Four County Catholic October 2019

FOUR COUNTY

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Respect Life Month

Volume 31 • Number 9 • OCTOBER 2019 SERVING THE COUNTIES OF MIDDLESEX • NEW LONDON • TOLLAND • WINDHAM, CT & FISHERS ISLAND, NY

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Editor's Note:

I recently celebrated my one-year anniversary as editor of the Four County Catholic. It’s been a busy year filled with decisions and opportunities.

The first decision I was faced with is one that my predecessors also struggled with — in the space of 32 pages, what articles and pictures do we choose to publish and what, unfortunately, gets excluded?

Fortunately, those decisions were made a little easier by the relaunch of the NorwichDiocese.org website onto a new platform in August of 2018. This new technology allows for the publishing and archiving of articles, photo galleries and video galleries online.

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LET FAITH LEAD THE WAY Christ Our Hope: In Every Season of Life

John 10:10

My dear sisters and brothers in Christ, Each October, the Catholic Church in the United States celebrates Respect Life Month to proclaim the immeasurable value of every person from conception to natural death. The theme this year is, Christ Our Hope: In Every Season of Life. We live in a world that needs hope. Jesus Christ, the incarnate Son of God is the source of our hope, and as St. Paul tells us in his letter to the Romans, "hope does not disappoint because the love of God has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit that has been given to us" (Romans 5:5).

The Catechism of the Catholic Church (CCC 1700) affirms that "the dignity of the human person is rooted in his creation in the image and likeness of God." This has been a core belief in the church from the very beginning. In Psalm 139:13-14 the psalmist proclaims, "You formed my inmost being: you knit me in my mother's womb. I praise you, because I am wonderfully made; wonderful are your ways!"

This letter proposes the dignity of the human person "in every season of life," from conception

to natural death. It seems that life, at its most vulnerable stages - from the unborn child to the elderly- is under attack. Laws expanding abortion rights and physician assisted suicide reflect a culture that has lost hope.

Pope Francis, in his book On Hope, highlights the importance of Abraham. He says "Saint Paul, in Romans, reminds us of the great figure of Abraham to show us the way of faith and hope. Of him the Apostle writes, 'He believed, hoping against all hope, and so became the father of many nations' (Romans 4:18)." Elsewhere, Pope Francis writes: "Hope opens new horizons, making us capable of dreaming what is not even imaginable. This hope invites us to enter the darkness of an uncertain future and to walk through and into the light. It is beautiful, the virtue of hope; it gives us great strength to walk in life."

Pope Francis invites us to accompany people on the margins of society - the frightened pregnant mother who has lost hope, the migrant crossing the border in search of a better life, the elderly person full of pain and facing a terminal diagnosis. Each of these people need us to be witnesses of hope - in

every season of life. As Saint John Paul II noted in the encyclical The Gospel of Life: "The Gospel of Life is for the whole of human society. To be actively pro-life is to contribute to the renewal of society through the promotion of the common good. It is impossible to further the common good without acknowledging and defending the right to life, upon which all the other inalienable rights of individuals are founded and from which they develop."

We need to be ardent defenders of the right to life as we promote the common good. Thank you for bringing hope to those in need and for all you do to foster a culture of life in our Diocese.

Sincerely yours in Christ,

Michael R. Cote Bishop of Norwich

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“The thief comes only to steal, slaughter, and destroy.

I have come that they may have life and have it abundantly.�

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THE MOST REVEREND

MICHAEL R. COTE, D.D.

BISHOP OF NORWICH

LET FAITH LEAD THE WAY

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Cristo Nuestra Esperanza: En cada Etapa de la Vida

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"El ladrón no viene más que a robar, matar y destruir. Yo he venido para que tengan vida y la tengan en abundancia."

JUAN 10:10

Mis queridos hermanos y hermanas en Cristo, La Iglesia Católica de los Estados Unidos cada octubre, celebra el Mes del Respeto a la Vida para proclamar el valor inconmensurable de cada persona desde la concepción hasta la muerte natural. El tema de este año es Cristo, nuestra esperanza: en cada etapa de la vida.

Vivimos en un mundo que necesita esperanza.

Jesucristo, el Hijo encarnado de Dios es la fuente de nuestra esperanza, y como San Pablo nos dice en su Carta a los Romanos, "la esperanza no decepciona porque el amor de Dios ha sido derramado en nuestros corazones a través del Espíritu Santo que nos ha sido dado” (Romanos 5: 5).

El Catecismo de la Iglesia Católica (CCC 1700) afirma que "la dignidad de la persona humana está enraizada en su creación a imagen y semejanza de Dios". Esta ha sido una creencia central en la iglesia desde el principio. En el Salmo 139: 13-14 el salmista proclama: "Porque tú mis riñones has formado, me has tejido en el vientre de mi madre; yo te doy gracias por tantas maravillas: prodigio soy, prodigios son tus obras.

Mi alma conocías cabalmente," Esta carta propone la dignidad de la persona humana "en cada etapa de la vida", desde la

concepción hasta la muerte natural. Parece que la vida, en sus etapas más vulnerables, desde el feto hasta los ancianos, está bajo ataque. Las leyes que amplían los derechos de aborto y el suicidio asistido por un médico reflejan una cultura que ha perdido la esperanza.

El Papa Francisco, en su libro “En Él Sólo La Esperanza”, destaca la importancia de Abraham. Él dice: "San Pablo, en Romanos, nos recuerda la gran figura de Abraham para mostrarnos el camino de la fe y la esperanza.

De él el Apóstol escribe: "Él Creyó, esperando contra toda esperanza, y así se convirtió en el padre de muchas naciones.' (Romanos 4:18) ".

En otra parte, el Papa Francisco escribe: "La esperanza abre nuevos horizontes, haciéndonos capaces de soñar lo que ni siquiera es imaginable. Esta esperanza nos invita a entrar en la oscuridad de un futuro incierto y caminar y salir a la luz. La virtud de esperanza; es hermosa, nos da una gran fuerza para caminar en la vida ".

El Papa Francisco nos invita a acompañar a las personas al margen de la sociedad: la madre embarazada asustada que ha perdido la esperanza, el migrante que cruza la frontera en busca de una vida mejor, la persona mayor llena de dolor y que se enfrenta a un diagnóstico

terminal. Cada una de estas personas necesita que seamos testigos de la esperanza, en cada etapa de la vida. San Juan Pablo II lo señaló en la encíclica El Evangelio de la vida: "El Evangelio de la vida es para toda la sociedad humana. Ser activamente provida es contribuir a la renovación de la sociedad a través de la promoción del bien común. Es imposible promover el bien común sin reconocer y defender el derecho a la vida, sobre el cual se basan todos los demás derechos inalienables de las personas y de los cuales se desarrollan".

