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FROM THE PUBLISHER EVE WHITE

Another Year, A New Resolution

have a confession. Every year I resolve to do more things for me. It sounds selfish, doesn’t it? If I honored my annual promise, I would play the piano, ride horses, take Spanish lessons and work out with a trainer. But, I rarely fulfill that New Year’s resolution. Like most moms, I typically put my family first and me last. You know the routine. Skip the afternoon power walk because you need to pick up your kid from school and get him to the tutor after lacrosse practice. Then rush home to get dinner on the table instead of meeting your friend for a chat. Or give up the gym membership entirely, due to a tightly scheduled routine of wake up, pack lunch, go to work, pick up from sports, cook dinner, drop off at Scouts, monitor homework, do laundry … repeat. Seems like Mom always comes in last when it comes to fulfillment, balance and wellness, even when we know it is exactly what we need. And we only have ourselves to blame. This year, I will renew my attempt at a balanced life, filled with the things I love. I might even pick up a Spanish class again. It’s a given, that my balanced life will include time with my husband and son. No doubt, this will be difficult to achieve, especially with our busy two-career family, but I’m up for the challenge. This year, we are looking for families who are up for the challenge, too. Our 2014 Fit Family Challenge launches this spring and we invite readers, moms and dads, to join in the quest for a healthier lifestyle. Do it for yourself, and do it for your kids. Everyone benefits. Find out more about becoming one of our feature families on page 29. If you want to get a jump start on your quest for a healthier you, don’t let the winter blahs keep you down. Try any one of the indoor sports and activities outlined on page 31. Whether you like to climb to new heights, splash in the water or meditate on a mat, there’s something for you to do with your kids this winter. And don’t forget to hit the slopes for an active family getaway with our list of ski vacation ideas on page 34. I hope your family has a happy new year filled with all the things you love. And moms, don’t forget to take care of you! Your children count on you every day, so stay healthy and be well.

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Spending, Sharing and Saving program, made possible through a $200,000 grant from PNC Foundation, in connection with its national Grow up Great Initiative. As part of the program, story times and special programs that promote financial literacy for preschoolers are scheduled at Charlotte Mecklenburg Library branches. Participants can learn five early literacy practices, do math activities, and gain understanding about how people, things and money have value. Children who attend a For Me, for You, for Later story time or library event receive an education activity kit

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Single mothers can unite and connect at the Single Mother Empowerment Symposium happening Jan. 19, from noon to 6 p.m., at the Westin Hotel. The day is filled with panel discussions, as well as breakout sessions related to health and wellness, money matters and stress management. Amy Barnett, editor in chief of Ebony Magazine is the keynote speaker. single motherempowerment.com

65% of mothers with children under age 6 are currently in the labor force, up from 39 percent in 1975. Source: Pew Research

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Barbara Helen Moye, a fifth-grader at Beverly Woods Elementary, took action when she learned that all Charlotte-Mecklenburg School students didn’t have the luxury of a backpack. She set out to collect new and gently used backpacks for kindergartners at Sterling Elementary. She grew her idea by asking local boutique Alphabet Soup Gifts and Monogramming if she could set up a donation box. Barbara Helen and her friends visited the boutique, spoke to donors and let them know how a backpack would impact a student in the community. In total, she collected 45 backpacks to assist students at Sterling Elementary.

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arenting a strong-willed child can be a real challenge. You can find yourself sucked into power struggles faster than you can say, “Because I said so!” Over the years as a pediatrician and a mom, I DOC SAYS have learned some tricks of BY DR. KATHERINE O. ADDISON the trade to share.

Children need firm boundaries in order to thrive. Ever wonder why little Amy is such an angel at preschool but raises a ruckus at home? It may be because the rules at school are very firm. Consider developing a list of family rules or a daily schedule to help your child identify boundaries at home. Children need to feel that they have some control. Within the framework of clear boundaries, children should have the opportunity to make choices. Instead of “What do you want to wear today?” — which leaves the door open for a bathing suit and cowboy boots — try, “Which shirt today, kiddo; red or blue?” Learn to pick your battles wisely. Before engaging in a struggle with your child, try asking yourself if it really matters. Safety concerns, such as not running away in a parking lot are always worth the battle, but fighting with your child about clothing or food may not be. The trick is to make the decision before you open your mouth to correct your child. Once you’ve told little Noah to put that toy back on the store shelf, you must follow through or risk ending up back in the land of no boundaries. Avoid using labels to describe your child. Remember that your child is listening very closely to your opinions. Comments about how “diﬃcult” or “stubborn” little Charlie is can really shape his self-perception and, therefore, behavior. Never let them see you sweat. When your little one has pushed you to your breaking point, you must keep your poker face on. Little Sally would love to know that she has found another button to push, but your job is to keep calm and be matter-of-fact as you explain boundaries and specific consequences. Always remember to notice what your child is doing right. Try to praise for specific behaviors, such as “I like the way you asked nicely for more milk,” as opposed to “You’re such a good girl!” Give praise that really means something. Find ways to keep some perspective. Remember that your tough-to-handle, exhausting little one is likely to grow into a tenacious, industrious adult. Take a deep breath, find the humor and enjoy your child. Dr. Katherine Addison is a pediatrician at Novant Health Dilworth Pediatrics. She lives in Charlotte with her husband and three children.

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January is National Bath Safety Month. Remember to never leave a child unattended in the tub, and test the temperature of water on your wrist to make sure it’s not too hot or cold. Consider an inflatable cover for the water spout to protect children from accidental scuﬀs on their backs or dings on the head.

Updated guidelines from the American Academy of Pediatrics advises physicians to be more stringent in distinguishing between viral and bacterial infections when treating ear and sinus infections, and strep throat, in children. Overuse of antibiotics contributes to antibiotic resistance, making infections more difficult to treat. Symptoms of the common cold, which is viral in nature, often persist for 10 days. Before running to the doctor for an antibiotic, focus on relieving symptoms, and get some rest and relaxation.

According to a study from the University of Washington, 10 percent of teens presenting to an emergency department report using non-prescription opiates or sedatives. Only 12-14 percent of these teens had a current home prescription for the meds. This also correlates with other substance use, drinking and driving, or riding with a drunk driver.

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School News Learn about CharlotteMecklenburg Schools magnet programs and more at the School Options Fair happening Jan. 11, 9 a.m.-1 p.m., at Phillip O. Berry Academy. cms.k12.nc.us.

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for children to do if they have an assignment notebook to write down all assignments and a calendar to write down longterm assignments so that study time can be planned. It is also helpful to show children how to use their textbooks or online tutorials to answer questions about homework assignments. For example, children can rework math problems that are similar to those in the math assignment. Following these steps gradually teaches children how to handle homework by themselves. Peggy Gisler and Marge Eberts are experienced teachers who have more than 60 publications to their credit.

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Too Clos e fo r Com fort Recognizing Child Sexual Abuse BY LISA HASSELL

ne afternoon in May 2011, 32-year-old Brian* got a phone call from his sister, asking if he heard that their 12-year-old niece, Stephanie*, had confided in a school friend that she might be pregnant by her step-grandfather. The friend told a teacher, and a school counselor immediately met with Stephanie and notified her mom. The Department of Social Services, sheriﬀ's department and family began investigating to discover that Stephanie’s step-grandfather had definitely abused her. Mary*, Brian's mother and Stephanie’s grandmother, was horrified, embarrassed and overloaded with guilt. How could her husband have been capable of something so horrendous? Two weeks after Stephanie disclosed the horrible truth that had been going on for more than a year, police arrived to serve Stephanie’s step-grandfather a warrant for his arrest. Facing the reality of what was happening, he took his own life. Nearly three years later, Stephanie continues to receive therapy but may never fully trust anyone again. Her innocence was stripped away and she lost a large part of her childhood forever.

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Looking back, Brian says that he could see slight signs of the abuse in Stephanie. She tried making herself look ugly; and she became flirtatious with men his age. He never thought it was anything other than just normal adolescent behavior, or a result of not knowing her biological father. When parents hear the term “sexual predators,” they may think of stories that have flooded the media, such as the sex abuse scandal involving Penn State University football coach Jerry Sandusky. *Names were changed to protect the privacy of people in this story. CharlotteParent.com | JANUARY 2014

As a society we shake our heads in disbelief or briefly feel sympathetic for victims. We often don't take the time to truly consider that child sexual abuse happens in our own communities, and could happen to our own children. It isn't something parents want to consider, but child sexual abuse can and does happen.

can reach children through a variety of methods, including social media sites like Facebook, Twitter and Instagram. And the greatest danger is that they can target multiple people at once until they find someone who's willing to share personal information with them or meet in person.”

Identifying a Sexual Predator

What a Parent can do

Child sexual abuse refers to exploitation, child pornography and physical contact. The most likely perpetrator is a trusted adult. “Stranger danger” is a memorable phrase for parents, but the truth is, of children who are sexually abused, 80 percent of girls and 93 percent of boys are molested by someone they know. In the United States, 1 in 5 girls and 1 in 20 boys are victims of child sexual abuse. Children are most vulnerable to this abuse between the ages of 7 and 13, but it can happen at any age. There is no clear-cut definition or perfect description of a sex offender. Socio-economic status, occupation and position within a community are in no way indicators of whether or not a person may be an abuser. Most often they are people we know, and may even be considered respectable people in our communities. “Typically no one in his own family or circle of friends has a clue as to the secret a pedophile hides,” says Mary. Thus, their pedophilia remains occult. Perpetrators live in all types of homes, in all types of neighborhoods. As of April 2013, there were 747,408 registered sex offenders living in the United States, with another 100,000 lost in the system. North Carolina has the fifth lowest rate of sex offenders in the nation, with 149 per 100,000 people. You can perform an online search for your state's sex offender registry for information, including addresses for convicted and registered offenders within a few miles of any address you put in the search. North Carolina's search is sexoffender.ncdoj.gov.

