Four County Catholic October 2016

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CATHOLIC Volume 28 • Number 9 • October 2016

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God’’s Mercy Transforms Hearts

Serving The Counties Of Middlesex, New London, Tolland, Windham, CT & Fishers Island, NY

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26th Annual Blue Mass

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"The Year of Mercy is coming to an end, but the need for mercy in our hearts and in our lives and actions will never come to a close."

Sister Elissa Rinere, C.P., J.C.D. reflecting on the lasting legacy of the Jubilee Year of Mercy.

"All young people have been created with a desire to do great things, to be great people."

Father Gregory Galvin, Director of Priestly Vocations, encouraging young people to pray and listen for God calling us to greatness.

"I have been inspired by the faith and examples set for me by the people of the Norwich Diocese. Their faith has enriched and renewed my own faith every day."

Marge Vanner recipient of the Patrici-Anne Award honoring her distinguished career in the Christian formation of our youth.

"Love is stronger than despair."

Monsignor James Carini, homilist at the annual Mass for those Dedicated to Education, with words of wisdom for those who teach and those who learn within the Catholic education family.

"We thank the Lord for the blessing of being called to service."

Father David P. Choquette honoring the brave men and women of law enforcement who serve and protect.

ON THE COVER: Norwich Police Officers among the law enforcement professionals, families, friends and supporters at the 2016 Norwich Diocese Blue Mass, Cathedral of St. Patrick, Norwich, September 25, 2016.

Photo by Dana Jensen, The Day

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MICHAEL R. COTE. D.D.

BISHOP OF NORWICH

LET FAITH LEAD THE WAY Guided by Our Moral Convictions My Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ,

the future of America as a country of compassion and inclusion.

This year, rather than simply transitioning as usual from summer to fall and soon winter, we find ourselves entering a fifth season -- a period of enormous moral consequence. This would be the presidential election season. A momentous season it is.

It is also remarkably fortunate timing that October has been designated as Respect Life month. Here too Pope Francis' Jubilee Year speaks to the merciful concern we share for the value and rights of the unborn, the frightened, the elderly - God's children of all ages.

This year’s respect life theme, “Moved

by Mercy,” chosen by my fellow bishops, conveys the depth of God's mercy reaching the unborn. It moves us and compels us to be their voice and fight for their right to life. This would include the "40 Days for Life" observance that began with so many of you attending Mass at the Cathedral and will complete its prayer vigil just 48 hours prior to the November 8 election. Respect for Life will have its voice heard on election night.

How fortunate for us as we gather ourselves to participate in the process, that we can benefit from some very timely faith-based influences. It is rather exquisite timing that His Holiness Pope Francis' Year of Mercy extends through Election Day, having provided us a full year of contemplating the foundational message of God's mercy. As expressed by the Holy Father, "We must never tire of extending mercy, and being patient in offering compassion and comfort."

Having embraced this message of kindness to each other and especially toward the poor and most vulnerable, our minds and hearts are prepared to make a decision aligned with our principles of faith and good citizenship. This is an opportunity to again "walk through the holy door of mercy" as we help determine

As further demonstration of our preparedness to help shape the future of our beloved Country, Superintendent of Diocesan Schools, Henry Fiore, Jr., reminds us in his open letter in this issue that October is the month of the Rosary in our schools. As Superintendent Fiore suggests, "Let us all be examples of

prayerful people for our children's sake, and for the future of the world." The future of the world being at stake is not an exaggeration by any means. To have Mary at our side, brought closer through the rosary, is an extraordinary comfort as we make our way to decision day.

With the momentum of the merciful love of Christ, we will face our political responsibility as faithful Catholics and American citizens. As I have acknowledged many times, the role of your Bishop and pastors is not to recommend a candidate or a party. Our role, in support of the common good, is to help remind you of the guiding principles of your faith and the responsibility we share to weigh the positions of our future leaders as they will impact the moral framework of our society. Where do the candidates seeking your vote stand on such issues as protecting religious freedom including right of conscience, lawful reform of the immigration system, defense of the traditional definition of marriage, rejection of physician-assisted suicide, peaceful resolutions to conflict, responsible stewardship of God's green earth, total commitment to the ever-

increasing plight of the poor and weakest among us and dedication to the sacred value and dignity of each and every life?

This is our homework assignment as we approach Election Day. Knowing the answer to these questions is imperative.

Fortified with a refreshed understanding of the principles of your faith and surrounded by the love of our merciful Lord, you will be prepared to see beyond the manipulation of political ads, personalities, style and partisanship.

You will see the underlying policies and substance that best support the common good and the dignity of the human person.

Sincerely yours in Christ’s love and joy,

Bishop Michael R. Cote

Mis queridos hermanos y hermanas en Cristo, Este año, en lugar de simplemente como costumbre de la transición de verano a otoño y pronto el invierno, nos encontramos entrando en una quinta

temporada-un período de enormes consecuencias de carácter moral.

Esta sería la temporada de elección presidencial ya que ahora la elección está sólo a unas semanas de distancia. Es una temporada transcendental.

Afortunado para nosotros, que nos reunimos para participar en el proceso, ya que podemos beneficiarnos de algunas influencias muy oportunas basadas en la fe. Más bien es un tiempo exquisito que el Año de la Misericordia de su Santidad el Papa Francisco se extienda

hasta el día de elecciones, habiéndonos proporcionado un año completo de contemplar el mensaje fundamental de la Misericordia de Dios. Según lo expresado por el Santo Padre: “Nunca debemos cansarnos de extender la Continued on page 4

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misericordia y de ser pacientes en ofrecer la compasión y el consuelo.” Habiendo adoptado este mensaje de la bondad los unos a otros y sobre todo hacia los pobres y los más vulnerables, nuestras mentes y corazones están preparados para tomar una decisión en línea con nuestros principios de la fe y la buena ciudadanía.

Esta es una oportunidad para otra vez “caminar a través de la puerta santa de la misericordia”, a medida que ayudamos a determinar el futuro de Estados Unidos como un país de la compasión y la inclusión.

También es un tiempo notablemente afortunado que octubre haya sido designado como el Mes de Respeto a la Vida. Aquí también, la influencia global del Año Jubilar del Papa Francisco se refleja en la preocupación misericordiosa que compartimos por el valor y los derechos de los no nacidos, de los que tienen miedo, de los ancianos-de los hijos de Dios de todas las edades. El tema de Respeto a la Vida este año es, “Movidos por la Misericordia”, elegido por mis colegas obispos, transmite la profundidad

de la Misericordia de Dios de llegar a los no nacidos. Nos mueve y obliga a ser su voz y luchar por su derecho a la vida.

Irónicamente, la observancia “40 días por la Vida” que comenzó con tantos de ustedes asistiendo a misa en la catedral por la noche ese martes al final de septiembre, completará su vigilia de oración tan sólo 48 horas antes de las elecciones del 8 de noviembre. El respeto a la Vida hará oir su voz en la noche electoral.

Como una demostración más de nuestra preparación para ayudar a dar forma al futuro de nuestro amado país, se dará cuenta de que el Superintendente de las Escuelas Diocesanas, Henry Fiorem Jr., nos recuerda en su carta en este mismo ejemplar que octubre en nuestras escuelas es el mes del Rosario. Como sugiere Henry, “seamos todos ejemplo de personas de oración por el bien de nuestros hijos, y por el futuro del mundo.”

El futuro del mundo está en juego y no es una exageración. Es un consuelo extraordinario tener a María a nuestro lado, más cerca a través del Rosario, mientras nos dirigimos al día de decisión.

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Enfrentaremos nuestra responsabilidad política como fieles católicos y ciudadanos Americanos con el impulso del amor misericordioso de Cristo.

Como he reconocido muchas veces, el papel de su obispo y párrocos no es recomendar un candidato o un partido.

