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T H E M A G A Z I N E PA R E N T S L I V E B Y I N TA R R A N T C O U N T Y

J U N E 2019

HOW TO TALK TO KIDS ABOUT HATE SPEECH

19 WAYS TO SPEND JUNE

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How to talk to kids about offensive language

REAL MOMS 11 Mom Next Door / Madison McKinley Isner

The jewelry designer is back in the studio after the birth of her first child

11 ABOVE // We chat with Madison McKinley Isner on life with 8.5-month-old Hunter Grace and designing jewelry with her own mom.

FEATURE

14 5 Things... / Pearls of Wisdom

Where our Mom Next Door goes for a workout or quiet time 16 Routines / Frances Juru With one hand holding her baby, this new mom (and newlywed) is packing lunches and making dinner for four— and starting a business

KID CULTURE

27 Curtain Call 18 Rebels With a Cause It's not too early to introduce your kids Is your spirited child just testing to live theater boundaries, or is there something 31 Calendar / The Agenda deeper going on? Our favorite family events this month words Sundey McClendon

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ABOVE // Take the kiddos to the Perot Museum of Nature and Science outdoor frog park and water feature for some splashing (free) fun.

AFTER WEEKS OF HOMEWORK AND FINALS and classroom parties and extracurriculars, everyone—especially you, Mom—deserves a break … but then the kiddos will be wandering around the house (read: bouncing off the walls) droning the dreaded phrase: “Mom, I’m bored!” Summer consists of roughly 104 days, so we’ve collected 120 places to go and things to do with your kids for $5 or less; find the list on our website and start checking things off. Or if you need a vacation, like, now, but can’t hop on an airplane just yet, you and the fam can see the world right here in Dallas-Fort Worth—we’re talking Japan, Mexico, Korea and Brazil, all in our notso-small backyard. Visit dfwchild.com for the details.

Summer Learning Activities

It’s important for the kids to keep practicing what they learned this year, because science says they will lose it if they don’t use it—the summer brain drain is real. We’ve compiled brain-stimulating activities with flair, including geometry with pretzel sticks and marshmallows, a science-y scavenger hunt, and historical field trips.

Take advantage of the not-July weather while you still can, and take the gang to one of the many outdoor movie screenings around Dallas-Fort Worth. Catch flicks like Coco in Arlington and Ralph Breaks the Internet in Frisco, one of several “dive-in” movies you can enjoy from the comfort of a pool. Most screenings are free; check out a complete list on our website.

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WATCH YOUR MOUTH keeping hate out of your kid’s vocabulary WORDS

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AST FALL, I CAME HOME FROM WORK, kicked off my shoes and casually flipped on the evening news, just like I had so many nights before. I was expecting the usual traffic incidents, airline delays, weather reports and the like. But there it was: a deeply disturbing video of a group of Southlake teens, mostly girls, chanting a racist slur in unison. A second, similar video featuring Southlake students was circulated in February. I’m sure so many other parents thought the same thing I did when that footage surfaced: What would my children do if they found themselves in a similar situation? I would like to think they would never say such things, that they would immediately speak up and put an end to that behavior, but have I really prepared them for our current cultural climate? Hate in all its forms—crime, speech and the dangerous comingling of the two—seems to be reaching a fever pitch, so much so that just this past March the House of Representatives passed a resolution aimed at its own members that condemned “hateful expressions of intolerance.” But hate speech is not something many of us address directly with our children because → fortworthchild / june 2019

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we think bigotry is taught by imitation or overt instruction, and that if we’re not using offensive language, our kids won’t either. But many will fall victim to everyday exposure—TV shows, online games, memes, music, the comments section on a YouTube video. So what can we do to raise children who speak (and act) with compassion and empathy?

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Kind Words

As children get older, look for teachable moments— maybe something that happened at school, a racially charged news story (such as those videos), an undertone in a show on Netflix. Then be authentic. “Hate speech hurts,” Anderson says. “Sometimes I think we are really afraid to tell our kids, ‘I feel really devastated. That kind of breaks my heart.’” Talk about how words are powerful and the hurt they can cause and why, including the historical ties. “Kids don’t always understand why using [a slur] is harmful, because they don’t understand the historical, structural ties … because we don’t bring it there,” Anderson explains. Most of all, remember that the conversation should be ongoing. “That’s the great thing about having children—you get to keep them! So if you mess up, you can come back that next day,” says Anderson. “It’s OK to misspeak or wish you would have said something differently and come back and acknowledge that and say it differently. That really is the beauty of relationships.”

Then, get the conversation started with your little ones by digging into ageappropriate books. For title ideas, check out Common Sense Media’s Books that Promote Tolerance and Diversity (commonsensemedia. org). You might be pleasantly surprised to find some familiar titles including Wonder, Last Stop on Market Street, Wishtree, Invisible Boy, Inside Out & Back Again and so many others.

TEACH BY EXAMPLE The tolerance you demonstrate by the way you treat and speak to others naturally sends your children a message. “Behaviors are learned, so it’s just about teaching them the expectations,” Nelson says. “What does kind look like? What does it feel like, what does it sound like? So instead of telling them what not to say, we want to teach them what we want them to do.” But what about those times when they blurt out an insensitive comment that makes us wish the floor of the grocery store would just open up and swallow us whole? First, acknowledge the hurt by simply apologizing to the hearer. Then stop and think about

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LOOK INWARD “We have these biases we’re not even aware of, so for adults, it’s more about self-reflection first before we can even start the process of teaching kids how to be culturally competent,” says Tyisha Nelson, the executive director of special programs for Carroll Independent School District. She is facilitating programs to teach Southlake elementary children about cultural competence in response to the recent videos. But even younger children watch and imitate us and will reflect the attitudes and values of those they look up to and love. At a recent training with a child development specialist, Nelson learned that children as young as 3 months can pick up on how their parents respond to people. At that age, they may not be expressive, but they’re certainly receptive to everything from body temperature to mannerisms.

your child’s intent versus their impact before turning your attention back to them. “In that moment, validate the truth of their intention in a way that doesn’t make them feel like pointing out things that are different is bad,” says Bianca Anderson, the Dallas-Fort Worth director of the Center for Racial Justice in Education. “When we negatively reprimand for pointing out difference, we can subconsciously send the message to kids that As with so many other topdifference is to be feared.” ics, books can be a welcome Then share the impact resource when of their words in a way it comes to that’s developmentally raising culturally appropriate for that child. “Think about what that competent kids. child needs and the way Consider starting it would land for them,” with Beyond the Anderson says. “The worst Golden Rule: A thing to do in that situaParent’s Guide tion is just reprimand and to Preventing that child not understand and Responding to Prejudice the impact.” from the nonprofit Teaching Tolerance (tolerance.org). START A DIALOGUE

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real moms. THE NITTYGRITTY AGE 26 LIVES IN Highland Park ALMA MATERS Parsons School of Design and The University of Texas at Austin SIGNIFICANT OTHER John Isner, professional tennis player OFFSPRING 8 1/2-month-old Hunter Grace WHERE SHE FINDS INSPIRATION Steerhead, her family’s ranch in Buffalo, Wyoming OTHER TALENTS Horseback riding, tennis and painting PERSONAL PROJECT “My New Year’s resolution was to read one book a month, so I’m trying to read all of the books written by C.S. Lewis.”

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INTERVIEW NICOLE JORDAN

Madison McKinley Isner is reveling in the first year of motherhood with Hunter Grace. “The love they already give to you is so incredible.”

