Four County Catholic January 2017

FOUR COUNTY

CATHOLIC Volume 29 • Number 1

Our faith calls us to action

Serving The Counties Of Middlesex, New London, Tolland, Windham, CT & Fishers Island, NY

January 2017

He Makes All Things New Revelation 21:5

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"Solo si la gente cambia, el mundo cambiarā".

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"The call by God to live a particular vocation is one that always offers great challenges, includes great sacrifice and demands great love".

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CATHOLIC

THE MOST REVEREND

MICHAEL R. COTE. D.D.

BISHOP OF NORWICH

LET FAITH LEAD THE WAY I Hope Because God is by My Side The blessing of the Christmas season remains very closely with us as we prepare ourselves for a new year in an anxious world. As we gather ourselves for what may lie ahead, we reflect with love and profound gratitude on the gift of salvation given to each of us by the birth of Christ.

This overwhelming gift strengthens our hope and resolve for a more settled, enlightened and peaceful world.

I recall Pope Emeritus Benedict XVI’s words from a Christmas Day homily some years ago, “Only if people change will the world change; and in order to change, people need the light that comes from God, the light which so unexpectedly entered into our night.” Let us follow that light into the New Year.

The New Year certainly is building toward formidable challenges, just about in every direction we might look. Challenge, of course, is opportunity by another name. On a worldwide scale, the challenges can seem insurmountable. But when we pull together to help each other as neighbors, family and faithful parishioners, we can make a difference one kind gesture, one caring moment, one extended hand

at a time. This is what true believers in Christ our Lord do to make a difference and to contribute to the larger common good. All by the hope of Christ. In the guiding words of the Holy Father, Pope Francis, “God walks with us with His love. ‘I hope because God is by my side.’ Each one of us can say this.”

Hope flows from the personal connection we each have to principles of faith larger than ourselves. This holds true, as well, for our connection as citizens to a free and democratic society. Together, we share a commitment of the heart to charitable goodwill to our fellow man.

If we believe in the sanctity of life, compassion for the vulnerable, dignity of all among us, strong family values and that we are all equal in the eyes of Almighty God -- the expression of those beliefs will ultimately lead to world change. As daunting as a world in crisis seems to us, we can be the change makers. Right here at home.

Right here in our schools. In our parishes and our diocese. God's love within each of us is transformational.

We need to trust in that truth, and share the love.

The current global migration crisis is a vivid example of the potential of personal faith helping to lead the way toward just and humane

solutions. It is complicated. We can agree on that. The uncertainty of a new incoming administration in Washington, turmoil across Europe, chaos in the Middle East and across Africa, worsening conditions across much of Latin America -- create a vast and volatile mix of challenges to world order. Yet, we know from the teachings of our faith and from the courage of that faith that if we stand in principle and in outspoken solidarity with those seeking refuge and a better life, good outcomes will follow. We are a faith of love and inclusion. This is our influence on neighbors, communities and Country.

Through abundant good fortune, we live in a free Country whose first freedom is religious freedom and the right of self-expression. It is our right and it is right for us to stand with the poor and the displaced at every lawful opportunity.

We stand with all those suffering.

We extends our hearts, our hands and our means to help as faithful Catholics and grateful citizens of a great Nation. Our unceasing efforts include dedicated diocesan charities and ministries, parish initiatives, national programs such as the U.S. Bishops' designation of January as Poverty Awareness Month, support of our growing Hispanic ministry through such efforts as the V Encuentro

in which over one million will participate across all dioceses, and active outreach to our neighbors in impoverished Haiti. All these efforts start with you. They start with you and build to extraordinary outcomes.

They are hope in action. As you will be hearing through the Annual Catholic Appeal efforts in the New Year, “Our faith calls us to action.”

The virtue of hope is the changemaker gift granted to each of us by the birth of the Christ Child, who is the source of all truth, love and life. Here lies our strength to change the world for the better. Faith will lead the way.

Sincerely yours in Christ,

Bishop Michael R. Cote

January 2017

My Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ,

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THE MOST REVEREND

MICHAEL R. COTE. D.D.

BISHOP OF NORWICH

LET FAITH LEAD THE WAY Tengo Esperanza Porque Dios está Conmigo Mis queridas hermanas y hermanos en Cristo, Las bendiciones de la temporada de Navidad siguen muy cerca con nosotros mientras nos preparamos para un Año Nuevo en un mundo ansioso. Mientras nos preparamos para lo que nos espera, reflexionamos con amor y profunda gratitud sobre el don de la salvación dado a cada uno de nosotros por el nacimiento de Cristo. Este gran regalo fortalece nuestra esperanza y resuelve un mundo más establecido, iluminado y pacífico.

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Recuerdo las palabras del Papa emérito Benedicto XVI de una homilía de Navidad de hace algunos años: [“Sólo si la gente cambia, el mundo cambiará;] Y para cambiar, la gente necesita la luz que viene de Dios, la luz que tan inesperadamente entró en nuestra noche. “En el Año Nuevo seguiremos esa luz.”

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Sin duda el Año Nuevo parece estar construyendo hacia desafíos formidables, casi en todas la direcciones que podríamos buscar. Por supuesto, desafío, es oportunidad con otro nombre. A escala mundial, los desafíos pueden parecer insuperables.

Pero cuando nos unimos para ayudarnos unos a otros como vecinos, familiares y fieles feligreses, podemos hacer la diferencia un gesto amable,

un momento de preocupación, una mano extendida a la vez. Esto es lo que los verdaderos creyentes en Cristo nuestro Señor hacen para marcar la diferencia y contribuir al mayor bien común.

Todo comienza con la conexión personal de cada uno de nosotros con principios de fe más grandes que nosotros mismos. Esto también es válido para nuestra conexión como ciudadanos a una sociedad libre y democrática. Comienza con la mentalidad del individuo y el compromiso del corazón con la buena voluntad respetuosa y caritativa hacia nuestros semejantes. Si creemos en la santidad de la vida, en la compasión por los vulnerables, en la dignidad de todos entre nosotros, en los fuertes valores familiares y en que todos somos iguales ante los ojos del Dios Todopoderoso-- la expresión de esas creencias conducirá al cambio del mundo. A pesar de que nos asusta la crisis del mundo podemos ser los creadores del cambio. Aquí mismo en casa. Justo aquí en nuestras escuelas, en nuestras parroquias y diócesis.

