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Beyond the Cliche Philocophy Honours
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DU ALUMNUS DR. KIRAN BEDI SAYS, “I AM STILL A STUDENT” was part of the garden where my parents were the gardeners. In those days of 50s and 60s, my three sisters and me had carved a niche for ourselves because our parents were continuously nutritioning us. Iresh: You also then planned to pursue law after taking charge as the police officer. How did this come up?
Law graduate from Faculty of Law (Delhi University), Dr. Kiran Bedi was the first woman IPS officer to join the police force. In conversation with our correspondent, the former national tennis champion talks about her journey from being a student to a lecturer and then serving the police force before finally taking on to the social sector. Anchor of the famous Indian television show, Aap Ki Kachehri, Dr Kiran also expresses her distaste for politics and strives to serve the poor and underprivileged throughout her life. Presenting to you, Dr. Kiran Bedi in conversation with our correspondent, Iresh Gupta . Iresh: Hello Dr. Kiran! As the first woman IPS officer, tell us about what galvanized
you or inspired you to take up policing? Dr. Kiran: Hi Iresh! I guess the force that attracted me towards policing was my sensitivity to injustice and related issues. Also, I was a very patriotic person, a person who would get goose-pimples and cry while singing the national anthem. Moreover, I was a cop at the age of 14 as an NCC cadet. I was already into the system of uniform, a life that is very difficult and organized, yet enjoyable. I became a police officer to experience this joy every day. Iresh: But the era of 50s-60s was not an era for girls. So were your parents also keen to see you in that uniform? Dr. Kiran: I am a product of my parents. I
Dr. Kiran: Law was something I wanted to do because it was strengthening my own way of serving. I could not join morning classes so I joined evening classes in Delhi University and combined my subject with my profession. In addition, studying law being a police officer was so interesting because I knew the application of law, all I had to understand is section of law. Iresh: You pursued law from Faculty of Law, Delhi University. Would you like to share with us your memories as a student? Dr. Kiran: The fact is that I am still a student. I will be a student for rest of my life. As far as Delhi University is concerned, I have great fond memories. I am still associated with the place as I often go back to talk in colleges and share my experiences. Iresh: A few days back you visited LSR for a session by NSS. Tell us about your experience there. Dr. Kiran: It was a very detailed session. I had a good time answering the questions.
The best part was that they asked great questions on the topic “Women Safety and Security”. We discussed matters like dressing, different treatment of brothers and sisters at home and everyday issues like the ones faced in metros. Iresh: Would you like to tell us about your current projects and activities? Dr. Kiran: Iresh, I have lots of things going but what takes away the chunk of my time are my two foundations called Navjyoti India Foundation and India Vision Foundation which are some 26 and 20 years old respectively. We have trained and qualified social workers, teachers and councillors who have been running these schools for the poor training them to do entrepreneurship, business development, career orientation and skills development. Iresh: In the end, tell us on how do you look back at your journey today? Dr. Kiran: If I look at my journey, I would say that I have not wasted a day. It has been a life of huge personal achievements. Every day has been a preparation for the next day. There has never been a pressure of winning or losing, it is just about doing it the right way. It has been a journey for a better tomorrow (smiles). Iresh Gupta ireshg@dubeat.com Image Credits: Kashish Madan for DU Beat
DELHI UNIVERSITY ACCEPTS DUSU PROPOSAL BRINGS BACK REVALUATION AND ALLOWS READMISSION Following ABVP’s protest on Friday, the 17th of October, Delhi University had promised to restart the system of revaluation in the University. The dharna outside Arts’ Faculty had demanded reintroduction of re-evaluation, special chance and supplementary exams. The option of evaluation of answer sheets had been done away with during the October-November exams in 2013. The official notification had declared that since examination sheets were jointly corrected by a number of examiners, revaluation would not be continued. The notice issued by Delhi University today, on the 20th of October, starts off by declaring that these changes have been brought after various representatives (DUSU, in particular), had appealed to the University for the same. Here are some of the main points from the notice: Revaluation of examination sheets will be reintroduced. Further, the
Saket Bahuguna, Delhi State Secretary, ABVP had to say, “This was the first time that DUSU office bearers were called by the Delhi University officials. So, we feel that it is a very positive step and the coming in of the notification symbolizes victory of students. This is because DU administration has now realized that it cannot function if it does not take decisions favouring the students. ABVP is committed to fight for all such issues that a student faces in the University.”
