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Our own Shef dives deep into Dragon Con to give you the tips and tricks you need to slay the big sci-fi, fantasy, gaming weekend like a boss. He also homes in on the festival’s gayest and greatest offerings.
After rejections over his diminutive stature shut-out his dream of modeling, one Atlanta gay man created his own agency. Now with his help, offbeat Atlanta models are booking work and working looks.
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You know the face. You know the name. Now LGBT-ATL’s own Alissah Brooks wants you to know the voice. We check in as the transgender singer’s debut single drops to take over the world.
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The gay-inclusive exhibits and think-tankers at the national civil rights center celebrate their first anniversary with a cocktail party. They join forces with business pros from Atlanta Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce for this special edition of that group’s Fourth Friday.
The Wussy party people are back, this time with RPDR’s Tammie Brown at the helm. DJs Ree De La Vega and College Lesbian spin the queer femmes, drag queens and all other comers as you serve all the ‘90s Workout’ you can muster in a look that rocks the theme.
Atlanta Team Tennis hosts the annual convergence of gay servers and volleyers in this official circuit event of the Gay & Lesbian Tennis Association. Four days of parties and play make for fun and prizes in singles, doubles, mixed doubles, plus social events, dinners, and more.
Friday, Aug. 26, 6 p.m. • Center for Civil and Human Rights • 100 Ivan Allen Jr. Blvd. NW • atlantagaychamber.org
Friday, Sept. 2, 10 p.m. • Heretic • 2069 Cheshire Bridge Road NE • wussymag.com
Friday, Sept 2 – Monday, Sept. 5 • Dekalb Tennis Center • 1400 McConnell Drive, Decatur • atta.org
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One of the biggest events in town over Labor Day Weekend is this celebration of all things literary. And where would any event be without its gays? Nowhere, that’s where. Look for a slew of gay and allied authors in a Who’s Who lineup of literati, including Jericho Brown and Libby Ware.
No work on Monday means the New York crew that spreads its semiregular party love over the Dirty South returns. DJ Masters pumps Underground House beats with you in leather and fetish gear. As always, they promise a “dark energy, red-hot crowd and infectious sexy sounds.”
Labor Day in gay Atlanta means a plethora of options, and they always includes these two behemoth series of events. Sci-fi fans head downtown, and queers of color hit the largest celebration of its kind in events all over town. Keep flipping pages for our previews of both in this issue.
Friday, Sept. 2 – Sunday, Sept. 4 • Downtown Decatur Square • decaturbookfestival.com
Sunday, Sept. 4, 9 p.m. • Heretic • 20169 Cheshire Bridge Road NE Sept. 2 – Sept. 5 • Hyatt Regency Atlanta • • hereticatlanta.com dragoncon.org
Aug. 30 – Sept. 5 • Black Gay Pride Atlanta • Multiple venues • Atlblkpride.inthelifeatlanta.org
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Also on Friday night, Atlanta kicks off Dragon Con with an amazing EDM concert at Philips Arena. Called Sound Circus, their lineup is sure to include GTA, Party Favor, Robert DeLong, Sick Puppies, and Starbenders. Not to be outdone, Saturday Sept, 3, brings David Atlanta’s own DJ Marc J Cubs spinning the night away for Dragon Con’s annual Night at the Aquarium, featuring the Chôsen costume contest and dance party. Can’t make it? No worries. He’s also spinning on Friday night at Dragon Con’s annual Zombie Prom. He will definitely make sure all that dead flesh jumps in dreadfully ghastly ways! Seriously, he’s the best DJ in Atlanta, hands down… and he gets me the most amazing birthday presents, so I might be biased.
The Greatest Show on Earth by Tony Gowell
CELEBRATING 30 FANTASTIC YEARS IN ATLANTA, IT'S EASY TO SEE WHY 70,000 POP CULTURE AND MULTI-MEDIA OBSESSED FANS ARE IN LOVE WITH DRAGON CON.
