Practicing Forgiveness
On July 2, 1881, President James Garfield, the twentieth President of the United States, was shot by an assassin. He lingered for months, finally succumbing on September 19. Modern scholars believe the bullet itself wasn’t the primary cause of his death. Rather, it was the well-meaning but misguided efforts of his doctors, who, lacking today’s medical knowledge, repeatedly probed and cut in their attempts to locate the bullet. This caused immense pain, complications, and ultimately a fatal infection. In the end, their probing proved deadlier than the bullet.
In life, we often face moments when someone’s words or actions wound us sometimes unintentionally, sometimes deliberately. When this happens, we face a choice: to practice forgiveness or to let the hurt fester. Dwelling on past wrongs can become a toxic form of probing. The more we revisit and cling to the pain, the more it grows, poisoning our relationships and our well-being.
Love prospers when a fault is forgiven, but dwelling on it separates close friends.
Proverbs 17:9 (NLT)
Proverbs 17:9 offers wisdom: “Whoever covers an offense promotes love, but whoever dwells on it separates close friends.” Forgiveness is rarely easy. It’s called “practicing” forgiveness because it requires effort, intention, and time. Yet, with practice, we grow healthier. Forgiveness doesn’t mean excusing or condoning the wrong done to us. Instead, it means refusing to let that wrong define us, control us, or hinder our ability to love God and others. Forgiving others allows the forgiveness of Christ to flow through us, bringing Christ's cleansing grace through us and to others.
Relentless probing of past hurts brings death to the spirit. Practicing forgiveness is where healing begins.
Our Traditional Worship Series in October, and on All Saints' Sunday, is "A Walk Among the Psalms."
Join us as we encounter some important lessons from the "songbook of the Lord."
Tim Carpenter Senior Pastor
Executive Minister
Rev. Dr. Scott Alford | salford@germantownumc.org
Lens of Love
As followers of Jesus Christ, we are called to live differently to see differently, in fact. In a world too often divided by politics, opinions, and experiences, it becomes all too easy to categorize people as “us” and “them.” Yet, Jesus calls us to a higher way: to see every person through the lens of love.
When Jesus walked this earth, he consistently saw people not for their labels or their past, but for their worth in the eyes of God. He saw the tax collector not as a traitor, but as a disciple. He saw the Samaritan woman not as an
outcast, but as a witness. He saw the thief on the cross not as a criminal, but as a soul worth saving. Every person was seen, known, and loved by Jesus.
This same Jesus invites us to put on his vision to see with the eyes of grace. This doesn’t mean we ignore truth or difficult issues. But it does mean that love leads our perspective. It means we choose to believe the best, to seek understanding, and to extend kindness even when we disagree.
“As it is, there are many parts, but one body.” 1 Corinthians 12:20
The Apostle Paul reminds us in Galatians 3:28, “There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.” This unity doesn’t erase our differences it celebrates them, under the banner of Christ’s love. The church, at its best, is a beautiful mosaic of people united not by sameness, but by the Spirit. Thinking about 1 Corinthians 12…somebody as all foot or all hand would be sad. Our eyes can’t tell our hands they aren’t necessary. All body parts are important for the proper functioning of the body.
So, how do we begin to see with the lens of love?
Pray that God will open our heart. Ask him to reveal any hidden biases or judgmental attitudes we may have and to replace them with compassion.
We can listen more than we speak. Listening builds bridges. It allows us to understand people’s stories and see the heart beneath the surface.
Remember the cross. Every person we meet is someone for whom Jesus died. That truth alone changes how we see others.
In a world desperate for connection and healing, may the church lead the way in seeing others not as enemies or strangers, but as brothers and sisters. Let love always be our lens through which we observe those around us.
Rev. Dr. Scott Alford Executive Minister
Rev. Mimi White | mwhite@germantownumc.org
Sundays | 10:30 am
Owings Life Enrichment Center
This fall, at Prism, we are in the middle of an exciting new series, that came straight from the congregation itself, called, “All the Questions We Want Answered.” We kicked off the series by answering your questions about “Did God Make Dinosaurs and Other Genesis Questions” then continued with “Does God Change His Mind?”
This month, we will address “The Parable of the Talents,” “Am I Following God’s Will?,” “What If Jesus Did Miracles Today?,” “Are There Ghosts in the Bible?,” “Do We Have Guardian Angels?,” and, on All Saints Sunday (Nov. 2), we will answer all sorts of questions about “Heaven” and “The End Times.” We will also remember our loved ones who have passed on by bringing their photos and lighting candles in their memory as we celebrate Communion that day. Basically, this is a series that takes us from Genesis through Revelation it’s a journey through the Bible!
On October 26, we are having a churchwide Fall Festival, and everyone is encouraged to wear their costumes that Sunday (not scary, of course). The kids will be trick-or-treating through the adult Sunday School classes at 9 am, and the festival begins right after the Prism celebration ends with food, inflatables, and games in the McVay Gardens.
Join us every Sunday this fall at 10:30 am in the OLEC to celebrate with incredible music from Prism Riot and hear answers to some of your deepest theological questions, such as “Who Made God?” We are on a mission to get our questions answered and follow Jesus together in this adventure of a lifetime, so be sure to invite your F.R.A.N.S. (Friends, Relatives, Associates, Neighbors, and Strangers) to join us!
Happy fall y’all!
Rev. Mimi White
Generosity
Ways to Give
The fourth core value of generosity for us is…Impact.