sheets will now be checked by a single examiner. The details of the procedure for revaluation will be disclosed soon. Those students who failed in their 1st year under the FYUP and could not take admission for whatever reason, will be allowed to apply for readmission to 1st year till the 29th of October, 2014.
The attendance of such students will be counted from the day of their admission and Internal Assessment shall be conducted as per the college’s rules. However, the students must cover the curriculum on their own and not claim any loss of teaching. When asked about this change, here’s what
Parvesh Malik, Vice President, DUSU added, “The rights of those studying in University will now be restored. After the introduction of semester system, the plight of students has never been addressed. Final year students end up wasting one year due to one exams. For them, reevaluation is imperative.”
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LSR HOLDS GUEST LECTURE ON
HANS RAJ COLLEGE STUDENT UNION: PRANJAL SRIVASTAVA ‘MULTICULTURALISM THROUGH THE DECADES’ organizes and the image it has in students’ minds. I aim to initiate this process. Iresh: Tell us about your biggest agenda. Is it the annual cultural fest? Pranjal: Popular perception of a student is that organizing the annual cultural fest is the only thing a union does in a college. As the President, I wholly reject this opinion. On the other hand, as a student, I want the biggest fest Hans Raj has ever seen. Iresh: As a President, what all have you done till now? Pranjal: With the Wi-Fi working, one thing can be crossed off students’ list. Basic cleanliness of college campus and renovation of Girls’ Common Room will follow. The preparations for Confluence, the annual college festival will also start simultaneously. Mr. Pranjal Srivastava, the College President 2014-15 of Hans Raj College, believes that college unions must fill in the scope for improvement that each college has in terms of infrastructure and matters of student welfare. Pranjal, who is a final year commerce student at Hans Raj College, wishes to restore the lost brand name of college. Iresh: What was your reaction when you got to know the election results? Was it expected? Pranjal: The victory came as a relief for me. The burden of
my entire team rested on my shoulders and I had to justify that. The victory vindicated our decision to contest in these elections after losing for the last two years. Honestly, I expected the decision to be in our favour seeing the work put in by my team in the days leading to the election. Iresh: What are the areas where Hans Raj needs massive improvement according to you? Pranjal: Hans Raj stands above the rest when it comes to academics. It has to grow in terms of getting a brand name for itself in terms of the events, it
Iresh: Lastly, sum up the characteristics that a successful college union should possess?
The Department of Political Science at Lady Shri Ram College held a lecture by Dr. Amir Ali from Jawaharlal Nehru University on the topic ‘Multiculturalism over the decades: Recurrence, Resurgence, and Reversal’ on Tuesday, 21st October. Dr. Ali is an Assistant Professor at the Centre for Political Studies at JNU. To explain multiculturalism, Dr. Ali used the 1970s as the pivotal point; he did so as it was an important decade in terms of important global developments and occurrences. Dr. Ali spoke of the four forms of citizenship as described by T.H. Marshall in his 1949 essay ‘Citizenship and the Social Class’ and how the rise of multiculturalism coincided with the decline of the fourth strand of citizenship, i.e., social citizenship. He also spoke of the apparent affirmations of liberal multiculturalism which he considered to be a facade and how they fail to locate the root of conflicts and lead to the
‘ghettoization’ of communities. His talk also ventured into the idea of multiculturalism in India and other post-colonial countries where the state has deployed multiple measures to safeguard the rights of minority groups. He added that such measures were extremely progressive in the western world decades earlier. Dr. Ali concluded his speech by pointing out that there has been a decline in multiculturalism in the 21st century, especially since the superficial liberal variant of multiculturalism failed to impact our collective political consciousness. He said that notions of national security and identity have led the state to violate various civic, political and social liberties of the citizens and that in a scenario like this; it is next to impossible to cultivate inter-cultural and multicultural harmony. Alankrita Anand alankritaa@dubeat.com
Pranjal: A successful College Union is one, which can raise issues faced by students, a place where students’ voices are heard. College life is a transitional phase and utmost care must be taken to do the same, successfully. Union should focus on activities that must trigger all round development of the student and not only academics. Iresh Gupta ireshg@dubeat.com Image Credits: Divya Jain, Hans Raj College
LAW FACULTY TO GET A NEW CAMPUS very pleased with the current conditions. Seeking vantage, Delhi University Students’ Union members approached the team and voiced out their grievances regarding faulty infrastructure and inadequate faculty and staff. Observing the absence of permanent faculty and staff along with shortage of classrooms, the team promised to present its general report within a couple of days.
