Families SW London Jan-Feb 2023 issue 323 print

2023 life hacks for parents

By Ellie Malt

Honestly, cracking open the frozen spuds on Christmas morning was NOT cheating. It was efficient, it was easy and I’m addicted. So, for 2023 I’ve decided to pull the emergency cord and deploy some new life hacks. According to my darling daughters, YouTube has solutions to every problem so I’ve gone online to look. Happy hacking!

Speedy declutter

I’m skipping the part where I sift through everything I own. Instead, I’m targeting three big ticket items; a pile of wood which has been patiently awaiting a DIY project, clothes put aside for mending two years ago and some electricals I intended to sell on eBay last year. It’s time to bag them up and get to the recycling centre.

Food

I need a break from cooking, I’m hunting down alternatives. Eating out is a cheerfully obvious way out but the costof-living crisis makes this backfire. So, I’m switching meals out for take-aways or meal deals. I’ve also found two new veggie options to batch cook for the freezer to give me a cheap night o

Paperwork

Every time the admin needs to be tackled, it really does create a general fuzz of panic. Just where is that important email from school? Scouting around on the internet I found an excellent twentyminute-high speed solution inspired by Marie Kondo on YouTube at https://bit.ly/youtube20mins

Planners

Mega playdates

If batch cooking can work for food, can it work for our social lives too? Organising and hosting lots of individual playdates is time-consuming so I’m inviting lots of friends around for one mega playdate. It’s short-term pain for long-term gain. Maybe we’ll get lots of invites in return?

I’ve switched to Google calendar from the Apple version. I find it clearer plus I can set a reminder for each task I don’t have time for on a particular day. If that doesn’t work, I’m going back to a good paperbased planner. I’ve got my eye on the perpetual planner from Moo (www.moo.com).

Gamification

Why not inject the fun principles of a video game into any activity? Set tonnes of levels or goals and then lots of tiny rewards for reaching them. Mind still wandering? How about the Apollo wearable clip (www.apolloneuro.com) that provides a gentle buzz of appreciation after achieving a flow state? We have reward charts for the kids so I’ll have one too. Gold star for me!

Prioritise

Accept help

Why is this so hard? Ironically, when it comes to accepting help, I find it easier when I’m already feeling capable. Next time I’m being an obstinate hermit who wants to go it alone, I’m going to kick that habit or maybe even reach out before arriving at the point of overwhelm.

This is where the number one life hack on www.lifehack.org can help. The ‘prioritisation matrix’ means placing all your tasks into one of four zones: do, schedule, delegate, eliminate. Eisenhower came up with this strategy for the Allied Invasion of Europe. Is that so di erent from running a family? Anyway, Europe was successfully liberated so perhaps it will work for me. Free template at https://bit.ly/prmatrix

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What parents say

How did you choose the school?

Sophie Matthews and her family were moving to the area and had heard “wonderful things“ from a friend whose children were at the school. Beatrice Mezza told Families they chose the school for her younger daughter because “we were very happy with our other daughter Laura’s experience there. We are now at our 9th year as RGS parents and couldn’t be happier.”

First impressions?

While Shona Kelly appreciated “the evidence of good teaching and progression through to high quality secondary schools “ Sophie said: “We felt the warmth of the school as soon as we walked in. It is such a friendly atmosphere. You can tell the children enjoy being there. It was so much of what we were looking for in a school for our children—somewhere that would unleash their potential and a place that they would be excited to learn. “

Why did you choose Redcliffe Gardens School, what gave you confidence?

“We were so impressed by the children at the school.” said Sophie. “Every child we encountered from nursery right up to the top year had a really charming confidence about them. They all looked so happy—that was most important to us. I think you learn a lot about a school by observing the pupils—how they are with each other and with their teachers. It was really lovely to see.”

What particular feature of the school do you like?

All three parents talked a lot about the teacher ratio being a huge draw. “It makes such a difference to our children’s development and progress” said Sophie. “Teachers can really focus on the child with an approach tailored to their needs” said Beatrice Shona really likes “The strong relationship between the teacher and parents.”

What is the feel of the school?

“It is so friendly.” said Sophie. “Nurturing but never at the expense of encouraging the pupils to fulfil their potential. It is such a lovely mix of focus on achievement without too much pressure and the teachers know the pupils very

well. It’s a great balance. Beatrice agrees: “It gives off a sense of happiness and trust between teachers, school staff and the children. There are no cases of bullying, and being such a small school, teachers can intervene as soon as they see something going wrong.”

What is the school best at?

Beatrice: “The school is very good at teaching in a safe and happy environment where children aren’t afraid to make mistakes; the focus is on learning at the individual child’s speed, and there is no pressure to get high scores, but rather to learn from your mistakes. This is an effective method to build every child’s confidence, and by the time they reach year 5, they’re independent learners, ready to start the 11+ preparation process sure of their abilities. “ Shona agrees: “It’s about knowing how to maximise the child’s potential both academically and socially. “

Any moment that stood out for you that really describes the atmosphere/ethos of the school?

Shona really thinks it is the presentation of the Golden Awards. “It teaches the children the importance of achievement outside of academics, for example, being a good friend or caring about your community.”

Can you sum up your child’s school in three words….

Beatrice didn’t hesitate: The school is “Encouraging, challenging and motivating.”

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Three parents tell you what they like about Redcliffe Gardens School, a nursery and prep school for boys and girls aged 2 ½ to 11.

“A school with happy children coupled with excellent academic outcomes”

Mrs Beatrice Mezza with Lavinia.

Mrs Shona Kelly with Claudia and Henry

Mrs Sophie Matthews with Archie and Phoebe.

Your local School news...

Schools launches

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Through its new Eaton House Foundation, Eaton House Schools is proud to announce that it is offering three 100% fully funded bursaries for entry into Year 3 (age 7). These bursaries are for children that have the potential to benefit from an Eaton House education.

The initiative is the school’s first fully paid bursary scheme. A bursary is worth 100% of school fees, which include lunches, stationery and day trips. Residential trips are also included, as is support for uniform and equipment costs.

For September 2023, there is one place available at the Eaton House The Manor Boys’ School in Clapham, one place at Eaton House The Manor Girls’ School at the same site, and one place at Eaton House Belgravia near Sloane Square.

The bursaries are available to individuals from the local community who may not have access to a private education otherwise, and individual incomes and circumstances will be taken into account. Candidates in Year 2 at state primary schools are encouraged to apply and will receive a warm welcome.

Dolphin School

Congratulations Dolphin School Trust (inc. Noah’s Ark Nurseries) who have been awarded the hallmark of Excellent by the Independent Schools Inspectorate. Here are a small number of quotes from the report:

– 100% of parents believe that teaching and learning enables their children to make progress.

– Pupils across the school demonstrate an exemplary attitude to their learning.

– They nurture and care for each other and show a wealth of kindness and friendship, reflecting the ethos of the school.

– Without a hint of self-importance, pupils develop confidence in their own abilities. They appreciate that whilst their teachers will support and challenge them as they develop and grow, so will their peers.

– 100% parents felt that the school equips their child with the team working, collaborative and research skills they need in later life.

www.dolphinschool.org.uk

Dulwich College Award for contribution to Social Mobility

Dulwich College is delighted to have been awarded winner of the Independent School Magazine’s Independent School of the Year Award 2022 for Contribution to Social Mobility. Dulwich College is, and has been since its foundation in 1619, committed to helping academicallytalented disadvantaged students from the local community achieve their potential.

Over £4 million is granted every year to support more than 200 bursary awards in and adjacent to their own borough of Southwark. 148 pupils (74% of bursary award holders) are supported with 75% to 100% of their annual fees, which are often life changing. Spending on bursaries has more than doubled since 2013 and it is our ambition to become a truly needs-blind school, open to pupils from all walks of life.

Almost all 2021 leavers in receipt of bursary awards are at Russell Group universities, including four at Oxbridge, studying Aeronautical Engineering, Classics, Medicine, Psychology, Mathematics and Economics, one student secured an Apprenticeship at KPMG and another is reading Computer Engineering and Economics at the University of Pennsylvania.

They told us: ”Equity, service and excellence lie at the heart of our school ethos. We are a diverse and welcoming community, including language, ethnicity, socioeconomic background, religious beliefs, and LGBTQ+ and believe that the many aptitudes of bursary holders are nurtured and cherished at Dulwich, but in a way which never loses sight of the parents, carers and educators who have also contributed along the way.”

