Hi Sue, I’m a 27 year old young lady that in the past few months met this sexy, great guy and we hit it off immediately! We date, travel, have great conversation and have great chemistry. As time passed on (6 months) he told me he was married with kids. He says he told me because he felt like he was falling in love with me. I was devastated so I slowly backed away! However he keeps calling, texting and sending me flowers to my job. I’m back with him because believe we belong together and he doesn’t act like he’s married. Although I don’t want to be with him because he’s married, he bought me a promise ring and promised to never leave me. He’s always available for me and he makes me happy. I don’t want to be happy with someone else’s man, and then again I do. I don’t know what to do Sue....I don’t know which way to go...please be honest and put yourself in my situation because this is my life... Sleepless In South Memphis Ok Sis, you sent the email for some straight talk, I respect that so I’ll try not to go too hard. Here are some things your nose-wide-open-ass is ignoring. Yes, he told you he was married; AFTER he was sure you had fallen for him and it wasn’t all out of love, a good deal of that was guilt. Next, you mentioned flowers and a promise ring-okay, he’s bought rings before, and yours is special because...? Why couldn’t he put all that energy into filing for a divorce if you two truly belong together? And if he does, can you play step-mommy to some kids whose family you helped destroy? It sounds harsh, but it’s the real side of being the mistress. You asked me to put myself in your place, try putting yourself in the wife’s place. I appreciate your consciousness about this issue. It truly sounds like you’re looking for love and he makes you feel special, I get it; but you deserve someone who can throw that 100% right back at you.
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