Necesitamos ser fervientes defensores del derecho a la vida al promover el bien común.

Gracias por traer esperanza a aquellos en necesidad y por todo lo que hace para fomentar una cultura de vida en nuestra Diócesis.

Sinceramente en el amor de Cristo

Michael R. Cote Obispo de Norwich

We pray for men to answer the call to be instruments of God’s grace as priests of Jesus Christ.

Deacon Michael Bovino 4th Year Theology Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

Mr. Normand Laflamme 3rd Year Theology Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

Mr. Larry Barile 3rd Year Theology Pope St. John XXIII Weston, Massachusetts

Vocations Corner Father Gregory Galvin, Director of Priestly Vocations

Signs of fall’s arrival are popping up everywhere. The leaves are changing colors and cooler air has arrived.

Before we know it, we’ll prepare to cook a turkey with all the fixings as we visit our relatives and give thanks to God for our many blessings of faith, family and country.

Three years ago, I wrote about the single greatest thing each of us can and should do for the spiritual health of our families, our friends, ourselves and our diocese: to pray for vocations for the Norwich Diocese to both the priesthood and consecrated religious life. Prayer is where our work must begin and end.

Fall is here, and life has quickened from the slower, more relaxing months of summer. School students and seminarians returned to their studies within the past month.

At the time, I quoted Bishop Thomas Daly of Spokane, Washington. He was asked about the most important thing a diocese can do to promote vocations.

Bishop Daly’s response: “It’s not so much about programs, but prayer. I ask people to pray for vocations and stressed the need for adoration of the Blessed Sacrament. God will not give us the priests we need if we don’t put the Eucharist in the center of our lives.

It all begins and ends with prayer.”

While these changes take place, the Diocese of Norwich and Bishop Cote have remained consistent in offering monthly prayers for vocations to the priesthood and consecrated life.

Our parishes recently received our Seminarian/Monthly Holy Hour poster. The poster shows what our prayers as a diocese are producing.

We have 10 seminarians, and they are happily preparing to serve God with their lives.

Keep praying for them, because they are also beginning to touch the hearts of others who will say yes to the Lord.

Join us for the Eucharistic Holy Hours listed on the poster. Take a picture of it so you always have the schedule with you. Come every month. Pray every time you go to Mass for these men and for the young ladies responding to God’s call to religious life. We still need to continue to beg the Harvest Master to send laborers to take care of the harvest.

MR. ALEXANDER PANDOLFE 2nd Year Pre-Theology Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

Mr. Julian Cuervo 2nd Year Pre-Theology Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

Mr. Eric Hosmer 2nd Year Pre-Theology Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

Mr. Jacob Ramos 2nd YearTheology Mount St. Mary’s, Emmitsburg, MD

MONTHLY

Holy Hour for Vocations

Mr. Dharen Brochero 1st Year Theology Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

OCTOBER 17th

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The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, leads the Holy Hour

Ruben Sanchez 1st Year Theology Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

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Our Lady of Sorrows, Essex 6-7pm

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Mark Johnson 1st Year Pre-Theology Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

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OFFICE FOR SAFE ENVIRONMENTS The Diocesan Policy Review Board has recently revised the following diocesan policies: Pastoral Code of Conduct, Sexual Misconduct Policy, Comprehensive Screening Policy, and Electronic Communications, Internet, and Computer Use Policy. Copies are available from your parish/school office, Child Advocate, on the diocesan web site norwichdiocese.org/Find/Diocesan-Offices/SafeEnvironments , on Praesidium’s Armatus program, and from the Office for Safe Environments at (860-848-2237 ext. 212 -or- ose@norwichdiocese.net).

As always, thank you for your continued efforts in protecting our children, youth, and vulnerable adults, and those who minister to them.

Seek Justice – Be a Blessing

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Karen Caise, Director Office for Safe Environments

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“The rich man in Jesus parable could not save the world but he could’ve helped Lazarus. May all of us see and recognize one another–– that we may extend God‘s loving hand of love, mercy, justice, and service to all those we see, those entrusted to our care. May we be a blessing as God has blessed us.”

The mass is celebrated annually for all members of the legal profession, regardless of religious affiliation, to mark the opening of the judicial year.

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St. Mary Cemetery, Norwich

An inspiring response to the growing popularity of above ground entombment.

A reminder of the eternal love, fellowship and faith that we share.

The Chapel Mausoleum provides loved ones and friends indoor visitation in a peaceful and holy setting.

All within a faithfully maintained Catholic cemetery.

As people of faith, our burial places share an important meaning for us, since they are sacred places.

Bishop Cote celebrating Memorial Day Mass at St. Mary’s Mausoleum, Norwich

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Praying Your Goodbyes If you are grieving the loss of a loved one, join us for one of two upcoming workshops and learn ways to grow through the experience of your loss Thursday, November 7, 9am-Noon St. Sebastian Parish Hall, 155 Washington St., Middletown or Saturday, November 9, 1-4pm. St. Mary Church Hall, 70 Central Ave., Norwich Both workshops will include time for personal reflection, prayer and journaling and tips on how to navigate the upcoming holidays Both workshops are free, but registration is required.

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Mass Honors Educators of All Faiths

Photos by Stephanie Gallow

By Ryan Blessing

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eachers both past and present within the diocese were honored Sunday, September 8, with a special Mass for Educators at the Cathedral of St. Patrick in Norwich.

The 24th annual educators' Mass, celebrated by the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D, also marked an observance of the 18th anniversary of the September 11, 2001 attacks on the United States.

"Let us rededicate ourselves to

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our mission as parents, teachers, administrators and support staff in education, confirming and strengthening each other's efforts in our common commitment and shared ministry," the Bishop said in the rededication ceremony.

"I thank you for your dedication and generosity to God who is the Teacher of teachers," he said before leading the Prayer for Those Who Work in Education.

The Reverend Peter J. Langevin,

Chancellor of the Diocese of Norwich, was the homilist.

Mass Committee member Anna Alfiero carried the Memorial Book, which bears the names of deceased educators and support staff remembered during the Mass. Since the year 2000, the Mass Committee has remembered those of all faiths who have passed away.

Committee member Frank Jacaruso carried the banner, which symbolizes the spectrum of life to which educators are

called to minister. It is the 20th anniversary of the use of the processional banner.

Yvette Jacaruso and granddaughter Sophia Hamel, a student at the Cathedral of St. Patrick, sang the Communion Hymn.

Additional photos of the Mass for those dedicated to Education can be viewed at NorwichDiocese.org/Photo-Gallery.

