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CONTENTS
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THE CHALDEAN NEWS VOLUME 3 ISSUE VIII
on the cover 26
A BIG WIN BY KEN MARTEN
Mark Abbo seems destined for the state legislature
features 28
TEEN REALITY BY VANESSA DENHA-GARMO
Parents: Do you know what your kids are exposed to when you’re not around?
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LEAVING THE NEST BY JENNIFER KORAIL
More students are going away to college
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COLLEGE COSTS Planning for your kid’s college? Start now! BY KEN MARTEN
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A LONG-BURNING TRADITION BY MICHELLE NAJOR-LUTFY
Hookah smoking trend worries health officials
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SOMETHING TO TALK ABOUT BY CRYSTAL KASSAB JABIRO
Workshops provide food for thought
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DANGEROUS WATERS BY VANESSA DENHA-GARMO
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Parents learn swim coach is a convicted sex offender
40 ON THE COVER: MARK ABBO CELEBRATES HIS PRIMARY VICTORY WITH HIS WIFE PATTY AND DAUGHTER KATIE.
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SHE’S GOT RHYTHM BY STEVE STEIN
Teenager flips for rhythmic gymnastics 42
departments 8
FROM THE EDITOR
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HALHOLE!
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YOUR LETTERS
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RELIGION
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NOTEWORTHY
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OBITUARY
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CHAI TIME
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THE DOCTOR IS IN
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CALC CORNER
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KIDS CORNER Back to School Tips for Parents
Food Allergies: Was It Something You Ate? BY DARLENE KASSAB, M.D
EVENTS Chaldean Ryder Cup St. Joseph and St. George Church Picnic
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Falling into the school year and more... American Ladies of Charity s soon as the temperaprogram designed to empowture slightly dips and I er and guide them to make pull out a sweater or good choices in life and not light coat for the first time follow a destructive path. On since spring, I get this wave of the day we profiled them, the warmth. It is September, and girls were also visited by the fall puts me in this place of Judge Diane Dickow peace. I think back to my VANESSA D’Agostini, who presented school days, even though it DENHAthem with true courtroom has been years since I graduGARMO drama and statistics of what ated. The first sight of the EDITOR happens when young people school supply list was invigorsuccumb to peer pressure. ating. I loved to buy my noteThe message was to stay clear of books, pencils, pens and even the prounderage drinking, drugs and sex. tractor in the fifth grade, despite the It is natural for parents to protect fact that I hated math. their children from harm. No surprise In this issue, we talk about back to that when word got out that a swim school in our Kids Corner, including coach who has taught many local kids tips from a local Chaldean teacher turned out to be a convicted sex who guides parents into getting their offender, there was much alarm in the children back into a regimen. So much community. We talked to two local parhas changed since I graduated from ents whose children swam with this high school and headed to college. I Oakland County resident at the popunever heard of the Freshman 15 lar Beverly Hills Club. There is more to because I never went away to school. this story than just bringing attention to I gained weight anyway, a common this particular case. The Chaldean trend for college students. Nearly 20 News wants to bring awareness of the years later, it is becoming more comserious reality of sexual predators in mon for Chaldean college-bound kids our communities and how to protect to end up at Michigan State and our children. University of Michigan (U of M) living in As we head into fall, more people dorm rooms instead of commuting to are gearing up for the general election Wayne State, Oakland University or on November 7. Top of mind for many, the University of Michigan — Dearborn of course, is the governor’s race with Campus. incumbent Jennifer Granholm facing Writer Jennifer Korail, a U of M businessman Dick DeVos, and the grad who left her home in California to U.S. Senate contest between incumpursue an education at one of the bent Debbie Stabenow and challenger country’s leading universities, writes Michael Bouchard, the current the story about Chaldean college stuOakland County sheriff. Every commudents living away from home — some nity has on the ballot other issues perfar, far away. It is no longer taboo to taining to its particular area. This issue live on campus; in fact, it’s widewe focus on one major race involving a spread. Chaldean: Mark Abbo. The current It is also common for parents to supervisor in Northville won his prihave many concerns about their mary race and is widely expected to youngster living away from home. win the general election to become Every generation experiences the latMichigan’s first Chaldean state repreest trend. Unfortunately, the latest colsentative. lege trend is more dangerous than I have said it before and I will say it smoking a pack of cigarettes. Hookah again: if you don’t exercise your right bars are hot spots near college. These to vote, you give up your right to comestablishments feature the hookah or, plain about who is in office. So, enjoy as it’s commonly known in the the fall and the school year, and get out Chaldean community, the nargela. there and vote! First-time Chaldean News writer Michelle Najor-Lutfy tells us of the popularity of taking a puff that can be very potent. In this issue, we also talk to group of young teens still a few years away from college but who are exposed to serious Alaha Imid Koullen social trends such as drinking, drugs (God Be With Us All) and sex. These young girls are addressVanessa Denha-Garmo ing these issues in a Chaldean vdenha@chaldeannews.com
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Music to His Ears It was a pleasure to read about Axis Music (July 2006). As a former pupil of Mr. [John] Antone, I was impressed with his talent and, perhaps more importantly, his ability to teach others with less talent without making one feel discouraged or overwhelmed. Music of course plays an important role in the lives of many Chaldeans, and it is inspiring to know that Axis Music is sharing the gift of music with our community and the rest of the world. It is a fine example of balancing our identity with integration, and when I finally learn to do a heavy metal guitar solo while doing traditional Chaldean dance, Axis Music will deserve the credit for helping me find the sweet spot of that balance!
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Take It to Heart We have discussed in the past what a terrific magazine the Chaldean News has been. Your magazine continues to
be better by having articles like “Employee Assessments: A virtual Crystal Ball” by Rhonda George Laurencelle (July 2006). Readers may not appreciate what an extraordinary and helpful tool Ms. George Laurencelle’s article proved to be. Her observations are extremely helpful and our people, since we run businesses, should take to heart the very helpful things that she presents. These kind of helpful articles should be added in every issue if possible. Continue your fine work on behalf of our community.
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STUDENT PUBLISHES POETRY BOOK Farrah Sarafa’s book of poetry, Distortion and Desire, has been published by Shadow Poetry. Sarafa is a 24-year-old graduate student at New York’s Columbia University. She entered her work in a “Chap Book” category of a competition by Shadow, and learned this spring her book would be published. “I am excited and grateful,” said the Bloomfield Hills native, whose career plans include teaching, writing and translating. “It’s hard to make it as a full-time poet,” she noted. Sarafa’s poems address Iraq, where her father was born, and Palestine, her mother’s birthplace. View sample poems and/or order the book at http://www.shadowpoetry.com/bookstore/distortionanddesire.html.
SHENANDOAH ADDING SOCIAL MEMBERSHIPS In an effort to attract more members, Shenandoah Country Club is offering “social memberships” that cost less than full equity memberships. Social members pay $200 per month for full use of the facilities, plus $100 per month in minimum spending on food and beverage. The only difference to a regular membership is that social members can not vote or serve on the Board of Directors, and do not have any equity in the club. “We need to increase our membership and we know some people just don’t want to pay the initiation fee and be exposed to any future capital contributions, if there are any,” said John Loussia, a board member and chair of the Membership Committee. “A Social Membership makes it very affordable for people to come in and join right away. Later, if they decide to become equity members, they would only have to pay the initial fee.” Regular Shenandoah membership consists of a $5,000 initiation fee (discounted 25 percent if a parent or sibling is already a member). Dues for 2006 are $2,000, and members have a minimum spending amount of $300 per quarter. The monthly fee and minimum spending limits for 2007 have not yet been set, Loussia said. About 250 families are expected to take advantage of the Social Membership offer. “This is the best value in the entire state of Michigan for individuals, couples and families to enjoy first-rate facilities,” said Michael Sarafa, president of the Chaldean Iraqi American Association of Michigan (CIAAM), which owns Shenandoah.
IT’S CHALDEAN IDOL TIME Auditions for the Third Annual Chaldean Idol will be held on Wednesday, September 6 at Shenandoah Country Club. Auditions begin at 6 p.m. and are open to Chaldean singers ages 16-30. Last year about 30 people auditioned with the top 10 going on to the live performance, said Lawrence Yaldo, chair of this year’s event. “It really gives the Chaldean community the chance to showcase their talent, the perfect opportunity to have their moment in the spotlight,” he said. The Chaldean Idol show takes place on Friday, October 13 at the Royal Oak Music Theater. Tickets are $40 and $60 for VIP seating. Last year’s show was a sell out and it is expected that this year’s will be just as popular. All proceeds benefit the Chaldean Cultural Center in West Bloomfield. For more information or to schedule an audition, contact Lawrence Yaldo at (248) 431-8786. Tickets will be sold only through the Royal Oak Music Theater Box Office; call (248) 399-2980 or visit www.royaloakmusictheatre.com.
