Forsyth Family April 2013 by Forsyth Family Magazine

Complimentary April 2013

Locke Chiropractic A Proactive Approach to Your Health Care

Look inside for the Summer Camp Showcase!

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Peace of Mind at WomanCare Obstetrics & Gynecology

A Growing Practice Adds a New Smiling Face/Clemmons Family Dental

Wake Forest Honors Chris Paul by Retiring His Jersey

Project Manager Denise Heidel / Denise@ForsythMags.com Social Networking Kelly Melang

Walking Through Your Wilderness

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Showcase

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Sozo Children

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College Knowledge

Clemmons Community Day COVER Story: Locke Chiropractic

A Centennial Celebration for the Entire Family

Hope du Jour/Crisis Control Ministry

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American Girl Doll Comes to Life

NICU Families Benefit From an Inspirational Non-Profit Program

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So You Think You Know

April 2013

Today’s Image: When is a Headache More than Just a Headache?

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Introducing Ages & Stages

officially sprung forward and it looks like spring is here to stay. It’s really hard to complain with the mild winter we’ve had, but nonetheless…I’m thrilled at the return of my feathered friends and walks in Tanglewood Park with my beloved!

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If you thought March was a busy month for activities in our fair city…wait till you check out April and May right behind it! First and foremost, nearest and dearest to my heart right now is the upcoming Hospice Hope Run on April 13th. Our team is dedicated to my late nephew Ryan Wood and aptly named “Running for Ryan.” Hospice is one of those places that most folks have heard of but hope they never need to use. Unfortunately, my family is no stranger to the services Hospice provides, having lost my nephew, grandmother and aunt to cancer. They are truly angels on earth. It’s not too late to join our team! Just go to www.support4hospice.org and search for Forsyth Magazines – Running for Ryan, and click “join.” More race details may be found on page 71. Our April cover story is Locke Chiropractic, and Dr. Jonathan Locke is ready to help you be proactive with your health! Get to know Dr. Locke and see how he can improve your overall health. We’re introducing a new feature called “Ages & Stages” that will provide monthly content on the various ages and stages of growth and development. We hope you will find this to be a valuable resource in the months to come. The April issue continues our three-month focus on Summer Camps, with highlights on several of our summer camp advertisers. Our first Summer Camp Expo, held on March 10th at the BB&T Ballpark, was a big success! Many thanks to the YMCA, our premier sponsor, and all of our summer camp vendors, and especially our readers who attended the event. We look forward to an even bigger event in 2014! Happy 20th birthday to my daughter Morgan and a big congrats on being accepted into the Recreational Therapy program at ECU!

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Walking Through Your Wilderness By Paul Francis Lanier

and I were just waiting to board the plane when I glanced behind and saw him. I knew who he was…I’d seen him on television so many times. He was a former United States Senator and a Presidential candidate from a few years earlier. He seemed to be alone, and I thought it would be interesting to meet him and maybe get his autograph for my children.

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I quietly approached the gentleman and asked, “Senator, could I have your autograph?” His response surprised me, “Are you sure you want my autograph?” I assured him that I did and that I was honored to meet him. He took the pen and paper from me and laid them in his lap. He began talking again and I felt that I had interrupted a deeply personal conversation he was having with himself, “You know I’m no longer in the Senate, don’t you?” “Yes sir, I know.” It was like I rubbed up against a painful scab that was anxious to bleed for anyone willing to listen. He spoke so vulnerably to me, “You know what happened, don’t you?” I sat down beside him and listened for a very long time as he shared his journey. He admitted that he was still bitter, but trying to move on with his life…away from politics. He asked what I thought of the war. We went through the names of Congress and he gave them the thumbs up or down. It was such a rare privilege to me. He grieved that his faith had been weakened in his dark season. I remembered vaguely something Nixon wrote about a “wilderness” in his own political journey. We spoke of Moses, Jesus, Dr. King and so many

other men and women of courage who also suffered a wilderness, yet pressed through their dark seasons to some distant Resurrection. Finally, we came up for air. The Senator signed the autograph and we stood ready to board the plane. He spoke graciously to Deb and joked that I should run for office. We smiled and then went our separate ways. I felt very drawn to this man’s pain. It owned him. It tainted too many of his memories and stole too many hopes. At 35,000 feet I took out my pen and pad and scribbled a note to him. I wrote that I believed there was a reason for all he had learned and experienced in Washington. I wrote that God’s Plan for his life was not held captive by an election. I assured him that I would pray for an end to his wilderness and that he might, again, step into his passion for politics. He slept a couple of rows back from us, so I gently tucked the note in his folded arms and returned to my seat. When we landed, I stood back against the wall and watched him exit the plane and walk down the corridor. There was no one to meet him. No cameras or questions…nothing to remind him of who he’d been. I didn’t see him again…until a couple of years ago. And there he was, serving as a political consultant for one of the networks. He had emerged. He did move on. I smiled with gratitude. Think of everything that has tried to stop you from surviving to this moment…rejection, disappointment, or a host of other miseries. Guess what? It failed. No matter how bad it was, how relentless it seemed, how alone you feel now…you made it. Be still for a moment and whisper to yourself, “I made it. I really made it.” Yeah, you did. Awesome… Can I have your autograph? Photo by Jamie Christina Photography

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So You Think You Know... What the Broadcast Call Letters Mean? By Heather Spivey

you ever stopped to wonder why all of the television and radio stations in the United States have a “W” or a “K” as their first letter?

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At the 1912 London International Radiotelegraphic Convention, the participating countries agreed to assign a specific first letter to “radio stations” in each country. At that time, radio stations were not like we think of them today. They were mostly “radio stations” onboard ships at sea and the coastal contact stations. The United States received the letters “W,” “N,” and eventually all of “K.” (The “N” was reserved for government stations.) In a 1913 US Department of Commerce document, “stations” on or in the Atlantic or Gulf of Mexico would receive a “K” as their first letter. Stations on or in the Pacific or the Great Lakes would receive a “W” for their first letter. There was a single sentence that provided that the Bureau of Navigation would assign call letters to “commercial stations,” which would turn out to be broadcast stations on AM, FM and TV. There were “radio stations” around the US in those early days, but not purely commercial stations. When a first call letter was assigned by the government to these new radio stations, the “W” and “K” reversed geography from their previous ship assignments. Initially, the government issued “W” to stations east of a line that began on the Texas/New Mexico border and ran north, “K” to those west of that line. (That line shifted in 1923 to the Mississippi River.) However, prior to those official pronouncements, some letters had already been given out. Among the most famous is KDKA in Pittsburgh (well east of either line), which claims to be the first official commercial radio station in the US, having broadcast first on November 2, 1920. 8 • forsythfamilymagazine.com

Our local television stations have interesting histories. WFMY-TV (1949) was the second TV station in North Carolina, second only by a few months to WBTV in Charlotte. WFMY’s call letters are taken from the word FaMilY, and WFMY were also the call letters of the broadcasting company’s already existing radio station. WXII, whose current call name stands for the Roman numeral 12, began its broadcasts in 1953 as WSJS-TV (which stood for WinstonSalem Journal and Sentinel), and is the third oldest TV station in North Carolina. WGHP followed in 1963. Their call letters represent Winston-Salem, Greensboro, High Point. WUNL, the Public Television affiliate in Winston-Salem, signed on in 1973. Its name simply reflects the forward progression of call letters from the original North Carolina Public Television Station, WUNC-TV, Channel 4, in Chapel Hill (1955). As additional public stations were added, the last letter in the call name, “C,” progressed forward one letter every time a new public station began to broadcast, to “WUND,” “WUNE,” and so on. (Interestingly, the first broadcast of WUNC in 1955 was the freshman and varsity basketball games between Wake Forest and UNC. The production crew had to cut a hole in the second story of Woolen Gym on campus to be able to capture the entire court on television.) Then, in 1979, WXLV (for the Roman numeral 45) signed on as WGNN-TV. So, next time you turn on the TV, you now know the 100-year-old history of why our broadcasting stations all begin with the letter “W”!

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Chamberlain Place Apartments By Meghan E.W. Corbett

hunting can be an exhausting process, full of intense sales pitches and more information than most people need or can remember, once they have departed the complex. What really helps to make an apartment feel like home is a dedicated staff and a responsible and honest site manager who will do anything to make the residents happy. Jennifer Merafuentes fits this description perfectly, and she has made Chamberlain Place Apartments home for many Clemmons area residents.

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“Our company’s vision for the development of Chamberlain Place was to provide a Class A apartment complex in a convenient location in Clemmons,” said Merafuentes. “Typically, such complexes are only found in larger cities. We wanted to develop a community where residents appreciate our low-density style of development and the relatively small scale of the apartment buildings we construct. Tenant privacy is of foremost concern, and our units have been developed to provide private entryways without long hallways, as is typically found in most apartments. Just as important to the physical nature of any development is management, and this is where Chamberlain Place excels. Our staff caters to our residents and prides itself on providing great customer service. We treat all of our residents as valued customers and dear friends. In fact, many of our past residents stay in touch with us, often including us on their holiday newsletters and notes. It is a pleasure being the manager of such a fine community and great staff.” Conveniently located in the Village of Clemmons, Chamberlain Place Apartments is near LewisvilleClemmons Road and easily accessible to I-40 and Highway 421. “Chamberlain Place Apartment homes are located in one of the Triad’s most prestigious and sought-after communities… facilitating travel into historic downtown WinstonSalem, and making it effortless to commute to neighboring cities such as Kernersville, High Point

and Greensboro,” said Merafuentes. “We are minutes from nearby golf courses and a short drive to shopping centers and malls.” In addition to the great location and fantastic staff, Chamberlain Place living includes unbeatable amenities for its residents. “Chamberlain Place offers state-of-the-art amenities, such as a designer swimming pool, lighted tennis court, 24-hour fitness center, sand volleyball court, horseshoe and putting green area, nature trails, fenced pet park, remote-access traffic control gates, excellent school districts, 24-hour emergency maintenance and a fenced playground,” said Merafuentes. If all that is not enough to satisfy those looking for a new place to call home, what is inside the apartments will certainly do the trick! “Chamberlain Place Apartments offers higher-end apartment homes without the apartment-living feel,” said Merafuentes. “Our apartments offer granite counter tops, ceramic tile, oversized closets, natural light, nine-foot ceilings and private entryways. It has more of a community feel, with beautiful landscaping, sidewalks and a neighborly connection.” So, if you or someone you know is looking for a change, or would like to move to a beautiful new home, let Chamberlain Place Apartments show you how apartment living should be! “We consistently strive to make sure that our community is well maintained and the grounds look great,” said Merafuentes. “Our goal and expectation is to continue to excel in customer service and provide the best experience we can for all of our residents.” Chamberlain Place Apartments is located at 6220 Chamberlain Place in Winston-Salem. For more information, visit the website at www.chamberlainplaceapts.com, email chamberlainplace@yahoo.com, or call 336.794.7677. Photos by One Shot Photography

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Peace of Mind at WomanCare

By Maria Glazener

last thing a busy mom wants to worry about when going for an appointment is “Who is going to watch my children?” Depending on the appointment, one could be there for 15 minutes or 2 hours. The hassle of interviewing babysitters or worrying if they will show up adds unnecessary stress. That is why many moms choose WomanCare for their Obstetric and Gynecologic care.

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WomanCare offers free childcare for patients during their appointments five days a week from 8–1. Ann Register is the childcare provider and has a long history of caring for children. She owned her own childcare service in Eastern North Carolina and was a teacher’s assistant for 10 years, before going back to school to get her teaching degree. She moved to Pinnacle in June of last year. When Ann came to WomanCare in October she got straight to work. Her teaching background gave her the experience to build a great foundation with the patients and their children. Ann loves her job. “Every day is a different day, and I get so excited interacting with the children.” One of her favorite parts of the job is getting to rock and hold the babies. “Just the other day, I got to rock the sweetest little thing, while the mom had a follow-up appointment; pure bliss!” Ann says. She also makes sure to mix things up a bit and follows the lead of the children. She has age-appropriate toys and activities for the kids, and she is not afraid to get down on the floor and play with them. Ann also loves to create seasonal crafts with the kids for them to take home.” I love being crafty and artsy with the kids; they can be so creative and I love to see them having fun,” says Ann. Even though the walls sport a wonderful jungle scene, she loves to hang their art as much as she can! There are movies for them to watch and songs for them to sing. There is a bathroom right in the room, just in case. The childcare does not allow food in the center, so moms do not need to worry if their children have food allergies. Safety is a major factor at WomanCare. Parents are asked to sign their children in and out of the childcare center. The facility has routine fire drills and there is a meeting place for parents if an emergency should ever arise. Ann also makes sure to keep the childcare center clean. She wipes down all the toys and anything the kids come into contact with, to help curb the spread of germs.

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Many moms and dads really enjoy the convenience and peace of mind, knowing that their children are right down the hall and receiving excellent care while they are talking with providers. The childcare is an added bonus for the parents, and the children benefit from Ann’s teaching expertise as well! If you would like more information about WomanCare, please contact Kathy Anderson at kanderson@w-swomancare.com, or call 336-764-5470.

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Thanks to the overwhelming support from our patients, and in order to meet increasing demand, it has become necessary to add an additional experienced pediatric dentist to our practice. Dr. Gavin has years of experience working with children in both private practice and community health settings, and is a board certified member of the American Board of Pediatric Dentistry.

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A Growing Practice Adds a New Smiling Face By Carolyn S. Peterson

Family Dental was founded almost 40 years ago with the cornerstone goal of offering patients excellence in preventative dental care. Today this commitment continues with Drs. Turner and Chostner, as well as the most recent addition to the practice, Dr. Sahana Peoples. “Together, the doctors and staff at Clemmons Family Dental strive on a daily basis to provide quality dental care in a friendly, comfortable setting for families. Through offering a wide variety of dental services and procedures, including cleanings for adults and children, periodontal procedures, sealants and fluoride varnish for children, as well as restorative care, including fillings; crown and bridge restorations; cosmetic dental work, such as porcelain veneers; crowns and Zoom in-office whitening; implant crowns; root canals and basic oral surgery, we can provide complete care for most of a patient’s dental needs. We explain each step along the way to our patients, helping them choose the best option that suits their particular dental needs,” said Shannon Reavis, Registered Dental Hygienist at Clemmons Family Dental.

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dental treatments. We also understand that sometimes cost is an issue, so we accept dental insurance benefits and help estimate patients’ expected out-of-pocket costs. For those who do not have insurance, we strive to deliver quality dentistry for a reasonable price, also offering payment plans, such as Care Credit, to make their treatment affordable,” Shannon stated. Another very important aspect of Clemmons Family Dental is the continuity of staff that patients experience with each visit. “Most of our staff members have been here over 10 years; two of our hygienists have been here since day one. At the heart of each staff member is getting to know our patients who, over the years, have become like family to us. Enjoying what you do comes across in talking to your patients and we all love coming to work every day,” said Shannon.

It’s that attention to making the patient comfortable with their treatment that sets Clemmons Family Dental apart and the reason that Dr. Sahana Peoples recently joined the practice. Dedicated to Making a Difference in Patients’ Lives Dr. Sahana Peoples, born in India, raised in Richmond, Virginia, began her career in dentistry following her graduation from VCU School of Dentistry in 1997. During her time in Richmond, Dr. Peoples taught freshmen operative dentistry for two years, while also in private practice. After getting married in 1999, she and her husband, Dr. Carl Peoples, moved to Winston-Salem. “I love working with people and forming relationships with them. Dentistry provides an instant gratification of being able to treat a dental issue in a relatively short period of time of 1 or 2 visits. Part of being a family dentist is having children as patients and watching them grow and change, being able to help them throughout their lives to develop good dental habits,” commented Dr. Peoples. It’s this belief of having patient-centered care that has kept Clemmons Family Dental growing for all these years. “The staff really is what makes our office special and stand out from others in the area. Our patients are the reason we are here and giving them the best in care is our priority. We offer nitrous oxide (conscious) sedation and oral sedation, but we believe the best approach is to provide positive experiences for our patients so that they will relax about future appointments. We’ve all had times when we are apprehensive, but we talk to our patients to help them relax during their procedure. The doctors and hygienists make sure patients are comfortable before proceeding with any 16 • forsythfamilymagazine.com

Clemmons Family Dental is located at 6301 Stadium Drive in Clemmons, NC. For convenience, appointments as early as 7 a.m. and lunchtime appointments from 12-2 p.m. are available. If you would like more information, visit www.clemmonsfamilydental.com or call 336-766-9111. Photos by The Portrait Gallery

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Wake Forest Honors Chris Paul by Retiring His Jersey I By Keith Tilley

had the good fortune to be there in person when ESPN’s “Homecoming” series came to Wait Chapel to tape an episode on Chris Paul back in 2009. And then on Saturday, March 2, I was fortunate to witness yet another milestone in the life and career of CP3: his Wake Forest Jersey being retired. As I sat in Lawrence Joel Veterans Memorial Coliseum for this historic event, which took place during halftime of the Wake Forest—Maryland game, I couldn’t help but think about what this might feel like. First of all, to be a hometown hero and a McDonald’s All-American at West Forsyth High School, and a heavily-recruited point guard. Then to be able to play for none other than Wake Forest University and the late Skip Prosser, a school and program he admired and witnessed many exciting moments with growing up; and then to be selected ACC Rookie of the Year in his first season. The way he was able to help Wake Forest reach another level when they achieved Number One in the polls during the 2004–05 season—a first for the Deacons in basketball. Also, during his career at Wake Forest, to be selected as a first team All-American, including breaking several freshman records; leading the league his sophomore year with 2.54 steals per game; and guiding his team to the NCAA Tournament Sweet 16. To have accomplished all 20 • forsythfamilymagazine.com

that would be pretty amazing, and yet for Chris Paul this was only the beginning.

community where he was born, and began this incredible journey.