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Eaton House

100% free fully funded bursary scheme for pupils with ‘potential’

Do you know of a bright young mind that would thrive on the challenge of an Eaton House Schools education? If you do, then he or she could join the many generations of children educated at these wonderful single sex schools since 1897— absolutely free.

To find out more, you can contact us at https://bit.ly/ehsfoundation or ring Miss Sam Fielding, Head of Admissions, on 0203 917 5050 for a confidential chat about your child’s special potential and the application process.

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Inside tips to help choose the right nursery setting

Families asked The Roche School to share their inside knowledge:

When choosing the right educational setting for your child, your journey starts with initial enquiries. The first words you exchange (I always recommend a telephone call as staff set the standard for communication and flexibility) forge the way for a blossoming relationship that can last for years. Children crave stability so, to get it right, you need to consider your child’s needs and temperament.

A strong provision understands from the get-go that a family has its own unique circumstances and needs, so do not feel pressured to fit a specific mould.

Word-of-mouth offers valuable insight but try not to follow the crowd—go with your gut. If you are influenced by someone else’s recommendation, their expectations and parenting style should be akin to yours.

In a nutshell:

• Start your search early. It takes time to view more than one setting so plan this into your schedule. Make a shortlist of schools whose ethos aligns with yours. Core values underpin any education.

• Visit the school when in session— open days are great to gain a wider picture but ask for an individual tour when the setting is in action for a more in-depth dive.

• Look out for staff interactions and quality dialogue. If children seem oblivious to tours this can be a sign that they are engrossed and feel safe.

• Be confident and ask what the children are learning —questions are a positive in our book!

• Whilst proximity to a setting is helpful, also consider those that are further away if that suits your child best; a happy child in a perfect environment is worth the extra travel.

• The responsibility of choosing a school may be yours but take your child along if you can and observe how they react to the environment and staff.

You will simply know when you find the right one; it will feel like a home from home—your child may not even want to leave!

To visit The Roche Nursery School, please contact 020 8877 0823 or admissions@therocheschool.com

To visit Keswick House Nursery, please contact 020 8704 4857.

Little People Montessori

Isn’t it lovely when children simply love their nursery? Hear what parents of a 13-month-old said about Little People Montessori: “Our boy arrives at nursery every morning literally kicking his legs with excitement and shrieking with joy as we carry him through the front gate! He doesn’t even look back as we walk out of the door.”

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Little People Nurseries have been offering loving childcare since 1978 in Fulham, Shepherds Bush and Hampton. They take children from 3 months to 5 years.

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Shared reading and language development

By Dr Jamie Lingwood

Early language development is incredibly important and sitting down to read with your child gives them a big advantage. Here are my thoughts on the how’s and why’s of shared reading.

Make it a conversation

Shared reading is so much more than simply reading books aloud from start to finish. It’s powerful as an interactive experience, creating a conversation along the way. Evidence suggests that asking children lots of open questions about books can really boost language skills. Exposure to new words builds their vocabulary and the more they hear spoken language, the more easily they can use it themselves. The earlier you start, the better their reading ages will be at school. Research has demonstrated how shared reading protects against a lot of language di iculties and delays. It can even predict how successful children could be as adults in terms of income!

Doing it your own way

Parents, grandparents, carers or sibling will each have their own reading styles; and that’s a good thing. Find the flow that comes most naturally to you, making the experience more interactive as you go along.

Picture books are a good start

Picture books with few or no words are great starting points. A good example is Hug by Jez Alborough, which simply repeats the word ‘hug’ on each page. It’s then down to the adult to create a story around this, starting a conversation with the child. Talking with them about what they see and what they think about the story naturally involves using a mix of words and grammatically structured sentences. The book becomes a prompt for children to express themselves.

Reading the same book over and over...

I hear this a lot from parents: ‘My child wants to read the same book over and over again.’ As an adult, what do you do? Do you read the book for the thirty fifth time this week or encourage

New owners for Dawmouse!

Dawmouse Montessori Nursery, based in the heart of Fulham is pleased to announce a new owner.

Miss Claire has been working at Dawmouse for the past six years. In September 2021 she took over as head teacher and in November 2022 took over the school.

Dawmouse Montessori Nursery is a nursery school in Fulham with a large outdoor play area, that believes in the Montessori principle of structuring the learning of each child as an individual and structuring the child’s learning around their needs and interests to help the child holistically develop as an individual and as part of society.

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them to read something else? A recent study suggests that reading the same book repeatedly can help with a child’s memory, in terms of building familiarity with particular words. The biggest challenge is your stamina - knowing it’s all in a good cause might help here!

When and where?

When it comes to shared reading, little and often is the way forward. You don’t have to sit down and rigidly read with your child for a set hour at a time. Five minutes here and there is just as useful, particularly when it comes to keeping them motivated.

Fit reading around what works for you and the structure of your own lives. You may well choose a time towards the end of the day when you’re settling them down for bed. But for a lot of people, that isn’t successful because, by that point, their child is too tired to engage properly. Remember it doesn’t have to be bedtime. Pick a di erent point in the day. Or grab five minutes when you’re travelling on the bus together, for example.

And finally…

Do it yourself! When your child sees you reading and clearly enjoying it, they will want to copy you. This will help them develop a habit that will open up a lifelong world of adventures and learning.

Dr Jamie Lingwood is a Lecturer in Psychology at Liverpool Hope University (www.hope.ac.uk/psychology) and belongs to the ChildLab research group, a group of psychologists and educators who are interested in researching how children develop and grow.

Little Green Nurseries

Little Green Nurseries is the culmination of nearly two decades of working as a preschool education professional, combined with a desire to provide a top quality nursery environment.

They told Families: “The aim of our highly experienced staff is to provide a joyful and happy setting, where children each develop their unique potential. Alongside feeling safe and nurtured. We are passionate about creating supportive and trusting relationships with children, their parents and families. We pride ourselves in promoting each child’s individuality and forming confident well rounded children.”

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The importance of mentoring

By Jemma Zoe Smith

There are many different strategies which enable someone to ‘be the best they can be.’ In the adult world, the two commonly debated methods are coaching and mentoring. Whilst they are often discussed together, they are in fact two different concepts. As a mentor to teens and tweens, I have often found myself wondering if mentoring would work for primary aged children?

Some in the field of education may feel that mentoring is not appropriate for children of this age. How can you mentor someone who is just getting to grips with learning, formulating their ideas and their opinions?

However, mentoring can be very e ective in instilling a love of learning, enabling open discussion and promoting self awareness at an early age. At its most simple, a mentor is ‘an experienced person who advises and helps somebody with less experience over a period of time’ . This period could be whilst a young child gets used to a new classroom or a change in family circumstances.

A mentor o ers advice, using the benefit of their experience but always taking into account the fact that the child is an individual and that their background and experiences in life may be very di erent to that of the mentor’s.

Mentors do not have to be adults - instead, mentoring can be a peer-to-peer setup, with volunteer opportunities galore for schools to trial peer to peer encouragement and support techniques. Mentoring is about helping a child to recognise their true qualities and abilities, rather than moulding them into something that is not true to themselves.

If a child is interested in sports, a good mentor will connect with them, using this interest, even if it isn’t necessarily a shared interest between them. A mentor guides but also allows a mentee to discover who they are.

Having a mentor or studying in an environment such as a classroom with a mentoring ethos can help children to get to know themselves and make sense of the world in which they find themselves.

In the age of social media, with an ever-increasing number of platforms telling children who they should be, I think mentoring is more important than ever to help children peel back the curtain and feel as if they have the permission to be their own person.

Jemma Zoe Smith is Director of The Education Hotel (www.educationhotel.co.uk).

Oxford Learner’s Dictionaries definition

Should I ask a teacher to mentor my child?

Having a trusted person or group of people at school can help children to better manage their emotions.

Anger and anxiety are big feelings for small children and can be di icult to process when they are not yet fully understood. Even if your child has a great role model at home, they might not see that person as relatable to their school life and so reaching out to their teacher about mentoring can be a great first step.

Most children will have a level of anxiety going into certain situations like tests and exams, leading them to ask themselves things like ‘what if I don’t do as well as last time?’ or ‘what if I’m not top of the class this time?’

Once a child has strategies to enable them to manage their emotions, this in turn will help them to build their self-esteem and improve their self-confidence. This can only have a positive impact when looking ahead to more important exams and other stress inducing times in a child’s life.