WHAT MAKES THIS YEAR’S EVENT at the Georgia Aquarium even more spectacular is one of the world’s most famous cosplayers, Riddle, as co-host. She’s joined at the helm by 1980s mainstay actor Judge Reinhold, of Fast Times at Ridgemont High, Beverly Hills Cop, Gremlins, and The Santa Clause. Sunday night’s annual Masquerade Contest keeps up the pace at Dragon Con. It’s hosted by none other than *NSYNC’s Joey Fatone. He’s a comedian in his own right, and quite woofy to look at, so you know it’s going to be a packed house. As for me, one of my jobs for Dragon Con is that of panel moderator. On the surface, it seems like a really easy gig: I meet a celebrity, handle fan Q&A, and that’s it, right?
Well, as we all know about life and work, sometimes things just don’t go as planned. For example, a guest can run late, and I’m EXTRAVAGANT COSTUMES, LIVE CONCERTS, numerous left to entertain thousands of fans that did not come to see me. contests, hundreds and hundreds of celebrities hanging out with fans, the seven different buildings filled with event program- Whatever happens, each panel during the weekend is a delicate ming, the Comic & Pop Artist Alley, the Vendor Halls, the Gaming balance, but I love the energy of the excited fans. The experience really like no other. There’s really nothing better than sharing a reExhibitors… The list goes on and on. ally intimate conversation with someone you idolize and respect. This Labor Day weekend, if you’ve shrugged off planning on whether or not you’re going to the lake one last time, or out to ONE OF MY FAVORITE MOMENTS from last year, was lisNevada for Burning Man, you need to just face the cold reality tening to the cast of American Horror Story: Freakshow tell an that you’re not going anywhere. So pick up the pieces of your enraptured room of fans about how important it was to treat the own resentment, and head downtown to experience the awe- legacy of carnival performers, and other fringe groups, with the utmost respect. some that is Dragon Con. As a year-round member of the Dragon Con staff, I’m excited that the 30th anniversary of the event will soon unveil plenty of cool surprises for fans. There’ll be over 400 (!) celebrity guests from our favorite film and television shows on hand signing autographs and answering Q&As during tons of panels. In addition to that, they’ll be at several off-site events that Dragon Con is hosting as well.
Their comments included the importance of transgender actors and actresses being accessible to fans through entertainment, and the joys of working with Academy Award winning leading actresses.
There are a billion stories like that, and I have some really great panels lined up this year. There are tons of GLBTQ related panels, guests and events, too. You owe it to yourself to come hear their awe-inspiring stories, and more importantly be a part of Thursday, Sept. 1, brings the unveiling of the Labyrinth wing of the biggest multi-media party on the planet. Atlanta’s own Center for Puppetry Arts. Special guests, including Jim Henson’s son Brian, will be on hand to judge the costume I can’t imagine a better way of documenting what happens at the contest at this elaborate one-of-a-kind masquerade ball cele- show this year, so I’ll be back in a couple of weeks with a postbrating David Bowie’s fantasy film. Tickets have been long sold Dragon Con wrap up. It’s sure to be eye-opening –for all of us, beout, but don’t worry: Dragon Con hosts its own Masquerade Ball cause it even surprises me what actually happens at Dragon Con. celebrating the Henson family’s puppetry excellence on Friday Excelsior!!! the 2nd. It’s going to be epic!! 18 | 8.31.16
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Most recently, having the LGBT Institute become a gathering place for the LGBT community and a refuge for dialogue in a year filled with LGBT human and civil rights successes and struggles has been inspiring. Knowing that the Institute will continue to respond as a convener for important discussions and a catalyst for action gives me courage and hope. What is the Institute currently working on?
David Hero:
Ryan Roemerman by Matthew Holley
HEROES COME IN ALL FORMS. THEY MAY CROSS OUR PATHS WHEN WE LEAST EXPECT IT, OR WHEN WE DON’T EVEN REALIZE IT’S HAPPENING.
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eet Ryan Roemerman, the 33-year-old activist who serves as the Executive Director of the LGBT Institute at the National Center for Civil & Human Rights. Having only moved to the Atlanta area in the past two years, this easy-going leader has made strides for and within the LGBT community. In honor of his hard work, Roemerman sheds light on the latest from LGBT Institute, while discussing his personal motivation for his determined efforts. Here’s why he was an easy choice to be named this month’s David Atlanta Hero.