As the Wake Forest faithful know, he would go on to be picked fourth in the first round of the NBA draft by the New Orleans Hornets. This was yet another remarkable achievement for the young man from Lewisville, NC. Even though many others who have traveled a similar path have faltered at this point in their journey, Paul took full advantage of the opportunity to utilize his special gifts. He was rewarded by being named 2005–06 NBA Rookie of the Year, being selected for six NBA All-Star Games, and playing for Team USA, winning two Olympic Gold Medals—in 2008 in Beijing, and 2012 in London.

Yet, when you think about Chris and how well he has represented where he came from, and what he’s done to give back to the community through his philanthropic CP3 Foundation, there will always be one thing he did that will never be forgotten. That being the fateful game where he played for West Forsyth High School and scored 61 points to honor his late grandfather, Nathanial Jones (he was 61 years old), just days after his tragic death. In that moment he was paying respect to someone he admired and loved dearly, in a very special and unique way that only he could do. History will remember his many accomplishments and the kindness he shows in giving back and paying it forward. But on that historic night in the Parkland Gymnasium, Chris showed all of us the true meaning of family and the bond it holds forever.

Watching his parents, Charles and Robin, as they witnessed the unveiling of Number Three in the rafters of the LJVM Coliseum, I couldn’t help but think what they must have been feeling at that moment, as they relished the pride and tremendous gratification Wake Forest University and the community felt for their very talented son, both on and off the court. The sense of honor they must have felt in not only his athletic accomplishments, but also in the strong character and compassion he displays towards all those around him and the citizens of the

On this monumental occasion of his jersey’s retirement in a coliseum filled with adoring fans, you could feel the kindred spirit of another very important person in his life who was proud of Chris that day as he watched over him. I wonder if Chris was thinking the same.

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When is a Headache More than Just a Headache? By Kevin Llewellyn, MD (Staff Radiologist,Triad Radiology Associates) is estimated over 3 million patients seek treatment for headaches in Emergency Departments every year. Patients seek treatment for a wide variety of headaches: chronic headaches that last days to months, acute onset of “the worst headache of my life,” headache following trauma, headaches associated with a fever or illness, and a headache unlike any previous headache.

Fortunately, for ~97% of patients evaluated in the ED, the physician diagnoses the etiology of the headache to be a non-life threatening cause or not otherwise specified (NOS). These types of headaches are classified as primary headaches. Examples of primary headaches include tension/stress (most common), migraine (more common in women), and cluster headaches (more common in men). Although these headaches are painful and disruptive, they are often safely treated with medications on an outpatient basis. However, for some patients, the headache is a harbinger of something serious. These types of headaches are classified as secondary headaches and are manifestations of an underlying etiology that can be life-threatening. So, how does a patient know when to seek emergent treatment for a headache? The good news is, many secondary headache etiologies have classic symptoms. Let’s review a few of the more common secondary headache symptoms and their etiologies. Any patient experiencing the following symptoms should seek emergent treatment:

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Headache following head trauma. The headache could represent bleeding inside the head. Subdural hematoma and epidural hematoma involve bleeding into the space between the skull and brain tissue. Intraparenchymal hemorrhage is bleeding in the brain itself. All require skilled management to limit damage to the brain.

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Thunderclap headache or “Worst headache of my life.” This acute headache may be from a ruptured aneurysm (a bulge in the wall of an artery that bursts) and results in subarachnoid hemorrhage (bleeding into the tissues surrounding the brain). CT of the head is the best initial diagnostic test, usually followed by a CTA or MRA (scans that evaluate the arteries in the brain). Severe headache associated with high fever, stiff neck and general illness. This headache may represent meningitis (infection of the tissue surrounding the brain) or encephalitis (infection of the brain tissue). A combination of imaging and laboratory tests can be used to diagnose and treat these infections. New onset of headaches after the age of 50. This could represent Temporal Arteritis, a disease involving inflammation of the arteries. It can lead to sudden blindness if not recognized and treated early with corticosteroids. Any headache associated with changes in mental status, vision, speech, or weakness. This headache may represent a stroke or other causes. Emergent diagnosis and treatment is critical. Knowing the above symptoms can help a patient decide when to seek emergent treatment for a

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By Susan Woodall dictionary defines community as “an interacting population of various kinds of individuals in a common location.” This is a great description of Clemmons, and the perfect way to learn more about what it has to offer is to attend the fourth annual Clemmons Community Day.

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with the Jerry Long Family YMCA’s Healthy Kids Day,” said Joanna Lyall, one of the event co-chairs. “This year, we want to help build a healthier community,” said Lyall. Families will be able to visit with local vendors and civic groups, participate in fun exercise demonstrations, sample healthy foods and snacks and learn about summer programs the Jerry Long Family YMCA offers. The Y will have a ”Know Your Numbers” activity to teach participants important numbers they need to know to stay healthy, such as body mass index, glucose, cholesterol, blood pressure and waist circumference. Staff from the YMCA, along with Clemmons Community Day Gold Sponsors Novant Health and Wake Forest Baptist Health, will be on site to provide screenings. Clemmons Community Day has something for everyone, including Big Bang Boom, the popular children’s band, and Below the Line to provide musical entertainment. WXII’s Kimberly Van Scoy will emcee the event. ROVER (Regional Outreach Vehicle for Education and Rescue) from the Forsyth Humane Society, a fire truck, staff from Brenner Children’s Hospital’s Brenner FIT program, and local businesses, including the Village Inn Event Center, Wake Forest Baptist Health, Novant Health, and others will be present. Healthy activities, such as a rock-climbing wall, a super slide and bounce houses will be available. Food vendors will be on site offering healthy food choices, and attendees can register for door prizes. Admission to the event is free, but attendees are encouraged to bring non-perishable food items to benefit the Clemmons Food Pantry. “We will kick off the day at 10 a.m. with an opening ceremony to welcome everyone to our event,” said Lyall. Big Bang Boom will play shortly after the opening ceremony. The YMCA will sponsor 26 • forsythfamilymagazine.com

a 1-mile fun run at 11:45 a.m., and kids can sign up the day of the event. Novant Health will host a teddy bear clinic for any ‘sick’ or ‘injured’ teddy bears. As with any successful event, there are many people who are involved. “This event is planned by a team of community volunteers on behalf of the Village of Clemmons,” said Lyall. “The group has worked hard to provide a fun day for all. We would like to also thank our many generous sponsors.” Clemmons Community Day will be held rain or shine on Saturday, April 27, from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. at the Jerry Long Family YMCA, 1150 S. Peacehaven Road, Clemmons. To sponsor the event or to reserve a booth for your business or organization, please email or call the LewisvilleClemmons Chamber at lewisvilleclemmonschamber@gmail.com or call 336.970.5100. Visit the Chamber’s website to download booth and sponsor forms at www.lewisville-clemmons.com.

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Emily has scoliosis that a surgeon was unable to find the cause of and could not give any type of treatment. Dr. Locke was able to find that one of the vertebrae in her neck is not the natural rectangular shape, and it caused the misalignment. I, Renata, had a persistent back pain and wanted a more natural approach than pills. Now, we both feel better with no pain, and we know we are coming for our health. Chiropractic uses natural ways of healing– no pills, no side effects. There is always improvement, and your condition gets better with time. The staff is friendly and knowledgeable, and it is easy to make appointments. Our well-being is ultimately in our hands; but to find a doctor who can treat the cause, not only the symptoms, is priceless. -Emily and Renata M.

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Locke Chiropractic A Proactive Approach to Your Health Care By Carolyn S. Peterson Photos by One Shot Photography

of us seek help for our aches and pains in a reactive manner, always playing catch-up, responding to a negative physical event that has already occurred. Being proactive with your health care means taking control of a situation and making smart, positive choices before problems arise, and that is the philosophy of chiropractic care. “Unlike conventional medicine, which focuses on treating an illness or health issue once it happens, chiropractic care can ensure that all of your body systems are working in harmony. At Locke Chiropractic, I emphasize ‘corrective’ chiropractic care, improving your health in an effort to reduce the risk of pain and illness in the first place. Most of us would rather avoid health problems, and this is one of the reasons that chiropractic care, specifically corrective chiropractic care, is important to one’s overall health,” said Dr. Jonathan Locke, Chiropractor and owner of Locke Chiropractic.

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From Patient to Doctor in a Few, Not-So-Short Steps Dr. Jonathan Locke was born in Tennessee and raised for the most part in Florida, finally settling down and starting his practice here in Winston-Salem, NC. With his initial career path of sports medicine, Dr. Locke soon found himself going down a road that would lead him into chiropractic care. “While I was in college, I saw the results and benefits of chiropractic care when one of the athletic trainers that I worked with hurt his back, and the only relief he received was from a chiropractor. I then worked in physical therapy, thinking that might be my chosen career, but I injured my neck and then found that my relief and healing also came when I went to a chiropractor. Knowing the immediate results that chiropractic care can bring to a patient really interested me, and so I finished my undergraduate studies and attended chiropractic school for four years,” Dr. Locke recalled. Following chiropractic school, Dr. Locke was offered a great opportunity of heading a new clinic in Jacksonville, NC, within 6 weeks of becoming a licensed chiropractor. A year later, in 2007, Dr. Locke moved to Winston-Salem, NC, and opened his own practice. “I really wasn’t sure where I wanted to live, but on the 11-hour trip from Jacksonville, NC, to 30 • forsythfamilymagazine.com

Tennessee to visit my family, I recalled passing through Winston-Salem, and I really was drawn to the area. I opened my practice in May, 2007, and the practice grew quickly and did very well, until a few setbacks,” stated Dr. Locke. Those “setbacks” might have taken most people out of the game, but Dr. Locke found a way to overcome. “My mother and best friend both passed away in separate car accidents within 6 months of each other in 2010, and although I thought at the time I was dealing with my grief, the losses really took a toll on me and my practice. I truly thought about quitting, but I asked myself ‘if you quit, will you be doing so because you gave it your all and failed, or because you just gave up?’ I knew that I didn’t want to give up and that God had blessed me with the knowledge, passion, and skill to help people and make a difference in their lives, so quitting was not an option. So I found a consultant who worked specifically with chiropractors and he helped me to focus on the positives in life, and since then I have continued to grow my practice, helping my patients become healthier,” Dr. Locke commented. Personally, Dr. Locke is engaged to Angie Cameron, a Mary Kay Senior Cadillac Director and they have two labs, Neecie and Sadie.. “Feeling and Healing Are Two Different Things” After being in practice for over 7 years, 6 of those locally, Dr. Locke has seen many patients, but most schedule their first appointment for the same reason…something doesn’t feel right, and they are in pain. “Many of my patients come in with a clear short-term goal: pain relief. Unfortunately, if that remains their goal, they can miss out on the many benefits of chiropractic care. Determining your health on how you feel is the worst way to know what is going on in your body. Feeling and healing are two very different things. Once the initial goal of pain relief has been accomplished, it is time to look at long-term spinal health. I like for patients to come in before they need help, so we can work together and keep them healthy. Good spinal health is much more than eliminating pain. Spinal health has a long-term impact on function affected by the central nervous system, influencing

every organ system of the body. Once you realize that chiropractic care, especially corrective care, improves the relationship between the structure and function of the body, you understand that the body operates at its optimal level when it is treated as a whole, and not as individual parts that have problems,” said Dr. Locke. In addition to treating the body as a whole, chiropractic care does not involve any medications or surgeries. Instead, relying on the body, once everything is in alignment to heal itself, is the way it was intended to do. “God gave our bodies the ability to heal through and over the central nervous system, as long as we don’t do anything to interfere with that pathway of transmitting info to the body. When there are issues with the spine and nervous system, the messages for healing don’t get delivered, and pain and other health problems arise. Most of us take our bodies for granted, neglecting them and having the attitude of ‘if it isn’t broke, don’t fix it.’ But our bodies need to be taken care of, and chiropractic care is part of staying healthy, just like exercising and eating right,” Dr. Locke commented. Chiropractic care is not only important for adults, but for children, too.

are under ‘wellness care,’ which goes beyond pain relief to improve total body balance, with weekly to bi-monthly alignments. Chiropractic spinal checkups provide similar benefits to the spine that dental checkups provide to the teeth; specifically, catching minor problems before they have the opportunity to cause pain or discomfort. Focusing on staying well means you are always on top of any issues that may arise, keeping that idea of proactive health care as a priority,” said Dr. Locke. Locke Chiropractic is located at 173 Jonestown Road, Winston-Salem, NC. Hours of operation: Mon., 7:30 a.m.–6 p.m.; Tues., 2:30–6 p.m.; Wed., 7:30 a.m.–6 p.m.; Thurs., 7:30 a.m.–6 p.m. Closed Friday–Sunday. For more information, call 336-659-2606, or visit www.winstonsalemchiro.com.

“From your first day on this earth to your last, making corrective chiropractic care a priority is beneficial to every aspect of your life. My youngest patient was one day old when I first saw her at the hospital, and my oldest is 89 years old. In many instances I have entire families whom I care for, so I believe that it is very important to make chiropractic care affordable for everyone, whether you have insurance or not. Also, I believe in being up-front with my patients on the costs of care, so there are no surprises. Beyond the initial assessment of a patient’s spine to any treatments, chiropractic care needs to be viewed as ongoing. Once the body is aligned and out of pain, my patients April Issue 2013 • 31

Ages & Stages is a magazine dedicated to celebrating family life. The term “family” represents so many different ages, stages, and the element of time means that we are constantly changing, and our expectations and needs are constantly evolving. As our magazine has recently undergone a “makeover” with new all-gloss pages, we want to offer our readers a new resource for their families—no matter what age or stage they are in. We are looking to the wealth of knowledge and expertise from our advertising partners to provide monthly content geared towards various ages and stages of growth and development. We’ll cover topics that range from Infancy and Toddlers (age-appropriate toys, immunizations, teething and sharing) all the way up to Middle School and High School-aged concerns (bullying, sports injuries and sexting).

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New Mom “Live & Learns” By Katie Moosbrugger of Triad Moms on Main just eight short years of parenting, I can’t believe I find myself thinking, “If only I had known to do that.” With this in mind, I jotted down a few things I wish I had done—and a few things I’m so glad I did—in my first few years as a mom.

Things I Wish I Had Done Better: Maintain Photo Albums I am embarrassed to admit that I’ve only done one mini-album each for my two children since they were born. I marvel at moms who snap millions of pictures for every occasion, and then print and organize them in a timely fashion. I wish I was that mom. Choose One Preschool—and Stick With It My kids are sure no strangers to change. In seven years of preschooling—between two children— we have attended five preschools. The reasons for the changes always made Photo by Ashley Billings Photography sense at the time, and my kids loved each school they attended (as did we). But looking back, I wish I had found one preschool that nurtured my kids from start to finish. Having a strong connection with one school and its staff is so important. Bake and Craft More I’ve never baked a birthday cake. I have no idea how to sew (except to replace a button). I have never made a Halloween costume from scratch. I can do the simple kid crafts, but I wish I was more artful around the house. I always thought these things came naturally when you became a mom, but it couldn’t be further from the truth with me.

and other precious items. I have several “secret places” in my home where I quickly stash the stuff I want to keep, as well as a keepsake box in each of my children’s closets to hold mementos. When these secret places get full, I move it all to a permanent box in my attic. The system is not perfect, but it’s manageable! Join the YMCA I think this is one of the best investments my husband and I made early on. From the time my daughter was just six weeks old, I started taking her to the YMCA daycare. I may not have a history with one particular preschool, but the Y has been our family-outside-of-family. Not only is it good for mom’s and dad’s health and well-being, but it also teaches early socialization and independence skills for kids. Take My Kids Out—a Lot—and Early On You may gasp, but when my daughter was just three days old, my mom and I took her out to lunch at a busy restaurant and then spent an hour or so shopping at Babies R Us. And we did this often. Of course, I know there are exceptional reasons for staying in (baby’s health, time of year, flu season), but for the most part I never shied away from taking my babies out—a lot. It’s my opinion that it’s healthy for mom, dad and the kids! Make the Library a Regular Routine Trips to the library have been a constant for both my kids since before they could walk. Every educator will tell you to read to your child daily, but it’s not until they reach elementary school that you really see it pay off. The love of reading is an amazing gift to give a child, and the earlier you start a reading routine, the greater the gift will be.

Things I Am So Glad I Did: Maintain Artwork and Keepsake Boxes I started a simple system with my children’s artwork and other keepsakes early on, and it’s been such a help for organizing kids’ artwork

If you like this article, visit www.TriadMomsOnMain.com for more like it! April Issue 2013 • 33

Allergy Season is Upon Us: are You Ready?

