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Ethan Nelson is an 8th grader at East Valley Middle School. He is an avid runner and has broken some school records in the mile, 800, and 4 x 100 relay. When he’s not running, he enjoys hanging with his friends. He loves animals, especially his black lab, Abbie.

His teachers say he is a hard worker who always has a smile on his face. His favorite classes are math and shop (tech ed). EVMS staff say he is an all-around great kid!

ABOUT YOUTH CONNECTIONS Youth Connections is a coalition of over 1100 community members representing parents, educators, churches, youthserving organizations, businesses, and more who want to make Helena a healthy and supportive place for kids and families. Youth Connections recognizes the need to reduce negative behaviors including substance use and violence while also working to increase positive opportunities and mental wellness for all our local kids.

So how do we do that? We know there is no silver bullet to making communities great, and so we do LOTS of things that we know make communities better. We support agencies and businesses who offer youth activities because we know kids who are involved in positive activities aren’t involved in negative ones. We support student mentoring relationships because research shows it helps kids stay in school and be successful. We also know that when kids know better, they do better, so we support classroom education in the areas of bullying prevention and substance use prevention. Youth Connections also understands we must support the adults in kids’ lives and therefore we provide training, education, networks, and collaborative opportunities for parents and professionals to connect with others who care about kids.

Youth Connections is well known for its quarterly publication, YC Magazine, a resource for parents and the entire community. These are just some of the projects we’re working on to serve our mission of engaging our community to create environments where youth thrive and succeed. For a comprehensive list of activities, services, and ways you can get involved, please visit our website at www.youthconnectionscoalition.org.

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know I say this every time, but the magazine committee has assembled a great slate of articles once again.

We know that this time of year kids, and adults, get tired of being inside, are bored with school, and just want a change. Kelly has addressed this issue with some great ideas to keep kiddos’ heads in the game and finish strong.

Don’t underestimate the power of COLEEN surprise to shake things up. A stop for SMITH ice cream after school or an impromptu game night when behavior needs to be rewarded will go a long way to keeping kids engaged.

We are fortunate to have authors who know their stuff, and Art has given us effective tools to build relationships with our kids to keep them drug- and alcohol-free. We know that substance use disorder is a chronic neurologic disorder, so it’s incredibly important to keep kids away from drugs and alcohol while their brains are still developing.

In January I shared a compelling video on our Facebook page, Youth Connections, that talks about addiction. It stated that people seek out other vices when they are missing a connection with a person in their life. Just like a tree that does not have enough water and its roots search it out, people who don’t have a connection to a person seek out something to replace it. Unfortunately it ends up being drugs, alcohol, gambling, really any kind of addiction. This is so important, especially for our kiddos, but really everyone. Never miss an opportunity to connect with a child.

Lastly, with 20% of our youth stating they’ve made a plan to commit suicide in the past year, we need to be vigilant in recognizing signs and getting kids help when they need it.

The school district offers behavioral health screening FREE for high school students. To date only 3% of families have taken advantage of this. There is no deadline. Hearing and vision are screened, why not mental health?! Contact Jon Jackson at (406) 324-2023 to arrange a screening.

Here’s to a fun and engaged spring!

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CONFESSIONS FROM THE KITCHEN TABLE hen my family was struggling with the onset of our teenage daughter’s mental illness, stigma made us reluctant to “come out.”

It was too late before we realized we weren’t as alone as we thought. According to the National Institute of Mental Health, just over 20 percent (or 1 in 5) children have a seriously debilitating mental health condition. By staying silent, we perpetuated stigma and prevented ourselves from finding the best available help.

Sadie lost her battle with mental illness, and I lost my daughter.

Through this heartbreaking experience, I’ve learned a lot from my mistakes. I’m sharing my newfound knowledge with you—parent-toparent—with the hope that even one of these suggestions might prevent another lost battle.

can that provide information, support, and research updates. Talk with trusted friends, colleagues, and family. I know this is hard, but you will be surprised at how many people open up to you about their challenges. Help may come from the most unexpected places.

Accept Your Child’s Diagnosis For many parents, their child’s diagnosis is difficult to process. You want so badly for your child to have a normal, happy life that it’s easy to believe, on good days, that they have overcome their challenges. Accept that the way their brain works is a unique part of who they are. Help your child find a new normal—one that leverages their strengths, interests, and capabilities. Build a normal, happy life that fits them.

Call a Crisis Line If you or your child needs information, resources, or someone to talk to during difficult times, make a call or send a text to: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255

Get Educated and Network Read as much as you can. Get on the distribution list of as many mental health organizations you

Listen and Don’t be Judgmental Instead of focusing on your child’s behaviors, try to understand their feelings. Rather than asking “why” questions, which can sound judgmental, ask “how” or “what” questions.

Consider taking effective communication training. After Sadie died, I volunteered to work on a crisis line. I learned how to defuse anger, connect with people, and partake in collaborative problem-solving. I’ve always felt as though these skills would have helped me communicate with Sadie more effectively.