INCE LAUNCHING AN EPONYMOUS JEWELRY LINE WITH HER MOTHER IN

2017, Madison McKinley Isner has made headlines for her unique aesthetic. Just like her, the collection is equal parts city sophistication and rustic charm, inspired by the designer’s Dallas upbringing and summers spent at her family’s Wyoming ranch. Shortly after its debut, the line drew the eye of industry heavyweights, leading to collaborations with Veronica Beard, Wrangler and Dallas-based KOCH, where Isner had previously worked as accessories designer for nearly seven years. Last September, Isner took a brief hiatus from her responsibilities as designer and creative director to welcome Hunter Grace, her first child with husband John. Now, almost nine months into motherhood, the new mom is acclimating to her new normal and is back in the design studio with more fervor than ever. → fortworthchild / june 2019

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FortWorthChild: Are you feeling settled into motherhood now? Madison McKinley Isner: I don’t think you’re ever settled. She’s

changing so much. As soon as you get the schedule figured out, it changes. I didn’t realize how hard it would be. I don’t think I have it figured out, but I definitely feel more comfortable. I can get in the car with her to run an errand and be OK. Child: How did you and John navigate this huge change as a couple? MMI: One step at

a time. It’s such an adjustment. You have to realize you’re on the same team working toward the same goal: keeping her happy and healthy. Staying on the same page and really communicating about that is key. We sat down and talked about expectations. That was really good. Once I voiced what I needed from him we started sailing smoothly. We had to get our system down. Child: How have you dealt with the challenges of John’s career—the erratic schedule and travel? MMI: That’s been tough. Travel

is hard when you don’t have a baby. She was 7 weeks old on her first trip; we went to London. I was so nervous. If you think about it too much you’ll psych yourself out, so I say just do it. So far, she’s been everywhere with us. Flight attendants know it’s hard and are so helpful. People understand.

Child: How have you balanced your work on the jewelry line with a new baby? MMI: It depends

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Child: What’s it like working with your mom? MMI: She’s incredible. My mom is one

of a kind. She’s taught me everything I know. She really pushes my creative thinking. Two is always better than one. Being on her team is awesome. Child: Were you a creative kid? MMI: I think so. When I was 12 years old, my mom and I started a T-shirt line and sold it to a few stores. I was always painting. My paternal grandmother was an artist. She had a studio in Wyoming, which is where my jewelry line started. I used to go there and paint. All art forms start with an idea. It’s just how you make that idea come alive.

“ALL ART FORMS START WITH AN IDEA. IT’S JUST HOW YOU MAKE THAT IDEA COME ALIVE.”

on the day. When she naps I go to the office and work. And when John’s in town we take turns. I’m lucky that I get to work from home so I can make my own hours. Before the baby I wasn’t as intentional with my time, but now time is so limited. No moment is wasted.

Child: Are there things you’re looking forward to layering back into your life now that Hunter Grace is a bit older? MMI: I try to take

time for myself every day, whether it’s meditating, doing my devotional or doing some yoga moves as I watch her play. It’s a practice that you have to make a habit. My mom has always told me, “When Mommy is happy, baby is happy.” I took that to heart. When you’re happy and you’re your best self, you can give your best self to your baby. Child: What attracted you to jewelry design? MMI: I started making jewelry in

high school. My mom and grandmother have always been involved with fashion, so there’s a family love of fashion and design. I’ve always loved being creative and having an outlet to express myself. Jewelry seemed a perfect fit. It’s a place where I can be my own person and express what I want to be. I also think jewelry makes people feel good, so that’s been awesome.

Child: Will it be a priority for you to cultivate creativity in Hunter Grace as she grows up? MMI:

I’ll do my best to give her opportunities, but I know she’ll be her own person. I’ll provide an environment for her to be creative and learn and use her imagination. That’s all I can do. Child: Do you ever succumb to the mom guilt that’s perpetuated by Pinterest and social media? MMI: It’s

so hard not to. It’s in your face. You have to trust your own instinct and that you know what’s best for your baby. All the free advice is out there, but you have to find what works for you and your family. Child: Is there a piece of parenting advice someone’s given you that really resonates? MMI: One of my good friends told me that

as long as you love your baby to the best of your ability, and surround them with love, nothing can really go wrong. I think that resonated because there are so many things you’re told to do or not to do. We forget that most basic principle. — Editor’s note: As this interview went to press, we learned that Isner is now pregnant with her second, a boy. Congratulations to Mom and Dad!

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a thursday in the life of

FRANCES JURU Florida transplant Frances Juru is building a business selling her special Smackin’ Mac ‘N’ Cheese and nut-free bakery items, inspired by her son who has a severe nut allergy. Her husband, Sylvester, is a corporate analyst, and the two have been married for 11 months. They live in Aledo with sons Aiden, 7, and Ben, 6 months; daughter Ama, 14, lives with her mom.

AM I’m awakened by the baby because he’s ready to nurse. 6:15AM After burping my baby, I get ready to wake my oldest son up. My husband is getting up to get ready for work, and he irons Aiden’s clothes for school. 6:30AM I give my son something quick for breakfast. His nut allergy limits many bakery items such as muffins. Aiden starts sneezing, so he takes his allergy medication for his environmental allergies (dust mites, grass, trees—it goes on and on). 6:40AM While they eat breakfast, I sit down for a minute to burp the baby and finish nursing. 7:10AM Time to take Aiden to school. I kiss my husband as he heads off to work. 7:15AM I put the baby in his car seat, and Aiden entertains him to try and prevent him from crying along the way. 7:30AM I drop Aiden off at school. 7:45AM Once we're back home, Ben takes a catnap, and I attempt to clean up a little. 8:30AM Baby is ready to eat again after a quick diaper change. I breastfeed just about every two hours all day. 9:45AM Ben is ready for another catnap, so I put him in his swing and rock him to sleep.

Yay! I have time for a quick shower. 10:20AM No time for makeup because Ben’s up and ready to be breastfed. This is when I realize I didn’t have breakfast, so with one hand, I’m making a fruit and vegetable smoothie while nursing. 11:10AM Karaoke time. Yes, I bring out the karaoke machine! I put my baby in his bounce chair, and I play some songs to sing to him. 11:25AM I take a few minutes to do some business research looking for festivals and farmers markets where I can sell my food products. I sell the best macaroni and cheese, and I also have nut-free bakery items, specifically cakes. I created these baked goods after my oldest son was diagnosed with life-threatening allergies to peanuts and tree nuts. It was so difficult finding bakery items he could safely eat, so that sparked my idea! 11:50AM We get ready to go to a breastfeeding support group at Baylor Scott & White Hospital. 1PM Breastfeeding support group! Time to nurse, of course, but I get a chance to socialize with other moms and get my questions answered by lactation nurses. 3PM I’m in the car line to pick Aiden up from school. During the ride home, we discuss his day at school, and he tries to keep the baby from crying by talking to him. 3:30PM We get home, and I get a snack for Aiden while he gets started on his homework. I also throw a load of clothes in the washing machine; it seems like I’m constantly washing baby clothes now. 4:10PM I review Aiden’s homework, and he reads a book to his brother. Then Aiden has some free time on his Nintendo Switch before it’s time for him to get ready for golf. 5:30PM We arrive at the country club for Aiden’s evening golf program. While he’s playing golf, I go into the women’s restroom, which has an open seating area where I can breastfeed without a nursing cover. I’ve embraced breastfeeding without shame. It’s beautiful, natural and nurturing. 7PM Golf is over, but it’s late, and Aiden has school in the morning, so I head to McDonald’s to order him a nuggets Happy Meal. 7:15PM When we arrive home, Aiden tells my husband about his day, then he gets ready for bed. While he’s in the shower upstairs, my husband and I discuss his day at work, and he holds the baby while I try my best to quickly prepare dinner. 7:35PM Dinner is ready, and my baby is ready to nurse again. After a quick diaper change, I put him in the baby sling my husband refers to as the “kangaroo pouch.” 8:15PM Lights out for Aiden, except for the built-in LED lights around and under his bed.

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WHAT SHE’S READING Becoming by Michelle Obama WHAT’S IN HER NETFLIX QUEUE Workin’ Moms, Master of None, You FAVORITE MOVIE The Five Heartbeats FIRST CELEBRITY CRUSH

Omar Epps FAVORITE DATE NIGHT SPOT Del Frisco’s Grille FAVORITE SCENT IF by Apothia. It smells amazing! BIGGEST PET PEEVE People who cut lines and act like they don’t know where the line started. Really? Come on. We’re adults, not kindergarteners. WHAT SHE DOES WHEN LIFE GETS STRESSFUL Listen to my favorite songs. Music is therapeutic; I love neo soul. BEAUTY PRODUCT SHE CAN’T LIVE WITHOUT

Fenty Glow Gloss Bomb. When all else fails, I can at least keep my lips moisturized. No time for makeup. DREAM JOB AS A KID Professional ice skater. I guess I thought I’d be in Disney On Ice, but I still don’t know how to ice skate. NIGHT OWL OR EARLY

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BIRD Night owl but not by choice—my 6-month-old is nocturnal.

