Control Your Own Drawbridge 72 Avoid All Forms of Self-Rejection 73 Take Up Your Cross 74 Keep Trusting God’s Call 75 Claim the Victory 76 Face the Enemy 78 Continue Seeking Communion 80 Separate the False Pains from the Real Pain 82 Say Often, ‘Lord, Have Mercy’ 83 Let God Speak Through You 84 Know That You Are Welcome 86 Permit Your Pain to Become the Pain 87 Give Your Agenda to God 89 Let Others Help You Die 91 Live Your Wounds Through 93 For Now, Hide Your Treasure 95 Keep Choosing God 97 Conclusion 99
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