NAMI HelpLine: 1-800-NAMI (6264) or email info@nami.org Crisis Text Line: Text NAMI to 741-741 Don’t Let Shame Interfere with Getting Help If your child had a physical condition, you would seek medical help.

Do the same for your child if they have a

mental health condition. Find a mental health specialist who provides the right kind of therapy, is highly recommended, and is someone your child connects with.

As your child grows, their mental health condition may change or evolve. Consider requesting a periodic assessment of their diagnosis. To identify the appropriate treatment, a good diagnosis is critical.

Empower Your Child Teach them positive lifestyle habits, such as diet, exercise, regular sleep, and mindfulness.

Talk about the dangers of self-medicating with drugs or alcohol. Link your child with legitimate resources that provide help and community for youth.

Have a Discussion About Suicide Find out whether your child is having suicidal ideation, and if they have plans to act on those thoughts. Talking openly and showing genuine concern are key elements in preventing suicide. Make sure they have crisis phone numbers saved to their phone.

Also, have a crisis plan prepared for them.

Have Hope Remember that new developments are happening every year.

Don’t give up, because your child’s life may depend on your perseverance.

NAMI also offers a class—NAMI-Familyto-Family—that might help you to better understand your child’s condition. These classes can help learn all I’ve learned, and more. ■

This article first appeared on NAMI.org. Karen Meadows, is author of “Searching for Normal: The Story of a Girl Gone Too Soon.” After a six-year battle with her teenage daughter’s depression and subsequent suicide, Karen Meadows left behind her successful career in the energy industry to immerse herself in mental health issues. She spent years reading about mental illness and reading her daughter’s extensive writing. She volunteered on a crisis line and at homeless youth centers, and serves on the Oregon Chapter of the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention Board of Directors. Meadows lives with her husband and two cats in Portland, Oregon. If you would like additional information about Karen or about her journey through her daughter’s mental illness, visit her website www.karenmeadowsauthor.com. Her book can be found on Amazon.

YOU CAN SUBMIT YOUR STORY AT: coleen@youthconnectionscoalition.org For many of us the kitchen table represents the typical family experience. We have laughed while having family game night. We have cried over our children’s choices. We have blown out the candles on many cakes. We have argued our way out of doing the dishes. We have struggled through those “three more bites.”

We have learned hard lessons and celebrated many deserved successes. One thing is for sure though – if our kitchen tables could talk, there would be plenty of stories! So often it is in relating to others’ stories that we realize there isn’t always one answer, or even a right answer. Parenting is hard work! If you have a story of lessons learned, we invite you to share it with our readers. Sometimes, knowing we aren’t the only ones struggling to find the answer is all the help we need.

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Spring is in the air, the sun is shining, the days are getting longer, the green grass is poking out, and the thoughts of young brains everywhere seem to have drifted out the window, far away from any classroom.

Spring fever has set in, leaving parents and teachers pulling out their hair to figure out how to engage those checkedout minds. ven more, those same parents and teachers would rather allow their own minds to drift off into sweeter, warmer places, as well. Crossing the finish line of this race seems impossible, but with some plans in place, not only can it be done, it can be enjoyed with great fun and enthusiasm!

It is easy to allow spring fever to sneak up and pounce when the parental guard is down, leaving parents without a plan and without time to give much thought to action. This, of course, creates a defensive parental posture which will typically lead to giving up or becoming the dreadful drill sergeant who is all work and no play.

However, spring happens each and every year so, like Christmas and birthdays, a proactive, prepared stance can be achieved. In preparation for this time, communication is especially important and trains kids to prepare for spring fever now and into the college years when much more is riding on the line. Meals and car rides or moments between activities are times when meaningful communication can be had.

After gaining the attention of the children, bring up the idea of spring fever. Ask what each child loves the most as the season changes, taking time to listen closely to the answers. Transition to allowing each child to consider his/her struggles that prevent a strong finish to school, activities, and home contributions. It may be surprising that children differ in their struggles, so continued on page 9

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parents should not try to slap on a one-size-fits-all solution to the spring fever dilemma. Once the conversation wheels are started, planning as a family can begin.

Utilizing a balanced approach to consistency and change while keeping in mind “The Big Picture” can replace the exhaustion from harping, ranting, and fighting, with a renewed energy to think and behave positively.