What exactly is the LGBT Institute? It’s the internal home and dedicated platform at the Center for Civil & Human Rights to explore critical issues to advance LGBT rights. The idea was developed by Brian Tolleson, and I was brought on board to turn the concept into a reality. We launched in September of last year, so we’re celebrating our one year anniversary. 20 | 8.31.16
We’re planning for our first Symposium for November 18-20, where we’ll be connecting academics and advocates around a host of issues like public health, education and criminal justice. We’re also preparing to launch our 14-state Southern Survey to gain a better understanding of LGBT people’s lives and their needs. This data will be extremely important to our non-profit partners throughout the South as they work to advance LGBT rights. Do you work with any other local organizations? I serve on the AIDS Fund Committee (a collaboration between United Way and the Community Foundation), and on the Programming Committee of Youth Spark.
What was your motivation to get How can others to get involved? involved? Come to one of our events. Stopping by LGBT people in the South have been un- the Rush Center is also a great idea, as der attack most often—whether it be so many LGBT and allied organizations are legislatively or physically—and I wanted housed there. Plus Radial Café is a great to make sure that the LGBT Institute place for lunch. provided a platform for those who are often left behind or left out of the con- How do you envision your future? versation. Being at The Center allows us to make clear that our civil and human For my career, I envision being in a posirights movements are inextricably linked tion to help people and where the work is with one another, which can be seen in fulfilling. For my life, I want to live a life our programming and initiatives, with a where I experience plenty of joy, advenfocus on those who work at the intersec- ture and be forever grateful. tions of sexuality and racial, gender and economic justice. Visit the LGBT Institute online at lgbtinstitute.org. What other causes have inspired you? Previously I co-founded and directed a non-profit in Iowa that helped LGBT youth, which was inspiring—the bravery these young people had. Helping young people tell their stories which helped pass a safe school law and amended civil rights law that included LGBT people was also incredible.
Watch each month as David Atlanta unveils a new hero. These select recipients show all of LGBT Atlanta what it takes to enhance the city and the community. If you have a suggestion for an upcoming David Hero, e-mail mike@davidatlanta.com.
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Slaying the by James Parker Sheffield
EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW IN ONE SUPER GEEKY, SUPER GAY 2016 GUIDE TO DRAGON CON WEEKEND IN ATLANTA
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his year marks the 30th anniversary of the geeky goodness of Dragon Con. It’s everything we love about science fiction, fantasy, comics, gaming, entertainment and over-the-top cosplay. As a bonus, there are thousands of fun loving patrons and some of them look flawless AF in that 300 costume.
The Basics Dragon Con festivities run Sept. 2-5 and feature more than 5000 hours of programming spanning 7 venues in Downtown Atlanta. Events, panels, workshops and parties start as early as 9 a.m. then run through the night and into the early hours of the morning.
With over 70,000 members and 2200 volunteers, the magnitude of Dragon Con can be overwhelming. If you’re going to own the weekend as a ‘Con’ man, you need to plan accordingly, and we’ve got you covered.
Take MARTA to Peachtree Center Station. From there, you can easily navigate each element of the convention. You’ll move between the downtown Hyatt, Marriott, Hilton, Sheraton and Westin hotels, plus AmericasMart buildings 1 & 2.
Dragon Con Getting In There’s a common misconception that you can just “show up” to Dragon Con and hunky Spartan daddies will just magically spring forth for your Instagraming pleasures. Listen closely, boys: That’s not how it works. To enjoy Dragon Con, even if it’s just for the visual delights, you need to purchase a membership. Your badge is your key to every corner of the geeky-gay universe. Without it, you
Make a Schedule Schedules are sorted based on areas of interest. These “fan tracks” allow you to see every event in a category in one convenient list. When using the app, you Do. Not. Lose. Your. Badge. can select events you’re most interested Basically, keep up with your toys. in and generate a personal schedule. Lost badges aren’t replaced under any circumstance. Once it’s gone, For voyeurs who make bars and lobyour only option is to pay for an- bies their personal showrooms, the fan tracks still come in handy. If there’s a other membership. particular type of costuming you want to see, gravitating toward sessions caDownload the App You can find the link to the official tering to that genre will likely yield your Dragon Con app on their website, best photo opps. or in the app store on your mobile device. The app houses the Be sure to make time for the Vendor Hall schedule for the weekend, al- located in AmericasMart Building 2. This lows you to customize your year’s event features over 350 exhibitors itinerary, connect with across three floors. friends, and post to social media.
can’t access hotel lobbies, bars, conference rooms, or other peoplewatching locations. Memberships can be pre-purchased online.
