Vp dec 2013 finalsm

Parent V a l l e y

Linn & Benton Counties

Happy Holidays!

www.valleyparentmagazine.com $ECEMBER s &REE

Local Santa Sightings

• TAKING FABULOUS PHOTOS • TRAVEL SANITY • GREAT GIFTS FOR TEACHERS • SIBLING GIFT WAR SOLUTIONS

Nesting 101 VALLEY’S BIGGEST FAMILY EVENTS CALENDAR

G i v e yo ur

c h i l d t h e g if t o f h a n ds- on

le a r nin g w

W i n t e r B re a k C l a s s e s !

Santa’s Workshop December 20

it h o u r

Winter Wonderlands December 23

Hack: Take Stuff Apart January 2

Wayfinding January 3 Scan for more info!

Salem’s Children’s Museum! .BSJPO 4U /& 4BMFN 03 t t BDHJMCFSU PSH

Positive youth development program since 1961 College of Public Health and Human Sciences

PROGRAMS RUNNING DURING THE SCHOOL YEAR

Gymnastics

ACES

Girls on the Run

YEAR ROUND

NO SCHOOL, NO PROBLEM!

SPRING 20134 SEASON

Gymnastics is an all-year activity for kids 2-18.

In class, participants will increase coordination, flexibility, and self-esteem in a safe & fun environment. It is the perfect foundation for any physical activity your child participates in, and a great way to develop fitness skills.

2 Valley Parent, December 2013

Who - Grades K-8 What - Full & Half Day Option.

Activities include: Sports, Arts, Science and Cooking When - No School & Early Friday release days.

Also Thanksgiving week Monday through Wednesday.

Inspires 3rd through 8th grade girls to stay true to themselves and live free from societal stereotypes. Our 10-week after-school curriculum innovatively weaves training for a 5K run with lessons that empower girls to celebrate their bodies, honor their voices and embrace their gifts. Registration closes December 14h

541.737.5437 (KIDS) 125 Langton Hall Oregon State University kidspirit@oregonstate.edu Register Online at: kidspirit.oregonstate.edu

Parent V a l l e y

Tax Return Preparation Since 1973

Linn & Benton Counties Vol.12, No.12 December 2013

Santa Sightings

757-1945

316 SW Washington Lic #2250C

.OWn$EC AT #HRISTMAS 3TORYBOOK ,AND ,INN #OUNTY &AIR %XPO #ENTER #ASCADE ,IVESTOCK "UILDING +NOX "UTTE 2D !LBANY P M -ONDAY &RIDAY A M P M 3ATURDAY AND 3UNDAY &REE CHRISTMASSTORYBOOKLAND ORG

AN ALTERNATIVE AND %-0/7%2).' &)4.%33 ENVIRONMENT

$EC AT (OLIDAYS IN THE 0ARK 2ALSTON 0ARK 0ARK 3T ,EBANON P M &REE &OR INFORMATION CALL

s 0ERSONAL 4RAINING s "OOT #AMP #LASSES s 0RIVATE 9OGA )NSTRUCTION s 0RENATAL 9OGA s 0ARENT #HILD 9OGA

$EC AT 3TORYTIME WITH 3ANTA (ERITAGE -ALL TH !VE 3% !LBANY A M &REE &OR INFO CALL OR VISIT WWW HERITAGEMALL COM EVENTS $EC AT ,IVE 2EINDEER 6ISIT (ERITAGE -ALL TH !VE 3% !LBANY A M P M &REE &OR INFO CALL OR VISIT WWW HERITAGEMALL COM EVENTS

Customized Group Classes

$EC AT #ANDLELIGHT AND #AROLS (OLIDAY $INNER #HINTIMINI 3ENIOR AND #OMMUNITY #ENTER

.7 4YLER !VE #ORVALLIS P M RESIDENT NON RESIDENT 4O REGISTER BY CALL

Publisher Steven J. Schultz Editor Chris Barrett Calendar Editor Melissa Spualding-Ross Design Director & Advertising/Design Bobbi Dickerson Contributors: Nanette Dupuy Nathaniel Brodie Malia Jacobson Lori Cawlwy Heidi Smith Luedtke, PhD. Meagan Ruffing Christina Katz Alexa Bigwarfe Ashley Talmadge

What’s Inside?

Tame Your Toddlers Tantrums; . . . . . . 4 Nesting 101: Hello Third Trimester

ecofusion fitness ecofusion fitness 37 TH 3TREET s #ORVALLIS /2 s WWW ECOFUSIONlTNESS COM

Nothing says ‘I love you’

like a good meal!

Counseling with Heart

Visit our stores for great gift basket ideas like the Italian Dinner!

Findings; Kids’ View . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5 The Compassion Cure . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6 Fabulous Family Photos . . . . . . . . . . . . 7 Five Tips for Keeping Your Sanity. . . . 8 while Traveling with Small Children “It’s Not Fair!� How to Handle. . . . . . . 9 Holiday Rivalry Holiday Gifts Any Teacher Will Love .10 Calendar . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .11

Linda Harris, MA http://linda.m.harris.googlepages.com

Law practiced thoughtfully, compassionately and carefully. “My commitment is to listen, to empower you with options, and view not only your needs today, but also your interests over the long term.�

Visit Us:

valleyparentmagazine.com Updated Daily!

Contact Us:

541-758-7848 I "OX s Corvallis, OR 97339

-Karen Misfeldt

Attorney at Law

Estate Planning Family Care Real Estate Law

(541)754-7477

310 NW 7th Street s Corvallis December 2013, Valley Parent

3

VP

Baby

Tame Your Toddlers Tantrums

.OTHING CAN MAKE TWO MINUTES SEEM LONGER THAN WATCHING YOUR TODDLER HAVE A TANTRUM 7HETHER YOU RE AT THE CHECKOUT COUNTER AT HOME OR VISITING FRIENDS THE FURIOUS SCREAMING WRITHING OUTBURST CAN MELT ANY PARENT S RESERVE AND MAKE YOU WONDER IF YOUR CHILD HAS BEEN POSSESSED h)T MAY SEEM LIKE HOURS WHILE IT IS GOING ON BUT TANTRUMS LAST ONLY A FEW MINUTES BEFORE THE CHILD EXHAUSTS HIMSELF v SAYS $R ,ILLIAN "EARD A PRACTICING PEDIATRICIAN ! TANTRUM IS A TODDLER S EXPRESSION OF EXTREME FRUSTRATION $ENIED THE OPPORTUNITY TO DO SOMETHING OR GET SOMETHING SHE WANTS A TODDLER DOESN T HAVE THE ABILITY TO EXPRESS THAT FRUSTRATION VERBALLY SO SHE DOES IT PHYSICALLY IN A WAY THAT GETS YOUR IMMEDIATE ATTENTION Enter the Tantrum Zone "EARD NOTES THAT CHILDREN START HAVING TANTRUMS AS EARLY AS OR MONTHS OF AGE AND hGENERALLY OCCUR ABOUT THE SAME TIME CHILDREN DISCOVER THE POWER OF SAYING @.O v 4ODDLERS USUALLY STOP HAVING THEM BEFORE THEY REACH THE AGE OF )T S ESSENTIAL THAT YOU AS A PARENT REALIZE THAT TANTRUMS ARE NORMAL (ERE ARE TIPS "EARD OFFERS FOR SUCCESSFULLY GETTING THROUGH A TANTRUM s -AKE SURE YOUR CHILD IS SAFE "E CERTAIN THAT YOUR TODDLER IS NOT HURTING HIMSELF OR IN DANGER OF GETTING HURT )F HE IS CHANGE THE ENVIRONMENT &OR EXAMPLE MOVE THE CHILD ONTO A CARPETED SURFACE s )GNORE THE BEHAVIOR "Y GIVING HER THE ATTENTION SHE DESIRES YOU ARE REINFORCING THE WRONG KIND OF BEHAVIOR s $ON T BARGAIN OR NEGOTIATE h7E DO THIS ALMOST UNCONSCIOUSLY v SAYS "EARD "Y GIVING IN TO THE CHILD S DEMANDS YOU ARE TEACHING YOUR CHILD THAT THROWING A TANTRUM WILL GET HIM WHAT HE WANTS s 4ALK IT THROUGH "E CALM DON T RAISE YOUR VOICE AND USE SIMPLE AGE APPROPRIATE LANGUAGE SAYS "EARD &OR EXAMPLE SAY TO YOUR CHILD h)F YOU SCREAM LIKE THIS -OM WILL NOT GET YOU THE TOY v s 7HEN THE EPISODE IS OVER AND THE CHILD IS CALMER USE TOUCH AND CALM SOOTHING WORDS TO TALK ABOUT THE REASON FOR THE TANTRUM )F THE TANTRUM STARTED WHEN YOU REFUSED TO LET HIM PLAY WITH A TOY DURING LUNCH CALMLY EXPLAIN THAT YOU WILL LET HIM PLAY WITH THE TOY AFTER THE MEAL !VOIDING 4ANTRUMS IN THE &UTURE "Y READING YOUR CHILD S CUES YOU MAY BE ABLE TO HEAD OFF A TANTRUM )F YOU KNOW YOUR TODDLER IS TIRED AND HUNGRY POSTPONE A TRIP TO THE GROCERY STORE UNTIL AFTER SHE IS RESTED AND FED 2ECOGNIZE TOO THAT EACH CHILD HAS HIS OWN TRIGGER POINT )F YOU KNOW THAT CERTAIN CIRCUMSTANCES ALWAYS CAUSE TROUBLE TALK WITH YOUR CHILD AHEAD OF TIME ABOUT WHAT BEHAVIOR IS ACCEPTABLE 3EEK HELP WHEN YOU HAVE EXHAUSTED THESE MEASURES AND THOSE RECOMMENDED BY YOUR PEDIATRICIAN )F THE BEHAVIOR IS EXTREME AND YOUR CHILD IS IN DANGER OF HURTING HIMSELF OR IF YOU ARC IN DANGER OF HURTING YOUR CHILD GET HELP h)F YOU APPROACH IT WITH PATIENCE ALWAYS WITH LOVE AND ACKNOWLEDGE THAT THIS TOO SHALL PASS YOU AND YOUR CHILD WILL MAKE IT THROUGH THIS v ADVISES "EARD

n ,ORI #AWLEY 4 Valley Parent, December 2013

Nesting 101: Hello Third Trimester

2IGHT AROUND THE END OF YOUR SECOND TRIMESTER AND SOMEWHERE IN THE BEGINNING OF YOUR THIRD TRIMESTER n SOMETHING MAGICAL HAPPENS IN A WOMAN S PREGNANCY 4HIS SOMETHING MAGICAL IS CALLED @NESTING 4HIS IS SIMPLY A TERM THAT MEANS YOU ARE PREPARING FOR BABY AND THEREFORE WANTING TO CLEAN EVERYTHING IN SIGHT TO GET READY FOR YOUR TINY PRECIOUS BUNDLE OF CUTENESS &OR SOME WOMEN THIS PERIOD OF NESTING IS A RELAXING AND COMFORTING TIME FOR THEM AS THEY ORGANIZE AND CONTROL WHAT GOES WHERE &OR OTHERS

IT CAN BE A BIT STRESSFUL DEPENDING ON OTHER FACTORS IN YOUR LIFE SUCH ASxAN OUTGROWN HOME WHERE THERE IS NOT ENOUGH STORAGE AND SPACE TO PUT THINGS IN THE PLACE THAT YOU WANT THEM TO BE PUT 3O WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN YOU ARE IN YOUR NESTING STAGE AND ARE FEELING OVERWHELMED WITH WHERE TO BEGIN -ANY WOMEN ASK THIS QUESTION AND UNLESS YOU ARE PREGNANT YOURSELF OR HAVE BEEN PREGNANT n THIS VERY DISTINCT STAGE IN A WOMAN S PREGNANCY MAY CAUSE MORE STRESS THAN RELAXATION 4RY THESE TIPS AND IDEAS TO GET YOU STARTED ON YOUR WAY TO CREATING A CALM ORGANIZED AND NESTING APPROVED HOME THAT RESULTS IN A PLACE WHERE THE ENTIRE FAMILY WANTS TO GATHER .O MATTER THE SIZE OF YOUR LIVING QUARTERS OR THE QUESTION OF WHERE TO BEGIN n THIS LIST WILL GIVE YOU THE NUDGE YOU NEED TO GET THINGS GOING -!+% ! ,)34 ,ISTS ARE GREAT BECAUSE THEY ARE VISUAL $O IT THE OLD FASHIONED WAY WITH A PEN AND PAPER 4AKE A SEAT AND WRITE DOWN EVERYTHING ON YOUR MIND FROM ORGANIZING YOUR SHOES TO WASHING ALL OF THE BABY S NEW CLOTHES (AVING SOMETHING TANGIBLE TO READ FROM WILL HELP YOU STAY FOCUSED "% 2%!,)34)# 9OU MAY THINK THAT REPAINTING YOUR MASTER BATHROOM THREE MONTHS BEFORE YOU DELIVER IS A GREAT IDEA "UT HANG ON .ESTING IS A TIME OF ORGANIZING AND SETTLING IN 3AVE THE PAINTING FOR YOUR HUSBAND OR PAINT YOUR SOON TO BE BABY A ONE OF A KIND MASTERPIECE MADE BY YOURS TRULY IF YOU REALLY HAVE THE ITCH TO PAINT 3 TAKE YOUR TIME. 2EVISIT YOUR LIST OF THINGS TO BE DONE AND DO THEM ONE AT A TIME 4RYING TO TACKLE EVERYTHING AT ONCE WILL LEAVE YOU FEELING OVERWHELMED AND DEFEATED BEFORE YOU HAVE EVEN TACKLED THAT FIRST ITEM 'IVE YOURSELF GRACE WHEN IT COMES TO TIDYING THINGS UP AND TAKE IT SLOW %.*/9 .%34).' .ESTING IS ONE OF THE MANY FUN TIMES DURING A WOMAN S PREGNANCY )T SAYS

@4HE END IS NEAR AND THIS THIS AND THIS NEEDS TO BE DONE BEFORE THE BABY IS BORN .ESTING ALLOWS FOR SOME SORT OF CONTROL OVER THE PREGNANCY AND SIGNALS TO THE BRAIN THAT @9ES ) AM READY FOR THIS BABY TO COME "OTTOM LINE IT FEELS GOOD TO BE PREPARED ).#,5$% 4(% +)$3 )F YOU HAVE OTHER

CHILDREN THIS IS A GREAT TIME TO LET THEM HELP YOU WITH ORGANIZING THE HOME +IDS LOVE TO HELP ESPECIALLY WHEN IT COMES TO THE ARRIVAL OF THEIR YOUNGER SIBLING 3OMETHING AS SIMPLE AS PUTTING THE BABY S BOWS IN A BIN TO VACUUMING THE NURSERY CAN MAKE ALL THE DIFFERENCE TO YOUR CHILDREN WHEN THEY WANT TO HELP OUT 2%&,%#4 !FTER ONE THING IS DONE TAKE A BREAK AND EAT A SNACK 4AKE TIME TO REFLECT ON WHERE YOU ARE IN YOUR PREGNANCY %NJOY THE MOMENT 2ELISH IN THE FACT THAT YOUR OTHER CHILDREN GET A SMILE OUT OF HELPING %MBRACE THE IDEA OF WAITING UNTIL AFTER NAPTIME TO TACKLE THE DISHES 4AKE TIME TO BE IN THE MOMENT 3!6% 3/-%4().' &/2 9/52 (53"!.$ *UST BECAUSE YOU THINK YOU CAN GET EVERYTHING DONE BY YOURSELF DOESN T MEAN LEAVING A THING OR TWO FOR YOUR HUSBAND TO DO IS A BAD IDEA 4HIS SERVES TWO PURPOSES 9OU CAN DIRECT YOUR ATTENTION TO ANOTHER TASK AND 9OUR HUSBAND WILL FEEL NEEDED AND APPRECIATED WHEN HE SEES HOW HAPPY YOU ARE NOW THAT THE CURTAINS ARE HUNG IN THE BABY S ROOM )T S A WIN WIN SITUATION .ESTING HAPPENS )T IS PART OF A WOMAN S PREGNANCY THAT MANY LOOK FORWARD TO 4AKE THIS LIST OF IDEAS AND GET STARTED ON YOUR OWN LIST OF @TO DO S )F THE BABY DECIDES TO COME EARLY YOU WILL BE COMFORTED KNOWING THAT EVERYTHING IS IN ITS PLACE BEFORE THE ARRIVAL )F YOU GO PAST YOUR DUE DATE

WELL NOW YOU JUST HAVE MORE TIME TO NEST

-EAGAN 2UFFING IS A FREELANCE PARENTING WRITER 3HE IS PREGNANT WITH HER THIRD CHILD AND IS CURRENTLY ENJOYING THE NESTING STAGE

Findings

VP

BY .ATHANIEL "RODIE

Too Much Praise for Toddlers Earlier Onset of Puberty in Girls Linked to Obesity 3EVERAL STUDIES HAVE DOCUMENTED EARLIER ONSET OF PUBERTY IN GIRLS OVER THE PAST FEW DECADES )N A RECENT STUDY THAT FOLLOWED MORE THAN GIRLS FOR SEVEN YEARS RESEARCHERS FOUND THOSE WITH HIGHER "ODY -ASS )NDEX "-) HAD EARLIER ONSET OF PUBERTY AS MEASURED BY BREAST DEVELOPMENT AND THAT WHITE GIRLS ARE ENTERING PUBERTY AT YOUNGER AGES THAN PREVIOUSLY REPORTED 4HE AGE AT ONSET OF BREAST DEVELOPMENT VARIED BY RACE "-) AND GEOGRAPHIC LOCATION ACCORDING TO THE STUDY AUTHORS )N WHITE NON (ISPANIC GIRLS BREAST DEVELOPMENT BEGAN AT A MEDIAN AGE OF YEARS WHICH IS EARLIER THAN PREVIOUSLY DOCUMENTED "LACK GIRLS CONTINUE TO EXPERIENCE BREAST DEVELOPMENT EARLIER THAN WHITE GIRLS AT A MEDIAN AGE OF YEARS

COMPARED TO YEARS FOR (ISPANIC GIRLS AND YEARS FOR !SIAN GIRLS (OWEVER "-) WAS A STRONGER PREDICTOR OF PUBERTY ONSET THAN RACE OR ETHNICITY 3TUDY AUTHORS CONCLUDE THE EARLIER ONSET OF PUBERTY IN WHITE GIRLS IS LIKELY DUE TO GREATER OBESITY

“Let’s Move!” Postage Stamps Halted Because of Unsafe Messages

Kids’ View What is your favorite holiday tradition?