How Predators Lure Children

A predator needs time alone with the child. He wants to earn the child’s complete trust, so he may give lots of attention by spending time with the child, talking to him or her on the phone or Internet, or planning special outings. Another common way a sexual predator works to win over a child or teen is to buy him or her gifts, toys, candy or forbidden items such as alcohol or cigarettes, which is something Stephanie had been given. These gifts make the child feel as though he or she owes something, or that there should be some reciprocity. If the child accepts items prohibited by parents, he or she is even less likely to come forward with what is happening. The Internet has become an easy way for predators to find what they want. “Unfortunately,” says Paul Adkison, founder of ZABRA, a social media monitoring and alert service, “predators

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Monitoring social media use is crucial. “Friend” or “follow” your son or daughter on Facebook or Twitter, but do more. Have many candid conversations with him or her. “Remind them to always ask, 'do I know this person?' If not, there is no reason to interact with him or share personal information,” says Adkison. “Teach your child to never keep secrets of any kind and teach her good judgement,” says Bryte Marziano, psychologist at the Lucy Daniels Center for Early Childhood in Cary. “Teach what is improper behavior and inappropriate touch. Never leave her with anyone who makes you feel uncomfortable.” Parents should ask themselves if there are any adults who could use their social status or relationship to gain access to and isolate their child; and also stay involved and informed about children’s interactions with coaches, youth directors, family friends and other trusted advisors. In an attempt to teach children about appropriate versus inappropriate relationships with adults, Julie Clark, founder of The Baby Einstein Company, teamed up with John Walsh, whose 6-year-old son was abducted and murdered, to create a video series called The Safe Side. The concept helps children identify three types of grown-ups — Don't Knows, Kinda Knows, and Safe Side Adults — terms that are more understandable to young children than the general word “stranger.” For more information, visit thesafeside.com. Children need to know, beginning at an early age, that their parents love them no matter what, that mistakes happen, and that their parents aren't too busy for them. “Listen to your child more than you talk. Children who feel heard and taken seriously are more likely to stand up for themselves,” says Marziano. Only 38 percent of child victims disclose that they have been abused. Most never share what is going on with anyone else. Of those who do, 40 percent only tell a close friend and not a trusted adult or authority, which doesn't always result in the abuse being reported. “Listen to what the child is NOT telling you,” says Mary. “Although every parent wants to believe that her child would come to her for protection, this belief puts your child at risk.”

When the Unthinkable Happens

10 Signs of Possible Sexual Abuse

If you suspect your child is interacting inappropriately with any adult, either online or in person, intervene immediately. Even if the child denies the relationship, continue to intervene if you're at all suspicious, contact authorities or take the child to speak with a professional. Jessica Bloomfield, psychologist at Southeast Psych, suggests a calm approach to the conversation. “Calmly tell him you've noticed he seems quiet lately and that you're a safe adult and it's OK to talk. It's OK to say, 'Has someone hurt you or touched you in a way that made you uncomfortable?' This leaves the door open for a child to talk.” If your child does disclose that he was abused, believe him. “Listen without blaming the child or anyone else, and then report the abuse to the appropriate agency,” says Marziano. “Children who experience sexual abuse may react in various ways, so seeking out a therapist who specializes in child sexual abuse can help her cope with what has happened.” Also try to realize that blaming yourself won't help anyone and that continuing to love and assure your child is the best thing you can do for him or her.

1. Sudden, unexplained mood swings, changes in personality, or suicide attempts. 2. Nightmares and unexplained sleep problems. 3. Changes in eating habits or trouble swallowing.

4. Suddenly has money, toys or gifts without reason. 5. Develops new or unusual fear of certain people or places. 6. Physical signs, such as bruises or soreness around genitals or mouth.

7. Fear of intimacy or closeness with others. 8. Acts out sexual behavior during play. 9. Exhibits adult-like sexual behaviors, language

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inter’s dropping temperatures and fewer hours of sunlight can make wrapping up in a blanket much more appealing than heading outdoors for play and exercise. Families who want to integrate exercise into their routines this year don’t need to wait until spring. Whether your family enjoys scaling rock walls, year-round swimming or doing yoga, the Charlotte area is home to several state-of-the-art, indoor recreation facilities that oﬀer fun and exercise for the whole family.

Climb the Walls The first indoor gym dedicated to rock climbing opened in Seattle in 1987, and in recent years this family-friendly sport has taken oﬀ all over the United States. Inner Peaks Climbing Center, Charlotte’s only dedicated rock climbing gym, has seen participation in its youth climbing team more than double in the past year and a half. Rock climbing builds endurance and strength, and most older children and adults can master simple techniques and attempt their first climb with about 15 minutes of instruction and safety procedures. All that’s required is a harness, a rope, and the nerve to grab onto a series of handholds and footholds, and start scaling.

“My favorite thing about climbing is that it really is for everyone,” says Sean Wieboldt, a manager, setter and climbing team coach at Inner Peaks. Children as young as 4 can climb at Inner Peaks. Even then, they are limited not by ability but by weight, as most children that young aren’t heavy enough to naturally lower to the ground after climbing a wall. Children naturally have strong grip strength compared to their body size, which can make them strong climbers. Simple rope systems eliminate complicated harness-and-rope systems. New climbers simply have to clip a rope to their harness, make sure someone is belaying them and begin their ascent. CharlotteParent.com | JANUARY 2014

Wieboldt says that Inner Peaks family memberships, which allow two adults and all of their children under age 21 unlimited climbing, are a popular choice. Parents can help each other and their children climb, and older children can serve as belay partners for parents. Climbing does not require a base level of fitness, but dedicated participants can expect to regularly get a full-body workout. Wieboldt compares it to swimming and gymnastics, two sports that require muscles in the whole body. Beginning climbers often use their arms to pull themselves up the wall, but as they develop better technique they grow into the proper form of using their hands to grip while their legs do the work. Meanwhile, they are also developing balance, coordination and flexibility. Climbers who are looking for a power workout can do “laps,” or repeated climbs up and down a wall. “Your heart rate goes up and it becomes a cardio workout,” says Wieboldt. Inner Peaks offers a climbing team for ages 7-17 with different levels of competition, including the opportunity for climbers to compete in regional and national competitions. Other places in Charlotte that offer indoor climbing walls include UNCC’s climbing gym, which has six routes and a 32-foot climbing height, and YMCA Wall West Cabarrus, which has a 30foot wall with seven top ropes.

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Swimming is one of the best sports for working the whole body, and is available year-round for all ages. “Swimming is very easy on the joints and the whole body, and it’s a good overall workout,” says John Kirk, who owns Little Otter Swim School with his wife, Lory Kirk. “There is little chance of injury.” Several facilities in the Charlotte area have indoor pools that are accessible with membership. Pools range from lap pools for adults who swim for exercise to pools where children can play. Little Otter Swim School oﬀers lessons year-round for ages 6 months and up. The school focuses primarily on children, and parents are required to attend classes with children through age 36 months. Swimming lessons for young children can be a great time for families to bond and for young children to get moving. Families with children enrolled in lessons at Little Otter also can enjoy bi-monthly open swim sessions. Older children can take swim lessons or join Little Otter’s inhouse junior swim team, which provides a “swim team experience” for kids during the colder months. When the weather warms up and outdoor pools open, young swimmers are prepared to join regular season swim teams.

Older children can also practice their strokes through the winter at the YMCA’s numerous indoor pools, which are accessible with a YMCA membership. The Harris Y has an indoor waterpark with a slide, a lazy river and other features. Very young children can enjoy the zero-entry pool’s shallow end. The waterpark is next to a 25-yard, six-lane lap pool that is open daily. The Y also oﬀers adult water fitness classes throughout the year. A number of Charlotte area Ys, including the Siskey, the Dowd, the University City and the Lake Norman YMCAs have indoor pools and oﬀer swim lessons for all levels. SwimMAC Carolina hosts year-round swim leagues, as well as Middle School Teen Fit and High School Teen Fit. The Teen Fit programs are designed to give middle school swimmers an opportunity to work on technique and conditioning. Winter sessions begin in February. Families can also swim laps during Public Lap Swim at the SwimMAC Training Center at Charlotte Latin School. A one-day pass is $5, or 15- and 30-visit pool passes can be purchased. Parents looking for a day of water fun with young children can head to Ray’s Splash Planet, an indoor waterpark that is a joint venture of Mecklenburg County Park and Recreation Department and Charlotte-Mecklenburg Schools. Membership is not required, but a minimal fee is charged per entrant. The splash park’s features include the three-story Blue Comet water slide, a lazy river, water squirters and a gradual-entry pool.

Go With the Flow Children and parents can stay fit and flexible all year at Charlotte’s family yoga studios that offer classes for toddlers through adults, and numerous classes suited for beginners. “Children get the same benefit from yoga that adults do,” says Diane Cevallos, owner of Charlotte Family Yoga Center. “Yoga moves the body, sort of like a massage, and the side effects are physical strength and flexibility.” Parents of very young children usually attend yoga classes with their child, where instructors plan partner poses and other fun yoga activities. Charlotte Family Yoga Studio offers child care for ages 7 and younger while parents attend classes. “Parents can do their own personal (yoga) practice, and children are still exposed to a yoga studio environment and the energy of the yoga studio,” says Cevallos. Y2 Yoga at Cotswold Shopping Center offers classes designed for children ages 4-10 to attend without a parent, and teens can take part in adult classes. Many studios offer free trial classes, new student specials and reduced price classes that make giving yoga a try affordable. Marty Minchin is a freelance writer based in Charlotte. She has two elementary school age children.

