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Pregnancy 6 Mom-To-Be: Bridget Barbier-Mueller
The fashion blogger behind Being Bridget talks baby fashion and bilingual parenting
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Pack Your Bags
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Running on Dry
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Best for Families: Soon-To-Be Moms
The things you’ll need—or want— when you get to the hospital The right way to stay hydrated while you’re pregnant
Our readers’ favorite hospitals, childbirth classes and more
Baby Mom: 28 New Madison McKinley Isner
The jewelry designer is back in the studio, now with 6-month-old Hunter Grace in tow
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Clubbing, Mommy Style
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Best for Families: Babies
Break a sweat in your living room Where to find local mom friends
Favorite child care and classes for littles
Family Mom: 44 Second-Time Carly Patterson Caldwell
columnS 52 Resources Where to find local mommies’ must-
Since retiring, the gymnast has faced new challenges: infertility and parenthood
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Mommy Fails
Breastfeeding gone wrong, pooping mishaps and more LOL parenting moments
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Playtime, Baby
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A Furry Family Affair
On the Cover: Mary Catherine, 11 months Photography: Cindy James
Playgrounds to entertain even the littlest ones Tips for introducing your pets to baby
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Mom-To-Be: Bridget Barbier-Mueller
ridget Barbier-Mueller of the fashion and lifestyle blog Being Bridget is well accustomed to the addicting smell and feel of a baby’s skin. Originally from New Orleans, the 30-year-old Dallas transplant is the youngest daughter of six kids and has 10 nieces and nephews. So when she and her husband, Alexis, found out they were pregnant, they were overjoyed. Now that the two are past the initial shock of having a boy (before the sonogram, both were convinced it was a girl), they are counting the days toward his arrival in mid-July. HOW HAS YOUR PREGNANCY BEEN SO FAR? Besides being
tired, I’ve felt really great. No nausea at all!
DESPITE WHAT YOU BOTH INITIALLY THOUGHT, YOU GUYS ARE HAVING A BOY. DO YOU HAVE NAMES PICKED OUT YET? Not yet! Alexis is Swiss
so it’s really important for him to be able to pronounce the name in English and French, and that’s much harder than you would think. I’ll find a name I love in English and then we won’t like how it sounds in French or vice versa. DO YOU PLAN TO RAISE YOUR SON USING OTHER LANGUAGES?
Yes, absolutely. Growing up in Switzerland, Alexis doesn’t remember a time in his life when he didn’t just know English, Spanish and French. I’ve been learning French for the past few years and it’s so much harder as an adult. WHAT HAVE YOU BEEN DOING TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF
DURING YOUR PREGNANCY?
First and foremost, when I’m tired, I sleep. In the beginning, I was fighting naps so hard. When you work from home, the temptation to nap is just so real that I’ve basically trained myself not to nap. But now, I give myself grace. DO YOU PLAN TO CONTINUE TO BLOG AFTER THE BABY? For
sure. It’s such a creative outlet and I’m 100% in charge of my own schedule. As far as how much I blog at first, I’ve decided not to put too much too pressure on myself. I honestly don’t know what my day-to-day life will look like until he’s here. DO YOU THINK YOUR BLOG WILL SHIFT FOCUS? It may
change some but I don’t plan to put him in the spotlight. I didn’t grow up around social media and I don’t want him to either. There’s so many opinions and noise out there when it comes to parenting. I don’t want to subject myself or him to any of that. I’ll happily talk about the
baby products I’m using or certain milestones we’re hitting but nothing that could potentially be controversial. DO YOU HAVE OTHER FRIENDS WITH KIDS OR WILL YOU BE THE FIRST ONE? Three of my
best friends either have babies or have other kids and more babies on the way. It’s been so great. I haven’t had to do any research on baby products or anything. I have my own little committee of friends and family that I can consult for everything.
YOU GUYS HAVE A BUSY SOCIAL LIFE. HAVE YOU TALKED ABOUT HOW YOU WILL BALANCE WORK, SOCIAL OUTINGS AND MOTHERHOOD?
I think we’ll take it a day at a time. The baby will definitely be on a schedule. Sleeping through the night is a big priority for us! Alexis grew up traveling so we’re excited to be able to do the same with our son. BEING A FASHION BLOGGER, CERTAINLY YOU’VE DISCOVERED SOME FAVORITE KIDS’ CLOTHING BRANDS … Kissy
Kissy has the softest onesies. Lylian is an old New Orleans store with the most incredible handmade pieces. WHAT’S THE VIBE OF THE NURSERY? I’m using blues,
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My go-to beauty products are Dr. Barbara Sturm hyaluronic serum, Augustinus Bader’s rich cream, Biologique Recherche serum colostrum and Vitner’s Daughter active botanical serum.
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I’ve been living in Hatch and ASOS, and I’ve been wearing a lot of sneakers and pointy-toe pumps. My favorites are the BB pump by Manolo Blahnik and the Frye Ivy sneaker.
3 Lately I’ve been craving Dolce Riviera, Shinsei and Hillstone. 4 Right now my must-have snack is a banana or a smoothie. Both always sound good and hit the spot. 5 I would send other moms-to-be for a facial at Joanna Czech.
The product I would tell all my pregnant friends to get is the Doona infant car seat.
8 Hatch belly masks are fun and playful and I’ve heard they’re lifesaving for the third trimester!
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hether you’re Miss Girl Scout or Miss Fly-by-the-Seat-of-Your-Drawstring-Pants, you’ve probably put a little thought into your hospital go-bag—or maybe it’s already in the trunk. It can’t be too hard, right? You know you need a couple changes of clothes, toothbrush, deodorant, shampoo (because you’re determined to look good) and that adorable first onesie that Grandma bought. But you may be missing some essentials or even some not-so-essentials that will make your hospital foray a bit more comfy.
We asked our experts—local doula and lactation consultant Linda Worzer; Tanya Shelton, former childbirth educator and labor and delivery nurse at the Medical Center of Plano; and Jill Johnson, nurse and childbirth educator at Texas Health Presbyterian Hospital Dallas—for a list of goods most moms forget. Take notes. Pro tip: The experts agree that you should pack separate bags for labor and postpartum. “You don’t want to lug everything with you to labor and delivery,” Shelton says.
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1. LIP BALM 2. AROMATHERAPY ESSENTIAL OILS, which can help relax and
heal during and after childbirth, says Johnson. 3. PILLOWS FROM HOME with colored pillowcases, so that they don’t match the hospital linens (be aware they could get stained). 4. BATHROBE AND SLIPPERS 5. HAIR CLIPS OR BANDS
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6. IPOD (OR IPHONE) WITH YOUR FAVORITE TUNES, or a
few Spotify playlists downloaded to your device in case of spotty Wi-Fi. Johnson recommends bringing a Bluetooth speaker along too for music in the labor and postpartum room. 7. CHARGERS FOR ALL YOUR ELECTRONICS and backup bat-
teries for your camera. Pro tip: Johnson says to bring an extension cord—you never know how far the outlet will be. 8. THE LIST, i.e., all the people you promised you’d text when baby arrives 9. MASSAGE TOOLS FOR LABOR. “Most hospitals have
limited availability to these items,” Johnson says.
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10. COMFY PAJAMAS 11. TOILETRIES (shampoo, skin
care items, hairdryer, etc.)—hospitals have limited supplies 12. NURSING GEAR: nursing pads, nursing pillow, bra or tank top, breast pump
13. SOCKS AND FOOTWEAR 14. YOUR BABY BOOK or scrap-
book so the nurses can add your little one’s footprints. Shelton says it’s harder than it looks. “We’re really good at it.” 15. SWADDLE BLANKET AND A PINT-SIZED HAT. Pro tip: Opt
for a muslin blanket. “These are breathable versus thick, heavy blanket where baby can overheat, especially in the car seat,” Johnson says.
16. MITTENS AND FINGERNAIL CLIPPERS FOR BABY 17. DISCHARGE OUTFIT with
drawstring pants that fit at about 26 weeks (so don’t consign them yet!). Bring an outfit for baby, too. “Avoid white socks, mittens and onesies,” Johnsons says. “White clothing can get mixed up with hospital laundry.” 18. INFANT CAR SEAT. Make sure it’s installed properly before you leave for the hospital. You can even get your installation checked at seatcheck.org.
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19. “DON’T FORGET DAD!”