First, as with most times of transition, consistency is an important key for everyone involved. Remembering that all children, including teens, need healthy adult supervision is essential to standing firm with a loving attitude. Sleeping well and eating well are included in basic consistency throughout the lifespan. The benefits of these habits set the foundation for successful daily living, yet they often are the first to be sacrificed. A minimum of eight hours of consistent and quality sleep helps the brain and body to reset, restore, and recall most efficiently. Getting to bed and waking at the same time each and every day (after that minimum eight hours of sleep!) allows the necessary recovery needed for general success in life. Concentration and focus are enhanced. As well, this is the time when learned material begins to be stored in long-term memory so those finals seem less daunting. Also keep in mind that with sleep comes the discipline of turning off technology (TV, computer, and phone screens) at least 90 minutes before lights out. The light from these devices mimics sunlight, causing a delay in necessary restorative sleep cycles. Additionally, healthy eating habits aid in alertness, focus, energy, and mood regulation. Plenty of lean protein, fruits, vegetables, and healthy grains should be planned for daily living so that the lure of processed and fast food can be resisted. Including the kids in practices of packing lunches and planning enjoyable, healthy meals is a sure way to encourage each other in the efforts.

Also included in the consistency department is

setting enforceable limits, implementing accountability, and limiting technology.

Some of these factors can be combined together for maximum benefit. For instance, “You may have full use of your phone in the common living area of the house, when your chores and homework are completed,” is an enforceable statement that includes accountability for work and limiting technology at the same time. Though technology alone is an article unto itself, it is distracting at the least and can

to embrace the benefits of fresh air and sunshine. Include a healthy amount of social time with friends so that the rewards of spring are not forsaken but instead are embraced. Evaluate the schedule and make sure it includes time for relaxation and enjoyment of the inviting spring days. This could be a time to cut back on some of the scheduled activities to allow for this type of flexibility so that children do not feel starved for freedom to enjoy and author their own time.

Robbing free time can worsen spring fever symptoms as

IDEAS TO MIX UP THE FUN FOR SPRING Not warm enough for a picnic? Have one in the living room – complete with a blanket and paper plates.

Plant some seeds in starter pots that can be planted in the garden when it warms up.

Get rid of old, tired school supplies. Buy new spring colored pencils, erasers, notebooks. School is more fun with new things.

Develop a calendar with holidays and events that kids can look forward to and visualize that they’re in the home stretch.

Leave notes on mirrors telling kids how great they are and encouraging them to finish strong.

create pathways in the brain that mimic those of drug and alcohol addictions within a developing adolescent brain.

It is important to set some limitations on the screens that children can access. Further, maintaining curfews, family rules, and ensuring homework and assignments are being completed on time are all part of the necessary consistency of parenting no matter what the age of the child or the time of year.

Second, take a step on the wild side and mix up the routine a little. Notice, this is not a contradiction to consistency, but allows for some creative flexibility in accomplishing daily tasks. For instance, indulge in the great outdoors that are calling by moving homework time a little later in the day, or move homework time outside

children long for some control in their lives, which includes control over their schedules.

Outside also provides the opportunity to double up on fresh air and exercise. Include activities that are limited by winter and more enjoyable as the weather warms up, like bike rides, hikes, jogs, frisbee, tag, and leisurely walks. Have fun, enjoy, and indulge a little!

Finally, keeping in mind “The Big Picture” allows for peace of mind and perspective on spring fever. This is where some fun goal setting and incentive planning can come into play in a way that is not reduced to destructive bribery. Ask kids how they want to finish school strong. If straight As are important to them, help them set specific, measurable goals to encourage them through this

time. If a GPA of 3.5 is the goal, do the same. It is the child’s ownership in goal setting that gives it proper motivation. In addition to setting the goals, allow kids to create their own incentives, as well. This does not equate to big ticket items, money, and grandiose trips. Make a weekend plan for some added fun or free time, give them a foot rub on Friday night for reaching all the deadlines of the week, or plan a special dinner for acing the exam s/he studied so hard to pass. Involve the kids to creatively establish meaningful incentives to acknowledge little goals made along the way.

However, choose the wording carefully because incentives can easily turn into bribes.

For a kid who has decided that 30-60 extra minutes of video games for the weekend would be the incentive of choice, use, “I think indulging extra video game time sounds like a reasonable reward for your hard work this week. I know you can do it!” This statement is much different than a parent saying, “If you turn in all your assignments this week, you can have 30 extra minutes of gaming on Friday.” Allow kids to set their own goals and incentives within reason. Remember, little accomplishments along the way can be celebrated as long as they are reasonably proportionate to the goals. Furthermore, not all goals need an incentive. Again, we are celebrating hard work, dedication, and perseverance, not every action of the child.

Finally, as a parent, join in the fun by setting some personal goals and incentives as well so kids can see that this is fun for people of all ages.

After communicating and planning with active participation from the kids, a proper plan can be created to fully enjoy all that spring brings. Spring is a time to restore positive parenting skills while still holding onto time honored family values. Spring fever will not necessarily go away, but it will be embraced in a new and refreshing way! ■

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Check out who’s standing out in our community.

IS THERE SOMEONE YOU’D LIKE TO NOMINATE? Please email coleen@youthconnectionscoalition.org and tell us why this individual has stood out in your crowd.