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Let's face it, we are in an energy crisis. We, as a society, are busy, overweight, stressed, out of shape and have poor eating habits — all contributing to low energy levels. One way to fix our energy deficit is how we eat. The right combinations of food can give you a much-needed boost. Follow these strategies to maximize your energy. 1. Eat often. Eating every three to four hours can help to fuel a healthy metabolism, maintain muscle mass and prevent between-meal hunger that leads to unwise snacking. If you're currently only eating one to two meals a day, this will be an adjustment. As you're learning how to eat more frequently throughout the day, remind yourself that you will feel better and be more focused when you have fuel in your system on a regular basis. 2. Eat light. Eating just enough, but not too much, helps to curb cravings and reduces chances of overeating. Keep in mind portions are often too large. If your meal carries you five to six hours without hunger pangs, it's likely that you’re eating too much. Eating light will also prevent you from getting too full and feeling sluggish. 3. Balance plate. A balanced meal includes whole grains, lean protein, fiber-rich fruits and vegetables, fat-free or lowfat dairy and a small amount of healthy fats. Balance out your plate with all the food groups for sustained energy. 4. Snacks are a bridge. Don't skip this important eating event. Snacks should have protein and fiber-rich carbohydrates to provide lasting energy. Grab an apple and a handful of nuts, carrots and string cheese, or Greek yogurt and fresh berries. Keep in mind that snacks are not intended to fill you up, but to bridge you from one meal to the next. 5. Remove energy zappers. Skip the soda, sugary coﬀee and energy drinks. These foods may leave you buzzing for an hour, but will likely cause an energy crash. Quench your thirst with water, fat-free or low-fat milk, low-calorie flavored water or unsweetened tea. Tara Gidus is a registered and licensed dieitian, and author of “Flat Belly Cookbook for Dummies” and “Pregnancy Cooking & Nutrition for Dummies.” Source: eatright.org CharlotteParent.com | JANUARY 2014

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to make sure kids are having fun while learning to maneuver on skis. General lessons are usually a couple hours long and are done without parents. Instructors may give children a break by letting them build a snowman or going to the lodge for cocoa, says Wall, which keeps it fun when they may start to get tired of the howto of skiing. Many ski facilities offer child care for babies and toddlers. Some offer a combined daycare for young children that includes a lesson, which gives parents time to explore more difficult slopes with older children (or on their own), while a younger child learns to ski without overdoing it, says Wall. Members of Charlotte Ski and Snowboard Club take trips to nearby ski resorts throughout the ski season. A $50 membership comes with immediate savings, including a $25 gift card for Alpine Ski Club, and half-price lift tickets on your first trip with the club to Appalachian Ski Mountain. Wall also recommends looking for Groupon and earlyor late-season lift ticket deals, and avoiding three-day holiday weekends when prices are higher at most ski areas. Before you go, consider renting gear in town. “The selection isn’t as big as what you get in the mountains, but it’s more convenient and less stressful because you don’t have to wait in line at a ski shop near the slopes,” says Wall. For more on Charlotte Ski and Snowboard Club, visit charlotteskiandsnowboard.com.

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efore the winter doldrums set in, dust oﬀ your ski bibs, pack a cozy sweater and make plans for a winter weekend getaway to one of North Carolina’s ski areas to ski, snowboard or snow-tube. North Carolina is host to several ski areas, many less than a three-hour drive from Charlotte. There are also well-known ski resorts in Virginia and West Virginia that make for a great active family vacation that don’t require air travel. “Our local mountains are good day trips,” says Trisha Wall, president of the Charlotte Ski and Snowboard Club. “Go Saturday morning and make a day of it, or stay Saturday night and get two days of skiing in without paying for two nights at a hotel.” Wall started going on family ski trips when she was 5. “It was a good way to get out and spend some time together.” She plans to introduce her son, who is 2, to the sport this winter, but says for many children the ideal age range to give skiing a try is between 5 and 7, but it just depends on the child’s interest. “When it was time for me to learn, I had a competitive thing with my sister and I always wanted to be better than her,” says Wall. “So I think it’s a healthy sport for teaching self-confidence.” Time on the lifts and at the lodge together, is also a good time for family communication and bonding, she says. Regardless of age, Wall recommends anyone trying skiing for the first time take a lesson. Instructors are trained

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Here are 11 diﬀerent ski and/or tubing resorts in North Carolina, Virginia and West Virginia. Most of these resorts operate from late November through mid-March, with some remaining open through the end of March. Openings largely depend on weather conditions. Contact the individual locations before you go to schedule lessons and obtain weather updates, snow and slope reports, and information about discounts or rate changes. Listed drive times are from Charlotte’s center city.

Snowboarding at Sugar Mountain near Banner Elk.

NORTH CAROLINA Appalachian Ski Mountain 940 Ski Mountain Road, Blowing Rock 800-322-2373 appskimtn.com and appterrainpark.com Approximate drive time: 2 hours Beech Mountain 1007 Beech Mountain Pkwy., Beech Mountain 800-438-2093 beechmountainresort.com Approximate drive time: 2.5 hours

Skiing at Wolf Ridge Ski Resort near Asheville.

Cataloochee Ski Area 1080 Ski Lodge Road, Maggie Valley 800-768-0285 cataloochee.com Approximate drive time: 3 hours Sapphire Valley Ski Area 127 Cherokee Trail, Sapphire 828-743-7663 skisapphirevalley.com Approximate drive time: 3 hours Sugar Mountain 1009 Sugar Mountain Drive, Banner Elk 800-784-2768 skisugar.com Approximate drive time: 2.5 hours

Wolf Ridge Ski Resort 578 Valley View Circle, Mars Hill 800-817-4111 skiwolfridgenc.com Approximate drive time: 2.5 hours VIRGINIA The Homestead Resort 7696 Sam Snead Hwy., Hot Springs, Va. 866-354-4653 thehomestead.com Approximate drive time: 4.5 hours Wintergreen Resort Route 664, Wintergreen, Va. (Adjacent to Blue Ridge Parkway southwest of Charlottesville, Va.)

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TUBING RESORTS If you prefer tubing to skiing, consider these tubing-only resorts for a family getaway. Hawksnest 2058 Skyland Drive, Seven Devils 800-822-4295 hawksnesttubing.com Approximate drive time: 2.5 hours Jonas Ridge Snow Tubing N.C. Highway 181 S., Jonas Ridge (GPS: 9472 N.C. 181, Newland)

855-699-1858 wintergreenresort.com Approximate drive time: 4 hours

828-733-4155 jonasridgesnowtube.com Approximate drive time: 2 hours

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Moonshine Mountain Snow Tubing Park 5865 Willow Road, Hendersonville 828-696-0333 moonshinemountain.com Approximate drive time: 2 hours

Snowshoe Mountain Ski Resort 10 Snowshoe Drive, Snowshoe, W.Va. 877-441-4386 snowshoemtn.com Approximate drive time: 5.5 hours Winterplace Ski Resort 100 Old Flat Top Mountain Road, Ghent, W.Va. (Exit 28 oﬀ I-77, near Ghent and Flat Top, W.Va.)

800-607-7669 winterplace.com Approximate drive time: 3 hours

Scaly Mountain Outdoor Center 7420 Dillard Road, Scaly Mountain 828-526-3737 scalymountain.com Approximate drive time: 3.5 hours

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transform society, believes that when parents step in too soon to resolve their children’s conflicts, it sends the wrong message. “We’re saying ‘you can’t solve the problem for yourself, so I have to step in and do it,’” he says. “If a child experiences this enough times, they’re How to teach going to start to believe children to resolve it.” The result: Parents get called to mend every tiny BY BETH FORNAUF tiff that arises. The obvious exception here is if one of your “Mommy! He took my toy!” children is hurting another. Preschoolers “Get out of the bathroom already! Argh!” in particular have to learn that behaviors “I can’t believe her! She unfriended me!” like hitting or kicking are not OK, so Sound familiar? If you’re the parent of a in these instances act swiftly to ensure toddler, tween or teen, you’ve likely heard safety and maintain consistency with some variation of these recently. These your expectations. distress calls are heard from children of all ages during disputes with siblings, friends and even their parents. 2. Facilitate, don’t fix. Conflicts like these are a part of life. Most children, regardless of age, believe For many parents, the ordeal of working arguments have a winner and a loser. But out and muddling through their children’s parents can present options for cooperation. battles feels infinitely more difficult than The next time you witness an argument dealing with their own. Can’t we all just get arising, interject some information about along? Well, no. Not everyone gets along compromise. Explain that grown-ups make all the time. And is a little conflict really so concessions all the time, at work and at bad? If everyone always agreed, the world home, and provide examples. would be a very boring place. Model and facilitate compromise at There is a way to find the positive side home, such as offering several solutions of conflict — the problem-solving side. Read to a conflict that includes give-and-take on to find out how to help your kids learn for both children. Be sure that you aren’t the skills they need to fight the good fight. offering a solution that favors one child, simply provide some ideas for working out a solution. The kids have to agree on one of 1. Hold off on the rescue. the choices to come to a resolution, and to Often the first indication of a clash see how compromise works. between kids is some variation of “Mom! Make her stop!” When we’re faced with red, tear-streaked faces or tiny, tightly3. Model the good fight. crossed arms, our instinct is to intervene. Teaching good conflict resolutions skills is But stepping in too soon may have longlike getting your kids to eat vegetables: If term consequences. you don’t do it, they probably won’t either. Tim Elmore, founder of an Children look to their parents as a guide for international nonprofit created to develop behavior, and take on many of their habits young leaders who can impact and and quirks.

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Is it OK for parents to fight in front of children? A number of studies have been conducted on this very topic, with no clearcut answer. Yet most research supports the idea that fighting can be OK, but it must be done correctly. “Raising voices or talking in a condescending or sarcastic tone is no way to resolve a conflict, or teach our children how to disagree in a healthful way,” says Elmore. “However, engaging in an argument in a reasonable tone and using statements like ‘I respectfully disagree and here’s why’ is worth your children witnessing.” Children also need to see that arguments don’t destroy relationships. Afterwards, parents should be as respectful and aﬀectionate as they usually are, and allow their children to hear them apologize, determine a solution and move on.

4. Get emotional, not hysterical. Fighting is, by nature, an

emotional experience. As a result, people express emotion in diﬀerent ways, such as yelling, whining or even crying. Though parents never want their children to feel hurt or sadness, feeling these emotions is a natural part of life. It’s OK for parents to show their kids when they are sad or upset, and recognize when a conflict causes such feelings in their children. The trick is not to be ruled by emotion in an agitated state. “Children need to harness this raw emotion and learn how to think strategically, rather than act on emotion alone,” says Elmore. But when emotion escalates to hysteria, it’s time to act. Parents should put disagreements, between themselves or their children, on hold if the participants are becoming hysterical. Watch for the signs – namecalling, screaming, bringing up old problems, or simply not making any sense. Give yourself or your kids a cool-down period, and revisit the problem when everyone involved has had a chance to take some deep breaths and count to 10.

5. Process and reflect.

It’s usually a relief when an argument comes to an end. If, however, the problem was particularly troubling or major, it may be a good idea to process it as a family. A conversation following conflicts between parents, a parent and child or children is often a good idea. “Discuss the premise or cause of the disagreement, as well as ways the resolution was handled well, and things to improve on next time,” says Elmore. Although reflecting on these things may be uncomfortable at the time, it’s also a good teachable moment. Both kids and parents can get a sense of their own do’s and don’ts for future conflict, and putting the matter to bed once and for all reduces the need to revisit the problem during a later argument. Conflict resolution might not be the easiest skill you ever teach your kids, but it is an important one. Take the time to build these skills as a family, and be consistent. If all goes well, you may see less tears, hear less screams, and help your kids grow into independent, respectful problem-solvers.