El amor de Dios dentro de cada uno de nosotros es transformador.

Necesitamos confiar en esa verdad, y compartir el amor.

La actual crisis migratoria mundial es un ejemplo vívido del potencial

de la fe personal que ayuda a abrir el camino hacia soluciones justas y humanas. Es complicado.

Podemos estar de acuerdo en eso. La incertidumbre de un nuevo gobierno entrante en Washington, la agitación en toda Europa, el caos en Oriente Medio y en toda África crea una vasta y volátil mezcla de desafíos al orden mundial. Sin embargo, sabemos por las enseñanzas de nuestra fe y por el coraje de los pastores entre nosotros, que si nos mantenemos con principios y en solidaridad franca con aquellos que buscan refugio y una vida mejor, seguirán buenos resultados. Somos una fe de amor e inclusión. Esta es nuestra influencia en los vecinos, las comunidades y el país. A través de abundante buena fortuna, vivimos en un país libre cuya primera libertad es la libertad religiosa y el derecho a la libre expresión. Es nuestro derecho y es correcto para nosotros estar con los pobres y los desplazados en cada oportunidad legal.

Estamos con todos los que sufren.

Como fieles católicos y agradecidos de una gran nación extendemos nuestros corazones, nuestras manos y nuestros medios para ayudar.

Nuestros incesantes esfuerzos incluyen caridades y dedicados ministerios diocesanos, iniciativas

parroquiales, programas nacionales de los Obispos de los Estados Unidos como la designación de enero como Mes de la Concientización de la Pobreza, dando la bienvenida a nuestro creciente ministerio hispano a través de esfuerzos como el V Encuentro, en los que participarán más de un millón en todas las diócesis y el acercamiento activo a nuestros vecinos en el empobrecido Haití.

Todos los esfuerzos comienzan con usted. Comienzan con usted y construyen resultados extraordinarios.

Es nuestra fe en acción. Es la esperanza en acción.

La virtud de la esperanza es el cambio del regalo hecho que se concede a cada uno por el nacimiento del Niño Jesús, que es la fuente de toda verdad, amor y vida. Aquí está nuestra fuerza para cambiar el mundo para mejor. La fe nos llevara allí.

En el amor de Cristo,

Michael R. Cote Obispo de Norwich

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VOCATIONS CORNER

CATHOLIC

FATHER GREGORY GALVIN, DIRECTOR OF PRIESTLY VOCATIONS

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he call by God to one of His children to live a particular vocation during their earthly life is one that always offers great challenges, includes great sacrifice and demands great love!

In a booklet recently released by the National Conference of Diocesan Vocation Directors, Is Jesus Calling You To Be A Catholic Priest?, a man who is sensing this unique and mysterious call from God can find some key components of discerning such a call.

This month and next I have included the opening true story that begins the above mentioned booklet.

A true story… Michael is a

chemistry major in his senior year of college. Throughout most of his years, his spiritual life has been limited to Sunday Mass and simple prayer. However, over the last eight months, something new has been happening. He is beginning to notice a subtle, peaceful feeling at Mass.

During the week, he desires this experience more and more. So, he begins to attend daily Mass. Between classes, he stops in the Newman Center to spend quiet time in prayer in the presence of the Blessed Sacrament. His experience grows.

Along with the peace, he begins to notice a stillness and silence inside of him during his prayer. His mind is quiet and clear. Michael experiences the things that were worrying and

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Holy Hour for Vocations The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, leads the Holy Hour: Father Greg Galvin, Director of Priestly Vocations vocations@norwichdiocese.net

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January 19, 2017 • 6:00 pm - 7:00 pm St. thomas & st. anne, voluntown February 23, 2017 • 6:00 pm - 7:00 pm church of the holy family, hebron March 16, 2017 • 6:00 pm - 7:00 pm Saints peter & Paul, Norwich

We Pray for our seminarians Normand Laflamme 2nd Year PreTheology Mt. St. Mary Seminary Emmitsburh, MD

Michael Bovino 1st Year Theology Mt. St. Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Jacob ramos 1st Year PreTheology Mt. St. Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Dharen Brochero 2nd Year English Studies Clark University Worcester, MA

Frank Gilbert 3rd Year Theology Pope Saint John XXIII National Seminary Weston, MA

Rev. Mr. Ron Blank 3rd Year Theology Pope Saint John XXIII National Seminary Weston, MA

Lawrence Barile.

1st Year PreTheology Pope Saint John XXIII National Seminary Weston, MA

Michael Castiblanco 2nd Year English Studies Clark University Worcester, MA

burdening him before he entered the church to pray very differently during prayer. They are OK by the time prayer ends. As he leaves the Newman Center, he is regularly grateful, excited and pleasantly surprised about what is happening in him, because he knows he is not causing this. All he does is desire that peaceful presence.

After some weeks, a thought begins to surface – the thought of the priesthood. When he is experiencing the peaceful silence and stillness during prayer, the thought of the priesthood comes to his mind. This thought often leads him to imagine himself giving homilies – impressive homilies, of course – and other things that priests do. He is attracted to these thoughts and feels it would be a blessing to be Christ’s instrument.

But there are other days when he feels different. Because he is a busy student who is involved in many things, his days get quite full.

Sometimes, he does not go to Mass or spend time in prayer. On these days, he often experiences much burden and sometimes, within that burden, the thought of the priesthood returns. But there is a difference.

On these days, he does not imagine himself as a priest; rather, he focuses on having to give up wife, children and career. More immediately, he dislikes the idea of not having a girlfriend. These thoughts leave him with a confused, racing mind, a feeling of pressure to figure out his vocation and a fear that God may really want him to be a priest. Most of all, he feels uncomfortable talking to someone else about the possibility of priesthood.

These two contrasting experiences continue, more or less, for a few months, so Michael eventually shares his experience with a priest.

Throughout their 30-minute phone conversation, Father Christopher tells him four significant things.

First, he assures him that what is happening in him is God’s tender, loving activity. God is drawing him into a deeper relationship; God is making these things happen.

Second, he tells Michael not to fear what God wants – whatever it may be for him – because God is his Father who wants only what is best for him.

Third, Father Christopher encourages him to remain faithful to his prayer and to attend Mass more frequently, if possible.