Worzer says. “Pack like he’s going on a casual overnight trip. In other words: toiletries, deodorant, comfortable clothes (plus a change of clothes), the most comfortable pair of shoes he owns, extra socks, breath mints and swimsuit—just in case mom gets in the shower or tub and needs assistance.” Shelton adds that he should bring a sweatshirt or jacket because you’ll want the A/C going strong during labor. ●
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The dangers of dehydration during pregnancy
ehydration isn’t safe for anyone, but for pregnant women it can be dangerous, not only to themselves but to their unborn baby. Dr. Liesl Smith, OB-GYN at Texas Health Presbyterian Hospital Dallas, says that pregnant women have an increase in their blood volume anywhere from 30%–50%, meaning that extra fluids are needed to maintain proper hydration.
“Women have a faster metabolic rate when pregnant,” she says. To keep the baby healthy, Mom must stay hydrated to keep nutrients flowing from the placenta to the baby. A dehydrated mom is a dehydrated baby, Smith says. It’s typically not too difficult to stay hydrated when pregnant. The risks come when there is vomiting and diarrhea, which usually happens in the first trimester, Smith explains. Morning sickness definitely has the potential to make a mother dehydrated, so pregnant women need to continue drinking fluids. “Most women don’t get dehydrated from morning sickness, but some do,” Smith says. Pregnant women are also susceptible 12
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to dehydration throughout their pregnancies if they fall ill from the flu or another infection. Smith doesn’t think that a certain number of glasses of water are required to stay hydrated. So many variables that affect hydration—such as weight, activity levels or the weather outside—can increase or decrease the amount a person needs. Instead, Smith says to have liquid throughout the day—not just with meals. “Smaller amounts stay down better,” she says, so taking a sip or two every minute is better, and easier, than chugging a large amount at the end of the day. If a ballpark average helps, the American Pregnancy Association recommends eight to 12 8-ounce glasses a day.
When looking for ways to stay hydrated, avoid drinking juice. “I strongly don’t recommend drinking juice,” Smith says. She refers to it as “junk” because there is so much sugar in it, which isn’t healthy for Mom or baby. Some fruits and veggies can also be high in water, so snacking on them won’t hurt your hydration level; however, Smith finds the simpler way of drinking water is best. “I think that water is the best fluid to keep drinking,” Smith says. If you’re not a fan of the flavor of water, Smith recommends adding lemon or cucumber slices to make the taste more palatable. The best way to tell if you’re hydrated is simply by looking at your urine. If the color is a dark or concentrated yellow or if you are not urinating, that could be a sign you’re dehydrated, Smith says. Otherwise, pale yellow means you’re in the clear. If you’re worried you are dehydrated, Smith says to get evaluated immediately, even if that means going to the ER when your doctor’s office is closed. It’s better to be safe than sorry, especially when your little one could be at risk. ●
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Best for Soon-To-Be Moms ith a new baby on the way, we know this is a busy time for you. So, to give you a break from researching everything, we polled our readers to find their favorite local resources for moms-to-be, from childbirth classes to doulas. Here are the winners—consider them our baby shower gift to you. (These resources originally appeared in the February issues of CollinChild, DallasChild, FortWorthChild and NorthTexasChild magazines.) DALLAS COUNTY: TEXAS HEALTH RESOURCES
Best Childbirth Classes COLLIN COUNTY: MEDICAL CITY PLANO
The comprehensive range of childbirth classes makes Medical City Plano a favorite for first-time mommies—weekly classes cover what to expect at each stage of labor, different birth-plan options and comfort measures. The hospital also offers classes for new dads, grandparents and siblings. Expecting moms beginning their seventh month of pregnancy can register online or by phone for a course. All courses (except Infant Safety & CPR) are free. 3901 W. 15th St., Plano; 972/596-6800 medicalcityplano.com 14
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Texas Health’s Prepared Childbirth class provides an overview of the birth process and medication, labor support, relaxation techniques and birthing options. The class incorporates yoga positions and breathing exercises too. Sign up online for the eighthour class, offered on weekdays, Saturdays and Sundays. Pricing begins at $25. Texas Health also has a free, online version of Prepared Childbirth, including access to childbirth instructors. 8200 Walnut Hill Lane, Dallas; 214/345-6789 texashealth.org/dallas-baby DENTON COUNTY: MARIA POKLUDA’S PREPARING FOR BIRTH
In her four-week course, the Great Expectations Birth owner works with expecting moms to customize a birth plan and
practice how to articulate their delivery wants and needs. If short on time, moms can get a crash course in the childbirth experience at the bimonthly workshop Preparing for Birth in An Afternoon. Classes are available in Addison, Coppell, Dallas and Frisco, but stay tuned for additional locations this year. Private classes are also an option. Moms entering the third trimester can sign up online. // Dallas-Fort Worth area; 214/223-0226 greatexpectationsbirth.com TARRANT COUNTY: BARBARA DAVIS’ YOUR BEST BIRTH
Barbara Davis’ six-hour-long Saturday childbirth class covers everything from birthing basics to what to do once you bring baby home. Stations in the class allow mothers to try out different birthing positions, and teach partners how best to support them. Soonto-be moms leave with a 50-page workbook full of information and Davis’ cell number. Davis also teaches Your Best Birth as a private class in clients’ homes. Your Best Birth is available during the week as well during two-night sessions at Precision Chiropractic in Fort Worth. Beginning this month, Your Best Birth’s Saturday sessions will be available in Aledo and Burleson. // Dallas-Fort Worth area; 682/777-3932 birthfortworth.com
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Best Hospitals To Have a Baby COLLIN COUNTY: MEDICAL CITY PLANO
When the big day comes, momsto-be choose Medical City Plano because it feels more like a hotel than a hospital. Labor rooms are equipped with Spotify access so that Mom can DJ her own delivery, while private postpartum suites each feature memory-foam beds, a bathroom with tub, a kitchenette, a bedroom and a lounge area. After baby arrives, order a celebratory meal from the Dine on Demand service. The hospital also offers professional photography services. If needed, the Level III neonatal intensive care unit has a cuddling program for high-risk and premature babies. // 3901 W. 15th St., Plano; 972/596-6800 medicalcityplano.com DALLAS COUNTY: TEXAS HEALTH PRESBYTERIAN HOSPITAL DALLAS
Delivering 5,000 babies each year, the nurses, doctors and midwives at Texas Health Presbyterian Hospital Dallas are experts in the delivery department. Comfort is a top priority at the hospital, which is home to recently renovated luxury suites that feature gift baskets, snacks and Keurig machines. For an added charge, manicures and pedicures come to you. The hospital also has an on-site hotel, if you need to ship your in-laws away for a night. // 8200 Walnut Hill Lane, Dallas; 214/345-6789 texashealth.org/dallas-baby DENTON COUNTY: TEXAS HEALTH PRESBYTERIAN HOSPITAL DENTON
Expecting mothers have yet another reason to choose Texas
Health Presbyterian Hospital Denton, thanks to the recently renovated neonatal intensive care unit that allows mothers to room with their new babies. Luxury labor and delivery rooms, plus additional amenities like room service, breastfeeding support and the Texas Health Baby app make the postpartum period even easier. // 3000 Interstate 35, Denton; 940/898-7000 texashealth.org/denton TARRANT COUNTY: TEXAS HEALTH HARRIS METHODIST HOSPITAL FORT WORTH
With on-campus midwives, childbirth classes, breastfeeding support and a complimentary celebration meal following your delivery, it’s no wonder Texas Health Harris Methodist Hospital has won this award for more than 20 years. Helping moms experience births according to their wishes, the hospital features everything from tub births to gentle cesareans. The hospital also has a Level III neonatal intensive care unit connected to Cook Children’s Hospital. // 1301 Pennsylvania Ave., Fort Worth; 817/250-2000 texashealth.org/fw-baby
Best Birthing Centers
Creek Drive, Suite 101, Plano; 469/912-0727; planobirthplace.com DENTON COUNTY: INANNA BIRTH AND WOMEN’S CARE
Certified nurse-midwife Jean Sala leads the team at Inanna Birth and Women’s Care, which offers natural births and water births in a safe, home-like environment. Inanna provides support before and after pregnancy as well, offering family planning services, health care, CPR and fitness classes and hormone therapy. // 1823 N. Locust St., Denton; 940/483-1569 inannabirth.com TARRANT COUNTY: FORT WORTH BIRTHING & WELLNESS CENTER
Located in the heart of downtown Fort Worth’s medical district, Fort Worth Birthing & Wellness Center is staffed by four certified nursemidwives who provide prenatal, labor and delivery, newborn and postpartum care. Experience labor from the comfort of a fullsize bed in one of the spacious birth suites, or opt for a roomy tub. During your stay, you’ll have access to Wi-Fi and a full-size private kitchen. The center is only blocks away from Texas Health Harris Methodist Hospital in case of a emergency. // 622 Hemphill St., Fort Worth; 817/878-2737 fwbirthcenter.com