By Robert Ross, MD

Spring hay fever season is on its way! Nasal congestion, sneezing, sinus headaches, cough and irritated eyes are just some of the symptoms of allergic rhinitis (a.k.a., hay fever).

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What Causes Hay Fever and its Symptoms? While most people have no problem inhaling plant pollen and similar seasonal allergens, those suffering from allergies experience an overreaction of their immune system when exposed to these allergens. For these people, Spring flowers, blooming trees and other signs of the season simply mean lots of sneezing!

What can or should be done to control allergy symptoms? Much dependson the severity and kinds of symptoms. For those with relatively mild seasonal nasal congestion, antihistamines (especially the non-drowsy variety) may be all that is necessary. If symptoms remain bothersome, your doctor may recommend other treatments, such as corticosteroid nasal sprays, that are often effective and (when used properly) have few side effects. If a person’s symptoms are more severe, last throughout the year, or result in lost school or work time, an allergy evaluation may be needed. During an allergy evaluation (skin testing), small amounts of various allergens are applied to the skin. The skin is then pricked to allow the allergen to penetrate the skin’s surface. If redness or a hive appears at the site, this means the patient has an allergic sensitivity to that particular allergen. Whether it’s pollen, animal dander, grasses, particular foods, or another tested allergen, this evaluation will identify what causes a reaction. Now that the diagnosis has been made, you and your doctor can work to address the symptoms, initially trying medications and allergenavoidance measures. If allergy medications and avoiding known allergens don’t control symptoms, sometimes a program of allergy injections is needed. This type of immunotherapy consists of regular injections of small amounts of allergens known to cause symptoms. Over time, these small doses are increased so that the body’s immune defenses can learn to protect against an abnormal allergic response. Allergy injections “desensitize” the patient and prevent the allergic symptoms. A well-designed program of immunotherapy (which takes six to twelve months of injections, before noticeable results are seen) can help as many as 90% of allergy sufferers. Continuing the injection program for four or five years is the best way to achieve long-term benefits. While hay fever is certainly no fun, understanding what causes allergic symptoms, avoiding allergens and addressing symptoms head-on can make Spring significantly more pleasant for those who suffer with allergies.

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Not Just a “School System Problem” – It’s Time for ALL Adults to Take Bullying Seriously. (What We Adults Need to Learn from our Children) but surely, children are starting to “get it” when it comes to anti-bullying behavior. While this is a “work in progress”—it does appear that education, awareness and the creation of safe environments in our local schools work. Recently, I was at one of our local high schools for another matter. It was encouraging to see “safe zones,” “safe classrooms” and “safe spaces.” This, to be forthright, was something I never saw in my high school decades ago!

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Now that our children are beginning to “get it” when it comes to bullying—we adults in the community need to wake up, learn from our children and take a more active role in anti-bullying behavior. Addressing bullying is not just a “school system issue.” Parents, clergy, scout leaders, club leaders, Y staff and ALL adults who work with children need to take an active and serious role in anti-bullying behavior. Why? There are still perceptions from children that adults do not take bullying seriously. This perception can feel like a huge betrayal, particularly from children who bravely report bullying. In turn, there are still perceptions from adults that bullying is “a phase, a rite of passage.” A recent study from Duke University Medical Center concluded, to the contrary, that bullying has long-term negative effects on people—even into adulthood. This study concluded that—even as long as ten years after the bullying has ended—persons who were bullied had greater risk of suffering from anxiety and depression—including thoughts of suicide.

So, what then can we adults learn from our children when it comes to bullying? Very simply, we adults need to take any reporting of bullying from a child seriously. We need to “validate” the child who has bravely told an adult about bullying behavior. So, what else can we adults do? In addition to telling children to report incidences of bullying to responsible adults and to make sure they feel validated, we need to give our children appropriate tools and strategies to deal with bullying, such as: Avoid the bully; use the “buddy system.” Encourage children to use a different bathroom if a bully is nearby. Encourage children to “buddy up” with a friend on the bus, in the hallways, at recess, or in the locker rooms—wherever the bully may be. “Hold the Anger, Walk Away, Ignore the Bully.” It is natural for children to get upset by the bully. That’s what, however, bullies thrive on, as it makes the bully feel more “powerful.” Strategies such as not reacting, counting to ten to cool down, writing down their feelings, or walking away take practice, but these are useful skills for keeping off a bully’s “radar.” Remove the incentives. If the bully is demanding lunch money from a child, for example, the child can bring his or her own lunch to school. If the bully is trying to get a child’s video player or other “gadget”—don’t bring it to school. It takes ALL adults in our community to address bullying—not just the schools. We need to learn from our children to address bullying behavior early on and in a variety of ways. Why? Addressing bullying early on, taking it seriously and giving children strategies to handle bullying increases the likelihood of having a more compassionate and healthier community. Second, we teach our children to become empathetic, responsible individuals, who, in turn, will become empathetic, responsible adults! The Mental Health Association in Forsyth County andy@triadmentalhealth.org 336.768.3880 www.triadmentalhealth.org April Issue 2013 • 35

A Centennial Celebration for the Entire Family

By Frank Elliott Winston-Salem throws its 100th birthday party next month, families that want to get in on the fun should plan to be in Old Salem. The Centennial Celebration, running from May 9 through May 12, includes a parade, the premiere of a new documentary and the world premiere of a festive piece for orchestra commissioned for the Centennial, a “Blue Moon” Gallery Hop and Community Centennial Toast, a party on Corpening Plaza, a Centennial Scavenger Hunt and a Community Worship Service.

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But families may be most interested in the free Community Day in Old Salem on Saturday, May 11. From 9:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m., Old Salem Museums and Gardens is offering free admission to its 11 historic buildings, a $21 value, augmented by special performances and activities in Salem Square from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. Begin your visit at the Old Salem Visitor Center (900 Old Salem Road) to receive your tour map and watch an orientation video. Young and old alike will enjoy the performances by “Signora Bella, the Great Italian Equilibrist.” In the tradition of the itinerant performers of colonial times, Signora Bella will delight and amaze with her feats of balance on a slackrope while juggling sharp Turkish swords and flaming torches. She’ll perform at 10 a.m., 11 a.m. and 1 p.m. in the Tavern Meadow. Kids will also enjoy “The Greenest Green Puppet Show,” that tells how the town’s blue dyer fulfills a request from a very important visitor to Salem. Performances will be at 10:30 a.m., 11:30 a.m., & 1:30 p.m. in the Heirloom Puppet Theater of the Frank L. Horton Museum Center. Between performances, head to Salem Square, where stations will be set up with a variety of hands-on activities, including quill-pen writing,

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pierced-paper designs, marbles, bubble blowing, and more. Rounding out the Community Day activities are guided tours of the Tannenberg organ in the Old Salem Visitor’s Center auditorium and performances by the Winston-Salem State University Jazz Ensemble, as well as a digital exhibition titled “Across the Creek” in the St. Phillips Heritage Center. Families in Old Salem at 2 p.m. on Community Day will be ideally situated to watch the Centennial Parade, which starts at the southern end of Old Salem and marches up Main Street to Third Street before making a couple of left turns to end at Corpening Plaza. The four-day Centennial Celebration has been in the works for a year, courtesy of a committee of citizens, assisted by city staff. Along with the tobe-expected activities, such as the parade and the party on Corpening Plaza, are some imaginative touches, such as the decision to commission a new orchestral work by Winston-Salem’s own Dan Locklair, composer-in-residence and professor of music at Wake Forest University. Locklair’s festive piece for orchestra, “Hail the Coming Day,” will have its world premiere on Sunday, May 12, when it is performed by the Winston-Salem Symphony as part of its May concert. It will be repeated at the Symphony’s Tuesday night performance, May 14. The piece combines lyrical and energetic passages to invoke the early Moravian spirit and the exuberance of boom-town Winston. It takes its name from an 1876 speech by Robert Gray, one of Winston’s early leaders, who said, “I hail the coming day” when Winston and Salem would be one city.

It would take 37 years to make that vision a reality. One hundred years later, we can all celebrate that accomplishment.

May 9 City Hall Centennial Celebration: 5:30–7:45 p.m., City Hall, 101 N. Main St. DOCUMENTARY PREMIERE: “Merger: Making the Twin City” Tickets at W-S100Years.com; a/perture cinema, 311 W. 4th St. May 10 Centenarian Luncheon: 11:30 a.m., Benton Convention Center Blue Moon Gallery Hop/Community Centennial Toast: 5–10 p.m., Arts District May 11 Community Day at Old Salem: 9:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m., Old Salem Centennial Parade: 2–3 p.m., see parade route Party in the Plaza: 3–8 p.m., Corpening Plaza Scavenger Hunt: 4–8 p.m., BB&T Ballpark May 12 MUSIC PREMIERE: “Hail the Coming Day,” 3 p.m., Stevens Center, 401 W. Fourth St. Community Worship Service: 4–5:30 p.m., May Dell at Salem Academy and College For more information about all Centennial events go to W-S100Years.com.

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New Pyramid Builders Inc., Built to Last! By Meghan E.W. Corbett it comes to your home, nothing but the best will do. Homes serve many functions in our daily lives, like shelters from bad weather, safe havens in which to raise our families, our oases when we need a break from the real world and the best or worst restaurant in town, depending on who’s in the kitchen. With this much work to do, it is important that our homes are built well by a team with knowledge and experience to do it right the first time. In Winston-Salem, that team is New Pyramid Builders.

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Owner Peter Davis has been a licensed North Carolina general contractor for 35 years. “I have designed and built more than 500 quality constructed homes and successfully completed hundreds of remodeling jobs, including kitchens, baths, additions, decks, patios, screened porches and sun rooms,” said Davis. Though the sheer number of homes Davis has had a hand in building is beyond impressive, it is not what sets him apart as a quality general contractor. It is his determination that each and every customer is treated like family and is given the attention and expertise required to build quality homes. “I thoroughly enjoy watching a project evolve from a mental conception to design and successful completion of the project with a happy consumer,” said Davis. “New Pyramid Builders is a design-build residential contractor. Our designs are creative and not ‘cookie-cutter,’ so you can be assured of great design every time.” The emphasis Davis puts on solid construction revolves around the pride he takes in his community. A native of Winston-Salem, Davis graduated from R.J. Reynolds High School and earned a Bachelor of Science degree in business management from Guilford College. To remain on top of the latest techniques in home construction, Davis takes continuing education courses at Forsyth Technical Community College. The Triad is his home, and the reputation he has built for himself can be seen throughout this community. “I have designed and built homes in most major neighborhoods here, including Sherwood Forest, Oak Valley, Meadowlands and many others,” said Davis. “Homes vary in value from $150,000 to $500,000, [and] we also do remodeling in all price ranges.” A large part of what distinguishes New Pyramid Builders from others in the area is the team it has assembled. “Our employees are clean, knowledgeable, well-mannered and professional, as are our associates and sub-contractors,” said Davis. “We partner with you every step of the way, from design to construction. Our clients know we’re here for them, whether they’re dreaming of a new kitchen or installing a new outdoor living space, deck, or sunroom.” Peter Davis is a member of the National Home Builders Association, Better Business Bureau of Northwest North Carolina and the Winston-Salem Chamber of Commerce. When he is not on the job site, Davis can be found watching his grandson’s sporting events, surf fishing at Cape Hatteras and traveling around the United States exploring back roads and learning about new places and different cultures. For more information, visit the website at www.newpyramidbuilderstriad.com, or call 336.399.3302. 40 • forsythfamilymagazine.com

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The 2013 HBAWS Spring Parade of Homes By Meghan E.W. Corbett is that wonderful time of year again! The time when flowers begin to bloom, temperatures rise, heavy coats are put away and people enjoy being outside! It is also time for the annual Home Builders Association of Winston-Salem’s Spring Parade of Homes, where area residents and visitors can kick off the new season with a fun and free event.

“The Spring Parade of Homes highlights new residential construction in our area built by our HBAWS professional builder members,” said Beverly Hayes, Communications Manager of the HBAWS. “These homes feature building supplies, products and services provided by many of our Associate members, as well. This is a great way to market the new construction in our area and gives the community a chance to see firsthand what new trends are being showcased.” Whether you are in the market to move, looking to spruce up a dated room, or just want to have a relaxing day learning about new and exciting designs, the Spring Parade has something to satisfy every interest! “New construction is a great place to see the newest products, from energy savers to new architectural designs,” said Hayes. “All the trends evolve from one year to the next, including everything from indoor and outdoor lighting, to doors and windows, to plumbing. Wall coverings, paint and

Piedmont Federal Savings Bank is proud to partner with the Home Builders Association of Winston-Salem as the exclusive event sponsor of the Spring Parade of Homes. Enter a drawing for our “Home is where our Heart is” Dollhouse. All entries to be in by May 5 at 5:00 pm. Home is where our heart is.

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tile colors, flooring and kitchen appliances are always changing, and new design changes will be seen first in these new homes.” In addition to all the great new styles and design, those looking to take on a bigger project can learn about professionals in our area that are ready and willing to make those ideas reality. “Individuals looking for professional home builders can search our website for professionals, from building suppliers and landscape architects to remodelers and home builders; every home building and remodeling need can be found at www.hbaws.net/find.html!” Those attending the Parade also have the opportunity to meet the builders of each home. “This event is a great time not only to see the new construction firsthand, but you can meet the builder and ask questions,” said Hayes. “For those considering building a custom home, there will also be developments featuring lots with possible house plans that could be tailored to fit an individual or family’s personal needs. Parade Home prices vary from $140,000 to more than $700,000, so consumers can see products that fit their budgets. Some of these homes are on medium lot sizes and some on large lots, as well as some on smaller lots designed for low outdoor maintenance.”

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A news tabloid offering pictures and descriptions of each of the homes on the Parade will be available in the Winston-Salem Journal on Friday, April 26th. The Spring Parade of Homes will run April 27th–28th and May 4th–5th from 1–5 p.m. There will also be a Spring Parade Breakfast Open House at the Association Home on Thursday, May 2nd, from 8–10:30 a.m. For more information, visit the website at either www.hbaws.org/springparade.html or www.springparadeofhomesws.com. You can also reach Executive Vice President Jerry Herman at 336.768.5818, or jerryh@hbaws.org, as well as Communications beverlyh@hbaws.org for more information.

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Early-spring is the ideal time to apply pre-emergent herbicides that prevent crabgrass and many other weeds from growing before it gets warmer, but applying the right fertilizer and weed protection product can make all of the difference. Terry Johnson, owner of Triad Lawn & Landscaping, puts it this way: “It’s tempting to put a weed and feed fertilizer

on your lawn now because you want a green lawn and no weeds. The fact is most weed and feed products kill weeds only after they have taken root. They don’t prevent weeds from growing. While you think you’re saving time and money now, you may be causing heartbreak later.” Right now, pre-emergents should be applied while soil temperatures are below 50 for the best prevention of crabgrass. The big drawback with pre-emergent herbicides is that they slow newly-seeded turf growth by causing the roots on new grass to be stunted and ineffective. This does not usually cause a serious problem in healthy, dense lawns, Finally, avoid using pre-emergent herbicides in thin or damaged lawns; they will only make the problem worse. Terry cautions people that may have an unhealthy lawn from getting overly aggressive in trying to repair it. “Many think spring brings a clean slate, and if you dump enough stuff on your lawn, it will rebound. Lawn repair can be a lengthy process, but, if done right and with a little patience, you can have the perfect lawn.” Other spring lawn tips include: t Trim/prune crepe myrtle and liriope before April. t Apply a healthy dose of lime to balance pH levels in the “Carolina Clay” most Triad lawns have as their soil base. t Dead or damaged grass patches should be reseeded in March or early spring. Newly developing seeds must have enough water for proper growth and development. Water often early in the season. For best result, seed in the fall. t Grass will grow best when kept at a height of three inches, or higher, so mow high for the first few cuts in spring. t Wait until April or warmer weather to control insects.

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Offers Families a Day to Eat Out for a Good Cause By John Cole, Crisis Control Ministry Volunteer May 7, families from all corners of Forsyth County will dine out to support the fight against hunger through Hope du Jour. Whether you live in Winston-Salem, Clemmons, Kernersville, Walkertown, or Rural Hall, there are more than 120 participating restaurants to choose from when selecting where you and your family will go for this event that benefits Crisis Control Ministry.

