MARTIAL DEFENSE SBN Javier Acosta

MARTIAL DEFENSE

Agression o Security... SBN Javier Acosta

Martial defense, aggression or security…

"Mom, a child hurt me!"

Possible parent responses: 1.- Return the offense, with greater cruelty! 2.- I will talk to your parents! 3.- Let me offend you at last you are not that! 4.- Wait, I'm going to ask your grandmother, your aunts and my friends! 5.- That boy is wrong, if he doesn't physically attack you don't worry! 6.- You'll see this kid, I'm going to give him one! 7.- Turn the other cheek!

From the outset, the first five can be used, it will depend on the environment in which the alleged aggressor and the alleged victim live, as well as factors such as fear, insecurities in the family, alcoholism, addictions, unresolved traumas in the parents, family violence , physical or verbal, and the mental capacity of each of those involved.

Answer number six is common, more and more adults are seen arguing with minors, in turn, minors who make them feel adults, in my time there were, but they were seen as angry beasts, now they don't see them like that, now they see them more like fathers of the country, sidewalk heroes, but you will have to analyze that, the last one is the one that for years they wanted to teach us with a failed ending, the one that only a motionless sick person would use or someone who does not have a feeling of pain, or I don't know who else, not me, no matter how hard the Master insisted on leaving that teaching, I don't see it healthy, not today, "violence is not fought with violence", says someone who understood the subject , analyzed and works day by day, violence is fought with peace, but turning the other cheek would mean repeating violence.

"You violated me once, give him another."

How? But the phrase leaves a lot to analyze, would you really say that? Or he just wanted to interpret that he didn't say anything and walked away from the violence, you have the last word.

Which one would you use? What is your environment? What is the environment of the other?

My mother used the five and I continue the tradition, that of investigating others is not my thing, turning the other cheek less, and divulging my affairs, not even thinking about it, it will be enough to play deaf, if the aggression is physical then:

Complaint before the school or police authorities, depending on the seriousness of the matter, so you create a precedent, if you do not get help or a quick response to this and if it becomes a constant, you can demand the intervention of the campus management in the suspension of that child, directly, or exposing the fact to the rest of the school society without asking for anything other than good socialization and in an always respectful way; if you go physical, start self-defense classes and solve the mess with responsibility and measure, you will see that it does not happen again (only applies to safe children or children with months of training). Do not forget to report first, do not skip that step.

It is how much.

Extract from the Ephemeral Observer all rights reserved by the author: Francisco Javier Acosta Serrano