SENIOR SCHOOL ADMISSIONS
Preparing for the 11+ and 13+ with Confidence Finding the best senior school for your child For many parents, the terms “11+” and “13+” feel like big milestones. These exams can be seen as ‘make-orbreak’ moments in your child’s life and it’s no surprise that parents and children alike feel the pressure as they approach. But here’s the truth: while these assessments are indeed important milestones, they are not destiny. Their real purpose is to help you and your child find the senior school where they will be happiest, most inspired and best supported. At Wetherby Prep, we believe in guiding families with honesty, clarity and care. With the right preparation and a good measure of perspective, the 11+ and 13+ exams can feel far less daunting, even becoming stepping stones on a journey of discovery.
Some boys are ready for a change at 11; others benefit from the extra time and maturity that the 13+ allows. For some, a highly academic environment will inspire them; for others, the happiest outcome is found in a school that balances academics with creativity, sport or pastoral care. Nina Kingsmill Moore says: “The most successful students leave school with confidence and self-belief, not just top grades.” Parents who keep this bigger picture in mind often find the whole process a more positive experience, because the goal becomes clearer: not winning a place at a particular school, but finding the right place for your child. Understanding the Exams
The 11+ is usually taken in the autumn term of Year 6 for entry to senior schools. It focuses on the essentials: English, Maths and verbal and non-verbal reasoning. The 13+, also known as Common Entrance, is taken in Year 8 for entry to Year 9 at independent senior schools and covers a wider range of subjects. The exams are set by the ISEB and most schools also use interviews, references and earlier pre-tests (often in Year 6 or 7) as part of their admissions process. Looking Beyond the League Tables
It’s tempting to think of the ‘best’ school as the one with the highest exam results or most glittering reputation, but what really matters is fit.
Smart Preparation Without Overload
How do you prepare your child without losing perspective? • Build strong foundations. Encourage reading for pleasure, problem-solving and writing. These skills matter far beyond the exam hall. • Familiarise, don’t overwhelm. Practice papers and reasoning puzzles are useful tools, but avoid endless cramming at the last minute. • Protect curiosity. A child who needs relentless tutoring just to get through the exams may not flourish in a highly selective environment. • Celebrate individuality. A child who can talk with enthusiasm about their favourite book, hobby or project will shine brighter than one who has been over-drilled. A U T U M N 2 0 2 5 | E D U C AT I O N C H O I C E S M AG A Z I N E | 1 5
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