Fourth, in those times when the thought of the priesthood makes him afraid, Father Christopher encourages Michael to peacefully and continuously, inside of himself, long for the peaceful presence and to say over and over again to Christ and to the Father, “I miss you” Father Christopher assures him that in those times of fear and confusion it may feel like his world is turning upside down and that he has all kinds of problems, but he has only one “problem.” He misses the presence of God; he misses the Lord; he misses what he has come to desire most in life. So, at those times, he simply needs to want the Lord, instead of wanting to figure stuff out.

- TO BE CONTINUED NEXT MONTH -

January 2017

A True Story – Part One

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Making A Difference, Catholic Charities

Left to right: Catholic Charities case manager Ivelisse with Mr. & Mrs. Cromie.

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By Ed Tessman

January 2017

ith the help of The Day and their Community Spotlight Segment, Catholic Charities was asked to identify a family in need that the local community could assist this Christmas Holiday. Catholic Charities shared a story of a veteran of the U.S. Navy, currently residing in Groton with his family who had been discharged for health reasons

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and is currently unemployed. He and his wife are the proud parents of a 6 year old boy and another baby on the way.

The response from the community was overwhelming and certainly gave this family the Christmas miracle that they have been praying for. Not only did the gifts help them get through Christmas but also enabled them to start the New Year off fresh.

The family was overcome with emotion when they saw the gifts that had been collected for them and their family. The family wanted to share

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the following with our community: "Christmas time can be a very stressful time of the year for anyone.

This year was very different for our family due to some financial obstacles, unemployment, illness and finding out we were expecting another member to our family. We had never needed assistance, but this year we could not have had a Christmas without seeking out help from Catholic Charities. I could not be more grateful for the support this program provided for my family.

Everyone involved was welcoming

and made us feel like we were worth it! My six year old boy woke up on Christmas morning with a smile on his face because of everything Catholic Charities has done for us. I hope to be able to help others who face struggles during the holidays in the future."

Thank you all, Merry Christmas!

Love, the Cromies

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CATHOLIC

Outreach to Haiti Announces Honorary Chair of Annual Gala Connecticut Lieutenant Governor Nancy Wyman

The Diocese of Norwich Outreach to Haiti is planning an immersion trip experience to Haiti from March 1-8, 2017. There are still openings.

If you are interested please contact Sue Petruzzi at sue.petruzzi@outreachtohaiti.org as soon as possible.

Pope Francis’ Prayer Intention for January That all Christians faithful to the Lord's teaching by striving with prayer and fraternal charity to restore ecclesial communion and by collaborating to meet the challenges facing humanity.

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ndrew Hoffman, Chairman of this year's 10th annual For The Love of a Child Gala, has announced that Lt. Governor Nancy Wyman has been named Honorary Chairperson. Hoffman said "We are honored and pleased to have the Lieutenant Governor add her name and support to this key fund raising event for the Diocese of Norwich's Outreach to Haiti."

Lt. Governor Wyman has been a distinguished and tireless public servant for over 30 years, providing vital insight and support to public education, healthcare, veterans care, youth encouragement and State fiscal management.

The For the Love of a Child Gala is the largest single fundraiser for the Diocese of Norwich Outreach to Haiti. It plays an instrumental role in helping Outreach to Haiti continue its mission in Haiti which started over 30 years ago. Lt. Governor Wyman's public service career reflects many of the life-saving and dignity-preserving values of the Diocese's efforts in Haiti, the poorest country in the Western Hemisphere.

Over the years, Outreach to Haiti

has responded to individuals, families and groups in need and in times of despair, providing shelter, food, healthcare and education. These missionary efforts have been there continually, including in times of extraordinary needs caused by hurricanes, tropical storms and other natural disasters.

The annual gala, true to its name, is a wonderful opportunity for friends and supporters to celebrate the love of the children and all our brothers and sisters in Haiti. It is an inspiring gathering of good and caring people of all faiths reaching out to a struggling community with love and a helping hand and spirit. The For the Love of a Child night will make it possible for the ministry's primary and mobile health clinics to serve their patients; make it possible for 300 children and young adults to receive scholarship assistance; for the two orphanages sponsored by Outreach to welcome even more orphaned children into their care.

Our faith calls us to action. God bless the efforts of all who reach out for the love of a child. All involved are grateful that Lieutenant Governor Nancy Wyman is joining in the effort to help.

The gala will be at the Deanston House in Storrs, CT on Saturday, April 29, 2017. Tickets for the evening are $100 per plate. Tables can be reserved for groups of eight.

Reservations can be made through Outreach to Haiti Office at 860-877-1019, ext. 219.

For further information about the efforts of Outreach to Haiti, please visit outreachtohaiti.org.

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CATHOLIC

CALENDAR OF EVENTS January 20-22

Thursday- Friday, January 26-27 Wednesday, February 1

Retrouvaille Weekend

Annual March for Life Washington, D.C. Bus Trip

Prevalence, Effects & Treatment of Substance Abuse in Our Community

The Annual March for Life will take place this year on Friday, January 27th in Washington, D.C., as a way for people to express their opposition to abortion. Buses sponsored by the Southeast Chapter of Connecticut Right to Life will travel to the March leaving from the Norwich Municipal Parking Lot (Exit 11, I-395) on Thursday, January 26th at 9pm.

Bus fare is $67 per person. For information, or to reserve/sponsor a seat, please call Margaret Becotte at 860-822-1362.

Our Lady of Lourdes, 1650 Rte 12, Gales Ferry at 7pm. Presenters will be William Finkelstein – Mayor, Town of Ledyard, William Gilbert, Ph.D. – Norwich Catholic Charities, Fr. Tom Hoar, S.S.E., Ph.D. – Enders Island, Angela Duhaime M.A. – SE Regional Action Center. To Register (no fee) Call 860-4647251 / email secretary@ololgf.org

At a Retrouvaille weekend, couples are given tools to re-establish communication, work on their issues, gain new insights and heal. For more information or to sign up for the weekend in the Hartford area, please call 413-525-1634, or 203-710-6207, or visit www.retrouvaille.org.

Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.

Matthew 5:4

Finding Healing from Loss through

Prayer~ Ritual ~ Journaling Playwright Oscar Wilde wrote: “Where there is sorrow there is holy ground.”