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Gay Offerings David Atlanta’s own DJ Marc J Cubs spins the Zombie Prom at the Sheraton on Friday night. He’s also the special guest spinning at the costume contest on Saturday at Georgia Aquarium. Obsessed columnist Tony Gowell, a year-round Dragon Con staffer, moderates several panels over the weekend, including Daredevil ’s Charlie Cox, the cast of Scyfy Channel’s Dark Matter, X-Files and Hannibal ’s own Gillian Anderson, Doctor Who and Arrow’s Alex Kingston, Doctor Who and Guardians of the Galaxy star Karen Gillian, Harry Potter’s Jason Isaacs aka Lucious Malfoy, the cast of Game of Thrones, Gotham, Sleepy Hollow, and a candid interview with members of the boy band *NSYNC. The Spectrum Party celebrates LGBTQ Geeks & Allies in the Hilton Grand Salon West, Saturday from 10pm-2am. The Dragon Con Parade kicks off at 10am at the intersection of Peachtree Street & Linden Avenue. This is probably one of the most fun ways to spend an hour on a Saturday morning. It’s also where you’ll see that contingent of the 300 Spartans, so go early to get a good view!
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Rules of the Road 1. Don’t Be a Dick. The Dragon Con crew takes this very seriously. They’ve worked hard to create a fun, safe event, and they intend to keep it that way. Remember, everyone working the event is a volunteer, so be kind! Touching without consent is never OK. Always ask and be accepting of hearing “no.” Besides the general need to respect personal space, no one spent months sewing, gluing, and constructing a costume to have a bunch of randos messing with their work.
No matter how badly you want to see Chris Kirkpatrick of your Dirty Pop dreams, the people ahead of you were thirstier and worked harder for it. You just have to be a good sport in those scenarios. 3. Do Something New. It’s easy to get caught up in people-watching, but don’t miss out on the organized programming. There’s a full slate of celebrity panels, unique parties, as well as games and book series to be discovered. For a full listing, check out the website or app
Dragon Con goes down Sept. 2-5 2. You’ll Wait in Line & You’ll Be OK. downtown. Visit dragoncon.org. Of the 70,000 people at Dragon Con, there’s a good chance some of them want to see the same things you do. If there’s an event or session that you really want to see, you can line up outside up to an hour early.
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SAY IT LOUD:
BLACK & PROUD. by Mike Fleming
ANNUAL BLACK GAY PRIDE ATLANTA BRINGS NEARLY A WEEK OF REVERENCE AND REVELRY TO VENUES ALL OVER TOWN
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hen you’re the black gay Mecca of the Southeast, it’s only natural that you host the largest celebration of LGBTs of color in the nation. That’s how you rack up 30 years of events that keep coming back for more every Labor Day Weekend.
Thousands of residents and visitors descend on clubs, performance venues and hotel ballrooms all the way from Wednesday, Aug. 31 through Monday, Sept. 5. Events span from serious to celebratory, from community organizers to party promoters, and from offbeat entertainers and DJs to big-name celebrity guests. Look for events from In the Life Atlanta, Traxx & Pure Heat, Rockstars Production, Wassup N ATL and more. They promise appearances by Teyana Taylor, Carol B., and the Love & Hip Hop Atlanta girls Tommie Lee, Trina, Queen Sheba, June’s Diary, Towanda Braxton, Mimi Faust, Karlie Redd and Ariane Davis, to name but a precious few. The real stars of Black Gay Pride though are the people. Out in force and loud and proud, they are living the life that makes the event worthwhile, and doing the work that makes it relevant. And they’re going to be busy, from the opening gala at the National Center for Civil and Human Rights on Thursday, Sept. 1, all the way through to the White Party at Enigma at 10 p.m. on Monday. Here are our Best-Bet Highlights of events from dozens and dozens (and dozens!) of options. Check out the listed websites for more events each day from these organizers.