Nuestro papel, que creemos que es crítico para el bien común, es ayudarle a recordar los principios de su fe y la responsabilidad que compartimos al examinar las posiciones de nuestros futuros líderes, ya que tendrán un impacto en el marco moral de nuestra sociedad. ¿Dónde están los candidatos que buscan su voto con respecto a asuntos tales como la protección de la libertad religiosa que incluye el derecho de conciencia, la reforma legal del sistema de inmigración, la defensa de la definición tradicional del matrimonio, el rechazo al suicidio médicamente asistido, soluciones pacíficas a los conflictos, la administración responsable de la tierra de Dios, un compromiso total con la creciente situación de los pobres y los mas débiles entre nosotros y la dedicación al valor sagrado y la dignidad de cada

vida? Esta es nuestra tarea cuando nos acercamos al día de las elecciones. Es imprecindible saber la respuesta a estas preguntas.

Fortalecido con una comprensión renovada de los principios de su fe y rodeado por el amor de nuestro Señor misericordioso, estará preparado para ver más allá de la manipulación de los anuncios políticos, personalidades, estilo y afiliación a un partido.

Podrá ver la política subyacente y el factor que apoya mejor el bien común y nos acerca un paso más hacia un mundo más moralmente sano.

Atentamente en el amor y la alegría de Cristo,

Michael R. Cote Obispo de Norwich

MERCY - DECEMBER 8, 2015 - November 20, 2016

"The Need for Mercy Never Ends"

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Concluding Mass for Jubilee of Mercy Celebrant: Bishop Michael R. Cote November 13, 2016, 10:30 a.m.

Cathedral of Saint Patrick Reception following Mass

Attendees are asked to bring items for the hungry and poor.

Donations will be given to Saint Vincent de Paul Place, Norwich.

Suggested Items: soup, pasta, pasta sauce, canned tuna, canned vegetables, toothpaste, shampoo, deodorant, soap

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FATHER GREGORY GALVIN, DIRECTOR OF PRIESTLY VOCATIONS

ummer is gone, the cold mornings of autumn have arrived and now we are beginning to see the effects of a very dry summer on the changing colors of the leaves. Will it be magnificient or lacking because of the drought we have been experiencing?

As all this transition goes on, so does our daily life and therefore so must we as sons and daughters of our Heavenly Father.

On the 26th Sunday of ordinary time in the second reading for Holy Mass in Paul’s letter to Timothy, Paul reminds us to compete well for the faith. He writes “Man of God, pursue righteousness, devotion, faith, love, patience, and gentleness. Compete well for the faith.

Lay hold of eternal life to which you were called when you made the noble confession in the presence of many witnesses”. St. Paul then encourages, actually challenges his listeners to stay focused on living the commandments until the appearance of our Lord Jesus Christ.

It is a good time to reset priorities and at the top of that list should be our prayer life. As sons and daughters of our Heavenly Father, we should be in prayerful communication each day with him, even if only for a few minutes each day. It should be a priority. This is especially important for parents to set an example for their children and young adults. Why? Because our children and

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young adults need a prayerful example.

All young people have been created with a desire to do great things, to be great people. In order to truly find the greatness God has created us for, we must learn to speak with Him, listen to Him, to go to Him during good times and bad. We must learn to identify all that He has given us. In discovering even slowly the many blessings in our lives that God has given us, we must learn to identify prayerfully His soft spoken voice that speaks to one’s heart. We must continue to keep in the forefront what we do each day, “competing well for the faith”. We must be making our faith life real and not just another item on a check list of things to do during the week. In reality we need to

let our faith life become who we are and how we choose to live.

It is in coming to know our Lord and God better that we and those among us He is calling to greatness through either the priesthood or religious life can better identify His Voice in their heart. Please continue to join us in prayer, begging the Harvest Master to send laborers to work in His vineyards. Please continue to keep our present seminarians, as well as our priests, active and inactive, our retired priests and always our Bishop in your prayers. May God continue to bless all of us with growing faith, and a keener awareness of the many blessings in our lives and the importance of competing well for the goal of our faith, Eternal Life!

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The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, leads the Holy Hour:

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The World Needs Heroes.

All young men have that deep desire to do something remarkable, to be someone remarkable.

Have you considered the call?

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Clergy Appointments

Reverend Richard D. Breton, from Administrator, Saint Joseph Parish, North Grosvenordale, and Saint Stephen Parish, Quinebaug, to Parochial Vicar, Saint Andrew Parish, Colchester, and Saint Francis of Assisi Parish, Lebanon.

Very Reverend David P. Choquette from Pastor, Saint Mary Parish, Putnam, and Most Holy Trinity Parish, Pomfret, to Pastor, Saint Joseph Parish, North Grosvenordale, Saint Stephen Parish, Quinebaug, Saint Mary Parish, Putnam, and Most Holy Trinity Parish, Pomfret.

Reverend Jonathan J. Ficara, Parochial Vicar/Campus Minister, Saint Thomas Aquinas Parish, Storrs, and Saint Mary Parish, Coventry to Parochial Vicar, Saint Mary Parish, Willimantic, Saint Joseph Parish, Willimantic, Sagrado Corazon Parish, Windham.

Reverend Thomas P. Griffin, from Parochial Vicar, Saint Mary Parish, Putnam, and Most Holy Trinity Parish, Pomfret, to Parochial Vicar, Saint Joseph Parish, North Grosvenordale, Saint Stephen Parish, Quinebaug, Saint Mary Parish, Putnam, and Most Holy Trinity Parish, Pomfret.

Reverend George J. Richards Jr., from Parochial Vicar at Saint Mary Parish, Willimantic, Saint Joseph Parish, Willimantic, Sagrado Corazon Parish, Windham, to Parochial Vicar at Saint Mary of the Visitation Parish, Clinton.

Reverend Brian J. Romanowski, from Judge for Diocesan Tribunal Office and Bishop’s Delegate for Safe Environments to Administrator, Church of the Holy Family Parish, Hebron, and Saint Columba Parish, Columbia, while continuing as Judge for Diocesan Tribunal Office and Bishop’s Delegate for Safe Environments.

Reverend Michael S. Smith, from Pastor, Church of the Holy Family Parish, Hebron, and Saint Columba Parish, Columbia, to Leave of Absence for personal reasons.

Reverend Benjamin V. Soosaimanickam from Parochial Vicar, Saint Andrew Parish, Colchester and Saint Francis of Assisi Parish, Lebanon, to Administrator, Saint Joseph Parish, Dayville.

Reverend Leon Joseph Susaimanickam, from Administrator, Saint Joseph Parish, Dayville, to Administrator, Saint Maurice Parish, Bolton.

Come listen to Pope Francis’ message of God’s mercy and how it is the only way we can be healed physically and spiritually.

“In mercy, we find proof of how God loves us. He gives his entire self, always, freely, asking nothing in return. He comes to our aid whenever we call upon him.”

Please join us for two evenings of spiritual renewal Register via email at

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Name:___________________________ Address:_________________________ Parish:__________________________ Phone Number:___________________ Send to: Office of Faith Events 199 Broadway Norwich, CT 06360 Attn: Pope Francis & God’s Mercy

A two session course presented by Sr. Elissa Rinere, CP, JCD Director of the Office of Worship and the Office of Pastoral Planning

Thursday Evening, October 20th & 27th, 2016 (6:30pm-8:30pm) Cathedral of St. Patrick (Lower Church Hall) 213 Broadway Norwich, CT 06360 This course will be repeated on March 16 & 23, 2017 at St. Joseph Parish, Willimantic from 10 am – 12 pm

Immediate Opening

Part-time Grant writer/coordinator Job description available upon request. Please send a letter of application, resume, salary expectations, and references by October 31, 2016 Finance Office Diocese of Norwich 201 Broadway Norwich, CT 06360 Attention: Karen L. Huffer

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The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, has made the following clergy and diocesan appointments in the Diocese of Norwich:

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CALENDAR OF EVENTS

Saturday, October 22

Saturday, November 5

Please join us for a fun evening from 6-10pm at Mercy High School, Middletown for an auction of goods & services. Tickets are $50 per person & include hors d’eouvres, catered dinner, homemade desserts, beverages, including wine & beer. For tickets or information call 860-347-8957 or online at: www.mercyhigh.com

8-2pm. A bake sale, basket raffle, café lunch & large ticket raffle of 5 prizes donated from local business.