COLLIN COUNTY: PLANO BIRTHPLACE
Readers loved their experiences at Plano Birthplace, the only certified nurse-midwife owned and operated birth center in Plano. Mom can keep comfortable in one of the two birthing suites, each outfitted with soaking tubs, walk-in showers and beds. The full-service midwifery care facility offers Birth Boot Camp childbirth classes as well as prenatal, postpartum and well-woman care. // 5172 Village
Best Doulas COLLIN COUNTY: TRACY DUBOIS & JESSIE PRIM
Moms recommend Tracy DuBois because of her 20-plus years of experience as a certified birth doula and childbirth educator. DuBois offers support for moms throughout pregnancy and delivery, and provides post2019 | baby
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pregnancy partum support as a lactation counselor and sleep educator. Starting this year, she also offers maternity and family health coaching, infant sleep consultations and private childbirth classes. // Dallas-Fort Worth area; 239/222-5474 mothersknotdoula.com With five kids and three grandchildren of her own, Jessie Prim brings a personal understanding to her 35 years as a certified childbirth educator and certified doula. Prim has experience with hospital births, home births, VBACs, water births and more. She also works with expecting at-risk women, and has developed postpartum classes and childbirth classes for moms on bedrest in North Texas. // Plano; 972/208-1591 DALLAS COUNTY: MELISSA ESPEY-MUELLER
Espey-Mueller has won Best Doula year after year for helping to guide women through pregnancy, childbirth and postpartum care. Founded in 1999 by Espey-Mueller, North Dallas Doula Associates has established relationships with local hospitals, physicians, nurses and midwives and serves more than 500 families each year. Services include maternity concierge, lactation consultants, and placenta encapsulation. Espey-Mueller also serves as the director of parent education at Medical City Dallas. // 107 Murray St., Dallas; 469/360-3810 northdallasdoulas.com DENTON COUNTY: MARIA POKLUDA
Moms trust Maria Pokluda not just because of her credentials—but they certainly are impressive. The mom of four owns Great Expectations Birth and teaches our readers’ favorite childbirth class. 16
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Pokluda has more than 15 years of experience and specializes in VBACs and pregnancy after infertility. // Dallas-Fort Worth area; 214/223-0226; greatexpectationsbirth.com TARRANT COUNTY: BARBARA DAVIS
With a dual certification in birth and postpartum doula services and training in breastfeeding education and placenta encapsulation, Davis knows a thing or two about caring for expecting moms. Davis provides hospital, birth center and home births. Her services range from scheduling inductions to supporting women so they know they aren’t alone during their pregnancy. She meets soon-to-be mothers as early in their pregnancy as they like. Recently, Davis assisted in founding the Inclusive Birth Workers of Tarrant County to ensure all couples have the birth care they need. // DallasFort Worth area; 682/777-3932; birthfortworth.com
Best Midwives COLLIN COUNTY: AMY GILES
Repeat winner Amy Giles has more than 15 years of experience supporting moms. As owner and clinical director of Allen Birthing Center, the certified nurse-midwife attends birth center, hospital and home births. Her new practice, ABC Women’s Wellness, offers support for women long before and after baby is born, through biotin-based hormone therapy, neurofeedback and nitric oxide support during labor, IUD placement and postpartum depression treatment. // 406 W. Main St., Allen; 214/495-9911 allenbirthingcenter.com
DALLAS COUNTY: JOHANNA CONGLETON,
A mother with more than 10 years of experience in midwifery, Johanna Congleton works to build trust between herself and her clients, offering personalized birth and health options, including mental and emotional health care. As a hospital-based midwife, Congleton is able to care for women with high blood pressure, diabetes, twin births and those who have previously had cesarean births. // 3611 Swiss Ave., Dallas; 214/975-3937 dallasmidwifeassociates.com DENTON COUNTY: HEATHER CAUDELL
With more than 26 years of nursing experience and 14 years as a certified nurse-midwife, Heather Caudell is known as a caring and highly trained labor guide for expecting moms. She has more than 1,680 births under her belt and expertise in high-risk pregnancies. Caudell seeks to unite midwifery and medicine, and regularly works with the OB-GYNs at Obstetrics & Gynecology Associates if delivery complications arise. // 4001 Long Prairie Road, Suite 150, Flower Mound; 972/420-1470 fmobgyn.com TARRANT COUNTY: LISSA GOBLE
Before receiving her midwifery and doctorate of nursing practice degree from Baylor University, Lissa Goble worked in labor and delivery as a registered nurse for 16 years. During an appointment, Goble learns about a woman’s individual needs in order to provide customized care. She has experience assisting women in both a hospital and birth center setting, including providing epidurals. Currently, Goble serves women with low-risk pregnancies who wish to have a natural birth at the Fort Worth Birthing & Wellness Center. // 622 Hemphill St., Fort Worth; 817/878-2737 fwbirthcenter.com ●
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Moms stay loyal to Medical City Plano, thanks to a strong postpartum community that offers a weekly meet-up group and weekly classes that cover what to expect at each stage of labor, different birth-plan options and comfort measures like anesthesia and relaxation techniques. When the big day comes, moms-to-be also choose Medical City Plano because it really feels more like a hotel than a hospital. Labor rooms are equipped with adjustable lighting, while the spacious and private postpartum suites each feature memory-foam beds, a bathroom with tub, a kitchenette, a bedroom and a lounge area. After baby arrives, you’ll likely be hungry. Order a celebratory meal or send Dad to order food from the Dine on Demand service. The hospital also offers an on-site newborn nursery, a 24-hour obstetrics hospitalist and neonatology coverage. If needed, the hospital’s Level III neonatal intensive care unit also has a cuddling program for high-risk and premature babies.
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After Giving Birth, Relax in Our Suites BECAUSE EVERY MOM DESERVES THE BEST. There’s a reason why Texas Health Dallas was voted “Best Place to Have a Baby” and the “Best Place for Childbirth Education” in Dallas County. Texas Health Dallas supports pregnant women throughout their entire pregnancy with a mobile app, weekly updates on your pregnancy and the Texas Health Moms Facebook group. Feel prepared by taking classes, such as baby care basics, breastfeeding, prenatal yoga, natural childbirth and many more that are available online and in-person. Once the big day gets a little closer, you can look forward to a hotel-like room with quality hospital care. To take your experience a step further, consider upgrading to a luxury suite package that includes amenities such as hotelquality linens, fresh flowers, personalized refreshments or even a manicure or pedicure for an additional fee. With so many incredible amenities, Mom will feel her best when she goes home. And the support continues with Mommy Mixers, support groups, and mom/baby fitness classes.
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We’re Ready, Baby! The Family Birthplace at Texas Health Allen offers eight spacious birth suites that have a spa-like atmosphere and encourages bonding of new families. One suite offers a large tub for any moms who are interested in hydrotherapy during labor. After your birth, mom can get some much-needed recovery time in our suites that include a large flat screen TV, free Internet, aromatherapy diffusers, Bluetooth speakers, large private bathrooms and a comfortable sleeper sofa for overnight guests. During her stay mom will enjoy room service dining and a special celebratory meal served by your bedside. At the end of the stay, your bundle of joy goes home with a beautiful plush blanket. ALLEN | 972-747-1000 TEXASHEALTH.ORG/ALLEN-MOM
Have a Happy Birth Day! Texas Health Alliance knows that details make all the difference when creating a happy and healthy environment for mom, baby and family. From room service, to room temperature, to watching videos about caring for your newborn—these are all things that can be conveniently done on a tablet located next to your bed. During your stay, gourmet room service is available for moms to enjoy and after delivery, a special celebratory meal is delivered the room for mom and a guest to enjoy—because it’s no easy task bringing new life into the world.
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Here, Every Day is Mother’s Day Texas Health Arlington Memorial wants to help every soon-to-be mom have the birth experience she wants. The birth and recovery take place in one of the newly renovated labor and delivery rooms with modern décor. The new postpartum suites also include a comfortable sleeper sofa for an overnight guest and create a calm and a welcome environment for new families. Plus, if your baby needs extra care, you can relax knowing that there is a 20-bed level III NICU that provides 24-hour care to premature infants.