Beth Fornauf is a freelance writer and mother of two.

Fight Right Attention parents: Remember these tips from real moms and dads who’ve been there next time you find yourselves mid-conflict in front of your children. • Keep calm: Shouting can cause your kids to stress, and escalate the fight. • Stay present: Avoid revisiting prior disputes; stick to the issue at hand. • Remember your audience: You are being watched (maybe even studied). Don’t do or say anything you don’t want repeated back to you later. • Keep talking: The silent treatment, contrary to popular belief, is rarely effective. • Press pause: If the issue can’t be resolved quickly, table it until later; use a code word so you know when to temporarily end the discussion. • Make up: Even if you don’t completely resolve the conflict, it’s important to show your kids you still love and respect one another. CharlotteParent.com | JANUARY 2014

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TEACHER 9 tips for eﬀective teacher meetings BY SHARON NOLFI

A meeting between you and your child’s teacher can be a powerful tool for helping your child succeed in school. Whether scheduled by the school, requested by you, or suggested by the teacher, such a meeting gives you a platform to learn about your child and to assert her needs. Follow these nine guidelines for more productive — and even enjoyable — parent-teacher conferences.

1. Have a goal in mind. You or the teacher may have initiated the meeting. Either way, you should consider what you hope to accomplish. Ask yourself ahead of time what a successful outcome for you would be, then plan and work toward that goal.

2. Come prepared. Write down

your questions ahead of time. Bring samples of your child’s work that demonstrate problem areas and/or strengths. Keep track of problem behaviors at home that may be repeating themselves in the classroom.

3. Listen, then respond. Let the teacher speak first, and listen carefully. Take notes on points for which you need clarification or with which you

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disagree. Respond to the teacher’s concerns, then introduce topics you want to cover.

4. What is the particular behavior the teacher is complaining about? At what times and how frequently is it occurring? Ask what an acceptable behavior would look like. 5. Request special Services. Many services are available

for children with special needs. Ask for an evaluation if you suspect your child has a learning disability.

6. threaten. You have a right to assert

your point of view, but do so with respect and courtesy. Most teachers care about your child’s success. Politely ask to bring the principal into the discussion if you want, but don’t raise your voice or threaten to have them fired. Being nasty only distracts from your point of view and makes it harder to work with the school in the long run.

7. Avoid discussion of other Children. Teachers have

legal and ethical reasons why they can’t discuss other children. Information about

your child should be kept confidential as well. Respect these practices for everyone’s benefit.

8. Be Willing to FollowUp. Let the teacher know you are willing

to help your child at home if necessary. Ask what you can do at home to supplement what is going on in the classroom, and then do it.

9. Ask for More Time if Needed. You are entitled to a full

discussion and understanding of your child’s progress at school. If the teacher can’t continue right then, set up another appointment at a convenient time. Welcome the chance to confer with your child’s teacher, whether your child is having problems or not. You and the teacher can help each other to provide the best educational experience possible. Children learn best when home and school are in agreement on expectations and goals. Sharon Nolfi is a licensed school psychologist whose writing has appeared in publications across the country.

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Find more school options at CharlotteParent.com/directories Anami Montessori School

2901 Archdale Drive | 704-556-0042 anamimontessori.org 3-12 years | $7,350-$10,600 Scientist Maria Montessori discovered when children are active participants their choices are respected and guided. When this responsibility is nurtured, a new child emerges. Children are the best hope for the future. Share the hope. Experience the surprise. Visit Anami Montessori School today.

Cannon School

5801 Poplar Tent Road, Concord | 704-786-8171 cannonschool.org Grades JrK-12 | $11,440-$18,760 An independent college preparatory school with more than 900 students from the surrounding cities of Charlotte, and 100 full-time faculty members. The core values of courage, teamwork, respect, integrity, passion and kindness create a safe, supportive and stimulating environment. Founded in 1969.

Carolina International School

8810 Hickory Ridge Road, Harrisburg | 704-455-3847 carolinainternationalschool.org Grades K-11 | Call for rates. A charter school since 2004, with an interdisciplinary focus based upon international and environmental studies. Excellent teaching staff reflects upon each individual and provides a differentiated curriculum, paired with cultural and fine arts. Class size: 22-24 students. New facility opening fall 2014.

Charlotte Country Day School

1440 Carmel Road | 704-943-4500 charlottecountryday.org Grades JK-12 | $14,975-$21,440 Offers college-prep education with superior teachers and stateof-the-art facilities, hands-on innovative experiences and individualized attention in a diverse and nurturing environment. Offers IB program, AP classes, middle/upper school athletics, fine/performing arts programs. SACS, SAIS accreditation. Enrollment: 1,632. Student-teacher ratio: 10:1. Founded in 1941. Tuitions are annual unless otherwise noted

British American School of Charlotte

7000 Endhaven Lane | 704-341-3236 britishschoolofcharlotte.org 2-18 years | $8,640-$19,705 British-trained teachers, international curriculum, global classroom connected with 26 other worldwide schools. Beforeand after-school care, entrance criteria, after-school enrichment program, founded in 2004. Enrollment 160. Student-teacher ratio 10:1.

Carmel Christian School

1145 Pineville-Matthews Road | 704-849-9723 carmelchristian.org Grades K-12 | $7,854-$9,432 A ministry of Carmel Baptist Church, provides an excellent education built on biblical truth that equips students to reflect Christ to the world. Athletics: Varsity, JV and Middle School. The Arts: drama, music, art and dance. Enrollment: 735. Student-teacher ratio: 11:1. Founded in 1993.

Charlotte Choice Charter School

1000 Anderson St. | 704-272-8308 charlottechoicecharter.org Grades K-6 A tuition-free school approved to serve grades K-8 that cultivates a passion for learning and community service. Enrollment of 216 students in a diverse setting with a small student to teacher ratio. The goal is to prepare students to compete globally in the fields of Science, Technology, Engineering and Math.

Charlotte Latin

9502 Providence Road | 704-846-1100 charlottelatin.org Grades TK-12 | $15,650-$19,650 Encouraging individual development and civility in students by inspiring them to learn, encouraging them to serve others, and offering growthpromoting opportunities. An Honor Code and strong student-teacher relationships are supported by low student-teacher ratios. Founded in 1970. Enrollment: 1,400. CharlotteParent.com | JANUARY 2014

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Charlotte Preparatory School

212 Boyce Road | 704-366-5994 charlotteprep.org Grades Pre-Primary-8 | $10,370-$17,050 Mission is to provide a truly extraordinary educational experience founded on academic excellence, character development, and leadership in a culturally diverse community. Seeking to bring that mission to life each day by providing an outstanding education for students in a warm, nurturing environment that fosters intellectual, expressive, physical, and ethical growth.

Covenant Day School

800 Fullwood Lane | 704-847-2385 covenantday.org Grades TK-12 | $5,900-$12,700 Students benefit from a rigorous academic program, a biblical worldview, small classes, community involvement, competitive sports, quality fine arts, skilled faculty and technology integration. Enrollment: 842. Student-teacher ratio 9:1-13:1. CSI, SACS and NCPSA accreditation.

Davidson Day School

750 Jetton St., Davidson | 704-237-5200 davidsonday.org 2-18 years | $9,500-$15,325 A diverse environment that cultivates academic excellence through collaboration, creativity and character development. Each student is offered a challenging learning environment through a broad array of programs. Founded in 1999.

Ivybrook Academy

Weddington and Ft. Mill, SC | 704-845-2350 ivybrookacademy.com 18 mos.-5 years | Call for rates A half-day program that provides a progressive approach to early childhood education through which children create and discover to nourish their potential as individuals. Voted â&#x20AC;&#x153;Best Private Schoolâ&#x20AC;? by readers of Charlotte Parent.

Mecklenburg Area Catholic Schools

1123 S. Church St. | 704-370-3273 Grades PreK-12 | $4,834-$12,735 Nine schools located throughout the Charlotte Mecklenburg Area offering a quality education in the Catholic tradition, including Charlotte Catholic High School; Christ the King Catholic High School, Huntersville; Our Lady of the Assumption Catholic School; St. Ann Catholic School; St. Gabriel Catholic School; St. Matthew Catholic School; St. Mark Catholic School, Huntersville; and St. Patrick Catholic School.

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Christian Montessori School at Lake Norman

14101 Stumptown Road, Huntersville | 704-875-1801 christianmontessorischool.org 6 weeks-6th grade | $3,192-$12,784 A member of American Montessori Society. Certified by the NC Department of Non-Public Instruction, and boasts a 4-STAR rating from the NC Division of Child Development. Studentteacher ratios: Infant (1:4), Toddlers (1:6), Preschool (1:10), and Elementary (1:12).

Cramerton Christian Academy

426 Woodlawn Ave., Cramerton | 704-824-2840 cramertonchristian.org Infants-Grade 12 | $3,500-$4,000 Provides quality, affordable education in Gaston County for more than 30 years with qualified, caring teachers and rigorous academic curriculum.

Gaston Day School

2001 Gaston Day School Road, Gastonia | 704-864-7744 gastonday.org 3-18 years | $4,300-$14,390 A nonsectarian, college-preparatory school with approximately 500 students and 65 full and part-time faculty and staff. Attracts students from a five-county area, including Gaston, Mecklenburg, Lincoln, Cleveland and York. Accredited by SACS. Founded in 1967.

Liberty Preparatory Christian Academy

246 Blume Road, Mooresville | 704-660-3933 libertyprepnc.com K-12 | $3,450-$4,850 A University-Model school, founded in 2010. Provides an academically challenging environment while developing responsible students of character. The school model is based on the classical style of education, teaching students to pursue knowledge, love learning and develop their God-given potential. Max. class size: 16.

For complete school listings, visit our website at CharlotteParent.com and click on Directories. Tuitions are annual unless otherwise noted

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Northside Christian Academy

333 Jeremiah Blvd. | 704-599-9015 ncaknights.com Grades K5-12 | $5,628-$6,960 Known for its emphasis on academics, outstanding athletics, strong arts program, and dedication to improve the spiritual life of students. Graduates have been accepted to Duke University, Georgia Tech, Oxford of England, UNCC, Wake Forest University and Wheaton College. Enrollment: 600. Student-teacher ratio: 12:1.