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THURSDAY, SEPT. 1 Official BGP Welcome Party Center for Civil & Human Rights, 6 p.m. atlantaprideweekend.com facebook.com/events/769500816525900/ What a Night Kickoff Museum Bar, 10 p.m. rockstarsproduction.com STRIPHER Soul Bar at Pals Lounge, 10 p.m. atlantaprideweekend.com Love and Hip Hop Party With castmembers Liquid Lounge, 10:30 p.m. traxxatlanta.com FRIDAY, SEPT. 2 Gilead Community Luncheon Georgian Terrace Hotel, 12 noon atlantaprideweekend.com Hotlanta Mega Men’s Party Georgia Freight Depot, 10 p.m. rockstarsproduction.com White Party with adult star Inferno Jungle, 10:30 p.m. facebook.com/WASSUPNATLEVENTS 5,000 Men Block Party with Teyana Taylor and Big Freedia Club Rain, 10 p.m. traxxatlanta.com Dope Boy Day Party Text to enter, 5 p.m. rockstarsproduction.com Black Gay Pride VIP Mixer The Livingston, 5 p.m. atlantaprideweekend.com
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THOTica DJ, Dancers, Models and Porn Stars Tokyo Valenio, 12 midnight to 8 a.m. facebook.com/WASSUPNATLEVENTS SATURDAY, SEPT. 3 Annual Traxx Mega Party with June’s Diary Museum Bar, 10 p.m. traxxatlanta.com Trina Miami Rapper @ Obsessions, 10 p.m. rockstarsproduction.com DickGalore DJ, Dancers, Models and Porn Stars TokyoValentino, 12 midnight to 8 a.m. facebook.com/WASSUPNATLEVENTS SUNDAY, SEPT. 4 Same Difference Film Festival & Atlanta Dream Game Philips Arena, 11 a.m. atlantaprideweekend.com Fit Men Who Brunch Location TBA, 1 p.m. rockstarsproduction.com Soul Food Poetry Slam Jazz Brunch With Queen Sheba Georgian Terrace Hotel atlantaprideweekend.com Underwear Party DJ, Dancers, Models and Porn Stars TokyoValentino, 12 midnight to 8 a.m. facebook.com/WASSUPNATLEVENTS MONDAY, SEPT. 5 Annual White Attire Party Enigma Lounge, 10 p.m. rockstarsproduction.com
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Not Another Pretty Face
EBERT IVORY
by Chris Vizzini
REJECTION LEADS LOCALS TO BUILD A THRIVING LOCAL AGENCY FOR ATYPICAL MODELS WITH OFFBEAT BEAUTY.
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tlanta gay man Elbert Ivory tried to be a model for years but was met with a rejection rate of 100% – not because he didn’t have the look. In fact, he was told repeatedly he did have the look but lacked one key element.