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A mentor can be any trusted person to whom a child can take their worries and work through them without fear of judgement. A child who has someone sensible to talk to, someone with whom to process their emotions and someone who helps them to build their self-esteem will undoubtedly cope better when problems occur, particularly in the school environment.

As a child gets older, they will experience more competitive situations such as sporting events and school entrance exams and having a mentor will help them become more skilled at coping with the stresses that these events bring.

When a child demonstrates seemingly negative behaviours, it is often because there has been a breakdown in their ability to communicate their feelings somewhere along the line. This could be because they are unsure how to articulate these feelings or not confident of being understood. So the increased resilience that comes with being supported by another family member can help with this.

How logical thinking helps children achieve goals

By Usha Patel

My 6-year-old nephew came around the other day for tea and cake. In the middle of a conversation, he loudly declared he was on his eighth ‘mini-cake.’ These were bite-sized morsels made for tiny hands. It made me chuckle that a child of just 6 years would think to measure the increasing joy that eating cake could bring! I looked down at my plate and wondered how many I had gobbled up….

However, many children don’t see patterns, numbers or the need for measuring.

A 10-year-old student I recently worked with really wanted to play football but was reluctant because she had great di iculty tying her shoelaces. I taught her how to do it in five easy steps, explaining that she would achieve her goal but that some steps might be trickier than others.

Before our work together, she had thought of tying laces as one task. By breaking down the task into a series of logical steps, she could see which parts were more complex and which were manageable. She quickly got the hang of it by paying closer attention to those bits she thought were fiddly and not feeling as frustrated as she had before.

With my instruction, she practised regularly at home and each time she would get faster at the bits she found tricky. When she returned a couple of weeks later, she boasted she could now tie her laces very quickly and insisted on showing me with her brand-new trainers.

So what does this teach us? That when tasks are broken down into logical steps, success is possible.

When a child does not apply logic and reasoning to a di icult task, how they feel about the task dominates their approach. But we can’t measure feelings in the same way we can measure steps - or even cake! They are not objective and so the cycle of frustration continues and a child reinforces an unfair bias against their own ability.

Measuring progress allows a child to see for themselves what is going wrong. They then can problem-solve, achieve success and meet their intended goal.

Logical thinking takes time to nurture but once success is achieved, parents should celebrate. Decide on another goal and repeat a similar logical process.

Usha Patel is a neurocognitive therapist who runs Raviv Practice London (www.ravivpracticelondon.co.uk).

Dangerous things (you should let your child do)

Modern technology enables children to live a largely sedentary and ‘safe’ existence. However, research by Play England shows that ‘age-appropriate risk’ is an essential component of a balanced childhood, allowing children to experience fear and learn the strengths and limitations of their bodies. So, go ahead, hold your breath and allow your kids to indulge in some ‘dangerous’ activities – of course, under the supervision of a responsible adult AT ALL TIMES.

Use a hammer

Driving a nail into wood is a valuable skill and harder than it looks. A poorly hit nail can fly up unpredictably so eye protection is vital. Show your child how to hold the hammer in the middle of the handle and keep the nail in place by holding the bottom with their finger and thumb. GENTLY tap the hammer on the top of nail. Once the nail stands up on its own, they can move their hand away and use greater force. For tips, see https://bit.ly/safehammer

Play with fire

Children find fire fascinating. In the past, it was an everyday part of family life but, nowadays, many children don’t encounter fire unless we deliberately introduce it to them. It’s better for them to learn the basics safely with you, including what to do if something goes wrong, rather than playing with fire in a riskier situation.

For step-by-step guidance, visit https://bit.ly/pwintrofire

Spend an hour blindfolded

Challenging your child to live blindfolded for an hour will teach them how to better use their other senses but also build empathy and awareness for non-sighted people. Whether you use a scarf, tea towel or large hanky, it’s important the blindfold is snug and doesn’t let in any light so your child’s other senses are activated.

To try some fun blindfold games, visit www.blindfoldsensoryplay.com.au

Throw rocks

It’s almost impossible to take young children for a walk in the woods or along the beach without them picking up a stick, rock or seashell and throwing it. Children love the feeling of propelling an object away from their body and watching where it goes. Channel this urge by teaching your child the situations in which it’s both fun and safe to throw an object eg skimming a stone on water.

For guidance, visit https://bit.ly/NTskimstones

Use a pocketknife

Another life skill that develops with experience (and guidance) is using a knife safely.

Whittling or wood carving is fun and creative and a great way to introduce kids to safe knife skills. They will soon become proficient and able to tackle using knives in the kitchen, with your guidance.

For some great tips, safety advice and simple projects, visit https://bit.ly/safewhittling

Climb a tree

Children cannot resist hauling themselves up a tree. According to many experts, this should be encouraged as it motivates children to challenge themselves in a fun and physically active way. It is, after all, the number one adventure on the National Trust’s list of 50 things to do before you’re 11¾.

For guidance on how to tackle a tree, visit https://bit.ly/NTclimb

Blow up a bottle of coke

This classic, explosive science experiment is simple but has a spectacular impact on children when the coke shoots metres into the air!

Be warned though, this experiment is very messy and sticky and must be performed outside.

Play conkers

This ancient British game has, in recent times, sometimes been regarded as unsafe.

However, it’s only really risky when played incorrectly or when children are deliberately trying to hurt each other. For anyone not in the know, the game of conkers involves using a conker on a string to try to knock your opponent’s conker o its string. For tips and advice such as when to look for conkers, how to prepare them for a game and tips on winning, visit https://bit.ly/WTconkers

Eureka! The National Children’s Museum has instructions and guidance at https://bit.ly/cokeexp

Looking to do something different in 2023?

Why not volunteer with Royal Trinity Hospice?

Royal Trinity Hospice is the local hospice for central and south west London with a presence in the area since the 1800s.

The hospice’s ethos is that “every moment matters”. Their team goes above and beyond to help patients and their families make the best of every moment that they have left together. Specialist palliative and end of life care is provided both at the hospice’s peaceful and state-of-art inpatient unit on Clapham Common and by teams visiting people across the community in a range of settings including in their own homes.

Trinity is there for adults with a range of lifelimiting illnesses including cancer, COPD, heart disease, Parkinson’s and dementia. The hospice also offers expertise to support the emotional, psychosocial, spiritual and financial needs of patients and the people they care about such as their family and friends. All of Trinity’s services are provided for free, typically helping around 2,500 Londoners every year.

Volunteering opportunities for everyone

Trinity currently has a team of over 200 volunteers and are now on the look-out for more people to bring their skills, passions and interests to the charity. With a variety of volunteering roles, there is something for everyone. From helping in one of their charity shops, to attending fundraising events and activities, lending administration skills with office-based roles or joining the team taking care of the stunning and award-winning gardens, there are lots of ways to help. Ongoing support and training is provided to help volunteers take on fresh challenges, meet new people and gain new skills of their own.

Trinity’s Volunteering Manager, Celia Abbott, says “the new year is a great time to start volunteering. It’s a good way to get to know people from your local area and to give something back. Many of our roles don’t need previous experience, just enthusiasm and a willingness to learn! Volunteering can fit easily into your own schedule. We have roles that start from just two hours a week, to those which can even be done remotely at home.”

A place to feel part of

Many of Trinity’s volunteers have enjoyed their volunteering with the hospice so much, they have continued over many years—some for over a decade. Whilst national lockdowns throughout the pandemic paused many volunteering programmes, in 2023 Trinity will continue building on the success of their established programmes and begin growing the number of volunteers supporting them in every corner of the organisation. The charity has announced a number of new and unique

opportunities, all of which are advertised on the volunteering pages of their website. Through volunteering you can make a real difference to others and benefit from personal and professional development opportunities too. Great for your wellbeing, regular volunteering has been found to counteract the effects of stress and anxiety, as well as keeping you active, both physically and mentally. Why not make 2023 the year that you become a Trinity volunteer?

For more information visit: www.royaltrinityhospice.london/volunteeringat-trinity

Contact the volunteering team on volunteering@royaltrinityhospice.london or 020 7787 1000

Call into your local Trinity shop to find out more about shop volunteering opportunities

“Trinity has such a lovely, gentle, warm feel about it. It’s so peaceful and calming to walk through the doors and everyone has been so welcoming and friendly.” Petrina and her friendly therapy dog Flossie, Trinity Ward Visitor Volunteers, 2022

Our first year as foster carers

“I’d just sat down one Thursday afternoon when Wandsworth Council called to say “we’ve found a potential placement match”... a clinical phrase for a child who’s entered the social care system and needs a safe home.