We are now seeking vendors to rent space. Contact Priscilla Dowd at 860-928-5950.

Mercy High School Yellow Rose Auction

Saturday, November 12

Catholic Charities, St. Joseph Church & the Knights of Columbus Council #14, invite you to St. Joseph Church Hall, Willimantic, from 5-7:30pm.

Children of all ages are encouraged to dress in their Halloween costumes. Tickets can be purchased at any Catholic Charities Office or by contacting 860889-8346, extension 266 or by email: lauramalone@ ccfsn.org / www.ccfsn.org.

Friday & Saturday, November 4-5 St. Andrew Colchester Christmas Fair

Friday, 4-8 pm & Saturday, 9-2pm. Booths include baked goods, baskets, kid’s corner, & Christmas gifts. Santa & Mrs. Claus will be there Friday from 4:30-6:30pm & Saturday from 10-noon. On Friday, a turkey dinner with all the trimmings will be served at 4pm for seniors, & 5pm for the general public.

For questions call 860- 537-2355.

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Mercy High School, Middletown , Open House

The Cathedral of St. Patrick, Norwich, at 9am with a presentation by Fr. Brian Maxwell. His topic is Heart to Heart on the Beautiful, healing Sacrament of God’s Love & Divine Mercy. Receive the Sacrament of Reconciliation. Bishop Michael R. Cote will celebrate Mass at 10am. Refreshments will be served after Mass. Reservations: Helen Connell at 860-848-8998 or Nancy Prochorena at 860-739-7691 or email: judypappa@hotmail.com

Pasta for Hope & Silent Auction

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Sunday, November 6

For middle school & transfer students.1-4pm.

Presentation by the Administration. Mercy High School is a Catholic college preparatory high school for young women.

Saturday, October 29

Friday & Saturday, November 4-5

St. Luke Church, Ellington Christmas Bazaar Friday, 5-8pm & Saturday, 9-2pm. Enjoy holiday fare & children’s activities. A variety of gifts: knitted hats, mittens, scarves, American Girl clothing & furniture, a country store, baked goods & much more. For information, call 860-875-8552.

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St. Mary Church Putnam Festival

Saturday, October 22

A Morning for Women with Our Merciful Savior

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Entrance Exam for the Mercy Class of 2021 Mercy High School, Middletown. 8-11:15 am.

Pre-register at www.mercyhigh.com

Saturday, November 12 Festival of Angels Fair

St. Francis of Assisi Church, Middletown from 9:3pm at the Parish Center. Homemade baked goods, farmer’s market, jewelry boutique, Grandma’s attic & more. Breakfast & lunch will be available. For additional information or to inquire about renting space, call Sherrie at 860-346-4383.

Saturday, November 12 Gospel of John Seminar

Join Thomas Smith & learn the power of the Prologue as a guide for the whole Gospel, & the seven powerful women who model discipleship & courage for us all. Discover many of the encounters with Jesus in the Gospel, explore the amazing Eucharistic & Baptismal images, uncover Christ as Bridegroom, & more. 9-3pm at Our Lady of

Wednesday, November 2nd

Television Mass

Father Joseph Tito At 10:00am Channel 11 WCCT Comcast Channel 20 WTXX Charter

“If you forgive others their transgressions, your Heavenly Father will forgive you. But if you do not forgive others, neither will your Father forgive your transgressions!”

Matthew 6:14-15

Prayer Group Mass Thursday, October 13 7:30pm. Sacred Heart Chapel, Taftville.

Philips Retreat – An Experience Saturday-Sunday October 15 -16 Call Spiritual Renewal to register Life in the Spirit -7 week seminar Begins Sunday, October 2 St. Sebastian Church Hall, Middletown.

Please come even if you have missed any sessions 7-8:30pm. All are welcome!

Weekly Holy Hours – Before November Elections Tuesdays, October 18 & 25 & November 1& 8 7-8 pm. Spiritual Renewal Unbound Prayer Ministry (Freedom) Saturday, October 22 at10am.

Call Spiritual Renewal to schedule an appointment Healing Masses – Individual Prayer Mondays, October 24, Novmber 7 & 28 Spiritual Renewal Prayer Group Masses Wednesday, November 9 Our Lady of Lourdes, Gales Ferry 7-8pm Unbound Healing and Freedom Conference Saturday, November 5 from 9-4pm Sunday, November 6 from 9-1:30pm with Mass Call Spiritual Renewal to register

spiritual renewal services Diocese of Norwich Dial-A-Prayer (860) 887-7767

P.O. Box 6 • 11 Bath Street Norwich, CT 06360 • (860) 887-0702 email: Renewal@catholicweb.com

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CALENDAR OF EVENTS Perpetual Help, Quaker Hill. Contact: Andrea Hoisl at 860-848-2237.

Friday & Saturday, November 18-19

St. Peter Church Candlelight Christmas Fair Friday 6 – 8pm with wine, cheese & hors d'oeuvres reception for adults.

Early-bird buying & door prizes.

Tickets for Friday $8 in advance or $10 at the door. On Saturday from 9-3pm big raffle awarding 5 prizes. Attic treasures, jewelry shop, Christmas wreath sale & treasures, baked goods

& craft booth. Santa will arrive at noon. Contact Mike Farina 860- 3454808 or Vicki Bogdan 860- 345-3132.

Saturday, November 19 Sleigh Bells Ring

St. Maurice Church, Bolton 9-3pm.

Homemade gifts such as Raggedy Ann & Andy dolls, jelly baskets, handcrafted ornaments, fresh evergreen baskets, American Girl doll clothes, sweaters & scarves, quilt raffle, Christmas tree skirts, homemade baked goods! A visit from Santa & Mrs. Claus will delight the children.

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t was a crisp autumn night, an auspicious evening at the Cathedral of St. Patrick for our Forty Days for Life kick off.

What a beautiful way to prepare for the fasting, prayers and vigils to express our support for the sanctity of human life.

The splendor of the Cathedral could not have provided a better backdrop for the inspiring Mass that followed. The Mass was celebrated by the Most Reverend, Michael R. Cote, Bishop of Norwich, and was assisted by Deacon Hayes.

There was great support from the many

priests and altar servers who came from all over the State. Father Brian Maxwell articulated a moving homily about a childhood favorite story of Jonah and his dealings with the people of Nineveh.

He drew many parallels between the people of Nineveh and the people of our world today all told from the eyes of the young child, Alice.

It is all about simply changing hearts!

How simple! We all have the power to pray and God has the power to change hearts. Starting with September 28th, churches all over the diocese have begun adopting days to go to the Planned Parenthood facility on 12

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Case Street in Norwich, to peacefully pray for the babies, the women and families and even the people who work there. Each church has been signing up parishioners to cover these vigil hours from 6am- 6pm on their day of adoption. It is not too late to become involved.

40 Days for Life committee patiently answered questions, explained the process, passed out signs, and had many people sign on. A huge thank-you to Bishop Cote for his generous donation of time, thought, and preparation for this Mass, and support of the 40 Days for Life initiative.

As the Mass drew to a close, you could just feel the power of the Holy Spirit moving throughout the entire church. Afterwards, there was a great outpouring of support from the many parishioners who came to the back of the church to sign up and join in the mission to bring an end to abortion. The

Forty Days for Life runs through November 6th. You can call your parish Pro- Life representative or visit 40DaysForLife.com/Norwich, or contact Father Brian Maxwell's 40 Days for Life team at (860) 841-4357. fatherbrians40days@gmail.com.

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Marge Vanner Honored for Distinguished Service to the Diocese “Rich in accomplishments, generous in service and gifted in mind, heart and spirit…”

By Mary-Jo McLaughlin “Rich in accomplishments, generous in service and gifted in mind, heart and spirit…” are words Bishop Michael Cote used to describe Marge Vanner in presenting her with the Patrici-Anne Award for Distinguished Service to the Diocese of Norwich.

Marge received the award during a retirement party honoring her 16 years of faithful service to the Diocese, most recently as Director of the Office of Faith Events.