POPE APPEALS FOR RELEASE OF KIDNAPPED PRIEST Pope Benedict XVI has appealed for the release of a priest kidnapped at gunpoint in Baghdad on August 15. In a telegram, sent by the Vatican’s Secretary of State Angelo Sodano, the pontiff said he was ``deeply saddened’’ by the abduction of the Rev. Hanna Saad Sirop. The telegram was sent to Chaldean Patriarch Emmanuel Delly. Bishops from all of Baghdad’s 10 CHALDEAN NEWS
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Christian churches have sent a letter to the Iraqi government asking them to help secure the release of the 34-year-old priest. The priest, who is director of the Theology Department at Babel College, was abducted as he left mass celebrating the Assumption holiday. The car used in the kidnapping was found later. The Italian missionary news agency MISNA reported that a large ransom was asked for the release of the priest, but did not say how much.
CHAMBER OFFERS SEPTEMBER EVENTS Two major events are being presented this month from the Chaldean American Chamber of Commerce. The Chaldean Festival takes place on September 9-10 at the Southfield Civic Center area. It will include food, merchants, children’s activities, a dunk tank and live American and Chaldean music. One highlight is a raffle for a 2006 Range Rover Sport. Tickets are $100 and only 1,500 will be sold. Admission to the festival is free. Festival hours are noon-10 p.m. For more information, visit www.chaldeanfestival.com. On September 21, the chamber presents the First Annual Real Estate Conference at Shenandoah Country Club. A variety of experts will speak on “Investing in a Challenging Economy.” The event also includes a trade show. Registration begins at 11:30 a.m. and the conference runs from 1-4:30 p.m. Registration is $40 for chamber members and $50 for non-members. Register or learn more by calling the chamber at (248) 538-3700.
CFA LAUNCHES SURVEY The Chaldean Federation of America (CFA) has launched a systematic, nationwide survey of more than 25,000 Iraqi-American Christians across the United States to identify, locate and count the number of potential refugee beneficiaries. The study will compile demographic data and document the living conditions of Christian Iraqi refugees in the more than 27 countries to which they have fled. The CFA will present its findings for humanitarian rescue, relief and resettlement to the U.S. State Department and to the United Nations High Commissioner of Refugees. Learn more about the project at www.chaldeanfederation.org.
WEST BLOOMFIELD: A NICE PLACE TO LIVE West Bloomfield was ranked No. 14 in Money Magazine’s “America’s Best Places to Live in 2006.” The rankings were selected from 725 U.S. cities with populations between 50,000 to 300,000. Of West Bloomfield’s population of 65,000, it is believed some 22-25 percent are Chaldean. West Bloomfield came in at No. 7 on the “High Earners” list, with a 2005 medium household income of $102,619. Other Michigan cities making the list of Best Places to Live were Ann Arbor at No. 25, Farmington Hills at No. 29, Sterling Heights at No. 37 and Warren at No. 82.
SINGLE BUSINESS TAX REPEALED The Michigan State Legislature voted on August 9 to repeal the Michigan Single Business Tax. The muchmaligned tax will end after December 31, 2007, two years before it was set to expire. Governor Jennifer Granholm vetoed a similar bill in March, but she has no power to block this latest move. The Legislature will now grapple with how to replace the $1.9 billion the tax brought in annually.
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COMMUNITY EVENTS IN AND AROUND METRO DETROIT SEPTEMBER 2006
[Friday, September 1 - Monday, September 4] Chrysler Arts, Beats & Eats: 8th Annual Festival in Pontiac includes 50 restaurants, 160 music performances and 200 art exhibitors. Free admission. www.artsbeatseats.com. Detroit Jazz Fest: 27th Annual Detroit International Jazz Festival features six stages of jazz and American music. Free admission. Detroit Riverfront. www.detroitjazzfest.com. [Wednesday, September 6] Chaldean Idol Auditions: Chaldean singers ages 1630 can audition for the show at 6 p.m., Shenandoah Country Club, West Bloomfield. (248) 431-8786. (See article, page 10.) [Saturday, September 9] Golf Outing: Fundraiser for the FACES Foundation, which supports pulmonary illness and lung disease patients, families, and caregivers, in honor of broadcaster Philip C. Lamka, who died in 2005. Dunham Hills Golf Course, Hartland. www.thefacesfoundation.org. Guts and Glory Walk: Third Annual event to help raise funds for the Michigan Chapter of the Crohn’s and Colitis Foundation of America. 9:30 a.m. registration, 10:30 a.m. walk. Maybury State Park, Northville. www.ccfa.org/chapters/michigan [Saturday, September 9 - Sunday, September 10] Chaldean Festival: Chaldean American Chamber of Commerce presents a two-day festival celebrating Chaldean food, music and culture. Southfield Civic Center area. (248) 538-3700. (See article, page 10.) [Saturday, September 16] CALC Anniversary: Chaldean American Ladies of Charity celebrate their 45th anniversary with a gala party at Shenandoah Country Club. (248) 352-5018. [Saturday, September 16 - Sunday, September 17] Art in the Park: 32nd annual event includes more
than 190 artists from around the country, live music, food and children’s activities. Shain Park, Birmingham. www.bbcc.com. [Wednesday, September 20] Let’s Talk About: “Are Romance, Money, or Beauty Necessary for a Happy Marriage?� is the topic of this month’s series for young Chaldean adults. Attendees must be at least 18 years old unless accompanied by an adult. 7-9:30 p.m., Mother of God Church in Southfield. (Read more about these workshops on page 36.) CPR and Defibulator: Learn to use these lifesaving techniques and receive a two-year certification certificate. 7-9:30. Shenandoah Country Club. Open to members only. $30; (248) 454-1933. [Thursday, September 21] Real Estate Conference: “Investing in a Challenging Economy� is the theme of the First Annual Real Estate Conference from the Chaldean American Chamber of Commerce. Registration begins at 11:30 a.m. Shenandoah Country Club, West Bloomfield. (248) 538-3700 or www.chaldeanchamber.com. (See article, page 10.) [Monday, September 25] The Art of Belly Dancing: Eight-week class teaches how to perform the world’s oldest dance with Aida Al Adawi. 7-8 p.m., Shenandoah Country Club. Open to members only. $100; (248) 454-1933. [Tuesday, September 26] Beginning Knitting: Six-week class will teach to cast on, cast off and make a knit stitch. 7-9 p.m. Shenandoah Country Club. Open to members only. $70; (248) 454-1933. Learn to Speak Chaldean: Samir Foumia teaches basic Chaldean conversational skills and introductory language in an eight-week series. One session is for children ages 10-15 and the other is for those ages 16 and above. Shenandoah Country Club. Open to members only. $100; (248) 454-1933.
[Wednesday, September 27] Grief Counseling Group: Free support group for anyone grieving any loss, including death. 7 p.m., Shenandoah Country Club, West Bloomfield. Open to members only. (248) 454-1933. Learning Arabic: Dr. Bernadette Najor teaches Arabic in a fun and entertaining way in an eight-week series. One session is for children ages 10-15 and the other is for those ages 16 and above. Shenandoah Country Club. Open to members only. $100; (248) 454-1933. [Thursday, September 28] Yoga for Kids: Six-week session begins at 4:30 p.m. at Shenandoah Country Club. Open to members only. $65; (248) 454-1933. [Friday, September 29] Cooking Class: Samira Yako Cholagh, author of Treasured Middle Eastern Cooking, offers a six-week session. 9-12 p.m. every other Friday, Shenandoah Country Club. $180; open to members only. (248) 454-1933. [Wednesday, October 4] Hot Topics in Women’s Health: Henry Ford Medical Center — West Bloomfield presents “From PMS to Menopause: Alternative therapies to help you at all stages of life.� 6-7:30 p.m., free. For registration and further information call 800-HENRYFORD, or visit henryford.com/hottopics. [Friday, October 13] Chaldean Idol: The wildly popular show returns for the third year. Tickets are $40 and $60. Royal Oak Music Theater. (248) 399-2980 or www.royaloakmusictheatre.com. (See article, page 10.) Please let us know what is going on in the community. Fax your information to The Chaldean News Editorial Department. Subject: Chai Time Fax: 248-932-9161
WEST BLOOMFIELD SCHOOL DISTRICT Adult Education Department
CLASSES OPEN TO RESIDENTS OF ALL SCHOOL DISTRICTS Free ENGLISH AS SECOND LANGUAGE night classes (daytime for tuition) MEDICAL TERMINOLOGY, MEDICAL BILLING, QUICKBOOKS and more TOEFL and TOEIC Classes (TOEIC Test Site) ESL Children’s Academy for infant to 5 years Computer Applications For Microsoft Windows XP INDIVIDUAL and GROUP TUTORING Flexible schedule available Arabic/English Translation We are located in the J & S Office Center at 7071 Orchard Lake Road, Suite 120 in West Bloomfield
For information call 248-539-2390 It is the policy of the West Bloomfield School District that no person shall, on the basis of race, color, national origin, sex, religion, age, marital status, weight, height, disability or sexual orientation be excluded from participation in, be denied the benefits of, or be subject to discrimination in employment or any of its programs or activities.