By the end of our first day together, a while later, my partner Ben and I learned that ‘B’ loved board games, was in top sets at school, but had never heard of WWII and couldn’t use a knife and fork. ‘B’ recently moved to the UK, so as well as adjusting to new homelife with us, he was on a steep learning curve at his new school navigating teenage culture in London, whilst speaking English as a second language.

Learning about what ‘B’ knows and likes, and helping him navigate his challenges was enormously beneficial to both us and him. After seven months in our care, ‘B’ returned to his biological family as

planned, and we still keep in touch. After a three week break, we welcomed an 11 year old into our home. Building trust is our top priority for creating a positive environment at home. We’ve bonded through play (hours of football!) and model-making. All three of us are looking forward to the Christmas holidays, where we’ve ambitious plans to build a cardboard city!

Ben and I both work alongside being foster carers, and our employers have been extremely supportive. Ben’s company even introduced a new HR policy to encourage other employees to become foster carers, providing time off where necessary.

In our case, the application and approval process to become carers averaged around three hours a week of interviews and paperwork. As short term foster carers, we’re on hand to look after a child from between two nights to two years.

Wandsworth Fostering will look after you, will support you and your families in the very honourable role of caring for the children who need us most.

It’s incredibly rewarding, and the challenging moments feel wholly worthwhile.“

If you are interested in finding out more about fostering, fostering teenagers, fostering for

Wandsworth please call free on 0808 175 3327 or email

fosteringrecruitment@wandsworth. gov.uk or follow Fostering for Wandsworth on Facebook #love to Foster

Families hears from a family who started fostering a year ago

Fostering is rewarding

February Half Term activities

Camps and workshops

Perform

Clapham, Fulham and Wimbledon www.perform.org.uk/lion 13-15 February

The Lion, The Witch and the Wardrobe With magical creatures, snowy landscapes and a triumphant royal victory, Narnia is the perfect destination for the school holidays. Children combine drama, dance and singing into a magical costumed production. Ages 4-10.

Playmakers London Clapham SW11 www.playmakerslondon.com All school holidays

Creative workshops filled with arts and crafts, and improvised drama games. Ages 5-11.

Little House of Science Kensington W8 www.littlehouseofscience.com 13-17 February

Fun science-based camps with a different theme each week. Book by day or full week. Ages 4-12.

Club Petit Pierrot Chelsea SW3 and Fulham SW6 www.clubpetitpierrot.co.uk 13-17 February

Sightseeing Cruise with City Cruises!

An immersive week of creative and educational activities including worksheets, arts and crafts, sporty games, stories, yoga (indoor and outdoor weather permitting), singing and dancing - all in French! Beginners to advanced, ages 3-8.

Yellowbird Education Fulham and Wandsworth www.yellowbirdeducation.com 13-17 February

SwimWay

Various SW London venues www.swimway.co.uk 13-17 February

Combining fun with the obvious health and life skill benefits, SwimWay’s 3-5 day crash courses are an excellent boost to children’s development. Ages 2+.

Kensington Ballet School

Kensington, Chelsea, Knightsbridge, Belgravia, Fulham https://kensingtonballet.com

Ballet school for babies from 16 months. Check their website for details of half term camps or just try out one of their wonderful classes. From 16 months

Spark4Kids

Various venues, in person and online. hello@spark4kids.com, 020 8090 1444 www.spark4kids.com 13-17 February

For children who love computers, Spark4Kids offer the ultimate holiday activities including coding, touch-typing and games design, from beginners upwards. Learning is encouraged through exploration, creativity and fun as children naturally develop their computational skills while coding. These workshops are perfect for both beginners and those children who are looking to expand their coding skills. 6-teens

Barracudas Day Camps

Enjoy a memorable and entertaining day out on London’s No 1 Thames sightseeing cruise. It’s the perfect way to take in the capital’s iconic riverside landmarks whether you decide to sit on the open upper deck or inside their heated and comfortable indoor saloon. Providing informative and entertaining commentary from their captains on both history and modern life of this fascinating city!

For families, a Thames River cruise is the most relaxing way to see the sights, avoiding traffic and busy trains. Children can get colouring sheet and pencils to keep them entertained, while parents can relax by sipping on a hot drink and snacks from the fully stocked bar.

Make the most with the 24hr river pass, offering unlimited access to the river for 24 hours. Get even more value with their Family River Pass: Up to three kids GO FREE! citycruises.com/London

Fun and engaging holiday workshop weeks where children develop skills in creative writing, English exam prep, intensive handwriting, reasoning and arts and crafts. Ages 6-11 in small groups.

Streatham & Clapham SW16 1AW www.barracudas.co.uk 13-17 February

Multi-activity day camps where children get active, try new things and make new friends while developing key life skills and building confidence. Sports, games and crafts all included. Ages 4 -14.

It might be winter outside but there’s plenty of holiday fun to be had indoors.

Do tell the organisers you found them in Families!

Barracudas Day Camps

Funky Monkey Keyboard Classes

Various locations www.funkymonkey.info 13-17 February

Imaginative, fun-packed half day workshops introduce basic keyboard techniques including reading and writing notes C-G, plus extra fun and games. Ages 4-8.

Little Wild Things

Battersea Park and other SW area parks

Instagram: little.wild.things.london

Forest school for children in Battersea and other various SW park locations run by a private school teacher with vast experience. Want your child to be out in the natural world? Forest school in the big city is a rare find and is available for half term. Dates to be confirmed. For all ages.

Vauxhall City Farm

Vauxhall SE

www.vauxhallcityfarm.org

Opening Times: Tuesday – Sunday 10:30am – 4:00pm (last entry at 3.45pm). Entry is donation based. Visit farm animals such as goats, sheep, pigs, donkeys and alpacas this half term. Meet and pet some smaller cuddly animals which are guaranteed to put a smile on your childs face. For all ages.

OMB events

Thames Rowing Club Putney SW15 www.ombevents.com

Check their events on their site to know of the local events in the SW area, they always have something fun for the kids which is also reasonably priced.

Budokwai-Martial Arts Club Chelsea, SW10 https://budokwai.co.uk

seasonal ingredients. £95/day or £400 the week. From 10am to 1pm. Children from 6 years. Splendid fun!

Every school holiday Multi award-winning holiday camps offering professionally led instrumental play, interactive workshops and a Grand Concert at the end. Free instrument hire included. Ages 4-11.

Playball Half term Camps

NM Touch Typing

Fulham www.nmtouchtyping.co.uk 13-17 February Designed for beginners or intermediate typists, bringing children’s skills up to speed without compromising on accuracy. Ages 7+.

Court Fit

Parsons Green SW6 www.courtfit.co.uk

Want to learn tennis in the surroundings of the beautiful Eel Brook Common? Not only it is fresh air great for them, they can also acquire a new, stylish skill! From 4 years.

Anna’s Gymnastics

Chelsea SW10 www.annasgymnastics.com Rhythmic gymnastics from the age of 2. Check their website for details of half term camps or try out a class.

Located in the heart of Chelsea this is Europe’s oldest and most prestigious Martial Arts and Judo club. Great place for soft play, try out a class or find out what they have to offer for half term. Softplay from 6 months, classes from 4 years old till adult.

Science Museum

South Kensington SW7 www.sciencemuseum.org.uk/seeand-do/garden

Visit interactive and exciting indoor space at the science museum (ages 3-6). It is not your usual soft play but more educational, whilst remaining very fun. Be sure to visit some of their kid friendly exhibitions as well. Ages: Various

Kids en Cuisine

56 Eccleston Square SW1V 1PJ https://kidsencuisine.com

Half term camp everyday of the half term, run by certified chefs in a professional kitchen. During each session, your children will cook everything from scratch with

The Strings Club

Various venues including Tooting SW17 www.thestringsclub.org

Latchmere Leisure Centre Sports Hall, Burns Road, Battersea, SW115AD https://playballlondon.com/holida y-camps 13-17 February Playball holiday camps provide high quality, ageappropriate holiday activities for boys and girls aged 3-8 years. Every day is busy with a wide and varied schedule of sports skills and games. Throw in treasure hunts and bouncy castles and you have a recipe for a fun filled active morning!

Et Patati Patata

Hurlingham Academy, Fulham caroline@etpatatipatata.com 079 66 893674. www.etpatatipatata.com

Tu fais quoi pour les vacances ? Fun French Easter et Summer Day Camp 2023.