ARLINGTON | 682-207-1441 TEXASHEALTH.ORG/ARLINGTON-MOM
With You Every Baby Step of the Way At Texas Health Denton, over 2,000 babies are delivered each year, so being voted as the “Best Place to Have a Baby” in Denton County is not a surprise. The hospital offers an assortment of parenting classes such as prepared childbirth, baby care basics and sibling class—all to help families prepare for a new baby. Room service dining and spacious birth suites encourage an enjoyable and relaxing experience. And if after the birth, your baby needs some extra care, Texas Health Denton has a brand new NICU equipped with large, private rooms for each patient and adjustable circadian rhythm lighting to help assist with development. At Texas Health Denton we’re with you every baby step of the way. DENTON | 940-305-2409 TEXASHEALTH.ORG/DENTON-MOM
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The First Gift to Your Newborn For 20 years, Texas Health Fort Worth has been voted the “Best Place to have a Baby� in Tarrant County. The hospital supports every type of birth, from natural to high-risk pregnancies, and has epidurals, nitrous oxide and laboring in water if additional pain management is needed. The hospital also offers a wide variety of classes such as baby care, sibling class, natural childbirth and breastfeeding. Every uniquely designed and soothing maternity suite is equipped with a spacious shower or bathtub for comfort during labor, and at the end of the stay, mom and a special guest can enjoy a celebratory meal before going home.
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Hotel-like Suites and Compassionate Care Texas Health HEB has dedicated itself to providing a peaceful atmosphere that encourages the bonding of new families. The hospital has 9 private and modern labor and delivery suites equipped with a flat-screen TV, free WiFi access, family-centered care with overnight accommodations and complimentary room service for mom. Moms and babies who need it can also receive 24/7 anesthesia, OB and neonatal care as well as inpatient and outpatient lactation support. To make the transition home as smooth as possible, the NICU also provides a room where parents can spend the night with their infant prior to discharge.
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Bundles of Joy Delivered Daily Texas Health Plano has a pleasant, quiet and luxurious environment for the new family to spend the first precious moments together. During labor, we know pain management is different for each mom-to-be, which is why IV medication, nitrous oxide and laboring in water are all options for your birth. However, the best part after your birth is enjoying a special meal of steak and lobster for mom and a guest to celebrate their new bundle of joy. And should your baby need additional care, Texas Health Plano has a Level IV NICU to care for premature, ill and high-risk infants. To help mom adjust to motherhood, Texas Health Plano hosts mommy mixers and support groups to connect women who may be experiencing the same challenges and celebrations that all newborns bring. PLANO | 972-972-8229 TEXASHEALTH.ORG/PLANO-MOM
Helping You Breathe Before Labor Too. The spacious rooms at Texas Health Southwest are as inviting as the family and friends that surround you. Texas Health Southwest focuses on family-centered care during your birth experience through offering a “Gentle Cesarean,� which allows mom to watch the miracle of her baby being born. After your birth, Mom can rest and recover easily in one of the 14 soothing and private maternity suites and enjoy various hotel-like amenities, such as complimentary room service and free Internet access, so you can keep everyone updated on your happy and healthy baby.
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New Mom: Madison McKinley Isner
ince launching an eponymous jewelry line with her mother in 2017, Madison McKinley Isner has made headlines for her unique aesthetic. Just like her, the collection is equal parts city sophistication and rustic charm, inspired by the designer’s Dallas upbringing and summers spent at her family’s Wyoming ranch. Last September, Isner, 26, took a brief hiatus from her responsibilities as designer and creative director to welcome Hunter Grace, her first child with husband John Isner, the professional tennis player. Now, six months into motherhood, the new mom is acclimated to her new normal and heading back to the design studio with more fervor than ever. IS THERE ANYTHING YOU MISS ABOUT PREGNANCY? I miss
the same page and really communicating about that is key. We sat down and talked about expectations. That was really good. Once I voiced what I needed from him we started sailing smoothly.
ARE YOU FEELING SETTLED INTO MOTHERHOOD? I don’t
HOW HAVE YOU BALANCED YOUR WORK ON THE JEWELRY LINE WITH A NEW BABY? It
knowing she’s in there safe. There’s something about the bond that you have when they’re in your belly. But I love having her in the world.
think you’re ever settled. She’s changing so much. As soon as you get the schedule figured out, it changes. I don’t think I have it figured out, but I definitely feel more comfortable. I can get in the car with her to run an errand and be OK. HOW DID YOU AND JOHN NAVIGATE THIS HUGE CHANGE AS A COUPLE? One step at a
time. It’s such an adjustment. You have to realize you’re on the same team working toward the same goal: keeping her happy and healthy. Staying on
depends on the day. When she naps I go to the office and work. And when John’s in town we take turns. I’m lucky that I get to work from home so I can make my own hours. Before the baby I wasn’t as intentional with my time, but now time is so limited. No moment is wasted. ARE THERE THINGS YOU’RE LOOKING FORWARD TO LAYERING BACK INTO YOUR LIFE NOW THAT HUNTER GRACE IS A BIT OLDER? I try to take
time for myself every day,
whether it’s meditating, doing my devotional or doing some yoga moves as I watch her play. My mom has always told me, “When Mommy is happy, baby is happy.” I took that to heart. When you’re happy and you’re your best self, you can give your best self to your baby. HOW HAS THE REALITY OF MOTHERHOOD DIFFERED FROM EXPECTATIONS YOU HAD? The little everyday things
were more of a shock to me— like you have to have someone watch her while you shower. I babysat when I was younger, so I thought I had a good idea of what it would look like. But you have no idea until you’re actually a mom. It’s a lot harder than I thought and I have so much respect for my mom now. Moms are awesome. WHAT’S BEEN MOST CHALLENGING? Realizing how
selfish I was before I had her. I used to like to wake up, have my coffee and do my devotional. You have to sacrifice that time and figure out a different routine. Realizing I’m not on my own time anymore was hard; I’m on her time. WHAT’S BEEN MOST REWARDING? That first smile. The love
they already give to you is so incredible. It’s rewarding to see her wake up every morning and know that you get to take care of her. ● 2019 | baby
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Madison’s Mommy Must-Haves 1
Hunter Grace loves the WubbaNub pacifiers. I never thought I would use them, but they make it so much easier for her.
2 The Doona car seat/stroller is a game changer, especially for our on-the go, travel lifestyle. It’s a must. 3 The Marpac Hushh sound machine makes naptime easier when we’re traveling. 4 Amen to the women who wrote Moms On Call. The schedule in here is the one I follow for Hunter Grace. We started trying to follow the schedule at two weeks. It’s hard to know what to do as a new mom and this helped so much. 5
We just signed up for Monti Kids, a service that sends you toys every few months. There are videos on the website that show you how to use all the toys and how to present them to your kids and interact. It’s incredible.
6 I use Truffle clear bags for everything. Instead of a diaper bag, I just carry a tote with Truffle bags. I’m always thirsty, and with breastfeeding, you have to drink so much water it’s crazy. So I always carry a 40-ounce Hydro Flask water bottle.
8 The Babyzen Yoyo stroller is great if you need a stroller to just walk around with. It’s small, has everything you need and is easy to travel with. 9 Hunter Grace loves a steam shower—and with it being cold and flu season, I think it’s so important.