A news that came as a major blow to the students and alumni of Delhi University was the derecognition of DU’s Law Course by the Bar Council of India, the apex regulatory for legal education and legal profession
in the country. Unhappy with the lax attitude of Delhi University in the extension of the affiliation of its three centres, the Bar Council de-recognised DU’s Law degree. To make amends, DU invited the Bar Council to inspect the Law
Centres of the University. However, the seven-member team, that included Delhi Bar Council Chairperson, Mr. K.K. Manan and two judges from Rajasthan; did not seem
Along with this, it is almost certain that the Law Faculty will shift to a new building adjacent to the existing one by the next academic session. Mr. Malay Neerav, DU’s Media Co-ordinator and Joint Dean of Students’ Welfare was quoted saying that a proposal for the development of the new building in North Campus has been submitted in the High Court. With 75% of the
work done, it is expected that the new building will be brought into function by the next academic session. All three centresCampus Law Centre, Law Centre-I and Law Centre -II, which are located at different places currently; will be accommodated in the new premises. Law Faculty Dean Ashwini Kumar Bansal pointed out some strategic changes in the Law Centres including 70% aggregate attendance and students requiring completing at least 32 courses. With this, the Bar Council softened its stand and may re-recognise DU Law Degree, allowing the graduates to practice as advocates.
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India Y2B Press Release It is not new – the news that India has to handle the issue of its idling youth. Degenerative youth potential can be termed as one of the most appalling traits of today’s world. As usual, we are ever aware of the problem but additionally end up assuming that the solution lies in the palm of our hands. Obviously, we never seem to fall behind in picking up management bestsellers and success sutras from stores or fall short of our inspirational-quotessharing business on Facebook. Earlier this month, the Indian School of Business, Mohali witnessed the coming together of 450 young minds for Indian Youth to Business Forum, and chose to do things a little differently. Themed ‘Next. Big. Leap’, the event was crafted to sequentially take the young audience through futuristic, audacious and actionable stories and ideas from a pot-pourri of achievers. While Viral Oza, the Marketing Head of Microsoft Mobile Devices and Shireesh Joshi, COO, Strategic Marketing Group at Godrej had stimulating insights into the world of business and marketing, Saachi Soni, a Delhi University
student and the youngest Indian girl to have scaled the Mt.Everest, stole the show with her story of passion, simplicity and their excellence. A story that certainly seemed to have made a mark was that of young, globally acclaimed photographer, Vicky Roy. The crowd was moved by his humbling journey towards greatness from the streets and his remarkable take on life. The agenda was well packed with several workshops that were conducted by big brands like Microsoft, Young India Fellowship, Teach for India and KPMG and conversations with people like Vimal Sumbly, Managing Director of Triumph Motorcycles, India and the dynamic Vivek Atray, IAS Officer and novelist. What truly put this event off the race and raised it bar was its closing. Pradeep Singh, the Deputy Dean of ISB delivered a heartening talk on some of the indispensible essentials for the youth and marked the commenecement of a unique, never-before activity. The 450 students sat under one roof to
sketch a consequential output, knitting together the problems faced by the youth and concrete solutions to deal with the same. AIESEC, the international youth organization that put this event together, will be releasing this output to the general public soon. AIESEC aims at providing the youth opportunities to develop themselves as leaders and responsible citizens of the world. Courtesy of: AIESEC India Image Credits: Sidewalk Artists