Providence Day School

5800 Sardis Road | 704-887-6000 providenceday.org 5-17 years | $15,395-$20,080 An independent, co-educational, TK-12 college-preparatory school with a focus on global education and the innovative use of technology to enhance the learning environment. Inspires a passion for learning, a sense of social responsibility, and a commitment to personal integrity. Accredited by SAIS. Enrollment: 1,590. Founded in 1970.

The Epiphany School of Charlotte

6800 St. Peter’s Lane, Matthews | 704-644-4407 theepiphanyschool.com 1-8 years | $18,350 A nonprofit, Christian school with special programs based on a social curriculum for Asperger’s, Autism, ADHD, Sensory Processing Disorder and other learning differences. Enrollment: 17. Student-teacher ratio: 3:1-5:1. Founded in 2009.

Trinity Episcopal School

750 E. 9th St. | 704- 358-8101 TEScharlotte.org Grades K-8 | $14,950-$16,450 Passionate and innovative faculty committed to creating scholars by redefining academic rigor using a personalized workshop approach, inspiring a responsibility for students’ own learning, and promoting curiosity. Enrollment: 427. Student-teacher ratio: Grades K-5: 11:1; 6-8: 16:1. Founded in 2000. Tuitions are annual unless otherwise noted

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Mountain Island Charter School

13440 Lucia Riverbend Hwy. | 704-827-8840 micharter.org Grades K-11 | Call for rates. Offers a robust curriculum while instilling character values and leadership development within a positive, challenging learning environment. Options Studentsinclude participate 12+ athletic in more teams, than a dozen a variety athletic of extracurricular teams and a wide variety programs, of extracurricular service learningprograms, and field service trips, plus learning AP and anddual fieldenrollment trips. (CCP) courses. Founded in 2010. Enrollment: 1100.

8101 Fallsdale Drive | 704-391-5516 midschool.org Grades TK-8 | $4,940 Founded in 2009. A private Christian collegepreparatory school. Currently have 16 full and part-time faculty and staff, with 70 percent of staff holding masters degrees. Approved by the NC Department of Education. Currently in process for SACS accreditation. AP and learning disabilities, summer camp and clubs. Before/after-school care. Enrollment: 380. Student-teacher ratio: 12:1.

Palisades Episcopal School

13120 Grand Palisades Pkwy. | 704-583-1825 pescharlotte.org Grades JK-8 | $5,150-$11,285 School honoring Christ and committed to providing a classical education challenging the mind, body and spirit.

SouthLake Christian Academy

13820 Hager’s Ferry Road | 704-949-2200 southlakechristian.org Grades JK-12 | $7,000-$10,000 Largest TK-12 fully-accredited private school in the Lake Norman area. A college preparatory school providing a challenging academic curriculum and educational experience to ensure graduates thrive in the everchanging world environment. Prepares students to excel in academics, athletics and the arts.

The John Crosland School

5146 Parkway Plaza Blvd. | 704-365-5490 johncroslandschool.org Grades K-12| See website for rates. Provides students with attention and learning differences the individualized education to achieve their highest potential in an environment that nurtures and protects their curiosity, talents, character, humanity and dreams. SAIS, SACS accredited. Founded in 1978 as Dore Academy.

United Community School

2601 Rocky River Road | 980-819-0555 ucsnc.org Grades K-2 | Call for rates. A year-round charter school that promotes learning with teachers who are empowered to meet the individual needs of students, and parents as partners. Curriculum integrates arts with emphasis on piano theory/performance and hands-on learning. Teachers serve a three-year loop with students. Enrollment: 216. Student-teacher ratio is 12:1. Opening in August 2014. CharlotteParent.com | JANUARY 2014

Epic fun for families in Uptown Charlotte, brought to you by EPICENTRE. There’s lots for families to do in Uptown Charlotte and EPICENTRE wants you to know about it.

EPICENTRE recommends the following Uptown family events: Flight of the Butterflies in IMAX

more fun on the way in 2014! The EPICENTRE Kids Club Central was created with one idea in mind: having more fun in Uptown Charlotte as a family! We offer Kids Club Central events throughout the year, and have some great fun on the way. Each event features music, games, crafts, and fun - all made possible by our friends at Radio Disney Charlotte, Children's Party Plus, and Charlotte Parent. We have a roving photographer at each event which helps capture that epic moment with a free digital photo. And the best thing: everything is FREE.

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Discovery Place, 301 N. Tryon St. Fri., Jan. 3, 2014: 11am, 1pm, 3pm Discovery Place, 301 N. Tryon St. Sat., Jan. 4, 2014: 11:30am, 1:30pm, 3:30pm, 4:30pm Discovery Place, 301 N. Tryon St. Sun., Jan. 5, 2014: 2pm, 4pm It’s the remarkable Monarch butterfly migration, the most incredible migration on Earth, and the determined scientist who spent 40 years trying to discover exactly where the butterflies mysteriously disappeared to when they flew south for winter. $5-$10.

Discovery Place IMAX: Jerusalem

Discovery Place, 301 N. Tryon St. Fri., Jan. 3, 2014: 10am, noon, 2pm Discovery Place, 301 N. Tryon St. Sat., Jan. 4, 2014: 10:30am, 12:30pm, 2:30pm Discovery Place, 301 N. Tryon St. Sun., Jan. 5, 2014: 1pm, 3pm Explore why this city remains a mystery. The viewing showcases the common heritage between Christians, Jews and Muslims. All ages. $5-$10.

World’s Fairs

The Mint Museum, 500 S. Tryon St. Fri., Jan. 3, 2014: 11am-6pm The Mint Museum, 500 S Tryon St. Sat., Jan. 4, 2014: 11am-6pm The Mint Museum, 500 S Tryon St. Sun., Jan. 5, 2014: 1pm-5pm Experience the international exhibition with outstanding examples of glass, furniture, jewelry, ceramics, precious metalwork and textiles displayed at the world’s fairs between The Great Exhibition of the Works of Industry of All Nations in London in 1851 and the New York World’s Fair in 1939.

Build It, Make It, Take It: Budget Bot

Discovery Place, 301 N. Tryon St. Jan. 11, 2014, 10:30am-noon Hackerspace Charlotte demonstrates how to connect motors to circuits to make a robot. Learn how to write a code to control what a robot can do. All ages. $10- $12 museum admission; $15 per kit. Registration required.

Treasure Chest of Art

Mint Museum, 2730 Randolph Road Jan. 12, 2014, 1-4pm Enjoy family-oriented activites, health-oriented arts and crafts, and art demonstrations. All ages. $5; Children are free.

Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Community Celebration

Levine Museum of the New South, 200 E. 7th St. Jan. 19, 2014, noon-4pm Honoring the pursuit of civil and human rights through film, performances, children’s crafts and exhibitions. All ages. Free.

Don’t Tell Me I Can’t Fly

Wells Fargo Playhouse, 300 E. 7th St. Jan. 24-26, 2014 Inspired by the life and work of acclaimed folk artist Della Wells, this story gives a glimpse into the sometimes challenging lives of an African-American family in the 1960s. Ages: 8-11. Call for ticket price.

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January 2014 go. see. play.

Charlotte Museum of History, 3500 Shamrock Drive 704-568-1774 charlottemuseum.org

Time Warner Cable Arena 333 E. Trade St. 800-745-3000 monsterjam.com

Uptown Charlotte mlk.charlottevibe.com

Armour Street Theatre 307 Armour St., Davidson. 704-892-7953 davidsoncommunityplayers.org

If you feel like you’re just not ready to get out of the holiday spirit, enjoy a night of caroling around a bonfire and play colonial games at Twelfth Night to celebrate the end of the 12 days of Christmas. Take a candlelight tour and enjoy cider and cake just like the backcountry settlers did to celebrate the end of the Christmas season. $5-$10, free for children under age 6. 6-7:30pm.

Bring the entire family out to see mega trucks compete in a freestyle competition at the Monster Jam. Twelve-feet-tall, 10,000-pound machines race, soar and smash through a customdesigned track full of obstacles. Featured trucks include Grave Digger, Man of Steel and Razin’ Kane, just to name a few. Don’t forget to bring protection for your ears. $10-$25. Jan. 10-11. Fri., 7:30pm; Sat., 2 and 7:30pm.

Celebrate the life and legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. at the MLK Holiday Parade. The parade kicks off at the corner of 11th and North Tryon streets, and ends at the corner of Stonewall and South Tryon streets. Expect marching bands, floats by local community, organizations, and local community leaders. Get there early to claim your spot along the route. Free. 11am.

Connie Company Productions brings the story of Cinderella to life as it portrays this timeless tale of a young girl who is made a servant in her own home by the wicked step-mother and stepsisters. With a positive outlook and a never-ending hope for love, this is a play every member of the family can enjoy. Be there before the clock strikes at midnight. $10. Call box office for times.

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1 WEDNESDAY New Year’s Day Animal Grossology. Last day to explore the disgusting things animals do and how they can be fun, funky and fascinating. $5-$17, includes museum admission. 9am-5pm. Discovery Place, 301 N. Tryon St. 704-372-6261. discoveryplace.org. Fantastic Frogs. Meet live frogs and participate in interactive learning games. $10-$12, includes museum admission. 9am-5pm. Discovery Place, 301 N. Tryon St. 704-372-6261. discoveryplace.org.

First Footin 5K Hike. Experience a Scottish New Year tradition by hiking the farm’s trail. After enjoy a soup lunch. Bring fresh or canned vegetable soup, bread or a dessert. Registration required. $25-$30/ registration fee. 11am. Rural Hill, 4431 Neck Road, Huntersville. 704-8753113. Ruralhill.net. Nutrition 101. A wellness specialist teaches the basic building blocks for eating smart each day. Ages 13+. Free. Noon-1pm. Harris YMCA, 5900 Quail Hollow Road. 704-716-6800. ymcacharlotte.org.

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GASTON COUNTY MUSEUM The Evolution of Recorded Sound. Explore and listen to the difference between a late 1800s song and one recorded in 2013. Relive memories of the record player, eight-track and walkman. Free. Through March 8. Tue.-Fri., 10am-5pm; Sat., 10am-3pm. 704-922-7681. gastoncountymuseum.org. 131 W. Main St., Dallas.

LEVINE MUSEUM OF THE NEW SOUTH Focus on Justice. Learn about photographers’ stories and experiences as they recorded Civil Rights history for local and national newspapers and magazines. $5-$8, includes admission. Jan. 23-26. Mon.-Sat., 10am-5pm; Sun., noon-5pm. 704333-1887. museumofthenewsouth.org. Out of the Shadows: Undocumented and Unafraid. Explore how art can be a deliberative and imaginative forum for exploring complex issues about immigrant labor, education, and legal status. $5-$8, includes museum admission. Through June 29. Mon.-Sat., 10am-5pm; Sun., noon-5pm. museumofthenewsouth.org. 200 E. 7th St.

