12. Let the kids lead your wedding procession.
2. Speaking of cakes, why not create a cake topper for each member of your blended family?
8. Have them be a part of a unity ceremony. Pouring colored sand into a container or lighting a candle is symbolic way to bond a family together. If the kiddos are too tiny to safely handle a glass container or a candle, have them select a package of their favorite sweet treats and add them to a candy dish.
3. When you say yes to the dress or the tuxedo, invite your new daughter or son along to share in the special moment.
9. Include them in your wedding vows. Remind them of just how grateful you are that they have become a part of your life.
14. Give them a gift on the day of your wedding that can be treasured for a lifetime. A personalized piece of jewelry, a set of engraved cuff links, a framed family photo or a sweet family heirloom will express your love in the most profound way.
4. Ask for their help with craft projects – and there will be plenty of that to go around.
10. Have them say their own vows during the ceremony. You’ll be amazed with what they come up with.
15. Get down with your bad selves during the first family dance. Nothing says “love” like a fun-filled dance routine.
5. Let them create their own signature drink, dish or dessert for your reception.
11. Ask them to share a special talent of theirs at the wedding or reception. A song sung, a dance perfomed, a poem read or a piece of artwork created are the most precious and unforgettable ways to say “I love you”.
16. Exchange a family charm that represents the blending of the families into one. An engraved piece of jewelry featuring a family catch phrase, logo or crest is something everyone can wear in their own special way.
1. Bring them along on the hunt for the perfect venue or to the cake tasting. The family that enjoys the sweet things in life together stays together.
6. Make your new daughter or son a bridesmaid or groomsman at the wedding. If they are too young to stand in this role, they’ll be perfect as a flower girl or ring bearer.
13. Designate a particular part of your postwedding photo shoot to you and your new littles.
7. Ask for their suggestions on things your guests should check out while they are in town for your wedding. Add their ideas to your website and be sure to give them proper credit.
Enjoy 31