Clayton Olsen

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BRYANT ELEMENTARY SCHOOL, 3RD GRADE

Clayton wants to know everything about everything. He is really awesome at thinking of the possible how and why of things and how things work. He is a friend to everyone at school and at the Y’s after school program at Bryant. He is often the one to solve a problem in a group of peers. He always thinks of others, and even used his own money to purchase Christmas gifts for the Y’s after school staff. They say he is the ‘poster child’ for the YMCA’s core values in every way: caring, honesty, respect and responsibility. Way to go, Clayton! Thank you for being such a great role model for your friends and our community!

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HELENA MIDDLE SCHOOL, 8TH GRADE

Ellen is committed to doing well in school and has taken on learning things outside of the normal school day, too. She has become quite skilled at metalwork, woodwork, and sewing. She creates exquisite jewelry out of a scrap of metal and beautiful clothing without the use of a pattern. She has played guitar for eight years, cello for two, and recently taught herself how to play ukulele and piano. Ellen has been with the Grandstreet Theatre for six years. She loves acting, being on stage, and being part of the theatre family. Ellen hopes to one day become an art teacher so she can share her love of art with many. We honor Ellen’s commitment to learning!

Jaley Priddy

CAPITAL HIGH SCHOOL, 12TH GRADE

Recently Jaley spent 26 hours of her time to make over 1400 handwritten and decorated cards to place on the lockers of every single student at Capital High School. Every card had a positive message on it to let every single student in the school know that they are loved and valued. In addition to being an extremely caring and inspirational young woman, Jaley is also actively involved in TRIO Upward Bound and National Honor Society, works two jobs, and is an All-State softball player. Jaley is still weighing her college options for the fall. Thanks, Jaley, for being an inspiration to us all.

Heather Ireland COMMUNITY VOLUNTEER

Heather is vice president of the East Helena PTO, sits on the East Helena School Board Infrastructure Committee, is active with the Friends of East Helena non-profit organization, and is a key player in the High School Initiative, working with state legislators to allow for local control. She was paramount in raising funds for a new playground at Main Street Park, working with Blue Cross Blue Shield and community leaders. She helped establish and is leading the East Helena Suicide Awareness and Prevention Coalition, working with the East Helena School District and local businesses to spread awareness. With three kids of all ages, she is deeply connected to the kids, youth, and young adults, and is a great spokesperson for their needs and challenges.

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During Christmas break, the Y had free swim and gym time for middle school students so they would have a safe and fun place to hang out. They are closing the achievement gap with a summer literacy academy that not only teaches kids math and reading, but life skills. Clients from the Center for Mental Health, teen group homes, Florence Crittenton, drug treatment court, and Special Olympics can use the Y at no cost. During the school year, the Y serves more than 3,000 healthy meals and snacks per month, youth receive scholarships to attend Camp Child, and Bryant and HMS kids have safe places to go and learn after school. Thanks, YMCA, for keeping our kids and families safe and healthy!

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40 Developmental Assets are essential qualities of life that help young people thrive, do well in school, and avoid risky behavior.

Youth Connections utilizes the 40 Developmental Assets Framework to guide the work we do in promoting positive youth development. The 40 Assets model was developed by the Minneapolis-based Search Institute based on extensive research. Just as we are coached to diversify our financial assets so that all our eggs are not in one basket, the strength that the 40 Assets model can build in our youth comes through diversity.

In a nutshell, the more of the 40 Assets youth possess, the more likely they are to exhibit positive behaviors and attitudes (such as good health and school success) and the less likely they are to exhibit risky behaviors (such as drug use and promiscuity). It’s that simple: if we want to empower and protect our children, building the 40 Assets in our youth is a great way to start.

Look over the list of Assets on the following page and think about what Assets may be lacking in our community and what Assets you can help build in our young people. Do what you can do with the knowledge that even through helping build one asset in one child, you are increasing the chances that child will grow up safe and successful. Through our combined efforts Helena will continue to be a place where Great Kids Make Great Communities.

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1. Family support: Family life provides high levels of love and support.

2. Positive family communication: Young person and her or his parent(s) communicate positively, and young person is willing to seek advice and counsel from parent(s).

3. Other adult relationships: Young person receives support from three or more nonparent adults.

4. Caring neighborhood: Young person experiences caring neighbors.

5. Caring school climate: School provides a caring, encouraging environment.

6. Parent involvement in school: Parent(s) are actively involved in helping young person succeed in school.

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7. Community values youth: Young person perceives that adults in the community value youth.

8. Youth as resources: Young people are given useful roles in the community.

9. Service to others: Young person serves in the community one hour or more per week.

10. Safety: Young person feels safe at home, at school, and in the neighborhood.

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11. Family boundaries: Family has clear rules and consequences and monitors the young person’s whereabouts.