All Souls Prayer: November 2 is the Commemoration of All of the Faithful Departed, or All Souls.

On this day, we pray that all those who have died— our loved ones, and also those people around the world who we will never meet— through the mercy of God, will rest in peace.

Merciful Father, On this day, we are called to remember those who have died, Particularly those who have died in the past year, And pray for their joyful reunion with you, their loving creator. As your son taught us to call the stranger neighbor, our fallen are many— Names we will never know, Voices we have never heard, In lands we may never visit, Yet brothers and sisters all.

And so we pray.

For victims of war, caught in the crossfires of conflicts we could not quell, for soldiersand civilians, adults and children, we pray …

Grant eternal rest, O Lord.

For those migrants who have died seeking a haven where they hoped to find safety and opportunity for themselves and for their families, we pray …

Grant eternal rest, O Lord.

For victims of hunger, denied their share in the bounty you have placed before us, we pray …

Grant eternal rest, O Lord.

For those refugees seeking asylum from war, who died in a land that was not

Grant eternal rest, O Lord.

For victims of emergencies and calamities everywhere, who died amid chaos and confusion, we pray …

Grant eternal rest, O Lord.

Lord, as you command, we reach out to the fallen.

We call on you on behalf of those we could not reach this year.

You raised your son from the dead that all may share in his joyful resurrection.

In Jesus' name, Amen

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By Gina Foster

Hand in Hand with all God’s Children is lived every day by the parishioners of our Diocese. They are dedicated members of their communities, contributing their financial support to our ministries as well as their time as volunteers. We are so grateful to our donors and appreciate all of their support to this year’s Annual Catholic Appeal. Your helping hands reach much further than you may realize.

Not only do your ACA dollars benefit vocations and provide education for clergy and laity in all aspects of sacramental worship, but they also, for example, provide community members with a warm nutritious meal, which is so important any time of the year.

Your ACA donations also assist those suffering with mental illness issues.

According to the National Alliance

on Mental Illness, one in five adults experience mental illness in a given year. In addition, an estimated 26 percent of homeless adults living in shelters experience some form of mental illness. Your ACA donation in even its smallest measure can provide help to Catholic Charities, St. Vincent de Paul Place, Norwich and St. Vincent de Paul, Middletown, as they all work to help those facing mental and behavioral challenges.

In order to assist our many ACA supported ministries, whether they are educating the youth in faith, or providing families with emergency basic needs, just a few of the ways our ministries help our friends and neighbors, we rely on all of our parishioners to donate. Mary Ellen Mahoney, Executive Director, Office of Development, reflecting on the

importance of parishioner participation in the ACA, said, "We know that in order to fund our ministries to allow them to continue to impact the most people possible, it takes all of our support. The Annual Catholic Appeal provides the vehicle by which we can all do our part to help keep our ministries strong. Last year 24 percent of our parishioners compassionately donated to the ACA. This year we are hoping to increase this number and are asking everyone who is able, to make a donation no matter how small. As

Thank you to all who have donated thus far to the 2019 Annual Catholic Appeal, which now stands at $2,398,058 - 86 percent of our goal. We currently have 21percent participation and are striving to have close to 100 percent of our parishioners donate this year. If you haven’t given to this year’s ACA, there is still time. If all our parishioners make just a small contribution, together we can reach our goal. All donations are very much appreciated.

To watch the ACA video and make a donation please visit norwichdiocesedevelopment.org or call the Development Office at 860886-1928. There are several ways to donate, and the office can also assist with matching gifts.

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“We love our neighbor as being made in the image of God and as an object of His love.”

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“Jesus did MANY OTHER SIGNS in the presence of His disciples that are not written in this Book. But these are written that you (your name), may come to BELIEVE that JESUS IS THE MESSIAH, the SON of GOD, that through this BELIEF, you (your name) may have LIFE (ETERNAL LIFE) in HIS NAME!” John 20:30-31 Masses of Healing and Hope October 14th & 28th – November 11th & 25th Spiritual Renewal Center Individual prayer and anointing

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atholic Charities held its 14th Annual Golf Tournament at Fox Hopyard Golf Club in East Haddam and it was one of the best tournaments on record! With 94 golfers in attendance, Bishop Michael R. Cote, Monsignor Les Janik, Father Kevin Reilly, Father Greg Galvin participated in the tournament.

All participants enjoyed an amazing catered lunch sponsored by A Beautiful Company and Cahill & Associates Financial Services, LLC, before brief remarks from Bishop Cote and taking to the course.

Bishop Cote thanked everyone for supporting Catholic Charities and the work that Ed Tessman and his staff do every day, and how the support for this tournament grows every year and this year seems to be the largest one ever.

Over 40 raffle prizes were drawn which included a golf putter, private golf lesson from a PGA pro, golf for four at two different clubs, bottles of wine, an Amazon Echo and a Sonos home sound system. In addition, the top three teams were awarded gift certificates to spend at the Fox Hopyard Pro Shop. Prizes were also awarded for the Longest Drive for men and women, sponsored by St. Mary

Church of the Visitation in Clinton and Closest-to-the-Pin, sponsored by Charter Oak Federal Credit Union, Waller, Smith & Palmer, P.C., and Brown Jacobson, P.C. All participants received an embossed golf shoe bag, filled with items to make the day of golfing more enjoyable, donated by the New London law firm of Conway, Londregan, Sheehan, & Monaco, P.C. The success of the event was due to an outpouring of support from local businesses, golfers throughout Eastern Connecticut and many parishes throughout our Diocese.

Corporate sponsors included ShopRite Stores and the Capano Family, Conway, Londregan, Sheehan & Monaco. P.C., Knights of Columbus Supreme Council, Derek S. Pirruccello CFP Wealth Management Advisor Merrill Lynch, Mystic Aquarium, RAD Computing, MJ Sullivan, and James Carboni Plumbing & Heating.

Plans for Catholic Charities’ 15th Annual Golf Tournament, scheduled for Wednesday, September 16, 2020, are already underway!

Charismatic Retreat – Springfield Diocese Friday - Sunday, October 25th – 27th Holy Family Retreat Center, West Hartford For info call Lorraine Bernier, 413-547-0118 Presented by Fr. Ray Introvigne & Judith Hughes Healing Mass and Healing Service Sunday, October 27th Mass 1-2pm, and continued healing service St. Thomas the Apostle Chapel 872 Farmington Ave., Hartford Prayer teams, individual prayer and anointing All Hallow Prayer Group Mass Wednesday, November 6th at 6:30pm All Hallow Church Hall, Moosup Individual prayer and anointing Healing and Freedom (Unbound) Conference Saturday, November 9th 9-4:30pm.