)F THE /BAMA HOUSEHOLD WASN T FEELING ENOUGH ILL EFFECTS FROM THE TROUBLES SURROUNDING THE !FFORDABLE #ARE !CT NOW THERE S NEWS THAT THE 5NITED 3TATES 0OSTAL 3ERVICE HAS HALTED THE PRODUCTION OF THE h,ET S -OVEv STAMPS DESIGNED AS PART OF &IRST ,ADY -ICHELLE /BAMA S h,ET S -OVEv CAMPAIGN 4HE COMMEMORATIVE STAMP SERIES WAS COMMISSIONED FROM THE ARTISTS %LI AND $ERRY .OYES EARLIER THIS YEAR !S PRINTED

EACH STAMP INCLUDED AN ILLUSTRATION OF A DIFFERENT CHILD ENGAGED IN ONE OF ACTIVITIES IN ADDITION TO A SHORT WORD OR PHRASE IN WHITE TEXT AND AN ACTION VERB IN DARK BLUE TEXT 7HY THEN WERE THEY SHELVED !CCORDING TO ,INN S 3TAMP .EWS OF THOSE ACTIVE CHILDREN

THREE WERE DEEMED TO BE MOVING IN WAYS THAT COULD PROVE DETRIMENTAL TO THEIR HEALTH SKATEBOARDING WITHOUT KNEEPADS CANNONBALLING INTO THE WATER AND DOING A HEADSTAND WITHOUT A HELMET

Adelai 5 years old “My favorite Christmas thing is to set up the Christmas tree with beautiful ornaments. I like to decorate my home for Christmas because my daddy looks like Santa.”

New Study Detects Signs of Autism in Infants by Their Declining Eye Contact !CCORDING TO A STUDY PUBLISHED THIS WEEK IN THE JOURNAL .ATURE SIGNS POINTING TO AN AUTISM DIAGNOSIS MAY BE DETECTABLE IN THE FIRST TWO TO SIX MONTHS OF LIFE 7HILE AUTISM SPECTRUM DISORDERS !3$ ARE USUALLY DIAGNOSED IN TODDLERS BETWEEN THE AGES OF THREE AND FIVE YEARS A NEW STUDY FROM %MORY 5NIVERSITY IN !TLANTA FOUND THAT INFANTS AS YOUNG AS TWO MONTHS BEGIN TO EXHIBIT DECLINING EYE CONTACT AND FACIAL RECOGNITION BY FOLLOWING EYE MOVEMENT PATTERNS ASSOCIATED WITH A LATER DIAGNOSIS OF AUTISM h7HAT WE FOUND WAS THAT INFANTS LATER DIAGNOSED WITH AUTISM LOOKED LESS AND LESS AT MOM S EYES OVER TIME 4HEY SHOWED A STEADY DECLINE IN EYE LOOKING FROM TWO TO MONTHS OF LIFE n AND THAT DECLINE WAS ALREADY HAPPENING WITHIN THE FIRST SIX MONTHS OF LIFE v SAID STUDY AUTHOR $R 7ARREN *ONES h4HIS GIVES US HOPE THAT IN THE FUTURE IF WE COULD IDENTIFY CHILDREN WITH !3$ AT EARLY POINTS WE COULD INTERVENE IN WAYS THAT COULD BUILD ON THAT FOUNDATION OF EYE CONTACT AND FACIAL RECOGNITION SKILLS v !S A NOTE TO PARENTS *ONES STRESSED THAT THE EYE MOVEMENT PATTERNS ANALYZED IN HIS STUDY CANNOT BE DETECTED WITH THE NAKED EYE BY PARENTS AND THAT MORE RESEARCH IS NEEDED BEFORE ANY DIAGNOSTIC TOOLS OR INTERVENTIONS CAN BE MADE WIDELY AVAILABLE

The Smaller the Testicles, the Better the Father? ! NEW STUDY PUBLISHED IN THE 0ROCEEDINGS OF THE .ATIONAL !CADEMY OF 3CIENCES HAS SUGGESTED THAT TESTICLE SIZE PLAYS A ROLE IN WHETHER OR NOT A MAN IS AN INVOLVED DAD %SSENTIALLY THE SMALLER THE FAMILY JEWELS THE BETTER THE FAMILY MAN 0RIOR RESEARCH HAS ALREADY SUGGESTED THAT MEN WITH HIGHER TESTOSTERONE LEVELS ARE LESS INVOLVED IN CHILDREARING BUT TESTOSTERONE CAN VARY WIDELY BECAUSE OF AGE OR DIET OR GENERAL HEALTH h4ESTICULAR VOLUME IS LIKELY TO BE A MORE STABLE MEASURE THAN TESTOSTERONE v SAYS STUDY AUTHOR *AMES 2ILLING )T SHOULD BE NOTED THAT RESEARCHERS DON T KNOW WHETHER OR NOT SIMPLY HAVING KIDS MAY SHRINK THE SIZE OF TESTICLES OR IF MEN S TESTICLES SHRINK AS THEY BECOME MORE INVOLVED IN CAREGIVING (OWEVER THE STUDY DOES LEND CREDENCE TO THE BRANCH OF EVOLUTIONARY PSYCHOLOGY KNOWN AS LIFE HISTORY THEORY WHICH SUGGESTS THAT SINCE A HUMAN S ENERGY IS LIMITED THERE IS ALWAYS A COMPETITION FOR RESOURCES BETWEEN MATING AND PARENTING 4HIS STUDY SHOWS THAT IF ENERGY EITHER GOES TO RAISING THE YOUNG OR MAKING MORE YOUNG ONES

THERE MAY BE CORRESPONDING PHYSICAL EFFECTS

The Vocabulary Gap Between Affluent and Low-income Children Begins Early .EW RESEARCH BY !NNE &ERNALD A PSYCHOLOGIST AT 3TANFORD 5NIVERSITY PUBLISHED IN $EVELOPMENTAL 3CIENCE THIS YEAR SHOWED THAT AT MONTHS CHILDREN FROM WEALTHIER HOMES COULD IDENTIFY PICTURES OF SIMPLE WORDS THEY KNEW hDOGv OR hBALLv MUCH FASTER THAN CHILDREN FROM LOW INCOME FAMILIES "Y AGE THE STUDY FOUND THAT AFFLUENT CHILDREN HAD LEARNED PERCENT MORE WORDS IN THE INTERVENING MONTHS THAN THE CHILDREN FROM LOW INCOME HOMES 3INCE ORAL LANGUAGE AND VOCABULARY ARE SO CONNECTED TO READING COMPREHENSION THE MOST DISADVANTAGED CHILDREN FACE INCREASED CHALLENGES ONCE THEY ENTER SCHOOL AND START LEARNING TO READ

Luana 4 years old “Give presents away.”

Denae 2 years old “I like to play and I like to tickle Luana.”

Yelling and Swearing at Teens can Backfire 4HIRTEEN YEAR OLDS WHO RECEIVED A LOT OF HARSH VERBAL DISCIPLINE FROM THEIR PARENTS WERE MORE LIKELY TO HAVE SYMPTOMS OF DEPRESSION AT AGE ACCORDING TO THE FINDINGS PUBLISHED IN THE JOURNAL #HILD $EVELOPMENT 4HEY WERE ALSO MORE LIKELY TO EXHIBIT PROBLEM BEHAVIORS SUCH AS ANGER

AGGRESSION VANDALISM AND MISCONDUCT h/BVIOUSLY THERE ARE TIMES WHERE PARENTS ARE JUSTIFIABLY ANGRY AND YELL IN EXASPERATION v SAYS STUDY AUTHOR -ING 4E 7ANG BUT SHE FOUND THAT ONGOING HARSH DISCIPLINE YELLING SCREAMING SWEARING

AND INSULTING ISN T CONSTRUCTIVE ! BETTER IDEA WOULD BE TO USE CONSTRUCTIVE CONSEQUENCES SOMETHING THAT EDUCATES RATHER THAN HUMILIATES !CCORDING TO !LAN +AZDIN PROFESSOR OF PSYCHOLOGY AND CHILD PSYCHIATRY AT 9ALE 5NIVERSITY AND AUTHOR OF h4HE %VERYDAY 0ARENTING 4OOLKIT v WHEN IT COMES TO REARING TEENS hTHE BIG THREE ARE GOOD COMMUNICATION LOVE AND LIMITS )F YOU CONSISTENTLY PRACTICE THESE THREE CHANCES ARE YOU LL RAISE A HAPPY

HEALTHY CHILD v

Kairi 7 years old “Well, Christmas Eve because we get Christmas stockings and yummy candy and we get to hang out with each other.”

Hannah 5 years old “I like to play in the snow and I like to make snow angels.”

December 2013, Valley Parent

5

VP

Development

The Compassion Cure: Let Your Kids Catch You Being Generous

,ESSONS IN COMPASSION CAN BE GROUNDING FOR THE WHOLE FAMILY IN TUMULTUOUS TIMES WHEN IT SEEMS LIKE RANDOM DANGER CAN STRIKE ANYWHERE AT ANY MOMENT ,ET YOUR KIDS CATCH YOU BEING KIND SO THEY WILL HAVE REAL LIFE MEMORIES TO RECOLLECT LATER THAT REMIND THEM TO BE A POSITIVE FORCE IN THE WORLD TODAY NO MATTER HOW OTHERS CHOOSE TO BEHAVE /FTEN CHILDREN ARE BETTER AT COMPASSION AND KINDNESS THAN ADULTS 7HEN THIS IS THE CASE WE SHOULD FOLLOW THEIR LEAD #ULTIVATING A SPIRIT OF GENEROSITY ENCOURAGES US TO SEE THE HUMANITY IN ANY SITUATION RATHER THAN DEFAULTING TO JUDGMENT OR CONDEMNATION 3O IF YOU WANT TO RAISE THOUGHTFUL

PEACE LOVING KIDS SHOW THEM THE WAY 'ET SOME GENEROSITY GOING AND KEEP IT FLOWING

Holiday imagination doubled...

Renovated Children’s Section – twice the Space innovative 2014 Calendars best Selection in the mid-Valley See our nPR Reading list Shelf

Order it here or on our site Knowledgeable staff

www.grassrootsbookstore.com 6 Valley Parent, December 2013

s (%,0 4(/3% 7(/ .%%$ )4 -/34 'RANDMOTHER AND AUTHOR

*ESSICA -ORRELL LIKES TO GIVE HER GRANDDAUGHTERS A COOL LESSON IN GENEROSITY WHEN THEY STOP IN THE CAR AT HIGHWAY RAMPS OR INTERSECTIONS h) CREATE LITTLE BAGS TO PASS OUT ˆ A FEW DOLLARS A PROTEIN BAR HAND SANITIZER

TISSUES ETC ) CHANGE THE ITEMS DEPENDING ON THE SEASON ˆ ADD COUGH DROPS IN WINTER TRY TO GIVE OUT WATER BOTTLES ON HOT DAYS v )F YOU DON T FEEL COMFORTABLE GIVING MONEY GIVE STURDY

HEALTHY FOOD ITEMS OR EVEN A NICE CUP OF HOT CHOCOLATE !SK YOUR KIDS WHAT THEY WOULD LIKE TO GIVE AND ACT ON THEIR IDEAS s ')6% .!4)/.!,,9 /2 ',/"!,,9 7HEN A NATIONAL OR INTERNATIONAL TRAGEDY STRIKES GET YOUR KIDS INVOLVED IN DONATING A LITTLE TO 4HE 2ED #ROSS REDCROSS ORG OR OTHER EMERGENCY ORGANIZATIONS %XPLAIN THAT WHEN DISASTERS HAPPEN IT HELPS TO DO A SMALL GOOD DEED EVEN IF IT S JUST MAKING A MODEST CONTRIBUTION )F YOUR CHILD JUST HAD A "AR -ITZVAH OR A BIG BIRTHDAY

ENCOURAGE HER TO GIVE A SMALL AMOUNT TO A CAUSE SHE BELIEVES IN AND SEE HOW IT MAKES HER FEEL s #!4#( 4(%- ). 4(% !#4 )F YOU NOTICE YOUR CHILD GOING ABOVE AND

BEYOND LET HIM KNOW YOU FEEL PROUD ) WAS WONDERING IF ) WAS NAGGING MY DAUGHTER TOO MUCH ABOUT EXTENDING KINDNESS TO THE NEW GIRL IN DANCE CLASS 4HEN ) MET HER MOTHER AT THE FALL MIXER AND SHE COMMENTED THAT HER DAUGHTER ALWAYS SPEAKS HIGHLY OF MY DAUGHTER 2ATHER THAN MOSTLY FOCUSING ON CORRECTING NEGATIVE BEHAVIOR ) TRY TO MAKE A POINT OF TELLING MY DAUGHTER WHEN SHE MAKES ME PROUD 4HIS WAS ONE OF THOSE TIMES s "% ! '//$ 4)00%2 ,ET KIDS HELP YOU WORK OUT FOR TIPS ON RESTAURANT MEALS AND THEN TEACH THEM HOW TO TACK ON A LITTLE EXTRA 4HE WAITRESS AT THE RESTAURANT WORKS HARD ˆ SO DOES YOUR

LOCAL BARISTA POSTAL DELIVERY PERSON AND BABYSITTER 4ALK TO KIDS ABOUT CREATING A HOLIDAY THANK YOU GIFT TOGETHER TO EXPRESS YOUR FAMILY S APPRECIATION AND THEN ADD IN A SMALL CASH BONUS OR GIFT CARD s $/. 4 /6%2,//+ 4(% ,)44,% 4().'3 (OLD DOORS OPEN FOR THOSE BEHIND AND AHEAD OF YOU 4EACH KIDS TO REPLY h9OU RE WELCOME v WHEN SOMEONE THANKS THEM FOR ANYTHING !SK THEM TO SMILE AT SENIORS AND SAY HELLO TO FOLKS WHO WALK BY WITH WELL BEHAVED PETS 7HEN A FRIEND WEARS SOMETHING PRETTY TO SCHOOL TEACH YOUR CHILD HOW TO OFFER A GENUINE COMPLIMENT 3INCERITY IS IMPORTANT -AKE SURE YOUR KIDS KNOW WHAT IT MEANS AND DON T TRY TO USE COMPLIMENTS TO SNOW PEOPLE s 3(!2).' #,/3% 4/ (/-% &EED THE BIRDS AROUND YOUR HOME ALL YEAR LONG 'ET KIDS INVOLVED IN TAKING STRAY PETS TO A LOCAL NO KILL SHELTER IF THEY ARE IN NEED OF A NEW HOME "RING FROZEN MEALS OR WARM MUFFINS TO AN AILING SENIOR OR NEIGHBOR WHO HAS JUST DELIVERED HER THIRD BABY 'ET THE KIDS TO MOW SOMEONE S LAWN A COUPLE OF TIMES

BRING IN THE MAIL AND FEED THE PETS FOR A NEIGHBOR ON VACATION 3MALL UNSELFISH ACTS CAN BOOST KIDS SELF ESTEEM AND MAKE THEM FEEL LIKE A MORE INTEGRAL MEMBER OF THE COMMUNITY

!S A PERSON WHO MAKES PLENTY OF MISTAKES IN HER LIFE #HRISTINA +ATZ IS GRATEFUL FOR THE REDEEMING POWERS OF KINDNESS

COMPASSION AND GENEROSITY

BOOKS THAT ENCOURAGE CHILDREN TO BE GENEROUS

BOOKS THAT ENCOURAGE TWEENS TO BE GENEROUS

s 2EACH /UT !ND 'IVE BY #HERI * -EINERS - %D

s 4HE 'IVING "OOK /PEN 4HE $OOR 4O ! ,IFETIME /F 'IVING BY %LLEN 3ABIN

s 5NDER 4HE ,EMON -OON BY %DITH (OPE &INE

s (OW 4O "E !N %VERYDAY 0HILANTHROPIST BY .ICOLE "OUCHARD "OLES

s 4HE 1UILTMAKER S 'IFT BY *EFF "RUMBEAU

s 4HE +ID S 'UIDE 4O 3ERVICE 0ROJECTS BY "ARBARA ! ,EWIS

s 4HE "ERENSTAIN "EARS 4HE *OY /F 'IVING BY -IKE AND *AN "ERENSTAIN

s /NE 'OOD $EED ! $AY ! *OURNAL &ROM #HRONICLE "OOKS

Memories

VP

Fabulous Family Photos!