Et Patati et Patata is a French immersion program based on a wide range of fun and creative activities in French. The AwardWinning Camp will be running Easter and three weeks this Summer with a French twist in London from 4 years old and a Teen programme + 10 years old. Réserve ton été, on va tellement s'amuser! Cirque, Sport, Theatre, Art, Pâtisserie, Sciences, leçons de français and your French certificate!

SUPER POPULAR!

Kindergarten music classes

for babies,toddlers and children 0-5 years

Young babies eagerly respond to music when given the opportunity to experience it and the sooner, the better. These classes are high-quality, structured and creative, based on the Colourstrings Kodaly model run by a professional performer and teacher with a very wide range of experience.

Five separate classes: 0-1, 1-2, 2-3, 3-4 and 4-5 years.

30 minutes for £10 per child.

Tuesday or Thursday mornings

Held in Central Streatham. Parents or carers attend with the child.

Three week trial period. A wonderful foundation on which to prepare for instrumental tuition.

Songs, rhymes, movement and live music-making.

With music, one's whole future life is brightened … Music should belong to everyone. Zoltán Kodály

Put a spring in your child’s step with Perform

Perform confidence-building classes are sure to blow away the winter cobwebs and will help children feel energised and inspired. This term sees 47s trapezing and somersaulting into a Circus Adventure whilst 7-12s work on a fun and funky adaptation of Robin Hood, in Outlaw. Imaginations will soar as children work towards a magical performance for family and friends.

Perform is not like other children’s drama schools. Its classes have a special emphasis on child development, using a mix of drama, dance and singing to bring out every child’s potential. Run by experienced actor-teachers, Perform classes focus on developing the 4 Cs: Confidence, Communication, Coordination, and Concentration. With all abilities welcome, children can join at any point in the term and will take part in the performance. The only requirement is to get ready to have the best fun of the week!

Confidence building weekly drama, dance and singing classes for 4-7s and 7-12s. Classes are designed to boost confidence, communication, concentration and coordination.

Venues in Battersea, Balham, Barnes, Battersea, Chelsea, Clapham, East Sheen, Fulham, Kensington, Knightsbridge, Putney, Streatham, Tooting, Earlsfield, Southfields, Colliers Wood, Wimbledon and NEW: Classes now in Parsons Green!

Children are welcome to try a FREE class.

With over 300 venues, there’s sure to be a class near you–just visit www.perform.org.uk/try to find your nearest and to book. Or email enquiries@perform.org.uk or call 020 7255 9120.

Playball prepares your child for School

For further information, please visit www.angelaeast.co.uk/education or contact Angela on eastangela@gmail.com. www.playballLondon.com | gavin@playball-london.com

At Playball we focus on developing and achieving age appropriate milestones and offer age-specific classes for 18m to 8 year olds.

For every sport or movement skill we do at Playball, there is a life skill or classroom application associated with it.

Did you know learning how to hit helps with crossing the midline. Midline crossing improves communication between the two sides of the brain. These movements help children to pay attention and to concentrate. It also helps with everyday tasks such as reading, writing and tying shoelaces.

Book a class today so that your child can join in the fun and develop those age appropriate milestones so that learning in the classroom and at school becomes easier, more natural and ultimately less stressful.

A new Kindergarten venture – music classes for babies, toddlers and children

Many people desire a good musical education for their children and here is an opportunity to find that ideal.

These kindergarten classes, designed for children aged 0-5, will be based on the Kodaly Colourstrings model, where children are offered a musical environment in which they will develop pitch, rhythm and general musicianship through songs, rhymes, movement and live music-making.

These classes, held in Streatham, are taken by an extremely experienced performer and teacher with a wide range of skills. (See website www.angelaeast.co.uk/education/teaching)

The 30 minute class is attended by carer and child; even new born babies will benefit from the experience. The child will gradually become more aware and a seemingly innate sense of pitch and rhythm will emerge, providing a head start for taking up any musical instrument, which can happen from the age of 5.

For further information, please contact Angela East eastangela@gmail.com

Tumble Tots

Their progressive play programme is designed to develop your child’s physical skills. Using bespoke colourful equipment, they focus on agility, balance, climbing and co-ordination which enhances brain development and builds confidence.

Every session is supervised by their amazing, specially trained staff, getting the best out of each child. Up until 3 years, grown-ups participate as well to enable parents, carers and even grandparents to spend time with little ones as they develop.

The journey begins for babies from 6 months old who can sit up unaided and are actively moving.

Classes are held in Raynes Park at St Saviours Church Grand Drive on Mondays.

Sarah Wiseglass | Tumble Tots Epsom | 07539 468 002 epsom@tumbletots.com | tumbletots.com/Epsom

Inspire Ballet & Dance

Inspire Ballet & Dance is a professional dance school offering unique dance training and enjoyment for children and adults in the heart of Balham. Founded in 2016 by Mrs Samantha, ballet, tap and modern classes are delivered in beautiful studios by inspirational teachers who have a desire to produce inspirational dancers. Every class is imbued with magic, love and achievement. Royal Academy of Dance and Imperial Society of Dance exams are offered alongside regular performing opportunities for those wishing to be involved. The school boasts a good number of boys as well as girls, classes start from age 2.5yrs.

“For profound dance training or simply a spot of fun... let us inspire you!”

Please visit www.inspireballetdance.co.uk or contact Samantha@inspireballetdance.co.uk | 07919 523 962.

The Playball program follows a holistic approach and offers learning opportunities and experiences relating to the cognitive, physical, social and emotional development of your child. Playball takes advantage of

developmental windows of opportunity by providing a wide range of suitable movement skills and physical activities in a safe and secure environment–perfect for optimal learning!

They told Families: “At Playball, we help children develop fundamental building blocks of sport, agility balance and coordination, as well as the three key elements of physical fitness - endurance, strength and flexibility.” Children are also introduced to a range of different sports skills for tennis, cricket, hockey, rugby, football, basketball, baseball and volleyball.

https://playballlondon.com/venues

South West Swimming School

Classes in Balham:

Mon-Sun am and afternoons for young swimmers up to stage 3. Adult and – Baby & Toddler classes on Monday am, Thursday pm and Sunday am & pm 4-1 3-1 2-1 and private 1-1 class size.

• Adult and baby/Toddler maximum of 6 in a class

Classes in Battersea

• Club swimming and stages 1-10 young beginners up to club level including Adult swim on Friday after school, Sat and Sundays all day. 41, 3-1, 2-1 and private 1-1 class size.

Art club in Balham

Explore your creative potential with artist Justine Formentelli. Discover different techniques and mediums and learn about art history in a relaxed and positive atmosphere.

• Small group (6 students max) • Acrylic, watercolour, oil pastel, ink, pencil, markers, collage, printing, drawing, painting, sculpture and assemblage.

£18 each 90 minutes sessions, Fridays, from 4 to 5:30pm. For 8 to 14 years old. Balham.

Club max 8 in a lane. Adults private or group classes.

Classes in Wandsworth: Mon, Wed, and Fri after school Saturday all day and Sundays afternoons stages 1-10 young beginners up to club level including Adult swim we offer 4-1 3-1 2-1 and private 1-1 class size, Club max 8 in a lane, Adults private or group classes 0208 767 2723.

Kelly@swswimschool.co.uk

Ballet in a fun and friendly way!

Scali Dance Studio make classes fun while learning ballet.

Ballet is a wonderful way for young children to gain strength, improve flexibility, have coordination and stay fit. Dancing together in a playful environment also helps children develop their social skills and improve their confidence, and teach them to hold themselves gracefully and move with purpose.

As an artistic discipline, ballet teaches children qualities that can help them excel in many other sports and academic activities.

Classes for children are taught by a professional teacher registered with the prestigious Royal Academy of Dance. Isabelle trained as a ballerina with the Paris Opera Ballet and created Scali Dance Studio to share her passion of ballet with children in her local neighbourhood.

Classes take place every Thursday afternoon in Tooting Bec for children from reception (age 4). Do get in touch to book a free trial class for the upcoming term starting in January 2023.

Contact isabellescali@gmail.com or visit www.scalidancestudio.com for more information.

Prickly Poppy Mosaic parties

For the past 10 years Kirsteen has been bringing the magic of mosaic to children across London and Surrey. She told us: “Creating mosaics is one of my favourite things in the world .... seeing how much joy this brought to children was just so exciting. This is why and when Prickly Poppy Mosaic parties was born! I come to your house or venue bringing everything required to create the mosaic masterpieces.