Must call to register, 860-887-0702 (Limited) Spiritual Renewal Center

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Ride to Rebuild 2019 Visits St. Patrick School Students in Norwich

By Ryan Blessing

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small team from Outreach to Haiti took part in a five-day, 337-mile bike ride, touching five of the six New England states and climbing more than 13,000 feet. The ride started Monday, September 16, with the goal of raising awareness and funds to support the mission in Haiti.

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On the morning of Sept. 19, the riders visited the Cathedral of St. Patrick in Norwich, and were greeted by students from St. Patrick Cathedral School. Joining them were the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, Bishop of Norwich and Outreach to Haiti Executive Director Susan Wallace.

The riders this year were Tom Campbell, Kevin and Jim Hubert, Ron and Emily Paine and Clark Judge. “It was a cold but good ride,�

Campbell said after greeting the children in Norwich. The team posed for photos, gave the children highfives, and chatted with Bishop Cote and Director Wallace.

The ride started at Kittery, Maine, and made its way down into and through New Hampshire, passed Boston, headed into northwestern Rhode Island and ended by winding through the eastern and central parts of Connecticut. The riders also visited Mercy High School in Middletown and St Patrick's in Farmington before ending on September 20.

The specific goal of this year's ride was to again raise money for the rebuilding effort in Haiti.

Construction of the Outreach Center is well underway.

as more robust plans to protect further against earthquakes, has increased the cost of the structure and additional fund-raising is needed.

Outreach to Haiti has raised most of the money for the building, but increasing construction costs, as well

This is the fifth annual bike ride. In the first four years, Outreach to Haiti raised almost $70,000.

The bike ride was planned as a "virtual trip" across Haiti. The distance chosen for the trip is the distance from Jeremie on the West Coast of Haiti, through the capital city of Port-auPrince (where OTH is based) to CapHaitien on the North Coast.

You can donate by visiting outreachtohaiti.org/donation or by sending a check to Outreach to Haiti, 815 Boswell Ave., Norwich, CT 06360. For more information, call (860) 800-3601.

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29th Annual Blue Mass Honors Police from Many Departments

By Ryan Blessing

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he Reverend Monsignor Robert J. Romano was at Ground Zero in New York City on a daily basis, ministering to the needs of police officers immediately after the Sept. 11 attacks.

“Some people say 9/11 is over, that it’s history and happened 18 years ago,” Monsignor Romano, pastor of Our Lady of Guadalupe Church in Brooklyn, New York and NYPD Chaplain since 1998, said in his homily during the Diocese of Norwich's 29th annual Blue Mass on September 22nd at the Cathedral of St. Patrick in Norwich.

“I’m here to tell you that it’s not over. It’s alive and well because of the people we have lost subsequently since 9/11.”

That includes a total of 220 police, firefighters and others who helped recovery efforts at Ground Zero in the months afterward.

Police from Norwich, Groton, Hartford and as far as New York City were among those who attended the Blue Mass.

The Most Rev. Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, was the celebrant.

Monsignor Romano said that when he talks with law enforcement recruits preparing to graduate from their training academies, he tells them their job is a vocation.

“Your vocation is a very simple one. That is, to bring good to people – the good of the law – and to help them.”

The annual Blue Mass, he said, is a support to their fellow officers.

“And it is wonderful that Bishop Cote and all of you here remembers law enforcement officers every year, to remind them that they do live a vocation.”

The Mass also paid tribute to the 27 Connecticut police officers who have died in the line of duty since

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which began the current annual tradition. Over the years, the committee has grown to include representatives of state, local and federal law enforcement agencies.

The honorary chairperson of this year’s Mass was Naval Criminal Investigation Service Special Agent Leo Barron (1932-2019), a dedicated member of the Blue Mass Committee for more than 20 years.

VISIT NORWICHDIOCESE.ORG TO VIEW HIGHLIGHTS OF MONSIGNOR ROMANO’S HOMILY AND MORE PHOTOS FROM THE MASS.

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1991. This year marks the 20th anniversary of the line of duty death of officer Brian Aselton, of the East Hartford Police Department.

The Honor Guard bearing national, state and departmental flags included members of the Norwich and East Hartford Police Departments, as well as the Connecticut Department of Correction Pipes and Drum Corps.

The Blue Mass has its roots in the 1970s, when St. Michael Parish in Pawcatuck celebrated a special Mass for Stonington police officers.

A committee of diocesan priests planned a Mass for law enforcement officers in 1991,

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Church Bazaar

October 26

Annual Fair/Tag/Bake Sale Our Lady of Perpetual Help Church Quaker Hill 9am -2pm Fresh Polish babka & cinnamon bread, jewelry, books/records/DVDs, plants, huge hall of white elephant/household goods, toys/ games, seasonal items, pictures & frames, knick-knacks, baked goods, lunch.

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November 2

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Holiday Bazaar St. Patrick Church, East Hampton 9am-2pm Knick-knacks, china, holiday decor, stocking stuffers, linens, children’s books, toys, homemade goodies and jewelry.

November 2-3

Christmas Bazaar Our Lady of Lourdes Church, Gales Ferry 9am-7pm Handmade crafts, ornaments and Christmas decorations, baked goods, food, jewelry, basket raffles and religious goods. For more information contact Lori at 860-917-3128 mlbaron@sbcglobal.net.

November 8-9

Christmas Bazaar St. Luke Church, Ellington 5pm-8pm Crafts, country store, gift baskets, free face painting/balloon artist, attic treasures, baked goods, café, raffle and vendors. For more information contact Jane at 860-875-8552.

Christmas Bazaar St. Mary Church, Coventry 6-8pm Homemade crafts, jewelry, Christmas items, toys, knit items and more. Raffles and a bake sale; food available both days.

November 9

November 15

Ladies Guild Annual Craft Fair St. Bridget of Kildare Church, Moodus 9am-2pm Table runners, velvet pumpkins, pillows, jewelry, paintings, prints, and more, plus baked goods, a raffle, and food. For more information contact Marilyn at 860-250-3728 or mmeyers51@att.net.

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Holiday Bazaar St. Agnes Church, Niantic 9am - 2pm Vintage and costume jewelry; theme baskets; restaurant row, baked goods; attic treasures; silent auction. Additional information contact Sally at 860-739-4707; or sallyportugal@gmail.com.

November 12

Christmas Bazaar St. Mary Our Lady of the Rosary Church Jewett City 9am-3pm.

Crafted items, huge variety of vendors, food, Christmas decorations, used books, baked treats, silent auction, and much more. For more information email: columbiettesofjewettcity@gmail.com St. Theresa Guild - Harvest Fair St. Sebastian Church, Middletown 9am-2pm Handmade items and so much more Don’t miss our famous Italian cookie walk.