“Since coming to our Diocese, you have faithfully and effectively served our diocesan family in teaching the Gospel of Jesus Christ and you have inspired all who know you with your genuine concern for the youth of our Diocese,” Bishop Cote noted in saluting Marge for her stellar service to the people of the Norwich Diocese. “Generous and wise, self-giving and loving….your many years of service find their best and most enduring legacy in the Christian formation of our youth – the future of the Church of Norwich.”

Marge, who officially retired September 16th, began her ministry with the Diocese in September, 2000, as administrative assistant to the Office of Faith Formation. Shortly thereafter, she was promoted to associate director. At that time, the office oversaw youth ministry, catechetics and adult faith formation for the Diocese. In 2010, the Diocese restructured the office combining it with the Office of Evangelization and Right of Christian Initiation of Adults (RCIA), renaming it the Office of Faith Events with Marge as its coordinator.

In September, 2015, she was named Director of the office which now includes oversight for the Catholic Family Services office.

Recalling the changes in her office over the years, Marge cited the assistance of Susan Myshrall the former director of the office of Evangelization and RCIA. “I could not have made the transition in combining those two offices without her support and guidance,” she said. When asked to assume responsibility for combining both offices, Marge recalled, “At the time, I wasn’t sure I had the ability to oversee both. I am proud that I was able to make that transition for the Diocese.”

Marge praised the oversight she received throughout the years from the Office of Faith

Events Advisory Board and members of the subcommittees she has worked with throughout her tenure with the Diocese. “You can’t do this alone.

Everyone has contributed to the success of this office.”

She continued, “I have been inspired by the faith and the examples set for me by the people of the Norwich Diocese,” she said. “Their faith has enriched and renewed my own faith every day.”

This past June, Marge was honored by her constituents in the New England Conference of Diocesan Directors of Religious Education. At that time, Monsignor Robert L. Brown, Chancellor of the Diocese, described her as, “A woman of great integrity....Her deep faith and love for the Lord along with her generosity of mind, heart, and spirit are her hallmarks.”

Marge’s retirement plans include taking care of herself and her home, and devoting more time to her role as guardian of her 12-year-old granddaughter, Sara, her pride and joy. She passes the leadership of her office to Andrea Hoisl, the new Director of the Office of Faith Events.

“Marge has been a vital part of the development of this office.” Andrea noted. “She established the foundation that we will build upon in the future.

Her life work here is a legacy to the Diocese that we all inherit. How enriched are we because of the dedication and love Marge gave to this ministry!”

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recently commented, their photographed faces of hope were in contrast to “the imagers of violence and hatred that fill the news venues day after day”. Monsignor Carini reminded us that love is stronger than despair, and children often teach this to adults through their “innocence and joy”.

he annual Diocesan Mass for those dedicated to education was held on Sunday, September 11th at the Cathedral of St. Patrick. Bishop Cote was the celebrant and concelebrants were St. Patrick’s Monsignor Rosaforte and Father Peter Langevin.

After the homily, a commissioning prayer was led by Bishop Cote in which he said “I commission you to share in the search for truth and to lead children to a generous commitment to one another.”

The assembly responded with a prayer which in part read “help us to see and love Christ in our students. Empower us to model Christ for them through strong leadership tempered by gentleness and justice, tempered by mercy.”

This day was also the 15th anniversary of the 9/11 terrorist attacks. Education,of course, along with good parenting, helps in the formation of compassionate, intelligent, moral citizens who can positively change the world. Educators are key players in forming a just and compassionate society that promotes peace as well as knowledge.

Trumpeted music filled the Cathedral prior to the beginning of Mass as 24 educators processed down the aisle, each carrying a rose for a remembrance bouquet that was placed in the sanctuary.

Prayers were recited for 9/11 victims among them the “educators and students whose dreams were never realized”.

Lectors for the Mass were Robert Mileski from St. Patrick’s, Megan Feraco Campbell from Sacred Heart in Norwichtown, and Henry Fiore, our new

Henry Fiore, Jr. Diocesan School Superintendent. Colin and Maeve Jacobs and Connor Lynch, high school students were the gift bearers.

Homilist Monsignor James Carini, a retired diocesan priest, expounded on the message of mercy in the readings, especially the Prodigal Son Gospel, which

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was as much a story about the Merciful Father as it was a repentant son returning home.

Monsignor Carini reflected on the mercy recently shown to our students who benefited from the Catholic Foundation’s donations and how, as Bishop Cote had

Mrs. Cheryle Cassidy, a retired teacher from the East Lyme school system, commented that one reason she attended this Mass was “to focus on the connection between teaching and my religion; to thank God for all I have had the pleasure of doing in my teaching career, from learning from my students to sharing my knowledge with them. It is a true pleasure to see them as adults and how they have grown!”

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he sun was shining brightly on the morning of Wednesday, September 21st as 88 golfers came together at Fox Hopyard Golf Club in East Haddam for the 11th Annual Catholic Charities Golf Tournament. The day began with registration at 10:30 AM and all golfers received a golf umbrella donated by Gold Sponsor Conway, Londregan, Sheehan & Monaco, P.C. In addition to the umbrella, each golfer received a sleeve of golf balls courtesy of Attorney Steven Reck, golf tees donated by Charter Oak Federal Credit Union; golf “stress balls”

by Angela Arnold and gift certificates for Ben & Jerry’s ice cream courtesy of Unilever and Dennis Hammen.

We are grateful to Ken Capano and ShopRite stores for again being our $6,000 Platinum Sponsor and Conway Londregan, Sheehan & Monaco, P.C. as a $3,500 Gold Sponsor. This year we had a record number of 19 new

sponsors! We were blessed with two new $3,500 Gold Sponsors; the Knights of Columbus Supreme Council and Derek S. Pirruccello, CFP® The VHP Group Merrill Lynch; and in addition to his generous sponsorship, Derek and his wife Laura golfed in the tournament.

Backus Hospital returned for a second year as a $2,500 Silver Sponsor and RAD Consulting as a first-time $1,200 Bronze Sponsor. MJ Sullivan had a beautiful black Impala sitting on the 16th hole, awaiting the golfer who might get a holein-one, but unfortunately no one drove the car away.

There were a total of 20 parishes supporting Catholic Charities as $200 Tee Sponsors, eight (8) being new. We also had a total of 12 business Tee Sponsors, seven (7) being new. Please see the full page thank you acknowledgement on page 31 where all parishes and businesses are listed.

All golfers enjoyed a BBQ lunch,

A Winning Event!

By Christine Jackel, Development Coordinator, Catholic Charities and at 1:00 PM Bishop Cote and Fox Hopyard Golf Director, Ron Beck officially welcomed the 22 foursomes and the tournament began. Golfers began coming off the course around 5:30 PM, giving them the opportunity to network before enjoying hors d’oeuvres, dinner and awards. A total of 37 raffle prizes were donated. We also had a 50/50 raffle which also set a record: $425 went to the lucky donor whose name was drawn, and the other $425 went to Catholic Charities.

Bishop Cote thanked all the golfers who came out to not only enjoy a day of golf and camaraderie, but to raise funds to help those most in need in Eastern Connecticut. Bishop Cote introduced Ed Tessman, Catholic Charities Executive Director.

Ed thanked Christine Jackel, Development Coordinator, who coordinated the golf tournament, and the staff from Development and Catholic Charities onsite for their help. Ed turned

the program over to Ralph Monaco, who has served as Chairman of the New London Advisory Board for 11 years.

Ralph presented awards to the following golfers. 1st gross: Dr. Parekh, Dr. Walia, Sagar Parekh and Jamie Hanrahan. 1st Net: John Malia, Shawn Farbotka, Ron Baude and Matt Greene. 2nd Gross: Fr. Kevin Reilly, Tom Gram, Jeff Battison and Paul Sartor. 2nd Net: Derek Pirruccello, Laura Pirruccello, Mary Benda and Paul Benda. Closest-to-the-Pin on #4: Ray Bankoski. Closest to-the-Pin on #14: Dave Putnam. Longest Drive: Laura Pirruccello. Chairman Monaco said “This has been an outstanding fundraising event for the past 11 years, and each year it seems to get better. It is heartwarming to see so many sponsors and golfers financially supporting the great work that Catholic Charities does in our communities to help those in need.”