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EASY EXERCISE an’t seem to find any spare time to get to the gym since baby arrived? Let these workout resources help you get back in shape by allowing you to slip on your yoga pants and sneakers and head to the family room, or take baby with you to sweat, tone or center yourself in an hour or less. Work From Home BARRE3
Stream a step-by-step fitness plan—which includes cardio, stretching and mindfulness— every week and exercise when it’s convenient for sleepdeprived you. Or visit Barre3 locations in Coppell, Frisco, Plano or Richardson, which each have a play area for staff members to watch your little during most class times (book in advance to secure a spot). At the Frisco location, a new 45-minute class is offered for moms who want that 60-minute workout in less time. Bonus: Mention DFWChild when you book, and get a free class and play lounge pass. Cost: $29 per month to stream workouts, after a 15-day free trial; in-person class packages start at $23 for a single class and $5 for play lounge privileges // Multiple locations; barre3.com ELECT WELLNESS
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interval training and more. As part of the program, a registered dietitian helps you make healthy habit changes (like snacking on hummus and veggies instead of ice cream during middle-of-thenight feedings). Cost: Packages start at $299 per month; you can also build your own program to suit your budget and schedule // Dallas-Fort Worth area; 214/736-9365; electwellness.com YOGIS ON THE GO
This Dallas-Fort Worth mobile yoga service brings instructors with years of experience to guide you through a personalized 60-minute practice, training just you, you and your hubby, or you and your girlfriends. Cost: Introductory sessions from $35; single sessions from $99; discounts given for package purchases // Dallas-Fort Worth area; 214/550-2881; yogisonthego.com
Bring Baby Along BABY BOOT CAMP
Baby Boot Camp makes working out simple with outdoor exercise that involves your new addition (and their stroller). The Stroller Fitness class incorporates
aerobics, strength training and core exercises. For the overachievers, there are 10K and half-marathon programs too. Plus, the free moms club serves as an informal playgroup for you and your kiddos. Cost: Try a class for free. Then there’s a $59 registration fee, and prices for class packages vary. // Multiple locations; babybootcamp.com BAMI YOGA
Build strength in your abs, pelvic area and whole body while spending time with baby at Mommy and Me Postnatal Yoga classes held at BundleBorn in Frisco. The class is 30 minutes with 20 minutes of community time afterward, and drop-ins are welcome. Cost: $90 for six weeks and six consecutive classes // 972/998-9642 or mimi@bamiyoga.com; bamiyoga. com FIT4MOM
Tone and sculpt your post-baby body at FIT4MOM’s Stroller Strides, which incorporates—what else?—your baby in a stroller. Or practice ballet, Pilates, barre, yoga and stroller-based exercises to help you build strength, tone and improve posture in Stoller Barre. FIT4MOM communities called Our Village include mom-centric social outings such as moms night out and book clubs too. Cost: One-time registration fee of $75, plus membership fees from $40 per month // Multiple locations; fit4mom.com ●
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CLUBBING, MOMMY STYLE reschool, playgroups and birthday parties, oh my! Socializing kids from an early age tops the priority list of many parents. But that doesn’t mean your social calendar can’t flourish during motherhood as well. Mommy groups connect mothers from similar parenting backgrounds or geographic locations for anything from play dates to picnics to moms’ nights out. We’ve rounded up some of the best groups in Dallas-Fort Worth for both seasoned and first-time moms. Faith-Based Groups
If a desire for religious fellowship resonates with you and your family, a faith-based mommy group may be right for you. Many faith-based groups encourage new members of all backgrounds to bring their questions to meetings. ARGYLE M.O.M.S
Argyle Moms on Mondays meets every week for everything from Bible study at the Argyle United Methodist Church to ladies-only nights out to familyfriendly back-to-school parties. Contact the church to learn about more moms-only study groups and events. 9033 Fort Worth Drive, Argyle; 940/464-1333; argyleumc.org FEARLESS MOM
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can join the Fearless Mom group at their local Fellowship Church outpost. On Wednesday mornings and evenings, the group gathers for Bible readings and discussions, while kids enjoy some supervised playtime. (Child care is not available at all times and locations. Check your local group.) Visit the website for the schedule of bimonthly family events across North Texas, from park play dates to museum trips. Multiple locations fellowshipchurch.com MOMSNEXT OF RICHARDSON
Moms with kids of all ages meet twice a month. Visit the website for information on the daytime meeting options; contact Andrea Hauglie at 214/929-3087 to learn more about membership. 503 N. Central Expressway, Richardson; fumcr.com/women_ MOMSNext
MOTHERS OF PRESCHOOLERS (MOPS)
This international organization has several groups in the Dallas area. Many local churches sponsor MOPS groups and host two meetings per month. Groups can range from 10–200 members. Multiple locations; mops.org WATERMARK MINISTRIES
Watermark church offers several classes for parents, including sessions for pregnant mothers, first-time parents and any parents seeking Biblebased fellowship. Multiple locations; 214/361-2275; watermark.org
For Mother-toMother Connections Whether you’re new to town, new to motherhood or just new to mommy groups, these clubs can provide friendship with like-minded mothers with same-age children in the Dallas-Fort Worth area. DALLAS MOMS CLUB
Play groups and outings for kids with stay-at-home moms connect children from infancy through preschool. Potential members must live in North Dallas and complete a tryout process to match children into age groups. meetup.com/dallasmomsclub
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This local nonprofit group is dedicated to serving moms in Colleyville, Grapevine and Southlake. Family outings and play dates let kids bond while burning off some excess energy, while ladies-only gatherings like monthly book clubs, ladies’ nights out and member mingles allow Mom the chance to have some fun without the family. gcsmomsleague.org KELLER AREA MOMS
The nonprofit serves moms in Keller, Alliance, Haslet, Roanoke, Watauga and neighboring areas. Moms-only social gatherings and philanthropic opportunities are just part of the membership benefits, which also include play dates, holiday parties and couples events. Email kellerareamomsgroup@gmail.com for more information. kellerareamoms.com MOMS CLUB
Support groups for at-home mothers can be particularly helpful for moms just leaving the workplace. MOMS Club offers kids’ days out, moms’ nights out, family outings and meetings at chapters in the Dallas area. Multiple locations; momsclub.org MOCHA MOMS, DFW SOUTH/FORT WORTH
Meeting the third Sunday of the month, Mocha Moms is a support group for moms of color. In addition to play dates, the group hosts family and couples activities as well. Moms who are interested can attend two meetings for free before deciding to join. For membership inquiries email mochamomsdallassouth@ gmail.com. // mochamomsdallassou.wixsite.com/mochamoms MOCHA MOMS, INC. NORTH DALLAS CHAPTER
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Dallas chapter of Mocha Moms meets every week in the Dallas area. The group hosts play dates, moms’ nights out, family activities and community service initiatives. For membership inquiries email mochamomsnorthdallasinfo@gmail.com or reach out via Facebook. // facebook. com/mochamomsnorthdallas; mochamomsnorthdallas.net WYLIE MOMS & MORE
This group organizes social events for Wylie moms with children of all ages. Visit the Facebook page to inquire about joining. 469/361-6848; facebook.com/ wyliemomsandmore
For mothers of multiples
If no one can understand a mother like a fellow mother, the same principle certainly holds true for parents of multiples. Multiples of America specializes in connecting multiple-birth families through local member organizations. These local clubs offer children’s socials, moms’ retreats, support services and shared resources for parents of twins, triplets, quads and more. ARLINGTON MOTHERS OF MULTIPLES
Meets the first Tuesday of the month at 7pm at Pleasant Ridge Church of Christ. Join online. For more information email amomarlington@gmail.com. 6102 W. Pleasant Ridge Road, Arlington; amoms.info FORT WORTH MOTHERS OF MULTIPLES
Meetings take place every third Tuesday of the month (except December). Email membership@fwmom.org for membership inquiries. // fwmom.org LAKE CITIES MOTHERS OF MULTIPLES
Email lcmomvpmemberships@
gmail.com or reach out via Facebook at facebook.com/ groups/lcmom for membership inquiries and meeting times. lcmom.org METROCREST PARENTS OF MULTIPLES
Serves the Coppell, Carrollton, Lewisville, Flower Mound, Highland Village and surrounding DallasFort Worth area. // mpom.net NORTH DALLAS MOTHERS OF TWINS CLUB
Reach out via Facebook at facebook.com/ndmotc for inquiries and meeting times. // ndmotc.org PLANO AREA MOTHERS OF MULTIPLES
Email president@pamom.org for inquiries and meeting times. pamom.org
For single parents
Single parenting has its own unique set of challenges and rewards. Whether you’re a single parent by choice or by circumstance, surrounding yourself with other single parents to share resources and support can make all the difference. DALLAS FORT WORTH SINGLE MOTHERS BY CHOICE (DFWSMC)
Mothers who have chosen single parenthood can often feel marginalized by others. DFWSMC offers support, events and activities at least once per month. Serves all of Dallas-Fort Worth. meetup.com/dfw-single-mothersby-choice SINGLE & PARENTING
Various support groups around the Dallas area tackle the challenges of single parenting with tools such as video seminars, small-group discussions and workbooks. Leaders at local churches host weekly meetings. // Multiple locations; singleandparenting.org ●