He was short. Elbert comes in at exactly 5 feet tall. Discouraged, but not defeated, Ivory finally saw an opportunity in an open call for models of all sizes. After years of rejection, he saw a way in. He had his walk, posing technique down and was ready to work it. Once he hit the the casting call, his hopes were dashed as he saw the casting agents look at him, then drop their heads to their cell phones. At that moment, he’d had enough. “It lit a fire under my butt,” Ivory tells David Atlanta. “If no agency or fashion show wants me, I’m going to create my own agency.” Ivory was a student at Georgia State at the time, so he started small. “I took in models of all shapes and sizes who were also students at Georgia State, and I helped them build portfolios by shooting them on campus. It was a lot of fun, but I wanted to take it further.” He worked from his garage with non-traditional models by mentoring and educating them about the industry. They all had the common goal to break barriers in the fashion industry. photos: Courtesy EI Model Management 32 | 8.31.16
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“I wanted to be a beacon of hope for models of every shape, size and age,” he remembers. That hope was the seed that blossomed into Ivory’s agency, EI Model Management. “Though the client might be looking for a model that’s a 5’8” and a size 3, we send out a digital package of a model’s portfolio who has strong beautiful features, but they may be a bit short or they may be a couple sizes bigger,” He says. “Believe it or not, the clients are willing to make adjustments for an exceptional model.” It’s not all about experience either. Personality is what books models, Ivory says. “You can’t just have the look,” he explains. “You have to have phenomenal outgoing personality because that’s what will get you booked over and over.” His point was made the moment EI model Kate Bunch walked into the room. Being in her presence is like watching the lighting of the Macy’s Christmas Tree. Bunch is 5’4”, but her look, outstanding personality and professionalism keeps her booked. “Honestly, it starts at the casting call,” Bunch says. “You walk in and everyone is taller than you and you have to bring the personality and the vibe. You have to work so much harder than the other models who are 5’8”, because they have it easier in having the perfect model build.” Is there a negative side to working in an industry when you don’t fit the mold? Ivory discovery Shannon Byrd was quick to point out that you have to have a thick skin. She is 5’10” but a size 8 in a world that wants a 4 for runway. “I’ve been in a fashion show and been denied food” to fit into her garment, she says. “I could see all the skinny girls getting their food.” And what about the boys? Ask EI model Reid Jones, who is 5’8”. “I don’t let something like my height stop me, because that’s something that’s fueled by the agency,” he says. “The agency helped me to not put emphasis on height but rather my ability to model.” Ivory and EI have come a long way since the days of working from his garage. His office is now firmly seated within The Hurt Building downtown, but his mission to create change has only scratched the surface. He wants even more diversity. If you have a unique look but don’t feel “model worthy” because of your size, shape or age, scrap that notion and reach out to him. Ivory is always looking to broaden the scope of who he represents. Visit EI Model Management at elbertivorymodels.com.
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Miss Brooks IF YOU’RE NASTY by Matthew Holley
TRANS ATLANTA PERFORMER ALISSAH BROOKS GETS DIRTY WITH DEBUT SINGLE ‘DOPE SHIT’
A staple
of Atlanta’s legendary House of Brooks, aspiring popstar, actress and drag show performer Alissah Brooks is on the fast track to super stardom. Rising from a 16-year-old ingénue on the scene to a fullfledged powerhouse, Brooks has already conquered more in her young life than most. Now the dynamite diva is set to release her debut solo single, “Dope Shit” on Sept. 2. A total club-banger, “Dope Shit” is quite the statement as Brooks’ introduction as a transgender artist to the music industry. Twisting a well known lyric with “Super-callafragalistic-expi-alla-Dope Shit,” the song combines the singer’s immense talent with her sassy persona and a naughty side for a sound that’s all her own. Taking time from a jam-packed schedule of appearances and promos, the songstress gave David Atlanta the complete skinny on her new sure-fire hit, life as a House of Brooks daughter, and what we can expect as she rockets forward in her career.
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What inspired “Dope Shit?”
You’ve been a staple in Atlanta drag for years. How did you get into the show scene?
The inspiration for the song came from my producer Ryan Snow. Something nasty, fun and familiar, aka Mary Poppins. He want- I was a 16-year-old kid with the urge to be in the nightlife. I ed to make something that would make people smile and dance, found myself on Latin Night at Club Rush – back then it was a little offensive at the same time too. called Chaparral. I watched amazing performers come out. One stood out the most—Phoenix. Her energy and sex appeal moved Why did you choose it as your debut single? me and inspired me to do the same. I later saw Shawnna Brooks & Nicole Paige Brooks. The song spoke to me. It is everything that I am and have searched for all rolled into one song. Being a showgirl around Atlanta, this is They all seemed so confident and were worshiped, always had the type of song I would naturally choose to perform. tons of people around them living for their persona. I don’t know what they saw in me ,but I knew I wanted to be just like them. And having [local gay rapper] J. Tyler on the track was just the ic- The House of Brooks was a way for me to fit in. It’s now the ing on the cake and ultimately was the deciding factor in choos- center of my world. We support each other and respect each ing the song. I admire him so much, and I see such a bright light other because we all somehow were brought together. The main reason being Shawnna, as she says, “This house is not a home. in him, so I am beyond excited to go on this journey together. It’s a legacy.” Can we expect a music video? What does the future hold for you? Absolutely! A video is coming. Well, I should say “videos.” I can’t say too much, but I’m planning a couple things. … The videos I’m planning on doing a promo tour. I want to reach as many will be fun, sexy, fashionable and will feature amazing chore- people as I can with this song. I’m going to be working on the ography by Michael Robinson. … You’ll have to stay tuned and followup single shortly after. I’m performing the song for Athens watch what unfolds. Pride on Sept. 4, and on Oct. 8 during Atlanta Pride at Opera. More dates will be announced soon. Are there any plans for a full album? To stay up-to-date on all things Alissah and purchase There is a plan for an EP. As of now, I’m planning four to five songs “Dope Shit,” visit alissahbrooks.com. including “Dope Shit.” … I’m looking at a February/March release. 44 | 8.31.16
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Family Time
However many members you have to define it, building an in-home family most often starts with the number two.