We know that God can perform miracles and, just like the multiplication of the loaves and fishes, our generosity can multiply to impact those here at home and throughout the world. By using our resources to touch lives outside our church, we make a difference in the way others see and feel the impact of His love firsthand. [Acts 4:34-35]
• Cash and Checks - Given in the offering plates or mail
• Electronic Giving - See below
• Venmo: @GermantownUMC
• Text: “GIVE” to 901-910-1220
• Automatic Bank Drafts - Organized through your personal bank or the church office
• Required Annual Distributions from IRAs/Stock TransferOrganized through your broker
• Wills and Estate Planning - Organized through your attorney to designate the church as one of the beneficiaries
Go to our church website www.germantownumc.org and click on “Give”. Electronic Giving: 2025 Estimate of Giving
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Scan to Give
For help with any of these options, contact Sharon Panis in the church office.
Churchwide
Each month we recognize a volunteer or volunteers who make an impact by selflessly sharing their time and talents for the betterment of our church and community.
Betty Duke - Care Ministries Volunteer
Betty and her family joined Germantown United Methodist Church in 1986, shortly after moving to Germantown. She and her late husband, Leland, immediately became members of the Seekers Sunday school class. She also joined the choir, which she greatly enjoyed.
In 1999, Betty became the first Elder Care Health Ministry Coordinator. Betty’s goal, on behalf of GUMC, was to enhance the quality of life and spiritual health of our congregation. Of course, this led to much more. Betty helped develop the flower ministry, homebound Communion, and the funeral guild ministry. In 2008, she left this position to become a Stephen Ministry Leader and assisted in the creation of the Stephen Ministry program at GUMC.
Today, Betty is a founding member of the Care Ministries Team. You may find her visiting the sick and homebound. The flower and homebound Communion ministries bring her great joy. Her passion is advocating for those who need support, and she loves serving in this way. Betty also brightens the day of church members and visitors at the Welcome Desk, where she occasionally volunteers.
Betty has three daughters, eight grandchildren, and five great-grandchildren. She shared, “GUMC has been a blessing to me and my family. I do not know how my life in Germantown would have been without the love and friendships I have been blessed with throughout happy and sad times since 1986.”
Betty has blessed GUMC with her time, service, leadership, and commitment. She let her heart and faith lead her to enrich the lives of our faith community, and we are grateful.
Communion Servers Needed
One blessing of our growing 10:30 traditional service is the need for more Communion servers. More servers mean we can share Communion more efficiently, helping us stay focused on the holy moment, without the distractions that can come when the service runs long.
Would you prayerfully consider serving. If interested, click here or scan the QR code.
Saturday, October 4 at 10 am
in McVay Gardens
Please only bring animals that are on a leash or in a crate.
Wednesday, November 19
Churchwide Thanksgiving Dinner
5:30-6:30 pm Owings Life Enrichment Center
followed by the Family Advent Workshop
6:30-7:45 pm Mike Wilson Fellowship Hall
Children’s Ministry
Becca Keel, Director of Children’s Ministries | bkeel@germantownumc.org
Janelle Crist, Associate Director - Nursery | jcrist@germantownumc.org
Hayley Heard, Associate Director - Elementary | hheard@germantownumc.org
A Day of Family Fun
On September 21, Putt Putt Golf & Games, on Summer Avenue, hosted a churchwide family fun day for our GUMC families and friends. Attendees of all ages spent the afternoon playing miniature golf, racing go-karts, competing in laser tag, and more!
We are grateful to Brenda and Aubrey Smith for opening up their establishment for our church family to enjoy!
Acolytes Needed for Traditional Worship Service
Every Sunday, we need two acolytes for traditional worship service. What a great way to begin serving the church at an early age!
Children must be in second grade or older to participate. There is no age limit! Click here to sign up, or scan this QR code. If your child is interested in acolyting and hasn't been trained, reach out to Becca Keel to schedule a mutually convenient training session.
Children’s Ministry
Becca Keel, Director of Children’s Ministries | bkeel@germantownumc.org
Janelle Crist, Associate Director - Nursery | jcrist@germantownumc.org
Hayley Heard, Associate Director - Elementary | hheard@germantownumc.org
Meets October 1 and October 8
6-7:30 pm | Fellowship Hall | K - 5th grade
Our last session of WOW for the fall is October 8. But be sure to join us again, starting in January, for more Worship on Wednesday! We have a child-friendly dinner in the fellowship hall from 6-6:30 pm, followed by a variety of fun games, engaging activities, and mission opportunities. Pick up for elementary children is in the education wing at 7:30 pm. To register, click here or scan the QR code. Registration is required by noon each Tuesday, so we can plan for food.
Super Kids! God s heroes in training
For children ages 2 - 5 (Prekindergarten)
Nursery available for children under 2 October 1 & 8, 6-7:30 pm (during WOW) | Hamilton Nursery
We’ll enjoy dinner, games, crafts, and some free play during our time together. Nursery is also available for children under 2. Parents can check their preschoolers into the nursery before going to the fellowship hall to fix a dinner plate to bring up to their child. To sign up for “Super Kids!”, scan the QR code above or click here Registration is required by noon each Tuesday, so we can plan for food.
Register by noon October 24, if purchasing lunch.
$5 (ages 12+), $3 (ages 3-11) Children under 3 eat for free.
Click here to register or scan QR code
Care Ministries
Yolanda Toney | ytoney@germantownumc.org
On Monday, November 3, Matthew Rhoads, Attorney specializing in estate planning, probate administration, and elder care law will be with us to talk about health care law and advance care planning.