Come find a place of holy ground to grieve and remember departed loved ones.

Wednesday, January 25, 2017 ~ 7-8:30 P.M. Our Lady of Lourdes Parish Hall • Route 12, Gales Ferry, CT To register for this event, call 860-848-2237, Ext. 304.

For more information about a Diocesan Bereavement Support Group call, The Catholic Family Services Office 860-848-2237, Ext 306 Or email: mmclaughlin@norwichdiocese.net

20th Annual

Wednesday,February 1, 2017

Television Mass

Father Jeffery Ellis At 10:00am Channel 11 WCCT Comcast Channel 20 WTXX Charter

January 2017

Mass of Consecrated Life

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“The beauty of consecrated life is joy. It is the joy of freshness, the joy of following Jesus, the joy anointed by the Holy Spirit.” ~ Pope Francis Sunday, February 5, 2017 at 10:30 am Homolist Father Gregory Galvin, Director of Vocations Cathedral of Saint Patrick • 213 Broadway, Norwich

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January 29 - February 4 Catholic Schools Week

Operation Rice Bowl: For 44 years, Operation Rice Bowl has helped to feed the hungry. Through Operation Rice Bowl --- a program of prayer, fasting, learning, and giving --- what you give up for Lent can give hope to the poorest of the poor.

Make this Lenten season one of awareness, compassion, and reflection. Operation Rice Bowl is sponsored by Catholic Relief Services and the Diocese of Norwich.

“I stand at the DOOR (of your heart) and knock. He who OPENS THE DOOR (no handle on it), WE (Father, Son and Holy Spirit) will come in (to your heart), and have DINNER with him/her!”

Revelations 3:20

HAPPY NEW YEAR! Television Mass Wednesday, January 4 at 10:00am Channel 11WCCT- Comcast Channel 20 WTXX- Charter Celebrant- Father Ray Introvigne Music ministry- Brothers and Sisters of charity Prolife Mass Saturday, January 7 Cathedral of St. Patrick, Norwich at 8:30am

H.S. Students, stand up for your faith and it will change your world! Join us for an exciting and faith-filled one-night pilgrimage as we experience what it means to be PRO-LIFE in the D.C. metropolitan area. January 22,1974 thousands of pro-lifers took a stand for the unborn and each year it has grown into the annual march which is the largest pro-life event in the world.

Mass will be celebrated by Archbishop Wuerl and visiting bishops.

Thursday, January 26 9:30 p.m. Stop in Willimantic for pick up 7:30 a.m. Youth Rally begins 10:00 p.m Bus departs from Saint Bernard 7:30 a.m. Confessions will be heard School *1 stop for bathroom, break and 9:30 a.m. Mass for Life snacks paid for by youth 10:45 a.m. Leave for National Mall 11:45 a.m. Picnic in D.C. 12:00 p.m.

Friday, January 27 Arrive at National Mall/March for Life 5:00 a.m. Breakfast 4:00 p.m. Depart D.C. for home 6:30 a.m. Arrival at the D.C. Armory *1 stop for dinner paid for by youth for Rally and Mass for Life 11:00 p.m. Arrive at Saint Bernard School *This event will begin with a rally featuring 12:00a.m. Stop at Willimantic popular Catholic musicians.

Cost for the trip is $85 for students and chaperones which must accompany permission form. Only Breakfast will be provided, the stops for meals are on-your-own. Lunch must be packed and we suggest student have $20 for Dinner. Breakfast, Mass, and rally all happen before we arrive at March for Life. For more information, contact Liza Roach at Lroach@norwichdiocese.net or (860)848-2237 ex. 305.

Charismatic Prayer Meeting Every Tuesday afternoon 2 -3pm Spiritual Renewal Center, Norwich York Correctional Healing Mass Saturdays, January 14 and February 11 At 1pm, Individual prayer and Anointing Life in the Spirit Seminar For 7 Mondays 7-8:30pm Starting January 30 Spiritual Renewal Center, Norwich Prayer and Discernment Board Meeting Monday, February 6, at 11:30am Spiritual Renewal Center, Norwich

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January 2017

Diocese of Norwich Youth March for Life Trip January 26-27, 2017

Masses of Healing and Hope 2nd and 4th Mondays of January and February January 9 and 23, February 13 and 27, at 2pm Individual Prayer and Blessing

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Fabio Pizzol of Studio Pizzol and Marsha Vasiloff Abrahamson of Vasiloff Stained Glass work together in a joint effort to restore the windows at the Cathedral of St. Patrick.

January 2017

Signature Stained Glass Window of Cathedral of St. Patrick to be Restored

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uring the 2013 restoration of the Cathedral of St. Patrick, there was not enough funding available to begin any of the stained glass restoration, since there were so many different projects being address at once. It was decided that the additional restoration of the windows would begin at the front of the Cathedral as funding became available.

The windows in the worst shape on the priority list were St. Matthew, St.

Patrick instructing the people of Ireland, and St Mark. They are located on the Southeast side of the Cathedral, being exposed to the most sun, snow, rain, wind and ice. The original lead that holds together the stained glass is very thin which cannot retain the structure as the new stronger lead does.

All best wishes to Monsignor Tony and his generous parishioners and other friends and supporters of bringing the magnificent Cathedral to full restoration.

If you are interested in learning more about the Cathedral Restoration project or would like to donate to this cause, please contact Monsignor Tony at 860-889-8441.

Photos by Meredith Morrison

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World Marriage Day

By Mary-Jo McLaughlin

In today’s world where we are bombarded with messages to do our own thing and if it feels good do it, a sacramental marriage strengthens us to be counter-cultural and choose unity and interdependence with our spouse rather than independence. It requires that we put God as the center

Marriage Encounter has sponsored World Marriage Day on the second Sunday of February as a way to recognize and affirm the Sacrament of Marriage. This year it falls on February 12. It received the Apostolic Blessing of St. John Paul II in 1993. Last year, the chairman of the

of our relationship and in doing so are blessed with the graces we need to overcome difficulties that might otherwise tear our relationship apart.

It demands a mature love fostered by daily decisions to love, forgive and sacrifice for one another. In essence, it is to love our spouses into heaven.

