Inclusion is Strength

By Gbemisola Adesina | PHOTO: www.hcamag.com

‘None of us is as good as all of us ’

The heading of this piece is not just the theme of this year’s International Albinism Awareness Day, which is 13th June. It speaks to something more; to something much more than affirmative action and awareness posts. Inclusion, which involves the recognition of an entity’s possible contribution and the willingness to utilise the same, is indeed strength.

I have come to realise that the idea of inclusion has been misunderstood and, dare I say, abused. I speak for a number of albinos when I say that, we do not want to be included as an afterthought or because society ‘pities’ us. We want inclusion that is the finished product of crystal clear understanding that we are capable contributors. We choose to include ourselves in nation building, across various sectors, because we recognise that we are carriers of divine deposits

This is despite the fact that we have struggles and experiences that differentiate us from others. For example, growing up with short-sight is not particularly easy or fun.

Being subjected to numerous lens fitting tests, having to wear glasses 24/7, learning to sit away from the TV as well as being asked weird questions like, "How many fingers do I have up?" are a few of the hurdles that many of us have faced or currently face

I recall that I incurred the wrath of some classmates who could not get why I had to sit in the first row right in front of the board. They must have wondered, ‘Is she the first? Can’t she see the board from anywhere else?’ (I owe a truckload of thanks to my teachers who worked hard to make class conducive for me.)

This is not to mention the sunburns that greet my skin after I stay outdoors for even a little while; and jeers from people who do not understand why I have to go around with an umbrella. Battling esteem issues and working through a fear that I would not be able to type were quite tough.

I am glad to have overcome these. I am grateful for photochromic glasses, umbrellas and sunscreen. I am grateful for fellow albinos, supportive family and cheerleaders. I am grateful for platforms that permit my creative juices to be savoured by thirsty visitors at the gates of Literature

I do not imply violence, misguided activism, name-calling or patronising gestures when I say that I have come to realise that inclusion has to be taken ‘by force ’ I mean that those of us who have been looked down upon or regarded as incapable must ask ourselves if these narratives are true.

We must tear them down and recreate them, if we determine that they are false. We must work towards overcoming feelings of inadequacy, embracing the challenges that genetics would have us face and building our abilities in different facets to the glory of our creator

The skin difference is a gift. The peculiarity of albinism is an advantage. Protecting albinos’ skin is a duty that must be faithfully carried out by albinos, their care givers, and other members of society (like school owners and corporate organisations).

For inclusion to indeed strengthen our society, both its ‘givers’ and ‘takers’ must understand its potency To close, here is an excerpt from a poem I wrote in 2020 to capture that year’s IAAD theme, Made To Shine

Let it dawn on every face, Whatever the colour or race, That the best cloak of beauty Is unhindered, well expressed variety!

If we look beyond the colour And focus on our humanity, We'll treat one another with honour

And see no one as a casualty Cheers to greatness!

Gbemisola

Oluwasina is also known as Elegant Inker. She is committed to helping (personal, business, corporate) brands accelerate their visibility, influence and profit through writing services and coaching. These (areas of) service(s) and coaching range from: creative writing, content writing, editing and proofreading, ghost writing, content strategy consultation, transcription to copy writing. She has worked with 10+ brands, authors and writers. She has had her poems and articles published in magazines, too

Gbemisola has been told that she is blessed with a voice that enriches what she says. She enjoys speaking, and has honoured 20+ virtual speaking invitations from 2020 till date. These engagements covered topics around: writing, content creation, online business, social media positioning, public speaking, (self) leadership, the Christian faith and albinism. She looks forward to more of these, as well as to features in the media and TED(X).

Gbemisola is a student of International Relations at Covenant University, who has had the privilege of occupying different leadership offices. She is a recipient of numerous certificates and awards. She is an ardent believer that individuals are responsible for the achievement of organisational and national goals. She is a lover of Abba and of the progress of others. She likes to sing, to learn other languages and to make beaded articles. She can’t say she is a lover of games, but is thankful to have a hang of Scrabble. She Ioves the colours, purple and lemon.

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