HOWTOFINDTHE IDEALROOMMATES

Selecting a roommate can either be a positive or negative experience. Sharing a living space with someone from a different background, personality type, likes, and dislikes will surely be an eyeopening experience.

Here are some tips to help you select a suitable roommate:

Do you want someone quiet and reserved or outgoing and social? Are you looking for someone with similar interests or someone very different from you? Being clear about your expectations can help you find a roommate who is a good match.

Please check the Facebook page for incoming freshman with similar likes and strike up a conversation.

This can be a great way to find someone who comes recommended by someone you trust.

Use campus resources. Be cautious and always meet potential roommates in a public place first. Conduct interviews: Once you've found a potential roommate, it's a good idea to interview to get to know them better. Ask about their lifestyle, work schedule, hobbies, and interests. This can help you determine if they are a good fit for you. This can let you both see if you're compatible with living together.

Take the time to find someone who is a good match for you.

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CHOOSING YOUR FRIENDSHIPS WISELY: BUILDING HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS

E J Mbuyi

It's essential to be mindful of who you allow into your inner circle and to know when it's time to let go. Remember, it's okay if some people don't accept you for who you are because your people are out there waiting for you. Have faith and be patient. Don't let your friendships distract you from your goals or education. As you progress, things might change dramatically, so communication is vital. Be honest and respectful, and take the time to understand each other's boundaries and expectations. Flexibility and compromise are also necessary. Listen to your instincts and speak up if you feel uncomfortable or disrespected. Establishing healthy boundaries is crucial for building strong and long-lasting friendships.

In today's digital age, it's essential to be mindful of the power of words and images in social media. They can quickly be taken out of context, leading to misunderstandings. So, it's very important to be clear about your expectations when joining group chats or taking photos that may be shared publicly.

Don't Underestimate the Power of Context and Perception

It's essential to keep in mind that a single chat taken out of context or a misinterpreted image can have far-reaching consequences on future job opportunities. Remember that as you grow and navigate life, there will be ups and downs, but you're not alone. Seek guidance from a counselor or pastor who is always available to provide support. This is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, so make the most of it with the help of your support system. Dial988