales, United Health Care), Mike Gallagher (Portland Police Bureau), Nita Belles (Founder, In Our Backyard),
program and foster collaboration among
Tomas Perez (Founder, EPIK) and Bekah
law
Stines (MA, LPC, Western Psychological).
enforcement
partners.?
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community
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built
into
the
where
This event will also feature the unveiling of
relationships and collaboration can be
Bridging the Gap, a new app designed to
formed
geographic
provide a real-time solution for connecting
locations or areas of expertise or need (for
law enforcement, victim advocates, and
around
conference,
shared
example, the need for trauma informed aftercare homes). There will be resources and ideas compiled for those who want to connect and discuss how to collaborate and support one another to fill the huge needs organizations face.
community partners to one another to meet the needs of sexually exploited victims. More information about the event and the Mentor
Support
Collaborative can
be
found at: https://www.mentorsupportcollaborative.com.
Jenna Funkhouser lives in Portland, Oregon with her husband and a handful of mostly alive houseplants. She studied CreativeWriting at Corban University and loves exploring the power of storytelling in giving dignity and advocating for change. She currently works in communicationsfor local anti-trafficking nonprofits.
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DIVINE JUSTICE by Rach ael William s -M ejr i
"Ending slavery isn?tjust about putting bad guysinto prison. It isn?tabout stiffer penaltiesand harsher laws. Ending slavery isabout the mind-boggling task of changing culture." t was about three years ago when I was sitting in my living room musing over the words ?social justice.? As a linguist, words are very important to me. They carry meaning that can be dissected and spoken into the atmosphere as a catalyst for change. It was at that moment when I clearly heard the words: ?No, not social justice. Divine justice.? My entire thought process suddenly shifted. As a Christian, I asked myself what that meant and what the outcome would be if it were employed as a strategic methodology to fight human trafficking.
I
For quite some time in our culture, it has been very fashionable to appreciate most religions as culture, all the while demeaning Christianity to the level of brutality. Yet what exactly has Christianity
offered to society? Has it truly been this horrid influence that the news media and certain other groups espouse? A quick check back into history proves something different. While many good books and articles exist on this subject, one of the best resources is How Christianity Changed the World by Alvin Schmidt. In his text, he gives historical foundations and empirical evidence for how Christianity did indeed change the world, giving understanding to why we have A.D. and B.C. He discusses the sanctity of life that the church held dear while living among pagan groups who participated in infanticide, abortion and human sacrifice. The church valued all human life, taking care of both babies and the elderly. The invention of orphanages -27-
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and hospitals are due to Christianity. Women received dignity at a time when women were little better than animals. Charity, compassion, education, art, music, science (yes, science), and so much more were either begun or changed for the better thanks to the church. In fact, when people indicate they can be good people without God, the quote from Benjamin Franklin to Thomas Paine comes to mind: ?And perhaps you are indebted to her originally, that is, to your religious education, for the habits of virtue upon which you now justly value yourself.? Indeed, those who cry they are not religious while indicating that they are humanitarian, are simply continuing on Christian traditions. And what of slavery? The world had viewed slavery as normal since the beginning of time. And with the exception of Mosaic law, slaves were in bondage for life ? a grueling life. It should not shock us that slavery existed in the occidental world. What should shock us was that it was the only part of the world that ended slavery after engaging in its profit. While the occidental world enjoyed a slave free world, many other countries continued the practice in extreme barbarity ? legally ? well into the second half of the 20th century.
The
barbarity
would
include
eunuchs in Arabian Gulf countries for pedophilic
purposes
that
included
anything from testicle removal to one Voices of Justice, Vol 4, Issue 4
clean slice of all genitals from sub-Saharan Africans. Given historical norms, where Christianity ended slavery where it was dominant, and elevated human life to the precious object it is, one must ask the question: how was the change effected, and can we do it again today? Perhaps the best place to start is to ask what will it really take to end human trafficking? It isn?t just a question of money. Americans spend $8.4 billion on Halloween, laments John Cotton Richmond, U.S. Dept. of State Ambassador at Large and Director of the Office to Monitor and Combat Trafficking. Coming from someone who finds Halloween grotesque and demonic, I can only cringe on any number spent on that holiday. However, I also ask: why not? When people give to end human trafficking, what do they see? More human trafficking. Unfortunately, ending slavery isn?t just about putting bad guys into prison. It isn?t about stiffer penalties and harsher laws. Ending slavery is about the mind-boggling task of changing culture. It is about providing a way of escape for those trapped in sexual deviance so they no longer want to abuse others. It?s about changing peoples? mindsets so they look out for their neighbor. It is about changing perspectives that men are better than women, and women are objects. It is about having the same dignity towards the poor as the rich. The reason why ending slavery
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seems impossible is because it will require grassroots organization as much as governmental organization. It will require people to stop their busy lives and take care of others; and will require humility, love and patience when faced with ungrateful people who know nothing more of life than prostitution. Today the church is making an attempt to be ?relevant,? as though God can no longer transcend time and space. It is trying to fit in and be a part of culture instead of changing culture. Given this unfortunate dynamic, it is unlikely the church will make the slightest bit of difference in our current
first because no one cares,? the Scriptures teach how to love and profit from taking care of even those who don?t love you. The Bible elevates women, in spite of what improper translations and denominational opinions say. Women were apostles (Junia), prophets (too many to list, but start with Acts 21.9), judges (Deborah), fighters (Jael), deacons (Phoebe), pastors/church leaders (Priscilla). Setting the captives free by focusing on grace was Paul?s message. Taking care of one?s neighbor has been around since Moses. And the list goes on and on and on.