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special thank you to those who volunteered: Kathy Gaito, Rosela Precopio, Kathy Capon, Jane Leger, Kathy Tessman, Sharon Ferguson, Laura Malone and Cindy Mageski. To all the sponsors and golfers, a huge “thank you” for your generosity and support of Catholic Charities. Proceeds from this event help us to continue our mission of “Providing Help and Creating Hope” to those most in need throughout Eastern Connecticut. It was a wonderful day and the tournament was a success! We do not yet have final figures, but preliminary numbers indicate Catholic Charities could realize a profit of over $25,000!

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remember children who have died especially pre-born children lost from miscarriages, stillbirths or abortions.

Deacon Gill reminded those present that Jesus is Christ the keeper, noting a Gospel passage in which Jesus said, ‘I lose nothing of what the Father has given me.’ “Those words are the source of our hope, our confidence, our peace of mind and heart,” he said. “You need not fear that your child is wandering around in some lonely godforsaken sphere of existence, not knowing where they are or what happens next, all alone, abandoned and orphaned. Because

Jesus loses nothing, they are found, remembered and loved.”

He continued, “Because Jesus loses nothing we can even dare to say we have not lost them.

Whenever we come in contact with Jesus in our personal and public prayer, we can renew our contact with the children. For where Jesus is, there are the children, safe and sound for all eternity.”

Bishop Michael R. Cote was the principal celebrant of the Mass.

Concelebrating with him were Monsignor Robert L. Brown, Chancellor of the Diocese, Rev. Joseph B. Whittel, Rev. Raymond D. Introvigne, and Rev. Peter Langevin.

Deacon Robert P. Hayes read the prayers of the faithful and Deacon Jorge Escalona served as Master of Ceremonies.

Prior to Mass, those in attendance had the opportunity to write the names of children, prayers or words of love in a Book of Remembrance, which was brought to the Altar with the Offertory Gifts. The Mass was sponsored by the Catholic Family Services Office and the Annual Catholic Appeal. Refreshments were served in the Church Hall following the Mass.

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n a moving homily at the annual Diocesan Mass of Remembrance, Deacon Peter L. Gill comforted loved ones grieving the loss of a child by saying the death of their child was not God’s will.

“The God we worship, the God who watches over us, doesn’t will the death of babies or the pain of their parents. Some people may say to you that God wanted your child in heaven with him,” he said. “While I am confident God has welcomed him or her into His kingdom, I am sure God did not want them to die so that He could have them there.”

The Annual Diocesan Mass of Remembrance took place at the Cathedral of Saint Patrick in Norwich on September 20. The Mass, which seeks to bring healing and hope to families, is an opportunity for parents and loved ones to honor and

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n a recent conversation with Monsignor Tony (Monsignor Anthony Rosaforte, Rector, Cathedral of St. Patrick, Norwich), he brought to my attention that the enrollment at St. Patrick Cathedral School was up by an impressive 15% over the past two years. This equates to a net increase of 21 students over that time period, bringing current enrollment to 171 students. This is a significant positive trend, especially when so many Catholic and private elementary schools inside and outside the Diocese are struggling to keep enrollment up these days with economics as they are. Yet, St. Patrick Cathedral has managed to make significant enrollment gains. How have they done that? To understand how, at Monsignor’s suggestion, I visited with Celia Siefert, School Board Chair and Andrew Kortfelt, a Board member.

What I learned was that the quality of education, the culture of disciplined learning and the overall nurturing of the whole child is more than ever the Catholic education advantage. The challenge is to get the word out that St. Patrick School is an alternative to be considered. An affordable alternative. With this awareness-building goal in mind, the School Board committed to launching an advertising campaign to deliver their message to “where the parents are.” They carefully considered a reach and frequency strategy, supported by a modest budget, that included print ads and advertorials in local newspapers and magazines, outdoor/indoor signage at such popular venues as little league parks and soon the Norwich ice rink, radio spots, diocesan exposure through the Four County Catholic and diocesan website – all woven together with a consistent campaign message of affordable quality education.

They shared with me their enthusiasm and gratitude for all who have voluntarily helped them. One of the

Photo by Meredith Morrison stories they shared was about how Fred Diepetro, one of five generations in his family to attend St. Pat’s School, wrote a radio spot as part of the campaign.

He did it right off the top of his head using some powerful words that have since been worked into the entire campaign rhetoric.

There are other key factors that have helped promote the school such as word of mouth and their open houses after Mass on selected Sundays. But overall, their patient commitment to the long-term results of consistent advertising has been a leading factor in improving the enrollment numbers.Thanks to all for sharing the good news and best practices.

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Ride to Rebuild II Raising Funds and Raising Hope for Rebuilding Missions in Haiti

By: Dan O’Sullivan, Director of Administration & Programs, Outreach to Haiti generously treated the riders to dinner. O’Sullivan, the Director of Outreach, On the final day, the ride went to were joined for the entire trip by Karl Mercy High School in Middletown.

Falconer, another Board member. On Mercy is twinned with Foyer des Thursday, this core group was joined Filles de Dieu, a girl’s orphanage,

by Jim Hubert, who also rode for a commonly called Paula’s orphanage day last year, and Monsignor Jim after the founder. The girls at Carini, making his inaugural Ride to Mercy all contribute to the support Rebuild. of the orphanage, and, through You can find out more about the communication between Mercy ride, and it is not too late to donate. and Paula’s, the girls receive some Last year over $9,000 was raised, understanding of other cultures and and we are hoping for even more this conditions, and the blessings they year! have received. The girls at Paula’s Go to www.outreachtohaiti.org/ understand they are not alone, and ride-to-rebuild. they have Photo by - Rosela Precopio friends and was five days and started in Freeport, or the second consecutive support at Maine. It touched five of the six New Mercy. The year, a small team from 35 Valley Street – Willimantic, CT 06226 England states, coming through New Outreach to Haiti has relationship 860-423-8479 • www.smsjschool.org Hampshire, Massachusetts, Rhode done an extended bike helps Island, and into Connecticut. The ride to raise awareness and funds for strengthen the riders wound through Connecticut, rebuilding in Haiti. faith and love An important distinction this year, is stopping at three of the organizations of the girls twinned with Haiti through Outreach that donations to support the ride will at Mercy and to Haiti.

The first stop was at the be matched by the grant the Diocese Paula’s, and Cathedral in Norwich, where there of Norwich gave Outreach for the gives more was a very warm welcome by Bishop Capital Campaign. This matching hope to those grant means that every dollar donated Cote and some of the students, at Paula’s. teachers and administrators of St to the ride will end up giving two To complete Patrick’s Cathedral School. The dollars to the capital campaign. the virtual Diocese of Norwich is twinned with The ride is a virtual, cross country mileage, • PreK—3 year olds (3 half days) the Archdiocese of Port-au-Prince. trip of Haiti, 337 miles. It is the the trip then • PreK – 4 year olds full or half days The ride then went up to St length of a trip from the west coast finished up in • Full day Kindergarten – Gr.8 Matthew’s in Tolland Connecticut. of Haiti, in Jeremie, thru Port-auFarmington.

• Before and after school care Great scenery, but lots of big hills! St • Weekly Art, P.E., Music, Library, Technology Classes Prince, where Outreach’s ministry is The two Matthew’s is twinned with St Peter’s • Student to Teacher Ratio: 18:1 concentrated, to Cap-Haitien on the riders from • Challenging academic program in Ganthier, Haiti, and helps educate North Coast. The actual trip is “local” last year, Tom hundreds of children in the parish to reduce expenses, and for better Campbell, there. A delegation from the parish roads and weather. While the better a Board goes down to Haiti each year, and weather did not pan out so well in member of the parishes pray for each other.

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he 26th annual diocesan Red Mass was celebrated by the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, Bishop of Norwich on Sunday, October 2, 2016 at the Cathedral of St. Patrick. Bishop Cote was assisted in the celebration by Vicar General and coordinator of the Mass, Monsignor Leszek T. Janik, J.C.L., additional diocesan concelebrants, by members of the Guild of Catholic Lawyers and its president Michael Driscoll and generous volunteers.