They keep the monsters away, according to him. 8:50PM Guess what? It's time to feed Ben again! In the “kangaroo pouch” he goes, and he nurses as I prepare my husband’s and my oldest son’s lunches. Again with one hand only. Shazam! Lunches are in the fridge. 9:20PM My husband is still recovering from ankle surgery, so I check to make sure he doesn’t need anything else. Ben begins to “really wake up.” He’s most active in the evening. 10:15PM Well, it’s that time again to breastfeed Ben and change his diaper before he sleeps for a few hours. I’m still out on the sofa primarily because I have to sit up to breastfeed throughout the night, and the bed is just too comfortable for me to stay awake. 10:40PM Ben is asleep finally! My husband falls asleep as well. 1:30AM I get up to change Ben’s diaper and breastfeed. While I’m breastfeeding, I order groceries online for pickup—it’s so convenient. 3:45AM I’m like a zombie at this point. I finally sleep for a few hours before starting the day again.

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Spirited kids are often branded as “bad,” but their behavior is more complex than a single label—and, most important, fixable WORDS

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does not abide by anyone saying her son is “bad.” “Food goes bad; people are not bad,” she says with a laugh, speaking about her spirited 7-year-old son, Hunter. “People are complicated. They have bad days, they have challenges, and that’s OK.” The local mom is one of many parents who have “spirited” children—those who test boundaries or are even openly oppositional. This year Hunter, a smart and athletic boy, faced consequences countless times at school for his behavior, which memorably included a verbal standoff with a staff member after they tried to correct him for skipping in the hallways. For his mom, these missteps require what she calls “fierce accountability” but are also only a part of the whole child, and she recognizes that some of the characteristics that cause friction now, like questioning authority and an independent spirit, could be helpful to Hunter as an adult. But when do willfulness or behavioral challenges like Hunter’s cross over into defiance— or possibly even a diagnosis of a deeper issue? And what can be done to parent children who test boundaries, both small and large?

Some experts, like child intervention specialist and best-selling author Joe Newman, are leaning away from the traditional approaches of discussion and medication and toward a more compassionate approach to dealing with “spirited” kids. The first step: understanding that not all oppositional behavior is created equal. CHASING THE WHY

“I’ve never met a child who hasn’t argued with an adult,” says Renee Lexow of Bella Living Psychological Services in Fort Worth, “and some of that is totally normal and developmentally appropriate.” Lexow, who has a doctorate in clinical forensic psychology, points out that some boundary testing is an important part of understanding how the world works. “As adults, we learn that there are some rules that can be bent, some that can be broken, and some that can be neither bent nor broken,” she says. For instance, many adults who would not shoplift or commit assault might be open to crossing the street against the traffic light. “Children pick up on that concept quickly,” Lexow explains, “and they are testing and trying to determine which rules can be bent and which cannot.”

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She says that this type of boundary testing and other strong-willed behaviors, such as questioning authority, asserting themselves and being independent, are actually signs of social intelligence and personal growth. This is the defining difference between boundarytesting behavior and defiance: If a child has a specific and reasonably logical reason for not wanting to do something, they are likely testing a boundary in a developmentally appropriate way. “If your child says they don’t like peas, that’s not being defiant,” Lexow says. “That’s more independence, and that is a good thing. Asserting yourself is a necessary skill for an adult and we want to foster that.”

at Allen ISD) that teaches social and behavioral skills to kids who struggle in a typical classroom. She says that finding the source of defiant behavior is the key to correcting it. “We use this phrase a lot: ‘Chase the why.’” The first thing she asks parents is what time their child goes to bed. “Kids need sleep,” she explains, “and if they don’t get enough, their behaviors are intensified.” Lexow agrees, explaining that oppositional behavior that’s not linked to a diagnosable condition can be caused by a number of things, including sleep and food. “Diet can be a big factor,” she says. “Too much sugar or caffeine can often lead to irritability.” Environment can also be a major contributor as a child seeks a way to deal with what they perceive to be chaos at home. “This can be something big like changes in their environment, but it can also be a lack of stability and regularity in routines, or inconsistent rules and punishments at home,” Lexow explains.

“Defiant kids are not bad kids. They just need to be taught how to do things differently.” Hunter-Franklin says her son is more of a boundary-tester and that while she will always find a consequence for his misbehavior, she knows that some of those strong-willed character traits are beneficial. “I see that he could be a CEO one day with his ability to question things and his independent thinking,” she explains, “so I find ways to address what he did wrong while still accepting these parts of him.” Such behavior might instead be called defiance if the child generally refuses to comply seemingly without a rational reason or deliberately breaks a rule and cannot explain why. That’s not to say there isn’t a why—there can be many, up to and including underlying mental health conditions and behavior disorders. Candice Grisham is a teacher for the Bridge Program, a pilot program at Mesquite Independent School District (adapted from a similar program

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Grisham says she sees this play out in the school setting. “In school, when a child is defiant, they are wanting to be in control of their situation,” she shares. Or, Lexow says, defiance might simply be a personality trait. “Sometimes it can just be a natural disposition to be stubborn,” she explains. On the other hand, misbehavior can actually be symptomatic of a deeper issue. The cause of unexplained strong-willed behavior might be attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), autism or mood disorders like depression. The best way to determine whether there is a condition linked to the behavior is to seek outside testing from a professional. MORE THAN A BAD DAY

Tarrant County mom Alexandra Villanuevos (not her real name) says her daughter Nina struggles with impulse control and exhibits a general lack of participation. “Her interactions with people didn’t go well—she has a hard time making friends and working with people,” Villanuevos explains. “We took her to therapy, and she wouldn’t participate in the therapy.” Villanuevos recounts the day she knew that something was seriously amiss with her daughter: While at an after-school program at the YMCA, Nina decided—obviously against

the rules—to leave and walk home on her own. She got lost on the way and ended up getting into a car with a man she didn’t know. “Thankfully the man drove her to our neighbor’s house without issue,” Villanuevos says. “But I was so terrified. I was angry-crying. She didn’t even stop to think about the danger in getting in the car with a stranger.” Villanuevos says she was relieved when Nina was diagnosed with oppositional defiance disorder (ODD), along with ADHD and anxiety, when she was about 9 years old. “I really didn’t know about ODD before, or I thought she wasn’t extreme enough before this,” she says. ODD is a common issue in children, with more than 200,000 cases diagnosed in the United States each year. Kids with ODD exhibit behavior that is oppositional and openly disobedient, uncooperative or flagrantly disrespectful to authority figures. The American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychology notes that ODD is often seen in tandem with ADHD and sometimes autism. They also point out that in two-thirds of children with ODD, the symptoms will resolve within three years of diagnosis and treatment. Lexow says it’s common for people to misunderstand the difference between a typical level of misbehavior and one that requires intervention by a psychiatric professional. “If the behavior has gone on for more than six months, if it is impacting the child’s functioning and relationships with adults in his or her life, not counting siblings, I would want to see that child,” she says. Some other red flags to look for are irritability and unwarranted resentfulness toward adults, seeking to deliberately annoy or provoke others, continual refusal to comply in many different subjects, or vindictive or spiteful behavior occurring daily if the child is under 5 years old and weekly if they are older. “If a parent is seeing this kind of unrelenting defiance with authority figures, I would encourage them to go beyond their school counselor and see a psychiatrist,” she says. “There are very specific criteria and testing we can do to find out what is going on.” THE DISCIPLINE DILEMMA