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Best for Families: Babies ur readers are opinionated when it comes to classes and care for their little ones—it’s a parent’s prerogative to be picky, right? Here, find local parents’ picks for finding caregivers for the short and long term, teaching your little one essential life and social skills, and getting some much-needed shuteye. (These resources originally appeared in the February issues of CollinChild, DallasChild, FortWorthChild and NorthTexasChild magazines.) Best Child Care Centers for Infants
COLLIN, DALLAS AND DENTON COUNTIES: PRIMROSE SCHOOLS
Primrose Schools take each child’s unique developmental pace, learning style and interests into account with their Balanced Learning approach to child care. Kids as young as 6 weeks explore creative arts, social studies and STEAM subjects while also building language, literacy, physical and socialemotional skills. The first aid- and CPR-trained teachers are all experienced in child development. Go online for a virtual tour of programs and teachers at all Primrose School locations. // Multiple locations; primroseschools.com 38
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TARRANT COUNTY: BRIGHT HORIZONS
With a curriculum that includes lessons in science and the arts in addition to developing healthy habits, and experienced staff with more than 10 years of tenure, Bright Horizons has been rated Best Child Care Center for Infants again this year. Bright Horizons provides care for littles as young as 6 weeks old from 6am–8pm. Aside from watching over your little ones, staff members teach them skills that will contribute to their success in school and beyond. Schedule a tour online to visit your local center. // 1709 N. Enderly Place, Fort Worth; 817/927-6249 // 201 Jones St., Fort Worth; 817/3340036; brighthorizons.com
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COLLIN, DALLAS AND TARRANT COUNTIES: CARE.COM
Whether you’re looking for a last-minute sitter or a full-time nanny, repeat winner Care.com has candidates for nearly every occasion. (Academic tutors, after-school care, day care centers and caregivers trained in special needs are also available.) Visit the website or download the easy-to-use free app, to search for local sitters by ZIP code. Basic membership is free, but premium membership ($147 per year) provides access to a sitter’s customer ratings and references. Care.com’s HomePay system streamlines payment and provides advice for budgeting and sitter taxes. // Dallas-Fort Worth area; 877/227-3115; care.com
Best Parent & Baby Classes
COLLIN, DALLAS AND TARRANT COUNTIES: THE LITTLE GYM
Readers love their experiences with the creative classes at The Little Gym, a repeat winner. The weekly 45-minute classes are designed to improve your child’s cognitive, social and motor skills. Enjoy exploration time at the start of class, when
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parents and their babies (ages 4 months to 3 years) can meet and play on the gym’s red mat before moving on to activities to get your kiddo up and moving around the gym. Pricing and class dates vary per gym; call to sign up. // Locations in Dallas, Fort Worth, Frisco, Keller, Mansfield, Plano and Saginaw; thelittlegym.com DENTON COUNTY: WINKIDS
For more than 20 years, WinKids has offered a creative environment for parents to learn, grow and move with their babes. Starting at 6 months old, children can build social, motor and coordination skills by joining classes in developmental gymnastics, martial arts, tumbling, music instruction and more. Call or go online to sign up for a free orientation class and register for weekly 45-minute sessions. // 3000 Waketon Road, Flower Mound; 972/355-9988; winkids.net
Best Infant Swim Classes
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You and your infant will learn swim essentials during the weekly free Bathtime Babies class for babies 2–5 months old. Babies float and kick (with Mom’s help, of course) while you’re given ideas for songs and activities to encourage bonding and comfort in the water. The Waterbabies program teaches kids as young as 6 months more advanced swim techniques like kicking for up to 10 feet and holding their breath underwater for 10 seconds. Sign up for a free Waterbabies orientation class or register for a course online; prices vary by location. Multiple locations; emlerswimschool.com
DENTON COUNTY: AQUAKIDS SWIM SCHOOL
Babies as young as 2 months can practice swimming skills in the school’s indoor 92-degree pools, seven days a week. Private lessons are available, but group lessons are no more than six kids per class to ensure that your child receives the necessary attention. Babies at least 6 months old practice floating, kicking and submerging under water for five to six seconds in the entry-level Waterbaby class. Younger infants can dip their toes in the pool and join the free Waterbitties course until they reach 6 months. // 3409 Cross Timbers Road, Flower Mound; 972/724-1528; aquakids.com
Best Sleep Specialists COLLIN COUNTY: SWEET DREAMS INFANT CARE
The “dream team” behind Sweet Dreams Infant Care knows firsthand how sleep deprivation can affect a family. With children and grandchildren of their own, owners Pam Jones, a registered nurse, and Pat Porrey, a certified doula and infant care specialist, are dedicated to get Mom, Dad and baby plenty of z’s. During a phone or in-home overnight consultation, the team will design a sleep plan and teach you how to create a positive sleep environment for baby to self-soothe in the night. Learn more sleep training secrets in Jones and Porrey’s new book, Raising Confident Parents —Secrets from Baby Nurses and Parents About Pregnancy, Infant Care and Achieving Sweet Dreams. // Dallas-Fort Worth area; 708/429-2229 sweetdreamsinfantcare.com
DALLAS COUNTY: REST TO YOUR NEST WITH MARY CANTWELL
Award-winning sleep specialist Mary Cantwell of Rest to Your Nest can help your tiny tots catch all their z’s. She serves littles from ages 4 months to 5 years and assesses your child’s room to develop a plan with you based on your child’s needs. Before scheduling a two-hour consultation, you’ll fill out a form detailing your child’s current sleep habits and goals, and you’ll leave the meeting with a game plan. Sleep packages begin at $465. Dallas-Fort Worth area; 972/6389974; resttoyournest.com TARRANT AND DENTON COUNTIES: NEWBORN NIGHTINGALES
For more than six years, Newborn Nightingales has been the go-to for more than 1,000 families in search of that elusive good night’s sleep. Founder Melissa O’Neill brings more than a decade of experience as a labor and delivery nurse to her company, which offers overnight RN care for your baby as well as sleep consultations by phone, email or in person. Night nurses will feed your baby according to your wishes, plus clean your baby’s pump, bottles and laundry as well as stock the nursery. An RN will be available to answer any of your postpartum care questions for a full six months after signing up. Newborn Nightingales also offers a Rest Registry so that Mom and Dad can crowdfund their way to a better night’s sleep. // DallasFort Worth area; 214/632-1673; newbornnightingales.com ● 2019 | baby
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2019 When it comes to your health and the health of your baby, there’s no room for compromise. Each year we call upon our readers to nominate a special doctor who’s gone above and beyond. Visit our website’s Mom Approved directory to find your favorite future doc.
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Michelle Jowdy, DO Pediatrics 5x Mom Approved Michelle Jowdy, DO of Baylor Scott & White Family Medicine - Lakewood provides personalized and comprehensive pediatric care for infants, children and adolescents through age 18. Dr. Jowdy is board-certified and focuses on wellness, prevention and education. Her areas of interest include asthma and allergy management, childhood obesity, and breastfeeding education. School and sports physicals are offered as well as same day sick appointments. We are proud to have Dr. Jowdy nominated by the readers of DallasChild magazine as a Mom Approved Doctor. For an appointment, call 469-800-7900 or for more information, visit bswhealth.com/FMLakewood. Baylor Scott & White Family Medicine - Lakewood 6301 Gaston Ave., Ste. 370 Dallas, TX 75214 bswhealth.com/FMLakewood
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James E. Schermerhorn, MD Obstetrics & Gynecology 5x Mom Approved Women’s healthcare is Dr. Jim Schermerhorn’s passion. He has been living and working in the East Dallas area for 30 years. The moment you walk into the office you’ll be treated like family. Dr. Schermerhorn provides the most up-to-date medical care, from obstetrics to minimally invasive treatments like da Vinci™ robotic surgery, aiming to get you back to your life quickly. His medical care focuses on your very specific needs. Your story is what matters and Dr. Schermerhorn will take the time to learn about you. Let Dr. Schermerhorn show you that personalized, family-centered medicine still exists! In fact, Dr. Schermerhorn personally delivers almost all of his patients. His practice is located close to White Rock Lake. Serving as chairman of the Obstetrics, Gynecology and Pediatrics Department, at the new City Hospital at White Rock, Dr. Schermerhorn is your healthcare champion in the White Rock community. Please call today to speak with a staff member about scheduling your appointment. James E. Schermerhorn, MD, FACOG 1151 N. Buckner Blvd., Ste. 206 Dallas, TX 75218 • 214-320-8447
Jonathan Snead, MD Obstetrics & Gynecology 4x Mom Approved Jonathan Snead, MD, and Angela George, WHNP-BC, of Alliance Women’s Healthcare are accepting new patients. Alliance Women’s Healthcare has been serving the north Fort Worth area for over fourteen years. Dr. Snead won Physician of the Year for Texas Health Resources at Alliance (2015), Keller Best of the Best OBGYN (2012–18), Living Magazine Best of the Best OBGYN (2014–18) and a FortWorthChild magazine Mom Approved Doctor (2015–2018). Come see why so many patients and physicians alike trust us and recommend our practice! Dr. Snead has hospital privileges at Texas Health Resources at Alliance.