The parties run for around an hour and a half with me arriving a little earlier to set up and usually clearing up as the food comes out.

I then take everything back to the studio where I plug gaps (and any minor tweaking if necessary) before grouting, cleaning and adding hanger. Over the years we have had unicorns, toucans, cupcakes, alpacas and so much more.”

Children and parents love that they

have something special and unique to treasure forever. kirsteen@pricklypoppy.co.uk www.pricklypoppy.co.uk

@PPKirsteen

Blueberry Playsongs Parties

One of London’s longest serving children’s entertainment providers, Blueberry Playsongs are led by highly experienced professional musicians who play live, guitar led music. They specialise in baby to reception years and cater and adapt their sessions to the age of your child, including learning any special song requests!

Their parties are for every occasion—from birthdays to corporate events, they can even entertain your children during grown ups' parties!

Blueberry Playsongs parties always create a beautiful opportunity for treasured memories and photographs. A bespoke party pack will be delivered to you prior to

your special day filled with certificates of musical excellence and badges for your party bags along with balloons to decorate your venue or home. Parties include a puppet gift for the birthday girl or boy.

Visit the website to find out more, hear parents’ feedback and watch their gorgeous new party video! Azadeh Lawson: 07565 377451 www.blueberryplaysongs.co.uk

Pasta n’ Play Parties

Vicky is an Italian chef who wants to spread her passion for good and healthy food in London and show people how to have fun cooking with family and friends. They organise the ultimate cooking workshops (now also online) for kids and adults. She told us: “We teach how to make Italian food from scratch: pasta, focaccia, pizza, bread, gnocchi, lasagna and much more. Our Pasta menu includes traditional recipes such as pici cacio e pepe, spaghetti alla carbonara, trofie al pesto, homemade gnocchi baked with

tomato sauce and cheese, traditional lasagna and filled tortellini and ravioli.“ Or learn how to make pasta in a more curious way: rainbow tagliatelle, polka dots tortelli, unicorn pasta and much more.

Great reviews on the website. 0745 326 2554 vicky@pastaandplay.co.uk @pastaandplay https://pastaandplay.co.uk/

Vicky uses the techniques learned from her Italian nonna

By Tamsin Ryan

Birthday presents on a budget

Party invitations are a thrill for children, less so for present-buying parents! However fun does not have to be expensive. Here are some great gift ideas that will delight the recipients without breaking the bank.

The present box

Buying gifts throughout the year (during the sales or ad-hoc promotions) and setting them aside saves money and avoids the lastminute panic shopping dash. Great gifts to keep an eye out for are the mini Orchard Toys games (www.orchardtoys.com), which are usually not gender specific, cater for a broad age range and retail at £5.35. Look out for craft or gardening kits, books and outdoor games such as skipping ropes, hula hoops, goalie gloves or frisbees, which have lasting play value.

Multi-packs

Multi-packs can be divided up to

create gift sets, which can be very cost effective. Mix and match the items to suit the age and interests of the birthday child. For younger kids, a bundle of ten books (The Works usually sell ten books for £10), a party pack of bubbles or a bumper pack of assorted playdough makes a great gift.

Savvy shopping

We love Chalkboard and QT Toys on Northcote Road and Pandemonium on Sheen Lane, who have a selection of low costs items.

Favourite ‘go to’ gifts

Presents that get children outdoors or being creative are always a win;

Eco ideas

Sustainable and socially responsible

Check out Eeny Meeny’s online store. Their independent e-shop stocks unique brands like DanToy, a Danish company who make their products from sugarcane. (One of the only toy companies which got the Eco Swan Nordic Label for its

production.) A great range of products that support children's imagination, creativity and early years of development, whilst making a positive impact on the world through their ethos and production.

https://eenymeeny.com

something like a magnifying glass and a bug identification book (which come in under £10), ‘scavenger hunt’ type cards, a kite, pavement chalks or a gardening or craft kit.

Non toy’ gifts

Children are often inundated with toys on their birthdays, so a fun tshirt or some funky socks can work well, especially if you can find something featuring their favourite superhero or TV character. These can be very reasonably priced in high street chains and most supermarkets and parents will be pleased you’ve bought their child something to wear.

Handmade

With a little time and creativity, handmade presents are a very cheap option; hair scrunchies, superhero masks, embellished t-shirts, crochet toys, personalised totes or hand knitted beanies.

Scrap schemes

These are a great source of free and cheap craft materials, such as paper, fabric, elastic, ribbons, beads and sequins. Not only do these make crafting even cheaper, they also help the planet by using up materials that would otherwise have gone to landfill, so it’s win-win!

The Work and Play Scrapstore (WaPS), the arts and crafts re-use charity is at 13 Blackshaw Road, London SW17 0DA. Open: Tuesdays and Thursdays (11am-5pm) each week and the first Saturday of every month (11-4pm). http://workandplayscrapstore.org.uk

Club together Club together with other parents in the class and buy one larger toy, voucher or experience. The birthday child will get a much bigger present and it will have cost you each less.

Creative gift-wrapping can zing up the contents and it doesn’t have to cost a thing. Use pages from an old magazine or street map, leftover wallpaper or personalise a brown paper bag with lots of colour.

Pre-loved

Gifting pre-loved is becoming more acceptable. So many toys are untouched and unloved and whether it’s something your own children don’t want or a toy purchased from a charity shop, children really don’t mind! It’s also worth noting that many pre-loved marketplaces and charity shops also sell brand new toys that are looking for a new home; some real bargains can be found that anyone would be very happy to re-gift. Fara Kids shops are brilliant.

Grow your own

Gift wrap a plant pot with a little bag of compost and some seeds for a gift that will keep growing!

For more birthday party tips, read Tamsin’s blog at www.icecreamandjelly.com or check out her Instagram page @icecreamandjelly_uk.

What’s On Jan/Feb 2023

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If you only do one thing this month...

Vault Festival

In and around Waterloo SE1 www.vaultfestival.com

24 January - 19 March

SPECIAL EVENTS

The Green Planet AR Experience

55 Regent Street W1B 4DY

www.thegreenplanetexperience.co.uk

An independent festival featuring over 500 of the best live theatre, comedy and cabaret performers, including shows for families and young audiences.

Secret Kids Cinema & Sunday Lunch

Bellefields, Stockwell Avenue SE9 9SY www.bellefields.com/bookings

Alternate Sundays Sunday lunch for the family, plus tickets for Family Movies in the plush, onsite cinema, complete with popcorn.

11 February - 9 March

Travel through five digitally enhanced worlds to explore our green planet as never before. Inspired by the BBC series, this is nature at your fingertips in a ground-breaking experience. Free but book first.

Winter Festival

Museum of the Home Kingsland Road E2 8EA www.museumofthehome.org.uk

Until 28 January

Many communities have a cultural celebration that punctuates the winter months. Winter Festival brings these together for everyone to enjoy. Step out of the cold into the warmth of the museum for magical installations, family days, crafts, workshops and winter-time celebrations.

Imagine Children’s Festival

Southbank SE1 8XX www.southbankcentre.co.uk

8-18 February

Centring the importance of play and discovery, London’s leading children’s arts festival has a programme bursting with music, storytelling, comedy, poetry, dance, visual arts and plenty of interactive activities. For the first time this year, all events across the festival are relaxed, allowing a more inclusive and welcoming environment for all; and 50% of events are available for free. Ages 0-11.

Compiled by Robina Cowan

What’s On

SHOWS & CONCERTS

Polka Theatre The Broadway SW19 1SB. www.polkatheatre.com

Until 29 January

Grandad, Me and Teddy Too

Join Grandad, Mia (and Teddy Too) as they share an unforgettable wintry adventure to a twinkly, snowy garden. This heartwarming show celebrates the special place grandparents have in young children’s lives. Ages 2-5.

11 February - 26 March

Jack V Giant

Jack is a brave young girl who embarks on a giant adventure when she sells the family cow in return for magic beans. An exciting new musical enchantingly brought to life with puppetry and music. Ages 4-8.

15-19 February

Rise and Fall

A poetic and intriguing performance for young audiences about holding on and letting go, where balloons become an ecosystem of small floating moons and vast bouncing orbs. Ages 2+.