Pro Secrets for Best-Ever Holiday Pics

,OOKING TO UPGRADE YOUR HO HUM HOLIDAY FAMILY PHOTO -AYBE YOU RE SEARCHING FOR A FEW FRESH POSES THAT DON T INVOLVE PARKING THE BROOD SQUARELY ON THE SOFA 9OU MIGHT BE DYING TO DEPART FROM BORING BLACK CLOTHES FOR THIS YEAR S PHOTO BUT TOO TIRED TO PULL TOGETHER COORDINATING TRENDY TOGS /R PERHAPS YOU JUST WANT YOUR ON THE GO TODDLER TO SIT STILL LONG ENOUGH TO FOR YOU TO CLICK THE SHUTTER BONUS POINTS IF HE S ACTUALLY LOOKING AT THE CAMERA "EFORE YOU YELP h%NOUGH v AND START DOCTORING LAST YEAR S PHOTOS IN AN ATTEMPT TO PASS ONE OFF AS BRAND NEW READ ON FOR PRO TIPS TO HELP MAKE THIS YEAR S HOLIDAY PHOTO SHINE '%4 ).30)2%$ 'IVE YOUR CREATIVE PROCESS A JOLT VIA THE ONLINE INSPIRATION HUB 0INTEREST COM 3EARCH FOR hHOLIDAY FAMILY PHOTOSv TO PERUSE STRIKING FAMILY SHOTS FEATURING UNIQUE PROPS NON STANDARD LOCALES AND DISTINCTIVE POSES #REATE YOUR OWN PINBOARD OF INSPIRING IMAGES AND DON T FORGET TO SHARE YOUR FAVORITES WITH YOUR PHOTOGRAPHER EVEN IF IT S YOUR NEIGHBOR COLOR WHEEL $RESSING EVERYONE IN PERFECTLY COLOR MATCHED DUDS DOES LITTLE TO SHOWCASE FAMILY MEMBERS UNIQUE PERSONALITIES SAYS -AUI FAMILY AND WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER +ARMA (ILL &OR POLISHED PICS

THINK @COORDINATE NOT @MATCH h)T S LIKE DECORATING A ROOM v SAYS (ILL h9OU DON T USE ONE COLOR YOU CHOOSE DIFFERENT COLORS THAT WORK WELL TOGETHER v &OR TRADITIONALISTS PHOTOGRAPHER %MILY *OHNSTON OF 0IX BY %MILY IN 'ILBERT !RIZONA RECOMMENDS WORKING A SINGULAR BRIGHT TONE INTO EACH PERSON S OUTFIT IN A DIFFERENT WAY LIKE A RED TIE FOR DAD A RED SCARF FOR MOM AND RED SWEATERS FOR THE KIDS &OR A TRENDIER LOOK

PICK A VARIETY OF COLORS WITHIN A SIMILAR FAMILY

LIKE JEWEL TONES YELLOWS OR GRAY HUES FROM HEATHER TO CHARCOAL !##%33/29 !00%!, h! FEW FUN

BOLD ACCESSORIES ADD SHARP DETAILS THAT MAKE YOUR PICTURES POP v SAYS *OHNSTON h4HINGS LIKE A FLOWER HEADBAND FOR A LITTLE GIRL A LONG LAYERED NECKLACE FOR MOM BRIGHT EARRINGS FOR A TEEN GIRL A FEDORA FOR A BOY OR A LARGE WRISTWATCH FOR DAD v "ONUS ,ETTING STYLE CONSCIOUS KIDS CHOOSE A FEW HIP ACCESSORIES HELPS EASE THE STING OF HAVING TO DON PARENT SELECTED PORTRAIT ATTIRE PRIME TIME 0LANNING FOR A FAMILY SHOT RIGHT AFTER NAPTIME OR RIGHT BEFORE DINNER IS A RECIPE FOR DISASTER #HILDREN ARE DIFFICULT TO PHOTOGRAPH UNDER THE BEST OF CIRCUMSTANCES

AND IF THEY RE TIRED OR HUNGRY YOU RE NOT LIKELY TO GET THE SHOT YOU WANT UNLESS A hSCREAMING KIDSv PHOTO IS WHAT YOU RE AFTER h)F YOU HAVE VERY YOUNG CHILDREN TIME PHOTOS WHEN THEY FIRST WAKE UP FROM A NAP OR FIRST THING IN THE MORNING AFTER BREAKFAST v SAYS (ILL LIGHT RIGHT ,IGHTING DETERMINES YOUR PHOTO S QUALITY AND MOOD AND MUDDY LIGHTING SPOILS AN OTHERWISE STELLAR SHOT

h/PEN SHADEv A PATCH OF SHADE SURROUNDED

BY LIGHT IS IDEAL SAYS (ILL !VOID MIDDAY SUN OR HARSH OVERHEAD INDOOR LIGHTS THAT CAST UNFLATTERING DARK SHADOWS UNDER THE EYES )NSTEAD AIM FOR LIGHT THAT STREAMS IN AT AN ANGLE A CONDITION THAT OCCURS NATURALLY IN THE MORNING AND LATE AFTERNOON !ND BEWARE THE UNNEEDED FLASHBULB h5SING THE FLASH LENDS UNNATURAL COLOR TO SKIN v SAYS (ILL h7ITH GOOD NATURAL LIGHT THERE S NO NEED FOR IT v '%4 3/-% 0%230%#4)6% 2EADY TO RISE TO THE OCCASION 0HOTOGRAPHING FROM UP HIGH OR DOWN LOW MAKES FOR SURPRISING ANGLES AND INTERESTING FRAME WORTHY PHOTOS h&OR FUN UNIQUE PERSPECTIVE GET ON THE FLOOR TO PHOTOGRAPH YOUR KIDS AT THEIR LEVEL v SAYS *OHNSTON 3TEER CLEAR OF THE DREADED DOUBLE CHIN ON ADULTS BY STEPPING ON A CHAIR OR STEPLADDER AND SHOOTING FROM ABOVE EXPLORE APERTURE 9OUR CAMERA S APERTURE SETTING DETERMINES ITS RANGE OF FOCUS A LOWER APERTURE NUMBER PUTS THE

FOCUS ON THE SUBJECTS AND BLURS THE BACKGROUND )F YOU HAVE A CAMERA THAT HAS APERTURE PRIORITY MODE USE IT v SAYS (ILL 4HIS MODE LETS YOU ADJUST ONLY THE APERTURE WITHOUT FUSSING WITH THE CAMERA S OTHER SETTINGS 02/0 3(/0 — 0ROPS OBJECTS THAT ADD MEANING AND DIMENSION TO PHOTOS ARE THE LATEST TREND IN FAMILY AND KIDS PHOTOGRAPHY SAYS *OHNSTON 4RY INCLUDING A BANNER THAT SAYS h(APPY .EW 9EAR v SMALL CHALKBOARDS WITH A FESTIVE WORD LIKE h-ERRY v h(APPY v AND h*OY v OR A SQUARE SIGN WITH THE FAMILY S LAST INITIAL ! STRING OF GLOWING #HRISTMAS LIGHTS IS A PROP WITH ENDLESS POSSIBILITIES TRY WINDING IT GENTLY AROUND KIDS FEET OR LETTING TODDLERS EXPLORE THE TWINKLING STRAND WHILE YOU SNAP AWAY DIVIDE AND CONQUER )F THE (OLY 'RAIL OF FAMILY PHOTOS ALL KIDS LOOKING AT THE CAMERA AND SMILING SIMULTANEOUSLY PROVES ELUSIVE DON T LOSE HOPE 3NAP INDIVIDUAL PHOTOS OF EACH CHILD AND HAVE A FRIEND OR NEIGHBOR TAKE A PHOTO OF MOM AND DAD TOGETHER 5SE PHOTO EDITING SOFTWARE OR A PRE MADE HOLIDAY CARD TEMPLATE WITH MULTIPLE PHOTO OPENINGS TO CREATE A PERSONALIZED PHOTO COLLAGE 0%2&%#4,9 9/523 !S FOR THAT GROUP FAMILY PORTRAIT YOU WANT IT MAY HELP TO SOFTEN YOUR DEFINITION OF hPERFECT v 0OSED PHOTOS MAY NOT BE YOUR FAMILY S THING BUT AN AFTERNOON SPENT DOING SOMETHING YOU ENJOY WHETHER IT S COOKING SURFING OR HORSEBACK RIDING COULD YIELD PURE PHOTO MAGIC -ATCH YOUR PHOTOGRAPHY GOALS TO YOUR FAMILY S UNIQUE TASTE AND TEMPERAMENT AND YOU RE SURE TO SCORE THE MANTLE WORTHY SHOT OF YOUR DREAMS

-ALIA *ACOBSON IS A NATIONALLY PUBLISHED JOURNALIST WHO LOVES SNAPPING PHOTOS OF HER THREE KIDS

December 2013, Valley Parent

7

VP

Strategies

Five Tips for Keeping Your Sanity while Traveling with Small Children )F YOU HAVE EVER TRAVELED WITH SMALL CHILDREN YOU KNOW HOW NERVE RACKING IT CAN BE 4HE STRESS LEVEL KICKS UP A NOTCH WHEN YOU ARE FLYING %VEN SHORT TRIPS CAN BE EXASPERATING WITH AN INCONSOLABLE TODDLER OR MULTIPLE CHILDREN -AINTENANCE DELAYS AND AIRCRAFT ISSUES TRAFFIC JAMS AND CONSTRUCTION

AND MANY OTHER UN ANTICIPATED ISSUES OFTEN EXTEND AN ALREADY EXHAUSTING EXPERIENCE ,UCKILY WITH A LITTLE BIT OF PRE PLANNING THERE ARE SOME EASY WAYS TO KEEP THE KIDS OCCUPIED AND HAPPY WHILE TRAVELING EVEN ON LONG TRIPS (ERE ARE FIVE TIPS FOR MAINTAINING YOUR SANITY WHILE TRAVELING WITH SMALL CHILDREN s 0!#+ ! h42!6%, +)4v !.$ ).#,5$% 3/-% .%7 4/93 The DOLLAR BINS AT LARGE RETAILERS OR OTHER DISCOUNT STORES PROVIDE AN INEXPENSIVE WAY TO LOAD UP ON NEW TOYS AND ACTIVITIES 3TOCK UP ON CRAYONS AND COLORING BOOKS SMALL DRY ERASE BOARDS

FLASH CARDS BOOKS ETC 4O MAKE THIS EVEN MORE FUN AND EXCITING INDIVIDUALLY WRAP EACH ITEM AND MARK IT FOR THE ORDER IN WHICH IT SHOULD BE OPENED 3TART WITH THE LEAST EXCITING WHICH WILL STILL BE EXCITING TO THEM BECAUSE IT S A PRESENT !S THEY GET BORED WITH AN ITEM PROGRESS THROUGH THE hPRESENTS v !S A SIDE NOTE BE SURE YOU DO NOT TELL THE CHILDREN IN ADVANCE THAT YOU HAVE PACKED A BAG FULL OF PRESENTS OR THEY MAY JUST BE INTERESTED IN GETTING TO THE NEXT ONE s 0!#+ #!2 3%!4 !.$ h"/009v 0),,/7 )F YOU ARE FLYING WITH SMALL CHILDREN CONSIDER CARRYING THEIR CAR SEAT ONTO

THE PLANE 3ITTING IN THEIR OWN CAR SEAT PROVIDES A SENSE OF SAFETY AND FAMILIARITY TO A TODDLER AND IT ALSO KEEPS THEM BETTER RESTRAINED THAN THE SEAT BELT IN THE AIRPLANE SEAT &ROM EXPERIENCE IT DOES NOT TAKE A TODDLER LONG TO FIGURE OUT THAT THEY CAN ESCAPE FROM THE BELT BY SIMPLY LIFTING THE LATCH )F YOU ARE TRAVELING WITH AN INFANT THE hBOPPYv PILLOW CAN BE USED TO SUPPORT THE BABY IN YOUR ARMS WHICH IS MUCH MORE COMFORTABLE DURING THE FLIGHT s ).6%34 ). 0/24!",% 4%#(./,/'9 )F YOU DO NOT ALREADY HAVE A PORTABLE $6$ PLAYER A TABLET ,EAPSTERS OR OTHER SIMILAR FORMS OF ENTERTAINMENT THESE ARE INVALUABLE FOR A TRIP $OWNLOAD SOME NEW GAMES AND PACK SOME NEW MOVIES PRIOR TO TRAVELING s 0!#+ 0,%.49 /& 3.!#+3 &ATIGUE AND HUNGER ARE USUALLY THE CULPRIT BEHIND MANY MELTDOWNS EVEN FOR ADULTS "E PROACTIVE BY PACKING A VARIETY OF SNACKS TO KEEP YOUR CHILD OCCUPIED WHILE WARDING OFF A HUNGER INDUCED TANTRUM #ARRYING YOUR OWN SNACKS WILL ALSO SAVE YOU A TON OF MONEY s 0,!. 4/ -!+% &2%15%.4 34/03 )F TRAVELING A LONG DISTANCE BY CAR TRY TO TRAVEL AT NIGHT OR EARLY IN THE MORNING

WHEN THE CHILDREN WILL LIKELY SLEEP &OR DAYTIME TRAVEL PLAN SOME STOPS AT ATTRACTIONS ALONG THE ROUTE TO BREAK THE TRIP INTO SMALLER CHUNKS )F THAT IS NOT AN OPTION PACK A BALL OR &RISBEE AND BURN OFF SOME ENERGY WHILE RUNNING AROUND FOR A LITTLE WHILE AT A REST AREA 4HE TRIP MAY TAKE A LITTLE LONGER THIS WAY

BUT IT WILL BE MORE ENJOYABLE FOR EVERYONE 4HE MOST IMPORTANT ELEMENT OF TRAVELING WITH SMALL CHILDREN IS TO HAVE REALISTIC EXPECTATIONS FOR THE TRIP 4HE CHILDREN MAY BE OVERLY EXCITED PERHAPS NERVOUS AND AFTER THE EXCITEMENT WEARS OFF BORED -AKE THE TRIP FUN FOR EVERYONE BY PLAYING WITH THE KIDS 7ITH A LITTLE BIT OF PRE PLANNING YOU CAN MAKE THE TRIP INTO AN ADVENTURE FOR EVERYONE RATHER THAN A STRESSFUL AND UNPLEASANT EXPERIENCE

!LEXA "IGWARFE IS THE MOTHER OF THREE CHILDREN AGES

AND 3HE AND HER HUSBAND TRAVEL WITH THE CHILDREN FREQUENTLY

fall in love with print.

make an impression.

Two Convenient Locations in Corvallis 5246 SW Philomath Blvd 948 NW Circle Blvd

ResuLTs GuaRanTeed!

8 Valley Parent, December 2013

Magazines . Newspapers Mailing Services . Graphic Design

541.926.3000

www.oregonwebpress.com

Strategies

VP

“It’s Not Fair!” How to Handle Holiday Rivalry 9OU SHOP @TIL YOU DROP FOR HOLIDAY GIFTS 4HEN

AS THE FLURRY OF WRAPPING AND RIBBONS SETTLES ON THE LIVING ROOM FLOOR YOU HEAR A SHRILL SMALL VOICE WHINE h-OM SHE GOT SEVEN PRESENTS AND ) ONLY GOT FIVE )T S NOT FAIR v -ATERIAL GIFTS ARE NO SUBSTITUTE FOR PARENTAL AFFECTION 3TILL KIDS MAKE THE CONNECTION BETWEEN WHAT PARENTS GIVE AND HOW PARENTS FEEL )F WE TEACH KIDS THAT GIFT GIVING IS AN EXPRESSION OF CARING IT MAKES SENSE THEY D TAKE NOTE OF JUST HOW MUCH LOOT OR LOVE THEY RECEIVE HOW MUCH DID I GET? +IDS UNDERSTANDING OF EQUITY RELATED CONCEPTS LIKE COUNT COST AND KIND DEVELOP THROUGHOUT CHILDHOOD 9OUNG KIDS THINK IN CONCRETE EGOCENTRIC TERMS ! TODDLER UNDERSTANDS A BIG PIECE OF CAKE IS BETTER THAN A SMALL PIECE ! KINDERGARTENER KNOWS SEVEN GIFTS IS MORE THAN FIVE h9OUNG CHILDREN WILL BE HAPPIEST WITH THE SAME NUMBER OF GIFTS

BECAUSE THEY RE USUALLY UNAWARE OF PRICE v SAYS 4AMARA 3HULMAN 0H $ A CLINICAL PSYCHOLOGIST WHO PRACTICES IN .EW 9ORK #ITY AND #LIFTON

.EW *ERSEY /LDER KIDS ARE MORE COST AWARE AND MAY CHOOSE ONE EXPENSIVE ITEM THEY REALLY WANT OVER MANY LESS COSTLY ONES 'IFT RELATED GRIPES ARE SELDOM ABOUT THE MATERIAL OBJECTS THEMSELVES EXPERTS SAY THEY RE A REFLECTION OF THE MEANING KIDS ATTACH TO THOSE OBJECTS &AIRNESS CONCERNS EXPRESS KIDS FEARS THAT PARENTS FAVOR ONE SIBLING MORE THAN ANOTHER h3IBLING RIVALRY IS DEVELOPMENTALLY APPROPRIATE THROUGHOUT CHILDHOOD AND INTO MIDDLE ADOLESCENCE v SAYS 3TEPHANIE -IHALAS

0H $ A PSYCHOLOGIST WHO WORKS WITH CHILDREN AND FAMILIES IN ,OS !NGELES #ALIF +IDS COMPLAIN WHEN MOM TAKES ONE CHILD OUT FOR ICE CREAM WHILE THE OTHER TAKES HER PIANO LESSON 4HEY RE ALWAYS AWARE OF HOW MUCH ATTENTION THEY RECEIVE

2IVALRY ISN T JUST A DEVELOPMENTAL ISSUE /UR SOCIETY CREATES AND REINFORCES THE EXPECTATION THAT EVERYTHING NEEDS TO BE FAIR SAYS MARRIAGE AND FAMILY THERAPIST $AVID 3IMONSEN ,-&4 A FATHER OF SIX IN /LYMPIA 7ASHINGTON "ECAUSE OUR CULTURE EQUATES FAIRNESS WITH SAMENESS