India’s first pet convention – Pet Fed on 1st November India’s first ever pet convention, “Pet Fed” Mydea Ventures Private Limited is organizing India’s first ever pet convention, “Pet Fed”, from 10am to 9pm on November 1 2014 at Dilli Haat, INA. In partnership with ‘People For Animals’, an initiative by honorable cabinet minister Ms. Maneka Gandhi and her sister Ms. Ambika Shukla, who are also the chief guests for the event, Pet Fed seeks to provide pet owners with special pet care and spread awareness about the ill-treatment of strays through pet-related activities like ‘Paws with Poise’, ‘Pupcakes’, ‘Kung Fu Panda Game’ and a photography exhibition. Also on display, will be products and services by various Indian brands and companies for your pet and yourself. Events to look forward toPet Walk: Watch the pets show off their style and elegance on the ramp at Paws with Poise in the presence of Sanjana Jon, celebrity fashion designer, who will be judging the event. Pupcakes: The most talented and creative bakers are coming up with cupcakes baked especially for your furry friends. Drop by to taste and judge the Pupcakes. Puppy Therapy: Who does not love a puppy? Everyone with
a heart does, right? Come, enjoy the Puppy Therapy where numerous little paws will take you on a tour of happiness. No registration required. Scooby Doo Mystery Challenge: Pet Fed is giving visitors the chance to solve a mystery the Scooby Doo style. No Scooby Snacks involved! Winners will get Spykar gift vouchers worth Rs.50,000. PetaDog Contest: Pet owners are being provided the chance to make their companion the next brand ambassador of Petacom. Just downloading the Pet Fed mobile app and uploading a jazzy picture of your pet will win you this exclusive opportunity to make him/her a celebrity. The participating pets will get all the attention deserved by a star through free grooming services by India’s largest chain of pet grooming parlors ‘Scoopy scrub’ and leading manufacturer of pet grooming products ‘Soothn-Shine’. If you do not already own the privilege of having a pet companion, Pet Fed is providing you one through its adoption camp in an attempt to find poor, deserted, loving strays an equally loving family. “It is a wonderful opportunity for the city to show its love and respect to animals, promote the
joy of keeping a pet companion. The part which I am most interested in is the adoption camp as it will provide loving homes to the lonely, neglected or even abandoned stray puppies and dogs”, said Ms. Ambika Shukla. All this and a lot more fun is awaiting you at the ultimate pet convention. Log on to www. petfed.org for further details. Ishani Rajkhowa ishanir@dubeat.com
Finance goes online this October – SRCC’s FINERGY The Finance and Investment Cell of the Shri Ram College of Commerce provided students with a forum to participate in challenging tasks in the field. FINERGY comprises of a series of online competitions that test participants in multiple ways and also give them the chance to win great prizes. The month of October kicked off with the first event of FINERGY – Truth and Dare. This competition involved teams of 2 that competed through multiple rounds. The final round required teams to send their videos on four movie scenarios with a financial twist. The movies were Swades, Robot, The Wolf of Wall Street and Dhoom 3. The six finalists were - Maverick_St. Xavier's College, District13_ SRCC, Illuminati_SRCC, Bankrupt Engineers, NSIT, Analytiks, SXC, Miracle Workers_SRCC. The top 6 entries have been posted on the FIC Facebook page - https:// www.facebook.com/fic.srcc. The number of likes these videos get shall also impact the results.