Although Hope du Jour promises a day of great food and fun at your favorite restaurant, the event is about more than simply going out to eat. Hope du Jour is first and foremost a fundraiser to help the needy; to give support to the families in our community who are struggling to put enough food on the table. In this event, we share our blessings by dining at a participating restaurant that donates 10% of sales on May 7 to Crisis Control. Annually for the last 23 years, Crisis Control Ministry has been organizing Hope du Jour as a community event, with the proceeds used support their mission: “To assist people in crisis to meet essential life needs and to become self-sufficient.” This volunteer-oriented nonprofit operates a client-choice food pantry and last year served over 7,000 people, of which 48% were children, with a food order to last them seven to ten days. Dewey’s Bakery in Thruway Shopping center is a new Hope du Jour participant,

and they see this as an opportunity to give back to our community. Scott Burwell of Dewey’s remarked that Dewey’s Bakery and Blue Ridge Ice Creams want to be able to give back in a way that will most benefit the community that they serve. Along with many returning restaurants, Cherries Café in Clemmons has been a long-time participant in Hope du Jour. Karol McGill of Cherries said that she is glad that part of the proceeds will go to help the hungry, and that Cherries plans on participating in Hope du Jour for many years to come. There are both recently-opened and long-standing eateries on the list of participating restaurants. There is always a new place to try for those who want a change, while those who seek their favorite hot-spot are more than likely to find their regular haunt on the list. It could be a fun family activity to go through the list on the website and vote on the restaurant where you and your family will dine for Hope du Jour. Hope du Jour would not be possible without the commitment of both the restaurants and diners. However, the same can be said of the support of sponsors like Wall Esleek Babcock LLP, who has been presenting sponsor for four years. Robert Esleeck remarked, “In the years since it started more than two decades ago, Hope du Jour has become a springtime tradition for our community in which people from all walks of life dine together to support Crisis Control Ministry. My colleagues and their families look forward to spending time together at a local restaurant during Hope du Jour each year. I urge everyone to visit the Hope du Jour website to select a restaurant for dining on May 7.” Whether you take your family out for breakfast, lunch, or dinner on May 7, make sure to remember that you are doing more than just eating out. You and your family are providing help and hope to those in the community who need it now more than ever. For more information on Hope du Jour and for a full list of participating restaurants, visit www.hopedujour.org, or “like” their Facebook page at www.facebook.com/HopeduJour. We hope to see you out on May 7!

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American Girl Doll Comes to Life in Model Search and Fashion Show By Lisa S.T. Doss

® Styles of Yesterday and Today The American Girl Fashion Show is a fun-filled event for girls and their families, friends, and favorite dolls! Celebrate the experience of being a girl, whether yesterday or today, through a colorful presentation of historical and contemporary fashions. Hosted by

The Children’s Museum of Winston-Salem Saturday, May 18, 2013 9:30am & 12:30pm Sunday, May 19, 2013 1:00pm & 4:00pm The Embassy Suites Hotel Grand Ballrom Winston-Salem, NC Tickets $35 For more details or to buy tickets, visit www.AGFShow.org Recommended for children 6 and up

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American Girl doll has become a timeless and oftentimes nostalgic memory of a woman’s childhood or a daughter’s experience. The name of the doll has been fondly remembered, along with her story, read until the pages were worn. The tradition continues with a new tribute to the actual American girl, today’s daughter, who still becomes empowered by the doll’s history and by being a mirror image. Through this symbol, girls have a voice in dreaming big and making strong decisions about tomorrow.

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As a fundraising, charity partner, the Children’s Museum of Winston-Salem has revealed a thrilling opportunity for girls, both youthful and older, to reconnect with the past through the American Girl doll. Our local girls will participate in the first American Girl Fashion Show, emphasizing the historical changes in fashion through the decades that lead up to the present day. The excitement begins with a model search on Sundays, March 24th, and April 7th, from one to five p.m. at Hanes Mall, Belk Court. One hundred girls, ages six through twelve, will be selected from the Piedmont Triad, based on the criteria of confidence, grace, and spirit, coupled with a runway walk in front of a large crowd. To learn more about how your daughter can become an American Girl Fashion Show model, visit the Children’s Museum of Winston-Salem website

or AGFShow.Org. In addition to extensive details regarding requirements, schedules and important information, parents can easily download the model application form. Selected models will participate in four American Girl Fashion Show events on Saturday, May 18th, at 9:30 a.m. and 12:30 p.m., and Sunday, May 19th, at 1:00 and 4:00 p.m. The show presents the models in historical and modern fashions while carrying their American Girl doll. Models will walk to music and video, exhibiting a star-attraction level of entertainment. This two-and-a-half-hour event not only highlights fashion, but bridges the gap in ages of all girls who have experienced delight in the American Girl dolls, books, and/or magazine. Grandparents, parents, aunts, daughters and best friends will enjoy this fun-filled event, held at the Grand Ballroom at the Embassy Suites Hotel in Winston-Salem. In conjunction with the fashion show, each event will feature an exciting thirtyminute program that will foster what the American girl symbolizes: empowerment, history and fashion. Tickets include a meal and an American Girl goodie bag, and families can take advantage of photo opportunities, raffle tickets, door prizes and special souvenir items, available exclusively at American Girl Fashion Shows. The $35 tickets are available only through the Welcome Desk at the Children’s Museum, or directly at AGFShow.Org. Wonderful opportunities exist for girls during this exciting, memorable moment celebrating the American girl. Whether a potential guest model, a member of the Children’s Museum, or an interested person, girls can learn what other possibilities are available online.

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Summer Camp Showcase! Summer Camp Expo A great big thank-you to all the wonderful families who came to Forsyth Family’s first Summer Camp Expo on March 10th at the BB&T Ballpark! Your presence was greatly appreciated, not only by us, but by the 32 camps which set up tables and eagerly awaited your visit! We hope that your time with us was valuable and that you learned about some fun, exciting programs that will be engaging and beneficial for your children this summer. We continue to talk summer camps in the April and May issues of Forsyth Family! Please take a stroll through the following pages to learn more about some great local summer camp providers. As you register your children for camp, let these programs know that their advertising investment and time spent at our Expo were worthwhile! Be sure to let them know that Forsyth Family sent you!

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2013 Summer Camp Guide Highlights may be hard to believe, but summer is just around the corner, and the kids will soon be out for a very long break from school. No matter how old your children may be, there are countless benefits available through summer camps. Whether your child is independent enough for an overnight camp, or would prefer something a little closer to home, Forsyth Family is the place to find all the information you need about some great camps available this summer!

Cash Lovell Cash Lovell Stables offers some amazing experiences that your children will not find anywhere else! “Our camps are heaven for horse lovers,” said Parker Lovell. “It's all horses, all day. Well, we play water games, too! But even our giant inflatable water jumpee sits beside the pasture; the horses love to watch!” Lovell understands the truly unique experiences kids can have when they attend specialized camps. “Camps allow children to explore their passions independently of their parents,” said Lovell. “The life skills children learn through summer camps are immeasurable— from learning to meet new people, developing friendships outside of their normal surroundings, to tasting independence while pursuing their passions. At Cash Lovell Stables, our camps are designed and run by professional horsewomen who also are mothers. This is the key difference. We teach much more than horsemanship. In a nurturing, wholesome, loving environment, we treat all of our campers like we want our own children to be treated. Because of that, our children develop life skills, as well as horsemanship skills.”

St. John’s Camp Falcon For those looking for a well-rounded experience for the younger children, St. John’s Camp Falcon is a fantastic option! “St. John’s Camp Falcon is a fun and active summer destination for children ages three through 5th grade,” said Sara Agee. “The camp is Christand field trip-oriented, and this year we will be using our devotions, activities, field trips, crafts and games to explore just how super our God is.” There are many opportunities for children to learn and grow in an environment full of excitement! “St. John’s Camp Falcon counselors and staff will walk alongside your children as they actively grow spiritually, socially and developmentally in a Christ-centered, fun environment,” said Agee.

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Children’s Museum of Winston-Salem Summer Camp The Children’s Museum of Winston-Salem is a local favorite for some interactive playtime year-round, but summertime offers even more for the kids. “The Children’s Museum of Winston-Salem offers hands-on, minds-on camps for children age three to rising 4th grade,” said Sue Draddy. “Children engage in fun and learning during exciting camps like Big Bang Boom Rock Star Camp, Puppets a’Plenty, Mission Impossible, Dough Re Mi and more. The camp experience is enhanced with exploration in the Children’s Museum’s interactive exhibits. Research also confirms that children often experience a decline in skills from the end of one school year to the beginning of another, so our camps address this issue, by providing experiences that are not only highly fun and engaging, but also build literacy and other important early-learning skills.”

SummerQuest at Forsyth Country Day School While many camps focus on interests that their campers already possess, others, like SummerQuest at Forsyth Country Day School, strive to introduce campers to new things. “SummerQuest at FCDS is excited to offer a wide variety of personal and academic enrichment activities for students of all ages,” said Director Sarah Henson. “Along with courses for academic improvement, our offerings include visual and performing arts, science and technology, and athletic and fitness classes for anyone looking to have a rewarding experience. Additionally, SummerQuest can teach children how to bond over similar interests and learn from each other. “Camp brings kids of all ages together that often would never have encountered each other, while it challenges each child to delve deeper into something that interests him or her,” said Henson. “Camp at FCDS is a safe environment where kids get to be themselves and are surrounded with people who are passionate about similar things. It takes kids out of their comfort zones and challenges each child to pursue relationships with their peers, all while experiencing something fun, whether it be athletic, dramatic, scientific, technological, or even imaginary! It’s always an adventure which you don’t want to miss!”

Union Grove Christian Summer Day Camp

Wake Forest Soccer Camp

One of the best things to do when researching summer camps for your children is to find out which activities will be included during the summer. Union Grove Christian Summer Day Camp gives children ages three through 6th grade activities that satisfy a wide range of categories. “Union Grove Christian Summer Day Camp offers a safe, fun, home-away-from-home environment for your children,” said Administrator Peter D. Steinhaus. “Children always enjoy the special events and themed days during the summer. The highlight of the summer is going on field Union Grove trips, such as to the butterfly farm, CheerChristian School Mania, bowling, the library, the Children’s Museum, Adventure Landing and others. The children love it, and we want to give them as many opportunities as possible. Our field trips are designed to be fun, but at the same time allow the kids to learn about the world around us.”

For those kids with a specific interest, like soccer, Wake Forest Soccer Camp is just for them! “This is not an ordinary soccer camp, this is a soccer experience,” said Dane Brenner. “Wake Forest University has developed more than 27 professional players in the past nine seasons. Coach Vidovich has a recipe for developing players and doing it the right way...the Wake Way. The Wake Way is a unique brand in college soccer, where every pass has a message for players running off-ball. This allows for fantastic combination play and a fun way to play for not only the players, but for fans as well.”

SciWorks All parents want their children to enjoy their time off, but it is important to keep their minds active in an educational way as well. Look no further than SciWorks! “SciWorks offers 1-day and 5-day science camps for children age four through rising 8th grade,” said Print Marketing Coordinator Ally McCauley. “Our camps are interactive and hands-on, and each involves both indoor and outdoor activities, crafts, exploration time in the museum, a planetarium show and at least one guest speaker.”

Wake Forest Soccer Camp can teach your children skills they will use on and off the field. “This camp gives children a fantastic soccer experience, whether they are first-timers, looking to learn more and improve their game, or top-level recruits who want to be seen and evaluated by WFU staff. They get great exposure to WFU coaches, facilities and the Wake Forest campus. The pride we take in teaching the game is second to none. I think there's something special we do here to go the extra mile to make sure each player that comes through Spry Stadium gains knowledge and a love for the game.”

Summer camp offers experiences that children will remember for the rest of their lives. “Camps offer children the chance to learn by doing,” said McCauley. “It’s a wonderful way for them to socialize and make new friends, stay active, explore topics that already interest them and learn something new. SciWorks’ summer camps are fun and educational! They cover a wide range of topics from animals to architecture, chemistry to forensics, astronomy to paleontology.”

Betsy-Jeff Penn 4-H Educational Center Financial concerns should never keep a child from attending summer camp. There are many options available for those on a tight Betsy-Jeff budget, such as the Betsy-Jeff Penn 4-H Center. “The Penn 4-H Betsy-Jeff Penn 4-H Center is a 4-H summer camp that Educational has been serving campers since 1964,” said Stacy Burns. “It is owned and operated by NC State University and looks Center to serve all ages of NC youth. Due to university support, the camp is able to keep enrollment costs low, so that all children may attend, resulting in one of the most inexpensive NC Camps, with the best possible programming! “The camp allows children to have life-skill experiences that encourage independence, confidence and pride in themselves, while at the same time they make friendships and memories that will last a lifetime.”

Masterpiece Makers While many summer camps offer activities, field trips and craft projects, Masterpiece Makers gives children the opportunity to express themselves through art. “Masterpiece Makers offers children ages 5–12 exciting, new experiences, like ‘Wild Things,’ ‘Interior Design – Rock Your Room,’ ‘Fashion Week – Winston Salem,’ ‘Colossal Puppetry,’ ‘Medieval Madness’ and ‘Glow Show’ that provide a variety of creative learning experiences leading up to a large-scale performance or project at the end of the week,” said Leigh Ann Alexander. “Masterpiece Makers camps continue to develop multiple intelligences and high-level thinking activities that supplement the academic curriculum—all the while being disguised as fun.”

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COME SEE US THIS SPRING... Join us for our Spring show featuring an abridged version of the Wizard of Oz and performances from all our jazz, tap, lyrical and competition classes! Friday, June 7th at 6:30 pm Reynolds High School, Reynolds Auditorium

AND DANCE WITH US THIS SUMMER! We are now enrolling for summer dance camps and classes for dancers of all ages in a wide variety of subjects. Contact us for more information! 336.923.2585 - balletandperformingartscentre@gmail.com www.piedmontdancecenter.com 5365 Robinhood Road, Suite E, Winston-Salem 27106

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Daphne on a Mission with Sozo Children By Kristi Johnson Marion Marshall has been a mathematics teacher and varsity cheerleading coach at West Forsyth High School for over 10 years. But she is embarking on a new adventure with a different set of children for the next five months. She is taking a leave of absence from her school and coaching duties to travel to Kampala, Uganda.

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After having visited Kenya for two-week stints for the last four years on mission trips through Calvary Baptist Church, Daphne has grown to cherish the children of Africa. In her travels she taught Bible stories, worship songs, and spoke at youth and women’s conferences. But “God was calling me to spend more time in Africa than just two weeks at a time,” said Daphne. “I spent many days praying and seeking. I applied to a few organizations, or started application, but God was taking his time with me. Now, a few years later, I am finally walking this path of long-term missions. God has his own timing. He asks us to be patient and obedient to following his leading. Friends and family have been very supportive of her plans, both prayerfully and financially. “Before leaving for my training, many of my friends gathered to show their love and support, from my cheerleaders and their parents, to my college friends, and my local friends,” said Daphne. “My parents have continued to trust God with his plan for my life and they have never asked me not to go. I know God will strengthen their relationships with Him as they ‘let go’ and allow God to use me in a bigger way.” Daphne partnered with the Sozo Children non-profit organization in Birmingham, Alabama for a month of training before leaving for her new post in Kampala, Uganda in early March. She will work with the children at Sozo for five months, helping develop and organize individual education plans for them. Twenty college interns will then spend June and July in the three Sozo Children’s homes, implementing the tutoring program. “I believe that while I am going to help and work with these kids and the people of Kabalagala in the slums, ultimately, God is going to use this experience to teach me more about who He is and what He is doing in our world to reach the nations.” Sherry Olivier, the North Carolina Mission Coordinator for Sozo Children, said, “The Sozo Children family is so happy to have Daphne join us and share her love of Christ, her beautiful voice and her gift of teaching. We are excited for all God has in store for Daphne and the Sozo kids!” Learn more about Daphne Marshall and her adventure sharing the gospel with the children of Uganda on her blog, at dafricaonthego.wordpress.com and in upcoming issues of Forsyth Family Magazine, as we follow her on her journey. To donate to Daphne Marshall’s efforts, send a check to Calvary Baptist Church at 5000 Country Club Rd, Winston-Salem, NC, 27104, with her name and “Missions Committee” in the memo, or consider donating to Sozo Children at www.sozochildren.org.

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Visit the Museum’s art studio to Play with Paint and enjoy all of the Children’s Museum’s fun exhibits. Each adult also receives 4 tickets for the fabulous prize board drawings.

Drawings for lots of door prizes! KMO Prize listing from March event at Salem Gymnastics Day Camp at Salem Gymnastics – Donna Cochran

$10 Mix It Up Gift Card – Vye

$10 Cookies & Cream Gift Card – Molly Usry

Four tickets to the Harlem Globetrotters – Mrs. McDonald

Veggietale DVD – Linsey Larson $25 Grassroots Gift Card – Kate Proto Buckhead Betties Tote – Karen Young Sofa Cleaning $110 value – Evelyn Gilley

Two riding lessons at Cash Lovell – Magan Smith $25 Which Wich Gift Card – JoAnna Crawford WS Christian School t-shirts – Meredith Fargnoli

$25 Gift Card to New Town Bistro – Lynz Hood

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Faith &Family Love Talk

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One of the signs of a healthy family is open and meaningful communication. Good questions are the beginning. Question #5 If you could be on any magazine cover, which one would you select? Talk with your family about the above question and statement during dinner at home, quiet moments in the evening, just before bedtime, in the car or on vacation and jumpstart your family communication! Love Talk for Families can be purchased at www.garychapman.org Used by Permission from Northfield Publishing

VEGGIETALES® DVD GIVEAWAY! Email Robin@ForsythMags.com by April 12, 2013 for a chance to win! VeggieTales®: The Little House That Stood features a cast of many fan-favorite VeggieTales® characters including Bob, Larry, Junior Asparagus, The French Peas, Madame Blueberry and others. For the first time ever, this DVD parodies beloved nursery rhymes, with a signature VeggieTales® twist. Families will enjoy learning the Biblical story of the wise and foolish builders through the Veggie version of “The Three Little Pigs.” Additionally, the story of “Humpty Dumpty” is hilariously re-told around the good neighbor parable in “The Good Egg of Gooseville.” These beloved Bible stories, made understandable for kids, make the perfect gift. The DVD also features a brand-new Silly Song, “Happy Tooth Day,” and “The History of Mother Goose” bonus features among others. SRP $14.97 Image courtesy of Big Idea Entertainment

Faith &Family CALENDAR – APRIL 2013 By Tami Rumfelt

Broken 15-year-old-son, Andrew, recently

suffered a broken bone in his foot known

as a “Jones Fracture.” The bone that broke is notorious for not healing well without help. The doctor told us that because there is a limited blood flow to the portion of the bone he broke, there was only about a 50% chance it would heal without surgical intervention. So, we agreed that the best option was to have a screw placed inside the bone, which forced the fracture closed and is allowing the bone to knit itself back together. Life doesn’t always work the way it’s supposed to, does it? Hurts sometimes, often times, run too deeply to be healed without help. Are you in that place today, where your heart or spirit is broken beyond what you can handle? If so, I’m praying that you will allow our Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father and our Prince of Peace to penetrate into the depth of your pain and heal the places that are broken.