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• Prevent, reduce or delay the onset of substance use/abuse • Develop group process skills such as cooperation and trust “We feel that these types of activities far exceed the learning obtained in a typical setting. Through ‘hands-on’ experiences which directly correlate to actual life conditions, we feel that experiential learning can effectively initiate the transfer of positive behavioral skills,” said Jane Shallal, director of Project Venture. “Our activities have been fast, out of the ordinary and always fun.” The program culminated in a weekend skill-building leadership camp at Highfields Breakthrough Camp on August 4-6. Youths engaged in many activities that placed them in an environment where risk taking was rewarded and conflict management and communication among members was encouraged. Looking like Spiderman, youths climbed a 40-foot
to see if they could complete a personal challenge in completing an eight-mile hike. Encountering a varied terrain, youths were personally challenged to walk the Kensington Metro Parks eight-mile hike, which circles Kent Lake. This Project Venture challenge was a unique and tough event where teamwork, hiking skills and fitness were of utmost importance. Participants were prepared to face the challenge with the assistance of Caroline Shallal, who helped prepare the group for 16 weeks by having youths engage in various fitness activities twice per week. The aim of this challenge was to foster team spirit and camaraderie, youth development and safety, and encourage youths to make healthy life choices. The day proved to be a real endurance test as the heat and humidity index was well into the mid 90s. Youths showed their endurance by completing the hike without fail. Everyone made it to the finish line! “I was quite
PROJECT VENTURE WAS AN ADVENTURE! From goal setting to team building, the CALC has actively engaged Chaldean youth in a year-long experiential learning program in its Project Venture Program. Funded through the Michigan Office of Drug Control Policy, Project Venture uses experiential techniques to: • Build teamwork • Identify new ways to problem-solve and improve decision making skills • Reduce conflict and find better ways to approach difficulties • Develop leadership and communication skills • Overcome limitations • Increase respect for an individual’s choices and ideas • Strengthen self-confidence and self-esteem
Above left: Empowered Girls. Above right: A teen tests out goggles showing what it would be like to drive drunk. Below left: Kids learn to climb during a weekend camp.
tower finding little nooks in the rock face in which to wedge their hands and feet so they could make their way from the bottom of the wall to the top. The 40foot tower works on personal goals, trust with the group, relationships and giving and accepting support. Youths were even given their first experience in fishing. “Project Venture has helped our youth develop a greater awareness of team dynamics, sharpened problem-solving skills and gain better understanding of strengths, abilities and weaknesses. Youth are compelled to discover their own answers to challenging situations,” said Dahlia Daoud, a social worker and facilitator for Project Venture. The CALC would also like to thank male mentors Mark and Reemon for helping and volunteering their skills and time for this trip.
EMPOWERED VOICES The Honorable Diane D’Agostini, chief judge in the 48th District, was a guest speaker at CALC’s girls Empowered Voices program held at the Orchard Lake Middle School. Girls tested out goggles Judge D’Agostini brought in order to simulate what it would be like to drive drunk. The goggles are foggy and unclear, demonstrating a person’s state when drunk and clearly showing why someone who drinks should not be behind the wheel. Judge D’Agostini talked to the girls about real court cases involving teens who get into trouble with drugs and alcohol. She also conducted a question and answer session with the teens.
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impressed with the endurance and perseverance of the youth,” said Caroline Shallal. “This really was a great goal-setting activity.” Project Venture youths visited Oakland Yard and for the first time in their lives attempted activities such as volleyball, golf, lacrosse and a low ropes course.
UPCOMING EVENTS CALC is celebrating 45 years of service to the community. You won’t want to miss CALC’s 45th anniversary party on September 16 at Shenandoah Country Club. It is going to be a “red carpet” event with Hollywood glitz and glamour. Hear an inspirational talk from an inspirational woman. WDEO talk show host and professional speaker Teresa Tomeo will host a talk at Shenandoah Country Club on Tuesday September 26. Please arrive at 6:30 p.m. Join us and be inspired!
JOIN US IN A RETREAT The CALC will hold a retreat soon. Fr. Bass will be our special guest speaker. The event includes a light breakfast and lunch. Call the CALC office for more information, (248) 352-5018.
WOMEN AND OSTEOPOROSIS Hana Najar, MD spoke at a forum on Osteoporosis on July 18 at Shenandoah to CALC members. She gave the women an extensive history of the disease and how to prevent it. She also stayed for a question and answer session with the women. The event was coordinated by CALC members Rita Kainaya and Marcine Karmo.
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Kiera Ann Bringing more joy into our lives, Kiera Ann McKee was born on June 23, 2006 at 3 p.m. She weighed 7 lbs., 5 oz. and was 20.5 inches long. Proud parents are Scott and Stephanie (Denha) McKee, and Connor Michael is the big brother. Grandparents are Patricia McKee, Mac & Bonnie McKee, and Souriya & the late Sabri Denha.
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THE DIOCESE OF ST. THOMAS THE APOSTLE IN THE UNITED STATES ST. THOMAS CHALDEAN CATHOLIC DIOCESE 25603 Berg Road, Southfield, MI 48033, 248-351-0440 Mar (Bishop) Ibrahim N. Ibrahim www.chaldeandiocese.org MOTHER OF GOD CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH 25585 Berg Road, Southfield, MI 48034; 248-356-0565 RECTOR: Rev. Manuel Boji PAROCHIAL VICAR: Rev. Wisam Matti MASS SCHEDULE: Monday, Wednesday, Thursday and Friday 10 a.m. in Sourath (Aramaic) and Arabic, Tuesday 5:50 p.m. in Sourath and Arabic, Saturday 5:30 p.m. in English, Sunday 8:30 a.m. in Arabic and Sourath, 10 a.m. in English, 12 p.m. in Sourath SACRED HEART CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH 310 W. Seven Mile Road, Detroit, MI 48203, 313-368-6214 PASTOR: Rev. Jacob Yasso MASS SCHEDULE: Monday - Saturday 5 p.m. in Sourath, Sunday 8:30 a.m. in Arabic and Sourath, 10 a.m. in English, 12 p.m. in Sourath MAR ADDAI CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH 24010 Coolidge Hwy, Oak Park, MI 48237, 248-547-4648 PASTOR: Rev. Stephen Kallabat PAROCHIAL VICAR: Rev. Shlaman Denha MASS SCHEDULE: Monday - Friday 10 a.m in Sourath, Sunday 10 a.m. in Sourath and Arabic, 12:30 p.m. in Sourath ST. GEORGE CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH 45700 Dequindre Road, Shelby Township, MI; (586) 254-7221 MASS SCHEDULE: Sunday: 10 a.m. in Sourath, 12 p.m. in English and Sourath, 2 p.m. in Sourath and Arabic; Baptisms: 3:30 p.m. Sundays ST. JOSEPH CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH 2442 E. Big Beaver Rd., Troy, MI 48083, 248-528-3676 PASTOR: Rev. Emanuel Shaleta PAROCHIAL VICAR: Rev. Jirjis Abrahim, Rev. Andrew Younan MASS SCHEDULE: Monday - Friday 10 a.m in Sourath, Saturday 5 p.m. in Soureth, Sunday 8 a.m. in Soureth,10 a.m. in English, 12 p.m. Soureth, 2 p.m. in Soureth and Arabic ST. THOMAS CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH 6900 Maple Road, West Bloomfield, MI 48322, 248-788-2460 PASTOR: Rev. Frank Kalabat Rev. Emanuel Rayes (retired) MASS SCHEDULE: Monday-Friday 10 a.m. in Sourath, Saturday 5 p.m. in English, Sunday 9 a.m. in English, 10:30 a.m. in English, 12:30 p.m. in Sourath ST. TOMA SYRIAC CATHOLIC CHURCH 2560 Drake Rd., Farmington Hills, MI 48335, 248-478-0835 PASTOR: Rev. Toma Behnama MASS SCHEDULE: Sunday 12 p.m., Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday 6 p.m. All masses are in Syriac, Arabic and English