Our congregation consists of members from all over the country. The state where your advance care planning was originally made may not have the same laws as the state of Tennessee. Health care laws vary from state to state.
Something learned from the last seminar on Hospice and Palliative Care is that one Power of Attorney document may not be a lasting document. This seminar will help navigate the planning process through these extremely important decisions. Questions like the ones below may be discussed.
• Though I have a person designed to make decisions for me, should I have an alternate person?
• What specific treatments do I not want? CPR? Ventilators? Feeding tubes?
• How do I make my advance care directives legally binding?
• What happens if I don’t have advance care directives in place?
• Can I change my mind about what I have written?
Come prepared to listen and to ask questions. There is no cost for this seminar.
“So deeply do we care for you that we are determined to share with you not only the gospel of God but also our own selves, because you have become very dear to us.” 1 Thessalonians 2:8
CLM Yolanda V.C. Toney Director Of Care Ministries
Care Ministries
Yolanda Toney | ytoney@germantownumc.org | 901-801-6368
called
• Monday Night Visits to First-Time Visitors - Armed with fresh cookies, you will visit first-time visitors. You may bake cookies, go on visits, or both. Contact Sue Myers, 901-756-7919 or joelmyers1@comcast.net. Are
• Prayer Ministry - Join a team of volunteers, who arrive 30-45 minutes before worship, to pray throughout the church for all who enter the sanctuary before worship begins. The team also prays with the pastors. New members are welcome. Contact Yolanda Toney if interested
To serve in the following ministries, Contact Yolanda Toney:
• Grief Ministry - Commit to stay in touch with a person, who has suffered a close familial loss, for a year. Regularity of contact would be determined by the person affected by the loss and you. Contact might include calls, notes, or visits.
• Note/Card Writing Ministry - Once a month or less, you will write notes to assigned persons. Adults, youth, and children may contribute to this ministry.
• Calling Ministry - Monthly or bi-monthly (determined by you) you will call assigned persons to check in with them. These people may be ill, shut-ins, or may be absent from church for several Sundays.
• Meal Ministry - Occasionally, persons or families may appreciate a meal during a difficult time. You would make the meal or purchase a meal and deliver it.
• Care for the Caregiver - Give a caregiver at least an hour break. Sign up to be contacted if/when needed.
Germantown United Women in Faith (GUWF)
Stephanie Adams, President | women@germantownumc.org
$25 Kroger and Walmart Gift Cards for UMNC
The United Methodist Neighborhood Centers of Memphis continue to address food insecurity. To help those in need, $25 Kroger or Walmart gift cards will be collected and distributed through their supported food pantries throughout Memphis.
Gift card donations may be placed in the United Women in Faith mail slot of the Information Center located near the Welcome Center until Tuesday, November 11, 2025. Note: Please put gift cards in a sealed envelope marked to the attention of Dinah Allison.
Non-perishable goods are also welcome and will be distributed to the pantries most in need. For questions, or to arrange for food pick-up, please contact Dinah Allison at dallisonme@aol.com or 901-486-2265.
Germantown United Women in Faith Special Mission Recognition
United Women in Faith (UWF) Special Mission Recognition pins are awarded each year as a long-standing way to recognize individuals who have given greatly to enhance the Germantown unit. A committee, appointed by the president, selects recipients each year.
In addition to a pin, and certificate from the UWF Tennessee/Western Kentucky Conference, a donation to UWF missions is made in honor of each woman selected.
Congratulations Betty and Beverly!
Blessing of the Babies
September 16, 2025
Proud mothers, grandmothers, and great grandmothers were on hand at the GUWF September speaker luncheon on September 16, as they took part in the annual “Blessing of the Babies.”
Beverly Rhoads and Betty Allbright honored at September Speaker
Stephanie Adams, President | women@germantownumc.org
Guest Speaker, Leigh Ann Pray, LMFT
Executive Director of Clinical Services The Omni Family of Services
Two methods to register:
November Luncheon
Tuesday | November 11 | 11:30 am
Mike Wilson Fellowship Hall
All women are invited to share a catered meal, warm fellowship, and an inspirational message
Please make your reservation with your payment of $12 by NOON on November 6, 2025.
• Click here to register online with credit card or scan the QR code
• Checks payable to “GUWF,” memo “November Luncheon,” deposited in the GUWF drop box outside the Mike Wilson Fellowship Hall.
Questions?
Contact Yolanda Toney at yvctoney@gmail.com
“Let us love, not in word or speech, but in truth and action.”
1 John 3:18 NRSV
For more information about GUWF visit germantownumc.org/womeninfaith
Older Adults
Luci Cromer, Chair | 901-755-0803 | luci2@comcast.net
Don’t Forget the October Brown Bag Lunch Program! October 3 | 11 am | Fellowship Hall
Willy Bearden, Memphis Film Maker and Author, will speak about “Lights, Camera, Memphis, and Mississippi: A Writer’s Life in Pictures and Prose.” This presentation will be on Friday, October 3, 2025, in the fellowship hall. The program starts at 11 am, with lunch at noon. Bring your own sack lunch; the church will supply the beverages.
Call Luci Cromer, 755-0803, for more information. No reservations are needed.
There will be a crossing guard on West Street to help with overflow parking.
Learn about 19th Century Memphis History at the November Brown Bag Lunch!