Blood Drive APRIL 6, 9:00-2:00

Walk For Life APRIL 20, 9:00AM

Location: Pinedale Christian Church (Winston-Salem) Sponsored by the American Red Cross of NWNC 336.998.7220

Location: Bolton Park (Winston-Salem) Proceeds: Salem Pregnancy Care Center 336.760.3680

The Inn's 8th Anniversity Celebration! APRIL 6, 5:00PM Location: The Inn (Salisbury) Musical Guests: LifeGiver, Broken Yesterday, Evolve, Heaven's Thunder & Relentless Flood WBFJ will be broadcasting live and on location! 704.213.1467

Joe Gibbs APRIL 9, 7:00AM Location: Benton Convention Center (Winston-Salem) Joe Gibbs is a former college and NFL coach, NASCAR team owner and author of his latest book, "Game Plan For Life." Tickets: $20.00 (per person - includes breakfast a nd a copy of his new book) 336.768.8883

Beth Moore's "Living Proof" Conference APRIL 12-13 Location: Greensboro Coliseum (Greensboro) Beth Moore is a nationall-known speaker, teacher and author of several best-selling Bible studies for women Worship: Travis Cottrell 800.254.2022 / lifeway.com/event

"Ignite Your Faith" Concert APRIL 13, 5PM Location: St. John's Lutheran School (Winston-Salem) Musical Guests: Katelyn & Derek Drye, Awestruck Worship, Vital Cadence & Meredith Macy 336.725.1651

Third Day APRIL 20, 7:00PM Location: Greensboro Coliseum Special Events Center (Greensboro) Speical Guests: Josh Wilson & Colton Dixon 800.745.3000 / premierproductions.com

Dr. Gary Chapman APRIL 23, 6:30PM Location: Benton Convention Center (Winston-Salem) Dr. Chapman is the Associate Senior Pastor at Calvary Baptist Church and the author of the best-selling book, "The Five Love Languages." Proceeds: Associates In Christian Counseling 336.896.0065 x305

Blood Drive APRIL 24, 9:00-1:30 Location: YMCA (Kernersville) Sponsored by the American Red Cross of NWNC 800.733.2767

Golf Tournament APRIL 26, 9:00AM Location: Maple Leaf Golf Course (Kernersville) Proceeds: Winston-Salem Rescue Mission 336.723.1848 / wsrescue.org

Men's & Women's Doubles Tennis Tournament APRIL 26-27 Location: Oak Hollow Tennis Center (High Point) Proceeds: Next Step Ministries domestic violence shelter Registration deadline: April 19 / 336.413.7054

"Celebrate Your Marriage" Conference APRIL 14-15 Location: Grove Park Inn (Asheville) Conference Leaders: Jay & Laura Laffoon Special Guest: Dennis Swanberg 800.965.9324 / jayandlaura.com

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Musing About… Holy Hypocrisy

By Tim Roberts - Pastor of Sunrise United Methodist Church in Lewisville

20 And now, may the God of peace, who brought again from the dead our Lord Jesus, equip you with all you need for doing his will. May he produce in you, through the power of Jesus Christ, all that is pleasing to him. Jesus is the great Shepherd of the sheep by an everlasting covenant, signed with his blood. To him be glory forever and ever. Amen. ~ Hebrews 13:20-21 hate being called a hypocrite. But more often than I like, I hear that accusation being directed toward me. If only my accusers would just put themselves in my shoes, if they understood the full dynamics, or had a better sense of the situation, I would almost wager a bet that they wouldn’t be so critical of me saying one thing, but doing another. After all, there is always more to the story than we know, right?

I was faced with a predicament the other day that was consuming my thoughts as I was driving home. It was enough that I wasn’t even listening to one of my favorite talk-radio shows. As I agonized over the predicament, my eyes focused on a scene that lifted me from the mire of my quandary. In a yard along the highway, my gaze fell upon a man running behind a bicycle being pedaled by a youngster. As the little lass pedaled feverishly, she wobbled from side-to-side a bit, but never fell over, because the man running behind had a firm grip on the seat of the bike. I believe it was safe to assume that what I was witnessing was a young father teaching his daughter how to ride a bike, without the training wheels. My assumption arose out of my own experience of being both the biker-intraining and the expectant father running behind. The scene vividly conjured up memories of learning to ride

a bike and teaching both my daughters to do the same. In each scenario, I remember the words being uttered, “Don’t let go, Daddy!”

God. I can do it all by myself.” Isn’t that the way it is supposed to be? Isn’t the role of a parent to train a child to do for themselves? Right?

Of course, you know, daddies do let go. It’s part of growing up. The child learns to harness the power of centrifugal force and rides on two wheels, unaided by an exhaustive parent. It is often overlooked as a milestone of life; but maybe it needs to be elevated to one, because for many, this event marks the beginning of independence. Yet, it may also be the first testament of hypocrisy.

That’s the fallacy of my logic. I have allowed myself to come to believe that I am fully capable of handling my life perfectly well on my own. Not that I don’t need God, though. God can run right behind me and catch me, if and when I fall. That’s how I think it should be, or, at least, that is how I tend to live out much of my life.

Okay, so what does learning to ride a bike have to do with being called a hypocrite, you may ask. Think of it this way, when we were on that bike seat for the first time and filled with fear, and trepidation beckoned, we shouted, “Don’t let go!” Did we really mean it? Are there children who really expect someone to always be running behind with a firm grip? I could stop here, but this reality goes far deeper.

God is not “hands off,” though. When we profess Jesus as Lord of our life, it’s our whole life, not just certain areas and not as a back-up to our failures and inadequacies. Though I have had years of theological training and moments of good ideas, I must remind myself daily that, yes, I Need God Every Hour. I need to pray about the little things as well as the big things. I must not rely on my cleverness and natural tendencies alone. When I think I can handle these situations alone, that I have enough experience and education that I don’t need to “bother” God, then I am setting myself up for a fall.

Maybe my frustration over this ill-received admonishment came to a head immediately after I passed this milestone event. The words of a stanza of an old hymn began to nag me, haunt, me, convict me. “I Need Thee Every Hour...” Really? Do I really need God every hour? I wanted to scream, “Of course I do!” but does my life reflect my need for God? Do the things I do reflect my ingenuity or my dependence on my Creator?

No wonder I am so often faced with problems that seem too large to handle; they are—for me alone.

I am beginning to think that I may be that child on the seat, wanting that safe and secure grip of a loving Father, until...I can do it on my own. Then, “Hands off,

Godspeed,

No wonder why I often feel at a loss and frustrated over the complexity of ministry and life. No wonder God calls me a hypocrite.

Tim

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needs of orphans and vulnerable children in their communities. The goal is to empower parents to keep their children, versus abandoning them. And third, by educating the community about adoption and the needs of orphans. If financial assistance is needed, couples may apply for a $3,000 grant from Caroline’s Promise. “Caroline's Promise assists families who adopt from anywhere in the world, including the USA,” said Holbrook. “Grants typically go to families who have been matched with a child and are at the end of their adoption processes. They usually have exhausted all of their resources, and the grant from Caroline’s Promise helps them complete their adoptions.” As with many non-profits, Caroline’s Promise depends largely on donations from individuals to fund the organization. “We also receive support from local churches and businesses,” said Holbrook. “Some of our greatest funding comes from churches and other groups who host fundraisers to benefit Caroline’s Promise. We love to partner with them and promote their events. We are having the ‘Hope Grows 5K & Family Fun Walk’ on Saturday, April 13, 2013, at Triad Park in Kernersville. Participants will walk or run in honor of a child at our partner school in Guatemala City, and funds will go to build a school for them.” Although adoption is a large part of Caroline’s Promise, it is not the only thing. “Our main goal is to promote the needs of orphans, whether they are foster children in our community, or living on the streets in another country,” said

Holbrook. “Our passion is helping people to understand that they can make a difference for orphans, whether they adopt or not, and providing ways for them to do that. Through our partnership with churches in Guyana and Guatemala, people can take short-term mission teams, sponsor children, invest in micro-loan programs and volunteer in their local communities.” Their partnership with a church in Guatemala City helps to meet the needs of orphans and vulnerable children in their communities. “We do this through child sponsorship of 125 children who attend their school, Casita Adonai,” said Holbrook. “We take short-term teams and offer teacher training and construction—we’ve built a computer lab and library. We have offered parent training and workshops, outreach to the community, provided vitamins, eye exams and eyeglasses, physical exams, etc.” Caroline’s Promise has also started a sewing ministry which, after training, provides women with a means of support for their families. Their partnership with a church in Georgetown, Guyana, helps a missionary with an after-school tutoring program. Their work is truly making a difference If you would like to help this wonderful organization through a donation, or would like more information on Caroline’s Promise, visit the website at www.carolinespromise.net.

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Nothing too Small…

By Brittany Garner

“How

much is this necklace?”

I was in one of my favorite downtown boutiques, holding up a long giraffe necklace to the cashier. I’d had my eye on it for weeks, but it was always more than I wanted to pay for it. Knowing this place had a regular habit of updating clearance stock, I’d decided to hold out. This particular day, however, it had no price and a massive knot in the middle of the chain. “That?” The cashier squinted at my necklace for a few seconds before waving the thought away with her hand. “You can have that thing for three bucks if you want it. No one can get that stupid knot out.” She went back to her business behind the counter, and I was thrilled by my good fortune. Sure, the chain was knotted, but who cares? Obviously this woman had misjudged my supreme de-knotting skills. “I’ll take it!” As I marched out, giraffe necklace in hand, I felt confident about being able to get the knot out. It didn’t take long for me to realize, though, that this knot was not as cooperative as I’d originally deemed it. I played with it on-and-off for a few hours, growing increasingly frustrated about the whole situation. Sure, three dollars was a great deal, but not if I couldn’t wear it. I found myself at Starbucks, the necklace still in my purse. I tried again to fiddle with the knot, but it seemed as if my efforts were only making it worse. Exasperated, I tossed down the necklace on the table in front of me. I ran through my list of friends, contemplating who I could ask to fix it. A few people came to mind, but I suddenly had a better idea. Many of us have heard the phrase, “Nothing is ever too big or too small for our God.” It’s easy to consider when facing a mountain. Nothing is too big for Him. But what about the molehill? Is nothing really never too small for Him to care about? Does the almighty Sovereign of the universe really care about the little things? Well, I figured it was worth a shot. I bowed my head for a short request. “Heavenly Father, I know this sounds really stupid, but will you please get this knot out of my necklace?” I opened my eyes and stared at the offending clumped chain on the table. It was still there, just as I’d left it, stubborn chain still woven together in the middle. I don’t know what I expected. Maybe I thought it would be laid out flat on the table, sparkling with an iridescent divine light. Maybe I expected a bolt of lightning to strike the obnoxious knot and blast it into a straight chain. Maybe I expected nothing. After all, God has a lot more important things to do than fix a little knot in a necklace I probably didn’t need anyway. Sighing, I reached for the necklace, lifting it up by the large giraffe pendant. Then, as the chain shimmied off the table and dropped behind the giraffe’s neck, I watched, stunned, as half of the knot fell away with it. I stared, dumbfounded, at the knot which was now less than half its original size. A small loop of chain stuck out away from the rest of the clump and I gripped it with shaking fingers. Slowly, I pulled the loop and watched as the rest of the knot fell away straight, no evidence of a knot having ever been there. This small and unexpected miracle (and trust me, what a miracle—this knot was ridiculous) proved to me that, yes, God does listen to us and is always listening, if only we just trust Him enough to call out. It doesn’t matter that He has an entire universe to run; He is always waiting for us to hand Him our knots. This same idea applies to everything—not just the knots in our necklaces, but every knot in our lives, colossal or almost insignificant. Now, I truly understand the phrase, “Nothing is too small,” for our God to care about, and I love to ask Him not just about the boulders but also the pebbles. Lord, where are my keys? My glasses? As wild as it may seem to us, God wants to be involved in every single aspect of our lives, because He loves us enough to care more than we can fathom, even about the seemingly unimportant things. If only we would ask. 70 • forsythfamilymagazine.com

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Vinny DiGerolamo An Angel on Earth Earns His Wings in Heaven By Carolyn S. Peterson -year-old Vinny DiGerolamo, although his life was brief, touched and changed the lives of others more than most of us ever will. Almost from the moment he was born, he started fighting for his life, inspiring all that knew him, and many who didn’t, with each battle along the way.

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After all the treatments had been exhausted, Sarah wanted to continue, discussing new chemo options, followed by more radiation with Vinny’s oncologist, Dr. Russell. But Sarah recalls that the time leading up to Vinny’s passing was filled with talks about God, Heaven and angels. “Vinny had a spiritual connection with Rev. Ellis Rouse, of Sedge Garden UMC, where we go to church. Vinny clearly understood death, dying and Heaven. The night before we were sent home with Hospice care, Dr. Russell came into Vinny’s room and said that he hates cancer, but he loves children more than he hates cancer, and he took an oath when he became a doctor…as he was saying those words, I thought, ‘First do no harm.’ We knew the possible side effects of more treatments, and Vinny wanted to go home. I have always said a parent knows in their heart when their child has had enough. We knew that we wanted Vinny home to enjoy whatever time he had left. We were given 8 more wonderful weeks with Vinny,” Sarah said. Now the DiGerolamo family continues to help others in Vinny’s memory with their work through Kids of Childhood Cancer. “In the past 4 years, we have raised $226,000, which has been used to care and support families like ours. Our 3rd annual Walk 4 Our Kids 5K will be held on May 11th, the day before Mother’s Day, honoring not only children with cancer, but also the mothers whose children have battled childhood cancer, or have lost their fight against this devastating illness. We hope to have the best turnout ever and raise more money than we have in previous years,” commented Sarah. During Vinny’s 5 years of fighting cancer, he believed that you should never give up! For those he touched, he taught them simple, yet important things. “Vinny taught us to never take anything for granted, live each day as if it were your last and look those you love in the eye and tell them ‘I love you.’ Most importantly, never stop believing that miracles happen and that Heaven and angels are real,” Sarah said. For more information go to www.kidsofchildhoodcancer.org or call 336-337-9792. To register for Walk 4 Our Kids, visit www.walk4ourkids.org.

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ONE FORSYTH FATHER By Michael W. Johnson

a recent evening at home, I was flipping through the TV channels and happened upon one of the most enduring films of all time. While I imagined other grown men home in silk robes and leather slippers who were smoking pipes, relaxing with snifters of brandy and watching the returns from the Stock Exchange, I was there on the couch with a PB&J watching Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory.