Not all parents have the relief of knowing the why behind their child’s defiance. Chelsea Peters’ 7-year-old son, Daniel, has not been diagnosed with any type of condition that would explain his behavior. “For him, he will pretend he doesn’t hear you or like he doesn’t know the rules when he does,” she says with a sigh. When she tries to correct him the way she does with her two younger children, he turns to self-harm. “He will go to his room

and slam his head into things,” the Arlington mom reveals, “so we had to try something else. We started taking away things. That seems to work, but it was hard to know what to do.” In his book Raising Lions: The Art of Compassionate Discipline, Joe Newman says that parents and teachers need to understand the power struggle between themselves and the spirited child. He makes the case that consequences are a far better teacher than lecturing or “talking it out” in most cases because a consequence appeals to the whole child and affirms that you feel they are capable. This is a far cry from what modern parents typically hear. With the disciplinary practice of spanking under fire, many parents have reverted to the other extreme, trying to reason with their children about their behavior. Peters says this didn’t work with Daniel; he was not receptive to listening, and it made her feel frustrated and hurt that he wouldn’t hear her out. Hunter-Franklin has found success with asking questions and seeking to understand her son Hunter’s behavior in tandem with letting him deal with the consequences for his actions. For her, this looks like asking him about the incident and meeting his answer with empathy but still imposing a consequence, such as revoking access to a favorite toy or having him write a letter of apology. “I think communication is paramount across the board,” she says. “Communicating with Hunter what I expect or what to do after he has handled a situation poorly, and also talking to his teachers to make sure we are all on the same page.” Lexow says that when a child is testing a boundary, discussion is healthy, but when a child is acting strong-willed without any specific reason, talking it out can often just lead to an argument—a losing battle for the parent. Villanuevos learned early on that when she was feeling pushed beyond her limit, losing control and yelling did not work with Nina. “When she actively defies me, it can be something like asking her to put the laundry away. I can ask repeatedly, and she won’t do it, or she may do something like dump the contents of the basket on the floor in her closet,” she reveals. “Now we have been at it for two hours trying to get her to put away laundry, and I am exhausted and frustrated, and I will lose my cool. But I am learning that it will just escalate. I have been working on taking deep breaths and not allowing her to pull me in.” Lexow says that as long as there is no safety risk, ignoring poor behavior and staying extremely calm prevents you from giving the child too much power. “Ignoring them can be effective in the correct setting,” she explains.

“An argument takes two people, so if one is not participating, there is no argument to escalate things.” She adds that giving choices is a great way to help kids work on understanding and selfregulating their behavior.

The Power of Choice

Giving choices is a great way to give kids some ownership over their behavior while still allowing the adult to retain the majority of the power. Candice Grisham, a teacher in the Mesquite Independent School District, says that choices are an important part of correcting the defiant behavior of students in the Bridge Program, where she works. “For example, if a student doesn’t want to do his or her work, the teacher could say, ‘You can choose to do it now or during station time.’ Either way, the child does the work,” she explains. EXPERTS SAY THESE ARE THE KEYS TO USING CHOICES EFFECTIVELY:

CHOICES SHOULD BE LIMITED—AT F I R S T . Renee Lexow, a Fort Worth psycholo-

gist, says for younger kids or kids who are particularly type A, two choices work best. Try offering multiple options with the same result. “Do you want to take a bath or a shower?” is a good example.

CHOICES CAN EVOLVE AS THE CHILD E V O L V E S . As the child becomes better at

self-regulating, the choices may become more open-ended: “If you don’t want to take band as an elective, what class do you think you would like to take?”

CHOICES MAY INCLUDE CONSEQUENCES.

In Grisham’s example, if the student chose to defer doing their work, they were choosing to miss station time with their classmates. The natural consequences of the choice help the child learn to make better decisions in a way that doesn’t invite conflict. On his YouTube channel, Newman demonstrates how to offer a child the choice of a short timeout if they will stop the behavior immediately or an extended timeout if the behavior continues. That small choice gives the child a sense of self-control while still allowing the adult the majority of the power. He says this tactic works for kiddos who have been diagnosed with a behavior disorder and kids like Daniel who are just prone to defiant behavior. “Most kids that are defiant will work better

if they are rewarded for making good choices,” Grisham says. At the Bridge Program, offering choices gives the students agency and reinforces positive outcomes. “It teaches them to make good choices and feel good about themselves,” she explains. “When this happens, they will most likely choose to make that good choice again.” NO LABELS

Grisham says she wishes everyone knew what she knows about problematic behavior: that it is fixable. Teaching a strong-willed child to make good choices might be a slow and challenging process, but Grisham stresses that it’s necessary. “As parents, it’s our job to teach kids how to follow behavior, even when they don’t want to,” she says. “If we don’t correct defiant behavior, then the child thinks they can continue. There is help and assistance when things get hard.” Due to Nina’s severe behavior, Villanuevos doesn’t socialize much with other families out of fear she will be judged. “I don’t want to be ‘that mom,’” she says wistfully, “the one who is arguing with her child in public, the one who is unleashing on her kid in Walmart. Even though I know rationally we all have stuff going on and I shouldn’t feel ashamed, it’s really hard.” Hunter-Franklin can empathize. “No one is saying on social media that their son [was disciplined] at school every day for the last two months,” she laughs. “As a parent, you can feel embarrassed and think it is a reflection of your parenting, but it’s really not about us. ODD or behavioral problems or just strong-willed kids—these don’t make you a bad parent or a failure. Don’t allow yourself to sit in those labels.” And even with a rap sheet of bad behavior, an oppositional child does not deserve the label “bad.” “Defiant kids are not bad kids,” Grisham says. “They just need to be taught how to do things differently.”

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Alamo Drafthouse Cinema DFW. Multiple locations; drafthouse.com/dfw. Pick your own ticket price of $1, $3 or $5 at our Kids’ Camp screenings 10am weekdays all summer with proceeds benefiting HopeKids North Texas.

Alley Cays Entertainment. Arlington; 817/7842695; Hurst; 817/589-0523; alleycatsbowl.com. Plenty of fun for everyone! Bowling, laser tag, Putt-Putt Golf, arcade games, go-carts, more. Attractions vary by location.

Altitude H2O @ Meadowmere Park . Grapevine; 817/207-7236; altitudeh2ograpevine.com. Home to the largest floating aqua park obstacle course in Texas. Our enormous floating playground is the best way to cool off this summer!

Amon Carter Museum of American Art. Fort Worth; 817/738-1933; cartermuseum.org/calendar/search?keys=storytime. Take a trip with the Amon Carter as we take our storytime program to locations across Fort Worth. Wednesdays in June and July.

Arbuckle Wilderness Park. Davis; 800/PET-PARK; arbucklewilderness.com. Drive on the wild side. Come feed the animals while driving through the Arbuckle Mountains. Walk-through features; reptiles, petting zoo, fish feeding, pony rides+.

Bowl & Barrel. Dallas; 214/363-2695; bowlandbarrel.com. Strike up the party! Our boutique bowling alley is great for kids 6 and up. With party packages, kid-friendly food, ramps, bumpers and more.

Bureau of Engraving and Printing—Tour and Visitor Center. Fort Worth; 817/231-4000; bep.gov/fortworthtxtours.html. Learn how billions of dollars are printed at the BEP, where the nation’s paper currency order is produced. Self-guided tours, admission is free!

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Dallas Arboretum and Botanical Garden. Dallas; 214/515-6615; dallasarboretum.org/ events-activities/summer-at-the-arboretum. Enjoy Summer at the Arboretum with Family Fun Fridays in June and July, Nature Walk Bingo Nights and Family Fun Lawn Games on Sundays.

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Dallas Museum of Art. Dallas; 214/922-1200; dma.org. It’s free family fun all summer at the DMA! Enjoy free general admission and free programs, including story time, gallery tours, art making and more.

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Dallas Zoo. Dallas; 469/554-7500; dallaszoo. com. The wild is calling at the Dallas Zoo, where over 2,000 animals are waiting to be discovered at the largest and oldest zoo in Texas!