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Food allergies: Was it something you ate? ticular food is mediated by the immune sysood allergies have recently become a tem. The immune system notices something topic of much heated debate. Likely foreign regarding the food and mistakes it as this is due to an increasing prevalence harmful. Within minutes of ingestion and of food allergy of unclear etiology. Many sometimes up to two hours there is a reaction. people claim to have had an allergic reaction The types of reactions are varied and can to a food, but whether this is a food intoleraffect a number of organ systems. The skin is ance or a true food allergy relies on an the most common site for a food allergy reacassessment by a physician. There are many DARLENE tion. There may be hives, which are raised myths regarding food allergy and I hope to KASSAB, M.D areas of skin that are itchy. Children with dispel those myths in this article. Food allergy affects 12 million Americans COLUMNIST food allergies may also have eczema, an itchy, bumpy red rash that can occur on the face, and affects more children than adults. In the creases of the elbows and behind the knees. general population, when you ask people if The next organ system involved is the respiratory systhey have ever had an allergic reaction to a food, they tem. This involves swelling of the tongue, tingling of tend to overestimate these reactions. For example, the throat, wheezing or a runny nose. Food allergies lactose intolerance is not a food allergy but a food can affect the gastrointestinal system and manifest as intolerance. Food intolerance also includes food poiabdominal pain, vomiting or diarrhea. soning from bacteria and a condition called Celiac The most feared complication of an allergic reacSprue, which causes a severe intolerance to wheat, tion is anaphylaxis. This is an emergency that causes oats and barley. (It is more common in the Caucasian a drop in blood pressure and immediate collapse. population and very rare in Middle Eastern people.) This is very rare, causing 200 deaths per year in the The foods that account for most food allergies are milk, United States. However, due to its severity it is receggs, peanuts, fish, soybeans, wheat and tree nuts. By ommend that patients with a potential of having this the age of 5, children will usually outgrow their sensitivity type of reaction carry an EpiPen with them at all times. to milk, eggs, soybeans and wheat. However, allergies to An EpiPen is adrenaline and an immediate injection peanuts, tree nuts and shellfish persist into adulthood. will increase blood pressure and prevent death. Why do these reactions occur? A reaction to a par-
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How are food allergies diagnosed? Food allergies are much more common in patients who have asthma, seasonal allergies and eczema. All of these conditions tend to run in families. If you suspect that you have a food allergy, it is important to write down what you ate and the symptom that occurred. Keep a diary of your reactions and then present this food diary to an allergist. The doctor may then decide to do a skin or blood test (RAST testing) to determine if you had a true reaction to the particular food. These tests can be flawed; therefore the whole clinical picture is taken into account. How are food allergies treated? If there is a suspicion for an allergy the treatment is strict avoidance of the culprit. This is very difficult to do, especially for parents who also have non-allergic children. It is important to read all labels if you have a food-allergic child. When children go to school, they should have an individualized allergy action plan so the schools know how to respond if there is a reaction. This plan can be provided by an allergist. An important point to remember is in children with peanut allergies, even the smell of peanuts can cause an allergic reaction. I strongly recommend that parents with children who have food allergies and adults with allergies refer to the Food Allergy and Anaphylaxis Network (www.foodallergy.org). This is an excellent source of information. While there is not currently a cure for food allergy, research is being conducted that may result in a medication that makes food allergy reactions less severe. For parents with children with food allergies, it looks promising!
Darlene Kassab, M.D., is a fourth-year Internal Medicine and Pediatrics resident at the University of Michigan with plans to do an Allergy and Immunology Fellowship at the University of Michigan next July. If you have any further questions on food allergies she can be reached at dkassab@umich.edu.
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trustee. He served a stint as the township’s f elected in November, Mark Abbo will be appointed treasurer in 1999, and was elected not only the highest-ranking Chaldean township supervisor the following year. Abbo was American to hold office in Michigan, he’ll re-elected in 2004. Northville Township’s elected also be the first in the state House of positions are part-time. Representatives. “I have a history of being able to work with colAbbo, a Northville Township supervisor, bested leagues and reach a consensus,” Abbo said. “I four opponents on August 8 to win the Republican understand business and the role of government.” Primary Election for State House District 20. He Abbo describes himself as a pro-life, fiscal congarnered 4,183 votes, topping the combined 3,906 servative Republican with a pro-business votes for his opponents. approach. Repeating the oft-quoted phrase “a ris“I’m pleased that the voters showed confidence in me,” Abbo said. Abbo’s campaign manager, Matt Frendewey, said three of the hopefuls — Don Schnettler, T. Cortez Spann, Jr., and Jason Vorva — filed official exemptions declaring that they would raise less than $1,000 for their campaigns. Abbo’s strongest opponent was Beth A. Stewart, wife of the district’s term-limited state Rep. John C. Stewart (R-Plymouth). Stewart’s name recognition advantage influenced the Abbo camp’s strategy. “We treated the campaign as if we were running against an incumbent,” Abbo said. Abbo amassed a campaign war chest far greater than Stewart’s. According to Frendewey, Abbo raised approximately $75,000; Stewart raised less than a third of that. Abbo faces Democrat Marc R. Corriveau in Mark Abbo (right) monitors the vote returns with supporters Abe the November 7 General Election. While Munfakh (back) and Don Knapp. Abbo is reluctant to refer to a November win as ing tide floats all boats” and characterizing the a foregone conclusion, the primary’s numbers bolSingle Business Tax as suppressive, one of his legster his prospects. He alone collected 30 more islative priorities will be to lower taxes. (The state votes than the total number of Democrat votes Legislature recently repealed the wildly unpopular cast for the three hopefuls who ran for their party’s Single Business Tax. It will expire December 31, nomination. Moreover, District 20 leans heavily 2007, two years ahead of schedule.) Republican and hasn’t elected a Democrat to the “The biggest restructuring of tax policy in the state House in decades. The western Wayne state of Michigan will happen in the next two County district includes Northville Township and years, and I’m going to be part of that,” Abbo said. the southern chunk of Northville, Plymouth and “That’s where I sense the legislature is going right Plymouth Township, Wayne and the slice of now. If we want Michigan to move forward, that Canton Township east of I-275. has to happen. The tax structure will be evolving Abbo, 53, has been a local political player since to bring jobs back to Michigan.” 1992, when he was elected Northville Township 26 CHALDEAN NEWS
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COMMUNITY SUPPORT Michigan’s Chaldean community has rallied around Abbo. He said the Chaldean American Chamber of Commerce has been supportive via campaign contributions via their political action committee and advice, and he thinks the reason reaches beyond basic ethnic identity. “I believe that the Chaldean community’s interests are very much in line with the interests of the Republican Party,” Abbo said. Because so many Chaldeans own small businesses, lowering taxes and streamlining businessregulating bureaucracy to boost Michigan’s economy will aid the Chaldean community, according to Abbo. “We need to remove bureaucratic and other barriers to help make [small business] more successful,” he said. As one example, Abbo cited the length of time it takes the state to approve liquor license transfers and suggested the process could be hastened. He doesn’t see any reason why a transfer should take as long as nine months. “[Chaldeans] contribute immensely to the economy of Southeast Michigan,” Abbo said. “They have a very large presence. Anything that’s done to help the Chaldean community helps the state of Michigan as well.” Abbo would like to change the state’s education system so more money is spent in the classroom and less on administration. He said 57 cents of every dollar is spent in the classroom, and if that figure was raised by one penny, it would raise an additional $100 million. Abbo believes that an improved public school system will go a long way in attracting new business to Michigan. “The State of Michigan has probably one of the worst-educated work forces in the country,” Abbo said. “Companies do their homework when they’re thinking about relocating. There’s no doubt about it.” Abbo is vice president of STM Power, a renewable energy company that’s building an engine to convert waste heat from landfills and treatment plants into electricity. He’s held the position for four years and before that was treasurer of an auto parts supplier. He is also a certified public accountant. A lifelong Michigan resident, Abbo has lived in Northville Township since 1990. He and wife Patty have three adult daughters — Kristen, Katie and Erica. Abbo’s leisure pursuits including riding his Harley Davidson and bicycling, reading and traveling.