For the past 35 years, Worldwide

Committee on Laity, Marriage, Family Life and Youth of the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops called it “an opportunity to celebrate the gift and blessing of marriage and to affirm and support engaged and married couples.”

The Diocesan Office of Faith Events, (OFE) which oversees the

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Catholic Family Services Office, is promoting this year’s event and has provided parishes with resources to recognize and celebrate married and engaged couples during weekend liturgies. “Our office is here to enrich the faith lives of youth, young adults, adults and families” said Andrea Hoisl, OFE director. “As marriage is the foundation of the family and the place where faith is formed, we want to assist parishes in affirming couples in living a sacramental marriage.”

In 2010, the U.S. Bishops in their pastoral letter, Marriage: Love and Life in the Divine Plan wrote, “Marriage is not merely a private institution…It is the foundation for the family, where children learn the values and virtues that will make good Christians as well as good citizens. The importance of marriage for children and for the upbringing of the next generation highlights the importance of marriage for all society.”

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THE NEW RITE OF MARRIAGE

By Sister Elissa Rinere, C.P., J.C.D. Office of Worship

s of December 30, 2016, all marriages that take place in the Catholic Church in the United States must follow a revised edition of the Marriage ceremony. This revised edition was published in Latin by the Vatican some years ago, but the official English and Spanish translations for use in this country were only recently approved and published.

For most people, the changes in wording in the Marriage ceremony will hardly be noticed at all.

However, the Introduction to the new edition presents the traditional theology of the Sacrament of Marriage in a new and significant way. The bishops of the Unites States welcomed this enriched theological presentation, and are using its publication as an opportunity to renew and refresh the appreciation of the Sacrament of Marriage in the whole Country.

Current national statistics on

Catholic marriages are not very encouraging.

In the past forty years there has been a 50% decline in the number of marriages celebrated.

Also, even though the Catholic Church has fairly specific preparation requirements for marriage, the divorce rate for Catholics follows the national average at 50%, with the first ten years of a marriage being the most vulnerable.

To counteract these trends, and to better present the true character of the Sacrament of Marriage, there is strong encouragement to be more faithful to the actual liturgy of the sacrament, and to separate it from certain cultural practices and from a growing emphasis on extravagance.

For instance, in the theology of marriage both bride and groom are equally important, and both make the same sacramental commitment.

Consequently, all aspects of the marriage liturgy should reflect that equality and mutuality. In this way, the Marriage liturgy correctly “speaks,� or teaches, the theology of the sacrament.

Likewise, the current tendency toward extravagance in wedding celebrations can obscure the significance of the sacrament. The faith commitment being made by the couple is more

readily appreciated when it, rather than other details, is the focus of the liturgy.

By emphasizing theology and liturgy, the bishops of the Country hope to bring to all Catholics a greater understanding of the Sacrament of Marriage which is the foundation of family life.

In March, the Office of Worship will be conducting two workshops on the New Rite of Marriage where these and other issues will be discussed.

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By Cassandra Day, The Middletown Press ou may have seen him riding his bike around town — something he’s done his whole life. He logs on average 4,000 miles a year.

Ron Krom, Executive Director of St. Vincent de Paul Middletown, says he finds solace in his rides — something that’s mirrored in the work he has done to nurture the community for his entire career.

“That’s what keeps me sane. I love to get out on my bike. If I didn’t have it, I’d go nuts,” Krom laughs.

It’s his immersion in the community — and the selfless work he does to

help the homeless and less fortunate that made The Middletown Press choose him as our Person of the Year for 2016.

One of the distinguishing features of this designation is that the one chosen is selected because they have made a mark on the community that goes beyond the individual.

So it’s not surprising that Krom wants to redirect the spotlight to shine on the people who make his life fulfilling — those he and his staff help every day through St. Vincent de Paul.

For nearly 10 years, Krom has led the nonprofit organization at 617 Main St., which offers meals, a food pantry, housing and shelter referrals, access to energy assistance, a warming center during the colder months and a host of

other services.

The St. Vincent de Paul building is housed in an unmistakable yellow and purple structure with a colorful mural of adults and children enjoying a community meal on its north-facing side.

“The work that we do — the work that I do — would be impossible without the support of the community at large,” Krom says. He points to a six-foot-high shelf in one of the offices that’s stacked with bins of hygiene products: soaps, shampoos, toothpaste and conditioners. Across the way is another full of knitted and crocheted scarves, hats, gloves and mittens.

“That’s just what came in today,” Krom says of the hygiene items, a day

before the Christmas party for those who visit the soup kitchen. His office is full of 120 boxes of chocolates nestled in larger boxes for easy transport downstairs: enough to make a child’s eyes grow as big as saucers.

“That’s a ton of gifts that people give us so we can turn around and give it to others. It’s really those people who make our work possible,” says Krom, who has lived in the North End for nearly 19 years, with his wife. “I can maybe get some credit for making sure that it gets into the right hands, but I wouldn’t be able to do anything without the support of the community.”

It’s precisely that humility that prompted readers to nominate Krom for the Press’ annual honor.

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Prior to coming to St. Vincent de Paul, Krom, who holds a master’s degree in public health from UConn and a master of arts in religion from Yale Divinity School, was associate director of supportive housing at the Immaculate Conception Shelter & Housing Corp. in Hartford.

Krom’s religious education is one of the foundations of his career. “It’s the basis by which I do what I do,” he says. Krom says the mission of the Amazing Grace Food Pantry on Stack Street brings together people who want to give and those who are in need.

“We are always looking for ways to share food better and make it available to the soup kitchen and pantry,” he says. “We use our soup kitchen as a way to link people to resources so we’re constantly looking to make connections if someone we meet through the soup kitchen setting wants to go to a detox program or get into treatment or receive mental health services, we can help to make some of that happen.”

Upstairs in the St. Vincent de Paul administrative area, Krom says it’s admittedly cramped.

“We struggle,” he says. “We’ve outgrown this building with things like supportive housing and our community assistance program.”

He hopes someday to be able to

have more room for the soup kitchen and offices.

“We could dream ... we’d like to double the size of this building at some point,” he says. “We don’t want to go far because we’re serving the people that are living right around us.”

St. Vincent de Paul also serves as a mini post office of sorts for 200 people, Krom says, pointing out a corner of a room that has neatly filed, alphabetically arranged bills and correspondence.