MECKLENBURG COMMUNITY CHURCH Change the Story: The Compassion Experience. Experience what it would be like to live in another place in the world through 3,000 square feet of interactive exhibits. Free. Jan 24-27. 11am-7pm. mecklenburg.org. 8335 Browne Road.

MINT MUSEUM UPTOWN World’s Fairs. Experience the international exhibition with outstanding examples of glass, furniture, jewelry, ceramics, precious metalwork and textiles displayed at The World’s Fair between 1851 and 1939. $5-$10, free for children under 4. Through Jan. 19. Wed., 11am-9pm; Thurs.-Sat., 11am-6pm; Sun., 1-5pm. 704-337-2000. mintmuseum.org. 500 S. Tryon St.

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2 THURSDAY World’s Fairs. Experience the international exhibition with outstanding examples of glass, furniture, jewelry, ceramics, precious metalwork, and textiles displayed at the world’s fairs between The Great Exhibition of the Works of Industry of All Nations in London in 1851 and the New York World’s Fair in 1939. 11am-6pm. The Mint Museum, 500 S. Tryon St. 704-337-2000. mintmuseum.org.

3 FRIDAY McDowell After Dark. Listen to the sounds of nature around a campfire and learn about nocturnal animals or take a night hike. Complimentary hot chocolate. Registration required. Free. 6-8pm. McDowell Nature Center. 5222 York Road. 704-588-5224. parkandrec.com.

4 SATURDAY Back in the Day Series: Cornhusk Dolls. Learn how a family who lived at Reedy Creek Nature Preserve lived without electricity or any modern technology. Free. 10:30-11:30am. Reedy Creek Nature Center, 2900 Rocky River Road. 704-432-6459. parkandrec.com. Orienteering Competition. Whether experienced or a beginner in using a map and compass, this competition has a course for every skill level. 12+. $6-$7. 10am-3pm. Latta Plantation Nature Center, 5225 Sample Road, Huntersville. 704-875-2312. parkandrec.com. Twelfth Night. Sing carols around the bonfires, play colonial games, take a candlelight tour and enjoy cider and cake just like the backcountry settlers did to celebrate the end of the Christmas season. $5-$10, free for children under age 6. 6-7:30pm. Charlotte Museum of History, 3500

Shamrock Drive. 704-568-1774. charlottemuseum.org. Winter Family Fun. Enjoy an afternoon by the campfire. Build a fort and explore the Habitat Trail. Free. 1-4pm. Latta Plantation Center, 5225 Sample Road, Huntersville. 704-875-2312. parkandrec.com.

5 SUNDAY Family Fun Day Open Studio. Spend time with the family exploring creativity by making plates, mugs, and other arts and crafts. $5-$10. 1-4pm. Morrison Family YMCA, 9405 Bryant Farms Road. 704-716-4650 . ymcacharlotte.org. Feeding Frenzy. Learn about different animals’ eating habits around the nature preserves. Free. 2-3pm. Reedy Creek Nature Center, 2900 Rocky River Road. 704-432-6459. parkandrec.com. Winter Wildlife Hike. Take a one-mile hike and look for signs of animal life. Free. 2-3pm. Latta Plantation Nature Center, 5225 Sample Road, Huntersville. 704-875-2312. parkandrec.com.

6 MONDAY Nature Story Corner. Hear nature-based stories that may be accompanied by puppets and audience participation. Ages 3+. Free. 10-11am. Reedy Creek Nature Preserve, 2900 Rocky River Road. 704-432-6459. parkandrec.com. What Do I Read Next? Diary of a Wimpy Kid. Join in a talk and audience participation the book “Diary of a Wimpy Kid.” Ages 5-11. Free. 4:30pm. Mountain Island Library, 4420 Hoyt Galvin Way. 704-416-5600. cmlibrary.org.

7 TUESDAY Baby and Me Storytime. An interactive early literacy program featuring board books, simple songs, movement activities, nursery rhymes and fingerplays. 23 months or younger. Free. 10am. Mooresville Library, 304 S.

daily calendar Main St., Mooresville. 704-664-2927. mooresvillelibrary.org.

8 WEDNESDAY Young Explorers: Squirrels. Learn how animals and plants work together in nature. $3. 10:15-11am. Latta Plantation Nature Center, 6211 Sample Road, Huntersville. 704-875-1391. parkandrec.org.

9 THURSDAY Side by Side Storytime. Hear stories and sing songs to enhance early literacy skills. Ages 2-3. Free. 10am. Mooresville Library, 304 S. Main St., Mooresville. 704664-2927. mooresvillelibrary.org.

10 FRIDAY Build Your Own Box Oven. Learn how a box oven works and how to build one. Compete for the best oven being judged on style, functionality, and heating. Ages 9-12. $3. 10:30am-Noon. Latta Plantation Nature Center, 6211 Sample Road, Huntersville. 704-875-2312. parkandrec.com. Early Literacy Workshop. Learn five simple practices to help support early reading at home. Be prepared to play and do activities. Ages 18 mos.-5 years. Registration required. Free. 10:30am. Mountain Island Library, 4420 Hoyt Galvin Way. 704-416-5600. cmlibrary.org. Monster Jam. Witness the world's premier monster truck series featuring Grave Digger and many other well-known favorites.. $10-$25. Fri., 7:30pm; Sat., 2 and 7:30pm. Time Warner Cable Arena, 333 E. Trade St. 800-745-3000. monsterjam.com. OnStage: Omimeo’s Black Light Magic. See page 48.

11 SATURDAY Art Room Relaunch Party. To celebrate and introduce new classes for the year, plus face painting and caricature drawings. Free. 10am-noon. The Art Room, 118 E. Kingston Ave., Ste. 11. 704-651-8040. cometotheartroom.com. BSA: Environmental Science Merit Badge. Boy scouts in the Mecklenburg council can achieve their Nature Merit Badge upon completion of this course. All scouts must bring their Merit Badge books. Lunch is provided. Ages 12-18. Registration required. $15. 9am-4pm. McDowell Nature Center, 15222 York Road. 704-588-5224. parkandrec.com. Build It, Make It, Take It: Budget Bot. Hackerspace Charlotte demonstrates how to connect motors to circuits to make a robot. Learn how to write a code

to control what a robot can do. Registration required. $10- $12, includes museum admission; $15 per kit. 10:30am-noon. Discovery Place, 301 N. Tryon St. 704372-6261. discoveryplace.org. Monster Jam. Witness the world's premier monster truck series featuring Grave Digger and many other well-known favorites.. $10-$25. Fri., 7:30pm; Sat., 2 and 7:30pm. Time Warner Cable Arena, 333 E. Trade St. 800-745-3000. monsterjam.com. OnStage: Omimeo’s Black Light Magic. See page 48.

12 SUNDAY Animal Bingo. Enjoy the chance to win prizes while testing your animal knowledge. Ages 5+. $5. 1:302:30pm. McDowell Nature Center , 15222 York Road. 704-588-5224. parkandrec.com. Health Starts Here Fair. Learn about exercise regimens, nutrition and holisitic wellness. Sample healthy food from local vendors, and NBC’s “The Biggest Loser” contestant Emily Joy will be there. Free. 11am. Whole Foods, 6610 Fairview Road. wholefoodsmarket.com. Radical Reptiles. Meet some of the snakes and turtles that live around the nature preserve. Free. 2-3pm. Latta Plantation Nature Center, 6211 Sample Road, Huntersville. 704-875-1391. parkandrec.org. Treasure Chest of Art. Enjoy activities, healthy-oriented arts and crafts, and art demonstrations. $5; free for children.1-4pm. Mint Museum, 2730 Randolph Road. 704-337-2000. mintmuseum.org.

13 MONDAY Out of the Shadows: Undocumented and Unafraid. Explore how art can be a deliberative and imaginative forum for exploring complex issues about immigrant labor, education and legal status. $5-$8, includes museum admission. Mon.-Sat., 10am-5pm; Sun., noon-5pm. Levine Museum of the New South, 200 E. 7th St., museumofthenewsouth.org.

14 TUESDAY Read a Book, Learn to Cook. Investigate cookbooks and learn about measurements. Ages 8-11. Free. 5pm. Beatties Ford Library, 2412 Beatties Ford Road. 704-416-3000. cmlibrary.org. Story Explorers. Explore books and stories in creative ways through interactive activities, including math, science and games. Ages 5-11. Registration required. Free. 4pm. Matthews Library, 230 Matthews Station St., Matthews. 704- 416-5000. cmlibrary.org.

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The Evolution of Recorded Sound. Explore and listen to the difference between a late 1800s song and one recorded in 2013. Relive memories of the record player, 8-Track, and walkman. Free. Tue-Fri., 10am-5pm; Sat.,10am-3pm. Gaston County Museum, 131 W. Main St., Dallas. 704922-7681. gastoncountymuseum.org.

The Fresh Beat Band Live in Concert. Ninety minutes of family bonding time where kids and parents can laugh, sing and dance along with the fantastic Fresh Beats. $37.50-47.50 6:30pm. Ovens Auditorium, 2700 E. Independence Blvd. 704-372-3600. freshbeatbandlive.com.

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ARMOUR STREET THEATRE Connie Company Productions Present: Cinderella. Experience the timeless story where the young girl is made a servant in her own home, while keeping a positive outlook on life before meeting Prince Charming. $10. Jan. 31-Feb. 2. See website for performance times. 704-892-7953. davidsoncommunityplayers.org. 307 Armour St., Davidson.

BLUMENTHAL PERFORMING ARTS CENTER Shen Yun. Colorful performances bring to life 5,000 years of Chinese civilization through classical Chinese dance and music. Ages 5+. $50-$150. Jan. 28-29. 7:30pm. 704-372-1000. shenyunperformingarts.org/charlotte. 130 N. Tryon St.