KIDS TODAY LEARN THAT EVERYONE GETS A TROPHY

REGARDLESS OF THEIR PERFORMANCE 7HEN EVERYONE ISN T TREATED THE SAME KIDS MAY FEEL THEY VE BEEN SLIGHTED (/7 -5#( $)$ 3(% '%4 h+IDS ARE HYPERSENSITIVE AT HOLIDAY TIME BECAUSE THEY RE COMPARING GIFT LISTS WITH PEERS AT SCHOOL AND WITH SIBLINGS AT HOME v SAYS -IHALAS 3OME FAMILY SITUATIONS MAY EXACERBATE FAIRNESS CONCERNS &OR INSTANCE hCHILDREN OF DIVORCED PARENTS MAY PIT PARENTS AGAINST ONE ANOTHER AT HOLIDAY TIME v SAYS -IHALAS ! CHILD MAY TELL MOM h$ID YOU KNOW DAD IS GOING TO GET ME A BIG TRAIN v AND TELL DAD h$ID YOU KNOW MOM IS GETTING ME A BIKE v "LENDED FAMILY DYNAMICS ARE ALSO TRICKY )F THE NON

BIOLOGICAL CHILD FEELS THEY RECEIVED LESS OR THEY RECEIVED DIFFERENT KINDS OF GIFTS n FOR INSTANCE

SOCKS AND BOOKS INSTEAD OF AN I0OD AND 5GGS n THEY MAY RESENT THEIR MORE FORTUNATE STEP SIBLINGS &EELING LEFT OUT MAY CAUSE KIDS TO ACT OUT FOR ATTENTION OR TO RETALIATE 3OMETIMES PARENTS DO DISCRIMINATE EVEN UNCONSCIOUSLY h)T IS IMPORTANT THAT PARENTS HONESTLY SELF EVALUATE TO SEE IF THEY ARE SHOWING PREFERENTIAL TREATMENT FOR ONE CHILD OVER THE OTHER v SAYS ,ESLIE 0ETRUK - ! ,0# A CHILD AND FAMILY THERAPIST IN #HARLOTTE .# 0ARENTS MAY BUY @BETTER GIFTS FOR A CHILD WHOSE INTERESTS MATCH THEIR OWN OR BUY PRACTICAL PRESENTS FOR ONE WHO NEEDS ITEMS LIKE A BACKPACK AND BIKE HELMET !SK EACH CHILD FOR A WISH LIST AND USE IT AS A SHOPPING GUIDE 4AKING KIDS PREFERENCES INTO ACCOUNT MAKES THEM FEEL SPECIAL HOW TO DEAL WITH THE DRAMA )T S IMPOSSIBLE TO WIN THE FAIRNESS GAME %VEN IF YOU GIVE EACH CHILD SIX GIFTS SPEND PRECISELY THE SAME AMOUNT OR BUY EACH CHILD

A PERSONALIZED VERSION OF THE VERY SAME ITEM

hCHILDREN WILL ALWAYS BE ABLE TO FIND SOME WAY IN WHICH THEIR SIBLING WAS GIVEN MORE TREATED DIFFERENTLY OR @BETTER IN THEIR VIEW v SAYS 0ETRUK )F KIDS RAISE CONCERNS DON T GET CAUGHT UP IN LENGTHY DISCUSSION OF WHO GOT MORE YOU LL ONLY FUEL FRUSTRATIONS 4AKE A DETACHED INQUISITIVE APPROACH !SK hHOW DOES YOUR GIFT MAKE YOU FEEL v OR hWHAT WERE YOU HOPING TO GET v +IDS ANSWERS CAN GIVE PARENTS GREAT INSIGHT INTO THEIR FEELINGS ABOUT COMPETITION AND CARING (EARING KIDS OUT DOESN T MEAN YOU AGREE WITH THEM 9OUR GOAL IS TO ENSURE YOUR CHILD FEELS RESPECTED 2EFLECT HER CONCERNS BACK SO SHE KNOWS YOU GET IT ADVISES 0ETRUK 3AY h)T SOUNDS LIKE YOU FEEL LIKE YOUR SISTER GOT MORE GIFTS THEN YOU DID AND BECAUSE OF THAT YOU FEEL LIKE MOM AND DAD LOVE HER MORE THAN WE LOVE YOU v /FFER A HUG AND SPEND SOME TIME ONE ON ONE 3UPPORT YOUR CHILD WHILE SHE WRESTLES WITH HER FEELINGS 2ESIST THE URGE TO SMOOTH OVER KIDS SORROWS OR TO DIMINISH DISCONTENT WITH MAKE UP GIFTS h+IDS NEED TO KNOW HOW TO DEAL WITH DISAPPOINTMENT v SAYS 3IMONSEN h,IFE ISN T FAIR v 7HEN YOU RE TEMPTED TO GIVE KIDS MORE STUFF TO STOP THEIR COMPLAINTS ASK YOURSELF hWHAT WILL THIS LOOK LIKE THEN THEY RE TEENAGERS v ! PILLOW PET MAY PLACATE A YEAR OLD BUT TEENS WANT COMPUTERS AND CARS $ON T LET EQUITY ISSUES PUT A DAMPER ON YOUR HOLIDAY SPIRIT h4HIS IS A PERFECT OPPORTUNITY TO HAVE A DISCUSSION ABOUT YOUR FAMILY VALUES REGARDING MATERIAL THINGS AND YOUR LOVE FOR YOUR CHILDREN v SAYS 3HULMAN 3ELECT THOUGHTFUL GIFTS BASED ON KIDS UNIQUE INTERESTS AND WISHES AND TELL THEM YOU LOVE THEM MORE THAN GIFTS COULD EVER EXPRESS

(EIDI 3MITH ,UEDTKE 0H $

Full Service Event Planning x Weddings x Conferences x Presentations

x Parties x Reunions and more

Our professional staff will assist you through every detail from start to finish with only one goal in mind, to exceed your expectations.

/"9Ê /",9

{{ÓÊ-7ÊÓ Ê-/, /]

",6 -

For Information Call Albany Golf & Event Center at (541) 926-6059 or visit www.albany-golf.com December 2013, Valley Parent

9

VP

Your Family Hair Place s 7E HAVE A +IDS #ORNER s 3PECIALIZING IN (AIRCUTS s 7AXING .OW !VAILABLE s .O !PPOINTMENT .ECESSARY s ,OCALLY /WNED AND /PERATED

CONVENIENCE WITH STYLE

TH !VE !LBANY IN THE 3AFEWAY 0ARKING LOT

541-924-2404 (/523 -ON &RI s 3AT

Register for Winter WINTER CLASSES begin Jan. 8 BIRTHDAY PARTIES & RENTALS TOO!

New! Morning Fitness Classes for Adults!

Downtown Dance Hip-Hop, Contemporary, Jazz, and Creative Dance Classes (for kids and adults)

223 NW 2nd Street (2nd & Van Buren) Corvallis

541-829-0070

www.DowntownDanceCorvallis.com 10 Valley Parent,December 2013

Education

Holiday Gifts Any Teacher Will Love (Just Say No to Apple Ornaments!)

4HE HOLIDAY SEASON IS HERE AND YOU D LIKE TO GIVE YOUR CHILD S CLASSROOM TEACHER A SPECIAL GIFT "UT WHAT DO TEACHERS REALLY WANT ) WAS A TEACHER FOR SEVERAL YEARS BEFORE HAVING MY OWN CHILDREN AND ) VE SPOKEN TO COUNTLESS OTHER TEACHERS 9ES MOST WILL GRACIOUSLY ACCEPT YET ANOTHER h7ORLD S 'REATEST 4EACHERv MUG OR A MINI SCHOOL BUS ORNAMENT "UT UNLESS THE TEACHER IS COLLECTING SUCH ITEMS TO USE IN A CAREER LONG ASSEMBLAGE PROJECT

THEY ARE BEST LEFT ON THE STORE SHELVES 4HE FOLLOWING ARE SOME #AN T 'O 7RONG TEACHER GIFT IDEAS !ND BE SURE TO CHECK SCHOOL POLICIES AS MANY DISTRICTS LIMIT THE VALUE AND TYPE OF GIFTS RECEIVED BY THEIR EMPLOYEES s 0%23/.!, ./4%3 ! HAND WRITTEN NOTE

ALONG WITH A CARD MADE BY YOUR CHILD IS ONE OF THE BEST LOVED TEACHER GIFTS -OST TEACHERS LIGHT UP WHEN TALKING ABOUT THE hWORDS OF WISDOMv THEY VE COLLECTED FROM STUDENTS 4HESE ARE KEEPSAKES CHERISHED AND SAVED FOR YEARS TO COME )F YOU ARE EXPERIENCE OR TEACHER TRAIT 3TUFF AN ENVEWRITING A LETTER TO YOUR CHILD S TEACHER

LOPE WITH SEVERAL SNOWFLAKES AND A SMALL BE SPECIFIC ABOUT WHAT SHE IS DOING WELL WALLET SIZED SIGNED PHOTO OF YOUR CHILD )NSTEAD OF WRITING h9OU RE A GREAT TEACHER v TRY h) LOVE HOW YOU NURTURE ,UCY S s ')&4 #!2$3 !LTHOUGH PARENTS OFTEN SAY EXCITEMENT FOR SCIENCE WITH LOTS OF HANDS THIS FEELS LIKE AN IMPERSONAL GIFT TEACHERS ON ACTIVITIES 3HE ALWAYS LOOKS FORWARD LOVE GIFT CARDS 4HEY CAN CHOOSE WHAT THEY TO WRITING STATUS NOTES IN THE @'UINEA 0IG WANT TO BUY AND WHEN )T S A SAD FACT THAT ,OG WHEN IT S HER TURN TO CARE FOR THEM v MOST TEACHERS SPEND MORE THAN OF #ONSIDER MAKING A COPY OF YOUR LETTER FOR THEIR OWN MONEY ANNUALLY IN PURCHASING THE PRINCIPAL TO PUT IN THE TEACHER S FILE CLASSROOM MATERIALS 4HUS GIFT CARDS TO STORES LIKE 4ARGET 3TAPLES AND "ARNES s #2%!4)6% ,)343 )F YOUR CHILD IS YOUNG .OBLE ARE UNIVERSALLY APPRECIATED 5NLESS OR DOES NOT ENJOY WRITING THERE ARE MANY YOU KNOW THE TEACHER S DIET AND HABITS CLEVER WAYS TO LIST WHAT HE LOVES ABOUT WELL TAKE CARE IN GIVING GIFT CARDS FOR BEING IN HIS TEACHER S CLASS &OR INSTANCE

FOOD AND PERSONAL SERVICES -OST TEACHCUT SOME CONSTRUCTION PAPER INTO SNOWERS WOULD WELCOME A 3TARBUCK S CARD BUT FLAKES !TTACH A WORD OR PHRASE TO EACH SOME MIGHT NOT BE AS ENTHUSED ABOUT TRYONE THAT DESCRIBES A FAVORITE CLASSROOM

THE “YOU REALLY SHOULDN’T HAVE!” LIST #ONSIDER THE NUMBER OF STUDENTS A TEACHER HAS EACH YEAR THINK OF HER SPACE LIMITATIONS AND JUST SAY NO TO s -UGS AND ORNAMENTS %VEN IF ONLY THREE STUDENTS WERE TO GIVE HER A h'REATEST 4EACHERv MUG EACH YEAR

SHE D SOON HAVE ENOUGH DRINKING VESSELS FOR HER OWN THRIFT STORE SHELF s 3CENTED LOTIONS AND CANDLES .OT ONLY IS FRAGRANCE A VERY PERSONAL PREFERENCE BUT THESE ITEMS PROLIFERATE JUST AS QUICKLY AS THE MUGS AND ORNAMENTS

s /VER SIZED OR FRAMED PICTURES )NCLUDING A SMALL SCHOOL PHOTO OF YOUR CHILD WITH A PERSONAL NOTE IS APPRECIATED !NYTHING LARGER IS AN ENCUMBRANCE s #ANDY AND HOMEMADE FOOD 3OME TEACHERS DO ENJOY GETTING A PLATE OF THEIR FAVORITE COOKIES BUT DON T RISK IT UNLESS YOU KNOW THE TEACHER WELL &OOD PILES UP FAST )N ADDITION THE TEACHER MIGHT BE LEAVING TOWN FOR WINTER BREAK OR SHE MIGHT BE AVOIDING SWEETS FOR HEALTH REASONS

ING THE NEW HOTSPOT IN RAW FOODS CUISINE 3IMILARLY MAKE SURE ANY SPA SERVICES ARE FLEXIBLE SHE MAY LOOK FORWARD TO A PEDICURE WITH TREPIDATION RATHER THAN TRANQUILITY s &//$ ')&43 7HILE TEACHERS OFTEN ENJOY EDIBLE GIFTS FOOD ITEMS SHOULD BE NON PERISHABLE AND HEALTHY %NERGY BARS NUTS AND DRIED FRUIT ARE AT A PREMIUM BECAUSE THEY CAN BE STORED AND USED FOR QUICK SNACKS ! TEACHER OFTEN RECEIVES SO MANY HOMEMADE COOKIES AND COFFEE CAKES THAT MUCH IS THROWN AWAY !ND MANY DON T WANT TO SABOTAGE A DIET WITH AN INFLUX OF CARAMEL CANDY s #,!33 ')&43 !LTHOUGH IT TAKES A BIT MORE PLANNING THERE ARE MANY BENEFITS TO PRESENTING A GIFT FROM THE WHOLE GROUP 3UCH A GIFT CAN SHOW OFF THE CLASS S PERSONALITY REDUCE THE FINANCIAL EXPENDITURE FOR INDIVIDUAL FAMILIES AND AVOID ANY PRETENSES OF FAVORITISM )F THE GROUP DECIDES TO GO IN ON A GIFT CARD THE TEACHER CAN BE PRESENTED WITH MUCH GREATER BUYING POWER !T ONLY A HEAD A CLASS OF COULD GIVE A GIFT CARD WITHOUT VIOLATING MOST DISTRICT POLICIES 7HEN COORDINATING SUCH EFFORTS IT IS IMPORTANT THAT THE GIFT BE PRESENTED FROM ALL STUDENTS WHETHER OR NOT THEY CONTRIBUTED FINANCIALLY AND ALL STUDENTS SHOULD HAVE A CHANCE TO SIGN THE GROUP CARD

!SHLEY 4ALMADGE

VP

Calendar

December 2013 /NGOING %VENTS

Cool Tools! Exhibition. Benton County Museum, 1101 Main St., Philomath. 10a.m.-4:30 p.m. Tuesday-Saturday through 2014. Free. Tools for agriculture, engineering, robotics, textiles, distilling, lumbering, surveying, and woodworking are all represented. Visitors can see the surveying tools used by Oregon pioneer Joseph C. Avery to lay out the town of Marysville (later Corvallis) in 1851, as well as a theodolite used to survey Lake Superior in 1869. This exhibition contains a chain saw that might be the largest you’ve ever seen! The HP35 calculator and the Hewlett-Packard ThinkJet printer had profound effects on American life--and the museum has the objects and share their stories. For information call (541) 929-6230 or visit http://www.bentoncountymuseum.org.

Creative Dance. Downtown Dance, 223 NW 2nd St., Corvallis. Mondays, 3:30-4:15 p.m. ages 3/12-5; Thursdays 3:45-4:30 p.m., ages 4-6; Fridays 10:15-11 a.m., ages 3/125. $13/session. These active classes are a perfect introduction to the world of dance through creative movement games, props, and stories. Skill development includes basic coordination, rhythm and dance concepts. Guaranteed to foster a love of dance! For information call (541) 829-0070 or visit www.DowntownDanceCorvallis.com. $ROP . 3HOP Wacky Indoor Bounce, 202 NW 3rd St., Corvallis. 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Tuesdays, and 10 a.m.-2 p.m. and 3-7 p.m. Thursdays. $12 per child. It’s parent time to shop or run errands, have a lunch date with a friend or spouse, or workout. Reservations are required one week in advance and are for a two hour time slot. Child must be out of diapers. Snack crackers and beverages are provided. Call (541) 757-6512 or visit www.wackybounce.com to reserve your spot. &AMILY #LIMB 4IME Indoor Climbing Center, 425 SW 26th St., Corvallis. 1-5 p.m. Saturday and Sunday. Cost is $3 per child, $6 per adult with a two-kids-per-parent limit.

Parents who are RecSports members bring only their current OSU ID to get in. Parents/guardians must sponsor and belay the child at all times. Visit http://oregonstate.edu/recsports/node/58#Family%20Climb or call (541) 737-1595 for information. &AMILY -OVIE 3WIM AT /SBORN !QUATIC #ENTER 1940 NW Highland Dr., Corvallis. 7-9 p.m. every third Friday. $4.75/adult, $3.75/youth 7-17, $2.50/child 0-6. Enjoy a swim-in movie with the family. There will be a different family-friendly movie projected pool-side each month.

Visit www.corvallisoregon.gov/pool or call (541) 766-7946 for information.

Hoolyeh International Dance. 1180 25th Ave., SW, Albany. 7-9 p.m. every Monday. $4. For information call (541) 967-8017 or grholcomb96@gmail.com.

La Leche League of Corvallis and Lebanon. Free services. La Leche League provides breastfeeding information and encouragement for families by phone, e-mail, group meetings, and online. We serve expectant and/or breastfeeding mothers and their families. We offer information and resources on the normal course of breastfeeding, help with overcoming breastfeeding challenges, and encouragement and peer group support for parents of infants and toddlers. For information about local meetings and programs call (541) 766-0055 or visit http://www.parentingsuccessnetwork.org/community-resources/communityresources/1185-2. ,IL +ICKERS 7INTER #LASSES Corvallis Sports Park, 175 Southwest Twin Oaks Circle, Corvallis. $10/membership.