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Denton County Office of History & Culture. Denton; 940/349-2850; dentoncounty.com/chos. The Courthouse-on-the-Square Museum is 40 this year! See anniversary exhibits and play in our vintage grocery store. Come visit—admission is free!

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Dough Dough,The. Multiple locations; 214/254-4445; thedoughdough.com. Serving cupcakes, cookies, ice cream, brookies or indulge in one of 12 flavors of safe to eat raw cookie dough! Gluten-free and vegan available.

18. Explorium Denton Children’s Museum. Denton; 940/320-5444; exploriumdenton.org. Explorium Denton Children’s Museum is designed for children 12 and under, provides opportunities for children and their families to learn and play together.

28. Grapevine Convention & Visitors Bureau. Grapevine; 817/410-3185; grapevinetexasusa. com. Discover a whole world of play in Grapevine. SummerBlast features fun for the whole family including waterparks, Friday Night Fireworks, Nash Farm and more! 29. Hilton Anatole. Dallas; 214/748-1200; anatolepool.com. Experience JadeWaters, Dallas’ only resort pool experience, complete with two 180-foot slides, a 630-foot lazy river, luxury cabanas, a swim-up bar and more! 30.

Historic Downtown Carrollton. Carrollton; 972/466-9135; cityofcarrollton.com/downtown. Downtown Carrollton features unique shops and restaurants, as well as events like World of Foodies Fest on Saturday, June 29, from 3–9pm.

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Hydrous Wake Parks . Multiple locations; 214/310-1105; hydrouswakeparks.com. What could be better than spending time on the water learning how to wakeboard? Sign up now. Hydrous Wake Parks camps, parties and lessons

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iT’Z Family Food & Fun. Euless; 817/283-3700; itzusa.com. iT’Z the summer fun destination with a huge arcade, laser tag, rock climbing and bowling. The 8-visit Annual Pass offers the best value at $9.99/visit.

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JCC Dallas. Dallas; 214/739-2737; jccdallas.org. JCC Dallas has something for everyone—enjoy the outdoor pool, modern fitness facility and more! Open to families of all faiths, shapes and sizes.

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Kemah Boardwalk. Kemah; 877/285-3624; kemahboardwalk.com. Waterfront dining, rides, games, shopping and entertainment all year long at the Kemah Boardwalk! Make plans now—stay at our hotel, the Boardwalk Inn.

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Kimbell Art Museum. Fort Worth; 817/332-8451; kimbellart.org. Celebrate Monet: The Late Years with activities for kids and teens all summer long. Don’t miss our Family Festival/Ice Cream Sunday, July 21.

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Lewisville Lake Environmental Learning Area (LLELA). Lewisville; 972/219-3550; llela.org. Explore oak forests, kayak by beaver dams, fish for bass in the Trinity, and more at Lewisville Lake Environmental Learning Area (LLELA)!

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Fort Worth’s Fourth. Fort Worth; 817/698-0700; fortworthsfourth.com. Fort Worth’s Fourth is a day full of family fun at Panther Island Pavilion! Enjoy free festival admission, kid zone activities and tubing.

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Cinnamon Shore. Port Aransas; 361/336-0688; cinnamonshore.com. Stay in a seaside village with classic charm and casual sophistication that’s all about family and fun. Surf lessons! Sandcastle lessons! Music and more!

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Fort Worth Zoo. Fort Worth; 817/759-7555; fortworthzoo.org. Adventure awaits at the Fort Worth Zoo. Explore wildlife firsthand at one of many interactive exhibits, from giraffes to stingrays. Plan your visit today!

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Fossil Rim Wildlife Center. Glen Rose; 254/8972960; fossilrim.org. The memories you make with your children now will be with you forever. Feed giraffes and watch baby rhinos play, visit Fossil Rim today!

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Frog Pond Water Park at the Farmers Branch Aquatics Center, The. Farmers Branch; 972/9198720; fbh2o.com. This neighborhood oasis in Farmers Branch features an activity pool, lazy river, lagoon pool and water slides plus swim lessons, programs and events all summer!

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George W. Bush Presidential Center. Dallas; 214/200-4300; bushcenter.org. This summer explore the Presidential Retreats: Away from the White House special exhibit to learn how presidents and their families rest, rejuvenate, and work too.

Fort Worth Museum of Science and History. Fort Worth; 817/255-9300; fwmuseum.org. Learning is cool at the Fort Worth Museum of Science and History this summer in 165,000 square feet of air conditioning!

Children’s Aquarium at Fair Park. Dallas; 469/554-7340; childrensaquariumfairpark.com. Explore the undersea world at the Children’s Aquarium at Fair Park, designed with kids in mind. You can see fish, feed stingray, and more!

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Dallas Aquatics—Dallas Park and Recreation. Dallas; 214/670-1926; dallasaquatics.org. Bahama Beach Waterpark, 6 aquatic centers, 11 swimming pools, Bachman indoor pool. Swim lessons, swim teams, water exercise classes and special events.

26. Gaylord Texan Resort. Grapevine; 817/7781000; gaylordtexan.com/summerfest. Experience SummerFest at Gaylord Texan featuring The Adventures of Peter Pan now through Labor Day. Enjoy family fun with pool parties, scavenger hunts, more.

Fairview Town Center. Fairview; fairviewtowncenter.com. Fairview Town Center is northern Collin County’s premier shopping, dining and entertainment destination, featuring Dillard’s, iPic Theaters, JC Penney, Macy’s, Whole Foods Market and more!

Cedar Hill Parks & Recreation. Cedar Hill; 972/291-5130; cedarhilltx.com/pard. Have fun the Cedar Hill way this summer! Enjoy summer camps, pool activities, live concerts, community celebrations and much more. Visit cedarhilltx. com/pard for information.

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Galveston, It’s Island Time!. Galveston Island; 409/797-5144; galveston.com.Whether you’re a history buff, thrill seeker or beach bum, Galveston Island has something for you. Let us help you plan the perfect island getaway.

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11. Crayola Experience Plano. Plano; 469/6422901; crayolaexperience.com/plano. Discover the magic of color at Crayola’s premier, one-ofa-kind family attraction. Dozens of hands-on, creative activities and a day of fun awaits! Buy tickets https://bit.ly/2UZ73y9.

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Medieval Times Dinner & Tournament. Dallas; 888/935-6878; medievaltimes.com. Kids free this summer with any full price adult admission Monday–Thursday. Code:DCKF Knights compete in thrilling games on horseback inside the Queen’s 11th Century castle.

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Pump It Up. Multiple locations; pumpitupparty. com. Our indoor arenas feature gigantic inflatables that are ideal for your child’s 100% private birthday party or check our online calendar for weekday public playtimes.

Mineral Wells Area Chamber of Commerce. Mineral Wells; 940/325-2557; visitmineralwells.org. Visit Mineral Wells where fun and adventure run deep. Dig for fossils, test your rock-climbing skills, become a butterfly with our amazing murals.

46. Reunion Tower. Dallas; 214/712-7040; reuniontower.com/things-to-do/summer. Join us for activities all summer long on the Reunion Tower GeO-Deck. Activities will include bingo, magic shows, arts & crafts and story time.

Museum of the American Railroad. Frisco; 214/428-0101; museumoftheamericanrailroad. org. Experience family fun at TrainTopia this summer! Features 2,500 sq ft of running model trains inside the Frisco Discovery Center. Visit historictrains.org for tickets.

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NRH2O Family Water Park. North Richland Hills; 817/427-6500; nrh2o.com. NRH2O Family Water Park features over 24 slides and attractions for a fun-filled day. Fireworks and dive-in movies on select dates. Free parking. Coolers welcome. Pawnee Bill’s Wild West Show. Fort Worth; 888/COW-TOWN; stockyardsrodeo.com. Pawnee Bill’s Wild West Show features trick roping, trick shooting, trick riding, cowboy songs and more! Saturdays and Sundays at 2:30pm and 4:30pm, call 1-888-COWTOWN.

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Texas Discovery Gardens. Dallas; 214/428-7476; txdg.org. Stop by Texas Discovery Gardens and take a stroll through our two-story tropical butterfly house and 7.5 acres of gardens.