“If anyone sends a letter to anyone in Middletown and puts ‘homeless’ on it, it comes to us,” he explains.

Just one of the myriad of helpful services Krom’s staff provides to clients is that of “rep payee.”

“We are the representative payee for a lot of people, which enables us to receive people’s Social Security checks or Social Security Disability Insurance and the money comes directly to us and we help to pay their rent and their utilities.

“Those who have a history of getting evicted because of nonpayment of rent or because of their substance abuse or mental illness and are just living in poverty — not knowing how to make ends meet.

So they need help and support there.

We help to make that happen,” Krom says.

Years ago, it used to be that you had to “earn” your way into housing, he explains.

“People had to get clean and sober

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and get on their medications and they had to get their act together and get into counseling and do all these things to almost be ready for housing. We don’t think that way anymore,” Krom says. “What that’s done is pretty much eliminated ‘chronic homeless’ — a specific term used by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development for people who’ve been literally homeless for a year or more or homeless for four episodes or more over the past three years.”

That’s not to say homelessness has been eradicated in Middletown.

“We’ve been getting closer and closer to where there are enough resources to match those people to housing,” Krom says. “We had probably in the vicinity of 70 to 100 on our chronic homelessness list in the community seven or eight years ago.

There really is no one that fits that definition anymore.”

Looking to the future, Krom hopes to retire soon and move to Peru with his wife. But for now, he says he’s got work to do.

“Even if we were to just continue to serve the people that we serve without thinking of growth or making these changes,” Krom said, “we have an impact in this community because we do have the ability to care for people.

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“He spoke at our church meeting last month and we were all amazed at the good he does for our community,” Rosemarie Vecchitto wrote in her nomination.

“He is totally committed to helping those he calls ‘guests,’” wrote Connie Gillie in her selection of Krom. “He has a great deal of compassion and respect for the people he serves.”

Kathy Burns wrote that Krom always goes above and beyond every day.

“He is hard-working, dedicated, caring, knowledgable, patient, sincere and compassionate — and the list goes on,” Burns said. “He does so much behind the scenes that never gets noticed, and not because he has to but because he wants to.”

He never asks or looks for any recognition either, Burns said in her nomination.

“I like the people that we serve,” Krom explains. “I do things that no one has any clue that I’m doing because I just like it. If I didn’t have the warming center and the people

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The Diocese of Norwich Moves Ahead With Preparations for the V Encuentro

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he Diocese of Norwich is on track with its preparation to launch the V Encuentro in the parishes with Hispanic Ministry.

It is estimated that some 5,000 parishes across the nation will take part in this ground-breaking missionary experience. The process will begin at the parish level in Lent 2017 with 5 weeks of reflection, consultation, and missionary activity. In each of the parishes, teams have been prepared to guide the process of promotion and formation of small-group reflection, each session ending with a missionary activity. The next step is to prepare the facilitators of these groups. That training will take place during the month of

January. Participating parishes will have 15-25 facilitators. The goal is to involve as many parishioners as possible, who will then go out into the neighborhoods as missionary disciples.

The theme of the V Encuentro, Missionary Disciples: Witnesses of God’s Love, comes directly from paragraph #24 of The Joy of the Gospel, Pope Francis' call to the Church to become a community of missionary disciples who take the first step in reaching out to others with the good news of the Gospel. The V Encuentro takes up Pope Francis' challenge for the parish to become “an evangelizing community that gets involved by word and deed in people’s daily lives,” for our parishioners to

become evangelizers who take on “the smell of the sheep”. It will challenge us to boldly step out of our comfort zone and reach out to others, in the words of Pope Francis, “to seek those who have fallen away, stand at the crossroads and welcome the outcast.”

The V Encuentro is not just about Hispanic Ministry, it is about all of us, individually and collectively, becoming willing to “devote the necessary effort to advancing along the path of a pastoral and missionary conversion which cannot leave things as they presently are.” (paragraph #25 The Joy of the Gospel).

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a Diócesis de Norwich está al día con los preparativos para iniciar el V Encuentro en las parroquias con el Ministerio Hispano. Se estima que unas 5,000 parroquias a lo largo de la nación van a participar en este gran evento misionero. El proceso se iniciará a nivel de la parroquia en la cuaresma del 2017 con 5 semanas de reflexión, consulta y actividad misionera. En cada parroquia, se han preparado equipos para guiar el proceso de promoción y formación de los pequeños grupos de reflexión.

El próximo paso es preparar los

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Father Tumicki said that rather than having a Mass and rededication ceremony in light of the damage, the church will host a special Mass to bless the replacement statue and Easter candle as soon as it receives them. He could not estimate how long that will take.

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According to the Pastor, Very Reverend Ted Tumicki, someone broke in sometime between Christmas Day and 9 a.m.

Wednesday, when the damage was discovered.

He said the vandals shattered glass in the side entrance door, damaged the door to the sacristy, broke the Easter (Paschal) candle and two pedestals, and smashed the statue of St. Catherine.

The vandals also stole the cross that sat on the tabernacle, tore from a wall an icon of the Trinity, and rummaged through most of the closets in the church and church hall,

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January 2017

The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, Bishop of Norwich, visited St. Michael School, Pawcatuck, spending time with each class.

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Shown here with the Eight Grade class. Photo-left is homeroom teacher Kim Brennan and photo-right Principal Doris Messina. Students and staff shared in the cheerful Christmas spirit as they welcomed Bishop Cote.

St. Joseph School, North Grosvenordale

Ms. Sharon Briere, Principal 26 Main St., N. Grosvenordale, CT Phone: 860-923-2090 www.schoolofstjoseph.org

St. Mary-St. Joseph School, Willimantic

Ms. Abby Demars, Principal 35 Valley St, Willimantic, CT Phone: 860-423-8479 www.smsjschool.org

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Mrs. Doris Messina, Principal

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St. Patrick School, Norwich

Mrs. Catherine Reed, Principal 211 Broadway, Norwich, CT Phone: 860-889-4174 www.st-patrickschoolnorwich.org

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Mother Elaine Moorcroft, SCMC, Principal 42 Maynard Road, Old Saybrook, CT Phone: 860-388-0849 www.saintjohnschoolos.com

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St. John Paul II School, Middletown Dr. Darryl Bullock, Principal 87 South Main St, Middletown, CT Phone: 860-347-2978 www.jpii.org

Sr. Mary Patrick Mulready, SCMC, Principal

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St. Joseph School, New London

Ms. Marianne Cote, Principal 25 Squire St, New London, CT Phone: 860-442-1720 www.sjsnl.com

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Dear Friends,

Thank you for supporting Catholic education in our diocese and please continue to pray for our important ministry.