Class fees vary. Days and times depend on age group. Ages 18 mos.-9yrs. Lil’ Kickers is a child development program with an emphasis on soccer! Classes are fun, high energy, and are a great place to get to know new families! For information call (541) 757-0776 or visit www.corvallissportspark.com.

Mommy and Me Dance. Dance Corvallis, 1898 SW 3rd St., Corvallis.1:30 Thursdays. First class is free. $40/month for returning students. This 40-minute class focuses on teaching young children coordination and the fundamentals of a dance class. They will sing and dance along to their favorite songs, while having fun with new friends. For ages 24 months-3 ½ years with any adult. Visit www.dancecorvallis.com for details or call (541) 556-2470.

-/03n-OTHERS OF 0RE3CHOOLERS First Baptist Church.

125 NW 10th St., Corvallis. 9-11 a.m. every other Friday beginning October 4. Cost is $45/year. It is a great opportunity for mothers of preschoolers to gather together. There is

childcare provided during this time. If you would like more information about MOPS please contact Sarah MacClary at sarah.macclary@gmail.com. Find us on Facebook or visit www.mops.org.

Music a la Carte. OSU Memorial Union Lounge, 2501 SW Jefferson Way, Corvallis. Noon-12:45 p.m. most Fridays during the fall, winter, and spring terms. Free.

These “brown bag� concerts showcase a wide variety of musicians and performance ensembles. Bring your lunch or purchase something from one of several restaurants in the MU. Call (541) 737-4061 or visit http://mu.oregonstate. edu/events-amp-entertainment/music for details. /PEN 2ECREATION 3WIM AT /SBORN !QUATIC #ENTER 1940 NW Highland Dr., Corvallis. 1-3 p.m. MondayThursday, 7-9 p.m. Wednesday, 1-9 p.m. Friday, 1-4 p.m.

Saturday and Sunday. $4.75/Adults, $3.75/youth 7-17, $2.50/children 0-6. Visits www.corvallisoregon.gov/pool or call (541) 766-7946 for information.

Oregon by Nature. Benton County Historical Museum, 1101 Main St., Philomath. 10 a.m.-4:30 p.m. TuesdaySaturday through 2013. Free. Oregon By Nature includes Oregon state symbols, a 19th-century Klamath canoe made from a single fir tree, mammals, birds, fossils, rocks, a hands-on area and a few other surprises. Informational labels are available on touch screen computers or your own smartphone. See www.bentoncountymuseum.org/exhibitions/kimono/ for information.

0ARENT #HILD 3WIM #LASS Albany Community Pool, 2150 36th Ave. SE, Albany. 6-6:30 p.m. Tuesdays and Thursdays. $4/child, free/parents or $37/10 class punch card. Drop in class, no registration required. Visit www. cityofalbany.net/departments/parks-and-recreation/aquatics/ albany-community-pool for details or call (541) 967-4521.

0%!#% 0ARENT 3UPPORT 'ROUP Osborn Aquatic Center Meeting Room, 1940 NW Highland Dr., Corvallis. 6:458:45 p.m. Wednesdays. Suggested donation: $5/adult/evening. Parents deserve a little PEACE. Join this fun, relaxed, ongoing Parent Enrichment and Continuing Education (PEACE) group. Different topic each night. Children swim for free while parents grow in their parenting skills! For more information contact Dave Jackson at (541) 760-9637 or familyconnectionsnight@gmail.com.

3TORY 4IME WITH 0UPPETS Downtown Carnegie Albany Public Library, 302 Ferry St. SW, Albany. 10:30-11:30 a.m.

Tuesdays. Free. Kids and YA. For info call (541) 917-7585.

4ODDLER 4IME 3WIM AT /SBORN !QUATIC #ENTER 1940 NW Highland Dr., Corvallis. 11:30 a.m.-1 p.m. MondayFriday. $4.75/Adults, $3.75/youth 7-17, $2.50/children 0-6. Children 6 and under are invited to enjoy a fun, mellow time in the pool. Siblings 8 and under welcome. The relaxed experience during this special session is designed to help infants and toddlers grow comfortable in the water.

A parent or guardian needs to accompany their children.

Visit www.corvallisoregon.gov/pool or call (541) 766-7946 for information.

Whiteside Theatre Tour. Whiteside Theatre, 361 SW Madison Ave., Corvallis. Noon-1p.m. first Mondays. Free/ members; $5/non-members. All tours of the Whiteside Theatre start promptly on time. Once a tour enters the building the doors are closed and joining the tour is not permitted. Videography of any kind is not permitted. To reserve your space simply e-mail reservations@whitesidetheatre.org with your name, any special arrangements, and the number in your group. Admission will be paid at the door on the day of the tour.

&RIDAY

Cascade Christmas Lights. 312 E. Sherman St., Lebanon.

6-11 p.m. Sunday-Thursday; 6 p.m.-Midnight, Friday/ Saturday. Free or cash/non-perishable food donations accepted for the Lebanon Soup Kitchen. Sit in your car, tune into 100.9 FM, and listen to an 8 ft. talking and singing snowman, a running train, and lots of Christmas spirit.

For information visit http://lebanonareachamber.chambermaster.com/events/index/2013-12-01. #HAMBER &OLK "ENEFIT Best Cellar Coffee House, Wesley Lounge, First Methodist Church, 1165 NW Monroe Ave., Corvallis. 7:30 p.m. $2-$10/adult; Free/children. A rare concert by two local acoustic duos. Rita Brown and Bill Smyth are best known as singer and lead guitarist of the original rock band The Flow. Singer-songwriter Ralph Penunuri and cellist Beth Brown play eclectic roots and chamber folk music. CARDV (Center Against Rape and Domestic Violence) is a local, private, nonprofit organization that has been serving survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, stalking and sex trafficking for 32 years.

All services are free, confidential and available to residents

of Linn and Benton counties. For information visit http:// corvallisfolklore.org/home/coffeehouse. #HILDREN S &RIDAY !RT #LASSES 155 Main St., Brownsville.

9:30-11 a.m. Jr. High and High School; 1-2:30 p.m. Grades 1-6. $20. 2D Animation: Drawing and Flip Books. Register at Art Center or Central Linn Schools. For information call (541) 466-5782. #HRISTMAS 3TORYBOOK ,AND Linn County Fair & Expo Center, Cascade Livestock Building, 3700 Knox Butte Rd., Albany. 6:30-8:30 p.m. Monday-Friday; 10 a.m.- 8:30 p.m. Saturday and Sunday through December 20. Free.

Simulated walk through the woods with over 85 scenes of Mother Goose rhyme characters, children’s fairy tale characters, and family movie scenes including some animated characters. Two model train systems, a lit Victorian Village, a Main Street of hand-carved buildings, and Bear Country with hundreds of stuffed bears. Includes Santa’s North Pole house with Santa and Mrs. Claus distributing candy canes. Dress warmly and bring a camera. For information visit www.christmasstorybookland.org/.

Creative Dance. Downtown Dance, 223 NW 2nd St., Corvallis. 10:15-11:15 a.m. Free/first class. Ages 3 ½-5.

Introduction to the world of dance through creative movement games, props and stories. For information visit www.

DowntownDanceCorvallis.com or call (541) 829-0070. &AMILY 3WIM Albany Community Pool, 2150 36th Ave. SE, Albany. 6:30-8 p.m. Wednesdays and Fridays. $3/ youth, $3.50/adult, free/under 3 years old, $10/family.

Children 15 and under must be accompanied by an adult in the water. Closed 12/25 and 1/1. Visit www.cityofalbany. net/parks/facilities/acp.php for details or call (541) 9674521.

Hip Hop Dance. The Little Gym of Corvallis, 958 NW Circle Blvd., Ste. A. 3:45 p.m., ages 4-6; 4:50 p.m., ages 6-12. Cost varies. This class is half dance, half gymnastics.

Kids will be exposed to jazz and Hip Hop styles, learning specific moves and exploring creative freestyle dance.

Call (541) 753-0950 for information and enrollment or see www.TheLittleGym.com/CorvallisOR. (OLIDAY &ESTIVAL OF 4REES AND "EST "ITES &OOD 4OUR Historic Downtown Brownsville. 4-7-p.m. Free. Kick off the holiday season in Brownsville at the annual Best Bites of Brownsville food tour. Brownsville eateries will provide samplings of special holiday-themed food and beverages at this tasty event. Taste your way through town while admiring decorated trees at participating Brownsville businesses and at the American Legion Hall, 335 N. Main St. View the tree lighting ceremony at 6 p.m. on Spaulding Ave. For information and map visit http://www.historicbrownsville. com/content/BR4-0_events2.php.

International Holiday Craft Bazaar. Corvallis Multicultural Literacy Center, 128 SW 9th St., Corvallis.

Friday 10 a.m.-5 p.m.; Saturday 9 a.m.-3 p.m. Free.

Features handmade items by people from other countries and cultures, a rummage sale, silent auction (to benefit the center) and homemade baked goods. For information e-mail cmlc@peak.org.

0ARENT 3URVIVAL .IGHT The Little Gym, 958 NW Circle Blvd., Corvallis. 6:30-9:30 p.m. $30/members; $35/nonmembers. This PSN is reserved for grade school kids ages 6-12 who want to build their gymnastic skills and is a preview of the new Grade School Skill Thrill Camps. These 3-hour camps will offer a more intensive gymnastics skillbuilding opportunity for your child. For info call (541) 753-0950 or visit www.thelittlegym.com/CorvallisOR. Pastega Christmas Display. Benton County Fairgrounds, 110 SW 53rd St., Corvallis. 6-10 p.m. Free. Formerly the Pepsi Lights Display, this drive-through tour is a spectacle of plywood cutouts, Christmas lights and music that draws 40,000 visits per year to this Christmas pleasure. The display runs nightly through the end of December.

3-!24 "OOK $RIVE Grass Roots Books & Music, 227 SW 2nd St., Corvallis. Support the fourth annual book drive for the SMART program serving Lincoln and Mountain View Elementary Schools in Corvallis, Kings Valley Charter School outside of Philomath, and Lafayette, Central and Clover Ridge Elementary Schools in Albany.

Customers are invited to stop by the store this month and ask a staff member for suggestions of new books that are especially suited for this program. Receive a 20% discount on books purchased for donation. For information and store hours, visit www.grassrootsbookstore.com or call (541) 754-7668.

Teens Modern Dance. Oddfellows Hall, 223 SW 2nd St., Corvallis. 4:15-5:35 p.m. Mondays, 4-5:30 p.m. Fridays. $42/month/1 class per week-$75/month/2 classes per week.

Beginning or continuing students learn a variety of Modern

It’s A Wonderful Life

This faithful, fast-moving stage adaptation of the classic film is not only a joyful Christmas tale--it’s the beautiful love story of George and Mary Bailey, a vivid portrait of the Greatest Generation, a descent into the darkest hour of a man trapped by circumstance, and a powerful meditation on what makes a meaningful life.

Where: When: Cost: Info:

Albany Civic Theater 111 First Ave. SW, Albany.

Friday, December 6; 7:30 p.m.

Thursdays-Saturdays; 2:30 p.m.

Sundays. $12/general, $9/senior/junior. http://albanycivic.org

Dance styles. All classes include floor and center work, body swings, balance, footwork, jumps, leaps, turns and choreography. Notify Donna at ervin95@comcast.net or call (541) 752-6329 if you would like to stop in for a free trial class or to observe. For information visit www.moderndancetechnique.com.

7INTER S %VE #ORVALLIS Madison Ave. between 2nd and 3rd Sts., Corvallis. 5-10 p.m. Corvallis Assistance League presents a festive holiday celebration in conjunction with Corvallis merchants, including exclusive shopping discounts, fine food sampling, and live music. Proceeds from the evening help sustain our five philanthropic programs, including Operation School BellÂŽ, SAT Review, CARES, Dental Care, and Hug-A-Bear. Go to www.alcorvallis.org for more information.

Music a la Carte. First United Methodist Church, 1165 NW Monroe Ave., Corvallis. Noon-12:45 p.m. Free. A special event featuring music for the season by the University Chorale and the Corvallis Community Choir. Bring your lunch. Call (541) 737-4061 or visit http://mu.oregonstate. edu/events-amp-entertainment/music for details.

3ATURDAY

"REAKFAST WITH 3ANTA The Brownsville Saloon, 419 N. Main St., Brownsville. 8:30 a.m.-Noon. Bring the kids and have breakfast with Old Saint Nick! For information visit http://www.historicbrownsville.com/content/ BR4-0_events2.php.

Clemens Community Pool Open Rec. Philomath High School, 2054 Applegate St., Philomath. 1-3 p.m. Saturdays during the school year. $3.25/adults, $2.50/student/seniors, free/age 5 and under, $8/family (Attendant of at least 14 years old must accompany children under 7).They also offer lessons, lap swim, aqua fitness, and swim team. Visit www.philomath.k12.or.us/pool or call (541) 929-3584. &RIENDS OF THE ,IBRARY (OLIDAY "OOK 3ALE Corvallis Public Library, 645 NW Monroe Ave., Corvallis.10 a.m.-4 p.m. Free. Wonderful selection of quality used books suitable for holiday gift giving. Plus some surprise extras. For information call (541) 766-6928.

(EART OF THE 6ALLEY #HILDREN S #HOIR (OLIDAY #ONCERT First United Methodist Church, 1165 NW Monroe Ave., Corvallis. 1:30 p.m. and 4 p.m. $10/adults; $7/students/ seniors. The Heart of the Valley Children’s Choir opens its 30th Anniversary season with a Holiday Concert. Featured songs include Randall Thompson’s “The Place of the Blest,� Craig Hanson, organist, and a combined choir performance of the traditional Christmas carol, “Silent Night.�

Calendar

CONTINUED ON PAGE

December 2013, Valley Parent

11

Calendar

CONTINUED FROM PAGE

All 5 choirs will be featured in the performance, while only the 3 older choirs will be featured in the 4p.m. performance along with the men’s and women’s a cappella groups. For info call (541) 738-7888 or visit http://hvcchoir.com.

(ISTORIC (OLIDAY 7ALK Ralston Park, 925 Park St., Lebanon. 4-5 p.m. Join Build Lebanon Trails for the Downtown Lebanon Historic and Holiday Walk. Learn about the history of downtown Lebanon, get acquainted with local businesses, and receive a voucher for $1 off a purchase at participating businesses. Enjoy stops at historic buildings including Kings Coffee house in the historic Lebanon Hotel. The walk returns to Ralston Park to view the 13th Annual Holidays in the Park. For information visit http://buildlebanontrails.com.

(OLIDAYS IN THE 0ARK Ralston Park, 925 Park St., Lebanon. 2-7 p.m. Free. Carriage rides, music, food, crafts and a visit from Santa. A twilight parade starts at 5:15 p.m. with tree lighting at 6 p.m. For info call (541) 258-4339.

(OME FOR THE (OLIDAYS &ESTIVAL OF 4REES Historic Downtown Brownsville. Free. View dozens trees glowing with festive decorations. Trees will be placed in participating Brownsville businesses and at the American Legion Hall, 335 N. Main St. For information and map visit http:// www.historicbrownsville.com/content/BR4-0_events2.php. +IDS .IGHT /UT .ERF 'UN .IGHT Wacky Indoor Bounce, 202 NW 3rd St., Corvallis. 5:30-9:15 p.m. $15/child.

Parents go wacky while your kids enjoy a night out.

Holiday snacks and beverages will be provided all month.

For reservations call (541) 757-6512 or visit www.wackybounce.com/kidsnightout.html for information. +IDS 7ORKSHOP Home Depot, 3500 Spicer Drive SE, Albany or 1780 NW Four Acre Pl., Corvallis. 9 a.m.-noon, first Saturday of every month. Free. First come, first serve.

Hands-on workshops designed for children ages 5-12.

Workshops teach children do-it-yourself skills, tool safety, and instill a sense of pride and accomplishment. All kids get to keep their craft and receive a free Kids Workshop Apron, commemorative pin, and certificate of achievement.

For information, call (541) 812-0808 for Albany or (541) 758-9303 for Corvallis.

Ladies Day Out. Garland Nursery, 5470 U.S. 20, Corvallis. 10a.m. $15-$40. The event begins with samplings of breakfast items. Then Kye Brown, owner of Kyes Cuisines, will go over helpful points for the coming holidays in a cooking class. Seating at 11:15a.m., demo at 11:30 a.m., followed by lunch at 12:00pm. Vegetarian and non-vegetarian meals will be available. Registration is required by December 3rd. Floral instructor Jim Somppi, owner of White Rose Florist, will host Holiday Floral Design Class at 1 pm. This class is free with no reservations required. At 2pm, learn to create your own fairy garden. Registration is required and class size is limited to 25. Ten percent of the money earned from these events will go to the Children’s Farm Home. For information/registration call (541) 753-6601or visit http://garlandnursery.com/ events.html.

-AN IN THE 9ELLOW (AT 3TORYTIME 3TORYTIME FOR $AD and Me. Youth Activity Room, Corvallis Public Library, 645 NW Monroe Ave., Corvallis. 11 a.m., first Saturday of the month. Children ages 0-6 and dads or father figures.

Age-appropriate books, music, rhymes and early literacy information presented. Call (541) 766-6794 or visit www. thebestlibrary.net for information. /35SED 3ATURDAY 3TORE 644 SW 13th St., Corvallis. 8 a.m.-noon. Free admission. The OSUsed Store is open for its monthly Saturday public sale. Items for sale include computers and computer accessories, furniture (desks, file cabinets, tables, chairs, bookcases, etc.), office supplies, sporting goods, household items, bicycles, and more. Call (541) 737-7347 or visit www.surplus.oregonstate.edu.

