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Mr Right
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Not a saint that we are seeing, just a decent human being
The Lover 1 Shows you physical affection without assuming it will lead to sex. 1 Accepts your right to say no to sex. 1 Shares responsibility for contraception etc.
The Friend 1 1 1 1 1
Talks to you. Listens to you. Is a companion. Has a sense of humour. Is cheerful.
The Liberator 1 Welcomes your friends and family. 1 Encourages you to have outside interests. 1 Encourages you to develop your skills at work or at college.
The Confidence Booster
The Partner 1 Does his share of the housework. 1 Shares financial responsibility. 1 Treats you as an equal.
Mr Right
The Goodfather 1 Is a responsible parent. 1 Is an equal parent. 1 Supports your dealings with the children.
The Truthteller 1 Accepts responsibility. 1 Admits to being wrong.
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Says you look good. Values your opinions. Supports your ambitions. Says you are competent. Values you.
The Negotiator 1 Takes responsibility for his own wellbeing and happiness. 1 Behaves like a reasonable human being.