At the Red Mass, lawyers, judges, lawmakers, and public officials gather

together to pray for God’s wisdom and guidance in their pursuit of justice.

The Red Mass is named from the red vestments traditionally worn in symbolism of the Holy Spirit and the scarlet robes worn by royal judges’ centuries ago.

It is celebrated in honor of the Holy Spirit as the source of divine wisdom, understanding, counsel and fortitude, gifts which directly support the dispensing of justice.

Bishop Cote, Derek Bothur and Most Reverend John A. Dooher Photos by Meredith Morrison

welcomed the Most Reverend John A. Dooher, Auxiliary Bishop of Boston, as the homilist. Bishop Dooher reminded the congregation that in the challenged times in which we live, “Those who live justly before God, understand what is going on now and know that it doesn’t have to be this way. It can be challenged and changed… We must have the vision of the kingdom of God which is justice, love and peace.”

“Justice, love and peace”

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It came through in the welcoming of Commentator Honorable John C. Driscoll, the readings by Attorneys Raymond Baribeault, Ralph Monaco and Thomas Griffin, the Gospel of Luke 17:5-1 as shared by Very Reverend Ted F. Tumicki, J.T.L., J.C.L., J.V., and was present in the presentation of the Gifts by Attorney Michael & Donna Jewell.

There was also a sense, throughout the ceremony, of gratitude for a profession that promotes the common good and helps to maintain or restore good order and protect people's rights.

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Bishop Cote also welcomed Deacon Clifford E. Thermer, Ed.D, as homilist.

Dr. Thermer of St. Brigid Parish in West Hartford, a 24-year veteran of municipal and state police forces, spoke from experience of respect for the courageous "thin blue line" of men and women of law enforcement who protect and serve. Those who have lost their lives in the line of duty "will never fade from memory. We love them and miss them." Deacon Thermer characterized today as "a volatile time in our Nation's history‌a time when there is so much disorder in people's lives."

These are times, "when the lines between right and wrong are too often blurred".

Reflecting on Pope Francis' designated Year of Mercy, he urged all present to "not deny your great capacity for mercy and compassion in carrying out your duties."

Included among the acknowledgements of the day's celebration of service were retirement congratulations extended

to Reverend Anthony J. Bruno as Religious Services Chaplain, Connecticut Department of Correction, having been the only Catholic Chaplain in the Country to serve as Director of Religious Services for a State Correctional Agency.

Grateful acknowledgement was also given to Norwich Police Chief Louis J. Fusaro (ret) for five decades in policing.

Among the many achievements over his distinguished career, one of Chief Fusaro's most lasting contributions will be his encouragement of partnerships between the police and local community groups to help foster a better and safer community.

Cathedral, and including the voices of the Cathedral Choir and Cantor Carol Mailhot along with the Sterling Brass Ensemble and the Department of Correction Pipes and Drums. It was a day to remember fallen comrades, a day to celebrate the call to serve others, a day to count each and every officer and law enforcement professional as a blessing.

As always, the ceremonies were accompanied by a stirring musical program directed by Douglas Green -beginning with the emotional sound of reveille and taps piercing the silence of the East Hartford Officer Todd Mona and K9 Casus

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n Sunday, September 25, 2016, at the Cathedral of Saint Patrick, the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, Bishop of Norwich celebrated he 26th annual Blue Mass honoring aw enforcement professionals across Connecticut. This year's Mass was dedicated to posthumous Honorary Chair, Connecticut State Police Trooper Russell A. Bagshaw, Troop K, who made the ultimate sacrifice in the line of duty in 1991 at the age of 28. Family, friends, ellow law enforcement professionals and grateful parishioners gathered together n faith, in solidarity and remembrance.

Present and participating in the Mass were Mrs. Carol Bagshaw and family, Robert nd Rhonda Bagshaw.

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n a small wooden stage surrounded by bales of hay, scarecrows and wooden benches, with a giant John Deere tractor nearby, Father Jan Swiderski, Pastor of Notre Dame and St. Colman Churches, celebrated 7:00 a.m. Mass for a devout group of Catholics. “God bless you with energy and good spirit,” Father Swiderski said.

Clearly not your average 7:00 a.m. service, the Mass was celebrated among the animals and exhibits in the Discovery Center/Llama Building on Sunday, Sept.

25 at the 97th annual Durham Fair in Durham -- the largest agricultural fair in Connecticut.

Year after year, the Mass is offered for the volunteers of Notre Dame Church in Durham and St. Colman Church in Middlefield, and for the other Catholic volunteers and vendors.

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Decades-Old Tradition Some older parishioners can recall as far back as the mid-1960s, when Father John Sullivan said Mass at the fair.

Father Swiderski, has celebrated the Mass twice since being assigned to Notre Dame and St. Colman in 2014. As the Bible says, if your work is not blessed by God, it is in vain.”

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Church and Community Service Every year during the last weekend in September, the Durham Fair welcomes 250,000 visitors to celebrate Connecticut’s agricultural heritage.

Of course, fair food is also a big draw, and at the very center of the Durham Fair sits the food booth of the Norwich Diocese’s own Notre Dame Church – famous for its meatball, sausage, and chicken parmesan grinders.

Meatball Rolling Time Every year more than 100 volunteers work in 4-hour shifts to staff the church’s

food booth. The parish purchases more than 400 lbs. of ground beef and 700 lbs. of sausage from Leno’s Market on Route 17 for sale at the booth.

Months before the fair, a sub-group of volunteers – affectionately known as “the Holy Rollers” – schedule weekly “meatball rolling sessions” every Tuesday in the parish hall in the basement of Notre Dame Church. “They take a lot of pride in every meatball.”

This year the volunteer cooks rolled 4,980 meatballs. They count them.

“We start the first Tuesday of August and on the last Tuesday before the fair, 15 women rolled, baked, turned, re-baked, and then cooled the meatballs on racks.

What’s in those famous meatballs? “It’s pretty basic,” Barbara Carangelo said, “garlic, parsley, breadcrumbs, eggs, parmesan cheese.”

Smiles All Around Mrs. Boord, who is also vice president of the Durham Fair Association, said she has been volunteering at the Notre Dame booth since she moved to town in 1969 and, like many, also volunteers in other capacities at the fair. “It’s great fun. It’s the biggest fund-raiser we have,” she noted.

By 1:00 p.m., the line at the Notre Dame booth was 20 people long, as fair-goers patiently waited to buy those famous oven-baked parmesan grinders.

“I just like ordering the food,” said Finn, age 12. “I’ve always wanted to work at a restaurant.”

And what about those grinders?

James Carey, who attends Church of the Resurrection in Wallingford, was visiting the fair accompanied by his wife, Terri, and sons, Andrew and Ryan. Mr. Carey clearly enjoyed his sausage and pepper grinder.

How often does he eat at the Notre Dame booth? “Every year,” he said. “This is where we usually get lunch. This, and then the apple crisp with ice cream – that’s my next stop.”

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Br Sister Elissa Rinere, C.P., J.C.D. n November 13, 2016 all parishes of the world will bring to a close the Extraordinary Jubilee of Mercy, which had its beginning on December 8, 2015. Throughout the Jubilee Year, all the Church has been urged to bring the mercy of God to life in their actions.

In the Diocese of Norwich, the Year of Mercy will be brought to a close on November 13th at a special 10:30 Mass at the Cathedral of St. Patrick, celebrated by Bishop Cote.

On that same day there will also be a musical program at the Cathedral, “Songs of Mercy,” preceding the 5:00 PM Mass.

Pope Francis did not proclaim the Year of Mercy as a unique observance, but as an opportunity for everyone to gain a deeper understanding of God’s Mercy, which is always with us and within us. Pope Francis reminded us that Mercy is “the beating heart of the

Gospel.” He reminded us that God’s very name is Mercy, and that “Jesus Christ is the face of the Father’s Mercy.”