Prenatal Yoga. EcoFusion Fitness, 116 SW 4th St., Corvallis. 6-7 p.m. Tuesdays, 11:15 a.m.-12:15 p.m.

Thursdays, 11 a.m.-noon Saturdays. $10/class or $70/10 classes. Prenatal yoga is a great way to prepare the body and mind for birth, boost mood, and reduce pregnancy aches and pains. Modifications are available to meet various backgrounds and levels of experience. This class is open to women in any stage of a complication-free pregnancy. For information, call (541) 740-2516 or visit www. ecofusionfitness.com.

3WAG AND 7REATH -AKING Sweet Home Ranger District.

4431 Hwy 20, Sweet Home. 10 a.m. $13/person, $8/senior.

No hiking necessary! Learn to assemble holiday swags and wreathes from locally collected forest products, such as boughs, cones, and berries. Some wreath rings and wire will be on hand, but consider bringing more, along with clippers for trimming boughs. For information e-mail Alice Smith acsmith@fs.fed.us or Tiffany Young tayoung@ fs.fed.us or visit http://www.fs.usda.gov/detail/willamette/ recreation/outdoorlearning/?cid=stelprdb5182167.

4AKE 9OUR #HILD 4O ! "OOKSTORE $AY Grass Roots Books & Music, 227 SW 2nd St., Corvallis. 11a.m. Free.

Join Jill for a reading of Dr. Seuss’s How the Grinch Stole

12 Valley Parent, December 2013

Christmas, followed by fun children’s activities to foster community spirit and giving from the heart. What a heartwarming way to celebrate the season and the the Grinch Community Cares Project. For information call (541) 754-7668.

Terra Madre Day. Benton County Fairgrounds, Auditorium Hall, 110 SW 53rd St., Corvallis. 3-7 p.m. A holiday market, food, and music fair hosted by Slow Food Corvallis and Ten Rivers Food Web. Slow Food champions local, culturally significant heritage foods, customs, and recipes and brings these experiences into farms, markets, restaurants, and homes. For information call (541) 7607430 or e-mail slowfoodcorvallis@gmail.com.

7INTER ,IGHT &ESTIVAL Corvallis Waldorf School, 3855 NE Hwy 20, Corvallis. 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Free; tickets for activities can be purchased at the event. The school is opening its doors to the community for a warm, light-filled celebration of the season. There will be music, local fresh food, puppet shows, candle dipping and other activities, and of course the Crystal Cookie Cave. For information call (541) 758-4674. #HRISTMAS 3TORYBOOK ,AND See 12/6.

International Holiday Craft Bazaar. See 12/6. )T S ! 7ONDERFUL ,IFE See 12/6.

Pastega Christmas Display. See 12/6.

3UNDAY

Christmas Parlour Tour. Historic Downtown Albany. 2-7 p.m. $15/adults, $12/seniors. Enjoy the sights & sounds of an old-fashioned Christmas while touring the parlours of several historic homes. Horse drawn wagon, vintage trolley, refreshments and entertainment included. For info call (541) 928-0911 or visit http://www.albanyvisitors.com.

Hoolyeh International Dance. First Congregational United Church of Christ, 4515 West Hills Road, Corvallis.

7-9 p.m. first and third Sundays. $3/admission. The first Sunday of the month will be dedicated to Balkan dances.

For information call (971) 237-2000.

Hour Traders 12th Annual Winter Celebration. Old World Deli, 341 SW 2nd St., Corvallis. 11a.m.-5p.m. Free.

A fun-filled day of activities, music, and entertainment.

Browse the HOUR Traders Marketplace – a great place to find the perfect locally crafted gift this holiday season and to meet some of the folks who trade the local currency, HOURS. Pass through, or stay for the entire afternoon!

Don’t miss the chance to try your luck at our seasonal favorite: Flip the Gnome, a fun game of skill involving a fuzzy gnome and a catapult. Successful tosses win a chance to ‘Pick-a-Cracker!’ (a festively-filled tube). This game isn’t just for kids! For information e-mail Christina at hourexchange@peak.org or visit http://hourexchange.org.

-AKE AND 4AKE (OLIDAY #ENTERPIECE #LASS Garland Nursery, 5470 U.S. 20, Corvallis. 11 a.m. $25 includes supplies. Create a beautiful holiday centerpiece that your guests will rave about using fresh green from nurserygrown shrubs and plants. Preregister at 541-753-6601.

-AKE AND 4AKE 7REATH #LASS Garland Nursery, 5470 U.S. 20, Corvallis. 1p.m. $25 includes supplies. Create that traffic stopping holiday wreath to perfect your holiday decorations. Call to pre-register at 541-53-6601. /35 3YMPHONY (OLIDAY #ONCERT LaSells Stewart Center, 875 SW 26th St., Corvallis. 3 p.m. $18-$30/ advance; $20-$32/door. Britten’s Ceremony of Carols and other selected choral and orchestral works with Tina Bull, Steven Zielke, Russ Christensen and Marlan Carlson, conductors. For information visit www.cosusymphony.org.

3 3 (OLIDAY %XPO Benton County Fairgrounds 110 SW 53rd Street, Corvallis.10a.m.-5.p.m. Free. This event will feature more than 30 vendors, live music, and raffle basket.

Proceeds benefit Community Outreach, Inc. For information visit https://www.facebook.com/SSExpoEvents.

3OUTH 4OWN (OLIDAY !RT 7ALK Diana Rose Studio, 1515 SE Bethel St., Corvallis. 11a.m.-4 p.m. Free. The second annual South Town Holiday Art Walk will open the homes and studios of about nine different artists. Paintings, ceramics, murals, basketry, collage, three dimensional fabric art, wooden bowls, and more will be shown and sold.

Directories and maps available at Diana Rose Studio. For information, contact Jay Thatcher at (541) 758-9333 or Diana Ryan dianabaz@gmail.com or visit www.facebook. com/events/395804270546284.

3PIRIT OF #HRISTMAS "AZAAR AND &ESTIVAL 4900 NW Hwy 99, Corvallis. 10:30 a.m.-2 p.m. Free. This event features homemade gift items for sale, horse-drawn carriage rides, interactive booths for making ornaments and gifts, face painting, and a Christmas movie. Proceeds benefit the Youth Outreach Corvallis Boxing Club. For information e-mail fundraising@lifecommunity.org or visit https://secure3.nm-secure.com/lifecommunity/content. cfm?id=388.

4HE +ING OF 3PAIN S $AUGHTER The Majestic Theatre, 115 SW 2nd St., Corvallis. 2 p.m. $8/general; $6/students/ seniors. This play is a comedy by Teresa Deevy, a very prominent Irish dramatist of the 1930s. What is doubly special about the play is that for every speaking actor, there

will be an interpreter signing the role in American Sign Language. There will be live Irish music before the production. For information e-mail Prof. Charlotte Headrick at cheadrick@oregonstate.edu or visit www.majestic.org/theking-of-spains-daughter. #HRISTMAS 3TORYBOOK ,AND See 12/6.

Pastega Christmas Display. See 12/6.

Monday 9

Jazz Dance. Downtown Dance, 223 NW 2nd St., Corvallis.

7:30-8:30 p.m. $13/session. Adult, open level. Learn a variety of jazz dance forms. Visit www.downtowndancecorvallis.comor call (541) 829-0070 for information.

2ECREATION 3WIM AT !LBANY #OMMUNITY 0OOL 2150 36th Ave. SE, Albany. 6:30-8 p.m. Mondays; 2-3 p.m.

Wednesdays. $3/youth, $3.50/adult, Free/3 years and under, $10/family. Children 6 and under must be accompanied by an adult in the water. Visit www.cityofalbany.net/parks/ facilities/acp.php for details or call (541) 967-4521.

3CIENCE 0UB 4OM -C#ALL AND /REGON S %NVIRONMENTAL Legacy. Old World Deli, 341 2nd St., Corvallis. 6-8 p.m.

Free. Governor Tom McCall’s fight against the pollution of Oregon’s waterways and its unregulated growth left a legacy that continues to resonate with people today. Bill Robbins will discuss the significance of McCall’s leadership as governor from 1967 to 1975. The highlight of the evening will be a showing of McCall’s famous documentary, Pollution in Paradise, a one-hour program that aired on KGW-TV in November 1962. Call (541) 737-4717 or visit http://oregonstate.edu/terra/science-pub-corvallis/ for information.

3OUTHTOWN 0ERFORMERS 3POTLIGHT Fire Works Restaurant, 1115 SW 3rd St., Corvallis. 8-10 p.m.

(Formerly Open Mic). Free admission with $2 puchase, $5 entry fee. Enjoy a great new show every Monday at FireWorks! The Southtown Performers Spotlight is a family-friendly evening of entertainment, featuring music, song, and poetry by local artists. Visit http://southtownlive. com/events.html. Sign up in advance on Facebook by messaging Ă–cean LiffAnderson or call (541) 754-6958 for information. #HRISTMAS 3TORYBOOK ,AND See 12/6.

Pastega Christmas Display. See 12/6.

Teens Modern Dance. See 12/6.

Tuesday 10

-OVIES AT .INTH 3TREET #INEMA 1750 NW 9th St., Corvallis. All movies are $5 all day (excluding 3D). Call (541) 758-1028 or visit www.fandango.com/regalninthstreet4cinemas_aaaxg/theaterpage for showings.

Baton Twirling Class. Dance Corvallis, 1898 SW 3rd St., Corvallis. 4:30 p.m. $40/month, first class is free. Boys and girls welcome, ages 4+. Baton Twirling classes taught

by Kailey McKay, former OSU Feature Twirler. Private lessons are also available. Please email Kailey at reignbatontwirling@gmail.com if interested or call (541) 5562470. Like our Facebook page at https://www.facebook. com/ReignBatonTwirling.

"EGINNING #UBAN 3ALSA $ANCING Impulse Bar & Grill, 1425 NW Monroe Ave., Corvallis. 6-7:30 p.m. $30/threeweek course in December. Beginner course (16 and older) in Cuban Salsa (Casino) and Rueda de Casino (a fun, group dance from Cuba). Learn the first set of fundamental motions and basics to this amazing dance, and be immediately infused into an incredible community of people who love the music and culture of Cuba. Call (541) 230-1114 or see http://www.rumbanana.org/Classes.html for info.

Celtic Jam. See Imagine Coffee, 5460 SW Philomath Blvd., Corvallis. 7 p.m. Tuesdays. See http://imaginecoffee. net/events-in-corvallis/ for information.

Contemporary Dance. Downtown Dance, 223 NW 2nd St., Corvallis. 6:30-8 p.m. $13/session. Intermediate level for adults and teens. The dance fuses a variety of modern techniques and current dance styles. Visit www.

DowntownDanceCorvallis.com or call (541) 829-0070 for information.

Corvallis Community Band Holiday Concert. Methodist Community Center, 11th and Monroe Aves., Corvallis.

7:30 p.m. Free. The Corvallis Community Band’s annual holiday concert features guest performers, the Willamette Apprentice Ballet performing Christmas classics, pop favorites, and sing-a-longs. For information visit http://ccband.org.

Mama Baby Yoga. EcoFusion Fitness, 116 SW 4th St., Corvallis. 10 a.m. Tuesdays and Thursdays. $70 for 10 sessions or $10 drop in rate. A yoga class for moms and babies 2 weeks to 4 months. For information, call (541) 740-2516 or visit www.ecofusionfitness.com.

Rotary Club of Albany Meeting. Pop’s Branding Iron, 901 Pacific Blvd. SE, Albany. Noon. Free. Rotary of Albany has purchased and helped install playground equipment, sponsored an annual Christmas party for underprivileged children, provided grants to local service organizations, given scholarships to deserving students, and sponsored recognition programs for outstanding young people.

E-mail dale.stowell@linnbenton.edu for information.

3TORYTIME WITH 3ANTA Heritage Mall, 1895 14th Ave., SE, Albany. 10:30a.m. Free. Visit Santa for a magical story.

For information call (541) 967-8238 or visit www.heritagemall.com/events.

Teen Writers Group. Corvallis Public Library, Youth Activity Room, 645 NW Monroe Ave., Corvallis. 6 p.m.

Free. Every Tuesday. Teen Writers Group open to all teens ages 12-18 interested in writing. This group is led by a local YA author, Bryan Bliss. For info call (541) 766-6794. #HRISTMAS 3TORYBOOK ,AND See 12/6.

Pastega Christmas Display. See 12/6.

Prenatal Yoga. See 12/7.

Wednesday 11

!LBANY &ITWALKERS Villas of Courtyard Villa, 1929 Grand Prairie Road. SE, Albany. 7 p.m. Second Wednesday. This group sponsors walking events and presents walks around the community. Their motto is “walk for the health of it.�

For information, contact Rozy Weatherby at (541) 9267890 or email her at wrozy@yahoo.com.

All Boys Hip Hop. Dance Corvallis, 1898 SW 3rd St., Corvallis. 5:30 p.m. Wednesdays. First class is free. $40/ month for returning students. Boys can benefit from dance and from the concentration and strength that dance builds.

These classes are designed to encourage athleticism. Boys will work on individual skills as well as a group combination. Visit www.dancecorvallis.com for details or call (541) 556-2470.

"ABY AND -E 3TORYTIME Lebanon Public Library, 55 Academy St., Lebanon. 10 a.m. Free. Designed for ages 0-24 months and their caregivers. Enjoy interactive time with your tot through stories, finger plays, and music.

Call (541) 258-4926 or visit www.lebanon.plinkit.org for information.

Closer to the Ground Author Discussion. Albany Public Library, 2450 14th Ave., SE, Albany. 6:30p.m. Free. Dylan Tomine will discuss his book, “Closer to the Ground: An Outdoor Family’s Year on the Water, in the Woods and at the Table.� Tomine, a conservation advocate, Patagonia Fly Fishing Ambassador, and writer, will share his thoughts on the environment, foraging, food, and getting kids in touch with nature. The Library is hosting the talk with the Greenbelt Land Trust, Calapooia Watershed Council, and Ten Rivers Food Web. For information visit library.cityofalbany.net.

Creative Movement. Oddfellows Hall, 223 SW 2nd St., Corvallis. 3:30-4:20 p.m. $12/single class, $40/month.

Children 4 1/2 to 6 years explore the elements of dance: shapes, rhythm, tempo, pathways, and more. Notify Donna at ervin95@comcast.net or call (541) 752-6329 if you would like to stop in for a free trial class or to observe. For information visit www.moderndancetechnique.com. &ALL &ITNESS 3ERIES Oddfellows Hall, 223 SW 2nd St., Corvallis. 3:30-4:20 p.m. $12/single class, $40/month.

Children 4 ½ to 6 years explore the elements of dance: shapes, rhythm, tempo, pathways, and more. Notify Donna at ervin95@comcast.net or call (541) 752-6329 if you would like to stop in for a free trial class or to observe. For information visit www.moderndancetechnique.com.

'EISEL "OOK #LUB FOR "EGINNING 2EADERS Corvallis Public Library Youth Activity Room, 645 NW Monroe Ave., Corvallis. 3:30-4:30 p.m. Free. Second Wednesday.

Open to any child in grades K-2 who is beginning to read.

Monthly meetings include a discussion about the book, activities, and other stories. This month’s title is The Bookstore Ghost by Barbara Maitland. A limited number of copies of each title will be available at the Youth Reference Desk. For information call (541) 766-6794 or visit www. thebestlibrary.net/library-events-kidslinks-119.

(EY ,OOK US /VER -ATERNITY 0ROGRAM Good Samaritan Regional Medical Center, 3600 NW Samaritan Drive, Corvallis. 7-9 p.m. Second Wednesday. Free. Expectant parents will tour the Center for Women and Families and meet the delivery staff. Call (541) 768-4752 for info.

Introduction to Modern. Oddfellows Hall, 223 SW 2nd St., Corvallis. 3:30-4:20 p.m. $12/single class, $40/month.

Children 4 1/2 to 6 years explore the elements of dance: shapes, rhythm, tempo, pathways, and more. Notify Donna at ervin95@comcast.net or call (541) 752-6329 if you would like to stop in for a free trial class or to observe. For information visit www.moderndancetechnique.com.

LEGO Club. Lebanon Public Library, 55 Academy St., Lebanon.1:30-2:30 p.m. second Wednesdays. Free. Kids ages 6-13 work independently to create LEGO masterpieces with the LEGOs provided. Call (541) 258-4926 or visit www.lebanon.plinkit.org. /35SED 3TORE 3ALE 644 SW 13th St., Corvallis. Noon-3 p.m. Free admission. The OSUsed Store is open for its afternoon public sale. Items for sale include computers and computer accessories, furniture (desks, file cabinets, tables, chairs, bookcases, etc), office supplies, sporting goods, household items, bicycles and much more. See www.surplus.oregonstate.edu for information.

0RE .ATAL 9OGA Live Well Studio, 971 NW Spruce Ave.,

The Nutcracker Join Legacy Ballet and LBCC’s partnering of their annual production of this holiday classic. Seating is reserved.

Where: Russell Tripp Performance Center, 6500 Pacific Blvd. SW, Albany.

When: Thursday, December 12; Thursday-Saturday 7 p.m.; Saturday additional matinee at 2p.m.

Cost: $12 (541) 917-4531 for info/ticket purchase Info: Corvallis. 7-8:15 p.m. $11-12. Using a carefully chosen set of poses, support your changing body and develop the strength and openness needed for giving birth. Develop the breath and mindfulness skills which are essential to childbirth and motherhood. For information, call (541) 224-6566 or visit www.livewellstudio.com.

2ISE AND 3HINE 3TORYTIME Philomath Community Library, 1050 Applegate St., Philomath.10-10:45 a.m.

Wednesdays. Free. Children 2-5 will wake up with reading, singing, movement, and art projects. For information call (541) 929-3016 or visit www.thebestlibrary.net/libraryevents-kidslinks-119.