53. Topgolf. Multiple locations; 817/349-4002; topgolf.com. Grow your child’s game this summer with Topgolf Summer Academy. This academy is jam-packed with fun and learning for kids ages 6–12. 54.

Ripley’s Believe It Or Not!. Grand Prairie; 972/263-2391; ripleys.com/grandprairie. Come into Ripley’s Believe It Or Not! this summer and get your weird on. With 5 awesome attractions, there’s something for everyone!

Town of Little Elm. Little Elm; 972/731-3296; littleelmliveandplay.com. Best beach in North Texas! Sand volleyball, fire pits, swimming, kayaks/SUPs, unique restaurants, cable wakeboarding, hike and trails. There’s something for everyone in Little Elm!

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Shops at Lakeside, The. Flower Mound; 469/533-4131; lakesidedfw.com. Singer/songwriters perform Friday nights, 7:30pm, at the Lakeside Music Series in the plaza. Bring portable chairs or blankets. Children welcome.

Twin Points Park. Fort Worth; 817/720-4551; twinpointspark.com. White sandy beaches 15 miles from downtown Fort Worth. Details about activities (Free yoga) available on Facebook @twinpointspark. Bring a picnic and the whole family.

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Urban Air Adventure Parks. Multiple locations; 800/960-4778; urbanairtrampolinepark.com. Experience next level adventure this summer on epic attractions like Sky Rider Indoor Coaster, Warrior Obstacle Course, ropes course, climbing walls and so much more!

Shops at Willow Bend—Grand Court, The. Plano; 972/202-7110; shopwillowbend.com. Families get ready for a summer of heartpounding, bubble-popping, mind-stretching, floor-stomping and clown-laughing fun during this summer’s performances at Summer Fun Thursdays from noon–1pm.

Peppa Pig World of Play. Grapevine; 214/2859110; peppapigworldofplay.com/dallasfw/en. Jump into the world of Peppa Pig to laugh, learn and play! New indoor play attraction for preschool children—now open in Grapevine Mills.

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Stockyards Station. Fort Worth; 817/625-9715; fortworthstockyards.com. Shopping, dining and big fun—Texas-style! Located in the heart of the Fort Worth Stockyards National Historic District, Stockyards Station has western fun for everyone!

Pleasure Pier. Galveston Island; 409/766-4950; pleasurepier.com. Waterfront fun and entertain-

51. Studio Movie Grill. Multiple locations; studiomoviegrill.com. Studio Movie Grill is the

57. Visit Lubbock. Lubbock; 806/747-5232; visitlubbock.org. Bring history to life and find adventure in Lubbock’s many family-friendly attractions this summer. Plan your next trip to the “Hub City” today! 58. Water Works Park. Denton; 940/349-8800; dentonwaterworks.com. Enjoy a wave pool, five giant slides, two toddler slides, a lazy river, a children’s play pool, pavilions, cabanas, delicious concessions and more!

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Take a trip across Texas with the Amon Carter! Join us as we take our Storytime program to locations all across Fort Worth with a new story and art activity every Wednesday* in June and July. June 5, 10 a.m.–noon Diamond Hill/Jarvis Library June 12, 10 a.m.–noon Seminary South Library June 19, 10 a.m.–noon Botanical Research Institute of Texas June 26, 10:30 a.m.–12:30 p.m. Southwest Regional Library *EXCEPT JULY 3

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July 10, 10 a.m.–noon Botanical Research Institute of Texas July 17, 10 a.m.–noon The Trailhead at Clearfork July 24, 10 a.m.–noon Play Studio by Green Space July 31, 10:30 a.m.–12:30 p.m. Wedgwood Library

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Besides children’s productions, the Artisan Center Theater stages family-friendly musicals like Newsies.

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OUR 6-YEAR-OLD YELLING OUT, “WHERE IS BABY JESUS?!” as soon as the lights go down for The Nutcracker is probably similar to what you imagine when you think about taking your kid to the theater. That was the scenario for Mollie-Claire Matthews’ family when they took her little sister Madigan to her first show at 6 years old. But despite Madigan’s spontaneous outburst, Mollie-Claire looks back fondly at the memory. “It doesn’t always work for everybody, but that is such a funny story to have to tell,” says Mollie-Claire. The high school senior saw her first play—a classic, The Sound of Music—at just 3 years old. She’s been part of the programs at North Texas Performing Arts ever since. Mollie-Claire believes that watching a play at such a young age and taking classes throughout her life has given her far more than stage or acting techniques—it’s built a foundation for lifelong skills. “If I didn’t have theater, there is a certain confidence I wouldn’t have walking into a room,” → fortworthchild / june 2019

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At a Theater Near You

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she shares. “It teaches you so much about now they really appreciate it. They love going knowing who you are, and I think that’s to plays.” really hard for lots of kids.” Libraries are also great resources to begin Lizdelia Piñon, a Tarrant County mother introducing your kids to plays; several local of 6-year-old triplets who all have cerebral libraries have puppet shows and short skits palsy, has taken her kids to plays since they for toddlers and babies. were toddlers. The Chicago native and educaWhen your kids are ready for a real theater, tor sees the importance look for plays labeled of involving her kids TYA, or Theater for in the arts at a young Young Audiences. age—something she had Shrek the Musical Jr. (June 8–July 13) and These plays are designed growing up as well. specifically to keep kidBeat Bugs (July 27–August 31) are playing at “I wanted them to dos engaged, explains the Artisan Center Theater in Hurst. Shrek is recenjoy all the things that ommended for ages 8–18 and Beat Bugs for age Mike Mazur, managing my parents did with me 10 and younger, though all ages are welcome to director at North Texas both shows. Both are about an hour long. Tickets as a child,” Piñon says. Performing Arts in are $13 for adults and $7 for age 12 and younger. “My kids see things a Plano. “They encourage little differently, I think, ARTISAN CENTER THEATER // 444 E. Pipeline Road, the kids to cheer and Hurst; 817/284-1200; artisanct.com because of the arts that boo for the villain and I’ve exposed them to.” the hero,” he says. Into the Woods will be showing at Theatre Although the Also look for musiArlington June 25–28, with daytime and one thought of taking your cals with “Jr.” in the evening performance. The show is about an hour kids to the theater title. These are shortand 15 minutes long and is best for age 5 and up. might be scary, with the Tickets cost $5–$10. THEATRE ARLINGTON // 305 W. ened versions of stories right preparation your you know and love, Main St., Arlington, 817/275-7661; theatrearlington.org littles can enjoy the typically with kid actors. The Wizard of Oz is on stage at Casa Mañana wonders of live theater If the play is based while picking up lessons July 12–14. The show is about an hour and 20 on a movie or book, minutes long, plus a 20-minute intermission, and and memories that will watch the movie or is recommended for age 3 and up. Tickets range stick with them long read the story with from $17–$45 for all ages. CASA MAÑANA // 3101 W. them so they’ll already after the curtain call. Lancaster Ave., Fort Worth; 817/332-2272; casamanana.org be familiar with the REHEARSAL characters and plot. Take baby steps toward introducing your Often the stage version of the story is a bit kids to theater. Piñon began by showing her different from the movie or book. “When kids 30- to 40-minute movies to see if her you come to see a play, say, ‘We’re going to then 2-year-olds could stay focused for that see it live. I can’t wait to see what’s the same length of time. or different,’” Mazur says. “That’s when I realized, OK, they can do a 30-minute cartoon, they are ready to SHOWTIME [watch] a play,” she says. “It wasn’t easy, Mazur recommends talking your kids there was a growing curve. But I feel like through what they’re about to experience.