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INTERVIEW NICOLE JORDAN P H OTO G R A P H Y A M A N DA DAV I S P H OTO G R A P H Y
second-Time Mom: Carly Patterson Caldwell
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arly Patterson Caldwell is no stranger to balance— she danced, leapt and tumbled her way across a four-inch-wide balance beam to cinch gold at the 2004 Summer Olympic Games, cementing her status as an American legend. Since retiring from the sport due to injury, the McKinney resident has experimented with singing, writing and motivational speaking, a career she enjoys to this day. Now 31, she’s reinventing herself once again as a wife to Mark and a mom to Graham, 1, and Emmaline, born in March. In stark contrast to her competitive years, Caldwell’s current day-to-day requires a different kind of balance—and true to form, she’s taking it all in stride. CONGRATULATIONS ON BABY NO. 2! Thank you! It took us
two years to get pregnant with Graham and we went through fertility treatment, so to have him and then to get pregnant so easy on the second go-round was a sweet surprise. We are so in love with little Emmaline! CAN YOU SHARE A LITTLE BIT ABOUT YOUR FERTILITY JOURNEY? We tried on our own for
about a year and nothing was happening. Finally, I got started on Clomid. It didn’t work, so we talked with a fertility doctor and realized I have polycystic ovary syndrome and some other things that lower my chances of getting pregnant on my own. We started our first round of fertility treatment and got pregnant but had a miscarriage. Ultimately, we did three intrauterine insemination cycles and on the third one, we got pregnant with Graham.
DO YOU FEEL LIKE YOU’RE IN THE GROOVE WITH GRAHAM, NOW THAT HE’S ALMOST 1 1/2?
I do for the most part. There are curveballs, but we’re in that sweet spot where he’s walking but stable and you don’t have to constantly trail behind him. … Parenting is very hard. It’s definitely the hardest thing we’ve ever done. WHAT’S YOUR SUPPORT SYSTEM LIKE? Luckily, my husband’s
parents and my mom live right down the street from us. I rely on them a lot. Honestly, I don’t know how people do it without family nearby. I’m super lucky. HOW ARE YOU FEELING IN YOUR SKIN THESE DAYS? I feel
like I’ve been in the trenches with motherhood. People make it look really easy—and maybe that’s just social media these days—but it’s not. Until you
experience it, you just don’t get how difficult it is. Most of the time, being able to get my hair straightened or my face washed is a challenge. WAS IT DIFFICULT TO PUT WORK ON HOLD? I’m going
through a period of not really knowing what’s next for me. I’ve always had goals, but now I’m busy being a mom 24/7. It’s amazing and something I prayed for, but it was hard for me to realize this is where I need to be. Being a full-time stay-at-home mom is the most important thing for me to do right now. DO YOU LOOK FORWARD TO RETURNING TO MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKING? I do. I enjoy shar-
ing my story and what I’ve been through—getting through things like injuries and dealing with failure. I would love to be able to share our fertility journey too. Reading others’ stories helped me so much. HOW DOES YOUR UNIQUE UPBRINGING SHAPE THE WAY YOU APPROACH PARENTING?
I want my kids to try different things. I want to see what they like and excel at. Gymnastics was always my choice. I wanted to be in the gym seven hours every day. My mom didn’t push me. It was my passion. I hope my kids are able to find that passion. The way I grew up was hard, but I wouldn’t change it for anything. ● 2019 | baby
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We love strolling the aisles of Target, especially on a cold day when we need to get out of the house. Play dates with friends and cousins are always fun. And our toddler loves going to KidStrong classes. Right now I’m reading Tough Stuff Parenting by the pastors of my church [Preston Trail Community Church]. The Boppy ComfyFit baby carrier is a game changer for me. I could never find one that was easy and that I could put on myself, and I can do that with this.
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My husband and I love to go on date nights in Historic Downtown McKinney. We also did a lot of traveling together pre-babies, so we like to go on one big trip a year. Last year, we went to Iceland, which was amazing!
6 We have a Halo Bassinest so Emmaline can sleep right next to my bed. I love being right there next to her and able to hear her, but she’s safe in her own space. 7
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I wasn’t allowed to do much working out while I was pregnant with Graham. But after having him, I enjoyed Title Boxing and Orangetheory classes. Find these items near you— see page 52. ●
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4 With Graham, I used the Glow Baby app to time our nursing sessions and keep up with milestones. I also enjoyed The Wonder Weeks app because it tells you what your baby is learning and experiencing.
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Playtime, Baby hile most parks offer big-kid swings and tall climbing structures, it can be tough to find features for the younger set, like baby swings and stroller-friendly walkways. Moms, look no further: These playgrounds offer something to please everyone in your brood, from crawlers to climbers, plus restrooms and easy parking to make your next family outing a walk in the park.
Collin County
Bob Woodruff Park Location: 2601 San Gabriel Drive in Plano. The park is next to Dooley Elementary School but has its own spacious parking lot. Why it’s great for moms and babies: The playground has two tot swings, three belt swings and one ADA compliant swing. Sidewalks lead from the parking lot to the playground. What big kids like: For older kids, the playground has six slides and a sand volleyball court. Kids can run around in the open field or accompany Mom and baby for a stroll around the pond. Good to know: There is no shade on the playground, but there is a pavilion and restrooms nearby. Because the playground can get crowded when school lets out in the afternoons, we recommend visiting on a weekday morning. 48
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Allan Shivers Park Location: 2222 Welborn St. in Dallas, at Texas Scottish Rite Hospital for Children. Park in the adjacent visitors’ lots off Maple or Oak Lawn avenues. Why it’s great for moms and babies: This bright, strolleraccessible playground is covered with rubber padding, and all play equipment is designed for children of all abilities and ages. There are also several pavilions with ceiling fans and a restroom with changing tables. What big kids like: Besides the climbing areas, older kids flock to the large dancing station with music and instruments. Good to know: The playground is shared with patients at Scottish Rite Hospital, so there may be times when it’s closed for special events. When the weather is not so nice, the playground is closed. Call
214/559-5000 for inquiries on park closures. Kiest Park Location: 3080 S. Hampton Road in Dallas. The more tot-friendly of the park’s two playgrounds is next to the tennis courts (and a row of parking spaces) at the north end of the park at Perryton Drive. Why it’s great for moms and babies: Kiest Park has awnings, stroller-friendly walkways and three play structures. Rubber padding beneath the slides ensures that littles won’t get hurt if they fall. Babies can swing in one of four baby swings and play with drums and toy cars. What big kids like: The designated play area for ages 5–12 has five slides and four swings. There are also 16 tennis courts, two basketball courts, a sand volleyball court, eight baseball/softball fields and seven soccer fields. Good to know: Water fountains and restrooms with changing tables are located inside the Kiest Park Fieldhouse, which is closed on Sundays.
Denton County
South Lakes Park Location: 556 Hobson Lane in Denton, near the intersection with Teasley Lane. Why it’s great for moms and babies: In the Tot Lot area, preschoolers play pretend in an Old
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West town, and babies find a row of swings just for them. Benches line the perimeter of the fenced-in playground for easy supervision. What big kids like: In addition to running up and down ramps to explore the castle-like playground, kids have play options to keep them occupied for hours: zip lines, rock-climbing walls, music stations, a wheelchair-accessible merrygo-round, and slides and swings. Good to know: Restrooms (without changing tables) and water fountains are only a short walk away from the playground.
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Adventure World Playground Location: 7451 Starnes Road in North Richland Hills. Park in the lot off Starnes. Why it’s great for moms and babies: Strollerfriendly paths meander between the woodchipped play areas, so Mom can push the stroller from the swingsets to the slides to the woodsy-themed climbing structures. There are a whopping eight swings for babies, and toddlers can waddle through the tree-trunk tunnel. What big kids like: It’s like a clubhouse in the woods, with slides patterned like logs, a climbing boulder, mushroom tables, tree-stump steps and a raccoon setting the scene. Good to know: If you want to avoid the crowd, we suggest you visit during a weekday morning. And diaper changes will need to take place in the car; restrooms do not have changing tables.