12. School boundaries: School provides clear rules and consequences.

13. Neighborhood boundaries: Neighbors take responsibility for monitoring young people’s behavior.

14. Adult role models: Parent(s) and other adults model positive, responsible behavior.

15. Positive peer influence: Young person’s best friends model responsible behavior.

16. High expectations: Both parent(s) and teachers encourage the young person to do well.

CONSTRUCTIVE USE OF TIME

17. Creative activities: Young person spends three or more hours per week in lessons or practice in music, theater, or other arts.

18. Youth programs: Young person spends three or more hours per week in sports, clubs, or organizations at school and/or in the community.

19. Religious community: Young person spends one or more hours per week in activities in a religious institution.

20. Time at home: Young person is out with friends “with nothing special to do” two or fewer nights per week.

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21. Achievement motivation: Young person is motivated to do well in school.

22. School engagement: Young person is actively engaged in learning.

23. Homework: Young person reports doing at least one hour of homework every school day.

24. Bonding to school: Young person cares about her or his school.

25. Reading for pleasure: Young person reads for pleasure three or more hours per week.

POSITIVE VALUES

26. Caring: Young person places high value on helping other people.

27. Equality and social justice: Young person places high value on promoting equality and reducing hunger and poverty.

28. Integrity: Young person acts on convictions and stands up for her or his beliefs.

29. Honesty: Young person “tells the truth even when it is not easy.”

30. Responsibility: Young person accepts and takes personal responsibility.

31. Restraint: Young person believes it is important not to be sexually active or to use alcohol or other drugs.

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SOCIAL COMPETENCIES

32. Planning and decision making: Young person knows how to plan ahead and make choices.

33. Interpersonal competence: Young person has empathy, sensitivity, and friendship skills.

34. Cultural competence: Young person has knowledge of and comfort with people of different cultural/racial/ethnic backgrounds.

35. Resistance skills: Young person can resist negative peer pressure and dangerous situations.

36. Peaceful conflict resolution: Young person seeks to resolve conflict nonviolently.

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POSITIVE IDENTITY

37. Personal power: Young person feels he or she has control over “things that happen to me.”

38. Self-esteem: Young person reports having a high self-esteem.

39. Sense of purpose: Young person reports that “my life has a purpose.”

40. Positive view of personal future: Young person is optimistic about her or his personal future.

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commitment TO LEARNING

By KELLY ACKERMAN, Parent Educator and Consultant

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YC Magazine highlights 40 Developmental Assets in each issue. These assets are evidence-based to positively contribute to the development of children across their lifespan.

esearch clearly shows that the more assets a young person has, the less likely they are to participate in risktaking behaviors during adolescence including drug and alcohol use, violence, illicit drug use, and sexual activity. Sadly, the average young person has less than half of these assets according to Search Institute.

This article is one in a series to highlight the eight categories of assets in order to more fully engage families, schools, agencies, businesses, and community members in ensuring our children experience as many assets as possible.

COMMITMENT TO LEARNING This developmental asset consists of the following five aspects: 1. ACHIEVEMENT MOTIVATION 2. SCHOOL ENGAGEMENT 3. HOMEWORK 4. BONDING TO SCHOOL 5. READING FOR PLEASURE The commitment to learn is an internal asset developed within each individual, but can be encouraged and empowered by outside influence. It is built and nurtured through thoughtful, influential, loving relationships that inspire young people to develop the love of learning. These relationships come in various forms with all community members taking part in investing in the healthy development of children.

Parents and family members are the most immediate relationships, and teachers are naturally a part of this development.

But friends, neighbors, coaches, parents of friends, and all community members have the ability to nurture this asset in the children they meet.

Achievement Motivation is a young person’s motivation to do well in school.

Children are born with a natural curiosity.

When this curiosity is fed throughout their lifespan, the motivation system is rewarded.

Search Institute reports that young people want to see others be excited about what they’re sharing/teaching. For teachers, this may be the excitement of exploring another country, using math in a practical, purposeful way, or exploring the emotions of a character in a book. As a community member, it may be sharing your interest in a career or hobby.

Excitement truly is contagious, and it helps reinforce the joy that is experienced in our daily lives through what we do.

School Engagement equates to a young person actively engaged in learning. Learn, remember, recall, and repeat is only one form of learning which engages rote memory.

Yet, through much research, learning is enhanced by engaging the senses: seeing, hearing, bodily movement and touch, and experiences. For example, learning about the history of prejudice and oppression can effectively be done through a history book.

However, listening to the personal story of someone who has lived it brings the tragic story to life and inspires hope. Taking that story and writing or drawing about what was most interesting allows for internalizing the concept where the power of empathy takes root. This type of engagement takes some planning and preparation, but engaging our young people in multifaceted ways allows for meaningful engagement in school and into the community as the child grows and matures.

Homework, in terms of developmental assets, consists of a young person doing at least one hour of homework every school day. Engaging in the learning process outside of school continues the love of learning, especially if someone meaningful takes an interest in this process. Asking about the subject matter and engaging in conversation allows for the school-home connection to be made. When adults take an active role in school with the child, a shared experience creates a positive reward system. This school-home connection enhances both home and school life. Parents can actively

do this as well as after school providers, librarians, and any caring adult who will take the time to simply ask.