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Sign the kids up to go behind the scenes at a theater summer camp:

The Artisan Center Theater offers a slew of weeklong camps and one-day workshops for ages 3–18, from musical theater to technique workshops and themed camps (think princesses and pirates). Weeklong camps begin at $150 plus a $50 registration fee; daylong workshops are $40 plus a $20 registration fee. ARTISAN CENTER THEATER // 444 E. Pipeline Road, Hurst; 817/284-1200; artisanct.com

Your kids will be familiar with the themes at Casa Mañana’s weeklong, half-day camps for ages 4–8: Alice in Wonderland, June 3–7; Ferdinand the Bull, June 10–14; The Aristocats, June 17–21; and The Jungle Book, August 5–9. Tuition is $350 per week, plus a $25 registration fee. For older kids, the three-week-long Camp Casa starts June 24, where ages 8–14— from beginners to advanced—take daily classes in acting, music and dance set to a Wizard of Oz theme. Tuition is $1,100, plus a registration fee. CASA MAÑANA // 3101 W. Lancaster Ave., Fort Worth; 817/332-2272; casamanana.org

Kids Who Care offers theater camps and classes throughout the year. For the summer, opt for a one-week mini camp for ages 4–7 or the weeklong Actors Studio for grades one through nine. Tuition is $295 for both camps. Two- and three-week options are available for kids in grades 1–12 to put on public performances—the June Intensive runs June 17–30 and the International Musical Theatre Camp runs July 8–28 or July 15–28. Tuition begins at $750. KIDS WHO CARE, INC. // 1300 Gendy St., Fort Worth; 817/737-2164; kidswhocare.org During Theatre Arlington’s musical theater camps for ages 7–11, kids will perform The Aristocats (June 10–14) and Cinderella KIDS (July 29–Aug. 2). Limited spots are available; tuition is $350. At the Play and Pretend camp July 22–26, younger campers ages 3–7 will learn about characters from classic children’s lit and put on a performance at week’s end. Tuition is $250. And the more technical side of theater is the topic of the Adventures in Theatre Camp that runs July 8–19 for ages 8–16; tuition is $425. THEATRE ARLINGTON // 305 W.

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“Say, ‘We’re going to go see a play, and the play is done by real people right in front of you. We’re going to be quiet and watch them,’” he explains. Since most plays have an intermission, Mazur also suggests telling your kids to look out for certain things during the first half of the show that you can discuss during the break—a certain dance move, the intricacies of the actors’ costumes. You can also tell the kids to watch out for lights and sounds and how they help tell the story: “‘Look—there’s a light over there.’ (It turns blue.) ‘How did that make the room feel?’ Guide them with things to look for,” he shares. And remember, plays are just that: play. Mazur notes that adults often forget that taking their kids to see a show is supposed to be fun. “There’s nothing like watching a parent and two kids experiencing the performing arts together,” he says. “I really believe what we do brings families closer together in ways they didn’t expect.” fortworthchild / june 2019

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CONCERTS IN THE GARDEN

JUNE 6–JULY 15 // SETTLE INTO SUNDANCE SQUARE PLAZA (BLANKETS AND CHAIRS WELCOME) FOR FREE MOVIE SCREENINGS EACH WEEK, STARTING WITH THE SECRET LIFE OF PETS, BLACK PANTHER AND MARY POPPINS RETURNS.

PHOTOS COURTESY OF CITY OF JEREMY ENLOW; MODERN ART MUSEUM OF FORT WORTH; FORT WORTH SYMPHONY ORCHESTRA; KIMBALL ART MUSEUM

DAIRY DAY

NA S H FA R M June 1 Grapevine’s historic farmstead marks National Dairy Month with a visit from the Southwest Dairy Farmers’ mobile milking classroom. Bring your littles for a crash course in the old-fashioned methods of milking, butter churning and cheese making. Kids can’t get enough farm fun? Come back on Friday, June 7, to play with heritage toys and learn how to make your own such as clay marbles. $3 per person for each event. 626 Ball St., Grapevine; 817/410-3185 nashfarm.org

LAUNCHPAD – PROMISE OF DISCOVERY

F O RT WO RT H MUSEUM OF SCIENCE & H I S T O RY Opens June 1 In commemoration of 50 years since the moon landing, the museum opens this new 6,000-square-foot

exhibit telling the history and predicting the future of space exploration. Imagine yourself in space by trying on a headset in the virtual reality laboratory, making your own cosmic art and looking at a collection of artifacts from space. Free with general admission: $16 adults; $13 youth 2–18 years. 1600 Gendy St., Fort Worth; 817/255-9300 fwmuseum.org

DAVID PARK – A RETROSPECTIVE

M ODE R N A RT M U SE UM O F F O RT WO RT H Opens June 2 Learn all about Bay Area figurative art by studying works from the movement’s bestknown artist, David Park, who

famously in 1949 hauled all his abstract canvases to a dump in Berkeley to start fresh in this new style. This major exhibit features 114 pieces displayed chronologically and includes his works heavily influenced by Pablo Picasso and Joan Miró. $16 adults; free for 17 and younger. Halfprice tickets on Sunday and free admission on Friday. 3200 Darnell St., Fort Worth; 817/738-9215 themodern.org

F O RT WO RT H B O TA N I C G A R D E N June 7–July 7 You’ll recognize the most famous tunes from Star Wars, all eight Harry Potter films, U2, The Beatles, and nearly everything in between when the Fort Worth Symphony Orchestra sets up temporary shop at the botanic garden for outdoor concerts. Hear them perform movie scores and accompany tribute artists all month. Look online for the full schedule of performing groups and themes, including a not-tomiss laser light show. Lawn seating is general admission: $25 adults; free for children 10 and younger when accompanied by a paying adult. The new festival pass covers

admission to your choice of five concerts. 3220 Botanic Garden Blvd., Fort Worth; 817/665-6000 fwsymphony.org

SHREK THE MUSICAL JR.

A RT I S A N C H I L D R E N ’ S T H E AT E R June 8–July 13 Shrek can’t stay away from the limelight (though he would like to). Revisit the story of this anti-social ogre, his gang of fairy-tale misfits and a princess with a big secret when the Artisan opens the curtain on this shortened version of the original animated movie musical. $13 adults; $7 children. 444. E. Pipeline Road, Hurst; 817/284-1200 artisanct.com

DIVE-IN MOVIE

PLEASANT GLADE POOL June 14 Grapevine’s summer movie series kicks off with Disney classic The Little Mermaid (followed by more seafaring films—Moana and Aquaman—later in the summer).

MOVIE NIGHTS IN THE PLAZA

S U N DA N C E S Q UA R E PLAZA June 6–July 25 Pay nothing for your family movie nights all summer by trading the movie theater for the big screen outdoors at the center of Sundance Square. Each Thursday features a different film. The lineup for June is The Secret Life of Pets, Black Panther, Mary Poppins Returns and the latest animated Spider-Man installment. Shows begin

JUNE 16–SEPTEMBER 15 // THE KIMBELL PRESENTS MORE THAN 20 WATER LILY PAINTINGS BY THE MASTER OF IMPRESSIONISM, CLAUDE MONET. SEE THEM WITH YOUR OWN EYES IN THIS EXHIBIT FOCUSED ON THE FINAL PHASE IN MONET’S CAREER. fortworthchild / june 2019

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JUNE 25–30 // JOIN THE REVOLUTION INSIDE BASS PERFORMANCE HALL WHEN ONE OF THE WORLD’S LONGEST-RUNNING MUSICALS MARCHES INTO FORT WORTH.