Henry Fiore, Jr. God Bless,

Superintendent of Schools St. Bernard School, Uncasville

Mr. Donald Macrino, Headmaster 1593 Norwich-New London Tpke, Uncasville, CT Phone: 860-848-1271 www.saint-bernard.com

Academy of the Holy Family, Baltic

Mother Mary David, SCMC, Principal 54 West Main St, Baltic, CT Phone: 860-822-9272 www.ahfbaltic.org

Marianapolis Preparatory School, Thompson

Mr. Joseph Hanrahan, Headmaster 26 Chase Road, Thompson, CT Phone: 860-923-9565 www.marinapolis.org

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Xavier High School, Middletown

Brother Brian Davis, C.F.X, Headmaster Mr. Brendan Donohue, Principal 181 Randolph Road, Middletown, CT Phone: 860-346-7735 www.xavierhighschool.org

January 2017

Since 1974, the United States has been celebrating Catholic education annually through National Catholic Schools Week. This year, it runs from January 29-February 4. We have quite a bit to celebrate, as we provide high academic standards in an atmosphere enriched by the Gospel values of Our Lord, Jesus Christ.

I urge you all to visit our Open Houses and consider a Catholic education for your children. Our schools are safe schools which produce such amazing graduates with a strong moral compass.

Prayer is a part of our daily life, and community service really demonstrates how we place our faith into action.

Our Catholic High Schools: The Academy of the Holy Family, Marianapolis Preparatory, Mercy High School, St. Bernard’s, and Xavier High School usually hold Open House earlier in the school year, and have admissions directors whom you may contact for visits to the schools.

Please visit their websites and the schools and see firsthand why our high schoolers are admitted to the best colleges in our Country.

Traditionally, Pre-Kindergarten to Grade 8 schools will hold Open Houses during Catholic Schools Week. I encourage you to consider Catholic education and see our students as they learn and pray together. You are not limited to Open House times to visit our schools, as they will accommodate you accordingly. The Open House dates and times for these schools are as follows: Sacred Heart School, Groton: Wednesday, February 1, 6pm Sacred Heart School, Taftville: Tuesday, January 31, 9-11am and Thursday, March 2, 6-8pm St. Edward School, Stafford Springs: Thursday, February 2, 6-7pm St. James School, Danielson: Sunday, January 29 after 9 am Mass St. John School, Old Saybrook: Sunday, January 29, 10:15-12:15 St. John Paul II School, Middletown: Sunday, January 29, 12pm-2pm St. Joseph School, Baltic: Sunday, January 29, 11am-12pm & Wed. Feb.1, 9-11:30am St. Joseph School, New London: Tuesday, January 31, 9-11:30am, 1-2pm St. Joseph School, North Grosvernordale: Sunday, January 29, 8:30am-12pm St. Mary-St. Joseph School, Willimantic: Sunday, January 29, 10am-1pm St. Michael School, Pawcatuck: Wednesday, February 1, 9am-11am, Thursday, Feb. 2, 5-7pm St. Patrick Cathedral School, Norwich: Sunday, January 29, 9am-12pm

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Putnam’s Troop 21 Senior Patrol Leader earns Scouting’s highest rank

Photo by John D. Ryan, FDD Chancellor, Cargill Council 64 Knights of Columbus Putnam’s Troop 21 Senior Patrol Leader Richard L. Labonte, Jr., is pictured here hammering a nail during his Eagle Scout Service Project, while Scoutmaster Peter A. Lombardo looks on. Beginning in March, LaBonte led a team of 16 Scouts and adult volunteers on a four-month project to assemble a new, 40-foot, wooden footbridge over Creamery Brook, at the Donald Francis Recreation Park on Route 6 in Brooklyn. On Wednesday, December 21, 16-year-oldJan17FCC LaBonte1/5/2017 completed the Page final1requirements and earned Scouting’s highest rank, the Eagle Scout Award.

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Blessing the Nativity Crèche Norwich -- December 23, 2016 The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, Bishop of Norwich, joined by the entire student body of St. Patrick Cathedral School, blessed the nativity crèche on the front lawn of the school as, by tradition, the baby Jesus was placed in the manger, following a pre-Christmas Eve Mass at the Cathedral attended by all students.

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Wreaths Across America 2016

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n December 13th, the Wreaths Across America veteran’s parade rolled into the Saint Bernard School parking lot. They were enthusiastically welcomed by flagwaving students, staff, faculty and honored guests.

The 11:30 a.m. visit was a planned stop for the convoy of 16 semi-trailer trucks, buses, and other auxiliary vehicles making its annual pilgrimage from Maine to Arlington National Cemetery.

Ladder trucks from the Montville and Mohegan Tribal fire departments suspended a large American flag to honor the fallen soldiers represented by the 150,000 wreaths being transported in the tractor trailers.

Senior Sam Britner and freshman James Babinski played Echo Taps on their trumpets, and the Rev. Jeffrey Ellis, a 1995 Saint Bernard alumnus, blessed the wreaths and convoy.

The SBS drum line led guests into the auditorium for a short ceremony.

Special recognition was given to our Nation’s veterans and the 150 WAA volunteers making the journey to Arlington to lay wreaths on veterans’ graves. During the program, the SBS choir sang the National Anthem and “My Country Tis of Thee,” and the school band performed the themes of our Armed Forces. The Color Guard from the U.S. Coast Guard Drills & Ceremonies Division presented the colors.

Montville Mayor Ronald K. McDaniel, Montville State Rep.

Mike France, and Col. Ret. William Shea ’80 offered remarks, as well as Congressman Joe Courtney - the keynote speaker.

Congressman Courtney called southeastern Connecticut “the most patriotic part of the state”.

“Safe journeys for the rest of your trip down to Washington, D.C., and thank you for just this brilliant, simple idea that unifies us as a country at a time when there’s a lot of temptation to be …..divided about what’s really important ,” he said.