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s young girls learn to empower their voices, what they have to say may be hard for some parents to hear. One Monday night last month during the Chaldean American Ladies of Charity (CALC) Empowered Voices program for teenage girls, guest speaker Judge Diane D’Agostini of the 48th District Court engaged 10 teens in a conversation about real issues in the life of junior high and high school students. The girls were sitting inside the media center at Orchard Lake Middle School in West Bloomfield, some with their hair pulled back, most wearing their shorts and tank tops as they tried to stay cool on a 98-degree day. Some girls sat quietly and listened to the litany of cases passing through D’Agostini’s courtroom — teenagers arrested for drugs and drinking. Others, however, were more outspoken. “We know about MIP parties,” said one teenage girl. “We know not to get caught at them.” MIP stands for minor in possession — translated as underage drinking. Penalties range from fines, costs, alcohol treatment and education to being forbidden to taking a spring break trip while on probation. The parties can be small with three friends or large with dozens of minors. “Everyone who is drinking underage would be charged with an MIP and the teen who lives there would be charged with Open House Party [90 days jail /probation or fines] for hosting the party,” explained D’Agostini. While D’Agostini laid down the law, the girls sat with open eyes and attentive ears. “Do you know that in Birmingham if you are caught 28 CHALDEAN NEWS
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at a MIP party even if you were not drinking, you can get arrested?” she asked. D’Agostini told a story of a group of kids who were drinking at a friend’s house, then decided to go out and eat at the nearby Coney Island. Too drunk to be behind a wheel, the driver of one car crashed. A caravan of teens following all stopped to
witness the accident. Lying inside the nowsmashed vehicle was a young girl dying. Instead of calling for help or trying to save the girl’s life, all the kids fled the scene to concoct a story for the police. It was among a half dozen court cases D’Agostini recited for the young girls — some of which involved Chaldean teens. A DIFFERENT WORLD It’s a different world today than when D’Agostini was a teen. “There seems to be less respect for parents and elders in society today,” she said to the girls. “In my day, we would never think of talking to our parents the way some kids today speak to their parents.” And as a teenager, D’Agostini surely did not face the same pressures of sex and drugs as young kids today, including Chaldean youths. When a parent sends a child off to school it is understood that they will learn the usual subjects — math, science, English, history, and, in some schools, sex education. But what parents might not know is that their kids are learning more about sex after school, in parking lots, hallways and at parties than they are in the classroom. In fact, they are hearing real-life stories from other teenagers. The reality is that it is impossible for parents to protect their children 24 hours a day. The CALC program is just another way to help guide young Chaldean girls in the right direction and away from the dangers of teenage sex, drugs and drinking. Mothers are an important part of this program and are provided with valuable tools to help protect their teenage girls from these harms. “There are a lot of girls in the seventh and eighth grade having sex,”
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barded with a litany of what has become normal in America’s society. “Some issues are peer pressure [to do drugs, sexual activity, hide things from parents] and pressure to do well in school and sports, stemming from family and friends and teachers,” said Linda Naoum, the program’s director, as she sat around a table with some young girls. “Young teens also struggle with self-esteem and body issues [eating disorders] and double
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leaving the nest More students are going away to college BY JENNIFER KORAIL
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hen Channelle Kizy graduated tives were initially concerned with the details from the University of Michigan of his studies abroad. However, they fully backed him in his decision. “We knew Ann Arbor in 2003, she was Emmanuel wanted to study abroad about a already well into planning her graduate year in advance and supported him completestudies. The eldest of three children, Kizy ly,” said his mother, Mariam Rayes. “I was belongs to a growing group of Chaldean stuexcited for him because I knew it would be a dents who attend college away from home. great experience, especially for his field.” Not only did Kizy travel to U of M for her undergrad degree and spend the majority of BRIGHT LIGHTS, BIG CITY four years away from her family, she also decided to attend graduate school out of Jenelle Faranso is packing her bags and state, earning her law degree at Loyola heading to New York this fall to study musiUniversity Chicago. What might once have cal theater at the American Musical and been considered taboo among many Dramatic Academy in Manhattan. “It is Chaldean families, studying away from such a great opportunity to explore my love home is slowly becoming a more acceptable for the theater,” said Faranso. “I can auditrend. tion for shows in the heart of theater. I love “My family has been so supportive,” said Broadway and to think I could possibly be Kizy. “They have always influenced me to do part of a Broadway show is so exciting.” Channelle Kizy celebrates her graduation with her parents, the best that I could academically. I chose to Leeanne and Khales. The 22-year-old trained vocalist is often go to Loyola because it was the school that hired as a singer at weddings and other occafew areas of the hotel and tourism business. best fit my needs and offered the programs I was sions within and outside the Chladean commuThese types of unique experiences can give interested in. I understood that it was tough to nity. Faranso said she always knew that she students knowledge and familiarity that they can get into law school, and Loyola was the best would end up in New York. “It is common today leverage to their advantage in the choice for me. I felt that my parents would for Chaldean kids to go away to future in everything from a job always support me as long as I made my decisions college. I love our community “I really believe interview to meeting new people. for the right reasons.” and I love being part of it but that college A student’s network can grow how could I pass up an opportutremendously just by being able to GOING ABROAD nity like this? Everyone should students can relate their experiences to others pursue their dreams. My family Emmanuel Rayes and his family share a similar have the best in their field. And, when you are is very supportive of what I do.” mindset. Rayes earned a bachelor’s degree from on your own, there is no one to do Faranso will head to the Big the School of Hospitality Business at Michigan experience everything for you and no one to Apple in October where she will State University in 2006 and studied in both remind you to go to class or mainbe live in a dormitory, away India and Dubai. “My parents were in complete when they are tain your grades. You have to from home for the first time in support of my going abroad,” he said. on their own.” learn to take care of things for life. Her father will accompany While abroad, Rayes was able to see firsthand yourself. Those who go away not her to help her get settled. things that most students only study about in — EMMANUEL RAYES only learn in their classes, they books or on the Internet. Visiting the Taj Mahal also learn to manage money and MISSING HOME and meeting royalty are events that can never be pay their own bills. Jordan Rassam earned an incredible opportunity to duplicated on paper or television, and Rayes Going away to school out of state is one thing, attend St. Joseph’s College in Indiana on a football lived those experiences in person. But Rayes did but traveling around the world might be a shock to scholarship, where he studied business managenot only sightsee; he studied international real many Chaldean parents. Rayes’ parents and relaestate, development and management to name a ment for four years. His college experience gave 30 CHALDEAN NEWS
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college costs Planning for your kid’s college? Start now! him many lifelong memories, but also taught him lifelong lessons. “Going away to school definitely helped me grow up and become a man,” Rassam said. “You realize that you are on your own and you have more responsibilities than you did while at home. It was tough at first because you miss your family and friends, but in the end it makes you appreciate them much more.” Kizy shared similar feelings. “I had a hard time being away from home at first ... I missed the language and I missed my family,” she said. “But in a way, it also helped my family and I grow closer.” Making the decision to attend college away is a big step for any young individual. Chaldeans are no exception, especially because we are raised to have close ties with our immediate and extended families. And while the decision is not the right fit for every student, Kizy, Rayes and Rassam agree that their experiences have been positive. “Being on your own opens your eyes to new opportunities,” said Kizy. “You become independent and won’t be afraid to try and learn new things. The real world skills I learned on my own have been so valuable to me.” While many students share Kizy’s feelings, the mentality that young Chaldeans should stick close to home has not diminished. Many students still hesitate to travel away; some attribute this to traditional culture, while for others it is simply a fear of the unknown. Trust becomes a major factor in the relationship between the student and family. Rassam stressed that the way his parents raised him played a role in his experience at St. Joseph. “Going to college away from home was a great experience, but there is a lot of freedom and some people don’t handle the culture shock as well as others,” Rassam said. “How you are raised helps you big time, especially when it comes to making decisions.” Kizy agreed. “There’s no reason for your lifestyle to change because you are away from home,” she said. “My parents always knew what was going on in my life, not because they demanded it, but because I wanted them to be close to me even though I was away. I felt I owed that kind of respect to my family.” Rayes is grateful for his time overseas. “I really believe that college students can have the best experience when they are on their own,” Rayes said. “You have the opportunity to have a well-rounded experience and create a diverse network that will be with you throughout your lifetime.”