Pack up your beach bags and drive out to the neighborhood pool before dusk for an evening splash time before the movie begins after dark. $5 per person; free for season pass holders and babies under 12 months. 1805 Hall-Johnson Road, Grapevine; 817/410-3450 gograpevine.com

ARLINGCON

U TA U N I V E R S I T Y CENTER June 15 “Geek” is a term of endearment, so there’s no shame in geeking out among friends at the Arlington Public Library’s annual, family-friendly comic con on the UT Arlington campus. Expect a steady flow of local crafters, artists, authors and cosplayers young and old. Want to dress up too? Be sure to read the stipulations posted online and then come ready to strut your stuff and claim the top prize. FREE 300 W. First St., Arlington; 817/459-6900 arlingtonlibrary.org/arlingcon

LEGO CITY – REPORT FOR DUTY

LEGOLAND DISCOVERY CENTER June 15– July 7 Be the hero of your family and treat the kids to Legoland during these activity days honoring first responders. Meet and greet costumed Lego City Policemen characters and then play the part of a police officer yourself by making your own badge and filming

your own police chase. Don’t forget to check out the new Lego City 4D Movie – Officer in Pursuit in the theater. Free with admission: $25.95 at the door for ages 3 and older. Online tickets from $19.99. 3000 Grapevine Mills Parkway, Grapevine; 469/444-3050 dallasfw.legolanddiscoverycenter.com

MONET – THE LATE YEARS

K I M B E L L A RT MUSEUM Opens June 16 Prepare yourself and your littles to stand in awe of approximately 60 authentic works by French Impressionist Claude Monet. The exhibit, on view in the Piano Pavilion, includes more than 20 water lily paintings. $18 for adults; $14 for children ages 6–11; free for kids under 6. Halfprice tickets all day Tuesday and after 5pm on Friday. For more fun with Monet, pencil this into your agenda: the Family Festival and free exhibit admission on July 21. 3333 Camp Bowie Blvd., Fort Worth; 817/332-8451 kimbellart.org/exhibition/monet

BALLET CONCERTO SUMMER DANCE CONCERT

THE S H O P S AT CLEARFORK June 21–23 The Fort Worth ballet company celebrates its 50th anniversary with this special performance on an outdoor stage. The performance consists of three ballets, beginning with a classical work

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WESTERN CURRENCY FAC I L I T Y June 25–28 Save your dollars and get free admission and educational tours at the Bureau of Engraving and Printing facility, one of only two that produce the nation’s paper money. This week (and again July 23–26) employees turn their focus to visiting families, demonstrating how to make money—literally—from the intaglio engraving and “growing” printing plates in nickel to operating an offset printing press. Kids 8 and older are welcome in the create-your-own-currency craft station. FREE 9000 Blue Mound Road, Fort Worth; 817/231-4000 moneyfactory.gov/fortworthtxtours.html

LES MISÉRABLES

BA S S P E R F O R M A N C E HA L L June 25–30 Fresh from a 2.5-year run on Broadway, this new production of the Tony Award–winning musical with scenery inspired by the paintings of Victor Hugo comes to the Bass. Witness Jean Valjean’s journey of the soul set against the backdrop of 19th-century France with tickets starting from $44. Due to the show’s heavy material and some violence, this may be best for your older kids. Take advantage of the online study guide, written for teachers and students to get to know the story. 525 Commerce St., Fort Worth; 817/212-4280 basshall.com

DUMPLIN’ MOVIE NIGHT AND AUTHOR SIGNING

L E V I T T PAV I L I O N June 27 The last night of the Levitt Pavilion’s Thursday movie series (runs June 6–27) features a screening of the 2018 Netflix release Dumplin’ (rated PG-13), about a plus-size teen who enters her town’s beauty pageant, and for extra zhuzh, an author signing by Julie Murphy who wrote the New York Times best-selling

book on which the movie is based. Lawn chairs, blankets and coolers (no glass) are welcome. FREE 100 W. Abram St., Arlington; 817/543-4308 levittpavilionarlington.org

SEUSSICAL THE MUSICAL

F O RT WO RT H COMMUNIT Y A RT S C E N T E R June 28–30 Kids Who Care Musical Theater makes a small deviation from its original productions to stage a familiar favorite: this musical mashup of all the characters you know from Dr. Seuss books. Come see the Cat in the Hat, Horton the Elephant, Gertrude McFuzz and Lazy Mayzie all in one storyline. $20 adults; $17 kids ages 15 and younger.

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SUNDAY FUNDAYS

PA N T H E R I S L A N D PAV I L I O N Begins June 30 Got your own inflatables in the garage? Pump them up and float for free in the Trinity River along the shores of Fort Worth’s Panther Island, or rent a tube for only $5 all day. More rentals available for watersports equipment (kayaks, stand up paddle boards, canoes and pedal boats). For maximum fun, come back to shore for food truck lunches, weekly yoga and more activities. FREE 395 Purcey St., Fort Worth; 817/698-0700 sundayfundayfw.com

SPORTS & OUTDOORS

Get on the court with the best basketball players in the world, slide down a water inflatable in a triathlon made for kids and race to the finish line with Dad at these three blood-pumping events coming this month. THE AMAZING RACE – FATHER/SON EDITION

PA R R PA R K June 8 It’s male bonding in the purest form: high-octane feats of physical strength and endurance. Bond with your son(s) age 5 and older by entering Grapevine’s friendly competition. Fathers may team up with up to three sons. You’ll learn about different countries throughout Parr Park and accomplish tasks that are indigenous to each country. $15 per person for Grapevine residents and $20 per person for nonresidents. Postrace hot dogs and hamburgers provided. 3010 Parr Lane, Grapevine; 817/410-3450 gograpevine.com/fatherson

TINY TOTS TRIATHLON

R I V E R L E G AC Y PA R K June 15 Sign up your “tots” ages 2–10 for this mini triathlon designed to get them up and active this summer. Cheer on your littles as they race in the quarter-mile bike/trike ride and 200-yard run, capped off with an inflatable water slide before the finish line. Kids 2–6 are allowed one parent to assist during the race. Race times vary by age group, and all finishers receive a medal. $15 per child. Call or go online to register. 701 NW Green Oaks Blvd., Arlington; 817/459-6434. naturallyfun.org

HARLEM GLOBETROTTERS

U TA C O L L E G E PA R K C E N T E R June 22 The touring basketball wizards fly into Arlington for their Fan Powered World Tour featuring the all-new acrobatic trampoline dunk team, the Flying Globies. Game tickets from $15. Additional $22 tickets for pregame Magic Pass on the court where the stars teach the tricks behind their trick shots and snap photos with fans. Stay after the game to claim your free autograph. 600 S. Center St., Suite 1108, Arlington; 817/272-9595 utatickets.com

PHOTOS COURTESY OF MATTHEW MURPHY; LEGOLAND DISCOVERY CENTER; COTA FILMS AND ECHO FILMS; GRAPEVINE PARKS AND RECREATION

from the Russian ballet Raymonda and continuing with the Spanish dance Bolero. Pack your blankets and chairs to take advantage of the free lawn seating. Reserved table seating from $50. 5188 Monahans Ave., Fort Worth; 817/763-5087 balletconcerto.com

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Upcoming Special Events

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confessions

MOMMY FAILS

ON MY POTTY TRAINDAUGHTER’S ING OFTEN INVOLVES FIRST DAY OF REWARDS FOR GETDAY CARE TING SOMETHING One morning I woke up really tired and I DRESSED did my daughter’s chongos (pigtails). One IN THE POTTY. MY HER UP IN A came out sideways, but I let her go to day 2-YEAR-OLD DAUGHTER MADE IT HAPPEN NEW OUTFIT. care like that.” ONE DAY, SO SHE DURING THE EARNED A STICKER. THREE-MINUTE “I was shopping at a “One day when I picked THE STICKER WENT DRIVE TO THE up my son from his farmers market with MISSING, AND SHE Montessori school he was DAY CARE, my daughter in her very upset. On probing STARTED SNIFFLING. SHE HAD A umbrella stroller and further he was like, ‘It’s IT GOT STUCK UP HER BLOWOUT IN hung bags of produce all Miss K’s (his teacher) NOSE, SO WE RUSHED husband’s fault. He on the handles. It HER DIAPER. TO THE ER. IN TWO left the backyard door outweighed her and WHEN THEY open and now she has DAYS THE STICKER the whole thing OPENED THE allergies.’” MADE IT TO THE tipped backward.” DOOR TO POTTY.” GREET US I WAS HOLDING While I was attempting to put my 1-year-old to sleep, I HER BY THE Got a parenting fail you’d like leaned in to kiss him goodnight. He looked up at me and to share? We’d love to hear said, ‘No, Mama,’ and climbed out of my lap. It was another 20 ARMPITS.” from you. Send it to ILLUSTRATION MARY DUNN

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june 2019 / fortworthchild

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minutes before he went to sleep.” —TRACI, DALLAS

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