Bonding to School takes place when a young person cares about his/her school. This mirrors adults bonding with a community, developing a sense of pride along with a deep sense of commitment. When kids have a vested interest in their school, it becomes a place they want to be and a community in which they want to participate. Search Institute reveals that young people would like school to be more like a community.

When active bonding occurs, the reward system once again reinforces the pleasure centers of the brain. Schools often offer a way to be involved including sports, clubs, organizations, or after school programs.

Engaging in one’s school is a healthy activity that benefits the individual and the greater community. Some young people will naturally jump into participation and bonding, while others may hesitate. A personal invitation is the best way to assist in getting kids involved.

Being recognized and invited is a simple action that makes a big impact.

Reading for Pleasure for an hour three or more times per week contributes to the commitment to learning. Regardless of whether the material is fiction or nonfiction, book or magazine, reading activates and engages the mind in learning and imagination.

Reading itself sets the stage for success in academics, but also creates a foundation for critical thinking, building emotional capacity, fueling imagination and experiences that could not otherwise be encountered. Book clubs, discussing current events, modeling pleasure reading, and offering books of interest are all ways to encourage this habit.

Within all these factors is an opportunity for engagement in meaningful, encouraging relationships. Though this asset is an internal one, it is fostered, strengthened, and developed through the interaction with caring adults and through caring relationships in which we can all take part in a daily basis. Our young people and our community depend on us to be vested in this way. ■

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TUNING IN YOUR TEEN

Heading Off the Most Permanent Decision

By KATIE HARLOW, LCSW, Intermountain Clinical Supervisor of School Based Services

hese days there are many words that elicit an immediate, gut reaction in parents—words that can create an instant feeling of fear or powerlessness. Topics like suicide can create such fear or anxiety in us that many of us find it easier to ignore the topic with thoughts of, “This doesn’t apply to my kid” or “I would know if my child was suicidal.” Or maybe we have begun to worry that not everything is right in our child’s world. We shouldn’t let fear keep us from reading further. Suicide is real and very present in today’s teen population.

I would hazard to guess that many families affected by a suicide death would tell you that they did not imagine it happening in their family, or perhaps they knew something was wrong but did not know how to approach their child or how to help them. We need to empower ourselves with this knowledge and plan to never need it.

Across the country, suicide is the second leading cause of death for young people.

Each day in our nation, there are an average of over 5,240 attempts by young people grades 7-12. These teens were also found to be more likely to have engaged in many other risky behaviors, like not wearing seatbelts or riding in the car with someone who has been drinking, and less likely to have been physically active or gotten at least eight hours of sleep on an average school night. These statistics tell us that we have a growing problem that needs our attention.

So what can parents do? We need to start with having a connection to our teens. If we provide an environment for them that is stable and safe both physically

and relationally, the foundation is laid for knowing what is happening in their world.

We need to spend time with them where we have the time and space to really listen to what they are saying, both through their words and through their body language.

Teen brains work differently than adult brains. They are more impulsive and make decisions based on emotion rather than logic, so we may have to interpret or de-code what they are telling us. This creates an emphasis on encouraging a healthy expression of emotion by a teen. Due to the way their brains develop, teens often appear moody, but encourage them to share their emotions, both positive and negative, so we can help contain them. Practice being supportive rather than directive or advice-giving; we see teens at this age put minimal stock in the opinions of their parents, so while we have good intentions, it is likely our advice is going in one ear and out the other.

Next, be on the lookout for potential warning signs that are related to suicide.

Watch for changes in behaviors such as a persistently depressed mood, agitation, changes in weight, changes in daily hygiene or dress, increases in time spent sleeping and changes in their usual pattern of spending time with friends. It is important to know that some of these things will change over the course of normal development, so if changes are noticed in a teen’s normal functioning, be aware and talk to them about the changes being seen.

Be watchful for discussions or writing about death or dying, beginning or increasing drug or alcohol use, expressing feelings of hopelessness or no purpose, and talking

about or threatening suicide.

Lastly, be prepared to take action. If concerning signs are recognized in teen behavior, be ready to talk with them about how they are feeling. If you think they might be suicidal, then ask them! It is a myth that bringing up the topic of suicide increases the risk that someone will commit suicide; seeds are not planted by asking.

Remember that there might be an extreme emotional reaction when a teen experiences a significant event in their life, like a break up, changes in family, an important test at school, etc.

It is also important to remember that what seems like the end of the world to them won’t match what would solicit that same reaction for a parent. Teens don’t have the advantage of life experience that adults do to help them have perspective about the impact their experiences will truly have on their lives. They tend to view issues as all-encompassing. Providing support and empathy before a teen moves into a state of despair could potentially head off suicidal thoughts.