10 Best Things About Being in a Relationship
More Sex.
It’s true. Guys with partners report getting laid more with fewer dry spells than singles. Variety notwithstanding.
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Live Long & Prosper
Double the Wardrobe
Plus One
Feedback
True Intimacy
Emotional Security
Multiple studies show coupled guys are up to twice as likely to live longer, earn more, and have more to spend.
Having someone to tag along and hang out at events, eat with, and not go home alone like some friends is nice.
Sex is awesome, but having someone to share every day and night ultimately means sharing your vulnerabilities.
Swapping shirts or going in on one expensive piece is just one of the perks of giving up that closet space.
Teammates
Having a partner in crime means that someone has your back and is playing for the same endgame.
If you choose well, having an honest opinion that comes from a place of unconditional love is invaluable.
That feeling waking up, looking over, and knowing you took the risk and accept each other despite flaws.
Lotta Laughs
He’s someone to laugh with who gets your humor… and someone to laugh “at” without making a thing of it.
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Rather than confront him, consider telling him how it made you feel, and asking him how that realization makes him feel? My money is on him not being a monster. People are perfectly capable of holding two conflicting feelings at the same time: The pain of the lost friend, the joy of the marriage, and the clumsy coincidence of it being born from tragedy.
HEY,
Daddy! Hey, Daddy! It’s been five years since a friend in our tightknit little gay circle committed suicide. Apparently, it takes a tragedy like that to show who your real friends are.
It says a lot that he felt comfortable enough with you to share his awkward, vulnerable thought process out loud. If you’re ready to help him as much as yourself to get to a good place about it, open your heart and talk it out. Hey, Daddy!
A drunken friend called me at 3 a.m. from jail. I left him there until can I confront him with my pain? morning because it was the sevAt the very least, he needs to stop enth time in two years. Now he going around letting people know hates me. What should I do? what a monster he is. Sorry Embarrassing Lush Forsaken Didn’t Realize A Monster Awaited Dear SELF: Dear DRAMA: Responding immediately to a late night The helplessness and hurt in the after- call from jail is called being a friend. math of suicide is a hell all its own. It Waiting until you’re awake to call the says a lot about your love for each other bondsman on the seventh time is also that, five years later during a wedding, called being a friend. Let him stew on you guys are still thinking about your lost it for a while. buddy. You probably always will.
It took a long time for many of us to work through what happened, much less move on in any way. During that time, two friends consoled each other and grew closer. They just got married, and at the wedding, one of the grooms said he owed his happiness to the dead friend. Without him, they wouldn’t You and the groom were both talking to Daddy Daddy loves his boys. He knows the answers the wrong person. Were you the wrong have gotten together. you need, and you’re going to get them. person to tell about his awkward real- Reach out to him with your burning quesI was floored. I can’t believe he ization? Obviously. Is he the one who tions via our editor, mike@davidatlanta.com. would think that, much less say it needs to hear about your pain? He can out loud. I mean, what kind of per- as a friend, but a professional might Warning: Advice given in this column is intended son takes his happiness on the back be better suited to ready you for the for entertainment and novelty purposes. Please of a troubled suicide victim? How conversation. proceed at your own risk.