Horses. Mules. Livery Stables. If you think this is describing a scene from your favorite episode of Gunsmoke, think again! Even in budding-metropolitan 19th century Memphis, horses and mules reigned supreme, and livery stables in Shelby County were teeming with activity some of that activity not what you might expect! Join us as we uncover the intriguing and even surprising roles of horses and mules in early Memphis, in addition to discovering what really went on behind the big barn doors of the livery stable at the November Brown Bag Lunch Series, an adventure in learning sponsored by the Older Adult Council. Without horses and mules in its early heyday, 1800’s Memphis would have come to a standstill who knows maybe it really did. discovery awaits.
TOPIC: “Bits, Bridles, & Big Barn Doors”
SPEAKER: Jamie Boelter, Memphis Historian and Researcher
WHERE: Mike Wilson Fellowship Hall
WHEN: November 7, 2025. Program starts at 11 am; lunch is at noon.
COST: FREE—the church will supply beverages.
RESERVATIONS: No reservations are needed. Just bring your sack lunch and enjoy the program and the fellowship.
QUESTIONS? Call Luci Cromer, 901-755.0803
**There will be a crossing guard on West Street to help with overflow parking.**
Older Adults
Luci Cromer, Chair | 901-755-0803 | luci2@comcast.net
XYZs Celebrate A Tuna Christmas in November!
Set in the fictional town of Tuna, Texas, the annual Christmas Yard Display Contest is about to commence. Vera Carp is gearing up to win for the 15th consecutive year, until a mysterious “Christmas Phantom” has its sights on disrupting the contest by vandalizing displays. Joe Bob has the desire to produce A Christmas Carol but battles the threats of the power being cut by the electric company. Two actors play more than 20 characters of different genders and ages, and multiple costume and quick-changes help put riotous fun in holiday dysfunction in this irreverent audience favorite. Make your reservation NOW and come with us to opening night!
WHERE: Circuit Playhouse
WHEN: Friday, November 21, 2025
COST: $15 per person cost includes reserved seat and opening night reception
DEPARTURE: 6:45 pm from OLEC parking lot. (Be there by 6:30 pm.)
RESERVATIONS: Call Luci Cromer, 755-0803, Gretchen Blair, 755-0797, or Garnet Brenneman, 754-3711. You must make your reservation before paying. DEADLINE FOR MONEY and RESERVATIONS: Tuesday, October 21
XYZ’
s Get in the Christmas Spirit at the Peabody in December!
Come with us for a Memphis tradition Christmas at the Peabody, the grande dame of Southern hotels. We will see this opulent hotel, one of USA Today’s Best Historic Hotels for 2025, decorated for Christmas. We’ll listen to a presentation by the Duck Master and watch the ducks march. We will hear some Christmas music, and you may listen to that, visit the history room on the second floor, or do a little Christmas shopping in the shops at the hotel don’t forget to stop at Lansky’s! We then will enjoy lunch at the Capriccio Grill Restaurant before we head for home, in a holiday mood and ready for Christmas.
WHERE: Peabody Hotel and Capriccio Grill Restaurant
WHEN: Thursday, December 11, 2025
COST: $35 per person includes lunch. This trip is being subsidized by a generous donation to the XYZ’s.
DEPARTURE: 9:30 am from the OLEC parking lot. (Be there by 9:15 am)
RESERVATIONS: Call Luci Cromer, 755-0803, Gretchen Blair, 755-0797, or Garnet Brenneman, 754-3711. You must make your reservation before paying.
DEADLINE FOR MONEY and RESERVATIONS: Tuesday, November 11
Older Adults
Luci Cromer, Chair | 901-755-0803 | luci2@comcast.net
AARP Smart Driver Course
October 16 & 17 | 9 am-1 pm
Germantown United Methodist Church and AARP will present the “AARP Smart Driver Course,” the nation’s largest driving refresher course. This 8-hour course is scheduled for October 16 and 17, from 9 am-1 pm. Successful completion entitles participants to a discount on their auto insurance premiums for three years. There is no driving test or written exam. Register early, because the class will be closed at 28 participants. The results of taking these classes have been proven class participants have fewer accidents and tickets.
WHERE: Room 339 in the Ministry Center
WHEN: Thursday and Friday, October 16 & 17, 2025, 9 am-1 pm COST: $20 fee for AARP members ($25 for non-members) payable to AARP RESERVATIONS: Call Ray Smith at 901-410-0184 DEADLINE FOR RESERVATIONS: Reservations will be taken until class is full.
The objectives of the course are to help you:
• Be independent, safe, and confident while on the road.
• Keep up with changes so you don’t put yourself and others at risk.
• Learn state-specific information throughout the course.
• Focus on areas such as roundabouts, pavement markings, stop-sign compliance, red-light running, and safety issues such as speeding and seatbelt and turn-signal use.
Check your calendars and register now. Your check is your ticket to this class.
Our Handy Helpers are waiting for your call…
The Handy Helpers Ministry Team, sponsored by the Older Adult Council, lends a “helping hand” to older adults in our church who need assistance with small repair and maintenance jobs around the house.
WHAT TYPE OF JOBS DO HANDY HELPERS DO?
• Light maintenance and repairs, including small carpentry jobs, such as malfunctioning doors, locks, or windows.
• Minor electrical work, such as replacing light switches and light bulbs.
• Replacing smoke alarm batteries.
• Minor plumbing work, such as working on “running” toilets or leaky faucets.
• Other miscellaneous jobs are considered on an individual basis.