Yes, the Year of Mercy is coming to an end, but the need for Mercy in our hearts and in our lives and actions will never come to a close. What can you do in your own life to keep

Mercy alive? In what ways might you continue to be aware of the Corporal and Spiritual Works of Mercy, and bring them to life within your own family circle? What can be done in your parish to continue the Works of Mercy in the community and in the community’s outreach to those in need?

On September 1, 2016, just months before the closing of the Year of Mercy, Pope Francis suggests adding two new Works of Mercy to the traditional listing found in the Gospel of Matthew (25:31-46). To both the Spiritual and Corporal Works of Mercy, Pope Francis adds “Care for our Common Home,” a subtitle of his encyclical Laudato si, on the environment. Care for our Common Home as a Spiritual Work of Mercy means “grateful contemplation of God’s world.” As a Corporal Work of Mercy, Pope Francis intends “simple daily gestures which break with the logic of violence, exploitation and selfishness.” As he did in his encyclical, with this action Pope Francis reminds us of the connection between love for the earth and love for each other. “When we mistreat nature, we also mistreat human beings.”

The Year of Mercy is ending, but God’s Mercy toward us never ends. So too, our Works of Mercy toward each other can never end.

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Saint John XXIII n October 11th, the church celebrates the memorial of Saint John XXIII, who was canonized by Pope Francis on April 27, 2014. Many people still recall the life and work of this saint, more familiarly known as “Good Pope John,” who was elected to the papacy in October 1958, at the age of 76, and who died in June 1963.

Born in November 1881 in the small Italian village of Sotto il Monte, Angelo Roncalli was the fourth of fourteen children in his family. His father, and each son as he was old enough, worked on a small farm as a sharecropper.

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priesthood as a teenager, and was ordained a priest in August 1904.

In that same year, he completed a doctorate in theology, and then returned to his hometown to serve as a parish priest. Shortly after ordination, he was appointed secretary to the bishop of his diocese. Then he was drafted into the Italian Army, in which he served for three years as a stretcher carrier and a chaplain.

After his military service, Father Roncalli progressed to the Vatican Diplomatic Corps, was named a bishop, and spent several years in Eastern Europe where he developed a reputation for being pastoral, tactful and also very knowledgeable. Before and during World War II he was very instrumental in assisting thousands of Jewish Europeans to escape

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persecution and death. In 1944, during the waning years of World War II, Bishop Roncalli was appointed Apostolic Delegate to France, which had recently been liberated from Nazi control.

In January 1953, Bishop Roncalli was appointed the Patriarch of Venice and named a Cardinal. In that same year the government of France, as a sign of gratitude for his service to the country, named him a Commander in the Legion of Honor.

Cardinal Roncalli’s life changed course again when, in October 1958, Pope Pius XII died, after having served as Pope for almost twenty years. Historians write that after such a long pontificate, the Cardinals who gathered to elect a new pope wanted an “interim” pope who would serve quietly for just a few years, until Europe and the Church had more time to rebuild following the war. The Conclave elected Cardinal Roncalli, who was just one month away from his 77th birthday.

There were a few surprises to come from this newly elected pope.

Perhaps the first surprise was his choice of a name. There had not been a “Pope John” in over 500 years.

When asked why he chose that name, he explained, that it was his father’s name, and also the name of the humble parish church in which he was baptized.

Another surprise was the only encyclical that Pope John XXIII issued during his papacy, Pacem in Terris or “Peace on Earth.” Published in April 1963, in the midst of the Cold War, this was the first papal encyclical addressed to the entire world, rather than just to the Church. At the time of its publication, Pacem in Terris was hailed, and remains today, an

extraordinary statement on human rights, equality and the futility of war.

Of course, the other surprise action taken by the newly elected Pope John XXIII was the convening of the Second Vatican Council. Ecumenical Councils, which by definition require all the bishops of the world to attend, are fairly rare. The twentieth council, Vatican I, had taken place from 18691870. Before that was the Council of Trent in the sixteenth century.

Pope John XXIII opened the first session of Vatican II on October 11, 1962. The Council met for three months every year, from then until the final session closed on December 8, 1965. Average attendance for each of the four sessions was 2600 bishops, plus several theologians and advisors.

The second session of Vatican II was scheduled to open in October 1963. Pope John XXIII died of cancer on June 3, 1963, at the age of 82. His successor, Pope Paul VI, maintained the Council schedule as it was planned, and guided Vatican II through to its conclusion in December 1965.

The canonization process for Pope John XXIII was begun just a few years after his death. He was beatified in September 2000, and “Good Pope John” was declared to be Saint John XXIII on April 27, 2014.

The Church celebrates the feast of Saint John XXIII, not on the day of his death, as is the usual custom, but on October 11th, the anniversary of the opening session of the Second Vatican Council. On his feast day we can recall this simple, humble priest who in his own quiet way exerted such positive influence on the Church and on the world.

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Pope chooses young people, faith and vocational discernment as theme for next synod

By Junno Arocho Esteves, Catholic News Service

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ollowing up on the Synod of Bishops on the family, a synod in 2018 will focus on accompanying young people on the path of faith and in discerning their vocations, the Vatican said.

Pope Francis chose "Young people, faith and vocational discernment" as the theme for the 15th general assembly of the Synod of Bishops, which will be held in October 2018, the Vatican announced Oct. 6.

The theme of young people and their path of discernment is a continuation of "what emerged from the recent" synod on the family and

the pope's apostolic exhortation "Amoris Laetitia" on family life, a Vatican statement said.

The synod will look at the best ways to accompany young people on their path toward maturity and providing a process of discernment so "they may discover their life plan and fulfill it with joy, opening themselves to an encounter with God and with men and women, and actively participating in the building of the church and society," the Vatican said.

Greg Burke, Vatican spokesman, told journalists Oct. 6 that the synod will focus on the transmission of faith and helping young people make their "spiritual decision" to choose marriage or religious life.

According to the statement, the

pope chose the theme after consulting the bishops' conferences, the Eastern Catholic churches and the men's Union of Superiors General.

He also consulted with bishops and cardinals who took part in the previous synod of bishops.

The council helping to prepare the next synod assembly includes two North Americans: Canadian Cardinal Marc Ouellet, prefect of the Congregation

for Bishops; and Archbishop Charles J. Chaput of Philadelphia.

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St. Edward School, Stafford Springs Mrs. MaryAnne Pelletier, Principal 25 Church St, Stafford Springs, CT Phone: 860-684-2600 www.stedward-stafford.org

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Xavier High School Calvin Y. Colby, Sean R. Duffy and Ryan G. Weis, seniors at Xavier High School Middletown, have been named as Semifinalists in the 2017 National Merit Scholarship Program.

Calvin Y. Colby of Berlin, Sean R. Duffy of Cromwell, and Ryan G. Weis of Higganum are three of approximately 16,000 students across the country to earn this distinction in the 62nd annual National Merit Scholarship Program.

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St. Joseph School, North Grosvenordale

Ms. Sharon Briere, Principal 26 Main St., N. Grosvenordale, CT Phone: 860-923-2090 www.schoolofstjoseph.org

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Ms. Abby Demars, Principal 35 Valley St, Willimantic, CT Phone: 860-423-8479 www.smsjschool.org

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Mother Elaine Moorcroft, SCMC, Principal 42 Maynard Road, Old Saybrook, CT Phone: 860-388-0849 www.saintjohnschoolos.com

CATHOLIC St. Joseph School, Baltic

St. John Paul II School, Middletown Mrs. Kathleen Pec, Principal 87 South Main St, Middletown, CT Phone: 860-347-2978 www.jpii.org

Sr. Mary Patrick Mulready, SCMC, Principal

10 School Hill Road, Baltic, CT Phone: 860-822-6141 www.stjosephbaltic.org

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Ms. Marianne Cote, Principal 25 Squire St, New London, CT Phone: 860-442-1720 www.sjsnl.com

From the Superintendent’s Office…..

My Dear Friends, October is a very special month in our diocesan schools. It is the month of the Rosary, when we pay particular attention to praying the Rosary at school and at home. To quote Pope Francis, “Mary joins us, she fights at our side.

She supports Christians in the fight against the forces of evil. Especially through prayer, through the Rosary. Hear me out, the Rosary...

