September 2014 Ellis County Living Magazine

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Beginning an exercise routine can be difficult. Kicking it off this far in advance will ensure that you have a little leeway for adjustment.

the wedding. Alcohol bloats and carries more calories than most of us even suspect. Save it for special occasions and drink it in moderation.

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(just a trim, don’t get a drastic new cut) and retouch your hair color.

prise zit on the big day will require knowing how to take care of your skin appropriately. A dermatologist can recommend the right care for your skin type.

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can have many adverse effects on the body, including weight gain, tooth enamel loss and dehydration- the last things you need when trying to look your best.

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hydrated works wonders for your skin and body. Take this as an opportunity to buy that cute water bottle you’ve been eyeing and keep it filled at all times.

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your hair a little extra TLC by using a good quality deep conditioner at least once a month.

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Begin a healthy skin regime now to ensure

Decide on hair and make up for your trial run. Wear a white blouse and bring jewelry and whatever head piece/veil you are using to simulate what you will actually look like on the big day. Remember to make sure your makeup is WATERPROOF!

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This is just a rough overview of the planning process, so as always, if you have any questions feel free to call, email, text or Facebook me.

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TERESA CHOATE, THE BRIDE’S REP 972.935.3478 | TERESACHOATE@AOL.COM

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having the clearest face possible on the big day. Beginning now also allows you to experiment with different kids of facials to find the one that works for you. Salons get busy fast, so if there’s a hairstylist or makeup artist you just have to have, make your appointments as early as possible. Book your trial run and day-of services together to ensure that both days will be when you want them.

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1 WEEK: Get your eyebrows done one more time. If you’ve been getting regular facials up until this point, get one last, very gentle facial. Getting one if you haven’t gotten one before isn’t recommended just in case your skin doesn’t react well to it. Start a strict diet of very low-sodium or zero sodium foods and nox dairy to reduce bloating. Go to sleep one hour earlier than usual every day: A maximum and healthy amount of sleep is needed to maintain beautiful skin and to ward off pesky under eye circles.

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5HOD[ Take a luxurious bath and use a good body scrub to give your skin a last minute boost. Try using LUSH’s Ocean Salt for maximum silky skin.

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get 8 to 10 hours of sleep tonight‌ you’ll need it in the morning!

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