CHILDREN’S THEATRE OF CHARLOTTE Omimeo’s Black Light Magic. Watch Charlotte’s premiere mime ensemble in a oneof-a-kind event with blacklight illusions and comedy. Ages 5+. $14. Jan. 10-12. 7:30pm. ctcharlotte.org. Don’t Tell Me I Can’t Fly. Inspired by the life and work of acclaimed folk artist Della Wells, this story gives a glimpse into the sometimes challenging lives of an AfricanAmerican family in the 1960s. Ages 8-11. $12+. Jan. 24- 26. Fri., 7:30pm; Sat., 3pm; Sun., 2pm. 704-973-2828. ctcharlotte.org. 300 E. 7th St.

KNIGHT THEATER The Nureyev State Ballet Theatre: The Sleeping Beauty. Sixty distinguished dancers showcase the unparalleled art of Russian ballet as they perform this classic story. $35+. Jan. 16. 7:30pm. 704-379-1257. blumenthalarts.org. 430 S. Tryon St.

OVENS AUDITORIUM The Fresh Beat Band Live in Concert. Ninety minutes of family bonding time where kids and parents can laugh, sing and dance along with the fantastic Fresh Beats. Jan. 16. 6:30pm.704-372-3600. ovensauditorium.com. 2700 E. Independence Blvd.

TIME WARNER CABLE ARENA Ringling Bros. And Barnum & Bailey Circus: Built to Amaze. Experience animal performances and daring high-wire acts with contemporary surprises. Tickets start at $10 plus fees. Jan. 29-Feb. 2. Wed.-Thurs., 7pm; Fri., 10:30am and 7pm; Sat., 11am, 3 and 7pm; Sun., 11am and 3pm. 704-688-9000. ringling.com. 333 E. Trade St.

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OnStage: The Nureyev State Ballet Theatre Presents: The Sleeping Beauty. See Page 48.

17 FRIDAY Fun With Letters. Learn five early literacy practices, along with interactive activities, to help children learn letter names and sounds. Ages18 mos.-5 years. Registration required. Free. 10:30am. Mountain Island Library, 4420 Hoyt Galvin Way. 704-416-5600. cmlibrary.org.

18 SATURDAY BSA: Environmental Science Merit Badge. Scouts can complete the requirements to earn the Environmental Science merit badge under the guidance of a qualified educator. Scouts are required to complete 1, 2, and 3F prior to class. Bring merit badge book. Lunch provided. Ages 12-18. $15. 9:30am-4pm. Latta Plantation Nature Center, 5225 Sample Road, Huntersville. 704-875-2312. parkandrec.com. Chicken Day. Learn about the diversity of this popular pet and food supplier. Includes crafts, puppet shows and storytelling. $6; children under 2 are free. Charlotte Nature Museum, 1658 Sterling Drive. 704-372-6261. charlottecultureguide.com. MLK Holiday Parade. Celebrate the life and legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Parade kicks off at corner of 11th and North Tryon streets, and ends at corner of Stonewall and South Tryon streets. Free. 11am. Uptown Charlotte. mlk.charlottevibe.com. Track Tales. Become a wildlife detective and learn how what animals leave behind tell a story of who they are and where they went. Children can preserve their detective work by creating a cast of the tracks. $6-$10, includes museum admission. 11am; 2pm. Schiele Museum, 1500 E. Garrison Blvd., Gastonia. 704-8666900. schielemuseum.org.

19 SUNDAY Animals in the Winter. Discover how different animals prepare for the winter. Free. 11am-noon. Reedy Creek Nature Center, 2900 Rocky River Road. 704-432-6459. parkandrec.com. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Community Celebration. Honoring the pursuit of civil and human rights through film, performances, children's crafts and exhibition. Free. Noon-4pm. Levine Museum of the New South, 200 E. 7th St. 704-333-1887. museumofthenewsouth.org. Nature Art. Kids can create with natural materials, and take home an art project. Free. 2-3pm. Reedy Creek Nature Center, 2900 Rocky River Road. 704-432-6459. parkandrec.com.

20 MONDAY Martin Luther King Jr. Day Nature Story Corner. Hear nature-based stories, which may be accompanied by puppets and include audience participation. Ages 3+. Free. 10-11am. Reedy Creek Nature Preserve, 2900 Rocky River Road.704-432-6459. parkandrec.com. The Legacy is the Blueprint. Honor Dr. King's pursuit of civil and human rights with an emphasis on identity, inclusion and mentoring through a film screening and discussion, a mentoring fair, performances and workshops. Free. 11am-3:30pm. Harvey B. Gantt Center, 551 S. Tryon St. 704-547-3700. ganttcenter.org.

21 TUESDAY Coffee With the Superintendent. Have coffee with CMS superintendent Heath Morrison and share ideas about district initiatives, legislative action and how to improve education for all students. Free. 3-4:30pm. Ashley Park Pre-K-8 School, 2401 Belfast Drive. cms.k12.nc.us. Community Service Project: Everyday Heroes. Participate in the Birthday Blessings program to create handmade wrapping paper used to

wrap presents for homeless children in Mecklenburg County. Ages 12-18. Free. 3pm. Mint Hill Library, 6840 Matthews-Mint Hill Road. 704-4165200. cmlibrary.org.

22 WEDNESDAY Young Explorers: Winter Friends. Learn how animals and plants work together in nature With games and feature stories. Ages 2-3. $3. 10:15am. Latta Plantation Nature Center, 6211 Sample Road, Huntersville. 704-8751391. parkandrec.org.

23 THURSDAY Focus on Justice. Learn about photographers’ stories and experiences as they recorded Civil Rights history for local and national newspapers and magazines. $5-$8, includes admission. Mon.Sat., 10am-5pm; Sun., noon-5pm. Levine Museum of the New South, 200 E. 7th St.704-333-1887. museumofthenewsouth.org.

24 FRIDAY Homeschool Family Hike. Hike with the family to explore different areas of the park. Ages 6+. Registration required. Free. 10-11:30am. McDowell Nature Center, 15222 York Road. 704588-5224. parkandrec.com. OnStage: Don’t Tell Me I Can’t Fly. See Page 48.

25 SATURDAY Ants in My Plants. Discover the secret world of ants, their life cycle and what they have in common with humans. Crafts, live ants, and a talk with ant experts. $6-$10, includes museum admission. 10am-2pm. Schiele Museum, 1500 E. Garrison Blvd., Gastonia. 704-866-6900. schielemuseum.org. Farmers, Warriors, Builders: The Hidden Life of Ants. With the aid of a macro lens and the insights of an ant expert, discover the world of ants explored in this Smithsonian Traveling Exhibition. A one-day only event. $6-$10, includes museum admission. 9am-5pm. Schiele Museum, 1500

E. Garrison Blvd., Gastonia. 704-8666900. schielemuseum.org. The Art of Paper Making. Learn how to make paper and recycle into new paper that can be used for note cards and letters. Ages 6+. Registration required. Free. 2-3pm. Reedy Creek Nature Center, 2900 Rocky River Road. 704-432-6459. parkandrec.com. Voice Of Hope Regional Youth Rally. Special music by the New Manna Baptist Church Youth Choir from Marion, and the Billy Sampson Family from Gary, Indiana. Registration required. Free. 6pm. Mooresville Liberty Baptist Church, 171 Johnson Dairy Road, Mooresville. OnStage: Don’t Tell Me I Can’t Fly. See page 48.

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26 SUNDAY Have No Fear. Separate fact from fiction about some commonly misunderstood animals like brown recluse spiders, venomous snakes, and snapping turtles. Registration required. Free. 2-3pm. McDowell Nature Center, 15222 York Road. 704588-5224. parkandrec.com. Owls of Mecklenburg County. Explore various owls that live in the community and take a hike to look for these feathered friends. Ages 6+. Free. 2:30-4pm. Reedy Creek Nature Center, 2900 Rocky River Road. 704432-6459. parkandrec.com. Winter Tree ID. Learn how to identify trees from twigs and buds on a winter hike through the preserve. Ages 15+. Free. 2-4pm. Latta Plantation Nature Center , 5225 Sample Road, Huntersville. 704-8752312. parkandrec.com. OnStage: Don’t Tell Me I Can’t Fly. See page 48.

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27 MONDAY Budding Adventures. Discover the awakening of winter plants and animals through various hands-on activities, including crafts, games, stories, puppets and hikes. Ages 3-6. Free. 10-11am. Reedy Creek Nature Preserve, 2900 Rocky River Road. 704432-6459. parkandrec.com.

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Build a Crystal Radio. Follow directions to build a variety of electrical devices including electro-magnetic motors, crystal radios, and a telegraph. Ages 8-18. Free. 3:30pm. Beatties Ford Regional, 2412 Beatties Ford Road. 704-416-3000. cmlibrary.com. Two Time Storytime. Toddlers will enjoy their own storytime experience to encourage language development, listening, and social skills. Parent participation is required. Ages 24-35 mos. Free. 10:30am. Cornelius Library, 21105 Catawba Ave., Cornelius. 704416-3800. cmlibrary.org.

28 TUESDAY Cultural Celebration: Chinese New Year. Books on display, as well as a food tasting. Ages 12-18. Free. West Boulevard Library, 2157 West Blvd. 704-416-7400. cmlibrary.org. WormShop. Learn how to build a worm farm and make your own compost. Construct a worm farm and bring a wiggler home. $15. 3:30-4:30pm. Wing Haven Gardens, 248 Ridgewood Ave. 704-331-0664. winghavengardens.com. Onstage: Shen Yun. See page 48.

29 WEDNESDAY Out of the Shadows: Undocumented and Unafraid. Explore how art can be a deliberative and imaginative forum for exploring complex issues about immigrant labor, education, and legal status. $5-$8, includes museum admission. Mon.-Sat.,

10am-5pm; Sun., noon-5pm. Levine Museum of the New South, 200 E. 7th St. museumofthenewsouth.org. OnStage: Ringling Bros. And Barnum & Bailey Circus: Built to Amaze; and Shen Yun. See page 48.

30 THURSDAY Ringling Bros. And Barnum & Bailey Circus: Built to Amaze. Experience animal performances and daring high-wire acts with contemporary surprises. Tickets start at $10 plus fees. Through Feb. 2. See Page 48 for showtimes. Time Warner Cable Arena , 333 E. Trade St. 704-688-9000. ringling.com.

31 FRIDAY Popovich Comedy Pet Theatre. Watch World-famous Russian circus star Gregory Popovich and his unique combination of rescuepet performers and eye-popping juggling. $15-$25. 7:30pm. Batte Center, 403 N. Camden Road, Wingate. 704-233-8300. battecenter.org. Preschool Fair. Learn about preschools and educational opportunites for ages 2-5. Hosted by MOMS Club of Steele Creek. Free. 10am - noon. Central Steele Creek Presbyterian Church, 9401 S. Tryon St. Onstage: Connie Company Productions Present: Cinderella; and Ringling Bros. And Barnum & Bailey Circus: Built to Amaze. See page 48.