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t’s no surprise that a college education isn’t cheap. In fact, paying for college can cripple some families’ budgets. “If a family has a child today and he goes to the University of Michigan or Michigan State, it’ll cost about $18,000 a year,” said Renee Denha, a certified financial planner with Cranbrook Financial LLC in Troy. “That’s for room, board, tuition, books, everything.” Denha explained that factoring the education inflation rate of 6 percent, which is higher than the regular inflation rate of 4 percent, parents of children born this year will have a much larger burden when those kids go off to college at age 18. The cost of one year at the same two colleges will average a whopping $52,000. “That number is astounding, but what it really boils down to is setting aside $400 to $500 a month,” Denha said. The best way for parents to avoid decimating their savings and retirement accounts is to plan ahead for college costs by opening a dedicated savings account. And the earlier parents start planning for their children’s future, the better. “There are many different options out there, but the most popular today is the 529 Plan,” Denha said. “It has the most benefits and can be personalized and tailored to each family’s needs. You put the money in after tax and it grows taxfree. As long as it’s used for education, it remains tax-free.” Started by the federal government in 2002, “qualified tuition plan” is the legal definition of the 529 Plan. They are sponsored by states, state agen-
cies, or educational institutions and get their popular name from Section 529 of the Internal Revenue Code, which allows for them. Each state has its own limit under the 529 Plan. In Michigan, the maximum account balance per beneficiary — the prospective college student — is $250,000. Several states allow up to $300,000. Money put into the plan is distributed among mutu-
al funds. The beauty of the 529 Plan is its flexibility, and the plan’s benefactor need not be the child’s parents. Estate planning law allows up to $12,000 a year to be gifted without tax penalties, per beneficiary. So one of Denha’s clients, a widow of substantial worth, gifted $12,000 to each of her 10 grandchildren for five consecutive years from her estate — all tax free under the 529 Plan. Another highlight of the plan’s flexibility is that money is transferable. “Money within the 529 Plan can be transferred among siblings and first cousins, or even parents if they want to go back to school,” Denha said. That’s a real plus if a student is awarded a scholarship, graduates early or — heaven forbid — drops out of school. “It can even be used for technical
trade school,” Denha said. “It doesn’t have to be used for traditional college.” The money can also pay for overseas study programs, too. Funds withdrawn from a 529 Plan and not used for eligible college expenses are subject to income tax and an additional 10 percent federal tax penalty on earnings. Moreover, unless current tax legislation is extended or modified, many of the 529 Plan’s tax benefits will expire after December 31, 2010. The 529 Plan is the favorite of Denha and her professional partner, financial advisor Sebastian Minaudo, but it isn’t the only available option. Michigan parents, grandparents and businesses can enroll in the Michigan Education Trust (MET), a prepaid program administered by the Michigan Department of Treasury that locks in tuition costs. The children must reside in Michigan, and the money must be used at a public university or college in Michigan, including the 28 public community colleges. Some employers offer MET payroll deduction options. One of the differences between the 529 Plan and MET is that contributions to the latter are not revocable by the donor. According to www.savingforcollege.com, MET prices for 2005-2006 range from $1,063 for a one-semester community college contract for a newborn, to $39,392 for a fouryear full benefits contract for a high school senior. To learn more about the 529 Plan, MET and other options, visit the Saving For College website at www.savingforcollege.com SEPTEMBER 2006
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a long-burning tradition Hookah smoking trend worries health officials BY MICHELLE NAJOR-LUTFY
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t first glance, it is an exotic and very ethnic-looking device. The unknowing passerby may be intimidated by its size, or perhaps by the large group of people usually gathered around it. A pleasant, fruity scent permeates the surrounding atmosphere, and the circular mist of aromatic smoke rising from it only does more to enhance the mystique and curiosity the object itself arouses. This is the hookah, and it is a sign of the times among today’s Chaldean teens and young adults. This generation of multi-wired, cell phonestrapped laptop lifters has found a new way to tame their tech-crazed lives: They gather at local hookah bars and smoke themselves into a peaceful calm. Both in ancient times and today, the reasons for smoking the hookah remain constant: to unwind, chat with pals, de-stress and slow down. For 18-yearold Anthony Zeer of West Bloomfield, the practice seems to have come full circle. Like his ancestors
before him, Zeer said the time spent at the hookah bar is important to him, a part of his life that he treasures. He can eat, meet people and converse with his friends, all while smoking away the day’s stress. A friend sitting alongside him adds that while they are aware of the dangers of nicotine, the hookah is a safer alternative to cigarettes because this method eliminates the tar. “We don’t do drugs or drink like other kids. This gives you a feeling of relaxation, but does not get you buzzed,” Zeer insisted. This smoking tradition is believed to have originated in 16th-century India, where a rather primitive form of the device was rigged from coconut shells and bamboo. As it traversed its way around the Middle East, it was modified until completing its revolution in Turkey. It is the Turkish design of the hookah
that has remained unchanged for 500 years. Based on country of origin, the hookah is known by many names, including narghile, waterpipe, hubblebubble or sheesha, and is said to have more than a billion users the world over.
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UP IN SMOKE? But is it really safer than cigarettes? “Individuals believe that the water in the pipe purifies the nicotine, but it is not true,” said Abdelwahab Naser, prevention team leader for the Arab Community Center for Economic and Social Services (ACCESS). Although disposable nozzles are now used, sharing the hookah is quite common, and there are currently no health department regulations for a uniform sterilization process. Furthermore, Naser points to Egyptian research that has noted a rise in the number of tuberculosis cases. Studies surveyed by ACCESS have found links associating young people who smoke the hookah with illnesses such as diabetes, lung deconstruction and asthma. Additionally, public health consultant Dianne May said the Michigan Department of Community Health is significantly concerned with prolonged exposure to second-hand smoke associated with hookah establishments. Ann Antone, drug prevention director of the Arab-American and Chaldean Council (ACC), notes that sources conducting exhaustive research on the hookah have drawn some startling conclusions. Research findings indicate that carbon monoxide concentrations found in the blood of these smokers has been at levels four times greater than that of cigarette smokers, not to mention the additionally inhaled carcinogens from the charcoal disks used to light the hookah. As to the absence of tar, the theory is debunked HOOKAH continued 35
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by medical research that claims the concentration of cancer-causing substances in tobacco blends used in a hookah can actually be higher than those found in cigarettes. Additionally, Antone cited research indicating that 100 puffs on the hookah is equivalent to inhaling the nicotine content of an entire pack of cigarettes. Hookah smoking may become a gateway to using more convenient nicotine products, a logical progression once these young people cannot find the necessary leisure time for the hookah. So far, these health implications don’t seem to be of major concern to patrons at the numerous hookah bars springing up all over Michigan, as well as in many college towns across America. Ann Arbor, Lansing, Dearborn, Royal Oak and Novi are just a few nearby cities that play host to hookah bars. CATCHING THE WAVE The atmosphere on a recent Saturday night at the Double Apple Café in West Bloomfield was lively, inviting and full of young Chaldeans grouped together in friendship circles, sharing the hookah and engaging in relaxed conversation. Owner Mark Hajjar recently opened the business hoping to catch the wave of the hookah trend. Although he offers a full line of non-alcoholic beverages as well as his
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Dr. Anahid Kulwicki, director of public health for Wayne County, is focusing on education and awareness as the first step toward prevention. She and her staff have been following the hookah trend since the early 1990s. The West Bloomfield Community Coalition is also concerned. “We are winning the battle against tobacco addiction. Now, a new trend threatens to change the progress we’ve made,” said the group in a statement. Hookah smoking may, in fact, have medical
One hundred puffs on the hookah is equivalent to inhaling the nicotine content of an entire pack of cigarettes. At the Double Apple, Hajjar always checks for proper age identification. As long as users are at least 18, there is nothing law enforcement can do without state-mandated directives. There are currently no regulations in place to monitor usage and activity at these establishments. Brandon and Brooke Delly and Yasir Kaskorkis, each 26 and from West Bloomfield, see hookah smoking a little differently from their younger counterparts. Brooke and Yasir say they would prefer to be on the road with a hookah smoker, rather than with kids who have been partying at a nightclub. They strongly agree that the hookah is often used by those who are much too young. Brandon believes parental permission should be a requirement at all hookah bars.
repercussions that have not yet reached a level alarming enough for young Chaldeans to heed any of the warning signals. Perhaps that is why Zeer and his friends continue to see this centuries-old tradition as a way to bring together culture, community and camaraderie in one place. Smoking the hookah may forge a link to the past while bringing calm and quiet to the frenzied demands of today. Perhaps a risky remedy, or just a sign of the times?
