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Signs Your Partner MAY NOT LOVE YOU AS MUCH AS THEY SAY
from DTNOW JULY 23
by dtnow.ng
BY DANIELLE ANENE
This edition is dedicated to those who are single and enjoy the classic boy meets girl storyline. Sometimes, there is a desire to experience something similar, which leads us to meet someone new who appears quite captivating at first. The initial stages are filled with excitement and a sense of butterflies as we embark on the journey of getting to know this person. However, as time goes by, another feeling may begin to emerge.
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Have you ever found yourself questioning whether your partner truly cares for you, despite their claims? They may say all the right things, but occasionally you get the sense that it's all just empty words. There are moments when our intuition speaks to us, and it's essential to pay attention. In this edition, we'll provide some helpful insights to ponder.
• Their Level Of Communication Dwindles
Do they always seem to be on their phones when with you, either answering calls, on social media, or texting? When they are not with you, it takes them time to reply to your messages. This might be worth thinking about because this might be an early sign of a loss of interest, especially if this was not the case when you initially met each other and the communication was smooth and consistent.
• They Hang Out With You As A Last Resort
If you find that your dates are often spontaneous and never planned, typically occurring when their friends are busy, this could indicate that you are simply someone they spend time with out of convenience and not someone they consider significant in any way.
• You Do Not Know Their Friends Or Family
While it is understandable to desire privacy in your relationship, it becomes concerning if your partner refuses to introduce you to their loved ones or makes excuses for not arranging meetings. When someone is truly committed to a relationship and values you, they will typically want their loved ones to meet you despite their preference for keeping a low profile.
• They Deflect When You Talk Long Term
This could potentially be a classic example of leading someone on, and it's important to note that even the most astute individuals can find themselves caught in this trap. It's understandable that you may not want to appear pushy, desperate, or overbearing, which is why you might be inclined to yield to deflection when broaching a significant topic about your future as a couple. Nevertheless, it is crucial that you break free from this pattern and have that conversation, regardless of how uncomfortable it may make both parties feel.
• They Do Not Back Up Their Words With Action
A person who genuinely cares about you will demonstrate it through their actions. If they claim to have your best interests at heart, they will support their affectionate words with tangible efforts. They will actively show interest in your personal development by actively contributing to it. This is the true test that distinguishes those who are sincere from those who only speak empty words.