Rotary Club of Corvallis Mornings. The Osborne Aquatic Center. 1940 NW Highland Dr., Corvallis. 7 a.m.

(6:30 social time). Free. Meet every Wednesday for fellowship, breakfast, and an informative and interesting presentation from a guest speaker. Local projects have included stage curtains for Lincoln School, clothing for residents at Jackson Street Youth Shelter, and art supplies for schools.

For information visit www.corvallismorningrotary.org.

4EEN -AKERS Corvallis Public Library, Youth Activity Room, 645 NW Monroe Ave., Corvallis. 6 p.m. Second and fourth Wednesday. Free. Arduino and Raspberry Pi are low cost, open-source, physical computing platforms that can be used to learn programming, detect sensor input, blink LEDs, and control motors. The Library has purchased SparkFun Inventor’s Kits and Raspberry Pi boards for Teen Makers to learn programming and explore electronics. Bring your own laptop if you would like. For information call (541) 766-6794. #HRISTMAS 3TORYBOOK ,AND See 12/6. &AMILY 3WIM See 12/6.

Pastega Christmas Display. See 12/6.

2ECREATION 3WIM AT !LBANY #OMMUNITY 0OOL See 12/9.

Thursday 12

!DULT !DVANCED "EGINNER (IP (OP Downtown Dance, 223 NW 2nd St., Corvallis. 6:15-7:30 p.m. $13/session/ teen/adult. A fun and supportive setting for those with a little dance and/or hip-hop experience. Explore current hiphop, pop, and funk dance styles through basic technique and choreography. Visit www.DowntownDanceCorvallis. com or call (541) 829-0070 for information.

(EARTS OF THE 6ALLEY 4ALENT 3EARCH /PEN -IC %NTRY Old World Deli, 341 SW 2nd St., Corvallis. 7-9 p.m. second and fourth Thursdays. The first and second place winners from this event will be entered into the Next Level, a bi-monthly talent search, where they will compete for a cash prize, a one hour recording session at Wild Rose Studios, and entry into the Hearts of the Valley Talent Search. The first and second place winners of the Next Level go on to compete at the bi-annual Hearts of the Valley Talent Search. For information contact clay@wildrosestudios.com. *AZZ &UNK $ANCE Downtown Dance, 223 NW 2nd St., Corvallis. Noon-1 p.m. Free/ first class. Adult/open level.

A high-energy technique class fusing jazz and hip-hop styles to the sounds of some funk favorites! For information and fees, visit www.DowntownDanceCorvallis.com or call (541) 829-0070.

La Leche League of Lebanon Meetings. Lebanon Community Hospital, 525 N. Santiam Hwy., Lebanon. 6 p.m. Second Thursday. Free. Breastfeeding information and support for expectant and breastfeeding mothers.

Fathers and babies welcome. For information call (541) 766-0055 or visit www.llli.org. ,ITTLE "OOKWORMS 0RESCHOOL 3TORYTIME Lebanon Public Library, 55 Academy St., Lebanon. 11 a.m. Free.

Children ages 3-6 to explore their world interactively through books, songs and finger plays. A craft follows every story time. No story time November 28. Call (541) 258-4926 or visit www.lebanon.plinkit.org for information.

Modern Dance I. Oddfellows Hall, 223 SW 2nd St.,

Corvallis. 3:45-4:45 p.m. $12/single class, $40/month.

Children 8-10 years will learn basic ballet and Modern technique in a variety of contemporary dance styles. All classes include floor and center work, body swings, jumps, leaps, turns, and choreography. Notify Donna at ervin95@ comcast.net or call (541) 752-6329 if you would like to stop in for a free trial class or to observe. For information visit www.moderndancetechnique.com.

Teen Yoga. LiveWell Studio, 971 NW Spruce Ave., Ste 101, Corvallis. 4-5 p.m. Free. Yoga just for teens. Get stronger and more flexible, feel easier and happier in your body, relieve stress and relax. Yoga designed just for you!

For information e-mailfrontdesk@livewellstudio.com.

4HE .UTCRACKER Russell Tripp Performance Center, 6500 Pacific Blvd. SW, Albany. 7 p.m. Thursday-Saturday 7 p.m.; Saturday additional matinee at 2p.m. $12. Join Legacy Ballet and LBCC’s partnering of their annual production of this holiday classic. Seating is reserved. For information/ticket purchase call (541) 917-4531. #HRISTMAS 3TORYBOOK ,AND See 12/6. )T S ! 7ONDERFUL ,IFE See 12/6.

Mama Baby Yoga. See 12/10.

Pastega Christmas Display. See 12/6.

Prenatal Yoga. See 12/7.

&RIDAY

&RIENDS OF THE !LBANY 0UBLIC ,IBRARY #HRISTMAS 3ILVER Tea. Albany Public Library, 2450 14th Ave., SE, Albany.

Noon. Free. Dr. Tim Reid, veterinarian at Reid Veterinary Hospital, will share a humorous Christmas story. Bring a friend and enjoy tea and Christmas cookies. For information call (541) 917-7580. %ARL 4HOMAS 4HE "LUES !MBASSADORS The Majestic Theatre, 115 SW 2nd St., Corvallis. 7:30 p.m. $8/general; $6/students/seniors. Experience an evening of Blues and Gospel music with the dynamic performer Earl Thomas.

Awarded Best of Blues 2011, named Best Male Blues Singer, Best Blues Album, and Best Blues Songwriter. For information call (541) 738-7469 or visit www.majestic.org/ earl-thomas.

-AKE AND 4AKE (OLIDAY #ENTERPIECE OR 'REENS "ASKET Class. Garland Nursery, 5470 U.S. 20, Corvallis. 11 a.m. $25 includes supplies. Change fresh greens into a wonderful holiday centerpiece or greens basket. Call to pre-register at 541-753-6601 or visit http://www.garlandnursery. com/events.html.

Hip Hop Karate Chop Camp. The Little Gym of Corvallis, 958 NW Circle Blvd., Suite A, Corvallis. 12:302:30 p.m. $29/members; $34/non-members. Ages 3-9.

No school, no worries, we have a camp for that. This is our most popular camp so register early. We have combined the skills of a Ninja with dance moves to make you groove. For information/registration call (541) 753-0950 or visit http://www.TheLittleGym.com/CorvallisOR. 0ARENT 3URVIVAL .IGHT 7INTER 4HEME The Little Gym of Corvallis, 958 NW Circle Blvd., Ste. A. 6-9 p.m. Second Friday. $10-$35 depending on membership and number of children enrolled. Ages 3-12 (must be toilet independent).

Recess for Parents or Babysitting done RIGHT! Get some holiday shopping done without the little ones in tow.

Parents call it a break from the kids. Kids call it a break from their parents. It’s a win-win situation. Parents enjoy some adult time to see a movie, catch up with friends, or enjoy a meal without—ahem—pint-sized food critics in tow. Meanwhile, children get some quality “kid time� in a safe, fun, familiar place with trained instructors who lead them through games and music-filled activities. Don’t wait. PSN’s book up fast! Call (541) 753-0950 to register in advance or reserve a slot online at www.thelittlegym. com/CorvallisOR/Pages/psn-schedule.aspx.

0ARENTS .IGHT /UT Osborn Aquatic Center, 1940 NW Highland Dr., Corvallis. 6-10 p.m. $20/child. Drop off the kids for some organized games, fun, and prizes. The swim instructor team will keep the kids safe, and they’ll have a

blast. Visit www.corvallisoregon.gov/index.aspx?page=271 or call (541) 766-7946 for information and pre-registration. #HILDREN S &RIDAY !RT #LASSES See 12/6. #HRISTMAS 3TORYBOOK ,AND See 12/6. &AMILY 3WIM See 12/6.

Hip Hop Dance. See 12/6. )T S ! 7ONDERFUL ,IFE See 12/6.

Pastega Christmas Display. See 12/6.

Teens Modern Dance. See 12/6.

4HE .UTCRACKER See 12/12.

3ATURDAY

!NNUAL #HRISTMAS &ESTIVAL Silver Falls State Park, 20024 Silver Falls Hwy SE, Sublimity. 11 a.m.-4 p.m. Free-$5.

The park’s Historic District is transformed into a Christmas wonderland featuring decorated trees and thousands of lights. The sounds of the holidays are provided by local musicians and choral groups. Enjoy cookies and cocoa around the fireplace in the South Falls Lodge while listening to seasonal stories. Create make-and-take projects such as holiday cards, gingerbread houses, festive ornaments, wreaths, or nature crafts. Build a bird nest box ($5 fee).

The Salem Audubon Society supplies parts, tools, and expertise. Suggested donation of one can of protein-rich food for canned food drive to benefit local area food banks.

For information call Ranger Ian at (503) 874-0201 or visit http://www.oregonstateparks.org.

Christmas in Oregon. The Majestic Theatre, 115 SW 2nd St., Corvallis. 7:30 p.m. Saturday; 2:30 p.m. Sunday. $8/general; $6/students/seniors. In the intimate Majestic Theatre Lab, four storytellers share a collection of stories recalling Christmas celebrations including Lewis and Clark in 1805, Corvallis bachelors helping Santa in 1913 and memories of creative writing students at College Hill High School at the Harding Center. This holiday treat with songs is suitable for children 8 and above plus their families. For information call (541) 738-7469 or visit www. majestic.org/christmas-in-oregon.

Corvallis Community Band Ensemble Concert.

Corvallis Public Library Meeting Room, 645 NW Monroe Ave., Corvallis. 2 p.m. Free. Three ensemble groups from the Corvallis Community Band – Spiritoso Wind Quintet, the Saxophone Quartet and the Flute choir, Flute Cocktail – will play holiday selections. For information visit http://ccband.org.

La fiesta de su biblioteca. Corvallis Public Library, Youth Activity Room, 645 NW Monroe Ave., Corvallis.

Free 11 a.m.-noon, second Saturdays. Come and enjoy a fun bilingual English/Spanish program. Children of all ages welcome. Crafts are made after story time. Refreshments served. Venga y disfrute de la fiesta de su biblioteca.

Un programa bilingĂźe cada mes en la biblioteca. Gratis Refrescos. Call (541) 766-6794 for information. ,ITTLE 3PROUTS -AKE A #HRISTMAS 3WAG Garland Nursery, 5470 U.S. 20, Corvallis. 11 a.m. $5/child.

Keeping in the holiday spirit, this month’s Little Sprouts will be creating beautiful Holiday swags with fresh greens.

These make wonderful displays for your door, window dressings or to be given as gifts. For information call (541) 753-6601 or visit www.garlandnursery.com/events.html.

3ANTA #ROSS 0 " "IKE . (IKE #ORVALLIS AND 'IANT Bicycles. Avery Park, 1310 SW Avery Park Dr., Corvallis. $25/adult; $8.50/junior/kiddie cross. End your season with Yule-Tide Cheer and a Ho! Ho! Ho! as you prance around the course. Only Christmas music and cow bells playing as your cheer on your little elf, Santa, or Ms. or Mrs. Claus.

For information call (541) 225-7946.

3WING AND "LUES $ANCE AT /DD &ELLOWS (ALL Oddfellows Hall, 223 SW 2nd St, Corvallis. 7 p.m. – midnight. $5-$7. Learn the fundamentals of swing and blues movement. For information visit http://corvallisswing.com/ events/calendar/.

4RILLIUM #HILDREN S &ARM (OME S 4EDDY "EAR 4EA Children’s Farm Home Old School, 4455 Hwy 20, Corvallis. 1:30 p.m. $35. Bring your children to enjoy the Teddy Bear Tea! Each child’s Teddy will be waiting with tea, or his favorite, hot chocolate. Nibble on delicious delights. Listen to stories from Twinkle the elf and have a keepsake picture taken with our Christmas Bear. For information e-mail Cheri cgalvin@trilliumfamily.org.

7INTER #LASSIC !QUATHLON Osborn Aquatic Center, 1940 NW Highland Dr., Corvallis. 8 a.m. $20/preregistration; $25/race day. Ages 12 and up. This multisport event is an Aquathlon with a twist. Run a 5k, transition and finish up with a 400 meter swim. It’s a simple event that’s perfect for multisport beginners and a great off-season fix for veterans.

For information/registration visit www.oacwinterclassic. com or call (541) 766-7946. #HRISTMAS 3TORYBOOK ,AND See 12/6.

Clemens Community Pool Open Rec. See 12/7. )T S ! 7ONDERFUL ,IFE See 12/6. +IDS .IGHT /UT 7ACKY "OUNCE &OG -ACHINE See 12/7.

Pastega Christmas Display. See 12/6.

Prenatal Yoga. See 12/7.

4HE .UTCRACKER See 12/12.

3UNDAY

Birth Boot Camp. EcoFusion Fitness, 116 SW 4th St., Corvallis. Sundays through February 16, 1-3:30 p.m. $50 deposit. If you are expecting at the end of February, March, or April, this is your class. We are committed to training couples in natural birth and breastfeeding through accessible, contemporary education. Space is limited. For information call Melissa Meyer at (541) 847-9606 or e-mail mmeyer@birthbootcamp.com. For rates and registration see http://class.birthbootcamp.com/melissameyer/?page_ id=14. #ORALLIS 9OUTH 3YMPHONY 7INTER #ONCERT LaSells Stewart Center, 875 SW 26th St., Corvallis. 3-5 p.m. $2-$10. The Corvallis Youth Symphony Winter Concert is Charles Creighton’s final concert as conductor of CYS. We are extremely pleased to welcome Dr. Frank Diaz as our new conductor. Dr. Diaz will conduct the Grieg, Mozart and Mårquez, and Mr. Creighton will conduct the Mussorgsky and the Sibelius. For information call (541) 766-4903 or visit http://cysassoc.org.

0ET 0HOTOS WITH 3ANTA Heritage Mall, 1895 14th Ave., SE, Albany. 7-8p.m. Bring your furry domestic friend for a special photo with Santa. For information call (541) 9678238 or visit www.heritagemall.com/events. !NNUAL #HRISTMAS &ESTIVAL See 12/14.

Christmas in Oregon. See 12/14. #HRISTMAS 3TORYBOOK ,AND See 12/6. )T S ! 7ONDERFUL ,IFE See 12/6.

Pastega Christmas Display. See 12/6.

Monday 16

#HRISTMAS 3TORYBOOK ,AND See 12/6.

Pastega Christmas Display. See 12/6.

2ECREATION 3WIM AT !LBANY #OMMUNITY 0OOL See 12/9.

3OUTHTOWN 0ERFORMERS 3POTLIGHT See 12/9.

Teens Modern Dance. See 12/6.

Tuesday 17

Button Up Your Overcoat. LaSells Stewart Center, 875 SW 26th St., Corvallis. 7:30-9:30 p.m. $21-$26/ adult; $13/youth. The 6th annual Christmas at The Shedd with the Emerald City Jazz Kings will usher in favorite holiday sounds with a few tropical tricks thrown in. For information/tickets visit www.theshedd.org/divp/series. aspx?series=2575&event=2587.

Dining for Women. Unitarian-Universalist Fellowship Church, 2945 NW Circle Blvd., Corvallis. 6:30 p.m. third Tuesdays. An organization funding programs fostering good health, education, and economic self-sufficiency through potlucks where the money saved on the meal is donated to international programs. Bring a potluck dish to share and a donation (any amount, check or credit card preferred). For visit http://www.facebook.com/pages/Diningfor-Women-Corvallis-Chapter/201679226520781?sk=info.

-ODERN 6OICES "OOK #LUB Main Library, 2450 14th Ave., SE, Albany. Noon. Free. Discussing “The Sun Also Rises�

by Ernest Hemingway. Call (541) 917-7580 for information.

-OVIES AT .INTH 3TREET #INEMA See 12/10.

Baton Twirling Class. See 12/10.

"EGINNING #UBAN 3ALSA $ANCING See 12/10.

Celtic Jam. See 12/10. #HRISTMAS 3TORYBOOK ,AND See 12/6.

Mama Baby Yoga. See 12/10.

Pastega Christmas Display. See 12/6.

Prenatal Yoga. See 12/7.

Rotary Club of Albany Meeting. See 12/10.

3TORYTIME WITH 3ANTA See 12/10.

Teen Writers Group. See 12/10.

7EDNESDAY

Movie at Chintimini. Chintimini Senior Center, 2601 NW Tyler Ave., Corvallis. 2-4 p.m.Free/Gold Pass, $5/day pass.

18 and over. Movie enthusiasts, right this way! Each month the theme and movie will change. Popcorn, drinks, and other treats available for purchase during the show. Call (541) 766-6959 for information and movie titles.

R.E.A.D. Philomath Community Library, 1050 Applegate St., Philomath. 2:30-4:00 p.m. Free. Experience reading time with a four-legged friend. R.E.A.D. stands for Reading Education Assistance Dogs. The program’s mission is to improve the literacy skills of children through the assistance of registered therapy teams as literacy mentors.

For information call (541) 929-3016 or visit www.cbcpl.net or www.welcomewagger.org/read.html.

4HE ,AST 3TITCH .IGHT Stash Headquarters, 110 SW 3rd St., Corvallis. 5-10 p.m. Free. Push through the final rows on those last-minute gift knits in this special late-night edition of Stitch Night. Bring those unfinished hats, cowls,

Calendar

CONTINUED ON PAGE

December 2013, Valley Parent

13

,IBRARY 3TORY 4IMES !LBANY 0UBLIC ,IBRARY -AIN Mon: Wed: Thurs:

7 pm with puppet show 10:30 am with puppet show 10:30 am with puppet show

!LBANY 0UBLIC ,IBRARY $OWNTOWN Tues:

10:30 am with puppet show

0HILOMATH 0UBLIC ,IBRARY Wed:

Philomath Story Time, 10 am, 3-5 years old

#ORVALLIS 0UBLIC ,IBRARY Mon: Tues:

Bedtime Story Time, 7 pm, all ages Toddler Story Time, 10 am, 18-36 months old Wed: Infant Story Time, 10 am, Birth-18 months old Thurs: Preschool Story Time, 10 am, 3-5 years old 1st Sat: 11 am, 0-36 months old with dads

Calendar

CONTINUED FROM PAGE

Modern Dance I. See 12/12.