If you are planning a larger job for your house (repainting, wood replacement, remodeling) and would like a second opinion of what really needs to be done, call Handy Helpers, and they will send someone out to take a look and talk to you about it.
Handy Helpers do not work on large or small appliances, roofs, home decorating, or on jobs requiring tall ladders.
WHAT DOES THIS SERVICE COST?
The Handy Helpers service charges only for parts and materials used in the repair. There is NO charge for labor.
TO QUALIFY FOR THE HANDY HELPERS SERVICE:
You must be a member of Germantown United Methodist Church, have homeowners liability insurance, and be over 60 years of age.
To request assistance, please contact Ron or Nina Gaddy, 754-1238
United Methodist Men
United Methodist Men’s Breakfast Saturday, October 11 at 8 am
Speaker: Mr. Kelcey Johnson
Executive Director of the Hospitality Hub
They say life begins at the end of your comfort zone, and Kelcey Johnson, the Executive Director of The Hospitality Hub, is living proof. Kelcey’s journey has taken him from running a snow-shoveling empire as a kid in Missouri to playing poker as a teen, driving tractor-trailers for the Air Force, contracting with Handyman Connection, serving as a seminary chaplain, and now leading Memphis’s most innovative homelessness nonprofit.
The Hub understands that homelessness is a complex issue, which is why the staff takes a holistic approach to helping individuals transition out of homelessness. Staff members prioritize compassion and personalized support to ensure that each individual who comes to them for help receives the support they need to achieve their goals.
Breakfast is $7.50 per person. Reservations required.
Reservations should be made by Wednesday, October 8 by calling the church at 901-754-7216.
Music Ministry
All men of the church are welcome to join us!
Rev. Todd Wilson, Minister of Music | twilson@germantownumc.org | 901-754-7216
All Saints Concert of Remembrance
Sunday, November 2, 6:30 pm, in the Sanctuary
This program will feature many anthems by the Chancel Choir that focus on the journey that loss has us take. Testimony Youth Choir will also participate, as we join together on an anthem entitled, “Prayer for Shalom.”
The evening promises words of comfort and triumph for a life beyond our earthly bounds, sung prayers, and an invitation for all that labor to come home and find rest in Jesus Christ. I pray you'll find your way to the church for this Concert of Remembrance.
Elder Care Ministry
Rev. Linda Gabriel, Elder Care Minister | lgabriel@germantownumc.org | 901-758-6508
Richard Mattox, Elder Care Coordinator | rmattox@germantownumc.org | 901-758-6508
Rev. Linda Gabriel Elder Care Minister
Welcome to October!
October is a different sort of month. Perhaps all months are different, but I think October is especially different. When we’re young and in school, the summer months have their own feeling. September, at least in Memphis, doesn’t seem a whole lot different than summer. October, though, has a different feel to it. We can’t deny that school is in full swing. We might not see or hear the children playing outside in our neighborhoods. Traffic seems to increase. The tempo of life shifts.
As adults, October is certainly different. In this month we have to start preparing for both the end of the year and the beginning of the new. For those who are working, there will be responsibilities that need to be fulfilled. For those who are retired, changes in activities might need to be adjusted. Thanksgiving and Christmas plans begin to be talked about, and we have to start getting ready for the demands of the new year. Some people will make financial decisions at this time that will impact their lives in the next year. Some of us are making travel plans. Some are making sure the house is ready for visitors. Some of us are realizing that a change is needed in how and where we’re living. Some might be aware that outside help is needed with activities of daily living. What are you planning for this October?
As older adults, we have to make plans for changes in our health insurance. October begins the time when we need to reexamine our Medicare coverage and make sure that our 2026 plan will cover our needs.Do you have a retirement plan that requires you to take a certain distribution, whether you need it or not? And, if you don’t require it for living, how will you use that money for the good? All of these decisions are within the context of the changing of
nature. We finally see the colors of autumn. The nights get a little longer, so the days get a little shorter, and the temperature finally begins to drop. There are changes inside, outside, and all around us.
In the face of the changes, I think it is important to remember that God is steadfast God has loved us in the past. God loves us in the present. God will love us in the future. I think from this solid footing we can face any changes that come our way. If you find yourself uncomfortable with some of the changes in the world around you, or in your own life, and want to talk about them, I hope you’ll consider giving me a call. Believe me, I know what changes are like, invited or not.
There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens…”
Ecclesiastes 3:1
Elder Care Ministry
Rev. Linda Gabriel, Elder Care Minister | lgabriel@germantownumc.org | 901-758-6508
Richard Mattox, Elder Care Coordinator | rmattox@germantownumc.org | 901-758-6508
Preventing Falls at Home
Each year, many people are injured in and around their homes due to falls. In older adults, changes in vision, ability, strength, medication use, and health status can contribute to falls which can then lead to fractures, hospitalization, rehabilitation, and long term care.
Most falls often happen between 6–10 am and between 4–8 pm. Many of these injuries happen from things that are easy to overlook, but also easy to fix. Many injuries can be prevented by spotting potential hazards and taking simple steps to correct them. It is important to:
• Ask for help with getting up from a chair or bed or doing any activity you know you cannot do alone.
• Sit on the edge of the bed before standing to reduce dizziness.
• Take time when moving around Do not rush!
• Use a walker or cane as recommended by your physician or therapist.
• Turn the lights on as you enter rooms and hallways, and use night lights.
• Keep the items you use most often at arm’s reach (e.g., tv remote, a light, phone, or glass of water.)