LEARN MORE A “mini-conference” called The Hookah, The New Trend in Tobacco, will be held on October 31 at the Costick Center in Farmington Hills. The event is free of charge and all are welcome. Call (248) 559-1990 for information. SEPTEMBER 2006
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THE OLD DOUBLE STANDARD Notions like the tanatha are not so easily accepted by the younger generation. Some women agreed that it is too often they who are looking for a serious relationship, not the men. Some men have a fear of commitment. Is it true, they wondered, that men are from Mars and women are from Venus? “One of our missions is to change the stereotypes of men and women because we know there is a double standard,” said Jiddou. For example, society sees men who have had BY CRYSTAL KASSAB JABIRO countless sexual encounters as being “experienced,” whereas women are looked at as being “loose.” s the Chaldean community grows, so do This is commonly seen in its needs to change people’s perceptions the Chaldean community as of each other. Right now, the church is well, where sex is still a encouraging young adults to engage in open taboo subject and girls are forums on a wide variety of topics pertinent to the taught to be chaste while community, such as dating and marriage, through boys are not — although the “Let’s Talk About ____” series. the Catechism calls for men The workshops, open to those 18 and older, and women alike to remain consist of a 15-minute lecture by a keynote speakvirgins until marriage. er followed by a short activity and open discussion. “My dad taught me to be Mother of God (MOG) hosted the first workchaste until I got married,” shop on June 27. Social worker Janan Senawi preAngie Abdul (left), Rend Dallo, Rana Jiddou and Rafat Dallo listen to the discussion. said Jiddou, “because somesented a short lecture on “Finding Mr. or Mrs. where out there is a woman where they can speak to each other and go out more Right.” She discussed the qualities a person who is waiting for me.” frequently. If they want to pursue the relationship should look for in a potential mate. The audience Bassam Kasmikha, 41, believes one issue young further, marriage is the next phase. With courting, of about 30, mostly 18- to 23-year-olds, shared adults should tackle is the inappropriate dress and physical intimacy becomes the last step. their feelings on dating, marriage and family. flaunting of women’s bodies, something that is far This sparked a curious and emotional debate. too common in the general society. He believes Comments ranged from materialism to inappropriDATING VS. COURTING that a woman who uses her body for attention will ate dress to virginity, all of which eventually pointThat first event was so successful that Remon not attract the right guy, for a woman who reveals ed to the explanation of dating vs. courting. To Jiddou, chairperson of the Christian Education less creates admiration and is actually sexier. many, the tanatha seemed to come too quickly. committee at MOG, helped plan another one. “You want the person to fall in love with the In Iraq, the tanatha was originally permission to Jiddou, a 27-year-old industrial designer, facilitatheart, not the body,” said Kasmikha. court. There was no pressure on the couple to get ed the workshop on July 12 entitled “Dating Vs. Some men even claimed that looking at women married. Their intentions were sincere, and if they Courting.” Jiddou explained the differences. who are scantily clad makes them sin because they liked each other, they would pursue the relationDating involves physical attraction. One sees lust. In a society where there is hardly any censorship to where it would eventually lead to marriage. another based on his or her looks, does the research ship, it really is hard “not to look,” they said. In America, the tanatha happens as a precursor to on that person, and the two of them confirm a mutuThe Catholic perspective is embedded in topics the engagement when the couple is ready to get al attraction. The couple publicly goes out on dates. such as this at the open forums. Jiddou referred to married, even after years of dating or courting. If they like each other, they engage in intense emothe Bible and the Catechism of the Catholic Here, a tanatha is perceived as a commitment. tional intimacy and then physical intimacy. And Church as good sources of information on marZiad Orow, 31, of Farmington Hills, thought it the relationship just stays there. Marriage is not riage and chastity. was important to share his interest in a woman he really a thought, although it could be possible. These workshops are more social than they are met with his family. “When I reached the level of The intent of courting, on the other hand, is marreligious, which creates an atmosphere where peoconfidence that this girl had the qualities I was riage. Courting involves finding out if two people are ple can not only voice their opinions, but also looking for, I told them,” he said. potential marriage partners. They initiate a relationmake friends. Anyone who is 18 and older is The two families met for chai and small talk. ship after learning that they share the same morals encouraged to attend. Future workshops will be on They did not discuss any wedding plans at all. and values. The emotional intimacy begins right the third Tuesday of each month. They simply received permission to court. After a away as the couple slowly gets to know each other. few months, Orow got engaged. He explained that Then there is a tanatha, where the couple asks for perSign up for online reminders at by courting, he found what he was looking for. mission from their parents for an “open” relationship http://groups.yahoo.com/group/MOGParish.
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very week for several months during the winter, Nahla Abbo took two of her three children to the Beverly Hills Club (BHC) for swim lessons from a highly recommended swim coach, not realizing she was putting her kids in dangerous waters. But she recently learned that Don Salata, the 42-year-old former swim director at BHC, is a convicted sex offender who served time in prison. “When he first left the club, I was so upset and shocked to learn he no longer worked there and BHC never explained why,” said Abbo. “A mutual friend who also taught swim contacted Don Salata for us and asked if he would teach us privately. Don called me the next day explaining he had health issues but is ‘OK now.’” Salata agreed to teach private lessons at a residence or beach, but not at a public place. Priced at $120 an hour, Abbo decided to postpone the lessons until she could find a friend to share in the lesson. “It was God’s divine intervention,” said Abbo. “I finally learned the truth — Don Salata is a convicted child sex offender. The club never told anyone.” Salata was employed at BHC for nine years and terminated in February. “This past February the Beverly Hills Police contacted us and informed us he had a past criminal conviction,” said Shawn Sage, director of operations for BHC. “We took it upon ourselves for the safety and well being of our members to terminate his employment at the club.” Using a private firm, Sage said BHC had done a background check on Salata before he was hired; he has previously worked at several different swim clubs in the area and never had a complaint. In addition, he wasn’t on Michigan’s sex offender registry list. After the Beverly Hills Police investigation, the state placed Salata on its sex offender website. Outraged by the news, Abbo immediately sent out e-mails to everyone in her address book. She knew that she was not alone. Over the years, dozens of Chaldean parents have dropped their kids off for swim lessons with Salata. BETRAYAL OF TRUST “I was in total shock and disbelief when I found out,”
said Wafa Farrington, whose two boys, ages 12 and 9, took swimming lessons with Salata. “I couldn’t believe that someone who I knew and trusted with my children could have done anything like that.” Abbo, who was referred to Salata by Farrington, broke the news to her. Upon learning the truth, Farrington, with her husband Bill, talked to their 9-year-old and told him they had learned his swim coach was doing some inappropriate things to kids. They wanted to know if Salata had assaulted their child. “He then said that he didn’t like how he always carried him and touched his butt,” Wafa Farrington said. But after further discussions they didn’t believe their son was harmed. “We told him that we would always do whatever we could to keep him safe from people like that but that it was very important that he tell us if anything happened,” said Farrington. “We continued to reassure him that people like that are sick and that when they do things to kids that it is never the child’s fault. It’s the adult who is at fault. We asked him to let us know if anything like that ever happens and we promised to always help him, but that we couldn’t if we don’t know about it.” After talking to their youngest son, the Farringtons allowed their 12-year-old to review news reports about Salata’s conviction. They then
CHILDREN AND TEENS ARE VICTIMS orty-four percent of rape victims were younger than 18 years old, according to the 1997 Justice Department’s Bureau of Justice Statistics (BJS) Report of data from police-recorded incidents of rape in three states. Two-thirds of stateincarcerated violent sex offenders said their victims were younger than 18. An estimated 15 percent of imprisoned rapists said their victims were 12 years old or younger. An estimated 45 percent of those sentenced to prison for other sexual assaults (statutory rape, forcible sodomy and molestation) said their victims were 12 years old or younger. • Most imprisoned sex offenders knew their victims. Among rapists, about 30 percent said their victims had been strangers. Of those convicted of other