Access help outside of family or support system when needed. This could come in the form of seeking help from a mental health professional, family doctor, or seeking resources provided at school.

Other resources are the National Suicide Hotline at 1-800-273-TALK or text GO or HELLO to 741 741. In addition, there are many apps for smart phones like ASK, Lifeguard, and Lifebuoy, to name a few.

Make sure all these are loaded into a teen’s phone so they have help and resources at their fingertips. ■

Katie Harlow is a Clinical Supervisor of School Based Services for Intermountain in Helena, Montana. Katie provides clinical leadership and oversight to teams of mental health professionals who provide therapeutic services in public school settings.

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Every patient should ask questions when getting a new prescription. This is especially important when your doctor, dentist or other health care professional prescribes you or your child an opioid, such as hydrocodone, oxycodone, codeine, or morphine.

1. Why does my child need this medication? Let your doctor know you aren’t looking for the fastest route to relief but one that provides the most benefit for the least risk. Be sure to tell about all medications that your child is taking, especially those prescribed to treat anxiety, sleeping problems, or seizures. Ask if there are non-opioid options to relieve the pain. Other options might work just as well or better, like physical therapy, behavioral therapy, alternative medicine, and non-opioid painkillers.

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2. How can we reduce the risk of potential side effects?

Remember that opioids are extremely powerful and stimulate the same brain centers as heroin. Share if there is a family history of addiction or if your child is dealing with a mental health issue such as depression, because the addiction risk increases. Alcohol use can cause serious side effects and may even be deadly.

3. What should we look for as far as side effects? Take medicine exactly as prescribed by the health care provider. Learn to identify serious side effects (such as excessive sleepiness or craving more of the medication) so you will know when to call a doctor or go to the hospital. Ask your pharmacist for a Medication Guide (paper handouts that come with many prescription medicines) for more information.

4. How should we store this and what should we do with leftover medications? If you have children at home—from a toddler to a teenager—consider a lockbox for your medications.

Even one accidental dose of an opioid pain medicine meant for an adult can cause a fatal overdose in a child. Also, teenagers and others in the home or who are visiting may seek out opioid pain medicines for nonmedical use. They may look in bathroom medicine cabinets for a chance to steal these medicines. Dispose of expired or unused medications at permanent drop locations or drug take back events. The FDA has created a list of opioid pain medicines they recommend you flush down the toilet when no longer needed. That list and additional resources can be found at: www.ReduceRxAbuse.com.

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Children entering K-5th Grade are encouraged to attend.

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Plan outdoor time before 10 AM & after 4 PM. Dress in wide-brimmed hat and clothes that cover arms and legs, even while in the water.

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Continue with the above practices.

It’s now safe to use zinc oxide sunscreen (at least SPF 30).

Apply sunscreen at least 15 minutes before going outside.

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HOW AND WHY TEENS

self-medicate

By ART BECKER, Licensed Addictions Counselor

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Teens and even young children have their own ways of handling their idea of difficult situations. Mom and dad are arguing – go to my room and listen to music. No friends in my neighborhood to play with – draw or play video games.

Meatloaf for dinner – fake illness or exaggerate interest in the rest of the food on the table, etc. All of these forms of coping/distraction appear to be healthy methods of problem solving, and they are. However, there is a point in these difficult developmental years where an adolescent turns to self-medication.

his self-medication is different than the aforementioned coping because it is not only an escape from a perceived difficulty, but it is also enhances emotions.

Self-medication is normally associated with substance use, and we will get to that, but initial adolescent self-medication takes a very different form. Socialization is the first form of adolescent self-medication. Socializing brings about ideals regarding popularity, acceptance, attraction, and, most importantly, an overall sense of self-worth.

Now, we aren’t going to throw these perceptions solely on adolescents; most adults perceive the same benefits of socialization and pursue them relentlessly. During early adolescence, socialization is a double-edged sword. On one side is the ability to feel good about yourself and prosper in adolescent politics, and on the other side is the possibility of complete humility and utter intrapersonal destruction.

Socializing becomes a form of self-medication for all negative emotional states. Feeling insecure—go hang out with friends.

Feeling like mom and dad don’t understand me—go hang out with friends. Feeling nervous about asking that boy/girl out on a date—go hang out with friends. Socializing makes adolescents feel better cognitively, emotionally, and socially. Socializing is a nonthreatening form of self-medication that brings not only contentment but also belonging and, at times, happiness. The danger of progressing to other forms of self-medication comes with the blending of established social groups.

Social groups develop a foothold in early adolescence. These social groups are founded in shared interests/similar capabilities.

In early adolescence, the newly developing social groups are still somewhat benign. However, social groups soon become cliques, and cliques quickly establish biases against one another. Once this happens, socializing takes on an abrasive and awkward light that was not present before. Socializing is still the form of self-medication, but now it is uncomfortable. Without warning, substance use enters in social settings, and substance use provides an uncomfortable adolescent with an emotional buffer. A miracle substance that takes away insecurity, promotes laughter, and inspires false confidence holds great appeal to an adolescent struggling with feeling disliked.