The Rosary is one of the most powerful “prayers” of our Catholic tradition.

We instill in our students the importance of the Rosary in bringing us closer to Jesus through Mary. We explain to our students that by meditating on the Mysteries, we concentrate on the history of Jesus’ life from the Joyful Mysteries of His Humbling Himself by being born and raised among us with little means to the Luminous Mysteries covering the time from His baptism to the institution of the Eucharist to the Sorrowful Mysteries of His Passion and Death to the Glorious Mysteries of His Resurrection, Ascension and the establishment of the Queenship of Mary.

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Personally, I pray the Rosary each and every day. Let us all be examples of prayerful people for our children’s sakes, and for the future of our world.

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Mr. Donald Macrino, Headmaster 1593 Norwich-New London Tpke, Uncasville, CT Phone: 860-848-1271 www.saint-bernard.com

Academy of the Holy Family, Baltic

Mother Mary David, SCMC, Principal 54 West Main St, Baltic, CT Phone: 860-822-9272 www.ahfbaltic.org

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Mr. Joseph Hanrahan, Headmaster 26 Chase Road, Thompson, CT Phone: 860-923-9565 www.marinapolis.org

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Mary McCarthy, RSM, President 1740 Randolph Road, Middletown, CT Phone: 860-346-6659 www.mercyhigh.com

Xavier High School, Middletown

Brother Brian Davis, C.F.X, Headmaster Mr. Brendan Donohue, Principal 181 Randolph Road, Middletown, CT Phone: 860-346-7735 www.xavierhighschool.org

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St. Bernard School Celebrates 60th Anniversary Opening Mass, the second event of a year-long 60th Anniversary celebration.

Saint Bernard Alumni Mass September 13, 2016

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ishop Cote was joined in concelebrating the Mass by Father Russell Kennedy ’66; Father Gerald Kirby ’76; Father James Sucholet ’80; Father Kevin Reilly ’87; Father Brian Romanowski ’94; Father Jeffrey Ellis ’95; Father Mark O’Donnell, Trustee; Father Joseph Ashe; and Monsignor Robert Brown.

Deacon Jorge Escalona was the Master of Ceremonies. In addition, Pamela Bernardo ’59 and her granddaughter Emma Givens ‘17 and Lenore White ’60 along with her grandson Ben Ellery ’17 presented the gifts. Connecticut State Representative Kevin Ryan ’70 was also in attendance along with other representatives from the Diocese.

After Mass, the alumnae from the first two graduating classes of 1959 and 1960 attended a luncheon in their honor. The graduates were joined by former faculty member Carmella Guerin, former Principal Sister Mary Patrick, former Assistant Principal James Venditto, former Assistant Superintendent Sister Barbara Gould and current School Superintendent Henry Fiore, Jr.

During the luncheon, old friendships were renewed and reminiscences abounded.

Graduates wrote down their favorite memories and an atmosphere of hilarity ensued when several of the memories were read. The graduates recalled paying greater attention to the movie “The Last Supper” when they realized that James Dean played the part of the Apostle James. Many of them also recalled wearing “beanies” and the hated orange gym uniform.

Of course, the luncheon would not have been complete without recalling the sisters, priests, and laity who taught them so diligently.

Throughout the year, Saint Bernard School will be holding a series of events open to the public celebrating its 60 years of academic excellence. Our next series of events will be on October 21 – 23. The weekend will kick off with Homecoming, an Open House on October 22nd and an Alumni Art show on October 23rd. For more information please visit our website www. saintbernardschool.org.

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By Linda Norton

e can probably agree that our culture is doing its best to influence our youth in a manner that is not constant with our Catholic faith. One of the bright and shining stars of hope in our diocese that is helping our young people stay on the right path is a vibrant youth ministry program called “Life Teen” at St. Andrew Parish in Colchester.

Carol Pettit, Youth Minister, shared that prior to adopting Life Teen, St. Andrew Parish planned various youth ministry events but without training, clear direction or the know how to form a successful program on their own. A solid youth ministry program never seemed to take root. She and others talked to youth ministers at the Franciscan University of Steubenville’s summer conferences and found that most were involved

in “Life Teen”, a youth ministry program that began in Mesa, AZ in 1985 and now has over 1,800 parishes worldwide espousing its model.

Life Teen’s website states “As a Eucharistic – centered movement within the Roman Catholic Church, Life Teen leads teenagers and their families into a deeper relationship with Jesus Christ and His Church.

With the Blessed Virgin Mary as our intercessor and guide, Life Teen seeks to unleash the fullness of the Sacramental power present within the young Church.” (LifeTeen.com)

There are two components to the program: “Edge” is for middle school teens and “Life Teen” is for grades 9 – 12. Older High School aged teens help by providing peer ministry for Edge.

According to Carol, St. Andrew’s pastor, Father Mark Masnicki is very supportive of Life Teen, as are parents. The Life Teen model of Youth Ministry has been a blessing to St.

Andrew’s for the last 15 years.

Carol stated that Life Teen is “teen friendly, yet not watered down”. It is solidly Catholic and because the program flows from the Mass, it leads teens into a personal relationship with Jesus.

Theresa Menhart, now 22, shared “Life Teen ...allowed me to learn about my faith and how to uphold the principles in my life. I had some of my best experiences with the Lord during the retreats and adoration time that really allowed me to discover just how important being Catholic is to me.” This seems to be the common perspective among Life Teen alums.

Donna Krystofik, parent / volunteer, shares: “attending adoration with these amazing teens is a very moving,

life changing and memorable experience. The pure love of the Lord shines through each and every one of the teens.”

Life Teen takes place on Sundays, beginning with the 5pm Parish Mass with contemporary Catholic music, followed by dinner and a “Life Night” program. Teens need not be parishioners to participate. For more information contact: Carol Pettit at 860-885-8024 or standrewym@ sbcglobal.net.

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By Linda Norton

ith the encouragement and support of Bishop Cote and all parishes in the diocese, the annual Diocesan Youth Explosion on Sunday, October 2nd at St. Bernard’s High School in Uncasville was a well-attended success. About 450 teens as well as their youth ministers, DREs, and chaperones from our Diocese and the Diocese of Providence were treated to a really special day. Our Diocesan Youth Minister, Liza Roach and the members of the Diocesan Youth Council were there to keep things rolling and to make sure everything went as smoothly as possible.

This year’s theme was “Got Mercy?”. The teens were welcomed into the event with the

“Got Mercy?”

sound of contemporary Catholic music from the Connecticutbased band, Jerusalem Road. They experienced an interactive Gospel message of God’s mystery and mercy by Danny Ray, a very talented illusionist and youth minister from California; while singer/musician Sarah Kroger from Georgia provided the music ministry for the afternoon, including Adoration and an afternoon Mass with Bishop Cote.

The teens also participated in ice breakers led by the energetic co-emcees Travis Moran from St. Joseph’s in Willimantic and Santina Scarcella from St. Thomas’ in West Hartford -- a creative session, and had time to meet new friends, and enjoyed a pizza dinner. Vendor tables were also available to inform, interact with, and educate the teens.

Andrea Hoisl, the new diocesan director of the Office of Faith Events, commented that “The adoration service was great. Father Peter Langevin did an instructional piece about the miracle of God’s presence among us at adoration. He stressed how people look all over for miracles and signs that God is real, and we see one every time we go to Mass and adoration. He urged the youth to take advantage of this time in Christ’s presence- to unburden themselves and offer Christ all that we can’t handle as human beings.” She also acknowledged that Bishop Cote “spoke about service and helping others by sharing the gifts and talents you were given. He linked it to the year of mercy and also thanked the priests present for sacrificing their time and talents to share the day with our youth.”

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We were blessed with the presence of 16 priests who provided the Sacrament of Reconciliation. Over 300 of the day’s attendees chose to participate in this healing sacrament.

God’s mercy flowed in abundance into the souls of our teens, equipping them for the days ahead!

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October 4 - December 20, 2016 12 consecutive Tuesday evenings. An introductory workshop on Gregorian Chant: its history, theology, spirituality, and practice.

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