Pastega Christmas Display. See 12/6.

Prenatal Yoga. See 12/7.

Teen Yoga. See 12/12.

&RIDAY

Live Reindeer Visit. Heritage Mall, 1895 14th Ave., SE, Albany. 11a.m.-3 p.m. Free. Santa’s reindeer, Prancer and Cupid, will be making a stop at Heritage Mall just before they start Santa’s deliveries. Meet the reindeer in person and visit with Santa Claus too. For information call (541) 967-8238 or visit www.heritagemall.com/events.

5GLY 3WEATER $AY Heritage Mall, 1895 14th Ave., SE, Albany. Noon-9p.m. Free. Wear your ugly holiday sweater shopping. A strolling judge will be awarding prizes to the ugliest sweaters hourly. Prizes include gift cards and portraits with Santa. One Grand Prize winner will receive a $100 gift card to the Heritage Mall store of their choice.

For information call (541) 967-8238 or visit www.heritagemall.com/events. #HRISTMAS 3TORYBOOK ,AND See 12/6. &AMILY 3WIM See 12/6.

Hip Hop Dance. See 12/6.

Horse Drawn Wagon Christmas Caroling Tour. See 12/19. )T S ! 7ONDERFUL ,IFE See 12/6.

Pastega Christmas Display. See 12/6.

Teens Modern Dance. See 12/6.

3ATURDAY

socks, and Christmas stockings, snack on a cookie, and chat it up with other area fiber enthusiasts. Coffee, tea, and water provided. This would be a great time to bring some festive goodies to snack on! All fiber craft welcome: knitting, crochet, spinning, etc. Newcomers always welcome!

For information call (541) 753-9276 or visit http://stashlocal.com/classes.

"ABY AND -E 3TORYTIME See 12/11. #HRISTMAS 3TORYBOOK ,AND 3EE Creative Movement. See 12/11. &ALL &ITNESS 3ERIES See 12/11. &AMILY 3WIM See 12/6.

Introduction to Modern. See 12/11. /35SED 3TORE 3ALE See 12/11.

Pastega Christmas Display. See 12/6.

0RE .ATAL 9OGA See 12/11.

2ECREATION 3WIM AT !LBANY #OMMUNITY 0OOL See 12/9.

2ISE AND 3HINE 3TORYTIME See 12/11.

Rotary Club of Corvallis Mornings. See 12/11.

Thursday 19

Anime Club. Main Library, 2450 14th Ave., SE, Albany.

4:30-5:30 p.m. Free. Third Thursday. Fans of Japanese animation meet monthly to play Yu-Gi-Oh or other games, share books, practice drawing in the Japanese style, and meet others with similar interests. Participants are encouraged to come in costume and to bring snack foods and drinks to share. For ages 11 to adult. For info about this program, call Young Adult Services Librarian Doris Hicks at (541) 791-0015 or email doris.hicks@cityofalbany.net.

Horse Drawn Wagon Christmas Caroling Tour. Albany Tie Dye, 325 First Ave. W, Albany. 5-8 p.m. every 45 mins. $10/adults; $6/children; special rates for groups or private wagon. What better way to get into the Christmas spirit than singing Christmas carols while riding a horse drawn around the historical Montieth homes district. Hot Cider, cocoa, and cookies will be available for the riders. The ride has no stops. It’s a fun night out touring the historic district, enjoying the lighted homes, and singing carols. Photo opportunities with the horses are available before and after the rides. For information/registration call (541) 908-5778.

-OMMY #ONNECTIONS 0OSTPARTUM 3UPPORT #LASS Samaritan Medical & Diagnostic Center, 400 NW Hickory St., Albany, 1st Floor Conference Room. First and third Thursday. No need to register. 6:30 p.m. Free. New mothers, supportive partners (spouse, mother, sister, friend), and new baby are welcome and encouraged to attend.

Call (541) 812-4301 for information or visit http://www. samhealth.org/ and click on “Take a Class� on the right side of the screen.

Third Thursday. Downtown Albany. 4-8 p.m. Free. Third Thursdays is a monthly stay-open-late shopping event. Eat at one of Downtown’s 22 locally owned restaurants and stay for Third Thursday happenings. Contact the Albany Downtown Association at (541) 928-2469 or see www. albanydowntown.com for information. #HRISTMAS 3TORYBOOK ,AND See 12/6. )T S ! 7ONDERFUL ,IFE See 12/6. ,ITTLE "OOKWORMS 0RESCHOOL 3TORYTIME See 12/12.

Mama Baby Yoga. See 12/10.

14 Valley Parent, December 2013

International Brotherhood of Magicians. Ray’s Food Place, 621 NW Hickory St., Albany. 10 a.m. third Saturdays. All ages. A social club dedicated to advancing the art of magic performance, interest, and fellowship.

Call (541) 752-3900 for details or e-mail magictuba@ proaxis.com. Also visit www.ring238.org.

Clemens Community Pool Open Rec. See 12/7.

Horse Drawn Wagon Christmas Caroling Tour. See 12/19. )T S ! 7ONDERFUL ,IFE See 12/6. +IDS .IGHT /UT 7ACKY "OUNCE .ERF 'UN .IGHT See 12/7.

Pastega Christmas Display. See 12/6.

Prenatal Yoga. See 12/7.

3UNDAY

6IETNAM 6ETERANS OF !MERICA "REAKFAST American Legion, 480 Main St., Lebanon, 8-11 a.m. $5. All you can eat breakfast includes Belgian waffles, strawberries, bacon, sausage, eggs to order, biscuits and gravy, hash browns, orange or tomato juice, and coffee. For information call (541) 451-1351.

Hoolyeh International Dance. See 12/8.

Horse Drawn Wagon Christmas Caroling Tour. See 12/19.

Pastega Christmas Display. See 12/6.

Monday 23

'RADE 3CHOOL 3KILL 4HRILL 7INTER #AMPS The Little Gym, 958 NW Circle Blvd., Suite A, Corvallis. 9 a.m.noon or 1-4p.m. Monday, Thursday, Friday. Cost varies.

Ages 6-12. A series of three camps taking place during the holiday break that offer a more intensive gymnastics skill-building opportunity for your child. Although each camp focuses on a specific skill, other gymnastics skills will also be learned and practiced to round out the experience. They are designed to offer the perfect combination of skill-building, fun and success! For information and to register call (541) 753-0950 or visit www.thelittlegym. com/CorvallisOR. 3CHOOLS /UT 3WIM Albany Community Pool. 2150 36th Ave. SE, Albany. 1-3 p.m. $3/Youth (3 and under free), $3.50/Adult, $10Family. Visit http://www.cityofalbany. net/departments/parks-and-recreation/classes or call (541) 967-4521 for information.

3UPER +IDS 7INTER 1UEST #AMP The Little Gym, 958 NW Circle Blvd., Suite A, Corvallis. 9 a.m.-noon or 1-4p.m. Monday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday. Cost varies.

Ages 3-8. A series of three camps taking place during the holiday break. Each day and theme of camp is based on a fun, exciting mission or “quest� that the kids are challenged to complete! Each camp will incorporate opportunities for the kids to exercise their muscles, their imaginations and their cooperation skills – working together to complete each quest! A totally new and exciting experience. For information and to register call (541) 753-0950 or visit www.thelittlegym.com/CorvallisOR. Birth Boot Camp. See 12/15.

Pastega Christmas Display. See 12/6.

2ECREATION 3WIM AT !LBANY #OMMUNITY 0OOL See 12/9.

3OUTHTOWN 0ERFORMERS 3POTLIGHT See 12/9.

Tuesday 24

-OVIES AT .INTH 3TREET #INEMA See 12/10.

Celtic Jam. See 12/10.

Pastega Christmas Display. See 12/6.

3CHOOLS /UT 3WIM See 12/23.

2ECREATION 3WIM AT !LBANY #OMMUNITY 0OOL See 12/9.

3CHOOLS /UT 3WIM See 12/23.

3OUTHTOWN 0ERFORMERS 3POTLIGHT See 12/9.

3UPER +IDS 7INTER 1UEST #AMP See 12/23.

Wednesday 25

Tuesday 31

Candlelight and Carols Holiday Dinner. Chintimini Senior and Community Center, 2601 NW Tyler Ave., Corvallis. 2-5 p.m. $12/resident; $15/non-resident.

Celebrate the holiday season with the beauty and warmth of Candlelight & Carols! The Holiday Dinner features delicious appetizers, your choice of a turkey or ham dinner with all the trimmings, plus dessert, all served in an elegant, yet fun setting. Santa has been known to stop in with his bag of gifts for photos and wish-sharing too.

You never know what surprises are in store at the Holiday Dinner, so be sure to sign up early and save your place. To register (by 12/16) call (541) 766-6959.

Pastega Christmas Display. See 12/6.

Thursday 26

Moyer House Open House. 204 N. Main St., Brownsville. 11 a.m.-4 p.m. Thursday-Tuesday; 1-5 p.m.

Sunday. Free. The Moyer House will be adorned for the holidays and members of the Brownsville Women’s Study Club will serve as your hostesses. For information call 541-466-3390 or visit www.historicbrownsville.com/content/BR4-0_events2.php.

'RADE 3CHOOL 3KILL 4HRILL 7INTER #AMPS See 12/23.

Hearts of the Valley Talent Search Open Mic Entry. See 12/12. ,ITTLE "OOKWORMS 0RESCHOOL 3TORYTIME See 12/12.

Mama Baby Yoga. See 12/10.

Modern Dance I. See 12/12.

Pastega Christmas Display. See 12/6.

Prenatal Yoga. See 12/7.

3CHOOLS /UT 3WIM See 12/23.

3UPER +IDS 7INTER 1UEST #AMP See 12/23.

&RIDAY

'RADE 3CHOOL 3KILL 4HRILL 7INTER #AMPS See 12/23. &AMILY 3WIM See 12/6.

Hip Hop Dance. See 12/6.

Moyer House Open House. See 12/26.

Pastega Christmas Display. See 12/6.

3CHOOLS /UT 3WIM See 12/23.

3UPER +IDS 7INTER 1UEST #AMP See 12/23.

3ATURDAY

/REGON #OAST !QUARIUM 10 a.m.-5 p.m. $18.95/ adults; $16.95/YA/seniors; $11.95/3-12; Free/2 and under.

Immerse yourself in the mysteries of the ocean. View the largest population of sea otters in the state, visit the Giant Pacific Octopus habitat, walk underwater through three ecosystems of the Pacific Ocean, or climb aboard a mini submarine. For information about the exhibits visit http:// aquarium.org.

The Holiday Extravaganza Musical Event. Albany Civic Theater, First Ave. W, Albany. 7:30 p.m. $10.

Second Childhood and Love Lightning present an evening of original and obscure music to delight, entertain, and support ACT. For information call (541) 928-4603.

Moyer House Open House. See 12/26.

Pastega Christmas Display. See 12/6.

Prenatal Yoga. See 12/7.

3UPER +IDS 7INTER 1UEST #AMP See 12/23.

3UNDAY

)SN T )T 2OMANTIC The Majestic Reader’s Theatre Lab, 115 SW 2nd St., Corvallis. 7 p.m. $8/general; $6/students/ seniors. The quintessential comedy about a young career woman deciding if it is possible to have it all. Does she need to be married and have children or will she wind up like her mother (or worse, the opposite of her mother)?

For information call (541) 738-7469 or visit www.majestic.org/majestic-readers-theatre-company.

3IT AND 3PIN 3UNDAY Stash Headquarters, 110 SW 3rd St., Corvallis. Noon-3p.m. last Sundays. Free. Get spinning, plying, and chatting with other area fiber enthusiasts.

Stash provides water and tea and encourages friends to bring snacks for sharing. Wheels, spindles, and mini spinners welcome! For information call (541) 753-9276 or visit http://stashlocal.com/classes.

Birth Boot Camp. See 12/15.

Moyer House Open House. See 12/26.

Pastega Christmas Display. See 12/6.

Monday 30

'RADE 3CHOOL 3KILL 4HRILL 7INTER #AMPS See 12/23.

Moyer House Open House. See 12/26.

Pastega Christmas Display. See 12/6.

(OOF @. (OLLER .EW 9EAR S %VE "ULL 2IDING AND Dance. Linn County Fairgrounds, 3700 Knox Butte Rd., Albany. 7:30 p.m. (Gates open at 6:30). $25/advance; $30/door (cash only). Bull riding champions from five states will put it all on the line to determine who is number 1. The bull riding event features the top cowboys in the business and world renowned Bucking Bulls from the PBR (Professional Bull Riders). The bull riding is followed by a dance and New Year’s Eve Party complete with a balloon drop with cash and prizes. For information call (541) 895-5335 or visit www.hoofnholler.com/ home.php. .EW 9EARS %VE 0ARTY AT 3UMMIT 'RANGE 19925 Lilac St., Blodgett. $5/adult; Free/children under 12 (must be accompanied by adult). Ring in the New Year at the Summit Grange with music from the Deep Woods Band plus special guests Rhododendron, and food from Yaquina Farms. This is an all-ages evening featuring a teen+ friendly show from Linden Wood and Amber Walker, an acoustic duo. There will be surprises, party favors, and plenty of fun. For information visit https:// www.facebook.com/events/195355430652701.

-OVIES AT .INTH 3TREET #INEMA See 12/10.

Celtic Jam. See 12/10.

Mama Baby Yoga. See 12/10.

-OYER (OUSE /PEN (OUSE 3EE 0ASTEGA #HRISTMAS $ISPLAY 3EE 0RENATAL 9OGA 3EE 2OTARY #LUB OF !LBANY -EETING 3EE 3CHOOLS /UT 3WIM 3EE

Wednesday, January 1

0OLAR "EAR 3WIM Osborn Aquatic Center, 1940 NW Highland Dr., Corvallis. 1-3 p.m. $5/donation. All ages.

Start the New Year by riding down the great white waterslide and taking the plunge into the cold outdoor pool!

Warm up in the indoor pools, have a cup of hot cider and enjoy some cake. For information (541) 766-7946.

Thursday, January 2

! # 'ILBERT S $ISCOVERY 6ILLAGE 116 Marion St. NE, Salem. 10a.m.-5 p.m. Monday-Saturday; Noon5p.m. Sunday. $7/general; $5.50/seniors; $3.50/1-2 yrs.

Village’s mission is to “inspire children of all ages to learn and grow through play.� This is accomplished through fun and challenging exhibits, camps, birthday parties, membership opportunities and outreach programs in the sciences, arts, and humanities. The Village is composed of three historic house; the Rockenfield House, Gilbert House and Parrish House. For information/special events and learning programs visit acgilbert.org.

'RADE 3CHOOL 3KILL 4HRILL 7INTER #AMPS See 12/23. ,ITTLE "OOKWORMS 0RESCHOOL 3TORYTIME See 12/12.

Mama Baby Yoga. See 12/10.

Modern Dance I. See 12/12.

Prenatal Yoga. See 12/7.

3CHOOLS /UT 3WIM See 12/23.

3UPER +IDS 7INTER 1UEST #AMP See 12/23.

&RIDAY *ANUARY

Albany Historic Carousel and Museum. 503 First Ave. W, Albany. 10a.m.-4 p.m. Monday-Saturday; 10a.m.9p.m. Wednesday. Free. Come see the creative processes taking place every Monday through Saturday on this hand-carved carousel project. In the lobby, view finished animals and watch the painters work on a number of animals and other hand-crafted projects. In the carving studio, see and touch over two dozen carvings in progress - generally there will be a few carvers toiling away.

For information visit albanycarousel.com. ! # 'ILBERT S $ISCOVERY 6ILLAGE See 12/2.

'RADE 3CHOOL 3KILL 4HRILL 7INTER #AMPS See 12/23. &AMILY 3WIM See 12/6.

Hip Hop Dance. See 12/6.

3CHOOLS /UT 3WIM See 12/23.

3UPER +IDS 7INTER 1UEST #AMP See 12/23.

FREE: Your Event in Our Calendar

Deadline 12/27/13 www.valleyparentmagazine.com

Advertisers: We Get Results for You!

info@parentserve.com

Parent V a l l e y

Linn & Benton Counties

Valley Parent

OnlinE! BiggEst

Pregnant?

Events Calendar

Take control.

Mid-Valley Family

Everything in Print & More

Scan to schedule a confidential appointment and take control of your unplanned pregnancy.

867 NW 23rd St, Corvallis 541.758.3662 1800 16th Ave SE, Albany 541.924.0160

safety Recalls www.valleyparentmagazine.com December 2013, Valley Parent

15

YOguRt

Gift Ideas

for the Holiday

Open 12-5 pm Sundays till Christmas

ExtREME rve Yogur e S f l e t S Packed with probitoics to

promote a healthy immune and digestive system

free yogurt and topping options

(across from Osu)

2536 santiam Hwy sE (next to Fred Meyers)

541-230-1660 Circle & 9th

(next to Market of Choice)

541-368-5621

www.yogurtextreme.com Follow us on facebook

bogs° #BMBODF #JLFT

4DVUUMFCVH 'PMEBCMF 5SJDZDMFT

RAINY DAYS ARE FUN IN BOGS BOOTS SHOWN: KIDS RAINBOOTS BY BOGS

48 .BEJTPO "WF t $PSWBMMJT t t .PO 4BU 4VO