Great raffle, breakfast and lunch availablehandicap accessible- enter thru Broad Street entrance.

Olde Time Christmas Fair Andrew Church, Colchester 4-8pm Bake shop, handmade goods, kid's corner, crafters, baskets and more, Christmas gifts, teacup raffle, turkey dinner Friday.

For more information contact Barbara at barbgozzo@gmail.com

Christmas Bazaar St. Bernard’s Church, Rockville 4-8pm Lunch and dinner available. Craft items, household goods, toys, books, Christmas, collectables, jewelry and a bake sale.

November 16

Festival of Angels Fair St. Francis of Assisi Church, Middletown 9am - 3pm Crafts featuring hand-blown glass ornaments from Poland, baked goods, farmer's market, jewelry boutique, raffles, and a variety of local artisan vendors. For more information contact Sherrie at 860-346-4383.

Christmas Bazaar St. Mary Church, Stonington 9am – 2pm Christmas crafts and items, jewelry, fresh floral arrangements, handmade crochet and knitted items, baked goods, Portuguese sweet bread, soup and chili.

and Craft Fairs

November 22-23

December 6-7

December 7-8

Christmas Fair St. Lawrence Church, Killingworth 5-8pm Silent auction, gifts and gift baskets, basket raffle, evergreen decorations, holiday baked goods, homemade food specialties from our kitchen. For more information, visit stlawrencechurch.com.

Craft Fair St Edward Church, Stafford Springs 9am-2pm Local vendors selling Avon, honey, crafts, jewelry, food, thirty-one, pampered chef, wreaths and so much more. For more information contact Erica 860-214-1078 or email stedwardcf@gmail.com

November 23

Craft Fair St Edward Church, Stafford Springs 9am-2pm Local vendors selling Avon, honey, crafts, jewelry, food, thirty-one, pampered chef, wreaths and so much more. For more information contact Erica 860-214-1078 or email stedwardcf@gmail.com.

December 14

Sleigh Bells Ring Christmas Fair St. Maurice Church, Bolton 9am-3pm Raggedy Ann/Andy dolls, jams, salsa, pickles, Hand-knit items, “take-a-chance� booth, clothes for American Girl dolls, evergreen baskets, apple pies, photos with Santa. Over 40 crafters. Hot lunch.

December 7

Bake Sale & Craft Fair Saint John the Evangelist Church, Uncasville 9am - 3pm Handmade crafts including paintings, cards, holiday gifts items and much more. Huge bake sale. Lunch will be served. For more information Patti at 860-848-1257 or email stjh4@sbcglobal.net.

Ladies Guild Fair Church of St. Mary Church, Portland 9am - 2pm Crafts, jewelry, baked goods, tag sale items and cemetery crosses. Vendors featuring local honey, artwork and so much more.

Christmas Fair St. Peter Church, Higganum 9am - 3 pm Baked goods, antiques/collectibles, crafts, quilts, knitted items and fabulous Christmas and holiday wreaths and decorations. Complete luncheon menu served throughout the day.

Christmas Craft Fair St Philips Church, Ashford 9am-2pm 40 crafters, our kitchen will be serving soups and sandwiches plus perogies.

Snowflake Fair Sacred Heart Church, Norwichtown 9am - 2pm Themed basket raffles, 50/50, handmade gifts, baked goods, silent auction, cemetery boxes, white elephant table, food and so much more.

Holiday Craft / Vendor Fair Sacred Heart School Church, Taftville 9am-2pm Various crafters and direct sales vendors: Usbourne, Mary Kay, Swarovski Jewelry, Thirty-one bags, Perfectly Posh, various homemade items. Food and baked goods for sale and a raffle.

Holiday Craft & Vendor Fair St. Mary - St. Joseph School Church Willimantic 9am - 3pm Local vendors, beautifully crafted gift ideas, decor, jewelry, grinder sale, raffles and so much more.

Holiday Cookie Sale & Basket Raffle Our Lady of La Salette Church, Brooklyn 9am-1pm A large selection of homemade holiday cookies, sold by the pound, and more than 40 beautiful baskets to be raffled off. Come early for the best selection.

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Frosty Village Bazaar St. Matthew Church, Tolland 6-9pm Enjoy our selection of hand-crafted items; our apple pies, baked goods, jewelry, attic treasures, raffles, activities for the kids.

Our kitchen has sandwiches, homemade soup, apple pie and brownies.

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SETON SCHOLARSHIP DINNER

NOVEMBER 3, 2019 AT 4:00 PM ST. CLEMENTS CASTLE & MARINA 1931 PORTLAND-COBALT ROAD PORTLAND, CT Honoring the recipients of the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D. Award

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for Contributions to Catholic Education in the Diocese of Norwich:

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Sister Mary Patrick Mulready, S.C.M.C. Ms. Ann C. Derbacher Barbara Hamanaka, Ph.D. All proceeds to benefit tuition assistance for Catholic Schools.

The following sponsorships are available: $5,000 SETON SPONSOR Premium reserved table for 10, full-page program ad $2,500 AQUINAS SPONSOR Reserved table for 10, half-page program ad $1,500 NEWMAN SPONSOR Seating for 4, quarter-page program ad Individual program ads are also available.

For more information or to purchase tickets, please contact Gina Foster at 860-886-1928 or gfoster@norwichdiocese.net WWW.NORWICHDIOCESEDEVELOPMENT.ORG

Our Lady of Lourdes Parish in Gales Ferry to host Please join Us for a

MASS OF REMEMBRANCE

A Celebration of Life - Bringing Healing and Hope to Families Remembering Children Who Have Died From Stillbirths, Miscarriages and Abortions

Our Lady of Lourdes Parish in Gales Ferry to host

Frank W. Maletz, M.D., FACS in a discussion of Pathways to Hope and Healing in today’s Quagmire of Addictions Wednesday, October 16, 2019 at 7 pm.

Our Lady of Lourdes Parish Facilities 1654 Rte 12 Gales Ferry

There is no fee for this informative discussion but kindly register at secretary@ololgf.org or 860.464.7251 You are invited to submit questions for Dr. Maletz to address when you register or at any time prior to his presentation.

NOVEMBER 13 7PM

Diocese of Norwich Sacred Heart Church 52 West Town St., Norwichtown

For more information contact: Catholic Family Services 860-848-2237 ext 312

Dr. Maletz was a practicing orthopedic surgeon in the Navy and locally for 37 years. His work as a global futurist led to the founding of HEALTHspital, a platform organization dedicated to promoting new models of true healthcare practice with health promotion, prevention, and rejuvenation strategies and practical applications. His research into the functioning of the human brain in addictions and treatments led to a comprehensive paradigm transformation model considering chemicals & behaviors with the potential for misuse/abuse he has named: PSAADS -PsychoActive Addictable Disorders Spectrum.