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CANCER (Jun. 21- Jul. 22):
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Only make a fuss if you’re convinced a central issue is headed the wrong way, and that a radical blow-the-cover-off intervention is essential. If so, do something, but don’t quibble over small stuff. If you’re pretty sure you’re on the right road, not counting normal doubts or anxieties, keep working out practical details, one tasklist item at a time.
Don’t lie down or roll over in power-struggles that could jeopardize your feeling genuine pride in what’s being birthed. Of course, letting it utterly dominate would only siphon your energy. Which standoffs are important enough to insist on winning? Discern your biggest non-negotiables from more modest compromises and adjustments.
Acknowledge the specific factors for a self-nurturing home atmosphere. You can handily ‘tidy up’ the domestic landscape, but you also need unfaltering relationship judgment calls. Your most significant partnership(s) is at a critical junction that requires cut-and-dry determination. There’s less gray in this black-and-white showdown than you realize.
Revel in the company of others. At every instance you could choose between keeping to yourself or including somebody else, take the social option. This interactive orientation will expose you to a wider field of possibilities for gain. It’ll also help your dedication to work. Yes, you have a lot of business to handle—but that’s not all there is.
Fastidiously collect on practical gains you’ve earned. If you focus too insistently on ins-and-outs, you miss a golden chance to leverage what you’ve worked this hard to merit. There’s nothing more attractive than someone who handles their own business like a boss and purchase the freedom to do as they wish without threatening their bottom-line.
It’s your ‘can-do’ moment. You can do it if you believe. You can grow your life bigger than it’s ever been without giving up all the things you already like about it. You must take a leap-of-faith and drop studied inspections of costs and benefits. Be more scared of not growing before bowing to selfincurred restrictions that’d keep you frozen in place.
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Astrobarry.com by Barry Perlman.
Your time is coming. Don’t attempt too much noteworthy— other than continuing your backstage preparations—during these final expectant moments in the holding-tank. However, all forms of magical seed-planting, gratitude-offering and private metaphysical deeds are strongly encouraged. Don’t offer overly strong opinions.
Offer a leg-up to peers who’d benefit from your generosity. Do favors, share connections and give practically-minded pep-talks as a means to receive similar blessings later. It shows confidence to help others without feeling their success somehow endangers yours, so giving of yourself actually gives you a competitive edge.
Take a good look around. It’s no fluke of fate. You made this happen. This snapshot of your life is the cumulative result of these past- months’ efforts. If you’re happy with it, bank the esteem as a firm foundation. If not, swallow the realitycheck medicine, not as discouragement, but as an instructive map of where you fell short.
The path ahead is free of major obstacles. The biggest potential obstruction would be your refusal to leave the past behind. Harboring outdated fears is understandable, but allowing them to freeze you in your tracks would be a shameful failure. Why would the same thing happen the same way all over again? It wouldn’t.
Work out intricate collaborative undertakings, complex financial arrangements or touchy interpersonal dynamics. Concentrate more on the interactive process than on any outcome you’ve presupposed to be the best. If you want to save a troubled alliance, engage directly. Your way forward might be simpler than you think.
To make the most effective impression on those who could open (or shut) doors, you have many complex considerations to juggle concurrently. Don’t brashly pick a fight with any mentors, elders, or higher-ups. Talk out the options, opportunities, and obstacles with your trustiest peeps to capitalize on favorable relationship mojo.
Bitch
S E S S I O N You’re pretty uppity about my situation for a hoe who doesn’t have a job. You’re feeling your weight loss today, so you put on a Medium shirt that makes you look fat. #gaylogic
You’re like that mall singer who thinks he’s a rock star.
If I squint, I can almost imagine you with a personality. Wait… Nope.
Day 1: You said you were a neurologist. Day 2: You said you were a neurosurgeon. Day 3: I Googled it, because that’s a thing now, dumbass. Day 4: You’re pissed… and unemployed. Why lie?
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It took me too long to figure out you gotta let clowns be clowns and just watch the show.
It wasn’t a one night stand. It was an audition, and you didn’t get a callback.
Apparently I am flypaper for messy barflies and dating castoffs. Bitch, don’t look my way in a bar without speaking, and then add me on Facebook a few days later. You had a chance to be my “friend” and you blew it.
You like what you see, and I did too, once. But trust: His abs are real, but the smile is fake.