Puppet Theatre Barge

Blomfield Road W9 2PF www.puppetbarge.com

Until 29 January

Little Red Riding Hood

The much loved story of Red Riding Hood is injected with humour and new twists, performed using marionettes and shadow puppets. Age 5+.

Lyric Hammersmith Theatre

King Street W6 0QL www.lyric.co.uk

28 January

Woodland Tales with Granddad Olivier-nominated Hattie Naylor has teamed up with Pickled Image to craft a magical tale with an urgent environmental message.

4 February

Mischief and Mystery in Moomin Valley

Pack your imagination and take an unforgettable journey to Moominvalley where everyone is welcome, nature thrives and adventures are plentiful.

11 February

Mary Anning and the Sands of Time Join Mary Anning and her little dog Tray on a wonderful adventure of science and discovery!

14-18 February

Burglar Bill

A retelling of the picture book by Janet and Allan Ahlberg. The production captures the spirit of the book with an exciting set featuring lots of windows to climb through, and the help of puppets, music, song and dance. Ages 3+.

25 February

Tom Thumb

One night tiny Tom overhears Mum and Dad talking - there's nothing left to eat so they are going to leave him and his six brothers in the forest!

New Wimbledon Theatre The Broadway SW19 1QG www.atgtickets.com/venues/new-wimbledon-theatre 29 January Ministry of Science - Science Saved the World A science show for children, which looks at how science shapes the modern world we live in. Expect exploding balloons and a few loud bangs along the way!

Shakespeare’s Globe

New Globe Walk SE1 9DT www.shakespearesglobe.com

16 February

Much Ado About Nothing

Explore Shakespeare’s witty comedy in a practical and interactive workshop which explores the play through games and activities. Ages 12+.

15-17 February

The Winter’s Tale

Gather round for an interactive, time-travelling, country-hopping family workshop. Ages 5-12.

Until 25 February

Festive Family Tour

Hear how Christmas was observed in Shakespeare’s time and the folk traditions that people practised to welcome in winter.

Horrible Histories: Terrible Thames

From Tower Bridge Quay. www.terriblethames.com

Daily tours

This is a boat tour all about the history of the Thames with the nasty bits left in! The fantastic journey incorporates immersive theatre to surprise and shock in equal measure as it delivers its unique take on London, thrilling both children and adults alike.

Southbank Centre Southbank SE1 8XX www.southbankcentre.co.uk

29 January FUNharmonics Family Concert

Help untangle the Colour Monster’s messy emotions through the wonder of orchestral music with the LPO.

11-13 February

Peppa Pig: My First Concert

From Mozart to muddy puddles; everyone’s favourite pig family leads an introduction to live orchestra for the whole family.

12 February

Roald Dahl’s Revolting Rhymes

The animated film based on Dahl’s classic children’s book is soundtracked live by the Philharmonia.

Richmond Theatre

The Green, Richmond TW9 1QJ www.agtickets.com

21 January

Ministry of Science - Science Saved the World Ministry of Science’s anarchic dive into how science shapes the modern world we live in, with a few loud bangs along the way!

12 February Sing-a-long-a Encanto

The smash hit film musical about the Family Madrigal with lyrics on screen that everyone can’t stop singing.

Duke of York’s Theatre

St Martin’s Lane WC2N 4BG www.thedukeofyorks.com

Until 29 January

Mother Goose

Mother Goose and her husband live a wholesome life inside an abandoned Debenhams, running an Animal Sanctuary for waifs and strays. When a magical goose comes a-knocking, will fame & fortune get the better of them? A hilarious family-friendly panto starring Ian McKellen, John Bishop and Mel Giedroyc.

What’s On Jan/Feb 2023

SHOWS & CONCERTS continued

Theatre

Royal Catherine Street

EC2B 5JF www.frozenthemusical.co.uk

Frozen, the Musical

The stage version of the hugely successful animated Disney film features unforgettable songs from the movie, including ‘Let It Go’ and ‘Do You Wanna Build a Snowman’, as well as catchy new numbers. Expect spectacular staging, amazing special effects and beautiful costumes in a magical world. Ages 6+.

Bach to Baby

BABY & TODDLER ACTIVITIES

Various venues and dates www.bachtobaby.com Critically-acclaimed classical concerts for babies and their grownups. Outstanding musicians put on exhilarating performances where babies can ‘join in’ with as much noise as they like!

Natural History Museum

Natural History Museum SW7 5BD www.nhm.ac.uk

Bring Your Own Baby Comedy

Various venues www.byobcomedy.com

Various dates

A funny, friendly afternoon of top comedy, where baby can come too and join in with the rumpus. Shows feature a new line up of comedians each month with two acts plus a compere. Ages: grownups plus under 12 months.

Unicorn Theatre

Tooley Street SE1 2HZ www.unicorntheatre.com

20 January - 25 February

Anansi the Spider Classic West African and Caribbean tales about the master spinner of yarns; brought vividly to life onstage. Ages 3-7.

26 January - 19 February

The Trial of Josie K

When Josie K finds herself caught up in an absurd situation, she needs her best mate Becca and all her courage to find her way out. Inspired by Kafka’s The Trial, this is a story of defiance, the power of friendship and finding hope. Ages 9-13.

Royal Opera House

Bow Street WC2E 9DD www.roh.org.uk

Various dates

Family Sundays

Discover opera, ballet and the Royal Opera House with fun-packed creative activities for all the family.

Sadler’s Wells Theatre

Rosebery Avenue EC1R 4TN www.sadlerswells.com

Last Friday of each month

Family Fridays

Dance workshops for accompanied children, facilitated by a freelance lead and supporting artist and managed by the Learning & Engagement Department. Ages 2-4, all abilities.

Little Angel Theatre

Dagmar Passage N1 2DN www.littleangeltheatre.com

Until 29 January

The Pixie and the Pudding

This enchanting musical brings a tale from Scandinavian folklore to life with puppetry, original music and a sprinkling of pixie magic, perfect for Christmas. Ages 4-11.

Until 29 January

We’re Going on a Bear Hunt

Michael Rosen’s thrilling and funny adventure comes to life in this entrancing puppetry production. With original music by Barb Jungr, this production is ideal for brave hunters and bear lovers alike. Ages 3-8.

Cambridge Theatre

Earlham Street WC2H 9HU www.lwtheatres.co.uk/theatres/camb ridge

Matilda the Musical

This is the story of an extraordinary little girl who, armed with a vivid imagination and a sharp mind, dares to take a stand and change her own destiny. Don’t miss the multi-award winning musical from the Royal Shakespeare Company. Ages 6+.

Ciné Lumière

Institut Français, Queensbury Place SW7 2DT

www.institut-francais.org.uk/cinelumiere

Join CinéFamilies for a mix of English and subtitled French language films and events for all ages from babies to teens.

Every other Tuesday Adventure Babies Sensory storytelling classes brought to you by award-winning Adventure Babies, filled with sensory props, magical stories, singing and messy play. Ages 0-4.

Various dates

Bring Your Own Baby A series of baby-friendly nature talks, created for inquisitive grown-ups looking for something to do with under-ones in tow.

Mini Masterpieces

Dulwich Picture Gallery SE21 7AD www.dulwichpicturegallery.org.uk Last Thursday of every month

Take your little one on a journey through the Gallery to discover people, places and animals in paintings, followed by a ‘messy play’ art-making activity. Ages under 5.

SEN DAYS OUT

A number of major London venues offer quieter sessions for visitors with SEN including those with an Autism Spectrum Condition, where they can enjoy everything on offer, free from the hustle and bustle of the general public. Venues include the Natural History Museum, London Transport Museum, The Science Museum, Tower Bridge, the Postal Museum and British Librarycheck their websites for dates and details

National Maritime Museum SENsory Sailors Once a month on Saturdays London Transport Museum SEND Explorers 29 October English National Opera Relaxed performances on occasional dates

MUSEUMS

Fulham Palace

Bishop's Avenue SW6 6EA www.fulhampalace.org 4 February Little Green Fingers

It may be winter, but there is plenty of work for families to help out with in the garden!

Natural History Museum

Cromwell Road SW7 5BD www.nhm.ac.uk

Once a month

Dino Snores for Kids

Spend a night amongst the museum’s incredible collections, exploring world class galleries after hours and sleeping beneath Hope, the breathtaking blue whale skeleton in Hintze Hall. After setting up camp in one of the amazing galleries, there’s an evening of awesome learning activities before bedtime, and breakfast in the morning. Ages 7-11.