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North Park Location: 200 E. Dove Road in Southlake. The playground is a short walk from the expansive parking lot. Why it’s great for moms and babies: The fenced-in play area has a structure designed for ages 2–5, with rubber padding that makes it perfect for crawlers and walkers alike. The playground also features four swings, two equipped with baby seats. While the littles play, Mom can rest her feet at the partly shaded picnic area. What big kids like: The whole playground is straight out of a fairy-tale woodland, with logs, mushrooms and fanciful faces. Outside the play area are paved walkways and plenty of open space to run. Good to know: Well-cleaned restrooms (including a family restroom) with changing tables, water fountains and a concession area make it convenient to stay and play. ●
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A Furry Family Affair
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How to prepare your pet for life with littles
irst comes marriage, then comes baby, then comes family pet—or, first comes fur baby then human baby. Whichever category your family’s lullaby falls under, introducing your newest bundle of joy to your pets can be tricky, balancing bottles and diapers with walks or litter duty. We know this transition might be overwhelming, so we asked the experts how to make this transition seamless for your Brady Bunch. PLAN AHEAD
If you’re bringing a new baby into the mix, there are several steps you can take to prepare your pet for the newcomer. First, socialize your dog with children before baby arrives. “They can go to playgrounds or spend time with family members and friends who have children,” says Pia Silvani, director at the ASPCA Behavioral Rehabilitation Center. And once you have the stroller picked out, take it out for a spin with dog in hand, allowing him to feel the new speed and rhythm of your walks. In the home, Silvani recommends purchasing a doll that makes crying sounds to get your dog or cat accustomed to the new noises. You can also play baby-crying noises via YouTube. Also, get your pet used to not being the center of attention. “Before the child arrives, have certain periods of time when they are sitting and not doing anything, when the dog has to settle down and not demand attention,” she says. HOME TRAINING
When bringing home Baby, Silvani recommends first going into the house without your little one. “Have someone else come in with the baby and transfer the baby over to the parents,” she says. And as you’re introducing baby to their new home, be mindful of your dog’s space too. “Remember to protect the dog’s personal space, especially when the child starts to crawl,” Silvani 50
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says. “There has to be safe areas for the dog to go to that are off-limits to the child.” And if the thought of introducing your weekold baby to your adult dog or cat seems too overwhelming, it’s totally OK to save this occasion for once you and baby have settled in. “Feel empowered to be able to use a border or a fence to assist for the first day or two,” shares Jessica Lockhart, certified applied animal behaviorist and director of animal care and behavior at SPCA of Texas. PET TALK
Observe your pet’s behavior as you’re making the introduction. There are telltale signs that they may be nervous and uncomfortable about the new addition. “Dogs will walk up and lick the thing that is making it nervous,” says Lockhart. “A lot of parents interpret this as, ‘Oh, look how sweet—they are giving them a kiss,’ but that’s really called the ‘kiss to dismiss.’ [It’s] a sign that your dog is feeling pretty unsure of what’s happening.” If this happens, you should probably take things more slowly. Give the dog a few more days before creating a communal living space between the two. For cats, this might show up in excessive meowing. If your dog or cat is continually showing signs of being uncomfortable and nervous, Lockhart recommends talking to your vet. “There are some supplements that can help keep dogs’ and cats’ anxiety in check for these big transitions,” she says. ●
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Feeling overwhelmed by all the local child care options? It’s tough to find the right people to care for your child when you’re not around. Here’s a handy guide to make that important decision easier.
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Low student/teacher ratios. Individualized attention and learning. Hands-on, interactive activities to develop reading and math skills in brain-based learning.
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The Campus at Win Kids is a unique learning environment for age 3½–5 years. Gymnastics classes start at age 6 months. See ad on page 47.
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STOCK UP BRIDGET’S PREGNANCY MUSTHAVES From page 8
Dr. Barbara Sturm Hyaluronic Serum, $300 // molecular-cosmetics.com Augustinus Bader Rich Cream, $265 // augustinusbader.com Biologique Recherche Sérum Colostrum, from $68 biologique-recherche.com Vintner’s Daughter Active Botanical Serum, from $65 vintnersdaughter.com Hatch // hatchcollection.com ASOS // us.asos.com BB Pumps by Manolo Blahnik, from $625 // manoloblahnik.com Frye Ivy Sneaker, $198 // thefryecompany.com Dolce Riviera // 2950 McKinnon St., Dallas; 469/458-6623; dolceriviera.com Shinsei // 7713 Inwood Road, Dallas; 214/352-0005; shinseirestaurant.com
Hillstone // 8300 Preston Road, Suite A, Dallas; 214/691-8991 hillstone.com Hatch Belly Masks, $12 // hatchcollection.com
MADISON’S MOMMY MUST-HAVES From page 30
WubbaNub Pacifiers, $21.95 wubbanub.com Doona Car Seat and Stroller, $499 // shopdoona.com Marpac Hushh Sound Machine, from $29.95 // marpac.com Moms On Call, $17.95 // momsoncall.com Monti Kids, $297 per level montikids.com Hydro Flask Water Bottle, from $29.95 // hydroflask.com Babyzen Yoyo Stroller, from $449 // babyzen.com
CARLY’S MOMMY MUST-HAVES from page 46
KidStrong, $99 per month for
6 months // 9090 First Street, Frisco; 469/305-7457; 3000 Grapevine Mills Parkway Suite 329, Grapevine; kidstrong.com Tough Stuff Parenting, $14.99 harvesthousepublishers.com Boppy ComfyFit Baby Carrier, from $69.64 // boppy.com Glow Baby App, Free // Apple App Store and Google Play; glowing.com/baby The Wonder Weeks App, $2.99 Apple App Store and Google Play; thewonderweeks.com Historic Downtown McKinney 111 N. Tennessee St., McKinney mckinneytexas.org Halo Bassinest, from $209.99 halosleep.com Title Boxing, $109–$135 per month for a membership; $25 per drop-in class // Multiple locations; titleboxingclub.com Orangetheory, $6–$18 per class (pricing might vary by location) Multiple locations; orangetheoryfitness.com ●
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Confessions
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Mommy Fails
“I threw a milk-drenched nursing pad in the hamper. When laundry day came, I was shocked to find that the milk had spoiled and left black mold on everything it touched.”
From very spoiled laundry to welllearned lessons about diaper changing
—BERNICE, COLLEYVILLE
YOU KNOW YOU’RE TIRED WHEN YOU WAKE UP, STUMBLE TO THE BATHROOM, KEEP THE LIGHTS OFF SO YOU DON’T WAKE YOUR HUSBAND, GRAB YOUR TOOTHBRUSH AND PUT WHAT LOOKS LIKE A TUBE OF SENSODYNE ON YOUR TOOTHBRUSH. YOU QUICKLY LEARN IT’S DESITIN BUTT PASTE YOU’RE CLEANING YOUR TEETH WITH.
“If you have an electric breast pump, always make sure it’s charged if you plan to pump away from home. When I went to pump on my break at work the pump was dead, and I didn’t have the charger with me. I ended up squeezing the milk out.” —STEPHANIE, WATAUGA
“When my son was a baby, I once rushed to change his diaper in the trunk of the car while running errands. I guess I wasn’t paying attention when I slid his pants back on, and the next thing you know, he’s squirming around in his stroller with both feet sticking out of one pant leg. He looked like a mermaid in denim.” —ANGELA, LAS COLINAS
—SHELLEY, HIGHLAND VILLAGE
“My 9-month-old had a double ear infection and the doctor gave him antibiotics. One morning I smelled something. I looked in the back of his diaper, but it was too late. Imagine a tube of toothpaste rapidly shooting up—but poop.” —ANNIE, PLANO
“My baby girl unlatched while I was breastfeeding. Milk was still coming out and my 2-year-old son said, ‘Mommy, you are a cow!’” —MARÍA, ALLEN
Surely a baby can’t poop in the time it takes you to get the diaper pail right by your feet—wrong! Sneezes while changing are dangerous too. Moral of the story: Never have baby on the changing table without a diaper.” —ANASTASIA, CARROLLTON
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BABY QUESTION #467
IS THAT COLOR EVEN NORMAL? Newborn questions? We’ve got answers. When you’re a new parent the questions never end. At Cook Children’s our pediatricians are here to help answer all of them. Schedule a consultation with a pediatrician and explore the many articles from experts in newborn care at newborncenter.org.