state. If as Christians God lives in us, and
So what will it be, church? Will we worry
He has all the answers, then everything to
about being mocked by the world, and
end slavery is inside of us as well. But we
remain ineffective, taking our cues from
cannot hope to change anything if we look
them to be ?relevant?? Or will we do what
to
While
each of us can do for the glory of God and
Hollywood demeans women, the Bible
change our culture one person at a time?
elevates them. While good-ole boy systems
Ultimately, we answer to One, and His
validate sexual vice that is strangling men,
directives should be our utmost desire and
the Word provides a way of escape into
goal. His way is the surest way to an
peace. While the world touts: ?number 1
effective and permanent change.
the
world
for
validation.
Rachael Williams-Mejri is the founding editor and now a regular contributor to VOJ. She is an educator who spends time studying human trafficking in pursuit of solutions to end it. She has an MA in French and an MBA, and speaks four languages. She currently livesin Washington D.C.
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What's in YOU R hand?
by Francine Ruiz
Wh at 's in You r Han d is a regular feature that highlights people from all walks of life who are doing what they can with what they have to make a difference in the fight against human trafficking. In this issue, Francine Ruiz shares her story. can?t explain when it happened, I just know that years ago I had this prompting to go speak to the women I saw walking on E Street in San Bernardino, a local hub for prostitution. I asked a friend if she would like to join me. I couldn?t tell her what exactly we were going to do, the only thing I knew for sure is that I wanted to share the gospel with them. Perhaps it was a good thing our husbands said it wasn?t a good idea. At that time, I had no idea how to minister to them safely, nor did I truly understand the gravity of the situation for both the girls and myself.
I
Fast forward to just five years ago. My daughter had a friend who worked on the campus of FACESS (Freeing American Children from Exploitation and Sexual Slavery). They rescue minor girls from human trafficking. I found it inspiring and once again my heart was moved to do something to help. I heard about an information meeting in the Inland Empire, where I live, that was to provide information on the issue of human trafficking and I signed up to attend. My thoughts were racing as I stepped in and recognized the pretty, tall blonde lady, Peggy Stapelton, who was leading the meeting. We had done some scrapbooking together years before. What I didn?t know Voices of Justice, Vol 4, Issue 4
was that Peggy worked for a prominent Christian radio station, KSGN, and is the one who organized the meeting. Through this meeting I got connected with Forgotten Children Inc. Forgotten Children has a drop-in center in Lynwood, CA that was willing to train those interested in combating human trafficking. At that time, I was home educating the last two of our six children. (I home educated from Kindergarten through High School.) I was involved with the Classical Conversations home school group in Anaheim, so that made it convenient to travel to Lynwood once a week for training. Eventually, I found myself helping the founder, Pastor Paula Daniels, with information meetings. My contribution to the meetings was to educate on the spiritual warfare side of praying over oneself, as well as those receiving ministry. Through many miraculous events, Forgotten Children ultimately opened a safe house in the Inland Empire. My heart has always been to teach the word of God and lead others into a deeper understanding of who we are in Father God, so I began leading Bible studies at the safe house. During this same time, my daughter was hired to be the House Director for FACESS. She moved several hours away, and I
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found myself wanting to minister to the young girls she was working with. We raised funds to take them to Disneyland and a beach trip. My mother ?s heart instantly wanted to just love them and protect them. It was fun to go to the campus for visits? the girls would lovingly call me Mama Fran. One of my gifts is hospitality so when I visited some of the girls and I would cook dinner, while others set the table and helped prepare for dinner. These are precious memories and I still keep in touch with a few of the girls who have graduated from the program. There always seems to be more to learn and more to be done. My desire to better serve survivors led me to obtain training in the area of trauma healing. I have completed the first phase of training with American Bible Society, and also obtained additional trauma training by Glen Totten of Partners in Healing Parakletis Ministry. Because of this training, I was recently able to go with a team of women to Uganda to minister at the UN camps. We also went to two orphanages in Bali and a prison there. One of the orphanages was specifically designated to rescue children from human trafficking.