A State House Wreath, which represents all the local Gold Star

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on Currey was a 30-year-old graduate student when he cut down the world’s oldest tree.

A geography student at the University of North Carolina, Don’s ambition was to better understand Ice-Age glaciology by examining bristlecone trees. And so he found himself in Nevada in the summer of 1964 amid a grove of bristlecones on Wheeler Peak Mountain when his tree corer got stuck in a tree.

Since it would not come out, a park ranger helped him remove his instrument by cutting down the tree. Don began to count its rings and eventually realized, much to his dismay, that he had felled a tree that was 4,844 years old – what was then considered the oldest tree on the planet.

The tragic mistake advanced geographers’ understanding of longevity, which had been correlated with size of tree, like the Redwoods of California. Ice-burnished bristlecone pines, with their storybook swirls on gnarled limbs – trees that peak at just 20 feet – are, it turns out, some of the oldest trees in the world.

They’re able to live so long because, even if a large portion of a bristlecone is damaged by erosion or fire, small strips of living bark, which one researcher dubbed “life lines,” can function and keep the tree alive.

A strip of bark that might be only two inches wide can support all of the tree’s foliage.

Adversity begets longevity, analysis suggested: The severe conditions the bristlecone endured over time actually helped extend its lifespan.

As I look ahead to 2017 and that which has never been, I’ve been thinking of all the history that has come before me – both as a Catholic and a member of my family. The communion of saints feels more alive to me than ever before – almost hauntingly so, yet comforting – the canonized ones and my ancestors, stories of resilience and grace and the life lines that sustained.

I’m resolving to study them this year and glean their stories and songs.

I want to capture oral histories of those still living – the kind where I get

out of the way and let them talk – and to read up on those no longer here.

Young adulthood may bring a sense of invincibility, novelty and thrill, but lately, I’m feeling blessed and strengthened by my history. I want to dig deeper.

To begin, I’m reading Robert Ellsberg’s book “The Saints’ Guide To Happiness,” which frames that pursuit, an unalienable American right, in spiritual terms, showing how the saints’ capacity for goodness and love, ultimately, made them happy.

My biggest takeaway is the book’s message about learning to see and learning to love. “Our whole business in this life,” St. Augustine wrote, “is to restore to health the eyes of the heart, whereby God may be seen.”

That’s what happened to Thomas Merton, Ellsberg recounts, when he

was on an errand in the shopping district of Louisville, Ky., at the corner of Fourth and Walnut. “I was suddenly overwhelmed with the realization that I loved all those people, that they were mine and I theirs…,” Merton wrote. “It was as if I suddenly saw the secret beauty of their hearts, the depths of their hearts, where neither sin nor desire nor selfknowledge can reach, the core of their reality, the person that each one is in God’s eyes.”

I tear up when I read this passage.

What more could we hope for in the new year than to share in that vision?

Christina Capecchi is a freelance writer from Inver Grove Heights, Minn., and the editor of SisterStory.org.

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VATICAN CITY -hether the New Year will be good or not depends on us choosing to do good each day, Pope Francis said.

"That is how one builds peace, saying 'no' to hatred and violence -- with action -- and 'yes' to fraternity and reconciliation," he said Jan. 1, which the Church marks as the feast of Mary, Mother of God and as World Peace Day. Speaking to the some 50,000 pilgrims gathered in St. Peter's Square for the first noon Angelus of 2017, the pope referred to his peace day message in which he asked people to adopt the "style" of nonviolence for building a politics for peace.

Lamenting the brutal act of terrorism that struck during a night of "well-wishes and hope" in Istanbul, the pope offered his prayers for the entire nation of Turkey as well as those hurt and killed. A gunman opened fire during a New Year's Eve celebration at a popular nightclub early Jan. 1, killing at least 39 people and wounding at least 70 more.

"I ask the Lord to support all people of good will who courageously roll up their sleeves in order to confront the scourge of terrorism and this bloodstain that is enveloping the world with the shadow of fear and confusion," he said.

Earlier in the day, the pope spoke of how maternal tenderness, hope and self-sacrifice were the "strongest antidote" to the selfishness, indifference and "lack of openness" in the world today.

The pope said he learned so much about unconditional love, hope and belonging from seeing mothers who never stop embracing, supporting and fighting for what is best for their children incarcerated in prisons, ill in hospitals, enslaved by drugs or suffering from war.

"Where there is a mother, there is unity, there is belonging, belonging as children," he said.

Just like all mothers of the world, Mary, Mother of God, "protects us from the corrosive disease of being 'spiritual orphans,'" that is when the soul feels "motherless and lacking the tenderness of God, when the sense of belonging to a family, a

people, a land, to our God, grows dim."

"This attitude of spiritual orphanhood is a cancer that silently eats away at and debases the soul," which soon "forgets that life is a gift we have received -- and owe to others -- a gift we are called to share in this common home," he said.

A "fragmented and divided culture" makes things worse, he said, leading to feelings of emptiness and loneliness.

"The lack of physical and not virtual contact is cauterizing our hearts and making us lose the capacity for tenderness and wonder, for pity and compassion," he said, as well as making us "forget the importance of playing, of singing, of a smile, of rest, of gratitude."

Remembering that Jesus handed his mother over to us "makes us smile once more as we realize that we are a people, that we belong" and can grow, that we are not just mere objects to "consume and be consumed," that we are not "merchandise" to be exchanged or inert receptacles for information.

"We are children, we are family, we are God's people."

Mary shows that humility and tenderness aren't virtues of the weak, but of the strong, and that we don't have to mistreat others in order to feel important, he said.

As the year ends, he said in his homily, he asked people to reflect on how God has been present in their lives and to thank the Lord for all signs of his generosity, "seen in countless way through the witness of those people who quietly took a risk."

Gazing upon the manger, we remember how Jesus "wanted to be close to all those who felt lost, demeaned, hurt, discouraged, inconsolable and frightened. Close to all those who in their bodies carry the burden of separation and loneliness, so that sin, shame, hurt, despair and exclusion would not have the final word in the lives of his sons and daughters."

His sacrifice and love challenges people "not to give up on anything or anyone," and to find the strength to forge ahead "without complaining or being resentful, without closing in on ourselves or seeking a means of escape, looking for shortcuts in our own interest."

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