• Wear supportive shoes or slippers and adequately fitting clothes.
• Wear hearing aids and glasses while awake.
• Ask your doctor or nurse which medications may cause drowsiness or make you less alert.
GUMC Medical Equipment Needs:
If you have medical equipment such as wheelchairs, walkers, and canes that you no longer need, please consider donating them to GUMC Eldercare Ministry.
Currently, our biggest need is wheelchairs.
We have these items available for loan to our church members. If you have any questions, please contact Richard Mattox at 901-758-6508 (office) or 901-359-1449 (cell).
Richard Mattox Elder Care Coordinator
Jackie Flaum
Membership
Susan and John Tomasulo
Germantown UMC welcomed Susan and John Tomasulo into membership on Sunday, September 21, at the traditional worship service. They joined by transfer of their memberships from Matthews UMC, Matthews, North Carolina. Their Welcome Friend is Chesley Porteous.
When asked what about GUMC made them want to become a part of our church community, they replied: “When we moved to North Carolina, 19 years ago, our faith was struggling. We found a wonderful United Methodist Church, and our faith was renewed and blessed. Moving to Tennessee, recently, we never thought we would find another church home like Matthews UMC, but coming to GUMC that first Sunday, several weeks ago, was a blessing the warmth, welcoming, friendliness of everyone, the sermon, and the perfect size.”
Becky and Gary Coleman
Germantown UMC welcomed Becky and Gary Coleman into membership on Sunday, September 21, at the traditional worship service. They joined by transferring their memberships from another denomination in the Memphis area. Their Welcome Friend is Jeannie Botts.
When asked what about GUMC made them want to become a part of our church community, they replied: “We are 76 years old, and we want to spend the remaining years of our lives with a community of like-minded, spirit-filled, Jesus-loving people. We are convinced that we have found this at GUMC. We firmly believe that Christ blesses us, so we can bless others. We hope to have many opportunities to do just that at our new church home.”
Fran and George Lewis
Germantown UMC welcomed Fran and George Lewis into membership on September 18. Rev. Jack Henton gave the vows to the couple and received them into church membership at The Village. They joined by transferring their memberships from another denomination in the Memphis area.
When asked what about GUMC made them want to become a part of our church community, they replied: “We love the location, the pastor, and the sermons. GUMC is a very friendly congregation. Beautiful choir!”
Missions
Anne Fritz, Chairperson | clarissafritz@att.net
Reelfoot Rural Ministries
Reelfoot Rural Ministries is a mission program of The United Methodist Church located in rural, Northwest Tennessee. The four-county service area includes Lake County, Obion County, and Dyer County of Tennessee, and Fulton County Kentucky.
This rural area, surrounding Reelfoot Lake, is an area of extreme poverty. Recently, Lake County had the lowest “per capita” income of any county in Tennessee and was 32nd from the bottom of family income levels in our nation. The combined lasting effects of farm mechanization, no factory employment, and a seasonal lake culture have left this region with economic marks difficult to change.
Mission Statement
In Christian love, we seek to provide personal encouragement, material assistance, helpful training and spiritual guidance to children, the elderly and low-income families in rural Northwest Tennessee and Southwest Kentucky, in a manner that enhances self-esteem and encourages self-support.
Services offered by Reelfoot Rural Ministries
The Christmas Store
The Christmas Store provides three new toys to each child through a parent application process. Donated, new toys are arranged in a store-like setting for parents to select toys for their children. Parents “purchase” the three toys for only $5.00 per child. The $5.00 charged for 3 toys helps maintain the dignity of providing for one’s own family. And, most importantly, children are not made to feel like “charity cases.” GUMC will start collecting toys for Reelfoot in early November.
Back Pack Buddies Program
Reelfoot Rural Ministries partners with The Lake County School District to provide Back Pack Buddies for 75 students. They receive meals, snacks, fruit, and drinks for each weekend when school is in session.
School Supplies
An increasing number of children are given school supplies each year, especially at the beginning of the school year.
Mission managers, Earl Shipp and Joe Wyrick
Joe Wyrick loads trailer bound for Reelfoot.
Missions
Anne Fritz, Chairperson | clarissafritz@att.net
Dental and Vision Clinics
The Dental and Vision Clinics provide low-cost care for persons without insurance, who could not otherwise afford care. Local dentists, optometrists, and assistants donate their professional services to staff the clinics. Additional dentists, licensed to practice in the State of Tennessee, are needed.
Work Camps
Work Camps provide no-cost home repairs for the elderly and other income-eligible area residents. Repairs include painting, roofing, repairing porches and floors, building steps and ramps, and a host of other projects. Work camps are available, in the summer, for youth, and year-round, for adults.
Emergency Relocation
Assistance is given to families for loss of home contents due to fire, tornado, flood, or emergency relocation, in the event of domestic abuse.
Food Distribution
Food Distribution provides food boxes to eligible households. The food boxes contain enough food to feed a family or individual for a week. Over 250 boxes of food are given to families monthly through our grocery ministry. Boxes typically contain enough food to feed the household for two weeks. The numbers reached well over 3,000 boxes last year, which means thousands of lives were impacted.
Furniture and Household Items
Furniture and household items are provided free to families each year. These families are experiencing emergencies due to fires, abusive situations, or the loss of a job. They arrive in the area with little more than the belongings that can fit in their car.
Drivers, Amy and David Bergman
GUMC volunteers packing donations
Todd Crist with trailer full of donations.