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discussed their situation with him as they had with his younger brother. Salata taught Farrington’s boys every summer for five years. Now, she is angry. “I was most upset about the fact that this was a person that I trusted with my kids and that I had put my kids in the hands of a convicted child sex offender,” she said. “I was also very upset that the club had not done a background check on him.” (BHC officials say they did indeed do a background check on Salata but he was not listed on the state sex offender’s list.) Salata was convicted in Missouri of two separate offenses — an act of sexual misconduct and an act of promoting sexual misconduct with a young boy. Once the accusation was made and local police did a background search, they learned he served two and a half years of a five-year sentence. Salata moved to Michigan and violated the law by not registering here as a child sex offender and also by seeking a job involving children. “My heart is broken,” said Abbo. “As it took several hours to sink in, I remembered two things. Once he made a comment to [daughter] Justine about her looking cute in her bathing suit. I remember it just bugging me ... why would a grown man who sees kids all day in bathing suits give a damn? Later that night I asked Justine if she was comfortable with him. I asked her if he has ever said or done anything inappropriate; she emphatically said ‘no.’” Abbo recalls another occasion she found strange. “I wondered why he spent so much time just holding [son] Cal and talking to him in the water. Never suspecting anything though, I asked Cal, ‘What the heck does he say to you all that time?’ Cal said, ‘I dunno, just stuff!’ I remember thinking how wonderful he was to have that kind of patience, by ‘talking’ Cal out of his fear of water. Don used to repeatedly tell me the kids will progress better if I do not stay for the lesson, but I usually did stay, as I was not a member of the club and had nothing else to do. [Daughter] Renna had two lessons with him and flat-out refused after that.” The Chaldean News was unsuccessful in attempts to contact Salata. PREDATOR continued on page 39 sexual assaults, less than 15 percent said the victims were people with whom they had no prior relationship. • Of the rapes and sexual assaults reported by victims in a Justice Department survey, 60 percent took place in the victim’s home or at the home of a friend, relative or neighbor. According to the BJS, “on any given day in 1994 almost 60 percent of the 234,000 convicted sex offenders under the care, custody or control of corrections officials in the United States were on parole or probation.” Offenders who served time for sexual assault were 7.5 times as likely as those convicted of other crimes to be rearrested for a new sexual assault. Approximately 8 percent of 2,214 rapists released from prisons in 11 states in 1983 were rearrested for a new rape within three years, compared to approximately 1 percent of released prisoners who served time for robbery or assault. SEPTEMBER 2006
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Hoop Dreams: Miranda Katty does her thing
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iranda Katty has come a long way since she spent the first two months of her life in the neonatal intensive care unit at Oakwood Hospital & Medical Center in Dearborn. After weighing two pounds, four ounces at birth and then being a shy child, Katty is now an outgoing 5-foot-2, 105-pound teenager who is quickly working her way up the ladder in the sport she loves. Katty, 15, is a rhythmic gymnast who competes for the Bloomfield Hills-based Oakland Rhythmics team. Coach Charlene Negron has promoted Katty from Level 7 to Level 8 for the upcoming season. Katty hopes to move up to Level 9 the following year, which would make her eligible to compete for a spot in the USA Gymnastics national championships. In her most recent competition, Katty finished ninth in Level 7 at the Junior Olympics in June in Seattle. She qualified for the Junior Olympics by finishing second in Level 7 at the East Regional in May in Chicago. “Miranda has 38 CHALDEAN NEWS
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a wonderful work ethic, and she isn’t afraid to ask questions,” said Negron, who has been coaching the West Bloomfield girl for nearly 10 years. Negron said hand-eye coordination is crucial to a rhythmic gymnast’s success, and Katty is blessed with that natural ability. “Let’s say I’m teaching a skill where a girl has to throw a ball in the air, do a forward roll, then catch the ball with one hand,” Negron said. “Miranda would probably be successful in less than five attempts. Many others would probably need to try it 20, 30, 40 or 50 times before doing it properly.” Rhythmic gymnastics has been an Olympic sport since the 1984 Summer Games in Los Angeles. Competitors perform individually, or in groups of two or more. They work with five apparatus: ball, clubs, hoop, ribbon and rope. Their routine also includes elements of ballet, gymnastics and theatrical dance. Judges award points based on a competitor’s apparatus handling, artistic effect, balance, flexibility, leaps and pivots. “Ballet training is so important because you
have to point your toes, keep your knees straight, and be graceful with your arms,” Katty said. Oakland Rhythmics gymnasts practice yearround, several days a week, at Andover High School and West Hills Middle School. Katty doesn’t mind devoting all that time to the sport. “I love rhythmic gymnastics and I enjoy being with the other girls and our coaches,” she said. Even though the sport in her passion, Katty keeps it in perspective. The Walled Lake Western High School junior is a 4.0 student and she’ll take time off from practice if she has academic or family commitments. Julia Katty, Miranda’s mother, said her family has had to make financial and other sacrifices because of Miranda’s involvement in rhythmic gymnastics. “But we’ve done it gladly because we’re very proud of Miranda and the Oakland Rhythmics team is like a second family to us,” she said. Sal and Julia Katty have four other children, all boys. They are Mason, 20, Nolan, 16, and 14-yearold twins Jeremy and Julian.
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“I am mostly angry with BHC’s decision to keep this quiet. Had they made a public statement, I would have obviously never contacted him personally and put my children at further risk,” added Abbo. Sage said that Salata’s personnel records were confidential and so he could not share news of his conviction with others. “The whole community is concerned, as we are,” said Sage. “We have received probably 30 to 35 calls from members asking what is going on.” Both Abbo and Farrington said employees at BHC gave out Salata’s cell phone number after he was fired.
“To my knowledge nothing like that happened,” said Sage. “We don’t give out personal information on current or past employees.” Abbo said she has learned a hard lesson. “I have learned not trust anybody,” she said. “Even if he is employed at the best of places, do not take it for granted. Everyone should be scrutinized. The one you least suspect is usually the one. And if you do ever have a fleeting thought, listen to it. Listen to what your instincts are telling you.”
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he 7th Annual Chaldean Ryder Cup was held in early August at Shenandoah Country Club. The beloved competition between the young and notso-young drew its usual crowd of golfers flinging good-natured insults. The older men prevailed this year, putting them up one game for a total of 4-3.
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abor Day is celebrated on the first Monday in September. It’s a day dedicated to American workers. This American holiday pays tribute to the working class and its contributions to the strength, prosperity and well-being of our country. Labor Day became an official national holiday in 1894. This holiday is usually celebrated with summer activities — swimming, camping and picnics. Labor Day is the unofficial end of summer in the northern part of the U.S. Most schools usually start sometime during the week after Labor Day. Elementary teachers use this holiday to introduce the concept of Community Helpers to small children. In an ideal society, everyone plays a role, or works a job that supports the community.
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t’s Back to School month — a busy time for parents and an exciting time for kids. Many schools start after Labor Day, giving parents more time to prepare and allowing kids to enjoy the last days of summer. There are a great deal of adjustments to be made when coming from a relaxing and easygoing summer. Back to school means many changes for children and their families. Making smooth transitions between home, programs and schools can help children feel good about them and teach them to trust other adults and children. Helping them adapt to new situations can ease parents’ minds and give them a chance to become involved in their children’s education. And remember, keeping a routine is the key to following these back to school tips. 1. EARLY TO BED Getting enough sleep for an early rising for a long day at school is very important. No exceptions and no excuses should be made for staying up late on a weeknight.
2. STAY ORGANIZED Organization is also key. It will make things easy for everyone. For example, keep notes from school separated from homework. Have a specific place in the house where notes will be placed everyday and try to keep up with reading them daily. 3. HAVE A GOOD BREAKFAST Sitting at the kitchen table for a good-size breakfast is much better than running out the door with a simple breakfast bar (or teckratha). Kids should take their time and digest a healthy breakfast at home for a long morning ahead. Some kids have to wait up to four hours before their lunch time. 4. READ! Sit every day with your child (yes, even the bigger ones) and read with them — a book, their homework, or even an ageappropriate article in a magazine or newspaper. Also, set a readalone time for them daily. And go to the library with your child. 5. TALK TO THE TEACHER Don’t wait until there is a problem or concern to talk to the teacher, keep in contact by phone, notes or e-mails, and/or even by stopping by to say hello. Teachers like to know their students’ parents and want to feel comfortable about having a good relationship with you. 6. BE INVOLVED Check homework every night, vote in school board elections, help your school to set challenging academic standards, limit your child’s TV viewing and video game playing on school nights, and become an advocate to better education in your community and state. Finally, ask your child each and every day: “How was school today?” That will send the clear message that their schoolwork is important to you. It is challenging to stay completely involved in your child’s education, especially with so many other demands in our lives. Some parents and families are able to be involved in their child’s education in many ways. Others may only have time for one or two activities. Whatever your level of involvement, do it consistently and stick with it because you will make an important difference in your child’s life. Ban Sadek Kizy is a third-grade teacher starting her 12th year of teaching for the Dearborn Public School system. She has also worked with children in the Walled Lake schools and at the Echo Park preschool in Farmington Hills. She is involved with the Parent-Teacher Association from a teacher’s standpoint and is committed to keeping parents involved in their child’s school.
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