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That the breath of the Holy Spirit engender a new missionary “spring” in the church

Register through your parish by Friday, October 11. For more information call Mary-Jo McLaughlin at 860-848-2237, Ext. 312.

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Sacred Heart School, Groton

Sacred Heart School, Taftville

50 Sacred Heart Drive, Groton, CT 860-445-0611 www.sacredheartgroton.org/school

Phone: 860-887-1757 www.sacredhearttaftville.org

Gail Kingston, Principal

Mother Christina Van Beck, SCMC, Principal 15 Hunters Ave, Taftville, CT

St. Edward School,Danielson Stafford Springs James School, Mrs. Pelletier, Principal LindaMaryAnne Marie Joyal, Principal 120 WaterSt, St,Stafford Danielson, CT CT 25 Church Springs, Phone: Phone: 860-774-3281 860-684-2600 www.stjamesdanielson.org www.stedward-stafford.org

St. Joseph School, North Grosvenordale David Sizemore, Principal

26 Main St., N. Grosvenordale, CT Phone: 860-923-2090 www.schoolofstjoseph.org

Academic Excellence. Character. Self-Confidence.

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Blueprint For Success – Standards and Benchmarks

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My Dear Friends, In the field of education, a lot of emphasis is placed upon standards and benchmarks in the various curricula of each educational institution. In addition to these, our schools also embrace the National Standards and Benchmarks for Effective Catholic Elementary and Secondary Schools.

These standards originated to respond to the call for Catholic communities to address the challenges mentioned in the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops (USCBB) document entitled Renewing our Commitment to Catholic Elementary and Secondary Schools in the Third Millennium (2005). [Much work on the national level was done and revisions were made, and the document was finalized in 2012. I acknowledge the Center for Catholic School Effectiveness, School

St. Mary-St. Joseph School, Willimantic Ian M. Holland, Principal 35 Valley St, Willimantic, CT Phone: 860-423-8479 www.smsjschool.org

of Education, Loyola University Chicago, in partnership with the Roche Center for Catholic Education, and Lynch School of Education at Boston College for the information in presenting this overview to you.]

These standards were created to provide a national articulation of defining characteristics and performance benchmarks that will enable all sponsors of Catholic education, including our diocese, to assess, strengthen and sustain our operations. The beauty of these benchmarks are that they are observable and measurable.

Without getting into the details of each standard and benchmark, it is important to note that the standards address four domains: Mission and Catholic Identity, Governance and Leadership, Academic Excellence,

and Operational Vitality.

I am well versed in each domain having taught courses for Salve Regina University on three of the four domains. This experience was helpful in imparting the importance of them to the schools in the Diocese.

I would like to explain a bit about each domain, so you will be able to really get an in-depth glimpse in the areas to which we commit on a daily basis: Mission and Catholic Identity Mission and Catholic Identity are not just about the visible signs of faith we have in our schools. They are about how our schools propagate the faith, inviting our young people to a relationship with Jesus and deepening our existence with Jesus. It helps envelop our students into the life of the Church and understand the role of

St. Michael School, Pawcatuck

St. Patrick Cathedral School, Norwich

63 Liberty St, Pawcatuck, CT Phone: 860-599-1084 www.stmichaelschoolct.com

211 Broadway, Norwich, CT Phone: 860-889-4174 www.st-patrickschoolnorwich.org

Mrs. Doris Messina, Principal

Sharon Stewart , Principal

faith in their personal lives and in the larger society. I truly believe that this is extremely significant in nurturing the spirituality of the students under our care in today’s society. We are making a difference.

Governance and Leadership Governance skills are essential to providing direction and authority.

Leadership is a ministry that promotes and protects the responsibilities and rights of our school communities and are based upon principles and best practices of excellence.

Academic Excellence - The key elements of an academically solid and doctrinally sound program mandate curricular experiences, including co-curricular and extra-curricular activities which are relevant, researchbased, and infused with Catholic faith and traditions.

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St. John School, Old Saybrook Mother Mary David, SCMC Mother Elaine Moorcroft, SCMC, Principal 54 West Main St, Baltic, 42 Maynard Road, Old Saybrook, CTPhone: 860-822-9272 Phone: 860-388-0849 www.ahfbaltic.org www.saintjohnschoolos.org

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Mr. Lawrence Fitzgerald, Principal 87 South Main St, Middletown, CT Phone: 860-347-2978 www.jpii.org

Operational Vitality - This domain is the most difficult of them all, given the national decline in enrollment and its ensuing effects on the finances of parishes and the diocese. These standards must focus on the operation of the school- how it works and how it is supported in the areas of finances, human resources, personnel, facilities, and institutional advancement.

This is why the support you give on the diocesan, parish, and school level is so very much needed and appreciated. The sense of stewardship of the parishioners, parents, administrators, faculty and staff members, board members, pastors, and especially Bishop Cote is nothing short of amazing. Our Church needs our schools and our

St. Joseph School, Baltic

Sr. Mary Patrick Mulready, SCMC, Principal

10 School Hill Road, Baltic, CT Phone: 860-822-6141 www.stjosephbaltic.org

St. Joseph School, New London Ms. Marianne Cote, Principal 25 Squire St, New London, CT Phone: 860-442-1720 www.sjsnl.com

St. Bernard School, Uncasville “A Holy Place Where We Discover Each Other in God’s Love” Celebrating 76 Years of Excellence in Catholic Education ~ Grades K-8 ~

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25 Squire Street New London, CT For information call 860-442-1720 sjsscty@ct.metrocast.net www.sjsnl.com

Mr. Donald Macrino, Headmaster 1593 Norwich-New London Tpke, Uncasville, CT Phone: 860-848-1271 www.saint-bernard.com

schools need our Church to bring children closer to Jesus and provide them with a solid education. Without your kindness and contributions of time, talent, and treasure this would not be possible.

These standards are the blueprints of success, and we are doing everything in our power to utilize them in guiding us to successfully fulfill our mission in this important ministry of Catholic education. As always, on behalf of every child and teenager we service, thank you for your continued support and prayers.

God Bless!

YX Henry Fiore, Jr.