Missions
Anne Fritz, Chairperson | clarissafritz@att.net
Reelfoot Community Services, continued...
Thrift Store
The Thrift Store makes good used clothing available to families at affordable “dime-to-dollar” prices. Many parents buy all their children’s school clothes at The Thrift Store. Many of the school counselors send families, who are in need of affordable clothing, to the Thrift Store. Profits from Thrift Store operations go to support all of the ministries of Reelfoot. You can participate in this program by depositing clothing, toys, and household goods in the bins located in the back hallway of the fellowship hall. Donations to the Thrift Store are the primary way that GUMC contributes to Reelfoot ministries.
As you can see, the Reelfoot Rural Ministry’s Programs are positively impacting the people of Northwest Tennessee in many ways, both physically and socially.
Thank you to the people of GUMC who have supported this ministry with your prayers, gifts, and service. If you have not been involved, we welcome you!
GUMC
GOLDEN CROSS
Christmas Stocking Gifts
During the month of October, Golden Cross will be gathering donations to fill Christmas Stockings for Senior Citizens! (The Forgotten Generation!)
Golden Cross serves over 2,000 underprivileged seniors, who only receive $50/month for food, in 30 residential facilities.
Please help them have a Merry Christmas by donating these items:
• Oatmeal microwavable packets
• Popcorn microwave packets
• Mac ‘n’ Cheese individual packets (no cups, please)
• Ramen noodles (box of 24)
• Coffee or tea
• Peanut butter cracker packages
• Granola bars (no chocolate please)
• Hard candy (need lots of hard candy)
Please leave your donations in the Golden Cross drawer in the Information Center outside the fellowship hall.
Monetary donations are also appreciated! Make your check payable to GUMC, with “Golden Cross Key Women” in the memo, and deposit in the GUMC lockbox in the Information Center.
New Reelfoot Community Store sign
Unloading donations at Reelfoot Store
Hospitality
Donna Haley, Hospitality Chair (Traditional) | dmhaley_99@yahoo.com | 901-487-8205
Jennifer Predmore, Hospitality Chair (Prism) | jenn_38138@yahoo.com | 901 230 1116
Let’s Get Back to the Basics
Weareawelcomingcommunityoffaithcommittedto:
LovingGodandlovingothers
ServingChristandsharinghim Transforminglivesandmakingdisciples.
Let’s join together in living out our mission! Here are four basic things each one of us can do:
Wear your name badge to help our new members and guests get to know you.
Speak to everyone within 10 feet of your seat during Welcome Time in worship.
Pray for the guests who will be coming to church.
Introduce yourself to one person you don’t know every Sunday morning.
You can also welcome others warmlyby providing cookies in thenarthex!
Click here or scan the QR code to sign up for baking or buying cookies or donut holes.
Youth
Chloe Granberry, Director of Youth Ministries | cgranberry@germantownumc.org
Synergy (middle school)
Wednesdays, 6-7:15 pm Oasis (at the OLEC)
Synago (high school)
Wednesdays, 7:15-8:30 pm Oasis (at the OLEC)
GUMC Youth’s mid-week programming has kicked off for the semester! Synergy and Synago are once again meeting at their regular times. Any middle schooler or high schooler is welcome to join!
Tuesday Morning
Prayer Breakfast
• Tuesdays 6:30 am
• Meets at pavilion behind Houston High
• For all high school students
CRAVE Retreat at Victory Ranch
November 7-9
Grades 6-12
This dedicated group of teenagers meets before school every Tuesday to eat breakfast and discuss the Bible. We are currently going through a devotional book on Romans. Although we meet in the park behind Houston High, you do not have to go to Houston to attend!
GUMC Youth will be having our annual trip to Victory Ranch for our Crave Retreat, the weekend of November 7. We are particularly excited for this year, as our friends from Woodland Presbyterian are also coming along with us. There will be plenty of fun activities, such as ropes course, climbing wall, and laser tag, as well as good food, wonderful worship, and plenty of snacks! All students in grades 6-12 are invited to attend. If you or your student would like to attend but already have obligations on Friday, please let Chloe know, and we will try to work something out. Bus spaces are limited register now!
To register, click here or scan QR code.
Germantown United Methodist Preschool (GUMP)
Sarah Sutton, Director | ssutton@germantownumc.org
As summer fades, GUMP is delighted to embrace the beauty of the fall season. This past month, our curriculum theme was “A Child’s World,” which encouraged students, through hands-on activities, to explore the emotions, adjustments, and discoveries that come with entering a new environment.
At GUMP, we are committed to building strong partnerships with all
families meeting them where they are and supporting their unique needs and concerns. Last month, we were pleased to welcome Midsouth Therapy Group to our school. Its team provided on-site speech and occupational therapy screenings, helping us better support the developmental needs of our students. We also completed our first round of parent-teacher conferences, creating meaningful opportunities to connect and collaborate with families on their child’s continued growth and success.
Our babies and toddlers continue to settle into a routine and continue to feel more comfortable and confident in their surroundings. Our older preschoolers are enjoying new cognitive challenges and learning to choose things of interest within each classroom center. Freddie’s Friends, our 5’s transition class, are participating in an alphabet exchange with 25 other classes across the country. Students prepared their “A is for ants (and anthills)” pictures to begin the exchange and sent them out! Freddie’s Friends are eager to receive letters from classes across the country, to help create a class alphabet book.