This was the classic version, of course, and it brought a tidal wave of memories back from my own childhood, when I must have seen this film 15 times. But let’s be honest, it’s one of those films you can get hooked on at any age. Or at least I choose to think so. The best moment for me in the movie is at the very end, when Charlie discovers he will take over the factory for the retiring Willie. Willie invites Charlie to push the one button never tested in the Wonka-vator (the elevator that crashes through the roof of the factory and floats high above the city). You don’t seem to understand. Charlie got to PUSH THE BUTTON that no one had ever pushed! One of my favorite Southern colloquialisms is “mash the button.” As a man without a stable geographic identity, I had always heard and used the phrase “push the button.” And then I married my Mississippi magnolia and she has always said, “Mash the button,” and like so much about her, it is adorable to me. What is it with boys and regressive grown men who are fascinated with pushing buttons and flipping switches? My wife would say I am an expert at pushing her buttons to get her flabbergasted, flustered and frustrated. But I am talking about the fascination with things that start stuff. Now my wife would say I am an expert at starting projects, but never quite finishing. I see a pattern forming here. Anyway, what is it about the allure of buttons, switches, starters, handles and levers, for boys? My toddler is now some sort of self-taught genius, if I may say, with my phone. He manages to slide his finger across the screen to turn it on, to access the menus, to find the photo album and make his way

through the pictures, reliving his every move over the past 3 years. He knows what the little arrow means at the video screen and doesn’t hesitate to watch videos of himself and his golf swing, his Superman impression and his uncanny ability to hang freely from the monkey bars. It never gets old for him. He finds his way to YouTube without any effort whatsoever and starts video snippets that will either endear or frighten his parents. It’s always a dangerous game when he quietly dredges through the depths of the internet on the phone without our knowledge. The trance my son falls into with buttons also extends to all manner of things around the house. The microwave is a favorite, and he now knows that the “30-second” button is the perfect choice for warming his milk. And scarily enough, he also knows which button resets everything to zero to start all over again. I’ve decided that he’s a master of trial and error, and while he doesn’t yet consistently know which is the left shoe or the right shoe and how Velcro really works, he can do anything you want when it comes to a power switch or button of any kind. I suspect that when my son has his own children, they will be zooming around the city in their flying saucer cars, will have screens that drop from the ceiling and they will push buttons with abandon to open doors for themselves. Wait—that was an episode of The Jetsons. Never mind. But, I bet his children will simply think about the same things my son ponders now, and they shall appear as holograms before their eyes. Can you imagine being right there with a monkey riding a bicycle after being shot from a rocket launcher, who is also blowing bubbles while carrying a dozen donuts with sprinkles ?! I was a child at the wrong time, if that will be the case. To contact Michael Johnson: michaelwinj@hotmail.com Forsyth Fathers is a group of Forsyth County stay-at-home Dads and working Dads whose main goal is to get our kids together, share our experiences, socialize and support one another. We are simply about networking in an effort to encourage and celebrate the everyday accomplishments of Dads throughout Forsyth County. We welcome all Dads to join us! wsparent@googlegroups.com Join and LIKE us on Facebook today!www.facebook.com/forsythfathers

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NICU Families Benefit from an Inspirational, Non-Profit Program By Lisa S.T. Doss stories provide each of us with a sense of goodwill in the world. The moment becomes awe-inspiring when it relates to a person in our own community. Her name is Deneen Bryan, owner of Hazel Grace Photography. Through a personal experience of living with her family at a Ronald McDonald House for six-months, her daughter became a catalyst to bestow one of her own gifts, free professional photography, to the triad families with babies in the Neo-natal intensive care unit. In 2011, along with the assistance and encouragement of a Ronald McDonald House director, Chacy SanFilippo, Deneen began photographing babies at Brenner Children’s Hospital. The gift was instantaneous; it brought an unmeasured hope to families by celebrating the progression of a newborn’s beginnings.

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Funding became an important component concluding 2012. With limited time remaining, Deneen initiated the support of area photographers, on a volunteer basis, to join the cause and assist in the goal of raising funds. Joining her were many professionals who, due to personal experience, rallied for this program. The arrival of 2013 introduced the opening chapter. With the community’s awareness and support, Capturing Hopes Photography will serve the families in a time of great need. The first fund raising event, open to the Triad community, will be held on Saturday, April 13, 2013. In addition to face painters and various local vendors, CHP photographers will be available to those with pre-scheduled sessions. At a country setting, back drops featuring superheroes, balloons, a candy shop, and a vintage scene will be available. The first two sessions cost $50 and $30 for each additional booth. To ensure your full enjoyment at this fund raising event, contact the team directly at capturinghopes@gmail.com. Many parents of NICU children await the moment that all cords and monitors will be removed from their little bodies and yet, this is the moment life began. Whether in NICU or not, all babies deserve the opportunity to be photographed. Unlike cell phones, a professional photographer can capture the grace and humanity during a baby’s progression in the hospital. Parents no longer have to regret not having the memories. Today’s moments, tomorrow’s strengths is a belief for all parents who hold on to the power of hope. The team of photographers stands together as volunteers to capture the moment through professional pictures. “With a child in the hospital, parents and family members are usually so focused on care and treatment, that important opportunities for bonding and moments of brief respite and joy are too often overlooked. We are so excited that Deneen is expanding her work into the new charity Capturing Hopes Photography so that more photographers can provide these much needed memories for families.” says Heather Rompel, Ronald McDonald House Family Support Services Manager. Capturing Hopes Photography provides families with documentary-styled photography at no cost. In addition to an open access of an online display, families of NICU babies also receive ten 4 x 6 prints which are artistically wrapped and delivered to either the hospital or home. The CHP team will gladly accommodate the families scheduling needs. Numerous families are already valuing the gift of this program; therefore, spread the word. The team continues to seek volunteers who would be willing to offer their time and service especially as fund raising kicks off on April 13, 2013. Whether a professional photographer or able assistant, your participation is important to the development of the “Capturing Hopes” program. Please contact the team through Facebook or by capturinghopes@gmail.com. 76 • forsythfamilymagazine.com

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Universities and colleges are invited to participate with fairs by qualifying invitation. This year’s 2013 schedule offers one event in May and four in the fall. Universities register to participate and then receive event folders identifying the venue and other details of each fair. Since the fairs are hosted in central North Carolina, students from surrounding counties may attend and participate at no cost and with no essay. Colleges and universities continue to increase tuition beyond the rate of inflation. College students are now saddled with crippling debt of more than $1 trillion in student loans. College loans are not forgiven and may be repaid through garnished wages as well as social security benefits. Excessive student borrowing is likened to risky mortgages. College Knowledge offers financial alternatives, enabling students to complete post-graduate studies while minimizing loans.

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Gabby’s project would not have started if it hadn’t been for her project advisor and contact person at South Fork Elementary School, Becca Oliver, who teaches second grade. Becca first expressed the need for work to be done on the gardens at the Elementary School, and Gabby gladly took on the challenge. The project was kicked off as Gabby teamed with Becca, many volunteers and the elementary children, in activities both educational and fun. They ventured on this learning experience together as well, discovering the passion of growing their own garden. Many days and hours were spent preparing the garden beds, sowing the seeds, planting the plants, laying mulch and nurturing the grounds with water and a heavy dose of much needed TLC. As the garden started to grow, Gabby walked the grounds with the Imprints Cares children and teachers at South Fork. She took everyone on a tour of all three gardens: the Butterfly garden, the North Carolina garden and the Vegetable garden. They surveyed the results of all their hard work—flourishing plants, vegetables and spices, such as various butterfly bushes, dogwood trees, rosemary, cauliflower, Brussels sprouts, collard greens and radishes, to name a few. The children in the Imprints Cares Before and After School Program were filled with anticipation as they learned that the final lesson was harvesting! They picked a prize radish of their own to take home to their family, which brought big smiles of joy to their faces. Gabby's project proved to be an extremely valuable lesson, as the kids learned about agriculture, experienced first-hand how to produce food, and realized they loved it! Gabby and the Imprints Cares team are thankful to Becca and the other South Fork Elementary teachers and kids for their willingness to collaborate on this learning adventure. Also appreciated were the donations of mulch from Mr. Bobby Pope of Pope Sand & Gravel, plants from Keith and Phillip Gossett of Gossett’s Landscape Nursery, as well as the help from the North Carolina Agricultural Extension. 80 • forsythfamilymagazine.com

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RIVERRUN TO HOLD FREE SCREENINGS FOR LOCAL FAMILIES & DOG OWNERS RiverRun International Film Festival will again offer free screenings for the community during the 15th annual Festival, running April 12-21 in Winston-Salem.

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“We offer free community screenings to connect with audiences from throughout the community. This program also furthers our outreach efforts and ensures the Festival’s demographics match both the diversity of our local community and the diversity of the films we present,” said Andrew Rodgers, RiverRun’s Executive Director. This year, three films will be screened free for the public. RiverRun will also welcome back its ever popular Saturday Morning Cartons series which includes animation submissions for the youngest Festival goer.

BABE Saturday, April 13th on Fourth Street; festivities begin 6:00 p.m.; film begins at dusk

THE MUPPET MOVIE Tuesday, April 16th at Hanesbrands Theatre from 6:30 p.m. - 8:05 p.m. In honor of yet another new Muppet movie on the horizon, we will screen the very first Muppet film, the original, The Muppet Movie. In this film Kermit is convinced to take a trek across the US, picking up his Muppet friends along the way, to head to Los Angeles and try make it in Hollywood. Sponsored by Hanesbrands Inc. Ticket vouchers must be picked up from Hanesbrands Outlet Store at Thruway Shopping Center, 385-383 Lower Mall Dr., Winston-Salem NC commencing on March 13th.

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When a young pig breaks from his normal activities and decides he wants to be a herder like the sheepdogs he lives with, his owner he realizes he may have something extra special and embarks on a career with young Babe and the rest of his sheepdogs. This is RiverRun’s 2013 “Fido Frolic & Film” selection, where audiences are encouraged to bring their dogs and families to the film. RiverRun will partner with the Forsyth Humane Society and Project Pearl to raise visibility for these pet-oriented nonprofits.

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Imprints Dash with Daddy Calling all Dads! Join Imprints at the ballgame. Dads and kids of all ages are invited to join us for a fun time with The Winston-Salem Dash. Bond with your child as you cheer the home team on to victory! Our first Dash with Daddy is scheduled for Saturday, April 20th. Contact us to sign up!

Kinder Coach Chuck Fold’s band, Big Bang Boom will play whimsical children’s music from 9-10am on both Saturdays. Krispy Kreme donuts will be distributed at 11am in the lobby. Ages 18 and under are admitted free.

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RiverRun presents a broad range of yet-to-be released films, celebrity tributes, family programs and galas. The 15th Annual Festival will showcase 140+ films in Winston-Salem, NC from April 12-21, 2013. Special thanks to: Arts Council of Winston-Salem, Reynolds American, UNCSA, BB&T, Wells Fargo, Kilpatrick Townsend, Hanesbrands Inc., JDL Castle Corp. and a/perture.

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From the Horse’s Mouth By Raven* Look for me at the Hospice Hope Run/Walk on April 13th! I'll be with the Forsyth Magazines "Running for Ryan" Team. Hope to see you there!

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wraps around my leg The U.S. Pony Club s. Sadly, the Horse s is a national nonmasters group does ba dges given to them pr ofi n’t have t organization whos is to “develop chara , but I can think of e mission cter, leadership, co a few appropriate on m ay be a “C nfi ha es dence and a sense tterbox Badge” or , like community in youth a “Margarita Badge” of through a program Addiction” badge an or a “Saddle Pad that teaches the ca and ponies, riding d so on … re of horses you get the picture. and mounted spor ts.” At the barn wh work, Pony Club is Of course, nobody ere I live and HUGE! There are gir ha s thought about award ls from ages 8 to1 and they learn all ab ing badges to us, the (surprising, since 6 participating, out horsemanship, we are the core ele horses tea m mwork, service and en ts There are tests (writ of the program, bu ha ve it) . At our barn, it wo more. ten and riding) to m t the re you uld be naturally ap ove up to the next these kids study for propriate for badges awarded as follows: level, that like they were law to Pr be issy Polly Badge – school final exams. to Scarlett, becaus they are shooting for she’s hot stuff and Ultimately, e sh the elite levels of rid e we thi ars nks bows in her mane— ing and horse man skills. true, she’s general regarded as the prett agement ly iest horse at the ba rn, but she knows well, if you get my it a little too Several times a ye drift. ar there are Pony Cl ub “rallies,” in wh must take full respo Spooky Pony Badg ich the members nsibility for the care, e – to Filbert, who grooming and feedin spooks at anything horses, and for rid anywhere, just beca g of their , any time, ing them in the rin us e he stares at the ob g at the appropriate ject too long and wo plenty of parents an himself into a frigh level. While d coaches are on the rks t—he needs to lea premises in case of rn the anti-spook tec emergencies, adult which involves the hnique I use, interference or interv “In an im ate ob jects are not predato ention is not allow kids must prove the repeated slowly an rs” mantra, ed, and the y are independentl d calmly. y capable of manag horses. I always pa ing their rticipate in the rallie Laid Back Badge s when my schedu as I have a pedago – to Mr. Cool, who le allows, and, gical nature, I activ is—true to his nam an d collected in mos ely contribute to the e—calm, cool education. Last ye t any situation (exc participants’ ar, one of them lef ept for when the ye laid into his manlyt a gate latch sligh llow jacket meandered out of pa rts —that was ugly, bu tly loose, so I my stall and escorte t better him than m d myself up to the e…). grounds on my ow Qu een Bee Badge – practice n recognizance—bo to Tabby who think y, that was a lesso s let me tell you! An sh e wo ru les the roost, and wh uld usurp me if sh n for the team, other time, I lay do e could stage a co o wn on my back in up, but she can’t ga four hooves straight followers to do so, my stall, with all rner enough up in the air, my ey be ca us e sh e bo sses them around es rolled back in m tongue hanging ou so much, they can’t y head and my stand her. t. As the kids shrie ked and ran off to fin got up, dusted mys d a leader, I elf off and was calm No Bit Badge – to ly munching grain resident veterinaria Noah, who makes by the time the dif n came running. Th getting the bit into ficult that the rider his mouth so is group got last pla rally, but I bet they bangs her head ag ce at that won’t ever be such ainst the wall in fru easy marks again. stration. bonus lesson from Bi g Jump Badge – That was a the school of hard to Josey, who can knocks! jump big jumps, an with astonishing ea d does so At the lower levels se and grace (of co , the Pony Club aw urse, jumping the isn’t really allowed ard pa s stu ba re fence dg , but that’s just a tec achievements inside es for specific hnicality). the barn, such as gr oo m ing and stable managem , feeding, health ca Hay Hog Badge – re ent, as well as for to Gabriel, who wa achievements in the nts all the hay in the as balanced seat, co him self, but who never sa ddle, such field to eat for rrectly trotting or ca actually gets to ea nte rin g, t any of it because jumping. riding in the open constantly running he is and back and forth guard ing haystacks. There is also an “a I, of course, would get dult version” of Po the Herd King Ba ny Club called Horse dge, for my excelle which people like leadership, guidanc masters, in the apple lady and nt e, m anagement and co he r cohorts can learn concepts in an adult ntrol of the herd. Bu alr ea dy knew that. the same t you setting. I assist in Horsemasters as we stood quite still wh ll, and have ile many a novice Love from the pastu has learned to prop re, Raven erly put polo

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Education is Focus for Horse Rescue Group By Kim Beane K Stables Rescue & Rehab (HKS R&R) is a small non-profit horse rescue organization that was begun in July 2011. As it approaches its two-year anniversary, the group is going strong and is as committed as ever to rehabbing, retraining and rehoming rescued horses.

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This past winter, a two-story storage building was donated to HKS R&R that they will use as an education center. They’ve also built a quarantine stall onto the side of the building for incoming horses. Rescued equines may have illnesses requiring them to be segregated from other horses at the barn to prevent the spread of any contagions. After a certain period of time, when they are well, they are allowed to live, work and play with other horses. Needless to say, the building was a windfall. “The community support of our rescue efforts has been amazing,” said Dawn Longman, Chairman of the Board of Directors, “and the gift of the building was extraordinarily generous!” Winston-Salem resident Leigh Somerville donated the building. “I’m excited that the building will be put to good use by this horse rescue organization – it’s a worthy cause!” said Leigh.

“We think this will be a great way to raise money for the rescue, while having a really good time, too” said Dr. Dana Winn, another Board member. “Cellar 4201 will have ‘wine mint juleps’ and wine for sale – all you need to bring is your food and your tailgate set-up! Oh, and be sure to wear your best Derby hat, ladies!” So, come on out to Cellar 4201, located at 4201 Apperson Road in East Bend, on Saturday, May 4, 2013, from 3 pm – 7 pm for a fun-filled day of watching the Derby and helping horses! For more information, go to www.hiddenkhorserescue.org.

This spring HKS R&R will officially open their education center in the building, and hold classes that will be open to the community. One class will specifically focus on horse management and what it takes to own a horse – financially, physically and emotionally. The hope is that by helping people make an educated, informed decision prior to buying a horse, there will be fewer horses that end up in rescue situations. Another class will focus on horse health, so that people who already have horses can learn how to provide the proper type and amount of food, and identify when the horse needs dental or veterinary care. “Sometimes a horse will act out,” said Michelle Hargreaves, a Board member, “when he is in pain and trying to communicate that to his owner. We want the owners to recognize when and how their horses need help, so they can be healthy and happy.” On Saturday, May 4, 2013, Hidden K Stables Rescue & Rehab will be hosting a Derby Party with Cellar 4201 winery in East Bend. A portion of the proceeds will go to help the group rehab, retrain and rehome rescued horses. Cost is $10 per person which includes one glass of wine (or a wine tasting) and watching the Kentucky Derby on big-screen TVs (fee is $5 for guests under age 21). The event runs from 3 pm to 7 pm with full Derby coverage. Bring your own picnic/tailgate food and set up your tent and chairs for a fun day outside. Derby attire is welcomed and there will be a hat-judging contest for the ladies with several categories, including “Most Elegant,” “Most Outlandish,” “Best Horse Theme,” and “Best Overall.”

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Small Stories for a Big World By Kim Underwood

I was a kid, I swore to myself that, when I grew up, I would never talk about how much things used cost or get into arguments with other people about who did what when.