I continue to help when and where I can. On a recent Saturday, the day before Mother ?s Day, a friend received a call from a young girl living in LA who had been trafficked. Would it be possible for us to take her to a safe place located six hours away? My friend secured a home and the two of us were off to take this frightened girl to a place where she is now safe. I have also recently completed training to be a Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) in San Bernardino County. Since there is an endless amount of ministry and work to be done, at times it is a bit discouraging to see the far-reaching devastation and brokenness caused by human trafficking. In those times I am reminded of what D.L. Moody said, ?I am only one, but I am one. I cannot do everything, but I can do something. And that which I can do, by the grace of God, I will do.? Or, as I say, ?It?s a drop in the bucket, but it?s my drop.? What is your drop or drops? Together, we can cause a flood and perhaps see this inhumane situation abolished forever.
Francine Ruiz has been married to her ?Lovey?Ernie for 34 years and is the mother of six children who were all home schooled from kindergarten. As a result of a difficult childhood, Francine has a deep sense and calling on her life to minister to the lost and broken. She hastaken several classeson trauma healing, with a certification in Trauma Healing 1, from American Bible Society. Francine is currently a volunteer with CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocate) in San Bernardino County, and she also workspart-time asa Para Educator Substitutefor children with Autism.
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Th e Jou rn ey t o Ju st i ce
LEAVING THE MOVEMENT BEHIND by Cin dy Pow ell
Fighting
for justice is a journey. Sometimes the journey is both long and lonely. We get it, because we are right there with you. The Journey to Justice is a regular feature that seeks to encourage those on the frontlines so that, together, we can persevere and see lasting change. 'm leaving the justice movement.
entrenched in duking it out with darkness.
No, I haven?t given up. I haven?t
But darkness was soundly defeated on a
stopped caring.
I certainly haven?t
Roman cross 2,000 years ago. Rather than
forgotten the voiceless, the captives, or the
fighting a defeated foe, I want to model
oppressed. I won?t stop speaking out and
living in the light. I want to model freedom
doing what I can to make a difference.
and hope.
I
I just
don?t want
to
be part
of
a
I want to model living in love.
?movement? anymore. I don?t want to be
Thankfully there are many already doing
part of a cause. Instead, I want to see
this,
things actually move. More specifically, I
contributors to this magazine. The focus is
want to see people move toward the heart
on restorative justice, not retribution. The
of God.
focus is on God's extravagant love, and not
There is an alarming trend among those
on the fear generated by darkness.
who take on the fight against human
The focus is on what He can do, and not
trafficking? or any social justice issue,
what we can?t do.
really. The ?fight? becomes such a key part
Anyone who has been exposed to the
of the narrative. The fight becomes our
harsh
identity. Offense is often excused because
particularly child sex trafficking, can?t help
we
but feel provoked. It is heartbreaking and,
feel
it
is
justified.
We
become
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including
realities
many
of
of
human
the
regular
trafficking,
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at times, soul-crushing. There is much at
"I don't want tobe part of a movement, I want toseethings actually move."
stake. While it?s absolutely true that darkness has already met its ultimate defeat, we haven?t yet fully apprehended the victory Jesus won. A very real battle continues
to
rage.
Tragically,
many
individual battles? and lives? have been lost. There is still much to do. We should respond passionately and persistently. But let?s make sure we?re spending our energy in the right way and on the right things.
To that I say ?amen!? along with a heartfelt prayer that more and more of us will remember who we are and why we?re
I love this quote from an artist friend,
doing what we?re doing. When we do, I
Aeron Brown. I interviewed Aeron for the
suspect many more will be ready to leave
December 2017 issue of VOJ (for the full
the movement behind!
interview click here). I asked him if he had
?So let?s not get tired of doing what is
any advice for those who wanted to have long-term
impact
in
areas
of
good. At just the right time we will
social
reap a harvest of blessing if we don?t
injustice. This is what he said:
give up.? -Galatians 6:9 NLT
?Get heaven?s perspective on those issues. So many people want to run after a movement, or a cause, or an organization and you end up with a narrow vision. You can become so encompassed in your own hurt over an issue that your voice becomes muffled. It?s still a voice, but it?s a voice filtered through pain. You have to be grounded in the love of God, otherwise you end up with an agenda. If you don?t live like a much-loved child, the cause and the call will burn you out. The ones who don?t grow weary are the ones who know who they are and why they?re doing what they?re doing.?
Father, I ask for an increased revelation of identity and purpose to be released upon Your people. Keep us secure in Your love so we don?t lose heart. Instead of being part of a movement, may we move in alignment with Your heart so that each of us will fulfill our unique role in the transformational move of Your Spirit being released upon the earth. -Amen!
NOTE: This was adapted from a blog post originally published by Extreme Love Ministries.
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