Superintendent of Schools

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Academy of the Holy Family, Baltic Mother Mary David, SCMC, Principal 54 West Main St, Baltic, CT Phone: 860-822-9272 www.ahfbaltic.org

Mercy High School, Middletown

Sr. Mary McCarthy, RSM, President 1740 Randolph Road, Middletown, CT Phone: 860-346-6659

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Xavier High School, Middletown David C. Eustis, Headmaster Mr. Brendan Donohue, Principal 181 Randolph Road, Middletown, CT Phone: 860-346-7735

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A New Learning Resource Opens at Saint Joseph School

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By Ryan Blessing

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aint Joseph School in North Grosvenordale celebrated a "grand" day on Sunday, September 8, by commemorating National Grandparents Day and celebrating the dedication of its new Bishop Vincent J. Hines Learning Center.

The school celebrated all "Grandparents and Grand Friends" at its breakfast fundraiser to start the 2019-20 school year. Putnam restaurant Jessica Tuesday's and the Chrzanowski family sponsored the breakfast in memory of Ronald Chrzanowski, who passed away last year and who was the grandfather of several students.

The Spirol International Corporation, of Dayville, sponsored the new learning center through a $30,000 donation from its Spirol Charitable Foundation. The learning center, headed by learning specialist Nancy Beeman, will help students of all grades. The school is home to more than 100 students in pre-kindergarten through grade eight.

Members of the St. Joseph School community joined Principal David Sizemore and the Very Reverend David Choquette at the blessing of the 900 square-foot center. Guest speakers included Spirol Charitable Foundation board member and SJS grandparent James Shaw and SJS Parent School

Connection chairwoman Lindsay Lehmann.

Spirol International Corporation is based in Connecticut and makes fasteners for industrial uses and provides assembly expertise throughout the world. Its foundation has given almost $1 million to local schools and students since its inception.

The new learning center is dedicated to Bishop Vincent J. Hines, who was instrumental in developing and enhancing Catholic education in the Diocese of Norwich. Bishop Hines shepherded the Diocese from 1960 to 1975.

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New Curriculum Involves Accompanying Our Youth

By Andrea Hoisl Father Donio referred to Pope Francis’ teachings on being joy-filled believers.

Citing the pope’s warning to adults, Father Donio said, “All should regard young people with understanding, appreciation, affection and avoid constantly judging them or demanding of them perfection beyond their years.” This type of accompaniment involves patience and love as we help our young people understand God’s plan – a plan that leaves nothing to chance or circumstance. We hope our youth can ultimately see God actively working in our lives and through the people we encounter.

The topic of Father Donio’s talk was Accompanying our Youth on their Faith Journey, a subject that has a great deal of significance for the diocese as it implements its new faith formation curriculum this Father Frank Donio with Liza Roach, Andrea Hoisl and Marianne Nicholas. fall. Accompaniment is about meeting our young people church through developing, in collaboration where they are – without judgement or expectation – and sharing our with dioceses and other institutions and Family is the first and most significant point own faith journey with them, he said. Teachers, organizations, formation programs for the New of accompaniment for most young people today, Evangelization, as well as assisting pastoral catechists, pastors and parents are not seen as Father Donio said. With this in mind, he added older or wiser, but rather further along on life’s ministers in deepening collaboration with one that anything said and done by family members journey – with many more life experiences from another. which to learn. needs to reflect the values of our loving, Accompanying our youth on their faith supportive and merciful God. Often times this Father Donio, a church history enthusiast, journey calls adults to help our young people involves listening to our young people and reminded everyone present that, “meeting understand the role they have in the mission of helping them hear God’s voice amid the noise people where they are” is not a new concept for the Church. Adults are challenged to recognize and confusion of the world. us as Catholics. and remind our youth that the gifts and talents “Father Donio’s presentation was not they possess were given to them by God, to help “The American Church did this for years with complicated, but it did highlight for all of build His kingdom here on Earth, Fr. Donio missionaries as well as with ethnic parishes that met the needs of the immigrant Catholics – said. This involves role modeling as well as us the ways we succeed and the ways we welcoming, accepting and having all needs met possessing a deeper realization that as baptized sometimes fail to assist our young people on Catholics we are called to more. Often these their faith journey,” said Marianne Nicholas, by their parish family.” concepts are made real for youth through real- OFE administrative assistant. “It gave everyone The Catholic Apostolate Center was world experiences that have lasting effects on present a lot to think about while also making us feel hopeful and energized.” founded in 2011 to respond to the needs of the our youth.

To view Fr. Donio's full talk, please visit NorwichDiocese.org

OUR YOUTH

“Walking with our youth in faith is dependent upon our trust in the Holy Spirit – trusting that it will take us where we need to go – closer to Christ,” said Father Frank Donio, director of the Catholic Apostolate Center in Washington, D.C., at a recent presentation to catechists, catechetical leaders and parents in the diocese.

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Legion of Mary Norwich Curia Presents DAY OF RECOLLECTION MARY OUR MODEL October 12, 2019 - 8:30-2:15pm Saint Andrew Church 128 Norwich Ave., Colchester

St. Joseph School New London, CT

“A Place Where We Discover Each Other in God’s Love” Celebrating 81 Years of Excellence In Catholic Education Grades K-8

Speaker: Reverend Richard Breton Programs: 3 Conferences, Reconciliation, Mass, Rosary, Divine Mercy Chaplet and Benediction

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For information please call (860) 367-4931 or (860) 949-2888.

To register please send a check to: Legion of Mary PO Box 323 Moodus, CT, 06469

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All are welcome Cost $25 Students $5 Seminarians and Religious no charge - Lunch included-

Registration is ongoing, please call for information

St. Joseph School 25 Squire St New London, CT 06320 Phone: 860-442-1720

Prayer For Life

Eternal Father, Source of Life, strengthen us with your Holy Spirit to receive the abundance of life you have promised.

Open our hearts to see and desire the beauty of your plan for life and love.

Make our love generous and self-giving so that we may be blessed with joy.

Grant us great trust in your mercy.

Forgive us for not receiving your gift of life and heal us from the effects of the culture of death.

Instill in us and all people reverence for every human life.

Inspire and protect our efforts on behalf of those most vulnerable especially the unborn, the sick and the elderly.

We ask this in the Name of Jesus, who by His Cross makes all things new. Amen.

Our Lady of Guadalupe, pray for us.

A great prayer for life is urgently needed, a prayer which will rise up throughout the world. Through special initiatives and in daily prayer, may an impassioned plea rise to God, the Creator and lover of life, from every Christian community, from every group and association, from every family and from the heart of every believer.

- Pope Saint John Paul II, Evangelium Vitae, no. 100

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Teaching Children the Art of Joyful Giving Fai th Sparks

By Mary-Jo McLaughlin

I remember trick-or-treating with the orange UNICEF box, asking for donations for those same starving children. I guess it eased some guilt I was experiencing by overindulging in candy while children around the world were suffering. One Halloween, I added pennies from my own piggy bank to the carton, not because I felt an overwhelming desire to share and give, but because I didn’t want to feel guilty or embarrassed the next day when my teacher shook the box and deemed it wasn’t ‘heavy’ enough.