Now, it needs to be made clear that socialization is still the selfmedication at this point and substance use is a means to an end.

The danger is the effectiveness of this means to an end. Substance use presents no perceptions of danger. In fact, substance use actually brings about perceptions of happiness and confidence.

Enter teenage drama, and self-medication can quickly shift from socialization to substance use. A break-up or an argument with parents could lead an adolescent to feeling absolutely horrible.

Blame it on raging hormones, if you will, but I see this happen with adults all the time as well. Along comes a peer quick to offer relief through drinking or getting high and, presto, instant happiness or at least relief. The association made between substance use and relief on this one occasion can lead to further efforts of relieving negative emotions through substance use.

At this point, socialization is no longer the self-medication; substance use is. This does not mean that the adolescent will develop a dependence/addiction to substances, and it also does not mean that they are incapable of coping with negative situations without substance use. What it does mean is that they believe they found the elevator to the top of the Empire State Building, so why struggle up the 86 flights of stairs. This is where a substance use disorder could begin to develop and here are five ways to help an adolescent avoid that:

1. If they come home and isolate (I know this seems like the only constant in their lives) pick an activity that you know they enjoy and offer to do it with them.

2. Show legitimate interest in what they have going on (not ‘how was school’) by asking them specific open ended questions about their interests.

3. Communicate your emotional struggles (currently or in adolescence). It’s hard enough going through emotions let alone judging yourself for having them because you feel like no one else struggles with them.

4. Balance their social pursuits with mandatory family time (game nights, movies, etc.)

5. Don’t rely on luck. Address any concerns you have rather than hoping they resolve themselves. This helps resolve problems rather than letting them build, and it also establishes a precedence of open communication in your family.

Healthy role-modeling by parents and other adults, and active participation, can help an adolescent develop healthy social skills rather than relying on substance use, which could possibly lead to future struggles. Seeking acceptance and belonging are normal pursuits for all people, as is the discomfort in doing so. Helping an adolescent develop the necessary social skills to stick with in these situations can help them avoid using substances as a form of self-medication. ■

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By SARAH SHAPIRO, Tobacco Prevention Health Educator

arning! A new Surgeon General’s report has concluded that electronic cigarettes are not safe for young people.

Electronic cigarettes, also known as “vapes,” “e-cigarettes,” or “hookahs,” are devices used to inhale nicotine, flavor, and other additives into the lungs. They come in different sizes and colors and often don’t resemble typical tobacco products. They also may contain other drugs, like marijuana.

Nicotine and other chemicals in electronic cigarettes are dangerous to everyone, but especially to youth, pregnant women, and fetuses. That’s because nicotine has been shown to harm the developing brain.

According to the Surgeon General’s report, no amount of nicotine is safe for youth. The report also states that electronic cigarettes contain “ultrafine particles that can be inhaled deep into the lungs, flavorants such as diacetyl, a chemical linked to serious lung disease, volatile organic compounds, and heavy metals, such as nickel, tin, and lead.” The aerosol from electronic cigarettes is harmful to bystanders as well as to those who use them directly.

Even though research shows that electronic cigarettes are

dangerous, they are still the most commonly used nicotine product among youth.

“In 2015, more than 3 million youth in middle and high school, about 1 of every 6 high school students, used e-cigarettes in the past month,” the surgeon general wrote. “More than a quarter of youth in middle and high school have tried e-cigarettes.”

Research is proving that youth who use electronic cigarettes are also more likely to move on to traditional cigarettes later in life. Yet tobacco companies intentionally increase the appeal of e-cigarettes to youth by using bright colors, flavors (such as bubble gum and root beer float), putting them on easily accessible shelves in stores, and discounting prices.

These brightly colored and fruity-flavored electronic cigarettes are hooking our youth into a lifelong battle with nicotine addiction.

As parents, it is important that we learn the risks and talk to our children about them. We don’t need to know everything.

Being willing to talk with our children about the dangers is most important. Let’s keep the conversations going and spread the word in the community about this threat to our children’s health. ■

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Suicide Warning Signs These signs may mean someone is at risk for suicide. Risk is greater if a behavior is new or has increased and if it seems related to a painful event, loss, or change. v Talking about wanting to die or to

v Increasing the use of alcohol

v Looking for a way to kill oneself,

v Acting anxious or agitated;

kill oneself.

such as searching online or buying a gun.

v Talking about feeling hopeless or

having no reason to live.

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behaving recklessly.

v Sleeping too little or too much. v Withdrawing or feeling isolated.

v Talking about feeling trapped or in

v Showing rage or talking about

v Talking about being a burden

v Displaying extreme mood

unbearable pain. to others.

seeking revenge. swings.

Stay with them and take them to help (counselor, ER, police, teacher) Tell someone (no secrets) Remove guns and pills immediately