Specialty classes are now underway, including chapel with Ms. Becca, music with Mr. Jeremy, social-emotional learning with Ms. Tori, and art with Ms. Courtney Shannon Lenoir Portraits came to take individual and class photos. Shannon does a beautiful job of capturing our friends' personalities in each and every picture.
Fascinating things are happening at GUMP to build developmentally strong children cognitively, socially, emotionally, physically, and spiritually! If you are interested in learning more about our wonderful preschool program, please contact the preschool office at 901-753-3109.
Health and Wellness
Erica Perkins, Committee Chair | ericaLperkins84@gmail.com
Richard Mattox, Staff Liaison | rmattox@germantownumc.org | 901-758-6508
Hosted by the Health and Wellness Team
The Bloodmobile will be parked in the preschool parking lot (West St. side).
Contact Erica Perkins (ericaLperkins84@gmail.com) with questions.
A single donation can save up to three lives.
It can provide cardiovascular benefits to the donor regular blood donation has been linked to lower blood pressure and lower risk of heart attack.
It only takes around an hour to donate, including registration, pre-screening, and collection.
Click here or scan QR code to register for a time slot
Appointments recommended, but walk-ins welcome!
Gordon Kelly, Director | gkelly@germantownumc.org
Kimberly Marsh, Assistant Dir. | kmarsh@germantownumc.org
MONDAYS FROM 6:30 TO 7:30 PM
Owings Life Enrichment Center (OLEC)
Gordon Kelly, Director | gkelly@germantownumc.org
Kimberly Marsh, Assistant Dir. | kmarsh@germantownumc.org
Please note: Available pickleball times are
Owings Life Enrichment Center (OLEC)
Gordon Kelly, Director | gkelly@germantownumc.org
Kimberly Marsh, Assistant Dir. | kmarsh@germantownumc.org
Workouts for New Moms
Exercise with your child!
(Women without babies are always welcomed to any of our class offerings!
Monday 9:30-10:45 am
(alternates between Stroller Barre and Strides 360)
Stroller Barre®
Stroller Barre® is a 60-minute stroller workout that improves your posture, stability, and mobility while strengthening your body from the inside out! Reconnect with your body, increase flexibility, and find the inner strength you need for motherhood.
Strides 360®
Increase your endurance and speed to sprint through mom life with Strides 360®! Come play with your mom friends, with or without the stroller, during this 60-minute, heart-pumping workout that will energize you for the rest of your day!
Wednesday 9:30-10:45 am
Friday 9:30-10:45 am
Stroller Strides®
Stroller Strides® is a 60-minute total-body workout with strength, cardio, and core training, all while engaging with the little ones in a stroller! You’ll leave class feeling strong, empowered, connected, and energized no matter your stage of motherhood.
Monday 6:15-7:15 pm
Body Boost®
Body Boost® is a 60-minute mom-only workout that is challenging, empowering, and energizing. By combining cardio, strength, core training, and meditation, you will leave this workout refreshed and recharged for all that comes with motherhood.
Wednesday 6:15-7:15 pm
Body Ignite®
Body Ignite is a mom-only strength workout that targets every muscle in your body. This easy-to-follow program will increase your metabolism, athleticism, and ability to lift, lunge, and push everything mom-life throws your way!
Discount for church members. Email memphis@fit4mom.com for more info!
Mon & Wed 3:30-4:30 pm
Tues & Thurs 10-11 am Check out these other classes we offer
Vinyasa Yoga
Wed 2-3 pm
Germantown Martial Arts
Tuesdays and Thursdays
Ages 12 and up
Beginner class at 5:45 pm
Advanced class at 6:45 pm
Call Ralph White (901-490-1410 ) or David Porteous (901-846-6851) for more information.
Owings Life Enrichment Center (OLEC)
Gordon Kelly, Director | gkelly@germantownumc.org
Kimberly Marsh, Assistant Dir. | kmarsh@germantownumc.org
Exercise Class Schedule October 2025
10-11 am
Walk Fit (DR) Judy Pearson
9:30-10:45 am
Stroller Barre (DR)
3:30-4:30 pm
Gentle Yoga (DR)- Al Walton
6:15-7:15 pm
Body Boost (DR) 5:45 pm Beginner
Martial Arts (DR)
6:30-7:30 pm
Hatha Yoga (DR) 6:45 pm Advanced Martial Arts (DR)
Open Play Gym Time
Mon: 3:30-5:30 pm Tues/Wed/Thurs 1-5 pm
*Please call the OLEC office to confirm Open Gym times.
Free play time is for church members only. All guests can purchase a $10.00 day pass.
9:30-10:45 am
Stroller Strides (DR)
2-3 pm
Vinyasa Yoga (DR)-Al Walton
3:30-4:30 pm
Gentle Yoga (DR)- Al Walton
10-11 am
Chair Class (DR) Judy Pearson
6:15-7:15 pm Body Ignite (DR)
5:45 pm Beginner Martial Arts (DR)
6:45 pm Advanced Martial Arts (DR)
Owings Life Enrichment Center 2323 West St. Germantown, TN 38138 (901)753-3100
Follow our Instagram page, @olecgermantown, to keep up with all the latest happenings at the OLEC.
9:30-10:45 am
Stroller Strides (DR)
Class Locations:
Weight Room—WR
Dance Room DR Upstairs Room UP
Group Exercise Classes and Personal Training are available at the OLEC. Contact Gordon Kelly or Kim Marsh for more information.
Germantown United Methodist Church
2331S.GermantownRd
Germantown,TN 38138
901-754-7216 www.germantownumc.org
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