Scene in Malibu

PHOTO BY EMILY SCHER

The Malibu maverick architect Harry Gesner lived an exceptional 97 years. His life story is nothing less than a remarkable adventure. We take comfort in the knowledge that his adventure will live on in the many beautiful homes that he designed, in his inventions and in his 1957 Mercedes 190SL that he converted to be 100% electric. He will live on in those inspired by his work and in the ocean and environment that will forever be linked with his spirit, and in our family who will carry on his legacy. The ocean was where my father asked to be laid to rest - so on November 19, over 40 of his closet friends and family paddled out in front of his beloved Sandcastle, formed a circle joining hands in the traditional Hawaiian tribute meant to memorialize life and legacy.

We passed his urn around the circle so everyone could say their farewells. As one, we threw rose petals up in the air and cheered his name loudly “Harry!!! Harry!!! Harry!!!” spreading his ashes in the crystal water, splashing, celebrating his life in the most meaningful of ways…setting his spirit free into the deep blue universe as the sun set on the horizon.

Dad watched the sunset every day from his throne on the deck, and would tell us to “Watch for the Blue Flash”, and I will never look at a sunset without hearing his words.

In 2010, his beloved wife (my mother) was celebrated in the same way, in the same place, but with my father leading the ceremony. He is now with her again, and with many other beloved family and friends of the ocean who have been honored in this fashion. I’m sure that he was happy with the amazing day, and I’ll always feel him with me, especially when I am near the ocean. “Love, that’s what it’s all about” he used to say.

Love you, Dad. Forever.