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My grandmother would say something along the lines of, “Remember back in ’37 when Mildred got that new car…” and my grandfather would say, “That wasn’t in ’37. That had to be in the summer of ’38 because she got that Ford the same summer that Lorene got bursitis…” “That’s not right,” my grandmother would say, “because Lorene had bursitis the same time as…” and they would be off. Although every now and then I can’t resist, I have mostly been pretty good about not getting into such disagreements. Having a spotty memory for what happened when helps immensely. As for the pledge not to talk about what things used to cost, I gave that up long ago. One of my favorites is how, when I was a kid, it cost a quarter to go to the movies and that the older sister of a friend of mine tried to organize a boycott when the price went up to 35 cents. And, whenever I bring up the fact that candy bars used to cost a nickel, I make sure to note that, in those days, candy bars were substantially bigger than the ones sold these days. Although Sparkle Girl and Doobins find such facts of marginal interest, Sparkle Girl was attentive when I told her about how, when I was a kid, my dad had to get cash out of the bank before it closed on Friday or do without for the entire the weekend unless he found a store that would cash his check. Now you can get cash around the clock, and you need cash in fewer and fewer situations.

I was struck by how much has changed when a friend and I went down to City Hall. I was surprised to see that the block where we parked no longer has meters. In the middle of the block was a single electronic machine. You feed it and it dispenses a card that you put on the dash. Neither of us had a quarter, and, when we opened our wallets, a single $20 bill occupied each one. No problem. He inserted his credit card, punched in a request for the hour of credit that 25 cents would buy and out popped a card to put on the dash. The way that money works has changed at lot not only out in the world but also inside my head over the years. I have felt rich twice in my life - both times in the days when my allowance was 25 cents a week and those substantial candy bars were a nickel. One time was when I was spending the afternoon with my father while he went about his business. We stopped at the hospital. He said he needed to go in by himself for a few minutes. He handed me a quarter and told me that I could spend it all at the little store next to the hospital. Wow! I could buy five candy bars if I wanted! The other time was when I came across a dollar bill lying in a parking lot all by itself. Finding it like that was perfect. I didn’t have worry about turning it in for someone to claim as I would have if I had come upon it, say, in the hall at church. When that memory came to mind recently, I wondered how much it would take for me to ever feel that rich again. Now, even if we had enough money set aside for the kids’ education, a new furnace when the time comes and a comfortable retirement, I’m not sure I could ever recapture that feeling.

Kim Underwood can be found online at www.hisdogness.com 86 • forsythfamilymagazine.com

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The View from My Section...

By A. Keith Tilley

What Will Your Child Be When He or She Grows Up? the task of planning for a career that doesn’t exist yet. The idea is not that far-fetched. Surprisingly, futurists prognosticate that our children and/or our children’s children could very well be working in jobs that do not even exist at the moment. With the rapid acceleration of technology and innovation, new opportunities are arising in fields not yet developed, or that are still being developed. Intimidating as it may sound; it can also be very exciting. Especially when we look further into exactly what types of jobs may exist in the future. Examples range from the expected to what would appear to be outright science fiction. Such jobs as: Leisure Consultants, Tourist Safety Experts, Robot Technicians, Electronic Mail Technicians, Aquaculturists who will grow produce in water, Aromatherapists who can influence moods with fragrances, and Digital Animators creating virtual actors. Think Lara Croft of Tomb Raider fame.

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Business and manufacturing have the potential to offer an array of new advancements, compared to what we know today. Imagine the growing use of artificial intelligence to perform functions that are usually done by “human” resources at the moment, such as customer service. Another area with tremendous potential goes back to the mass communication field and the need for more and more digital storage opportunities. Digital storage is quickly becoming a critical resource for both businesses and individuals alike. Science is in the early stages of a new process for producing human organs that has the potential to cross over and integrate into the production of multiple products in our environment. The process is called three-dimensional or 3D printing. It uses a custom-designed printer device that includes a cartridge that looks much like a printer cartridge, only it lays down cells instead of ink. The cells are put down layer by layer until they form a complete organ. This same technology could transform the way consumer products are made in the future.

“Treat yourself and your future as if you were your own company.”

New and interesting fields of study are envisioned, such as mass communication, for instance. In a world where many things are created digitally from voice messages, photos, videos and telecommuting, to potentially wearable media, more advanced entertainment devices, interactive advertising and more, the need for professionals in this wide-ranging field is apparent. Another area you may have heard mentioned already is the emerging agricultural process. This includes the concept of multi-story greenhouses, located in cities all over the globe, which produce a variety of plants and foods, some even without the need for soil. Consider law enforcement and the expanding role computer and digital forensics might play in it. In another development, would you believe the technology for fully driverless cars is said to exist already? Imagine the possibilities with this new advancement. Improving safety on the road for one, and the impact it could have on delivery systems worldwide. Speaking of enhancements to delivery systems, consider wireless communication’s potential impact as well. Although drones are taking a bit of a hit in popularity and acceptance at the moment, they could play an important role in how items are shipped in the future from one place to another in the most efficient and cost-effective manner. The realm of career possibilities within just these areas alone is vast. Systems engineering specific to this discipline, the design and development function, and even the actual piloting of drones themselves are all possible career paths that may present themselves to future graduates.

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Any one of the areas already discussed could impact the path of today’s students when planning for their future. Futurists point out that careers, and subsequent college majors of instruction for those careers, are becoming more and more specialized. Some have projected that most jobs in the future will require some form of continued education and training, on-going throughout one’s employment. These training and continuous education programs offer yet another career opportunity. When it comes to designing your future, Reid Hoffman, co-founder and Executive Chairman of LinkedIn Corporation, advises, “Treat yourself and your future as if you were your own company.” He continues, “We must act as CEO of our careers and take control of our professional future.” As for exploring new horizons, Thomas Frey, Futurist Speaker and Director of The Davinci Institute, offers this bit of wisdom. “It’s easy to look around us and see what exists today, but the true visionaries are looking for what’s missing.” In the end it’s clear, though we may not know specifically what career path our children will ultimately follow, there’s a chance it might not be something we ever dreamed of.

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By teen columnist Isabella Migliarese Break is just around the corner! If you’re like me, you’re wondering how to spend your time off without breaking the bank. There are tons of things to do within Winston-Salem and in areas that are just a short distance away, no matter what your hobbies include.

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Since the weather is finally warm, you can go horseback riding through Tanglewood, or have a walk with your dogs in the park. Pilot Mountain and Blowing Rock are a little over an hour away, and provide a great place for a group hike and a picnic. In Charlotte, there is a white-water rafting place called WhiteWater Center; or go right down the road to High-Point and zip-line at Kersey Valley. If you’re not a fan of being one with nature, there is a fairly new trampoline park called Air Bound on the north side of Winston that comes highly recommended. If you have the need for speed, Grand Prix in Greensboro is an indoor go-cart racing facility. It’s a great place to go with a group of friends and have a little friendly competition. On the other hand, if you’re just looking to relax and clear your mind from hectic school, check out some local bands playing in the area. I’m going to shop a little bit at the Tanger

Outlets in Mebane, NC; if you need a new prize for yourself, they have great deals and a huge selection of retail outlets. Coach, Saks Fifth Avenue, Michael Kors, Ann Taylor, and DKNY are just a few of the stores that the outlet offers. You can also spend your time volunteering at the Humane Society, the Samaritan Ministries, the NC Food Bank, or Habitat for Humanity. If you don’t have any set plans and tend to go with the flow when it comes to spring break, volunteering is a great way to give back. Instead of spending your day at home watching movies and ordering delivery, which we all are guilty of most of the time, venturing out and helping your community will provide more spring break memories. Sometimes having a family night with your favorite movies and meal is the way to go. Nothing is better than some quality family time. Most of us plan to spend spring break getting together with friends, and some may even have a job opportunity. This break is a good time to look around for possible summer jobs. Applying early is always a great idea, and a week off is plenty of time to look around Winston-Salem for a job that could last throughout the summer. Whether you’re traveling out of the country, out of the state, or not even leaving home (which is just as enjoyable), spring break is a time to have a little fun and get away from the hectic schedule of school and being an average teenager. I wish all those in Forsyth County a wonderful and enjoyable spring break. Stay safe and live adventurously this April!

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There’s no better way to celebrate the arrival of warm weather than with a stroll through Winston-Salem’s Trade Street Arts District and nearby bustling Fourth Street. While visiting downtown, be sure to stop at Tropical Smoothie Café at the corner of Fourth and Cherry Streets for a quick tropical outing, featuring tastes of Hawaii, Thailand, Jamaica and Mexico. It tastes better—and you’ll feel better. Five servings of fruits and veggies in a single cup? Try the Island Green or the Caribbean Carrot! Make it a filling low-calorie meal with a Jamaican Jerk Bowl, Fish Tacos or Chipotle Chicken Flatbread, or even the soon-to-be-worldfamous Loaded Spinach Salad. Steve Scroggin of Tropical Smoothie Café said “Tropical Smoothie is not a guilty pleasure. It’s a healthy one you can enjoy time and time again.” “There’s no better way to make a great meal than with real, minimally processed, healthy food. Strawberries, mangos, pineapple, cranberries, goji, açai, guava, blueberries, raspberries, lemon, lime, orange juice, passion fruit, bananas: these are our keys, and we play music for the taste buds with them every day,” Scroggin said. “We are practiced in the art of the smoothie. We demand the finest ingredients the Earth has to offer—even our ice is special, designed to blend perfectly,” he added. “Our smoothies are available in everything from Low Fat to Simply Indulgent varieties and make a great snack, meal, or special treat. Do you deserve a Peanut Butter Paradise or a Mocha Madness coffee smoothie? Go ahead, you’ll love it.” Tropical Smoothie is one of the first downtown businesses open every morning and always has brewed-to-order coffee and breakfast items for people on the run; or for a longer stay, if there’s time to relax while reading the morning paper, or the latest issue of Forsyth Family.

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p u t e MeGROUP By Meghan E.W. Corbett is estimated that one out of every six Americans will move this year. Some of these moves will be simple moves; just switching homes in the same town. Some of these moves will take a little more planning and will involve a complete lifestyle change from one community to another. For many, moving to new places can be overwhelming, especially when the move is required for work or some other non-social reason. Once we hit a certain age, it can be hard to meet new people, but luckily Sharon Reiss is here to help!

“I moved to Winston-Salem from Chicago back in 2004, not knowing anyone locally,” said Reiss, organizer for the Triad Night Life and Networking Meetup Group. “Up until March of 2008, my circle of friends included only people I’d met through work and my husband; then a friend invited me to Speakeasy Jazz in downtown Winston-Salem for a ‘meetup.’ I remember laughing and telling her, ‘Thanks—but I’m married—I don't need a hookup.’ She explained to me that ‘meetup’ was just a group of people who got together for socializing, so I joined them. That night I met a handful of people of which only two had met before. Reiss quickly joined several of the meetup groups available in the area because of the low-pressure way to meet new people. “We have grown from around 300 members to 888 members,” said Reiss. “We do not see all 888 all the time, so don’t let that number scare you. It is so easy these days to not engage; to watch the world go by on Facebook and Pinterest. These meetup groups challenge you to try something new, meet new people and get out of the house. It is a fantastic way to meet people outside of your profession as well.” In addition to the variety of people involved in the meetup groups, is the variety of groups. “When you go to www.meetup.com and search for Meetup Groups within 10 miles of Winston-Salem, there are roughly 75 groups. The main search page tells you how many members each group has and when their next meetup is scheduled. You can easily narrow the search by key words; for example, when I narrowed it down to ‘Socializing Meetups,’ it narrowed the list down to 10 meetups in Winston-Salem, six ‘Parenting and Family’ groups, six ‘Outdoors and Adventure’ groups. ‘Fun and Games’ brought back four groups, just in Winston-Salem. You can also search by ‘most active’ which is really helpful.” 92 • forsythfamilymagazine.com

Whether you are new to the area or just looking to try a new restaurant or expand your social circle, a meetup group is a great way to do just that! “I get to experience all that my city has to offer and I also get to meet people I never would have met otherwise,” said Reiss. “Joining the meetup site is free. You create a login and choose which groups you’d like to join. You can dictate how many emails you want to receive, if any, from each group. The age breakdown of who is attending really depends on the meetup; dinner meetups tend to have a wider age range than bar crawls and ice skating, for instance. We also offer several networking events through 336events.com, where the age range is much wider. Each group decides if they charge for events based on sponsorship through groups such as the Winston-Salem Jaycees. I have honestly enriched my life by meeting people and getting out of the house. I have also had opportunities to experience the arts, go roller skating, swimming in a mountain lake and trying just about every new restaurant in town as well. Like many people, I do not venture out alone, so without these opportunities, I would not have been able to have all these great experiences. The only thing you have to fear is that first step; once you come out to something you'll never look back.” For more information, visit www.meetup.com/triadmeetup, or email Sharon Reiss at sreiss@wsjaycees.org.

“Out and About” in Winston-Salem

Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation Raises $1.8 Million with “Hope Gala” By Heather Spivey 2013 Hope Gala was held March 2nd at the Benton Convention Center in downtown Winston-Salem. There were over 1,000 attendees from all over the country to help support the Piedmont Triad Chapter of JDRF (formerly known as Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation).

The

Susan and Martin Gilmore were the Gala Chairs and did a wonderful job cultivating community and corporate support to make this event memorable and successful. Kelly King, the Chairman and CEO of BB&T, was the Honoree and recipient of the JDRF Living & Giving Award. Jeffrey Brewer, JDRF President and CEO, offered his congratulations to the “JDRF staff and the amazingly committed and productive volunteers.” He said he was “honored to be there last Saturday.” Guests enjoyed a silent & live auction that Beth Skorich chaired, along with a committee that helped secure an eclectic array of over 400 wonderful auction items. There was a fabulous dinner, and entertainment by the “Below The Line” Band. Anna Marie Carr is the Development Manager at JDRF and says, “Year after year all of us are amazed with the decorations for our event. Alejandra and Cliff Thompson and Wendy Calloway with their ‘band’ of volunteers created another magical setting for our guests.” There was a special addition to the program this year that was coordinated by Art Bloom. He worked with several children at the JDRF Family Conference in January to write and produce a song about JDRF and Type 1 diabetes (T1D). Art then assembled a choral group of children and adults, all of whom have T1D, who performed at the Gala. Carr adds, “Anne Hummel and Buff Perry, our chapter co-founders, were thrilled with the success of the event. With the hard work of the dedicated volunteers and staff at JDRF, the 2013 Hope Gala raised $1.8 million, making this event our largest and most successful to date.” Congratulations, JDRF!

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The Artist’s Corner

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Our f e a t u r e d a r t i s t s for this issue

1 Marilee Walker, East Forsyth High School Teacher: Molly Peterson quote for this issue

“Logic will get you from A to B. Imagination will take you everywhere.” ~ Albert Einstein "http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/quotes/a/alberteins131274. html" Images

2 Bree Monroe, Clemmons Middle School Teacher: Katherine Howard

3 Nicholas Milligan, Mt. Tabor High School Teacher: Alice Morley

Mitchell Skidmore, West Forsyth High School Teacher: Elizabeth Betson

OOPS! We Goofed. The correct information for the artists’ images in the March issue for images 2-4 is: 2 Whitney Gillon, West Forsyth High School, Teacher: Elizabeth Betson; 3 Elizabeth Sechler, Reagan High School, Teacher: Karen Evans; and 4 Kaitlynn McDaniel, West Forsyth High School, Teacher: Elizabeth Betson 94 • forsythfamilymagazine.com

Cooking With Kids for Spring By Kristi Marion fun pancakes, here is a neat trick I discovered years ago: wash out an empty squirt bottle (ketchup, squeeze jelly, squeeze mayo, etc.) and keep it on hand for your next pancake experiment!

For

BUNNY PANCAKES Ingredients: - pancake mix (plus other ingredients as described on the mix)

- butter or cooking spray - chocolate chips

- pink food coloring Directions: 1) Let the kids help measure ingredients and mix the pancake batter according to the mix directions. 2) Spoon out a cup or so of batter and set aside. 3) Stir in a drop of red (or your favorite color) food coloring into the rest of the batter, and pour into the squirt bottle. 4) On medium heat (bunny pancakes are prettiest when they are not too brown, so go easy on the heat), butter or spray the pan. Using the squirt bottle of pancake batter, first draw the outline of your shape, in this case, a bunny. Draw in the outline of his cheeks and fill with the un-tinted batter. Fill the ears with un-tinted batter as well. Fill in the rest of the face with the pink batter. 5) Let the kids carefully add chocolate chips for the eyes and nose. 6) At the first hint of those “all-done” air bubbles, gently flip the pancake, quickly turn off the heat and immediately remove it from the pan. Flip the prettiest side face-up!

SPRING WORMS AND DIRT Ingredients: - Pre-packaged chocolate pudding cups - 2–3 chocolate sandwich cookies (such as Oreos) per pudding cup - gummy worms - pastel sprinkles Directions: 1) Remove pudding cup covers 2) Let kids help remove frosting from sandwich cookies, 3) Then have them crumble sandwich cookie sides inside a zip-lock bag 4) Kids can then place cookie crumbs as dirt over the pudding, insert gummy worms, and decorate with pastel sprinkles before digging in.

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April Calendar of APRIL 6 SPRING MARKET

APRIL 11 KIDS’ MORNING OUT

TRIAD DECORATIVE PAINTERS OF NORTH CAROLINA

9am-4pm, Davidson County Fairgrounds, 400 Greensboro Road in Lexington. Children’s book author, Michele Manderine, will be signing copies of her book, "Tristan, The Maine Coon Cat." She will also be selling her cat and dog afghans and her photo greeting cards, featuring Remi, the Ragdoll. 778.1290

10am-noon, Children’s Museum of Winston-Salem, 390 S. Liberty Street. Grab a friend and the kids for a morning of fun! Come see all The Children’s Museum of WS has to offer with a variety of fun activities planned! And, as always, each adult receives four tickets for our fabulous prize board drawings! Call 723.9111 for more information.