The second event was Exquizite’14 which was an online quiz that was extremely closely contested and exposed teams to a series of exhilarating competitions. Aneesh Sharma from DDUC stood first followed by Yash Nyati from St. Xavier’s College, Kolkata and Govinda Bhagada from IIM Indore who were 2nd and 3rd respectively. The final event of FINERGY is Serial Stocker that has Prizes worth Rs. 15000 at stake. Serial Stocker is an online trading event that can be contested individually or in teams of two. The dates of the event are from 27th -31st October and the registration link is http://goo.gl/EnRRqa. For any further details about FINERGY or other events conducted by FIC, you can check their Facebook page using the following link - https://www. facebook.com/fic.srcc Akash Pattanayak akashp@dubeat.com
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Halloween in India: Why it might work With its population of over one billion, India is quite the giant cauldron of different cultures, customs and traditions and naturally, this means we celebrate a wide array of festivals from across religions. Halloween is one festival that we all have a very vivid idea of, thanks to American TV shows and Hollywood movies. Ask me what a typical Malayali family does on Onam and I might not know, but I definitely know (or think I know) how Halloween is celebrated. From what I do
know of Halloween, here’s why I think the concept will work well in India if it were to be an official holiday: The Diwali festive season gets extended For many of us, Diwali time is the best time of the year. Since Diwali usually falls a week ahead of or after Halloween, here’s one more excuse to party! We are a creative people who love to dress up
Once this festival becomes official, I seriously hope the scope of dressing up for Halloween extends beyond the Angels versus Devils or Sexy Nurse themes that seem to prevail in the clubs that host Halloween parties currently. I’d love to see a zombie Indian bride or an armless Thakur seeking revenge. Trick or treating late in the evening Though I don’t think many families would let their preteen
kids wander door to door for candies after sundown, the concept could work brilliantly under supervision and help rebuild the deteriorating neighborly relations. Plus, we already have the festival of Kanjak in North India, making the concept not so alien. Carving kaddus Honestly, who has seen this in a movie and not wanted to give it a try? Not only is carving faces on pumpkins to make decorations a
brilliant way to put your creative genius at work, it also works as an outlet of any aggression you may have. Nobody minds an extra holiday For those who aren’t too keen on the festive season, Halloween could be just another day you get to sleep in till late! Vani Vivek vaniv@dubeat.com
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In conversation with Bollywood superstar and Satyamev Jayate host Aamir Khan Aamir Khan, the Bollywood superstar widely acclaimed for his work was recently in Delhi in relation to one of the episodes of his show Satyamev Jayate. This particular episode dealt with the homosexual and transgendered community in India. Post the show, our writers Ishika Gupta and Priyanka Banerjee caught up with him to discuss this matter, his show and more. Ishika: Hi Aamir, thanks for joining us for an interview! Aamir: Pleasure. Ishika: Taking over from where the show left, I was wondering that when your team was researching for the show, did you come across any startling facts or any particular case study or example that hit you emotionally and made you take up this topic to portray to a national audience?
Aamir: The topic of homosexuality is as important in India but because people have a lot of wrong information, lot of myths about gays, lesbians, alternate sexual preferences. And so it is important to try and unravel the facts behind it, understand it better and then put it to people. Because there is a huge population, certainly a minority but still a significant minority of people in every society, no matter where we look at in the globe, where you have people with a different sexuality and unusual sexuality. It is roughly 10 percent and 10 percent is a big section of the population. In India, we don’t have the numbers because since it is illegal, people don’t come forward and express that ‘yes, I am homosexual or gay or whatever’, because I’ll be arrested after that, you know I could be arrested. Now, we don’t have the numbers in India, therefore, we thought here we
have a topic, which is important, which needs to be addressed, which people need to speak up about, and we need to stop feeling scared of this. So that’s why we really picked it up. Priyanka: There is an option of the third gender in the Delhi University admission forms. And the same is going to start for the undergraduate courses from next year. For post-graduate courses it has been instituted already and for undergraduate from next year. So that’s taken care of it officially. What would your advice be for college students who want to create a strong and supportive peer groups for this community? What suggestions would you have? Aamir: That’s a big step. That’s a very big step. I am very pleased to hear that Delhi University is doing this. I think that every student, every individual who
believes in humanity, who believes that every human being has the right to be different and despite a person being different from me, you know has the same rights, same feelings, same emotions, same fears, same dreams. If I believe in all of that, and as in India, I believe that we are all equal, I believe in all of these things, if I believe in the Constitution of India, then I should also accept that everyone has a right to be there. And therefore, more the people who think this way and believe this way, they can come together to support those people. I may not be a homosexual, but I want to be part of a group who supports the minority, who sometimes feels weak. Ishika and Priyanka: Thank you so much for your time Aamir! Visit our website for the full interview!
