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Preparing children for the unseen is a wise thing to do in this day and age, and here are some pointers to help you. I am like a flower in your hand, Fresh and blooming in the sunlight... Make me smile by keeping the thorns aside... You have the power to keep me safe and alright.
Annabel Dsouza There are plenty of news reports circulating, in which it has been mentioned that a child’s safety was threatened or even endangered, leaving him/her with mental, emotional and psychological scars. India is a country where child safety still needs to be effectively implemented. Even places perceived to be safe, like crèches, schools, playgrounds and tuition classes, could have unsafe elements. Hence it is the responsibility of parents, teachers and guardians to not only protect children but also sensitise them to increasing threats. Here are some indicators to identify the safety problem a child could be facing and measures to help deal with it competently. We also tell you how to keep your child and yourself vigilant.
Potential Safety Hazards for Children Uncomfortable touching Bullying Being addressed with inappropriate language Indecent exposure on the Internet Eve teasing February-March 2013
Precautions for Children Know the difference between good and bad touch (refer to the ‘OK! STOP!’ game). List out and study the areas where you go, and know and use quick routes to escape from danger. Shout and call for help if your safety is under threat. Never keep secrets from parents and teachers. Memorise important addresses and telephone and helpline numbers.
Precautions for Parents, Guardians and Teachers Keep a record of all people in the proximity of children. Talk to children about their daily experiences, both good and bad. Be alert for signs of depression or anxiety in children. Encourage children to ask questions and participate in discussions on safety. Monitor your child’s usage of the Internet and curb inappropriate exposure to television. Teach children to never share personal information with strangers. Create a bond of trust where a child does not feel the need to keep secrets or shy from telling the truth or even expressing his/her opinion.
Myth Busters
Myth: Only pret ty lit tle girls are at tacked . Fact: All children, including boys, coul d be at risk. Myth: Usually, strang ers are the villains. Fact: Risk factor could babysitters and even be from close relatives, neighbours. Myth: My child will tell me or show sign s of discomfort. Fact: Children rare ly understand what has happened and may not commun Myth: Only teenager icate due to fear. s Fact: All children, are at risk. including infants an d toddlers, can be vulnerable to danger . Crystal Quest