9am-12pm, Kernersville Masonic Lodge, 701 Main Street in Kernersville. We are a not-for-profit organization serving the triad area with art education for adults and children. Also, we furnish painted memory boxes for Brenner's Children's Hospital. 706.680.5122

LEXINGTON WOMEN’S CLUB 3RD ANNUAL SPRING MARKET 9am-4pm, Davidson County Fairgrounds exhibit hall building. Artists, crafters, jewelry, food vendors and much more for a fun-filled day! Free admission and plenty of free parking. 249.3907

APRIL 7 AMERICAN GIRL FASHION SHOW MODEL AUDITIONS (pg50) APRIL 8 GIRLS' NIGHT OUT 5 pm…until! Bleu Restaurant & Bar, 3425 Frontis Street. Grab a friend, neighbor, co-worker, mother, sister, SOMEBODY and have a much need Girls’ Night Out. Enjoy half price appetizers until 7pm as well as a $5 margarita special! Also, register for TONS of prizes and giveaways! Sponsored by Bleu Restaurant & Bar, Forsyth Woman and Forsyth Woman Engaged! See you there!

FORSYTH PIECERS & QUILTERS GUILD MEETING 6:30-8:30pm, Parkway Presbyterian Church, 1000 Yorkshire Road. Michele Scott will speak about "Quilt as Desired." This author will share helpful ideas on that process using machine quilting. Cost: $5 for visitors/free for guild members. 724.9509

APRIL 8-MAY 31 MILLER PARK SPRING SOCCER 4:30-6pm, Miller Park Soccer Field. Soccer for children ages 6-13. Registration: $30. 727.2831

APRIL 9-13 TANGLEWOOD ARBORETUM PLANT SALE 10am-2pm, Arboretum at Tanglewood Park, located behind the Manor House. The sale will feature annuals, perennials, shrubs and trees and will include an educational program each day of the sale at 11am. All proceeds from this sale go to further the gardens at the Arboretum and adult educational programs held monthly at the Arboretum. Free Tanglewood admission for the sale. 703.2850

APRIL 10 WILD FLOWER WALK 11am-12pm, Entrance to the Arboretum at Tanglewood Park. Master Gardener Curators Anne Hester and Peg Simm will lead a tour of the wildflower garden and identify flowers blooming along the trails. This walk will be in conjunction with the annual plant sale, and you will be able to purchase plants for sale in the Arboretum Greenhouse and Nursery. 703.2850

APRIL 12 OPENING DAY @ WS DASH (see pg2) SALEM OUTREACH NETWORK ORPHAN CARE PORT-A-PIT BBQ FUNDRAISER 11am-6pm, Clemmons Civic Center, 2870 Middlebrook Drive in Clemmons. This fundraiser will give six children loving, permanent homes. Purchase your tickets in advance for mouth-watering Port-A-Pit BBQ. Cost: $8.50/plate. 287.4271

CHEERS! A TOAST TO CHILDREN’S HEALTH 6:30-9:30pm, Old Salem Visitor Center. Cheers!, now in its 9th year, is a sell-out event where lovers of fine food and beverages gather to taste award-winning wines from vineyards near and far as well as sample local microbrews and signature dishes from the area's best restaurants and caterers. Proceeds benefit Brenner Children's Hospital. Registration required: brennerchildrens.org. Cost: $65/person.

APRIL 12-13 FRIEDBERG MORAVIAN SPRING CONSIGNMENT SALE 8:30-11:30am (12th); 8-10:45am (13th), Friedberg Moravian Church, 2178 Friedberg Church Road. Spring and summer children's clothing, toys, books, shoes, baby equipment, maternity clothes and much more!

APRIL 12-21 RIVERRUN FILM FESTIVAL The RiverRun International Film Festival is a non-profit cultural organization dedicated to the role of cinema as a conduit of powerful ideas and diverse viewpoints. Our mission is to foster a greater appreciation of cinema and a deeper understanding of the many people, cultures and perspectives of our world through regular interaction with great films and filmmakers. Call 724.1502 for more information.

APRIL 13 HOSPICE HOPE RUN Deacon Tower at BB&T Field. Support Hospice & Palliative CareCenter by participating in this year’s 5K Walk/Run or 10K Run. Register online at www.support4hospice.org or call 768.3972. WALK MS: MODERN AUTOMOTIVE ROCKINGHAM COUNTY WALK 8:30am-12pm, The Penn House in Reidsville. Walk is family friendly and includes a hot dog lunch and door prizes. Registration opens at 8:30am, and the walk starts at 10am. 299.4136

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“UNITED” SPRING FESTIVAL 12-6pm, Bolton Park. UNITED is a Christian multicultural festival that seeks to promote unity and harmony in the community. This will be a family event with live music, artist, games, food and local vendors. 995.1441

CAPTURING HOPES PHOTOGRAPHY MINI SESSION FUNDRAISER 3-6pm, Tobaccoville. Offers free photography for families of babies in the neo-natal intensive care unit (NICU). Email capturinghopes@gmail.com to book your mini-session. Donations accepted. 710.7026

APRIL 13TH & 27TH TOUR DE FOOD 1:30-5pm, downtown Winston-Salem. You will learn about the Moravians and RJR Empire as you stop at six locally owned establishments. Come taste all the finest foods in town at these wonderful establishments. Cost: $45/person. 406.6294

APRIL 14 OPEN HOUSE AT YMCA CAMP HANES 1-3pm, YMCA Camp Hanes. Join the staff at YMCA Camp Hanes for tours and information about the opportunities for your camper this summer. 983.3131

FORSYTH WOMAN’S FITNESS HOP 2-5pm, locations vary. Is getting fit part of your New Years’ resolution? Participating businesses will welcome all Forsyth Woman readers interested in making 2013 the year to get healthy! No registration required. See ad in this issue for participating locations.

April 16 FREE BRENNER FIT CLASS; MY KIDS ARE DRIVING ME CRAZY (pg21) GOD ENCOUNTERS (pg69) APRIL 18 EXCHANGE/SCAN SPRING GALA 6-9pm, Win-Mock Event Center at Kinderton. Cocktail hour, fine dining by Holly Tate, The Authoring Action Assegai Ensemble, silent and live auctions and recognition of community heroes. All proceeds go to Stop Child Abuse Now (SCAN). Cost: $60/person. www.exchangescan.org

APRIL 18-20 JUNIOR LEAGUE OF W-S PRESENTS THE 59TH ANNUAL RUMMAGE SALE Times vary. LJVM Coliseum Annex and Education Building. Approximately 62,000 square feet of space that houses more than 15 departments including clothing, books, antiques and more! Proceeds from the sale allow the Junior League to improve the community through various charitable programs including Kids in the Kitchen and Girls on the Run. www.jlws.org/rummagesale

Family Events APRIL 20 WALK MS: MODERN AUTOMOTIVE TRIAD WALK

to serve cancer survivors and their families. For ticket information visit www.CancerServicesOnline.org.

8am-12pm, Fourth of July Park in Kernersville. Walk MS speeds new treatments for people with MS, ensures financial support for people dealing with the havoc MS causes and supports local programs. No registration fee. www.walkMSncc.org or 299.4136

APRIL 27 & 28, MAY 4 & 5 SPRING PARADE OF HOMES (pg43)

BOWLING FOR THE STARS BOWL-A-THON 12-8:30pm, AMF Major League Lanes, 811 Jonestown Road. Join Mayor Allen Joines in supporting children, families and child care programs in the nine counties served by the Work Family Resource Center of W-S. Visit www.workfamilyresource.org for more information. 761.5100

NOW THROUGH APRIL 10 KEVA ONLINE CONTEST KICK-OFF SciWorks. Build you coolest Keva structure, snap a picture and post it on SciWorks' Facebook page by April 10th. Staff will pick the top five finalists for online voting, and the grand prize is a FREE birthday party at SciWorks! 714.7133.

MAY 7 HOPE DU JOUR (pg46)

APRIL 22 HOW TO BE A FINANCIAL ROLE MODEL

NOW THROUGH MAY 19 EXHIBIT: THIS BEAUTIFUL WORLD

6-8pm, Forsyth County Public Library. Parents, learn how to build a solid financial foundation, the power of saving and setting goals for yourself and your family. Sponsored by Principal Financial Group. 703.3020

10am-4:30pm, Museum of Anthropology, Wake Forest University. This touring exhibit features the work of photographer and world traveler Robert Radin. It contains images of the people and landscapes of six continents, a presentation of Radin’s life work selected from more than 6,000 photos. 758.5282.

APRIL 23 PROTECT YOUR FAMILY: SPECIAL NEEDS FINANCIAL PLANNING 6-8pm, Forsyth County Public Library. Learn how to set up financial plans to ensure your wishes for your special need dependents are met. Sponsored by Principal Financial Group. 703.3020

APRIL 24 ANNUAL EMPTY BOWLS 11am-2pm, The Millennium Center. A fundraiser for the Second Harvest Food Bank presented by Texas Pete® Sauces features a delightful soup lunch donated by the area's top restaurants, a fabulous selection of handcrafted and painted pottery bowls donated by area artists and a top notch auction. Cost: $25/advance; $30/door. 784.5770

APRIL 27 CLEMMONS COMMUNITY DAY—FREE EVENT (pg27) EARTH DAY FAIR - FREE EVENT (pg97) FIT FAMILY 5K 8-11am, William G. White, Jr. Family YMCA. For runners and walkers of all levels and ages. Proceeds benefit Girls on the Run and Forsyth Medical Center Foundation. Cost varies. Register online at www.gotrforsythnc.org.

“WHAT A GIRL WANTS” FUNDRAISING EVENT 10am-2pm, The Living Well - Rural Hall Center for Lifelong Learning, 7105 Broad Street. Just in time for Mother's Day, shop till you drop! A full day of fun for women of all ages with more than 20 vendors, a silent auction and refreshments. 377.2195

WRAPPED UP IN RIBBONS GALA BENEFITTING CANCER SERVICES 7-11pm, Forsyth Country Club, 3101 Country Club Road. Join us for a fabulous evening with a silent and live auction, hors d'oeuvres and beverages, complimentary beer and wine, cash bar, cocktail attire, DJ and dancing and valet parking. 100% of proceeds remain in our community

THROUGH JUNE 9 5TH ANNUAL PRETZEL COASTER BUILD-OFF CONTEST Snyder’s of Hanover and Busch Gardens of Williamsburg are inviting kids and families to build a roller coaster model entirely out of pretzels and compete for grand prizes, including a trip for four to Busch Gardens Williamsburg. www.snydersofhanover.com or 410.234.2392

SUNDAYS FITPRAISE 2:30pm, Women's Wellness & Fitness Center in W-S. Workout to contemporary Christian music with devotion and prayer! Designed for women of all ages and fitness levels. Participation is FREE and open to members and non-members. Call 760.0030 for more information.

FOURTH TUESDAYS NEWCOMERS & NEIGHBORS OF GREATER WINSTON-SALEM 10am. Trinity Presbyterian Church, 1416 Bolton Street. Monthly interest groups include Book Group, Lunch Bunch, Bridge, Day/Evening Card Groups, Crafts, Dinner and Wine Groups. 245-8406.

WEDNESDAYS HULA HOOP CARDIO CLASS 6:30-7:30pm, Women's Wellness Fitness Center, 690 Jonestown Road. Hula hoop cardio class for women and girls ages nine and up. Enjoy hooping with weighted hoops, high and low impact cardio, yoga/pilates type stretching and more. Burn hundreds of calories in an hour. Hoops provided and available for purchase. Beginners welcome! Cost: $10/class; $35/month. 414.5316.

THIRD THURSDAYS LEGO CLUB 5:30-6:30pm, Miller Park Recreation Center. Miller Park's LEGO Club is designed to encourage imagination and creativity among builders of all ages. Blocks are provided! 727-2831.

May 30th - June 2, 2013 Providence, NC Register at goodheartwomen.com A Goodheart Women’s weekend is about beauty, adventure, and being captivated by God. Based on the book Captivating by John and Staci Eldredge, the weekend is filled with life changing messages: • Your heart matters • Your desires, both as a young girl and a woman matter • Your heart and desires have been assaulted by the world and the enemy of God • God desires to rescue your heart and bring you the full life He has promised. Held at Park Springs Christian Camp, the weekend also includes: • Wonderful meals you do not have to prepare! • A climbing wall and zip line • Pool time • Target shooting • Dance • Massage • Acres of land to slip away and spend quiet time with your Father Come share an adventure with other Ladies and deepen your love with the One who created you. Allow Him to assure you, Accept his invitation: “Arise my darling, my beautiful one and come with me. ” Song of Songs 2:10

We only have room for 125 ladies so get your group together and register soon.

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201 Media .....................................................75 Imprints .........................................................83 St. John’s Lutheran Church and School.....57, 69 Ballet & Performing Arts Centre ......................59 Kilwin’s..........................................................15 State Farm - Will Wilkins................................23 Betsy-Jeff Penn 4-H Educational Center..........53 Lewisville Family & Pediatric Dentistry............15 Stitches .........................................................45 BrainCore Therapy..........................................23 Lewisville Laser & Aesthetics..........................49 Busy as a Bee Concierge ................................69 Locke Chiropractic..........................................28

Stratford Landscape Supply ............................39 Sunrise United Methodist Church ...................66

CareNet..........................................................24 Lyndhurst Gynecologic Associates .................19 Carrabba’s Italian Grill....................................91 Masterpiece Makers .......................................53 Casanova’s Confections .................................87 meg brown home furnishings .........................13

Susan G. Komen ............................................81 Susan Maier Colon.........................................38

Cash Lovell Stables & Riding Academy ..........57 Merhoff ..........................................................69 Thruway Center ..............................................13 Chamberlain Place .........................................11 Minglewood...................................................75 Tina S. Merhoff, DDS......................................51 Chermak & Hanson Orthodontics......................9 Mock Tire & Automotive .................................47 TJs Body Shop...............................................49 Moonlight Designs.........................................87 Triad Lawn & Landscaping ..............................44 Children’s Museum of Winston-Salem American Girl Fashion Show...........................50 Moore Self Storage ........................................45 Triple Threat DanCenter ..................................60 Chris’ Lawncare..............................................41 Mosquito Authority, The .................................45 Tropical Smoothie Cafe.............................75, 91 Clemmons Community Day............................27 Nationwide Insurance .....................................17 Clemmons Family Dental ...............................17 New Pyramid Builders ....................................41 Union Grove Christian School.........................57 Wake Forest Baptist Health - Brenner Clemmons Gymnastics ..................................57 New Town Bistro.............................................91 Children’s Hospital.........................................21 Consignment Shop Hop .................................77 Ogburn Stables Ranch....................................56 Wake Forest Soccer Camp..............................56 Dawson Tree Service ......................................38 Old Salem......................................................12 WBFJ 89.3.....................................................67 Dickey’s Barbeque Pit.....................................91 Omega House Family Restaurant ....................91 Weed Man......................................................39 Educational Center .........................................53 One Shot Photography....................................73 Eye Level........................................................60 Piedmont Earth Day Fair...........inside back cover Which Wich?..................................................91 Fit Family 5k ..................................................58 Pinebrook Country Club..................................79 Williams Eye Associates.................................11 Forsyth Country Day School .....................25, 57 Premier Fertility Center...................................37 Winston-Salem Centennial ............................18 Forsyth Magazines Women’s Showcase..........77 ProDance Academy ........................................53 Winston-Salem Christian School ....................59 Forsyth Medical Center Imaging.........back cover River Run International Film Festival ...............83 GiGi’s Cupcakes.............................................17 Roger Marion Automotive ...............................87

WomanCare ...................................................15 workfamily Resource Center ...........................60

God Encounters..............................................69 Salem Academy .............................................19 Goodheart Woman..........................................97 Salem Gymnastics .........................................56 Hidden K Stables - Derby Day ........................85 Salem Smiles Orthodontics ............................11

WS Dash ......................................................2-3 YMCA Camp Hanes........................................56

Home Instead...................................................7 Sawtooth School for Visual Art .......................58 YMCA of Northwest North Carolina .................59 Hospice Hope Run .........................................71 SciWorks .......................................................53 Your Pilates Place...........................................23 Ian’s Bodyworks .............................................49 Spring Parade of Homes.................................43 YWCA ............................................................58 98 • forsythfamilymagazine.com

April 27 10am-5pm

A Zero Waste Event, with free children’s activities, live entertainment, food from local eateries, demonstrations, and more than 100 exhibits. Bring unwanted electronics, we’ll recycle them.

Green Sponsors

Plantinum Sponsors

Gold Sponsors

Program Partners

PART – Piedmont Authority for Regional Transportation, Triad Air Awareness

SciWorks, The Sawtooth School for Visual Art, The Winston-Salem Symphony

Silver Sponsors 88.5 WFDD, Forsyth Family Magazine, Forsyth Technical Community College, Natural Triad Magazine, Old Salem Museums and Gardens, Piedmont Federal Savings Bank, The Sierra Club Foothills Group