Science Museum

Exhibition Road SW7 2DD www.sciencemuseum.org.uk

Daily Wonderlab: The Equinor Gallery Fuel your little one’s imagination by immersing yourselves in a world of wonder in the most spectacular interactive gallery in the world.

Until 4 May Science Fiction: Voyage to the Edge of Imagination

Embark on an immersive once-in-alifetime adventure through the cosmos to explore visions of the future through the science of today.

The Postal Museum

Phoenix Place WC1X 0DA www.postalmuseum.org

Ride through hidden tunnels and discover stories of Britain’s postal heritage through incredible objects, exciting stories and fun-filled interactive displays. A Postal Play Space has sackloads of indoor play fun for under 8s.

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MUSEUMS continued

Pitzhanger Manor and Gallery

Mattock Lane W5 5EQ www.pitzhanger.org.uk

Until 12 February

A Sense of Wonder

Discover a magical and playful world inhabited by Matt Dixon’s rusty robots. This audio-visual exhibition is set to a soundscape spanning 100 years of music from Judy Garland to the Beatles and Billie Eilish.

Bank of England Museum

Threadneedle Street EC2R 8AH www.bankofengland.co.uk/museum

There’s lots to discover at the Bank of England Museum. Learn about the history of banknotes and what the Bank of England does today. Pick up a real gold bar or try your hand at cracking a safe.

What’s On

V&A Museum

Cromwell Road SW7 2RL www.vam.ac.uk/families

Until 8 January

Beatrix Potter: Drawn to Nature This family friendly exhibition portrays Potter’s life as a scientist and conservationist, revealing the places and animals that inspired her most beloved characters.

28 January and 4 February

Make-it: Costume Illustration Get your creativity flowing and create a costume design for a character of your choice. Ages 7-10 and 10-13.

Royal Observatory

Greenwich

Blackheath Avenue SE10 8XJ www.rmg.co.uk/royal-observatory

Various dates

The Sky Tonight

A live show taking visitors on a tour of what can be seen in the night sky. See the stars, constellations, planets and moons, including a fly-out to the edge of the visible universe. Ages 7+.

Various Ted’s Space Adventure

Explore the solar system with a bear named Ted, learning about the things we find there and how they affect us. Ages 3-7.

The British Museum

Great Russell Street WC1B 3GD www.britishmuseum.org

Until 19 February

Hieroglyphs: Unlocking Ancient Egypt

Explore the inscriptions and objects that helped scholars unlock one of the world’s oldest civilisations, exactly 200 years since this pivotal moment. See the Rosetta Stone alongside some of the world’s most famous ancient objects on loan from national and international collections.

Cutty Sark

King William Walk SE10 9HT www.rmg.co.uk/cuttysark

Various dates

Rig Climb Experience

Climb the famous masts and enjoy views of the Thames and London like no other. Visitors can traverse one of the ship’s lower yardarms before reaching the top platform, taking in the view from the rigging of a true London icon. Ages 12+.

Weekends and school holidays

Cutty Sark Characters

Costumed guides bring to life onboard stories, from the perspective of the most senior captains to the vital supporting workers. Ages 3+.

London Transport Museum

Covent Garden Piazza WC2E 7BB

www.ltmuseum.co.uk

The Museum is a great place for families to have fun together and discover the history of London’s famous transport network. There are interactives throughout many of the galleries, term-time singing and

Museum of Brands

Lancaster Road W11 1QT www.museumofbrands.com

A fascinating collection of the things that generations of families have thrown away, from the

story sessions plus school holiday specials.

Legacies: London Transport’s Caribbean Workforce

Uncover stories and memories from first, second and third generation

Caribbean people who worked for LT in the past and now work for its successor, Transport for London (TfL).

Victorian times through to the digital age. From food and goods packaging to toys and magazine covers, the museum houses and reveals brands in their historical context.

What’s On Jan/Feb 2023

MUSEUMS continued

The Foundling Museum

Brunswick Square WC1N 1AZ. www.foundlingmuseum.org.uk

Until 19 February

Tiny Traces

An exhibition of uncovered stories of African and Asian children in the care of London’s eighteenth century Foundling Hospital.

The Design Museum

Kensington High Street W8 6AG www.designmuseum.org

Until 19 February

Objects of Desire: Surrealism and Design 1924 - Today

An exhibition filled with playful, curious and poetic centuryspanning objects that reveal the rich history of Surrealism and its fascinating influence on design.

National Maritime Museum

Romney Road, Greenwich SE10 9NF. www.rmg.co.uk

21 January

Lunar New Year

Celebrate the year of the Rabbit at the National Maritime Museum with workshops, lion dance performances and talks developed

with community partners.

Sundays Discover Sundays

Each week a different artist takes families on a journey into the museum’s collection, featuring stories and creative activities. All ages, free.

Tower Bridge Tower Bridge Road SE1 2UP www.towerbridge.org.uk Step inside the Bridge and explore its unexpected delights, from the magnificent historic Victorian Engine Rooms up to the highlevel glass walkways, suspended 42 metres above the River Thames, which offer spectacular panoramic views across London.

Museum of London Docklands

West India Quay E14 4AL. www.museumoflondon.org.uk/docklands

21+22 January Lunar New Year 2023

Celebrate Lunar new Year in a weekend of free workshops, performances and more.

Until 16 April Executions From Smithfield to Southwark, from Banqueting House to Newgate Prison, executions became embedded in London’s landscape. Explore objects, stories and legacies from celebrity criminals to ordinary Londoners accused of offences ranging from treason to theft.

Horniman Museum London Road SE23 3PQ. www.horniman.ac.uk

Until 16 April Elmer and Friends Walk through Elmer’s jungle, encountering David McKee’s beloved characters and stories along the way. As well as illustrations from the Elmer series there’s original artwork from Not Now, Bernard and Mr Benn; cosy reading areas and dressing up opportunities for the under sevens.

Wear a Hat for a better future!

Wear A Hat Day, an iconic and fun annual event, is one of the UK’s most popular and family-friendly charitable fundraisers and it’s happening again on Friday, 31 March!

Running for more than ten years, this event raises millions for vital research into brain tumours – the biggest cancer killer of children and adults under the age of 40 Wear A Hat Day events help children explore their individuality and creativity, whilst learning to work together and think of others – in a really fun way.

Join this event, as a family or by persuading your local school to take part. Register now for more information and your FREE fundraising pack. Just use the quick and easy webform at www.wearahatday.org

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ART GALLERIES

The National Gallery

Trafalgar Square www.nationalgallery.org.uk

14-16 February

Explore, build, play

Celebrate architecture and materials with artists on hand helping visitors create their own new structures. For families of all ages.

Tate Modern

Bankside SE1 9TG www.tate.org.uk/visit/tate-modern Surrealism Beyond Borders Spanning 80 years and 50 countries, the exhibition shows how Surrrealism inspired and united artists around the globe, offering artists the freedom to challenge authority and imagine a new world.

THE GREAT OUTDOORS

Get your skates on It’s your last chance to go ice skating in the London venues below. Book a healthy, fresh air spin to warm yourselves up:

Until 8 January Queen’s House SE10, www.rmg.co.uk/queens-house

Until 15 January Somerset House WC2, www.somersethouse.org.uk

Until 25 February Canary Wharf E14, www.icerinkcanarywharf.co.uk

What’s On Jan/Feb

Hayward Gallery

Southbank SE1 8XX www.southbankcentre.co.uk

Until 8 January

Strange Clay: Ceramics in Contemporary Art Featuring 23 international and multigenerational artists, the exhibition explores the expansive potential of clay through a variety of playful as well as socially-engaged artworks. Under 12s go free.

Dulwich Picture Gallery

Gallery Road SE21 7AD www.dulwichpicturegallery.org.uk

22 January Art Sundays Be inspired to make art together as a family in these free creative workshops at the Gallery.

Until 17 February Family Fridays Free, expressive art-inspired activities for families.

We are currently recruiting hosts who can offer a spare bedroom, three meals per day and the required lessons and activities.

choose who to host and when to host!

Kew Royal Botanic Gardens Kew TW9 3AE. www.kew.org

4 February - 5 March Orchid Festival

A vibrant celebration of colour to brighten up the winter months; this year’s Orchid Festival will celebrate an African nation, with stunning plants and animal sculptures.

Until March Pip & Pop

A vibrant exhibition of rainbow artworks made entirely out of sugar and candy by artist Tanya Shultz.