What many of these childhood instances taught me was to give out of a sense of guilt, not for the joy of giving. I gave because it was expected of me, not because it was a gift from my heart.

Giving from the heart was something I saw during my 13 years of teaching at Sacred Heart School in Taftville, where the school motto is, “Love Serves.” As early as pre-kindergarten, students are encouraged to be good stewards of the gifts they have received by using their time and talents to help others in need. Each month, students have opportunities to share not only monetarily, but by volunteering their gifts and talents for others. Whether it is collecting canned goods or a “coin war” between classes to raise money for a particular charity, or helping to clean the Parish Life Center after lunches or school events, students learn that love must compel us to

serve others joyfully and not out of a sense of guilt.

Students have many ideas for fundraisers and volunteer activities.

Having a say in how they serve others gives greater meaning to their giving. Often, recipients of their generosity respond to the students with gratitude. When the students understand the need and see the benefits their giving has on others, they are genuinely moved to give even more from their hearts and not from their parents’ pockets.

These lessons in joyful giving being taught at Sacred Heart School are just some of many in our diocesan Catholic schools and parish religious formation programs.

Research shows that if an adult or parent makes a donation or does volunteer work and talks with their child about why they do so, children are more apt to follow

their example. This encourages an attitude of generous giving rather than giving out of a sense of guilt or manipulation. It teaches children empathy, compassion and care for others while instilling in them greater gratitude for what they have.

As the holiday season nears, have a conversation with the children in your life about generous giving. Talk to them about charities you support and why. As a family, volunteer at a church or non-profit agency and discuss how those actions influence you and the people you support.

St. Mother Teresa wrote, “I alone cannot change the world, but I can cast a stone across the waters to create many ripples.” Maybe one of those ripples will be giving a child an understanding of an important lifelong value: that it is in giving that we truly receive.

Ignite Your Faith.

OUR FAITH

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o you recall as a child viewing commercials of famine-stricken children in Africa while watching Saturday morning cartoons? Seeing those pictures, how many of us were compelled to break open the piggy bank and send money to charities hoping to ease the guilt of having more than those hungry children?

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WHY WE PRAY - A REFLECTION Here we are

Peacefully praying and fasting for 40 Days - for Life!

Started by some college students - young people - that knew "taking life" was wrong.

Young people who started this prayer vigil to pray and fast for what is right and stand up against what is evil, Answering a call from God to defend the innocent unborn and build a better world.

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Here we are

In the greatest nation in the world and we have so many thinking they know better than God. So many who justify that it’s okay to do whatever they want, Indifferent to the moral teachings of Christ, Who have no regard for innocent human life.

Prayer for the unborn

We are here

Because of how sacred LIFE is.

Babies, human beings inside their mother’s wombs who belong to God. Our Lord who forms them and knits them together with his own hands, Who gazes on them and knows them because he made them, and already sees in them - the adults of tomorrow!

We are here

Peacefully joined together in prayer to promote a culture of life and love.

Prayers for Life that rise up throughout the world!

Jesus himself showed us that prayer and fasting are the most effective forces against evil, teaching his disciples that some demons cannot be driven out except in this way.

And I recall again how those college students knew what was wrong and were inspired by the Spirit to begin this peaceful program of prayer and fasting and call it 40 Days for Life.

We are simply here

All together to pray to soften hearts.

The secret is to change hearts and then there won’t be any interest or need.

40 days.

Praying to save lives. One baby at a time.

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Robert Gannon, parishioner of St. Mary Star of the Sea in New London, praying and walking in front of the Planned Parenthood business located inside 12 Case Street in Norwich.

For more information visit NorwichDiocese.org/40DaysforLife

Virgin of Guadalupe, Patroness of unborn children, we implore your intercession for every child at risk of abortion.

Help expectant parents to welcome from God the priceless gift of their child’s life.

Console parents who have lost that gift through abortion and lead them to forgiveness and healing through the Divine Mercy of your Son. Teach us to cherish and to care for family and friends until God calls them home. Help us never to see others as burdens.

Guide our public officials to defend each and every human life through just laws. Inspire us all to bring our faith into public life, to speak for those who have no voice.

We ask this in the name of your Son, Jesus Christ, who is Love and Mercy itself.

Amen.

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The Final Word?

Trust Me, Men…

It’s Not Us!

By Mark C. McCann

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ecently, I attended a series of Christian talks on the “Gifts of the Holy Spirit” given at a local Protestant church. I thought it would be good to understand more clearly the evangelical point of view on the subject of gifts and how it compared to Catholic teaching.

As I listened to the speaker offer his opinions on the subject, I was called to consider the Spirit behind those gifts and the role he plays in guiding the Church.

One thing Catholics have is an anchor to the teaching and traditions of the Church that have been passed down through the ages through her leaders. The Holy Spirit has guided the Church in spite of the imperfect men who were in charge. We have a treasure of knowledge and wisdom that is ours, if only we will reach out and take hold of it.

Each year at the Connecticut Catholic Men’s Conference, we as men have the opportunity to hear the wisdom of men grounded in the authority and traditions of the Church. Through

their wise words, we can grow in our faith and learn what it means to live out the theme of this year’s conference: Forge Your Path to Holiness. Each of us is a member of the Body of Christ. No one is more important than anyone else. We all need to discover and carry out our personal apostolate as men, growing in holiness as we help to shape the Church that has so graciously shaped us.

Join us for this year’s conference. Visit ctcatholicmen. org/speakers to learn about the godly men who will be sharing a message of hope with you this year.

Come for wonderful talks, great fellowship, the sacrament of Confession, a quiet time of Adoration, and the celebration of the Mass at the end.

Men, let’s rest on the authority of the Church, and allow God’s Spirit to forge us into men who are instruments of righteousness, building the Kingdom of God, one precious day at a time. We look forward to seeing you there!

44th Annual Catholic Charismatic Renewal Retreat October 25-27, 2019

Holy Family Passionist Retreat Center, West Hartford Presented by Father Ray Introvigne and Judith Hughes

HEALING RETREAT • Setting the Captive Free • Intergenerational Healing • Forgiveness

Cost: $150 (days only), $240 (single room), $230 (double room). Includes room and 4 meals (3 Saturday & 1 Sunday) Make checks payable to: CCR. Send to Lorraine Bernier, 44th Annual Charismtic Retreat, 119 Blisswood Village Drive, Ludlow, MA 01056. For more information, please call Lorraine Bernier at 413-547-0118.

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