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for a winter-time family outing at Holiday on Ice. Skate under the uptown skyline through Jan. 5. $9-$12 admission; additional charge for skate rentals. Wed.-Fri. 5-10pm; Sat. 10am-10pm; Sun. 10am-7pm. NASCAR Hall of Fame, 400 E. Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd. 704-277-2636. holidayonicecharlotte.com.

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1 SATURDAY BSA: Mammal Study Merit Badge. Boy scouts can complete the requirements to earn their Mammal Study merit badge under the guidance of a qualified environmental educator. 3C must be completed prior to class. Lunch provided. Ages 12-18. $15. 9:30am-4pm. Latta Plantation Nature Center, 5225 Sample Road, Huntersville. 704-875-2312. parkandrec.com. Family Fun Day. Become an architect for a day. Create an architectural sketch and design a blueprint, then take time to tour the museum. $4, free for children, includes museum admission. Noon-4:30pm. The Bechtler Museum, 420 S. Tryon St. 704-3539200. bechtler.org. Lollipops Family Concert: Tubby the Tuba. Discover the sights and sounds of the instrument families until you meet the whole orchestra at the "Great Gate of Kiev" for the grand finale. $15.50-$24.50. 11am. Knight Theater, 430 S. Tryon St. 704-972-2000. charlottesymphony.org.

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2 SUNDAY Nature Journals. Slow down and connect with nature in a different way during an introductory class learning about trees, wildlife and ways of expressing the joys of nature. Ages 15+. Free. 2-3pm. Latta Plantation Nature Center, 5225 Sample Road, Huntersville. 875-2312. parkandrec.com.

4 TUESDAY American Girl Book Club. Explore the beloved series with stories, activities and trivia. Ages 5-11. Registration required. Free. 4pm. Mint Hill Library, 6840 Matthews-Mint Hill Road. 704-416-5200. cmlibrary.org. Community Service: Book Repair. Help the community by fixing up old books and bringing them back to life for continued use. Ages 12-18. Free. 6pm. Mountain Island Library, 4420 Hoyt Galvin Way. 704-416-5600. cmlibrary.org.

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Greensboro Science Center’s SciQuarium Penguins, sharks and stingrays are a daytrip away BY SHANNON KOONTZ

Educating Mind, Body, and Soul With an accelerated curriculum and nurturing environment, SouthLake Christian Academy prepares students to excel in academics, athletics, and the arts while inspiring them to live their lives with wisdom and moral integrity.

he Carolina SciQuarium, the newest addition to the Greensboro Science Center, is the first inland aquarium in North Carolina and the first designed to be LEED-certified. When directors of the SciQuarium at the Greensboro Science Center envisioned how it would look, they drew inspiration from some of the country’s best aquariums with one major goal in mind. The SciQuarium oﬀers both front-side and behind-thescenes visitor opportunities that give people the chance to learn more information about the animals that reside in the aquarium and to better understand what it takes to create, manage and operate this complex “living system.” In the end, SciQuarium planners created six exhibits that oﬀer the best in modern aquarium experiences, including:

u A 90,000-gallon ocean reef tank filled with sharks, green moray eels, stingrays, a spotted eagle ray, surgeonfish, porcupine fish and a variety of other marine life, along with the occasional volunteer scuba diver cleaning the coral. u The only permanent penguin exhibit in North Carolina, which features African penguins. Similar to the other animal exhibits, Penguin Point oﬀers above- and below-water viewing, and has boxes built into the rocky landscape where penguins can build their nests.

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u The only cat fishing exhibit in North Carolina. Visitors can watch this beautiful skilled swimmer catch its own meals. u A multispecies exhibit called the Amazon Edge that is home to an anaconda, a two-toed sloth and Golden lion tamarin. u An Asian small-clawed

What else is at the Greensboro Science Center? Meet “Taiji” the red panda. Taiji is the only red panda in a zoo in North Carolina. The center hopes to acquire a female friend for breeding in the future.

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otter exhibit. A highlight feature includes a “bubbledome” where visitors can peer into the exhibit and go nose-tonose with these playful creatures.

u The Hands-On Harbor stingray pool allows visitors to

touch the pool creatures while learning about them from keepers and volunteers. The SciQuarium also has an animal care area where visitors can view lab procedures performed by SciQuarium staﬀ, as well as educational Sci-Pod stations with interactive iPads. One Sci-Pod exhibit illustrates the SciQuarium’s unique filtration system that takes water from the tap to the exhibits and converts it into brackish, fresh or salt water, depending on the animal’s native habitat. For an additional charge, visitors can have behind-the-scene experiences and really get up close with the animals, as well as spend one-on-one time with the keepers to ask questions and learn more about the animals. In addition to the SciQuarium, the Greensboro Science Center includes the Animal Discovery Zoological Park, Time Warner Cable Omnisphere Theater, and the museum complete with Prehistoric Passages, Kids Alley and other permanent exhibits.

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PLAYGROUND REVIEW HORNETS NEST PARK 6301 Beatties Ford Road

Playtime at Hornets Nest Park There are two playground sets at Hornets Nest Park to accommodate big kids, as well as toddler and preschoolers with slides and monkey bars. The equipment is fairly new, and the ground is covered in mulch and recycled rubber to cushion any falls. The playground is in a sunny area, without much shade at all, making it good for a winter day. The playgrounds are just part of the activity options. With 12 lighted tennis courts, an 18-hole disc golf course, playing fields, and a lake with fishing pier, there is always something happening at this large park located in Northwest Charlotte. One of the most unique attractions is the BMX Bicycle Track. Go on Saturday to watch bicycle motorcross competitions on the 1,150-foot regulation track. Spectators are welcome to cheer on novice to expert racers free of charge.

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Breaking Down the Wall Between Music and Art

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he Charlotte Symphony and Bechtler Museum of Modern Art are literally tearing down walls to present a day of music and art for families through the Lollipops Family Concerts at the Knight Theater and Family Days at the Bechtler. Through a collaboration of the two arts organziations, Lollipops Family Concerts and Family Day at the Bechtler take place on the same dates, giving families the opportunity to explore two of Charlotte’s big-ticket arts organizations in one family outing. Doors open for Lollipops Family Concerts at 10 a.m. Immediately following each Lollipops performance, a sliding glass wall that connects the two facilities is open, allowing guests to walk from the Knight Theater to the Bechtler Museum without going outside. Lollipops concert ticket-holders can join in pre-concert festivities before a hour-long musical story presented by Charlotte Symphony musicians, often highlighted with onstage puppets or actors performing the story. Stations are set up throughout the Knight Theater with coloring pages that feature instruments drawn as cartoons, word searches and crosswords for older

kids, and a station where kids can make their own musical shaker. A drum circle invites guests to play a variety of percussion instruments, and learn a bit about rhythm, steady beats and other professional instruments played around the world, says Chris Stonnell, director of education for the Charlotte Symphony Orchestra. The Symphony Guild of Charlotte also hosts its Musical Petting Zoo during the pre-concert festivities where children can hold and play all kinds of symphony instruments. “It’s a mixture of educational activities, and arts and crafts around a musical theme,” says Stonnell. “We like to teach (children) something, and we want them to enjoy what they are being taught in a memorable environment.” Activities at the Bechtler Museum’s Family Day program are tailored to match the music heard at the Lollipops concert, presenting an opportunity for a parentchild conversation about the connections between diﬀerent art forms. Families are given a backpack filled with coloring books, puzzles and sketchpads that they can take with them as they tour the museum. There are also hands-on activities, which may include

sculpture, painting or printmaking, in addition to a scavenger hunt throughout the galleries. “Family time is so pressured and limited,” says Christopher Lawing, vice president of programming at the Bechtler Museum of Modern Art. “This collaboration doesn’t add more time to a family outing, but a richer connection between two diﬀerent art forms.” “Eighty-five percent of the time, I see kids and parents have light-bulb moments connecting the music to the art without prompting,” says Lawing. Family Day activities are not limited to Lollipops attendees. Admission to the Bechtler Museum on Family Day is free for children and half-price ($4) for adults.

Join Charlotte Parent at the next Lollipops concert “Tubby the Tuba” happening Feb. 1 at 11 a.m. at the Knight Theater, followed by Family Day at the Bechtler Museum of Modern Art from noon to 4:30 p.m. Find more information at charlottesymphony.org and bechtler.org. CharlotteParent.com | JANUARY 2014

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Time to Roll With the Changes

hange is something everybody goes through, but when dealing with two young children, change can be extra A GOOD SPORT scary. Who am BY BRUCE SNYDER I kidding; it is frightening for adults as well. The Snyder family is embarking on some big changes. I recently accepted a job as a sportscaster in another state. It is an exciting opportunity for me, but one full of changes. Besides saying good bye to all our friends, packing up and moving, besides my fabulous wife Charisse agreeing to leave her job and colleagues to look for a new position in a strange new town, and besides learning about new teams and new sports, my daughter Sage and son Brayden are going to new schools, and that might be the biggest

adjustment of all. In the short time Sage has gone to kindergarten in Charlotte, she has gotten used to exciting new routines and awesome new friends. Her amazing teachers have helped her learn lots of skills, from reading and writing, to life lessons, such as being a good person, and helping out others. Sage has played and gone to parties with her new pals, and I can easily visualize my daughter growing up with these children. Plus, Sage has become the biggest Panthers and Bobcats fan in the Queen City. I keep letting her know she can root for her favorite teams, even if it is at a distance. At least Sage is old enough to understand the concept of moving. Brayden looks around and sees boxes and empty spaces where toys used to stand.

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It makes him nervous. I am constantly assuring him that everything is OK. I am sure he will adjust to a new preschool. I hope he will adjust to a new climate and new routines. In the end, I just want what every parent wants: my family to be happy, healthy and settled. I am sure we will get there slowly, but surely. So this is my last column for Charlotte Parent Magazine. I hope you enjoyed my musings, because it has been a blast doing this column. The Snyders will miss Charlotte, but will roll with the changes, be it in a game â&#x20AC;Ś or the game of life. Bruce Snyder is a longtime sportscaster, and Charlottean on the move with his wife and two children.

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