Three gigs to look forward to in the NCR
Winter is fast approaching, and so is the season of music festivals, gigs and concerts. It is the perfect time to sweat it out by dancing, jumping and head-banging in the cold weather. Let us look at the three main gigs you can look forward to in the coming months:
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Bacardi NH7 Weekender 2014 If you are not enthusiastic about this gig, then you are surely missing out on life. Probably the most happening multi – genre music festival in the country, NH7 Weekender never seizes to amaze me, nor will it seize to amaze you. Scheduled days – November 29th and 30th Venue – Buddha International Circuit, Greater Noida Under 21 Passes: Rs.1750 Major artists by genre -Metal – Skyharbor, Fear Factory, Bhayanak Maut, Collosal Figures -Indie Rock – The Vaccines, Dinosaur Pile- Up, Motopony, The F16s, The Supersonics, The Ganesh talkies -Hindi Rock – Amit Trivedi, Indian Ocean’s Tandanu, The Raghu Dixit project, Hoirong -Electronic – Dualist Inquiry, Sandunes Ensemble, Killwish, Curtain Blue, KAOS -Assorted –Nicholson, Barmer Boys, Monica Dogra
David Guetta India Tour 2014 It is a dream for a lot of people to see this dance-music giant perform in the national capital. Garnering hits after hits on every song that he puts out into the music community, David Guetta is arguably one of the most popular DJs in the world. Missing him play live would be wasting a once in a decade opportunity. Scheduled Day – 19th December Venue –To be announced Passes : Rs.3000-7000
VH1 Supersonic Arcade 1 You would definitely want to be a part of the audience for this gig. Steve Aoki, one of the trending internet musicians who are dishing our hit after hit in the electronic music scene is going to perform in the national capital. He is the founder of the famous indie rock label Dim Mak Records and is a popular electronic music figure himself. Scheduled Days – 16th January 2014 Venue: To be announced Passes: Starts from Rs.1000
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Shifted to the capital from the backwaters of Kerala in 2007, Sex Amma answers the queries of her children in Delhi University Q. Dear Amma, how to convince her for oral?! A. Well, that was rather to the point. The number of times Amma has been asked this question is both amusing and sad! Having been at the receiving end and knowing fully well how great oral feels for either parties, trust me, my heart goes to your dosa. Now, coming to your problem, the first and most important thing to remember is that any kind of ultimatum or pressurizing is a bad idea. Definitely steer clear of any “If you love me you’ll go down on me” kinda dialogues, okay? If you pressurize her, it’s probably not going to lead to a good outcome because even if she agrees, she’ll do it half heartedly and since you’ll know she dislikes it, you won’t have a good time either (yes, that is possible). Instead, talk to her about it in an open and calm way. Tell her that you’d want her to at least try it once and that you’ll make the whole affair much more comfortable for her. (This includes maintaining proper hygiene, not rushing her or moving her head to much while she’s at it!) You could also try perfecting your skills at giving oral! If she still doesn’t seem to want to go for it, don’t push it, little idli. There are a lot of other things you can try in bed. If you really have your dosa set on this though, and feel unfulfilled, you should consider moving on. (But again, don’t use this as an ultimatum either.) Dear DUB reader, Welcome to the world of Sex Amma, your weekly confidante on all questions on that ssshhhh topic. Mail her your queries at sexamma@dubeat.com. P.S.: “Aiyo…Flouting ethics of confidentiality is against my principles”, informs Sex Amma.”
Sunburn Arena With Martin Garrix Category: EDM International Music Date: 1st November, 5:00 PM Onwards Venue: Buddh International Circuit: Jaypee Sports City Rang presents Class of ‘84 (Featuring Rajit Kapur) Category: Theatre Date: 2nd November, 7:00 PM Owards Venue: Kamani Auditorium: Delhi